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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by janalsncm on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:40PM (#50418238)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by readthenotes1 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:44PM (#50418278)
I don't know if this is Jensen himself or his advisors, but if you're going to make an apology, this is the way to do it.

There was, no deflection "this is not who I am", No blaming the spy.

He owned up to his mistakes

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by adriand on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:52PM (#50418372)
For sure he has excellent PR and comms advisors. He gets credit, I guess, for taking their advice, but none for betraying his wife and family. It speaks volumes that so much of the leadership class in American tech and business is so morally compromised.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by reverend_gonzo on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:00PM (#50418474)
For what it’s worth, I’m pretty sure many, if not most, humans in their position could be compromised in this way.

It is one person, and your enemies have all the resources at your disposal.

It is very easy to say, “I would never do X” but when you literally have a nation trying to get you do X, I presume it’s a lot harder.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Noaidi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:04PM (#50418522)
This is why I am content with being a no body.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by asadotzler on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:20PM (#50420628)
All you have to do to moot 100% of that massive adversarial effort is to decide (ahead of time) to not be a POS and keep your dick behind your zipper. Not deciding that and sticking to it makes you a garbage husband and a dangerous and unreliable CEO.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yodon on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:53PM (#50418391)
Crisis communications is a real field. Most companies and most people do it poorly, but there are specialists who are good at getting it right.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shermantanktop on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:01PM (#50418479)
Or, you know, you could be a stand up person and be genuinely contrite.

He's a big time CEO and his company is impacted by how well he handles it. So of course there are PR/crisis people around. They specialize in making psychopaths look human.

But leaders are where they are because they make good decisions - their character does matter. Calling in the image-fixer types to clean up your mistakes is easy mode.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TheOtherHobbes on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418659)
Being seduced by a foreign agent was neither a good decision, nor evidence of good character, nor proof of situational awareness.

Can we assume this was a one-off because she was uniquely persistent and persuasive?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shermantanktop on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:27PM (#50420683)
Yes, total failure on many counts. But when called to answer for it, you can respond like a flawed human or you can have a pr crisis firm present you as a bland corporate robot who says things like “if anyone was offended I apologize” or “we’re going to investigate how this happened.”

I think his answer was solid and seemed genuine. Doesn’t mean I think he’s got good judgment generally, but at least this was not a shitty thing to say.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TheOtherHobbes on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:08PM (#50418581)
Indeed.

Anyone who believes he personally agonised over this alone in a darkened room is being rather naive.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by charlieyu1 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418729)
Owning a mistake is especially hard in the East Asian culture. It’s been a long time I have seen a public figure admitting his wrongdoings.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yodon on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:22PM (#50428549)
Info on Jensen's PR firm, which it looks like he chose specifically because he knew this news was likely to come out[0].

[0]https://www.wired.com/story/nvidia-ceo-jensen-huang-hired-a-...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Yajirobe on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:58PM (#50418446)
Ethan Klein could learn a thing or two
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by benzible on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:03PM (#50418502)
As apologies go it’s skillfully done. But it’s almost entirely about his personal failings (the affair), and it leaves plenty of room for a slow-walked board investigation that will end with a report designed to look thorough while concluding nothing.

Even if he didn’t know she was an intelligence asset, it’s hard to believe he didn’t at least suspect Megaspeed was a conduit to China. If you read the press reports, there were a ton of red flags.

Nvidia has also said he’ll stay on as CEO while the investigation runs. I can’t think of many CEOs who would survive this, let alone without taking any time off.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by greenchair on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418680)
Its all calculated down to the pretend patriot lines near the end even though he's constantly looking for ways to bypass export restrictions to sell to china.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Noaidi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:45PM (#50418295)
$NVDA down 2% pre-trading.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 8note on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:52PM (#50418375)
sounds like an easy buy, if it wasnt already way expensive.

i guess we'll actually find out if he gave away useful nvidia secrets in years from now, but by then the tech might not matter all that much to Nvidia.

he was cheating on his wife before now, and Nvidia was doing just fine

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by madaxe_again on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418682)
A forward PE of 11 ain't expensive. It's the cheapest it has been in a decade.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jjtheblunt on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:52PM (#50418378)
how does that work, a movement pre-trading, since trading sets the price?

is it pre consumer level trading, with institutional trading happening on different time windows?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Noaidi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:00PM (#50418470)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tcdent on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:01PM (#50418483)
Tell me you don't know how the stock market works without telling me you don't know how the stock market works.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Noaidi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:05PM (#50418537)
I have a BA in Economics.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Noaidi on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:35AM (#50426228)
$NVDA down 5%
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by goodcake3963 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:51PM (#50418360)
With all the money he has, he fell to this
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by MiroslavPokorny on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:54PM (#50418399)
Do i really need to remind you of all the orange team ?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by b--l on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:58PM (#50419107)
you need to remind me. What is the "orange team"?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yoyohello13 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:15AM (#50421717)
Maybe everyone in the Epstein files.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Betelbuddy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:13PM (#50418654)
You should have used the Cloud principles of rent dont buy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 93po on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:29PM (#50420264)
The owner of the 49ers, a billionaire, was recently arrested for trying to have sex with someone off craigslist in a trailer park.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kridsdale1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:01AM (#50421266)
What, that’s a crime now?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by muddi900 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:40AM (#50422356)
Solicitation is indeed a crime
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:32PM (#50430576)
What is the evidence of solicitation?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 93po on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:38PM (#50432602)
It was a police sting - he offered to pay money and showed up and got arrested.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DeepLogin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:52PM (#50418371)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by intunderflow on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:01PM (#50418485)
Given the news article is paywalled can mods please replace the URL with this one ^
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vhiremath4 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:05PM (#50418544)
There is another thread dedicated to the nvidia newsroom disclosure: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50416801
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DeepLogin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418657)
That's not the same link.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vhiremath4 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:18PM (#50418702)
Welp can’t remove it now that there’s a reply. My bad you are correct.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rc1 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:13PM (#50418655)
The official Nvida article only mentions national security concerns not bluntly says, as this one does it its opening:

> admitted to having a romantic relationship with a suspected Chinese spy

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by markdown on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418726)
So it definitely should be changed. The Nvidia one is factual, while the other one is tabloid speculation.

He admitted to having a relationship with a woman.

There's a separate question of whether the woman was a spy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by creatonez on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:28PM (#50418827)
Except they admitted it, in a separate press release: https://nvidianews.nvidia.com/news/statement-from-nvidia-boa...

They fragmented the information across two separate articles to lessen how bad it sounds

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by avazhi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:34PM (#50418888)
> There's a separate question of whether the woman was a spy.

I mean, it's pretty clear it was a spy. Have a look at WSJ, NYT, etc. It isn't tabloidish to say so.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rc1 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:34PM (#50418890)
People reading the nvida article will be wondering what is suspected. Probably why this article is trending as well as the original.

Whether tabloid, or completely inaccurate, Nvida make reference to it and that there is an independent investigation. It is not wrong for people to wonder what that is given they mention it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by creatonez on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:16PM (#50418678)
Strongly disagree with changing it to that URL. This the kinda news you don't want to get from an involved primary source... that page is missing several crucial details and could just disappear whenever it becomes convenient to get the news cycle on the next thing. It will almost certainly be a 404 Not Found by the time 3 years have passed.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DeepLogin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418732)
Then there could be a second archive link.

I mean they are literally the same article in essence. One is from the official source and the other is paywalled with nothing worthy added.

The choice is clear.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mmooss on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:18PM (#50418698)
I disagree. Giving NVIDIA / Huang the stage and a microphone is begging for disinformation. Legitimate reporters can provide context, important information omitted by NVIDIA/Huang, and fact-checking.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kittikitti on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:53PM (#50418381)
This is a humiliating incident for everyone in AI.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mbgerring on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:59PM (#50418460)
Most of the Bay Area AI cult is one giant polycule, no one cares about Jensen Huang cheating on his wife.

The US National Security blob certainly cares, but not because of the infidelity.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shermantanktop on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:04PM (#50418521)
[delayed]
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mbgerring on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:01PM (#50418482)
I guess that’s one good thing about the whole “sex cult” thing, that everyone in it is more or less immune to sexual blackmail. The trade-off being susceptibility to in-group sexual manipulation. Not sure if that’s better or worse tbh.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yeeetz on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:11PM (#50418617)
it's actually rather comforting and egalitarian to think that everyone in the world is basically susceptible to sex
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solyin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:47PM (#50419002)
There will be sex bots in the future. Does that make things worse or better? If you have sex with a robot, does it count as cheating?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yeeetz on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:02PM (#50419641)
robots for now will lack the status danger and thrill of a human partner - it's not typically about the physicality of a relationship, but actually power differentials, status, movement
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by BLKNSLVR on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:11PM (#50419223)
Chinese priority: infiltrate the polycule!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ctmlr on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:30PM (#50418855)
The lack of op sec is very humiliating, the affair is between him and his wife.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dnw on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:54PM (#50418396)
At the end of the day we are all human.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nanreh on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:59PM (#50418450)
But we aren't all cheaters.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theandrewbailey on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:08PM (#50418574)
All he had to do was wear leather jackets and sell enough GPUs to cause a global economic crash, but he wanted just a little more.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jryan49 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418665)
Lol some of us are more "human" than others I guess.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:33PM (#50418875)
At the beginning of the day too.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nwhnwh on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:36AM (#50422311)
During the day... not so much.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rossant on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:07AM (#50422550)
Even more so at night.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by calvinmorrison on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:54PM (#50418400)
If you're the CIA, wouldn't you want to plant employees, or 'hire' employees at major firms like this? I guess I assume they do already. Probably each major corporation has 10-50+ employees getting kick backs from the government.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jackweirdy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:56PM (#50418426)
They do, according to Jonna Mendez, but those placed don’t collect a company salary, only a government salary. This causes some contention since they are paid far less than salaried employees and get no equity, so it leads to high turnover
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by JoshTriplett on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418748)
> but those placed don’t collect a company salary, only a government salary

Technically, they collect the company salary, and then the CIA reduces their pay by the same amount.

At one point, they couldn't keep any excess if the company pay was higher. Now, they're apparently allowed to keep an amount that doesn't significantly exceed comparable federal pay.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dcrazy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:51PM (#50421201)
Ooh, do you happen to know where she said that?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jackweirdy on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:35AM (#50423742)
She gave 2 fireside chat style events at the commonwealth club of California and it was at one of those. They’re on YouTube, how I found them. There is other press coverage though.

Infiltrated is not necessarily the right word. Company executives know, but few other employees do

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dcrazy on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:24AM (#50427717)
Can you be more precise about whether you’re referring to the American company or its foreign subsidiaries? My understanding is that it would be a violation of the CIA’s charter to plant a spy within an American company’s domestic arm, though of course the CIA does set up American front companies. Embedding officers within foreign subsidiaries of American multinationals seems more likely.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by derektank on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:26PM (#50418797)
The US intelligence agencies would have a hard time planting employees in US firms while remaining within the bounds of FISA. They certainly have assets inside major Chinese firms though, of course.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by calvinmorrison on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:52PM (#50419050)
I sincerely doubt anyone gives a shit about whatever "FISA" is, sounds like a credit card company or a shoe brand tbh.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:27PM (#50421068)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dcrazy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:49PM (#50421190)
I can’t tell if this is excellent sarcasm or complete ignorance.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thinkingemote on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:35AM (#50423254)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Traster on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:49AM (#50423364)
It doesn't quite work like that. You don't go off and find some super smart person who can easily get a job at Nvidia and tell them "Hey you, go work for this company". You find someone who already works at Nvidia, and you bump into them at their kids' little league game, and you get chatting and build a rapport and over time you build trust and before you know, you've got a trusted source inside Nvidia. They don't even need to know they're a plant. And then, if you really do need something more than information you can go further. But you start with someone already at the company and you target them, rather than the other way around.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by danpalmer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:55PM (#50418410)
How integral is Huang to the success of Nvidia? As much as he seems to have done a good job, he appears less integral than with some companies like Bezos/Amazon or Zuckerberg/Meta (whether these are/were or not is besides the point, they are seen as such).

I'd expect a board to fire a CEO over this, so he will have to be critical to the business, more than a normal CEO is critical, to survive. The market reaction to him going would also be interesting. Seems like the markets are starting to figure out what the value is here.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jsw97 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:58PM (#50418445)
Navigating this political/diplomatic climate is key to Nvidia's success, and he appears to be driving that? In normal times maybe it would be different.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dingaling911 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:56PM (#50418418)
I think his fear of failing is the reason for their success.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by teknologist on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:58PM (#50418444)
How integral is Nvidia to the success of LLMs? Seems like a few companies could step in and put that TSMC capacity to good use...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Tadpole9181 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:28PM (#50418828)
I'm sorry, who exactly? NVIDIA essentially has no real competition because of how wildly successful they are.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by danpalmer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:41PM (#50418943)
Google, Microsoft, Amazon, AMD, Apple, Huawei...

These aren't all entirely drop-in replacements, there are some trade-offs involved, but there are many companies with alternatives that could take Nvidia's market if they stall.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by andsoitis on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:46PM (#50418994)
> Google, Microsoft, Amazon, AMD, Apple, Huawei...

Which of those sell chips at the Nvidia caliber sell to AI model builders in the US (not use internally)?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by IncreasePosts on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:49PM (#50419968)
Google
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SJC_Hacker on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:52AM (#50422433)
Not internally, which is what Googles TPUs are for
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by IncreasePosts on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:45PM (#50428839)
Google started selling TPUs externally a few months ago: https://www.networkworld.com/article/4200864/google-has-star...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by teknologist on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:49AM (#50422408)
Apple should bring back the Xserve :p
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mjr00 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:02PM (#50418494)
Not to sound too negative but IMO NVidia has largely been "right place, right time" and I don't think Huang has had much to do with it. NVidia made computer graphics cards and CUDA long ago; they just happened to be in the right place, twice, in quick succession: first crypto/blockchain, then AI, neither of which they really had any part in boosting. It's like they set up a general store that sells pickaxes and drills, then someone found gold in the mountain right next to them, and then the goldmine ran out but someone found oil right under them.

The one big thing I will given Huang credit for is not going all-in on blockchain and recognizing it as a bubble. NVidia never really pivoted from their core business/customers to support crypto miners, unlike what they're doing with AI.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by javier2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:04PM (#50418532)
Yeah, they had been working on CUDA for a very long time before AI turned out to be interesting again.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by est31 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:07PM (#50418565)
> first crypto/blockchain, then AI, neither of which they really had any part in boosting.

Nvidia boosts AI a lot. They are the central bank of AI. https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49673098

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mjr00 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:13PM (#50418647)
Maybe the verb tense was unclear. NVidia currently boosts AI, for obvious reasons. But OpenAI was the company who did all of the legwork to make AI into an industry, with some minor support from NVidia. NVidia wouldn't have 10x'd since 2022 without OpenAI.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by est31 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:38PM (#50418923)
AI has been a (minor but existing) industry before OpenAI. E.g. Deepmind exists since 2010, 6 years before OpenAIs founding. Sure, OpenAI has contributed to it, in great deals, but Nvidia has always been there during the growth of AI. In 2012, AlexNet has been trained on GTX 580 GPUs, in 2016 AlphaGo used Nvidia GPUs, etc.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by altmanaltman on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:15PM (#50418674)
Yeah, but in this case they also built the pickaxes and drills and did it better than any other pickaxe and drill builder. In your analogy, they are commodities and a shop like that can be set up by anyone. But in this case, that doesn't apply. And if you look at their sales composition, they never pivoted away from gaming, but data centers clearly became ludicrously more attractive in the AI era. But they were always very good at computing triangles, perhaps the best in the world. They were lucky that market forces made that computation very valuable but they were not lucky in their ability to build it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mjr00 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:24PM (#50418768)
I do agree! They execute extremely well and Huang deserves praise for that. I just don't see him as a visionary leader shaping the industry in the same way that e.g. Jobs was. In an alternate world where the NSA doesn't create bitcoin and OpenAI is never founded, NVidia would be a stable, reliable producer of consumer electronic parts.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by altmanaltman on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:26PM (#50419796)
how can you be sure though we wont find a good use of computing triangles in that alternative universe? that technology would always have abstract value, how it is impmemented will depend on market forces but you have to admit, they know how to go with the flow, maybe to an extent where it seems like they just keep getting lucky
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SXX on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418685)
To be honest other hardware companies had years to catch up to Cuda and ML, but they invested shit into their software stacks.

Even when AI boom was imminient but 10 times smaller 2-3 years ago they did not invested heavily enough and Nvidia went all in.

I have no clue what percent of that decision making was Huang, but all the competition leadership was certainly incompetent.

So at least he did built company with a good leadership. Its a fact. Even if I personally dont like Nvidia or its products.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xiaoyu2006 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418688)
The had the insight to develop and promote CUDA long before DL was a thing. IIRC AlexNet was when CUDA really paid off.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hcta on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418693)
> they just happened to be in the right place, twice, in quick succession

that is generally what it looks like when someone is smarter than you

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mjr00 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:21PM (#50418739)
> that is generally what it looks like when someone is smarter than you

Maybe. This is also what everyone said about Elon for a long time, though.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by CamperBob2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:29PM (#50418834)
It's not that Musk is not smart, he's just erratic, and growing increasingly so. He is the Howard Hughes of our day. They will find him in an expensive hotel room at some point, surrounded by bottles of his own urine.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by N_Lens on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:26AM (#50422690)
Maybe that's the jetfuel we need to get to Mars.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by khazhoux on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:00AM (#50422963)
I challenge anyone who says “Elon not so smart” to name a topic in his wheelhouse that you think you can discuss in more detail than him. Because I’m certain he’d run circles around all but experts, in rocketry, auto tech, power cells, and more.

I mean: dude is smart. Everyone just wants to deny him that because he’s now an anti-immigrationist and they can’t stand the thought of him being both awful and smarter than them.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by smrq on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:56AM (#50423431)
He'd better. It would be a pretty severe embarrassment for a layman to know more than you about your own industry.

The trap he and many other smart idiots fall into is believing that having a high degree of expertise in one area qualifies you to speak authoritatively in unrelated areas. These days maybe you could call it Claude-smart: pairing situational brilliance with unwarranted confidence at other times. The really properly smart people I've met are good at tempering their statements with their degree of certainly based on their own qualifications.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by khazhoux on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:12AM (#50423575)
Sure, I agree. My beef here is with people who insist he’s a dummy when it comes even to rocketry, etc. That he only just hired people, but otherwise is not himself any sort of expert. Just lucky (over and over and over, apparently).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solyin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418749)
There were a lot of computer graphics cards manufacturers back in the 90's. Nvidia survived amongst the whole pack of them. 3dfx, Matrox, S3, ATI, Cirrus. How much of that is soley due to Jenson vs outside factors outside of his control, only he really knows, but I think her deserves a bit more credit than right place right time. CUDA was a very expensive investment with zero guarantee of payoff. The market could have gone an entirely different way and Nvidia would have failed.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mjr00 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:30PM (#50418849)
That's fair. NVidia's execution has been rock solid for as long as they've been around and Huang deserves credit for that. But I would say most of the reason they've 100x'd since 2017 has been external forces.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Jlagreen on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:08AM (#50422560)
Yes the demand of comapnies for AI compute which Nvidia delivered. These are still the external forces which let it grow at 100% YoY despite >$200b in revenue.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Kudos on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:25AM (#50423176)
Did you forget the crypto boom?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by iambateman on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:04PM (#50418527)
We’re going to find out tomorrow and I suspect in this case the answer starts with a B.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by andsoitis on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:15PM (#50418666)
> How integral is Huang to the success of Nvidia?

He's the visionary behind what they do and the person who influences industries around him to make it real.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by IncreasePosts on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:17PM (#50419286)
What percent of nvidias success was due to vision, vs luck?

I made a boat load of money off of the Tesla IPO(and then holding for 12 years) but I only invested because I thought they wouldn't be a successful car company but would produce a bunch of patents that would be valuable when licensed to the big auto makers.

Obviously I got that wronged, but my investment still worked out - but I still have friends and family coming to me for investing advice because I made the right move but for the wrong reasons

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mrheosuper on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:46PM (#50420382)
If it happens 1 time, you can call it luck.

But CUDA, Ray tracing acceleration, DLSS? It's not luck anymore.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by musha68k on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:51PM (#50420864)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by charlieyu1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:24AM (#50427737)
Jensen being a Taiwanese and his connection with TSMC plays a big part.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Frieren on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:21AM (#50422654)
> what they do

So, he is responsible for the crypto and AI bubbles? If tomorrow AI crashes and Nvidia share value with it would that make Nvidia CEO an idiot?

CEO worshiping is going too far.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by RussianBot9580 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:26AM (#50422684)
Somehow Intel can't take advantage of the very same bubbles.

Jensen is extremely hands on. If he is replaced NVidia is cooked.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bigDinosaur on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:08AM (#50423039)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by RussianBot9580 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:00AM (#50426569)
Holy change of topic Batman!

Intel is apparently fine (it's not fine) with a rotating cast of CEOs.

You are right though. At least whoever is trying to oust Jensen is nice enough not to bring out the usual tools.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by plaidfuji on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:21PM (#50418745)
My understanding is that he has something like 50 direct reports. Which would make him a pretty major single point of failure.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hoppp on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418755)
I'm skeptical that he gets fired for this. The "Spy I loved" James bond style twist combined with his iconic leather jacket might actually come off as badass.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:24PM (#50418764)
"I'd expect a board to fire a CEO over this, "

God god, no.

There's very little he could ever accidentally tell someone that would matter that much.

Other than handing over very detailed schemas etc, there's almost nothing important he could tell them.

Maybe some future ideas and plans, maybe some government things about the Administration, it's small peanuts.

Nvidia is an operational success, their IP is embedded within deep layers of know how and expertise.

He's the 'father' of that org, he set the tone, they like him there.

Nvidia would risk being an Intel without him.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by danpalmer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:26PM (#50418795)
A spy like this isn't looking for chip schematics, they're looking for strategy. Strategy that comes from the CEO. Ultimately the main thing a CEO brings is judgement, and this was extremely poor judgement.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:29PM (#50418841)
Strategy changes all the time. It will change overnight with the election results. What matters most is the information underlying that strategy, like, if ASML was coming out with some very specific new thing that would tilt the industry - that would be key.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by denkmoon on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:51PM (#50419036)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tyre on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:10AM (#50421672)
I don't care that he had an affair (none of my business; who knows the terms of his relationship with his wife; Americans / humans are far too moralizing in controlling sex) and, even if it was wrong in the context of his marriage, I don't think someone should be fired for that.

If he knew / suspected she was a spy, yes, absolutely. If she was given access to confidential information, yes, absolutely.

If he thought it was a romantic relationship, fine, that doesn't affect me / NVDA / America.

Obviously he should stop now that he knows! But if he didn't at the time, you know, I think I can still trust him to make computer chips.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fauigerzigerk on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:55AM (#50422459)
I agree. Judgement on love affairs and judgement on chip strategy are completely unrelated categories of judgement.

"Bad judgement" is a tool used in political rhetoric used to blame someone when there's nothing of any substance to blame them for.

However, all of this changes if it turns out that he gave his lover's company any kind of preferential treatment or that she was involved in China related lobbying.

This is what the investigation will focus on in my opinion. If they find anything at all then he will have to resign.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by moregrist on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:56PM (#50419089)
> God god, no.

> There's very little he could ever accidentally tell someone that would matter that much.

I think the practical implications matter a lot less than the PR and legal ones.

If the stock price plummets tomorrow and doesn’t recover, the board may have to act.

Similarly, if the right governments start asking hard questions, the board may have to act.

This is likely going to be a slow-rolling shit show for a while. At the very least, it’s legitimate grounds for one or more congressional investigations, which may start here but could go anywhere.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fuzzythinker on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:58PM (#50419603)
If the stock price plummets tomorrow and doesn’t recover, it is likely ppl are afraid he'll be replaced. If the board "act" by replacing him, the price is likely to dive more, not recover
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:27PM (#50419799)
Elon Musk makes nazi salutes and says radically unhinged things, and does many things which are arguably illegal.

Most investors don't care.

Unless there was some 'materially detrimental disclosure' this is just tabloid.

The fact that Elon has a literal harem, Tesla has $500M loan from Chinese banks with all sorts of conditions etc.

Elon literally does Zoom calls with Vladimir freaking Putin.

I think this is a nothing burger.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by skippyboxedhero on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:00PM (#50419126)
He denied, implausibly, all knowledge about Supermicro. I don't think that is going to work this time.

The crime here isn't giving secrets to the Chinese, it is helping them evade export controls. Again, this is something that Nvidia and Jensen has been investigated on repeatedly. If he knew that Megaspeed was a front for China, quite hard to deny given that Alice Huang seems to have brought Chinese execs to every meeting with Jensen then it is very bad. And yes, the stuff that Jensen would have said would have been very useful because, I assume, the inference is that he would have been helping them evade sanctions.

The very best case from here is that the board fires him.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:47PM (#50419518)
"The crime here isn't giving secrets to the Chinese, it is helping them evade export controls. "

If that were true, then it's fair game, but I don't think that's what is going on.

US gov has not stated they are targeting him.

Also, there is a gigantic difference between 'avoidance' and 'evasion', like with taxes.

We'll see.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:31PM (#50419841)
> "US gov has not stated they are targeting him."

Do we know that yet for sure? There's a closed-door US congressional hearing scheduled for nov/18

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:42PM (#50420798)
We know what they have said, and they are not targeting him, they are targeting the spy.

I think it's very unfair to suggest they are targeting him, when there isn't even mention if it.

He's obviously entangled in this so he'll at least be the subject but beyond that it's not fair to say.

It would have to be 'very, very serious' for the US Gov under a super pro-AI/pro-business agenda to take down their #1 CEO over something indirect.

Musk has direct meetings with Putin for gosh sakes.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:23PM (#50421049)
> Musk has direct meetings with Putin for gosh sakes.

You mean over the phone?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:01AM (#50421262)
Direct interaction, not in-person. And many more interaction with high level Russian and Chinese state actors. Huge investment from Chinese state banks and critical contracts for data collection.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:58AM (#50421588)
> Huge investment from Chinese state banks and critical contracts for data collection.

He admitted having talks with Putin during 2023/2024.

His Tesla China can help him circumvent any investigation or questioning from US authorities

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hnlmorg on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:27AM (#50423189)
> The crime here isn't giving secrets to the Chinese, it is helping them evade export controls.

This would have generated extra profit for Nvidia. So I doubt they'd care unless the US government chose to take legal action against Nvidia. And that's unlikely to happen under the current US administration.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jwilcoxson on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:41AM (#50424800)
If there isn’t anything important he could tell, then he isn’t very important and they don’t need him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by agnosticmantis on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:30PM (#50418847)
I hope he at least gets a nice severance package in that scenario. Tough job market in tech right now.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Conscat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:15PM (#50419264)
As an Nvidian, I strongly disagree. I'm sure somehow the company would be fine in the long run without him, but until today I believed that his vastly superior judgement to his peers is to credit for Nvidia's success. Not to minca words, I think he is a far more qualified and intelligent CEO than pretty much anyone in big tech. There's a reason Nvidia doesn't have to lay people off ever.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by InsidiousWombat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:56PM (#50419589)
I think that says more about other CEOs than of his brilliance.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by N_Lens on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:16AM (#50422620)
It is definitely the era of 'footgun leadership'
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Conscat on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:54PM (#50431976)
I would agree with that.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by atq2119 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:46AM (#50421525)
I don't think the second half what you're saying is true. He has had a good hand, yes, but I think what we're seeing is "simply" the effect of a successful company being run by one of its founders. There is always a kind of reversion to mean once a successful company moves away from founder control, and that hasn't happened for Nvidia.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:38AM (#50422332)
> ...but until today I believed that his vastly superior judgement to his peers is to credit for Nvidia's success.

Have you considered how many billions of dollars of Nvidia sales were through entities diverting chips to China?

While there's no doubt that this is not the majority of the company's revenue, it's also not an insignificant amount.

If you had to pin Nvidia's success on one thing, the honest answer would be "right technology, right time." Without AI...And the questions about how sustainable that market is are now being asked by the market.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dchest on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:08AM (#50422559)
They've been investing in CUDA and machine learning for a long time before the current wave of LLMs. It's absurd to say "right technology, right time" when they were the ones who helped develop it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by i-chuks on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:00AM (#50424408)
Yes, but they placed a bet on the development of the tech and on the time it would be relevant which was a huge risk.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:34AM (#50425389)
The technology was built for 3D graphics and video game processing. The company was very smart to recognize the opportunity that AI presented when AI researchers realized that gaming GPUs could vastly outperform CPUs for their workloads, but this was a "happy accident", not something Nvidia actually predicted, planned for or initially pushed.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by StableAlkyne on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:04AM (#50425779)
This predates modern AI

The first papers on using GPUs to accelerate scientific tasks came out at the turn of the century. Initially it was molecular dynamics, which led Nvidia to release their first scientific-focused line, the Tesla.

Then in 2010 or so, someone realized you could train a neural network very fast on these things.

The reason they are the leader here goes all the way back to the 2000s when they released CUDA. Because of that, the neural network (and therefore AI) ecosystem went with them.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fg137 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:56AM (#50428226)
If you bothered to learn a little bit about Nvidia history you'd know this is false. They invested in supporting transformers before most people in this thread heard of that name. That's just one example. Look at InfiniBand and you can tell they made correct decisions years before it's obvious to everyone.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:21PM (#50428530)
Sorry. Nvidia started supporting transformers in 2017. AI researchers discovered that its GPUs were way better than CPUs for their workloads almost a decade earlier. Specifically, Rajat Raina, Anand Madhavan and Andrew Ng at Stanford published a paper showing that GPUs could train large deep networks up to 70x faster than CPUs back in 2009.

Nvidia released CUDA in 2006-2007, which made that discovery possible, but Nvidia wasn't targeting AI with CUDA. It was targeting general high-performance computing (physics simulations, molecular dynamics, medical imaging, etc.).

There's no doubt the company seized on the AI opportunity superbly but the suitability of its product for AI, and the AI boom, was absolutely a "happy accident".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by swyx on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:34AM (#50423247)
> Have you considered how many billions of dollars of Nvidia sales were through entities diverting chips to China?

its always been well known. its that line item of suspiciously high sales to singpapore. its never been a real concern.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:42AM (#50425481)
> its never been a real concern

Except it has been. There are people in multiple countries, including the US, Singapore and Taiwan, facing lengthy prison sentences for this. In the US in particular, violating export controls is a game you only play if you're looking for years of free federal accommodation.

Examples:

https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/us-authorities-shut-down-majo...

https://www.justice.gov/usao-ndga/pr/chinese-national-and-tw...

https://www.justice.gov/opa/pr/california-man-arrested-smugg...

https://www.bbc.com/news/articles/cx2d9y18g73o

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2026/aug/25/taiwan-ch...

https://asiatimes.com/2026/11/taiwan-to-criminalize-nvidia-a...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by unsupp0rted on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:52AM (#50422436)
> until today I believed that his vastly superior judgement

What changed today?

Every major leader and CEO has obvious blind spots. They're geniuses at X but idiots at Y.

Look at all the great CEOs with ridiculous political views. It's fine: they do have vastly superior judgement, just not in areas where it doesn't directly affect their business.

For the NVDA CEO, it happens to be a honeypot. That puts him in probably the 80-90% of great leaders on whom that works.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rsynnott on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:02AM (#50423482)
Even ignoring the alleged spitting, shagging someone who works in a position of authority at a customer company if obviously a massive conflict of interest.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ksec on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:23PM (#50419337)
I have seen and read this a lot over the years and I am starting to wonder may be it isn't Pat Gelsinger that called Nvidia lucky but people actually felt it that way naturally.

For over a decade CUDA was nothing but a money and silicon wasting function that brought in very little extra revenue for the amount of company resources it uses. And arguably it started even before CUDA with Cg. And I will say another unpopular thing, they are in hardware business, apart from the past 1 - 2 years which they are enjoying massive success, for most of the past 30 years hardware business are 10x tougher than Software side.

Most CEO would have given up. Paul Graham invented the term to describe it, Founder Mode.

I seriously doubt Nvidia would have been anywhere close to what they are today without Jensen's Leadership.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ahartmetz on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:50AM (#50423373)
That Nvidia exists, it is ATI / AMD GPUs. They are doing mostly OK, but nothing like Nvidia especially in the dollars department.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stickfigure on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:28PM (#50419814)
What's this puritanical streak? Men in power have been having affairs from time immemorial. It's not great but it's also not original. The guy works for a corporation, not a church. Yawn.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by musha68k on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:33PM (#50420725)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ergocoder on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:16AM (#50421347)
At the current state, maybe not much. He was integral to the journey, of course.

The bigger threat is Jensen selling all his stocks at peak (if he was fired). Then, this dude with $100B in the bank could've easily started an NVIIA competitor. He has every component needed for a success. This is why NVIDIA's board would never let this guy go.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cowlevel on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:05AM (#50421649)
We can look across the aisle to AMD to see how much difference the CEO makes.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mschuster91 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:22AM (#50422658)
Not really. The key difference IMHO is not the CEO, it is that ATI/AMD always was the smaller underdog, while the established players Intel/NVIDIA get thrown money at them due to the "no one got fired for buying IBM" effect.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mschuetz on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:10AM (#50422104)
I've interned at NVIDIA and my impression was, he is extremely vital to its past and ongoing success. I don't know about him personally and his character, but he knew how to foster a motivating work culture with a sense of excitement and purpose. Maybe Nvidia is now at a place where he could be replaced, but I don't think Nvidia would be where it is now without him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 2OEH8eoCRo0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:00AM (#50427361)
My amateur opinion is not very? They made the best graphics cards had a share price of $10 and then graphics cards started selling extremely well because of the crypto currency craze and now AI.

I think these trends happened to them despite Huang.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by seunosewa on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:10PM (#50428380)
He is the founder of the company. He was personally involved in every progress they made. They likely won't fire him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by carlos-menezes on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:56PM (#50418416)
> To my wife and family: I love you.

No, you do not.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dingaling911 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:57PM (#50418427)
Eh...

He's been with the same woman for decades. He's on top of the world. It's understandable, if not condoned.

What I want to see is how hot this woman is and if it was worth it.

Edit: https://biz.chosun.com/resizer/v2/476NVJDIOJCWHPRF6F5F5RIP2Q...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by artemonster on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:58PM (#50418449)
Its really funny how a person can have infinite resources to solve infinite real world problems and yet chooses to succumb to primitive monkey brain and tickle their dingdong instead
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dingaling911 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:04PM (#50418520)
Exactly. We are dingdong tickling monkeys. It's not beyond the realm of possibility.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by serf on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:00PM (#50418469)
You want to see how hot someone was to know whether or not it was worth potentially ruining your family and reputation while on top of the world?

I can't even imagine someone that attractive.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dingaling911 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418746)
Marriage gets boring. Unfortunate truth. My suspicion is that Jensen was basically allowed to do it as long as it wasn't made public and if so, then this was def not the first time.

It would be a strange coincidence if the first and only time he cheated on his wife was with an intelligence agent.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tetrisgm on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:59PM (#50418459)
It’s possible to love someone and make mistakes
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by iLemming on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:06PM (#50418547)
That's unfair. Most people are helpless against trained mind-tricksters; anyone could fall into that trap. Don't tell me you have never wondered how soldiers returning from war stop having panic attacks and soiling their clothes after seeing a qualified shrink, who does nothing more than talk. Words alone can heal, convince and mislead you. We have no idea what that woman used to lure him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by petit_robert on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:42PM (#50418954)
>We have no idea what that woman used to lure him.

Looking at her picture might provide a hint.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by axegon_ on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:57PM (#50418430)
At this point, we can safely start treating South Park as a documentary https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3V2HxWrlqqE
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Betelbuddy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:12PM (#50418635)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Yajirobe on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:57PM (#50418434)
first Ethan Klein, now Jensen Huang...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shoobiedoo on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:01PM (#50418487)
The Ethan one is especially shocking because his whole shtick is being the "better man" compared to all the people he reacts to and sues. Throwing it all away just to doink a coworker is pretty out there
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wmf on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:07PM (#50418563)
People who brag about their ethics are compensating.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by flowerlad on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:57PM (#50418435)
Now we have to re-evaluate all his statements in favor of selling to China. For example, we want China to build on "our stack". On the face of it, that seems correct. If China has multiple stacks to pick from why wouldn't we want them to pick our stack? But do they have such a choice?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tsunamifury on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418664)
He has been openly advocating to selling to China.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by markdown on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:26PM (#50418796)
As have most. Some, like Tesla and Apple, even have factories there!!!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by est31 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:41PM (#50418947)
Apple has connections so great that United even introduced a whole airport leg SFO-PVG just for them (unless it's an urban legend).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anonymous908213 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:55PM (#50420009)
I was curious, so I researched it (aka prompted ChatGPT). SFO-PVG was established in 2000, long before Apple offshored all of their manufacturing to China. An article from the time describes it being something that was in demand among Silicon Valley in general[1] rather than Apple particularly. In 2019, United revealed that Apple does spend $35 million/yr on that single route, averaging 50 seats/day[2], so I suppose that's the source of the legend.

[1]https://www.sfgate.com/business/article/shanghai-to-s-f-flig...

[2]https://www.macrumors.com/2019/01/11/apple-united-airline-pu...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ppsreejith on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:04AM (#50421283)
I think this was SF to Chengdu. From: https://www.reddit.com/r/whoathatsinteresting/comments/1tspz...

From the book: Apple in China

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stingrae on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:36AM (#50422304)
As CEO of a company that sells GPUS, it seems like the more people he's able to sell to the better.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by flowerlad on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418720)
Another is the pretense of overcoming Chinese resistance. China sent a cute spy to bang the CEO of Nvidia, but they simultaneously set a "strict limit" on import of Nvidia chips. How does that make sense? It makes sense if the purpose of the "strict limit" is so that any sale of H200 to China can be seen as overcoming Chinese restrictions. Anything that is against the Chinese government's resistance must be good for the US, right?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nemomarx on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418750)
It could be that they wanted design information and other details from him, and were going to use those to build up domestic manufacturing alongside import restrictions.

It's hard to say from the outside what the goals would be - pushing him in certain directions, extracting intel, etc.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by flowerlad on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:24PM (#50418774)
> It could be that they wanted design information and other details from him

For this it would be much easier if the Chinese spies banged Nvidia engineers.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by interlocutor on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:41PM (#50418949)
We don't know that this is not happening.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stickfigure on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:23PM (#50419775)
They should list it in the compensation section for job reqs.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tyre on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:03AM (#50421627)
More likely that she was given devices to plant / message him zero day PDFs or whatever.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:51AM (#50425596)
China also opens up visa free for many countries now, on the other hand, raising requirements for longer stays (work permits, green cards).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by augment_me on Sunday November 08, 2026 @05:59PM (#50418458)
Apart from his direct family, who cares? Why is this an issue? It's 2026, we literally had a human child trafficking ring with multiple presidents involved and it didnt lead to anything or move the needle on stuff.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anon7725 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:03PM (#50418509)
The leader of the central company in the AI boom was compromised by a spy from the US’s biggest adversary while US and Chinese companies are in an AI arms race.

Would that count?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fastily on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:06PM (#50418558)
We have a sitting president who freely shares state secrets with dictators upon request. This seems rather high effort when they could’ve just asked nicely no? </s>
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dolebirchwood on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:11PM (#50418620)
Is whataboutism really necessary?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fastily on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:15PM (#50418670)
the </s> is for sarcasm..
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fc417fc802 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418691)
It isn't whataboutism if it's directly relevant to the point at hand (as opposed to attempting to distract from it). The question posed effectively amounted to "why is this particularly noteworthy compared to everything else of a vaguely similar nature that's been going on".
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dinkumthinkum on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:19PM (#50418708)
I know you are trying to make some point for your political team but if you look up what a fiduciary is then you will see why this would be a good thing and a way to avoid other legal issues. But I know, OMB and all that!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DragonStrength on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:31PM (#50418860)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Jlagreen on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:44AM (#50422841)
The US government has known she was a spy due to CIA and hasn't acted till now it's in the press.

So how much of a security issue is there if the government hasn't cared so far?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stingraycharles on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:02PM (#50418498)
It’s an issue because for some reason the US intelligence agency decided to go public with this and then the newspapers started running with it.

This letter is just part of the ceremony of events that is expected to happen afterwards.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dannyw on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:12PM (#50418632)
Probably more like the administration, given how they were briefed more than a year ago.

There’s been recent power spats (JD Vance’s tweet, Susie being replaced by Steve Bannon, and probably more infighting).

As much as I want to believe there’s greater 4D chess and motivation, I assign a modest probability to someone going “fuck it”, opening a massive short on NVDA, and then leaking it just for the love of insider trading. Rather than anything strategic or real.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jryle70 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:36PM (#50418903)
Huh? CEO's private life has always always been a big deal. These were just a few cases the last few years alone:

https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/coldplay-kiss-c...

Jensen Huang's case is even more high profile because of the spying accusation.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stingraycharles on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:30PM (#50420267)
You misunderstood what I meant, obviously the newspapers all cover these things when they become public. The difference is that this time, it’s an intelligence agency that went public with it (or someone leaked it from there), the spying angle is quite unique.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DragonStrength on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:02PM (#50418496)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Noaidi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:03PM (#50418508)
> Why is this an issue?

She was also a Chinese spy.

> It's 2026, we literally had a human child trafficking ring with multiple presidents involved and it didnt lead to anything or move the needle on stuff.

He admitted to the affair. No one has admitted to being a pedo. Much less forgivable.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ryandrake on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:11PM (#50418611)
Donald Trump's name appears in the Epstein files more often than Harry Potter's name appears in every Harry Potter book combined. I don't think we need him to admit it at this point.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Jlagreen on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:46AM (#50422851)
And how long has US government known that she is a spy and only watched and not investigated?

There could be only 2 options: 1. There is no national security issue -> all a nothing burger 2. US government looked the other way -> THE REAL SCANDAL HERE

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by techblueberry on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:08PM (#50418572)
Why does it matter that one of the key leaders of our aI strategy was having an affair with a Chinese spy while advising the president on our policy of selling chips to China?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fwlr on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418687)
The investors probably care. If you’ll lie to your wife to get laid, you might also lie to your investors to get paid.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:25PM (#50418776)
It's an issue, but vastly over stated in the press.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by reenorap on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:56PM (#50419095)
I'm a shareholder, and the fact that both the US government and Nvidia itself is going to investigate him is very, very bad. So yes, I care about it a lot because I'm probably going to lose a lot of money tomorrow!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by BLKNSLVR on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:02PM (#50419142)
This US Government investigating Jensen Huang will be an exercise in cotton balls and kid gloves.

Trump himself relaxed laws on chip exports to China.

P.S. If you have any other liquidity available, maybe 'buy the dip'?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by method_capital on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:01PM (#50418480)
I'm not sure what actual letters like this are supposed to achieve (besides protecting his ass I mean). Are employees supposed to stand beside their fallen leader, are they supposed to go about their business differently? Anybody having affairs with subordinates can't be trusted to make good judgement calls with respect to internal leadership / delegation, at least it wouldn't seem so to me.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kraken_cult on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:02PM (#50418495)
It's better than not having a statement and have rumours flying everywhere.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by method_capital on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:06PM (#50418549)
Well the only reason we have the letter is because rumors were flying everywhere and an investigation has been initiated.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dieselgate on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:07PM (#50418564)
Agreed. It's due diligence and saving face; at least he owns it?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by twodave on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:37PM (#50418918)
It sounds like your problem lies more in his mistake, not in coming clean about it. Him being the one to do that takes any influence the woman had over him away.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by plant-ian on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:02PM (#50418501)
I feel like every thing requires a tin foil hat now. Is this some last ditch ploy to stimulate noncompetitive regulation from the US government? I find it more difficult to trust anything these people say everyday.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by plant-ian on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:06PM (#50418550)
Just to be clear, this was probably already happening, but I can imagine the board being like "hmmmmm..... opportunity?" Then we see titles with "Chinese spy" plastered onto every major news network. Seems a little convenient to me.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by iambateman on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:03PM (#50418518)
I heard a guy I respect say “there’s a short list of things people will ruin their lives for.”

I’m not sure if this will ruin Jensen’s life or not, but it’s a good opportunity for us all to remember that the short-term high is usually not worth it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by voidfunc on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:05PM (#50418541)
There is zero percent chance the board does anything to Jensen.

His likely ex-wife is about to be very rich tho.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dannyw on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:09PM (#50418591)
We don’t know the extent of what happened. My first thought, given MegaSpeed, is chip diversion.

How much of NVIDIA’s sales and revenues is actually to China? Would that be allowed to happen still?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:12PM (#50418628)
I'll take the other side of the wife -> ex-wife bet. He was photographed publicly with the "spy" and has been signing boobs.

If the camel had a back, then it was already broken, IMHO.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lotsofpulp on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:59PM (#50419117)
He wasn’t photographed in a romantic context as far as I know, and he just signed the upper part of a woman’s chest with tons of cameras around, clearly a marketing ploy rather than him trying to enter into a relationship with her.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:21PM (#50419319)
>afaik

What? [0]

You just touch someone's lower back, through an arm around their neck, and share seats for one at lounges?

[0] https://www.thetimes.com/world/asia/article/jensen-huang-rom...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mlmonkey on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:00AM (#50421258)
Paywalled.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by crossroadsguy on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:19AM (#50421754)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:49AM (#50423848)
Cruel? You have no idea what that word means.

Giving a source to someone who hasn't done any checking is not inhumane.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lotsofpulp on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:53AM (#50424920)
When did those pictures come out?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:08AM (#50425833)
> When did those pictures come out?

"shallow dismissals" are against HN guidelines [0]. Worse, the article dates the paparazzi photos pre-2026.

[0] https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lotsofpulp on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:25AM (#50426093)
I could not access the article (or I did not want to pay), hence the question.

Given the celebrity status of Jensen, it seemed unlikely that scandalous photos of him would be publicly distributed and it not already have been a huge story.

It is possible the scandalous pictures (not just him walking in front of her or sitting next to her) were already floating around, and I am not up-to-date on celebrity scandals, and the wife was already planning a divorce, as you claim.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:34AM (#50426215)
> I could not access the article (or I did not want to pay), hence the question.

I figured you were acting in bad faith because the article addressed your question and you didn't mention you skipped the article.

Not mentioning is categorical bad faith-- another HN guidelines faux pas.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ungovernableCat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:19PM (#50419300)
There’s cheating on your wife.

And there’s cheating on your wife and having the feds write up intelligence reports about it, the Financial Times running an article about it and having to send a public admission to every single employee at your company including your two kids who you employ there.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:48PM (#50419963)
Ask yourself how would his wife not know this was happening? They were seen in public in intimate settings.

Don't kid yourself about the reason he wrote the letter. He's only writing this because of national security optics and covers it in a shit sandwich format.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gizajob on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:37AM (#50421881)
https://youtu.be/FGCP2F_7rQk

This video of Lex Friedman and Jensen hanging out and drinking in Taiwan came out 3 weeks ago. Jensen and his wife seem pretty happy together in it. So today’s news is genuinely new news or they’d already gone over it and sorted it out. Jensen seems to do a lot of booze fuelled entertaining…

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by caminante on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:45AM (#50423810)
>new news

Why?

They'd been photod publicly since 2024.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ungovernableCat on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:30PM (#50430530)
I get that transactional relationships are pretty common in the elite world but they almost always still maintain a projection and image of a stable normal marriage to the outside. In fact in many cases the value of that projected image is the only thing really keeping the relationship stable.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:09PM (#50420967)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by briansm on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:36AM (#50422307)
It can be argued that the reason rich people are rich is they lack satiation, therefore they can never be rich-enough.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ergocoder on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:20PM (#50421038)
They are both rich, lmao. The wealth is marital.

But I agree with you that both of them or one of them will be very rich because they will get to sell at the top without upsetting the market.

OH NO WE HAVE TO SELL BECAUSE OF THE DIVORCE NOW. BEFORE THE DEMOCRATS NUKE AI COMPANIES. OH NO. [insert croc tears here]

You can google Luo Pai (from Enron) to learn more.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mmmBacon on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:21AM (#50421380)
I honestly feel truly sorry for her. No amount of wealth can replace what she’s lost.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by crossroadsguy on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:17AM (#50421735)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by itemize123 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:35AM (#50421870)
rubbish.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Betelbuddy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:08PM (#50418569)
Betcha this is going to turn into: He was being blackmailed but he decided to pull a David Letterman on it...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rustyhancock on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:10PM (#50418600)
Jensen carries the responsibility here for sure.

But I'm not sure how hard it would be to resist a honey trap.

I mean a state sponsored enterprise to get you to have sex with someone (or one of a group of people).

Getting him to have sex with her was literally this woman's day job and she was probably told it was a matter of national security.

It is quite absurd once you think about it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by olyjohn on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:44PM (#50418979)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ungovernableCat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:16PM (#50419276)
You’d think being in your 60s would make it a tad easier to not think with your dick but then again a bunch of CEOs are running TRT these days.

This is just deeply embarrassing. His adult children both work for his company so they’d also receive this exact memo.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by crossroadsguy on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:04AM (#50421633)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 0x073 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:41AM (#50421492)
The question is how long took and if he was happy with his family.

It's easy for a professional with china backend to play with your feelings, much easier if you have normal family life or worse.

Is the woman likable it's just a matter of times. (Independent of the gender)

If this happens within a week, I would agree, if this happens within months the gender you like can makes your heart jump if you are I a very long term relationship.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shakow on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:24AM (#50424113)
> But I'm not sure how hard it would be to resist a honey trap.

The guy has enough money to have sex parties with the prettiest girls on Earth every single night until the end of his life, I'm pretty sure resisting a state-sponsored honeypot is not the hardest thing ever.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by giwook on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:10PM (#50418603)
Easier said than done. Especially when we’re not thinking logically which is surprisingly and disappointingly too often.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by chasd00 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:37PM (#50418913)
“God gave men enough blood to run their brain or penis but not enough for both” - robin williams
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by giwook on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:04PM (#50419660)
Honestly this might be the most accurate statement ever made.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Tarq0n on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:21AM (#50422655)
Honestly a terrible way to deflect responsibility. If you're finding your judgement impaired take a breather, the opportunity is usually not going to disappear right away.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by chasd00 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:18AM (#50427625)
I was just trying to be funny. One thing I was thinking about is what if Jensen had real feelings for this woman? Like imagine you are falling for someone then it just all turns out to be a scheme to get info about your job. What a terrible betrayal, how do you trust anyone after that?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:25PM (#50418779)
> the short-term high is usually not worth it.

People continue to under-value the spank bank. SMH.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by reenorap on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:54PM (#50419075)
It's not going to ruin his life. At worst he will lose $100 bil and maybe if it's really bad, he will get kicked out of Nvidia. He will still have $100 bil and can do whatever he wants at that point.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TheAlchemist on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:00PM (#50419125)
If the woman involved turns out to really be a Chinese spy, then it will definitely ruin his life.

AI and chips are, for better or worse, considered a national security matter.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by krainboltgreene on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:33PM (#50421094)
Being a “Chinese spy” has very little to do with reality, much like being a terrorist. It’s a matter of what the State Department decides.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ramraj07 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:41PM (#50421140)
He is the the tech CEO most aligned with the current government’s optimism towards the AI build out and also its key orchestrator. What are the odds he will be held to any real punishment ?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by krainboltgreene on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:04PM (#50432109)
I would not bet on punishment that is meaningful unless he screwed over other big capitalists. That's the one law you cannot break.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TheAlchemist on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:59AM (#50421592)
Being a state of national security, yes.

Spy is rather easy to define though, and it hardly depends on what the State Department decides (although of course, they can call anybody a spy, for political or other reasons, I agree on that).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by muddi900 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:33AM (#50422272)
I don't know why this is being downvoted. The federal government has never really prevented a terrorist attack that they themselves have not recruited. It is entrapment, and it is legal in most cases. I know it sounds like a conspiracy theory, but even mainstream media has covered this: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2011/nov/16/fbi-entrapment...

It is perfectly reasonable to suspect similar claims of catching "spies".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bigDinosaur on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:25AM (#50423180)
Your article doesn't support your claim that the 'federal government has never really prevented a terrorist attack'. And a lot of that was highly motivated reporting itself by people like Glenn Greenwald who was basically denying that things like ISIS were real threats at all in 2014 and then went full victim blaming for things like Charlie Hebdo the year after (it was harder after the Bataclan).

Will you next claim that the police have never really prevented a murder?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by muddi900 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:42AM (#50427127)
I gave a link as a reference of how the Federal government operates. I did not think that I needed a whole bibliography to prove something that is very easily verifiable.

Not only that you think the reporting is not reliable because of the reporter without pointing out what is wrong with the actual report.

But I'll humor you.

- Here is the judge calling the US government the co-conspirator in the same case: https://ny1.com/nyc/all-boroughs/news/2023/07/27/judge-quest...

- The Gretchen Whitmer kidnapping plot:

- https://www.rawstory.com/plot-to-kidnap-michigan-governor/

- https://reason.com/2022/04/08/gretchen-whitmer-kidnapping-pl...

- The liberty city seven: https://www.nbcnews.com/id/wbna22249838

- The cleveland bomb plot: https://truthout.org/articles/cleveland-anarchist-bomb-plot-...

- Sami Osmakac: https://archive.is/NINN0

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These are all the cases that had some investigative reporter poking, or the jury/judge seeing through the bullshit. Here is initial reporting on recent cases. The "Iranian Agent" sent to "Assassinate Donald Trump"(emphasis mine):

>Asif Merchant traveled to New York in June for the purpose of meeting with men he thought he was recruiting to carry out the killings, even paying a $5,000 advance to two would-be assassins who were actually undercover law enforcement officers, federal officials said

https://www.ksat.com/news/politics/2024/08/06/pakistani-man-...

The woman arrested for "plotting to bomb the NY state capital":

>According to the criminal complaint, an FBI confidential source drove Bowie to the Home Depot in Rensselaer and gave her $200 to buy bomb parts. It’s not clear if they told her what items to buy.

https://cbs6albany.com/news/local/feds-say-capital-bombing-t...

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This is not some fringe idea even here on HN. Here is a clear fed trying incite people to commit violence: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=49629430

This common in most internet forums. It is called fedposting: https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&que... https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/fedpost

I hope all of these sources are of sound character by your standards. Now I would ask you; can you give me an example of the FBI catching a terrorist that:

a) They did not recruit, or b) Did not provide materials, or c) did not provide the target

AS for the police in the US, they are indeed very bad at preventing crime. Though that is due to multiple reasons, mostly policy related, rather than institutional malfeasance like the FBI.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by p_j_w on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:58PM (#50419601)
> It's not going to ruin his life.

It might if he loves his wife.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by reenorap on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:49PM (#50419969)
If he loved his wife he wouldn't have cheated on her, and then humiliated her and his children in front of the entire world.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:19PM (#50420171)
That is not an automatic fact. Humans are complex creatures. Jensen didn't call his secretary and say "can you pencil in 'humiliating my wife and kids around 4PM'? You can? Great, thanks".
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by reenorap on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:24PM (#50420215)
He has full agency over his actions, so yes, it's an automatic fact. He knew what he was doing and he knew what the effects would be on his wife. He knew what would happen when this came out. If you're saying he DIDN'T know what would happen, then you're saying he's extremely stupid. I haven't seen any evidence that he is even a little bit stupid.

Are you saying this was an accident and he didn't have control over himself?

If he doesn't have control over himself and he isn't accountable for his actions, then how does that factor into him being the CEO of the most important globally strategic company in the world? Are you saying that he is capable of making actions that he isn't in full control over? Does Nvidia need to have a CEO that doesn't accidentally make mistakes like potentially giving secret information to Chinese spies?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kridsdale1 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:51PM (#50421199)
People, especially men, are not robots.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 4ggr0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:03AM (#50423959)
> especially men

meaning that women are more likely to be robots? wasn't aware of this, gotta try doing turing tests on women around me.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by happytoexplain on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:33AM (#50421447)
This seems like an emotionally compromised perspective (which is very, very normal, and I am not insulting you).

It is, of course, not an automatic fact. The context here is emotions, so it makes no sense to point only to agency as proof of an emotional "fact". Such a thing doesn't even exist.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by crossroadsguy on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:02AM (#50421615)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ryanjshaw on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:02AM (#50422056)
This is not complicated if you define “love” as “wouldn’t cheat”. Which plenty of people do.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by happytoexplain on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:11AM (#50424520)
Well, yes, nothing is complicated if you always just agree with your audience.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by MaxHoppersGhost on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:18PM (#50420616)
Humans are complex creatures. Plenty of men and women who have loving families and genuinely love their spouses cheat on them and destroy their lives/families. It just takes a moment of weakness. Stay vigilant.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by v3ss0n on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:00AM (#50421251)
Love and sexual attraction is totally different thing. As long as you get married Male usually lose interest and sexual attraction on female and want to try new things. That happens to me too and its like both biological and mental.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tudelo on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:52AM (#50421555)
It's not really a moment when the moment is stretched over months and years, but yes we are all human and all make mistakes. That does not absolve us of the consequences.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pprotas on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:14AM (#50421715)
Way to minimize cheating. Describing it as a “moment of weakness” makes it sounds like it’s a minute of lapse of judgement, meanwhile we’re talking about pre-mediated, long-term cheating.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thepasch on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:25AM (#50422680)
A "moment of weakness" leads to a one-night stand, not to however long a fling needs to be to be dubbed an "extramarital affair."
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by happytoexplain on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:27AM (#50421415)
I have zero sympathy for this guy, generally speaking. But this is one of those very few things where what you have said is the socially "correct" thing, and actually is probably healthy to believe, but is factually wrong.

Lamentably, people don't have cartoon emotions. Life would be so much easier if they did.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:02PM (#50420062)
Sometimes, it's the humiliation that comes from the public finding out and putting a spotlight on it that is the kicker; not the random side piece(s) (ex: Bill & Melinda Gate).

I agree, though.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DANmode on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:55PM (#50421228)
> "The reporter? ... What does she offer us?"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:13AM (#50421333)
Exactly
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mmmBacon on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:18AM (#50421362)
If he loses his family over it, it will ruin his life. There’s more to life than money. I hope for your sake that you don’t really believe this morally bankrupt concept.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yoyohello13 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:43AM (#50421509)
The man was cheating on his wife. He already wasn’t thinking of his family.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway89864 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:53AM (#50421559)
Allegedly he was assaulted by a spy and wasn't able to deflect that assault. Who knows what techniques they use, wouldn't be surprised if they can sprinkle something in a drink that switches off half the frontal cortex.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bathtub365 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:00AM (#50421603)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway89864 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:34AM (#50422293)
Dopamine agonist are known to ruin impulse control: pramipexole, ropinirole, rotigotine.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dannyw on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:58AM (#50422030)
That’s just conspiracy talk. It’s called honeypots for a reason. It requires willingness.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bigstrat2003 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:39AM (#50422342)
I think it's common enough for people to have regrets after the fact. Not all do, but enough that you can't rule it out entirely.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tgv on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:44AM (#50424824)
Men are known to think with their penises every now and then. His wife knows that too. It's cheating, but cheating is often repaired.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mapcars on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:27AM (#50423688)
And there is more to life than family too, there is any amount of people who lived great lives without any family.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pbkompasz on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:40AM (#50421489)
$100 bil? You say that like there aren't trillionaires going around in their "flying" cars... /s
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SecretDreams on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:59PM (#50419118)
> I’m not sure if this will ruin Jensen’s life or not, but it’s a good opportunity for us all to remember that the short-term high is usually not worth it.

I think what you've just described is "post nut clarity". I'm sure he knew what he did immediately, but the gravity of the consequences might've taken a bit to catch up to him.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jmyeet on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:43PM (#50421157)
One can't help but think of Sergey Brin who famously had an affair with an underling on Google Glass, Amanda Rosenberg [1]. This of course blew up his life and he divorced Anne Wojcicki in ~2014. Of course he got married again and divorced again with another expensive divorce (although neither was in the realm of the cost of Jeff Bezos's divorce).

I think it says a lot about what wealth does to you. A lot of people dream of wealth but I suspect many would be less than thrilled by the reality. It must be incredibly isolating. You constantly have to fend off people who are trying to use you. It must make it harder to trust anyone. A lot of ordinary life experiences are now barred to you.

For example, a lot of executives in these trillion dollar companies are forbidden from flying commercial for security reasons. Nobody would think about missing the airport and everything that entails. In most places it's an objectively awful experience but it's still a shared experience. Going to a private FBO by helicopter to take a Global 7500 direct to your destination is something only a tiny portion of the population can relate to.

So I think this kind of isolation makes such wealthy and/or powerful people more susceptible to this kind of thing because, in a way, they're starved from a lot of human interaction and experiences in a way most of us can't understand (and wouldn't want).

What really is the point of somebody hoarding this much wealth? You kind of have to have sociopathic tendencies (IMHO) because such wealth simply cannot exist without the impoverishment of millions of people. And for you it's kind of a golden prison.

[1]: https://www.vanityfair.com/style/2014/04/sergey-brin-amanda-...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bee_rider on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:34AM (#50421450)
If there are any billionaires out there who are too alienated by their inability to wait in line at the airport: don’t worry, you can give me the money. It’ll be a burden but one I think I can handle it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cowlevel on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:01AM (#50421613)
The airport was just an example. You simply can't do normal people things.

I might not like airport lines but I'd hate to be forbidden from going through that process. I also couldn't just walk down the street to get a pizza. Or go out dancing at night. Or to play board games. Or take a random walk or bike ride around the city. If I was rich and everyone knew it, I'd have to live in a bubble.

That's different from "comfortable rich" where you own your own home and a retirement fund and live mostly normally.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bathtub365 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:06AM (#50421651)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gizajob on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:31AM (#50421845)
You reckon that if the Concorde was still in existence then all the tech billionaires would be avoiding it? I doubt it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hnfong on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:40AM (#50422352)
> I also couldn't just walk down the street to get a pizza.

Well, not necessarily. Jensen Huang was famous for going to random food stalls in Taiwan and eating street food.

It might be harder and riskier, and I get what you mean, but it's not like you actually can't do those things.

Also maybe it's not necessarily a billionaire thing, but more like a fame thing. Billionaires tend to get famous just due to being rich, but I'd imagine a random person wouldn't recognize 80+% of the people on the billionaire list if they saw the billionaire chomping down a pizza in the local pizza place.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bee_rider on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:53AM (#50427261)
I think he probably could do normal things outside of major tech hubs. He isn’t famous for his face, like an actor.

If asked he could say he works for a company that makes some computer part.

“Are they well known?”

“Kinda, but mostly datacenters buy them, you probably don’t own one.”

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:57PM (#50429927)
Keanu Reeves famously rides the subway. You don’t have to isolate yourself.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by GolfPopper on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:39AM (#50421479)
And this is part of why we need a billionaire tax - to help these bright, talented people hold on to their humanity.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by djray on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:56AM (#50421574)
With regards the "What really is the point of somebody hoarding this much wealth?" question, I've been thinking a lot about this recently, as the billionaires accrue more influence than ever before. And I think that's the keyword - 'influence'. After a point, wealth doesn't buy you more things, it buys you power, which is seductive. It goes far beyond making your family comfortable and doing right by your company, employees and shareholders; it becomes a means to lever the world. Yes, some of this drive is about being apart from the real world and possibly an element of personal sociopathy (corporations are famously sociopathic entities, too, which probably rubs off on the C-suite execs), but hedonistic adaptation (we're very good at getting used to things, even vast wealth) and wanting to change the world are (I imagine) very addictive. I imagine it even goes some way to assuaging the embarrassment of The Leader of the Free World calling you his AI Expert...sorry, 'SI' Expert.

And it really doesn't help that all these tech bro billionaires think Ayn Rand was a good writer with some fine ideas.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cowlevel on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:04AM (#50421632)
Related: the market cap of the stock market is basically a conversion factor between currency (for daily purchases) and power (being in charge of all the world's companies). When the market crashes after an election, we shouldn't think of it as "$3T of wealth wiped out", it should be "power gap between normal people and billionaires decreases" (it takes fewer normal people to buy a billionaire's position).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gizajob on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:30AM (#50421841)
You’re making my heart bleed for the suffering alienated billionaire class.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by agent_turtle on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:51AM (#50423384)
yeah you can't pay your bills or afford a home, but that pales in comparison to how lonely billionaires are. makes you think
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jmyeet on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:28AM (#50426123)
Why is reading comprehension so scarce nowadays?

The last paragraph of my comment basically calls these billionaires sociopaths because you have to be to enrich yourself off the backs of making millions of people poor. How is that a defense of billionaires?

My point is that the "prize" isn't even worth it. It doesn't make you happy. Actually there's one way it seems to make them happy: by enjoying the suffering of others and having the power to influence people and even governments. But to what end?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gizajob on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:57AM (#50426513)
Reading comprehension is fine. It’s your writing comprehension.

>So I think this kind of isolation makes such wealthy and/or powerful people more susceptible to this kind of thing because, in a way, they're starved from a lot of human interaction and experiences in a way most of us can't understand (and wouldn't want).

You’re saying here that they’re “starved” of the human contact most of us take for granted (for example in standing around an airport and being squeezed into economy). This is thus a cause for heart-bleeding.

Ingvar Kamprad flew economy and drove and old Volvo. Being extremely wealthy doesn’t have to come with this kind of isolation. If Sergei Brin was flying economy, most of the plane wouldn’t realise who he was and the few who did would be like “oh look it’s Sergei Brin, weird.”

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ryanjshaw on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:07AM (#50422083)
Does wealth do this to people or are people with these tendencies more likely to become wealthy?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:56PM (#50429901)
>the point of somebody hoarding this much wealth? You kind of have to have sociopathic tendencies (IMHO) because such wealth simply cannot exist without the impoverishment of millions of people.

I don’t think there is anyway to justify that position.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by happytoexplain on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:22AM (#50421386)
I appreciate the sentiment, but literally speaking, we may need to have a conversation about what it means to have your "life ruined".
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jxramos on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:25AM (#50421400)
Good reminder to avoid those near occasions of sin.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tetrisgm on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:04PM (#50418533)
His private life is irrelevant. He’s an adult and can do what he wants. It only matters if he spilled secrets to the spy
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Barrin92 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:12PM (#50418642)
It's obviously not irrelevant for two reasons, one practical one moral. The practical one is that you don't need to 'spill' secrets to a spy. Having one around you in private means you can be bugged, blackmailed, have your means of communication compromised and so on. It makes you vulnerable by definition.

Secondly if he's willing to lie to his wife and family he's obviously willing to lie to anyone for much less. It tells you something about the character of a person, how can anyone trust a cheater?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by randyrand on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:47PM (#50419003)
Arguably, cheating is a normal every day part of society. Approximate 2/3rds of people have been cheated on in USA. Much higher in Asia. It’s usually don’t ask don’t tell, not explicit lying.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by b--l on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:59PM (#50419120)
This is an insane comment.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by randyrand on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:17PM (#50419290)
The affair started over two years ago with public photos.

If it was so extraordinary, it wouldn’t be so blatant.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kridsdale1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:04AM (#50421277)
Why? Sounds like your culture made you feel that way.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ncr100 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:30AM (#50421431)
Absurd argument.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dokyun on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:02AM (#50422520)
Baffling reply.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by saberience on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:53AM (#50426478)
Logical response.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yoyohello13 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:18AM (#50421745)
Based on what I’ve seen. Seems like being a good lier would make you a more suitable CEO not less.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by greaterdela on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:02AM (#50422522)
its not really about his private life its about whteher he was manipulated into it wihtout his knowledge. Psychological manipulation is a thing and if they got him to do this what else happened?

https://foxandlion.pub/analysis/traitors-among-us-who-is-vul...

> A balanced, patient, and motivated Machiavellian can wait while they cultivate what they need. They may take 10 years to act; they may well wait 20 years. When the strike comes, it will come out of the blue – and their tracks will already be covered.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tgma on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:05PM (#50418538)
Given what we have seen happen at Supermicro, for example, CEO smuggling NVIDIA chips to China, it seems unlikely that no one at NVIDIA suspected a thing. Why wouldn't they want to bolster their China business?

An "exposure" of affair[1] could very well be the best coverup: "couldn't control my dick" is the ultimate plausible deniability. Timing also makes sense. Better open an investigation and get it closed while this Congress is still in power, as the next one is going to be more in bed in LLM companies than hardware.

[1]: The other party is overtly a customer, not some random individual.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Betelbuddy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:10PM (#50418608)
Supermicro is a company who has a massive scandal every 3 years...go check...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by the_duke on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:05PM (#50418546)
The most interesting might be that this is coming out so publicly.

Someone leaked intelligence assessments to the New York Times.

Maybe this was just a regular leak ... but ... . Jensen has not been playing ball with other parts of the AI industry and the administration ... pushing heavily against export bans and promoting open source models , which is clearly against the interests of SpaceX/OpenAI/Anthropic.

This is of course conspiracy theory territory, but I wouldn't be too surprised if this was an intentional leak.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by icegreentea2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:45PM (#50418990)
I suspect that the "intention" behind the leak isn't really about Jensen or Nvidia, but is just more administration infighting - Jensen is just collateral damage.

Consider the timing of the reporting - the first report from NYT comes out on Nov 6th - just enough time after mid-terms. Consider that follow up reporting clearly identifying Rubio as the author of the in-administration warning memo.

JD and Rubio (and who knows who else) are clearly trying to find ways to distance themselves from Trump without being completely cut to pieces, now that it's completely clear that the Trump brand is toxic.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:06PM (#50420092)
> the first report from NYT comes out on Nov 6th

It came out on Oct/29 instead; the date is there in the URL itself if you find the article behind a paywall.

https://www.nytimes.com/2026/10/29/us/politics/nvidia-china-...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by icegreentea2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:37PM (#50420755)
Oops, nvm.

I still think its possible the leak is due to administration infighting, but definitely less evidence now.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by b--l on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:01PM (#50419139)
The moment I saw the leak I had that exact same thought.

I think everyone with a brain did.

It was done intentionally to send a message to him and to wrap him over the knuckles.

Great people all round.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by metalspot on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:01AM (#50425744)
remember, the only evidence of any criminal activity here is the leak of this story, which is a felony unless directly authorized by a classified executive order.

> The close relationship between the president and Mr. Huang has impeded efforts to clamp down on Nvidia’s chip sales abroad, current and former U.S. officials said.

> This account is based on interviews with people briefed on the surveillance

https://archive.is/lwBvW

the most likely scenario here is that the faction that supports export bans leaked the initial story to try to blackmail Huang into dropping his support for free trade, he refused, so they released the package to damage him as much as possible. likely route, based on the named sources, is senate or house intel agency staffers, using elected officials and classified briefings as cover.

NY Times, Jonathan Swan, and Maggie Haberman would identify this as being firmly located in the anti-Trump faction, so unless it is some super devious reverse play, which seems unlikely for Trump, it is a criminal leak.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xyst on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:07PM (#50418562)
Probably time to step down and take the golden parachute, Huang. Your AI generated letter is doing nothing.

His fate will probably follow the Boston tech company CEO that got caught cheating with HR executive at a Coldplay concert.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ionwake on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:08PM (#50418575)
I feel uncomfortable asking in a thread like this but why would a CEO talk about his private life publically?

I know others have said this is a carefully written statement, but in my culture I would feel it would be rude not to keep it private? Sorry if this sounds autistic.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yeeetz on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:09PM (#50418588)
it's a public company, he's ceo, large implications for stock movements, corporate strategy, volatility if it goes to us govt intervention, divorce court, etc
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butternet on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:10PM (#50418597)
In this instance the two have become linked due to his choices, hence the need to explain.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethanj8011 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:10PM (#50418599)
Mainly because the person he was having the affair with was a customer of the company and because they are reported to have possibly been a spy for the Chinese government. All of these things have a direct impact on the confidence of employees.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonfamous on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:28PM (#50418821)
I’d imagine as with most big companies having a relationship with a customer is a big HR violation. So at least that aspect would have to be addressed.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antonymoose on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:11PM (#50419225)
I’ve seen founders fired and their equity forefeit for such conduct. This being a 20M / ARR firm.

Perhaps this is a too big to fail scenario?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ergocoder on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:14PM (#50421000)
I don't think it's too big to fail. Jensen is a billionaire who doesn't really need to work. This gives him a lot of leverage. He isn't desperate to make a living.

Imagine he is fired, unloads all stocks, and starts a new company. This would cause NVIDIA a bigger issue.

Also, this means Jensen would get to unload the stock at the peak.... Democrats won and is about to be way more responsible than Trump. Cue Luo Pei from Enron... the luckiest guy on the planet.

Dating a customer who isn't a big customer isn't really a big deal. Her being a Chinese spy isn't Jensen's fault. If anything, he is a victim.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bmitc on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:26PM (#50421065)
> This gives him a lot of leverage. He isn't desperate to make a living.

He cofounded the company over 30 years ago. He isn't just a rich person with a desk job he doesn't care about.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:21AM (#50427671)
Which makes it even more likely he’d start a competitor.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bmitc on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:47PM (#50429763)
How would that even work?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xhevahir on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:10PM (#50418605)
Because there's a question whether this woman is working covertly for a country that's known to do a lot of industrial espionage.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by urams on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:11PM (#50418623)
Because he got honey potted by a CCP spy which specifically puts himself and Nvidia at risk.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by barbacoa on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:12PM (#50418638)
It's being reported that the girl he was involved with was spying for China and this was some kind of honey pot operation.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vigilantpuma on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:17PM (#50418695)
*woman
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Conscat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:13PM (#50419241)
To be clear, she is an adult woman.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:58PM (#50420038)
That should already be clear. Otherwise "was involved with" would not be an appropriate/applicable term.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jdiff on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:26PM (#50420233)
It's not at all given that it would be appropriate.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:08PM (#50420543)
> given that it would be appropriate.

Uh... no... it would not be considered appropriate for Jensen to be having an affair with a child, which is the current subtext.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jdiff on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:15AM (#50422612)
Not exactly subtext but yes, it would be inappropriate. This does not mean it is impossible.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jacquesm on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:05PM (#50419666)
Unlike some other Americans Huang seems to at least have a preference for people who are no longer minors, also, using 'girl' robs the woman of agency.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:25PM (#50420226)
> using 'girl' robs the woman of agency

... only if she hates the word 'girl', I guess. Which we don't know. Personally, I know many grown women (30's, 40's+) who are perfectly alright with the word "girl". It is contextual, and often times cultural (i.e. your background).

No offense, but this is why it can often be pernicious to do drive-by virtue-signaling online.

> Unlike some other Americans Huang seems to at least have a preference for people who are no longer minors

What does this even mean?... do you think what you're implying is exclusive to Americans? Honestly that's what it sounds like.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vigilantpuma on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:37PM (#50420321)
Most women who are okay with being called a girl are okay with it only in certain contexts. For example I don’t know any woman who is in her 30s or 40s who would be okay with being referred to as a girl in a professional context.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:05PM (#50420521)
> professional context.

But this isn't the workplace slack. And again, correcting is one thing, but only if you're unequivocally correct, which the above poster is not.

To be honest, it seems what they've mainly accomplished is cause a distraction from the substance of what the person was trying to convey.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vigilantpuma on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:42PM (#50420797)
Yeah, workplace slack isn’t what I am talking about.

You are also not “unequivocally correct” so perhaps you are applying a standard to others you can’t live up to yourself.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:51PM (#50420867)
I might be mistaken about this, but your point isn't clear.

And instead of a clarification, you replied with a straw-man:

> perhaps you are applying a standard to others you can’t live up to yourself.

I never claimed to be "unequivocally correct”.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vigilantpuma on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:04PM (#50430046)
No, but you did seem to imply that unless one is unequivocally correct, one should not be issuing corrections. Perhaps I misread.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by umeshunni on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:13PM (#50418644)
The person he has an affair with turned out to be a Chinese spy and he's being investigated by the government for this.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TheAlchemist on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418656)
Generally speaking, it's normal to keep it private.

Unless the CEO happens to be the CEO of what is considered one of the most important company for national security and future, and his private life involves somebody who appears to be a spy for the biggest competitor for world hegemony. Then it's kind of big deal for everybody.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ricksunny on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:55AM (#50423422)
>for the biggest competitor for world hegemony.

thank you for maintining the WW1->Cold War era great-game / hegemonic frame. Nation-states love you for it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by glitchbot on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418662)
Because the purpose was to get leverage, and Intel. Once she couldn't gather passive Intel, they would use the affair as blackmail, ole school is the best school.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wrexx0r on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:14PM (#50418663)
It seems to be a combination of things First off, hhe person he was having an affair with has ties to Chinese Spy agencies (not sure the ties, but either way, not a great look for someone trying to be deeply involved with America's government)

It also sounds like it was known something was going on with foreign agencies and Jensen, do this puts it out in the open and clears the air.

Lastly, if anyone was trying to use the affair as leverage over him, the best way to break the leverage is to just come out and spill the tea yourself (so to speak)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:22AM (#50427685)
Hasn’t that shipped with Trump’s ties to Putin?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by peeters on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:15PM (#50418671)
There are some things shareholders have to legitimately reckon with, that warrant a statement:

- Is this person susceptible to blackmail from the secrets they're keeping?

- Has this person performed a notable breach of trust?

- Has this person displayed a notable lack of judgement?

Even when the alleged misconduct is private, #1 is of particular concern. Airing it out is an obvious way to lessen that specific concern. The allegations here raise the other concerns too, however.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Keyframe on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:18PM (#50418701)
I wrote in another thread here, this is extremely serious:

Bedding an adversarial entity's agent in a regulated field is a serious matter (for the company) with potentially serious consequences. It can lead to executive decapitation, it can even lead to / criminal investigations if the operative bypassed export controls using executive proximity.. the fallout can be great and widespread.

It can also be a nothingburger and an amusing page six divorce story in the end where we all read how rich cry as well. Time will tell. What's telling of where this might lead and how serious it is, is that it was US federal government that warned about this.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vigilantpuma on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418730)
I could see how it’s rude for a CEO to be bringing up his affairs, but how is it rude to address public revelations?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hoppp on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418731)
I agree that cheating or not their private life is theirs, I'm not interested in their family drama.

However if he cheated with a chinese spy then he was targeted by China and that raises this to a national security risk.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bluegatty on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:21PM (#50418733)
He's forced to - he would not make the statement unless he had to come clean with it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Brybry on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:49PM (#50419023)
Indeed, he lied and said he only had a normal business relationship until further media and government scrutiny forced him to admit it.

> “Our relationship, our interactions, have been related to Megaspeed, and it was all completely normal and not unusual,” [1]

[1] https://www.bloomberg.com/news/articles/2026-10-29/nvidia-ce... => https://archive.li/ljGPF#selection-1731.0-1731.119

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:23PM (#50418762)
He's kicking off a redemption tour. The world will now decide if his tone is sincere enough, and how long it should take to forgive him.

Not long I suspect, we don't expect much from tech CEOs. Nobody even remembers when Bezos cheated on his wife.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ahartmetz on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:37PM (#50418912)
I guess no one noticed because they all looked the same. I imagine Bezos in the wife store like "Oh yeah, I like exactly that look. Gimme another one of these!"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by RussianBot9580 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:33AM (#50422747)
Umm, the particular android Bezos picked is quite unique. His ex-wife actually looked human.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pimeys on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:38PM (#50418922)
We'll get a kind of a "Gone Girl" moment but with geopolitics.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by elorant on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:26PM (#50418791)
So that no one can extort him in private. Same happened with Bezos when his phone was hacked. He was the one who came forward to speak about what was shared by his phone.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ChrisMarshallNY on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:34PM (#50418883)
If I remember, the perpetrators were determined to be the Saudis. I don't remember the reason, but they had an axe to grind.

I never got to (or wanted to) see the images, but, by all reports, he ... er ... had nothing to be ashamed of.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by peri-cl on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:00PM (#50419133)
> "I don't remember the reason, but they had an axe to grind."

Technically, it was a saw. The Saudi King was mad at Bezos because of a column in the Washington Post (which Bezos had purchased).

https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2020/jan/21/amazon-bo...

> "Saudi experts – dissidents and analysts – told the Guardian they believed Bezos was probably targeted because of his ownership of the Post and its coverage of Saudi Arabia. Khashoggi’s critical columns about Mohammed bin Salman and his campaign of repression against activists and intellectuals rankled the crown prince and his inner circle."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ChrisMarshallNY on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:05PM (#50419175)
That's right. Khashoggi wrote for the WP.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bradlys on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:29PM (#50418845)
When we give individuals the same power as people in highest legal positions of power - they deserve immense scrutiny.

Jensen is as powerful as any politician, if not more so. Same with Elon, etc.

If you don't want that then get rid of the ability for such individuals to amass so much power outside of publicly voted anointed positions.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gfrttttttq on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:43PM (#50419481)
I swear this is a bot. I refuse to believe it's not a bot. It has to be a bot.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ionwake on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:47AM (#50423830)
lol
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by octoberfranklin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:00PM (#50419622)
To cut off the possibility of blackmail. At personal great cost, of course.

That's the real reason that this affair is a problem. It made him blackmailable.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by golly_ned on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:25PM (#50419787)
No one here is getting it right.

It's because the woman is a member of the PRC, and it's being made into a national security issue, regardless of whether he announces it or not.

The strategic thing is for him to come forward first.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:55PM (#50420020)
> why would a CEO talk about his private life publically?

Because it's already public. This is called "getting ahead of/seizing the narrative"

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kwisatzh on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:53PM (#50420431)
there are indications that he continued the affair even after being tipped off by the US intelligence agencies -- which would constitute treason. An apology would just be a first step to ward off serious charges, if there are serious charges levied. Not that anything would happen in the large scheme of things, given JH has bought off the orange turd.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:24AM (#50427732)
What actions would constitute treason?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by [deleted] on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:17PM (#50421020)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by not-kinsale-joe on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:07AM (#50423025)
Because its already public information. In your culture would you pretend like it ever happened even tough everybody else knows about it and are making their own narratives.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anuptalwalkar on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:11PM (#50418618)
Would this lead to him stepping down or dialing it up? NVDIA will be fine with either way, but how much does he really adds to its value?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jpgvm on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:47AM (#50421941)
As an Nvidian - Jensen is the single most important part of Nvidia. Speaking personally I couldn't care less about this particular lapse in judgement because every example if have seen in professional circumstances his judgement has been stellar. It sucks for his family life but that shouldn't become our business and should remain private. If she really is a spy that might suck a bit for our relationship with the US government for a short period but it's not something that can't be managed and overcome.

It's not a nothing burger but if it results in Jensen leaving Nvidia that would be a travesty IMO. We shouldn't push people out for making a mistake, especially one that should in any other circumstance not become public.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anuptalwalkar on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:07PM (#50430107)
If you call letting a spy blackmail and control you, just a mistake being at such an influential level, I don't know what to say. A mistake, a bug in code, or slip of the tongue here and there. This is a catastrophic level of security gap where your CEO can be making decisions for another controlling and governing entity.

If you cause a data leak at NVDIA, or say making decisions at your level based on an external entity blackmailing you and got caught, would your boss still say, "We shouldn't push people out for making a mistake"?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:35PM (#50430629)
How do you know you have done the same thing?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cladopa on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:18PM (#50418704)
If you are one of the most powerful man on earth you are going to be the target of all the secret services of all powerful countries. Period.

It is their job. You take decisions that are worth billions, you influence people that take decisions that are worth billions, and affect their countries.

They are going to study you for years. Your personality type and that of the people around you. Your weaknesses. Your problems and that of your family.

They will employ the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world to create the perfect Honey trap.

Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

It is not just a woman wanting to have sex with you. It will be the woman in your dreams.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fantasizr on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418722)
few of us can imagine the problems that come with being that type of leader/ceo. Knowing who trust and who is using you is a challenge
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nunez on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:36PM (#50419427)
thats why you hire professional security people who've played these games...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by giancarlostoro on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418754)
Makes you wonder if this is why Elon just doesn’t stay attached to one person.

But another reason why as someone of such a high caliber you should never be alone with other women. Always have a bodyguard or something, surely you can afford someone…

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lukan on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:26PM (#50418789)
"you should never be alone with other women. Always have a bodyguard or something"

I mean, each to his own, but there are times when I would not want a bodyguard involved.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by giancarlostoro on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:38AM (#50421468)
It's something someone I know that they suggested after observing so many have affairs, and it always stemmed from private settings where a married person and an unmarried (sometimes married, but less likely) person wound up having an affair usually emotional vulnerabilities or business was involved.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by andsoitis on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:35PM (#50418899)
> But another reason why as someone of such a high caliber you should never be alone with other women.

That would preclude having a meeting with a female unless there's a bodyguard but not need one when you're meeting with a guy?

That would be quite weird.

Just keep your dick in your pants.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ChrisMarshallNY on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:43PM (#50418967)
This is likely a reason that they use escort services (like those provided by a certain "hung" pimp), and they tend to marry very high-profile folks. It's not about having a "trophy spouse," but having someone that can't really leverage you.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jacobolus on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:49PM (#50419024)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rubyfan on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:50PM (#50419034)
CEOs are not “high caliber” people.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cozzyd on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:03PM (#50419154)
ok, Mike Pence.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by InsidiousWombat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:54PM (#50419577)
Well if he as unlikeable in person as he seems on any media he's on, I'm not really surprised
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by c0nducktr on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:01PM (#50419629)
I'd wager this is very low on the list of reasons Elon doesn't stay attached to one person lol
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by slashnode on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:25PM (#50418777)
stop making excuses for these people.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by neya on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:45PM (#50418984)
"these people" ?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Forgeties79 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:00PM (#50419131)
Rich people who can’t help themselves to whatever they want/see because they are too powerful/rich and have lost perspective. They think they can do whatever they want with impunity because most of the time they can. Then once in a while there are actual repercussions and someone wants us to be sympathetic? Get outta here
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by method_capital on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:12PM (#50419229)
Rich people, lol. I think this tale's been told cross income net worth strata for something on the order of eons (or all of human history if you really want to know).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Forgeties79 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:26PM (#50419353)
And yet would go to bat for you and I claiming we deserve sympathy for having an affair?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by neya on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:13PM (#50419235)
> Get outta here

Lol, don't take out your anger for not being rich at random people on the internet. Affairs are common across diverse economic profiles of people, not just the rich. All that anger for nothing.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Forgeties79 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:24PM (#50419348)
I’m not angry, I’m laughing at how nonsensical this is.

Yes affairs are unfortunately common but this whole honey pot thing is ridiculous. That doesn’t suddenly make me sympathetic.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by c0nducktr on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:21PM (#50420190)
Seriously. They're asking us to give this guy more grace than any other cheater because he's wealthy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Forgeties79 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:30PM (#50421083)
It’s so bizarre
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by BoingBoomTschak on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:16PM (#50419275)
People for whom fidelity is optional.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fuzzythrowaway2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:49PM (#50419027)
Yeah, you don't need to go that deep. Look through histories, myths, folklore from all around the world. Powerful men have mistresses. Regular men have mistresses. Powerful women go through several husbands. Regular women, too. The institution of marriage exists to counteract the natural human tendency to be "unfaithful". No one needs to make excuses, they need to accept the fact that this kind of thing happens and update their expectations.

I say this as someone who's family was torn apart by an affair, by a failure to update expectations. Well, that was the excuse; the issues were deeper, the affair was a focus-sink and an excuse not to address them. I wonder if that's the case here, too.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 14u2c on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:43PM (#50419486)
No judgement on the approach but I do advise being careful not to blame yourself for the actions of others. Sometimes your own expectations are valid.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by muglug on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:34PM (#50420300)
> Jensen and Kim calculated that, for men in their first year of marriage, the divorce rate is 96 percent higher for Oscar nominees and 205 percent higher for winners

When men suddenly get more attention from women, they're more likely to cheat. Interestingly, women who earn Oscars are more likely to keep their husbands than other actresses.

https://newrepublic.com/article/121108/oscar-curse-myth

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ricksunny on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:00AM (#50422500)
>The institution of marriage exists to counteract the natural human tendency to be "unfaithful". No one needs to make excuses, they need to accept the fact that this kind of thing happens and update their expectations.

fair observation and sad society’s current script still demands it be posted under anon throwaway account.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jrflowers on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:46PM (#50419947)
There’s a 100% chance the dude was so hornt up that he didn’t care if he slept with a spy or whatever. Inventing a universe where he lost at Six Dimensional Sex Chess is what somebody would do for an AO3 story
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by method_capital on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:25PM (#50418783)
Sign me up!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bonoboTP on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:30PM (#50418856)
Huh, makes you wonder why this isn't available overboard via expensive matchmaking. And if it is why doesn't he use it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by corndoge on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:40PM (#50418941)
A plausible reason would be that he was not looking to have an affair but rather was actively seduced. Someone not looking to have an affair would not use a matchmaking service.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kshacker on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:58PM (#50419109)
Been there done that.

lol I am not the richest man, not even close and nothing physical happened. But I once got into a parasocial relationship after decades of monogamy and no dalliances. Never planned for it, and in hindsight years later don't know what happened. And it was so cathartic.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by overfeed on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:46PM (#50419946)
Were you an Onlyfans whale?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kshacker on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:15AM (#50425958)
No. Never spent money on these sites. Some things just happen, quite randomly. No more details.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by overfeed on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:46PM (#50428851)
I wasn't judging, I wanted to understand how it happened, and the added context is appreciated.

I don't know of that was your case, but many times, its a series of small, seemingly justifiable yet ill-advised, boundary-pushing (yet thrilling!) decisions that lead to somewhere messy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kshacker on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:21PM (#50430334)
Sure. I understand. My comment was meant to indicate that I never thought I would get where I did. Clean until you are not. Yes. Small small things becoming an obsession.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:02PM (#50420933)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by selcuka on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:58PM (#50419113)
Remember that in the above scenario the seducer is an agent for hire (or she's doing it for patriotic or other reasons), not genuinely in love with the rich exec. Honest matchmaking can't guarantee the same experience in every instance.

Obviously the exec could have paid for the same service himself, but that wouldn't be called matchmaking (and it's not what most people seek).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bonoboTP on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:10PM (#50419207)
Good points. It's a one sided match that's in part due to acting. And person often isn't actively seeking it out consciously.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hamdingers on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:48PM (#50419526)
They don't go out and find your perfect match, they get someone that works for them to act like your perfect match.

This does exist as a service and is considered by many to be the oldest profession in the world.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tauwauwau on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:31PM (#50418857)
Sure, so its a given that they will fall to such tricks? If that's the case, may be don't develop a one person cult of personality and power. They're paid enough to look out for precisely for these things so that they don't make mistakes that'll ruin 100s of people's lives, yet they don't have such concerns when making stupid decisions. He is not designing chips, burning midnight oil on trying to figure out how to dissipate enough heat to get best performance from the chip, the kind of problems that actually are consequential. He is the pizza guy, yet cant do that well.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yread on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:31PM (#50418862)
I don't know... I mean I'm just a CEO of a one man company and even I get suspicious when a woman is too nice to me. Surely, with more responsibility you should get even more paranoid
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by afavour on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:33PM (#50418878)
So you keep it in your pants. I mean, come on.

> Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

She’s a woman, not a sweet from Willy Wonka’s factory. You just say no.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ip26 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:46PM (#50418993)
I think the point is you have a nation-state adversary with millions of dollars and many teams of people working around the clock for years to figure out how to make you say yes. Including not crafting a persona who is too perfect, because that would obviously arouse suspicions.

Obviously the target has agency, I don't deny that, but it seems blindingly shortsighted to think it's as simple as "be suspicious of supermodels who are into you".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Capricorn2481 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:21PM (#50419322)
Maybe I'm just weird, but I love my wife and wouldn't cheat on her, even if a nation state tried to craft some kind of "ideal woman." It's a bit alarming so many people on this thread are treating it like a foregone conclusion that all men are doomed to cheat on their wives if given the right hair color and conversation topics.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by reassess_blind on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:38PM (#50419442)
Well to be fair, you haven't been put in that situation so it's hard to say how you would act. I'm sure many people who have affairs believed, 3 months prior, that they would never be the type to have an affair.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ip26 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:51PM (#50419559)
It's not a forgone conclusion, but from a defensive perspective the threat model is more sophisticated than you're assuming.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jltsiren on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:42PM (#50419920)
It could be a matter of personality. Some people are happy with what they have, while others are fundamentally unhappy. Unusually successful people tend to be of the latter type.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by overfeed on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:59PM (#50420044)
> Maybe I'm just weird, but I love my wife and wouldn't cheat on her

I agree with you, but, brain chemistry is weird, and "wouldn't cheat on them" is easier said than done and requires a lot of discipline in the heat of the moment when the situation arises and your own hind-brain and hormones are fighting you.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Capricorn2481 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:48AM (#50423837)
That's a valid and measured take, but most of the comments in here are not talking about the affair in such terms. They are mostly painting Jensen as some kind of innocent child who was manipulated with Jedi Mind Tricks, when there's no reason to think her approach was anything but blunt.

I don't even care that much about what Jensen did, I don't even know what his marriage is like. It wouldn't bother me if he stayed on Nvidia. But people are defending him in a way that comes off less like "we can all make a dumb mistake on the wrong day" and more like "all men want secretly to ditch their wives, and his mistake was doing it with a spy."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by afavour on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:30PM (#50420269)
I don’t even know that suspicion needs to come into it. Don’t have affairs that are connected to your job as a billion dollar CEO. She wasn’t a barista he met at a coffee shop one morning, she was a professional connection with ties to the industry. It’s not too much to ask people earning insane amounts of money to avoid mixing work and pleasure.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ip26 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:58AM (#50427314)
Yeah, can’t disagree with you here, that’s the hard counter.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by steve_taylor on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:34PM (#50418891)
All that effort only to discover Jensen likes what every man likes.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by peri-cl on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:36PM (#50418905)
Expensive video cards?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jayd16 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:40PM (#50419460)
This is what happens when you lose sight of what's important....sweet video games.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stephc_int13 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:35PM (#50418893)
True, to some extent. But also, he should know and see it coming, and people in his entourage should also see it and be briefed/watched by services.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ip26 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:40PM (#50418938)
It's a cat and mouse game. Obviously, the adversary will in turn do everything in their power to make it look natural and get past that kind of defensiveness.

Perhaps as far as to say, the only suspicious thing about the perfect agent would be the lack of anything to be suspicious of.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rtpg on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:47PM (#50419005)
I mean he should just not have an affair, independent of whether the other person is a spy or not.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by testbjjl on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:35PM (#50418900)
But you know, she doesn’t really want you, unless you let yourself.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by corndoge on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:36PM (#50418910)
Or the woman was in fact not a spy and that's the story to get this sympathetic reaction.

we will never know

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mosura on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:39PM (#50418934)
A significant proportion of the people I know that won the startup lottery ended up losing the money when the girl they were into at high school flies themselves at them, has their kids, then goes back to the dude they were with before with the kids and child support, and this is relatively small fry and without any possible gov involvement.

The people in here acting like they would be immune to all this are kidding themselves.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Capricorn2481 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:09PM (#50419198)
> A significant proportion of the people I know that won the startup lottery ended up losing the money when the girl they were into at high school flies themselves at them, has their kids, then goes back to the dude they were with before with the kids and child support

What in the world are you talking about? Most successful people you know get honeypotted by their high school crush? How did you determine it was a honeypot and not just a regular divorce? This doesn't come off like a genuine insight into how the world works, this looks like someone determined to only view women as temptress succubi.

> The people in here acting like they would be immune to all this are kidding themselves

Maybe speak for yourself.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antonymoose on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:09PM (#50419205)
“If she’s a 10 she’s an (intelligence) asset”

That principle works for anyone with means to seize.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by skhr0680 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:30PM (#50419389)
That's for other people. This time is different.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bilbo0s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:36PM (#50419878)
>That principle works for anyone with means to seize.

Believing that is the first step to a compromise. This principle works for anyone period.

Just think everyone should consider the possibility that no one really needs the head of R&D. For good intelligence agencies, the guy who does low level IT will do nicely thank you very much.

No one, man or woman, grows closer to being a 10 as they age. So if you work for some of these critical companies and your perfect man or woman shows up, you should be on your guard.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anal_reactor on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:39PM (#50420328)
> So if you work for some of these critical companies and your perfect man or woman shows up, you should be on your guard.

TBH if I was higher up the chain of command, I'd actually give less fucks. If I have a mortgage I cannot afford to lose job or money so I'm on guard because I'm one failed marriage away from homelessness. But if I have ten million dollars to my name, and a Chinese spy shows up then what exactly do I have to lose? If the company kicks me out then good riddance, I can already retire to perfect comfort and nobody can take away the memory of spending a year with a 10/10 partner.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TZubiri on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:52PM (#50420425)
If you know for a fact they are a spy, are we sure that they are the ones doing the finessing? can’t you just feed them false intel and develop a syncretic religion between their confucianism and my catholicism such that they don’t know who is brainwashing who?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anal_reactor on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:03PM (#50420510)
I wouldn't care about giving out real intel in exchange for a passionate romance because that's something you cannot buy with money.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by WheatMillington on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:28PM (#50419370)
This does not sound like something you've ACTUALLY encountered multiple times.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by InsidiousWombat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:50PM (#50419551)
40% first marriages in US end in divorce. Second marriages have 60%. 2/3 initiated by women

You just need to know few people to qualify for "multiple times"

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tenacious_tuna on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:08PM (#50419686)
It's a large jump from "divorces happen a lot" to "many startup founders have their highschool sweetheart honeypot them for child support"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bilbo0s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:27PM (#50419802)
In fairness, it seems like everyone is a startup founder. I can't tell you the number of CV's and resumes I've seen that have CEO of something I've never heard of on them.

Just saying that being a startup founder is not particularly rare or special the past twenty years. You don't even have to do particularly well with your startup. People probably get targeted for a measly 750K exit. I think on HN we get a twisted opinion of what is big money to most people.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by HaZeust on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:52PM (#50419993)
>" I think on HN we get a twisted opinion of what is big money to most people."

>"a measly 750K exit"

No kidding, lol.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by helterskelter2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:56PM (#50420027)
> 2/3 initiated by women

You say this like 2/3 of divorce is the fault of women, but IME they usually have good reason to do so.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by afavour on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:47PM (#50420390)
Agreed. If we’re talking inconvenient truths, I see far, far more husbands being useless married (and particularly parental) partners than I do wives. And I say this as a man.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TZubiri on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:48PM (#50420401)
I’m assuming “initiated by” is an objective legal term for filing the divorce. which ironically is probably oppositely correlated to fault in divorces, i.e if the husband cheats, the wife files for divorce, and it was the husband’s ‘fault’ as they breaches the marital contract
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by missedthecue on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:57PM (#50420903)
The figure comes from interview data of post-divorce couples regarding motives for divorce (and a few other questions, i.e. regret etc). It's not literal paperwork filing data.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shdjhdfh on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:31PM (#50420709)
I'm fairly sure they meant entirely the opposite.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by poilcn on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:54PM (#50420441)
There is no conspiracy in it

Divorce implies involvement of a government institution and women feel like a fish in water when it comes to bureaucracy, while men avoid it

That's why in same-sex pairs women are twice likely to call cops and file a lawsuit regarding house abuse and men half as often

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by com2kid on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:09PM (#50420555)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by irishcoffee on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:03PM (#50419653)
I sure have. I’m surprised you’re surprised.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by faangguyindia on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:42PM (#50419917)
People are missing the point; it depends on the "circle" you are in. Not all will have the same experiences occurring at the same frequency.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mosura on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:56PM (#50420022)
This is how you know this is a male dominated forum: women would not be remotely surprised and in fact tend to be the only ones warning of it when it is about to happen.

And let’s face it, nerds are especially vulnerable.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bardan on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:15PM (#50420140)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hansonkd on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:45PM (#50419503)
Sounds like you have little to no experience with people who won the startup lottery.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by InsidiousWombat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:51PM (#50419558)
Sounds like you don't know that divorce rate is near 50% and mostly initiated by the woman
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Timon3 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:02PM (#50419636)
The divorce rate could be 99% without GP's situation ever happening. This stat says nothing by itself.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rafram on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:22PM (#50420196)
You say “mostly initiated by the woman” like it proves something about women maliciously ending marriages to make off with their husbands’ earnings. Have you met men? Many are eminently divorcible. A lot of people have bad relationships that should’ve never started, and it’s not surprising that it falls to the woman to eventually call it quits.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Revanche1367 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:48PM (#50419527)
This sounds incredibly unlikely to happen to multiple people a person knows but “significant proportion” is vague enough for it to still be true even it’s just one. But, I think people are misreading that you’re suggesting these were honey traps rather than just high school crushes taking advantage of men they ignored earlier in life when they become rich and then abandoning them once they no longer are.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by v3ss0n on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:48PM (#50419528)
That remind me of founder of a really good, Realtime NoSQL Database .. RethinkDB . And his wisdom that he hard earned still reminds me not to repeat his mistake.. ~Don't Hire a Hot young girl before you have product market fit.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:52PM (#50420870)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by v3ss0n on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:00AM (#50421259)
its hard... u know ( no pun intended)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jongjong on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:16PM (#50419729)
They're patriotic women in both cases; in the former case, by stealing industrial secrets, in this case, doing their duty to help decentralize their nations' wealth though the court system.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cgomez on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:23PM (#50419768)
This is why I refuse to give up reading HN comments. For absolute nonsensical gems like this.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pseudohadamard on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:33PM (#50419857)
Dear world's intelligence agencies,

On the chance that I might one day become the CEO of a very important company, could you forward me my dream girl in advance? Thanks.

PH.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by zarzavat on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:52PM (#50419988)
Marriage and hyperindividualism are a dangerous mix.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by surgical_fire on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:52PM (#50419989)
> The people in here acting like they would be immune to all this are kidding themselves.

People in here are probably salty that they are not valuable enough to be targeted by some sexy Chinese spy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by in_cahoots on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:37PM (#50420319)
This reads like someone with zero familiarity with divorces or people in general.

- anyone with enough money to be targeted like this has enough money to get a prenup.

- most states do 50-50 custody these days unless one parent gives up their rights. So any child support would be decent, but not life-changing. Doubly so if the guy is rich enough to be targeted, in which case he's also rich enough to hire a good lawyer. The woman in this scenario has less money, so she can't get as strong a lawyer unless she's gambling that he'll have to pay her legal fees.

- With 50-50 custody the woman can't fly out of state to raise the kids, the court frowns on uprooting them from their hometown / school system.

The only way this makes sense is if the guy relinquishes all his rights to the kid, in which case he's hardly a hero either.

This isn't even considering the ridiculous notion that this woman has a man on the side just waiting for her to get knocked up with some millionaire's child.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by UqWBcuFx6NV4r on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:00PM (#50420920)
I guess that with AO3 being down people have to turn to HN to post their sick fantasies. This sounds like something straight outta Andrew Tate’s fear mongering playbook. If your worldview is such that you thought that anyone would believe this nonsense story then I’d hate to know what else you believe.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by arjie on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:14AM (#50421336)
Not my experience in SF. About the worst sin they’ve committed is moving to Walnut Creek to get a big house - which is admittedly fairly criminal an act.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xboxnolifes on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:41PM (#50418946)
All of this makes sense assuming you aren't married. An affair is still an affair. If it was just about finding the perfect partner, he should have gotten a divorce first.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by OtherShrezzing on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:43PM (#50418963)
> Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

I think most normal people have tried Doritos at some point, which are the flavour-equivalent of what you’re describing here. It’s food designed to satisfy your human needs and desires.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jcranmer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:43PM (#50418966)
It's... really not that hard. All you have to do is be content with what you have, and not go lusting after new opportunities. Although granted, anyone who can pull that off probably isn't going to be a multibillionaire CEO, because that's the kind of personality selected against among CEOs.

But if you're married, with kids, and you're willing to throw that away to chase someone else, I'd argue you have a serious personality flaw going on there.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ksec on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:50PM (#50419030)
>to chase someone else,

There is no chase here. It is the other way round.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jcranmer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:53PM (#50419061)
Even if someone else is initiating it, you still have the power to say no. Especially if you're rich enough to be able to do things like apply for restraining orders or else to keep them away.

Jensen wasn't an innocent victim, he was still an active, voluntary participant.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cataphract on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:09PM (#50419202)
Yes, but more or less in the same sense that drug addicts have the power to say "no".

It's not that easy to rebuff approaches from women you're very attracted to; it's much easier to avoid having the opportunity come up in the first place. I think at the very least the moral judgment should be accompanied by some empathy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ksec on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:46PM (#50419506)
May be a better analogy is simply not any drugs, but a well funded and researched unique drug that is specifically designed for the target.

I am going to guess Jensen isn't even looking for beauty, although that is certainly part of the deal. But someone who is also business savvy, understands technology, smart and somehow well connected to AI as well as a business partner in some sense.

And perhaps it is worth pointing out the obvious, this isn't a simple beauty trap, it is a pys-op.

Although there is part of that thinks. Could Jensen knew of this all along. And it was just a way to get business going.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by c0nducktr on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:57PM (#50419596)
You're telling on yourself here.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by plasticchris on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:30PM (#50419829)
Just look what happened to Leto II
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by appplication on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:05PM (#50419171)
Being content with what you have arguably not a mutually compatible attribute with being a billionaire. Not even being snarky.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jcranmer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:09PM (#50419197)
I'm not going to disagree with you--I've said multiple times in the past (not sure if I've said it here) that I don't think it's possible to be both ethical and a billionaire.

But that's not really a defense of the behavior, and it's perhaps a sign that we should stop valorizing billionaires.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by WalterBright on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:04PM (#50420070)
Billionaires become that way by creating products and services that people are freely willing to pay for.

Nothing unethical about it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fxwin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:18PM (#50419292)
> All you have to do is be content with what you have, and not go lusting after new opportunities

What if Huang wasn't married/with family? Does he just never get to form close relationships after becoming successful?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by FireBeyond on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:24PM (#50419778)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sidewndr46 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:11PM (#50420115)
Isn't there actually a south park episode about this?

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexual_Healing_(South_Park)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by blini-kot on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:12PM (#50420126)
>serious personality flaw

exactly, although I would double down that that is precisely the kind of personality being selected for by the system

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Teever on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:44PM (#50418972)
While the dynamic for the physical security of the rich and powerful has changed a bit due to drones, up until recently it was neigh impossible for the common person to threaten the physical security of someone like this, or for nation-states to do so without being noticed.

That meant that the only way to attack these people was a soft attack in the form of social interactions or social media and as such it's always struck me as extremely foolish for these kinds of people to let themselves be preyed upon in this manner.

Like they have teams of people who keep them physically safe, but not mentally safe, so in the age of social media a motivated attacker can, with enough cleverness[0][1] directly reach the mind of someone who otherwise couldn't be reached.

Why does that happen?

I think it's not so much because they're juicy targets that entities with unlimited resources can meticulously target like you describe but because people like Jensen Huang or Bill Gates are very technically competent they probably lack the social skills so they're too often the Michael Scott to the Todd Packer in situations like this[2] and when a hint of opportunity to be sexually promiscuous is presented to them they seize on it without thinking of the consequences.

Think of the married blue collar dudes who pick up bored divorcees at some dive sports bar after watching the big game and then drive home drunk, juggling multiple mistresses and a family life with relative ease for years.

A manager like Jensen Huang may be able to handle multiple business units but he can't manage a single mistress handling his unit because that just isn't his skill set.

[0] https://gwern.net/doc/www/web.archive.org/5e00c6993450adc597...

[1] https://www.npr.org/2010/06/08/127564512/for-the-love-of-goo...

[2] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W-Ci_oopVTk

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fuzzythrowaway2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:03PM (#50419151)
Maybe. Or maybe the point of acquiring outsize money and power to many people is to unshackle their experience of the world, and to impose their philosophy on it. Physical security is one thing; I reckon most aren't signing up to be brainwashed for the good of the company (beyond WUSA or whatever).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jacquesm on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:58PM (#50419605)
A drone is a pretty extreme measure. A mistress is a very long term plan with long term ROI if not discovered and comes with the ability to influence decisions. It is far more valuable than being able to murder random people.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Teever on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:25PM (#50419785)
Agreed. The drone comment as an aside just to head-off people saying "Well actually people aren't so physically secure anymore..."

The point I'm trying to make is that people at this level can and often do have absolute physical security but have almost comical[0] lapses in psychological/mental security that lead to the kinds of things that you're describing.

The severity of this issue makes me wonder why it seemingly isn't accounted for appropriately in security threat modelling. You'd think that that the handlers for a dweeb like Huang or Gates would take the appropriate steps to mitigate the threat, if only by adopting harm-reduction principles and getting their CEO honey-pot an in-house honey pot to proactively fend off external threats.

[0] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cP4d74Qk3ac

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SaucyWrong on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:46PM (#50419942)
I agree, but I wonder what is the threat model for the CEO saying, “shut up, I’m your employer. Let this person through.”

I’m not sure somebody with an infatuation and ultimate authority over you is something a security person can work into the threat model.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Teever on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:52PM (#50420428)
This reminds me of Ralph Klein, the former Premier of Alberta affectionality. / derisively referred to as 'King Ralph'[0] who had a reputation for drinking and gambling. On the one hand it apparently made him exceptionally accessible to the electorate because you could saddle up to him at his regular drinking spots and give him a piece of your mind but on the other hand it lead to situations like this:

> Public opinion regarding Klein's alcohol consumption reached a boiling point in December 2001 when he visited the Herb Jamieson Centre, a 249-bed homeless shelter in Edmonton while intoxicated. An argument ensued between Klein and homeless men sleeping in the hallway who were denied a bed because they had been drinking.[153] During the argument Klein told the men to get a job, which was rebuked by some of the men who stated they had jobs but could still not afford housing.[154] An argumentative Klein was shuffled out of the centre while he tossed money at a homeless man on the way out.[154][155] According to biographer Don Martin, Klein continued with his normal schedule in the following days, and when rumors of the event began to pop-up amongst the media, Klein was unable to remember the event.[154] After the event Klein called a press conference and emotionally acknowledged he had an alcohol problem and pledged to curb or stop his drinking. He called alcohol "the devil" and an "awful beast", but did not go as far as acknowledging he suffered from alcoholism.[156] Klein admitted to being intoxicated at many moments in his life, visibly during his 2001 general election party, a month earlier when he introduced former US President Bill Clinton, and at the public memorial for Calgary sportscasting legend Ed Whalen.[154]

As I understand it Klein had a security guard / handler whose job was to keep the public safe from Klein as much as it was to keep Klein safe from the public but apparently he wasn't able to dissuade Klein from drunkenly throwing money at a homeless person and telling him to get a job that night.

I would imagine that it is an interesting dynamic being the handler for a person with a lot of power, there's an interesting level of self-awareness needed by the person in power where they have to understand that they are wilfully giving some of that power up to a person that they can trust to make these judgment calls when needed and give them the feeling that they can do so when needed without long-term consequences to their personal lives.

A way to do that is to pay them well enough so that they don't depend on you to feed their family so that they can always choose to be the person that has to put their foot down and tell you what you need to hear when you need to hear it even if you don't want to hear it in that moment.

But at the end of the day it comes down to the ability of the CEO to wilfully give personal power to another person, and time and time again that seems to be single largest failing of the people in these positions -- they just can't do that.

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/King_Ralph

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bamboozled on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:52PM (#50419055)
It would be nice if "the most powerful man on earth" actually had a brain and used it too?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kelseyfrog on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:52PM (#50419059)
> If you are one of the most powerful man on earth

So just hire women? Sounds like an incredibly simple solution to being security compromised.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jacquesm on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:00PM (#50419624)
I think you need to think about that a little bit longer.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kelseyfrog on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:36PM (#50419873)
I'm curious. Care to explain? It sounds dead simple to me.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by darth_avocado on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:04PM (#50419164)
We’re all pretending that these people can’t afford NDAs, background checks or other people to manage these situations. NFL players with a fraction of the money these people have manage that better. If you’re Jensen, there really ain’t that many excuses you can make. You quite literally have people to manage this for you.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fxwin on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:16PM (#50419271)
yea an NDA would have definitely stopped her lol
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by darth_avocado on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:04PM (#50420941)
Read the whole sentence and comprehend it
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fxwin on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:12AM (#50422116)
i have, it's too early to speculate on what measures have or haven't been taken. i just singled out the point about NDAs becsuse that is ridiculous to bring up when talking about espionage
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by greatgib on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:05PM (#50419173)
But somehow, it is his company that he brought to that point, and also why would he care for being spied on by a country or another? There is nothing that said that he had to swear fidelity to the US.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by samus on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:14PM (#50419254)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cucumber3732842 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:08PM (#50419191)
The feds tried to disrupt the civil rights movement by faking a bunch of correspondence that made it seem like they were all cheating on their wives. It didn't really do shit because their wives all already assumed they were from the get go.

There's a lesson in there somewhere.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yubblegum on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:21PM (#50419323)
> They are going to study you for years.

Lol. Jensen Hueng's case was likely figured out in a smoke filled room somewhere in the bowels of some intelligence agency in China, agents passing around pictures of Jensen while puffing on cigarettes. One them tosses a picture on the table and just says 'he always wears that leather jacket'. The others nod, and one them sucks in the air while shaking the ashes into an ashtray, 'We have a few candidates in mind'.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kraken_cult on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:43PM (#50419488)
And they took him down with a shanghai 4 with painted-on eyebrows..

dude should resign in shame.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thatsabadlook on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:24PM (#50419340)
I doubt this was even that sophisticated. These types of people live on deception and extracting benefits for themselves. Pretty woman walks up of course it's theirs for the taking. My God hasn't musk been paying women to birth his children? These people are more or less ill. That's why they are CEOs at high power companies.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jrflowers on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:30PM (#50419385)
> Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

“It takes the machinations of an intelligence apparatus more powerful than you can comprehend to make a rich guy cheat on his wife” lmaooo

https://www.espn.com/nfl/story/_/id/49712639/49ers-owner-jed...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by crazygringo on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:30PM (#50419387)
> It is not just a woman wanting to have sex with you. It will be the woman in your dreams.

This is really not true. Spies are just people, there aren't that many of them, and they don't come "customized". The overlap of effective spies and "the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world" is very close to zero.

What you are describing is conspiracy-theory thinking or the kind of stuff you see in James Bond movies. Not real life.

Obviously spies exist, like here, but she's just... a normal woman who has a job as a spy and tried to seduce him and succeeded. He may have turned down five others who failed miserably in their attempts.

And sure they try to put together a psychological profile of the person, but that's also not really rocket science, and it's going to be pretty basic stuff. "Your weaknesses" is not going to be that exciting. Maybe he's really into expensive wines. It's not like he has a secret gambling addiction.

So let's just keep this reality-based and not fantasy-based.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Betelbuddy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:43PM (#50419484)
>> not fantasy-based

A nerd thinking a woman is into them...that is the fantasy...No she did not happen to bump into you in the elevator, and no she is not there to attend the same AWS conference that you... and oh no she does happen to like the same SciFi you do ...and no ...you are not ohh so funny...

That

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rdtsc on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:45PM (#50419504)
> The overlap of effective spies and "the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world" is very close to zero.

The overlap doesn’t have to be that great. The spies are also not random you don’t get random spies matching with random CEOs. They just have to have enough available agents and enough info on the target, physical proximity, and other factors to attempt something to work out. In many cases it’s not something that will be in the news either. It will be just a failed attempt, or just an affair.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dannyw on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:47PM (#50419525)
Realistically speaking, there's a good chance the affair probably happened first, and then the MSS got involved second.

Even the most powerful people can be really dumb.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by blini-kot on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:07PM (#50420098)
> Even the most powerful people can be really dumb

"even"? Barring the fact that power makes you dumber, those in power at least for the last ~40 years or so had been actually selected to be dumber

mr. Huang case here is a shining example

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ai_critic on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:01PM (#50420057)
> What you are describing is conspiracy-theory thinking or the kind of stuff you see in James Bond movies. Not real life.

This is literally a state actor running sexpionage (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sexpionage).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jdiff on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:18PM (#50420163)
Yes, this is real sexpionage. Not the Hollywood fantasy described upthread. The scenario described is not what has played out in reality.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ai_critic on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:27PM (#50420238)
What part of that struck you as fantasy?

Again, this isn't some low-level clerk that just needs a handjob or some Grindr kompromat--this is the CEO of the second largest company in the world by market cap.

Is it the assertion was that they'll do research on you (which is why having a gambling problem, large debts, or lying during a clearance interview is an issue)?

Is it the assertion that they'll pick a very pretty woman instead of some plain-looking one (which is why historically the NKVD recruited from theater and ballet schools)?

The "Hollywood fantasy" is real, it just happens in a vanishingly small set of cases.

For a truly bizarre version (even stranger than this!), see the case of Shi Pei Pu (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shi_Pei_Pu).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jdiff on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:59AM (#50428252)
This part. Not the research, not that they may be attractive. The part where they're supernaturally sculpted and emphatically unimaginably irresistible.

> They will employ the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world to create the perfect Honey trap.

> Normal people just can not imagine how sweet, specially when it has been customised around your needs and desires.

> It is not just a woman wanting to have sex with you. It will be the woman in your dreams.

I appreciate the link to Shi Pei Pu, that was an interesting read! Less strange than a literal Greek siren, but much stranger than the truth of Jensen's situation.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jayd16 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:36PM (#50419421)
What if we maybe built legal and financial practices that prevented such a concentration of power and wealth that these honey pots would not be viable.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by WalterBright on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:06PM (#50420091)
Then we wouldn't have iphones and rockets.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vinyl7 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:39PM (#50420333)
Probably for the best
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by WalterBright on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:49PM (#50420844)
It didn't work out too well for Christopher McCandless.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SecretDreams on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:22PM (#50421046)
Sorry, is this an argument for or against?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by JumpCrisscross on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:53PM (#50419572)
The troubling part is the cover-up. Huang seems to have believed that if Republicans kept control of the Congress he wouldn’t have to come clean.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by emmelaich on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:10PM (#50419696)
"It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a -single- man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a -wife- bit on the side"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:16PM (#50419731)
> If you are one of the most powerful man on earth you

In that case, you also have access to practically every resource on the planet to run a background check on the person of your interest. He didn't do it; that implies a lack of judgment, so he fell short of what's expected of him.

Jensen fell for convenience, or was blindsided by some trait of her personality. Otherwise, executives use escort services all the time.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rileymat2 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:32PM (#50419851)
Hold on, you also have China finding a person that does not have anything that shows up in a background check which they could execute with even more resources.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:09PM (#50420108)
US intelligence agencies were able to flag her based on something. So, clearly, she left a trail.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Nexxxeh on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:20PM (#50420180)
That trail may not have existed beforehand. You can't find breadcrumbs before they're laid. Perhaps it was her notifying her handlers of her success that was noticed.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by micah94 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:15PM (#50420145)
I honestly think he knew she was a spy and did it anyway.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mandeepj on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:01AM (#50421605)
I was very surprised to learn that he decided to stay back while the rest of Trump delegation returned back from their China state visit. The plot is clear now.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by FireBeyond on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:17PM (#50419735)
> They will employ the most sweet and the most pleasurable and gorgeous honey that there is in the world to create the perfect Honey trap.

I heard stories of the CIA doing a class with new State Department employees, or ones at a certain level, that among other things involved the instructor "rating" everyone ("You're a 4, you're a 6, you're a 5..."), with the point being "If a woman comes up to you at a bar, and she's a 9 or a 10, she's either an escort or a foreign asset, and your safest assumption is the latter."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by smis92 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:09PM (#50420104)
Sorry for the newly created anonymous account to comment.

This is true.

Those of us working on classified programs get briefed on this sort of stuff and this is exactly what they tell us.

These operatives are highly trained, research their targets extensively, and are very good at their jobs. Once they get leverage over their targets they're most of the way there. Sex, money, fame, are all very enticing to some people and once the leverage is established most people will do anything to keep it going and keep it private.

Huang's coming forward and publicly admitting the affair effectively zeroes out the leverage. It's probably the best thing he could do once the full gravity of the situation came out.

I don't know if high-level leadership at every company with export-restricted products gets the security briefings they should. I bet Mr. Huang and the rest of the leadership team at Nvidia is getting it now.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jmyeet on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:24PM (#50419783)
I've been thinking about this issue a lot in terms of the influence on the US government. The NKVD then KGB coined the term "kompromat" for compromising material.

If you join a 3 letter agency or the military or probably many government departments and contractors, you'll have to go through a background check. The more sensitive the information you have access to, the more extensive the background check. The particular employer won't necessarily care what skeletons are in your closet. They're concerned with your ability to be blackmailed or bribed. So if you get in a lot of debt, you can lose your security clearance. Some of the most successful spies have recruited with a relative pittance of money in comparison to the damage they can do.

But there's one exception to all this: if you an elected politician, you don't need to go through any of this. The FBI can't disqualify you. Even if you're in the executive, the FBI might disqualify you but the president can overrule that. Case in point: Jared Kushner [1].

There are a bunch of politicians and senior staff who are DL (ie secretly gay). There's a running joke that Grindr has an outage every time the RNC Convention is in town (eg [2]). The ownership of and access to Grindr's platform and data is actually a national security concern.

And then there's the Jeffrey Epstein of it all.

So while things like honeypots have existed and will continue to exist (as might be the case here with NVidia), you might find yourself asking "how do these powerful people fall for this stuff or end up having dirt?" whereas I think you should be asking "do these people become powerful and/or rich because they're compromised or can be compromised?"

Someone who is compromised is on the team and won't rat you out. It's mutually assured destruction.

I'm really not sure what we do about it. Ideally politicians should be able to pass security clearance background checks but that's a moral hazard as the agency, whose head is a political appointee, could effectively veto certain candidates. This has the hallmarks of the J. Edgar Hoover years.

A system intentionally filtering out people with integrity who aren't compromised is a sobering and depressing thought.

[1]: https://www.nbcnews.com/politics/donald-trump/officials-reje...

[2]: https://www.newsweek.com/grindr-app-crashes-milwaukee-rnc-19...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by WalterBright on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:09PM (#50420110)
People fall for it because of their sex drive. There's no mystery.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yodsanklai on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:25PM (#50419789)
> It is not just a woman wanting to have sex with you. It will be the woman in your dreams

Maybe when you're an old man, it's not enough to be a billionaire to find an attractive partner, she has to be a spy or an obvious gold digger. I find it pretty demoralizing.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by armchairhacker on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:35PM (#50419869)
Yet there are plenty of billionaires who do not, at least publicly, have tragic relationships. Steve Jobs? Warren Buffet? Gavin Newsom (for the past 20 years)?

Look at recent and current tech CEOs. Gates, Musk, Zuckerberg sure…but Amodie, Altman, Cook, Nadella seem to be in stable relationships, and stable in general.

No, not all men think with their dicks. Huang’s martial fidelity is below average.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bilbo0s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:44PM (#50419926)
I'll give you Jobs, now that he's passed away and we have a lot of the dirt on him. But everyone else, we really don't know about.

Also, (just kind of pointing this out as a relevant factor, not really trying to insult the others), but Steve Jobs is tall and good looking. The guy would have gotten plenty of women with just a guitar and not a nickel to his name. I'm thinking Musk and Gates were very likely not in that league of raw attractiveness.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by defrost on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:53PM (#50419997)
Just because actual desk toy Bill Gates didn't make the cover of Rolling Stone or even Teen Beat shouldn't detract from his ..

.. whatever this is: https://www.snopes.com/fact-check/teen-beat/

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by armchairhacker on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:56PM (#50420026)
I can give more examples. Past US presidents. Joe Biden? Barack Obama? Either George Bush? Ronald Reagan? Jimmy Carter?

6 of 8. And they’re politicians, so if they had any embarrassing martial info we’d surely know about it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by defrost on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:08PM (#50420099)
Ronald Reagan did have a bit of old school 1950s era scandal about him - a twice married Hollywood actor type whose kids from the second marriage didn't even know they had brothers and sisters from another mother until their early teens(? not sure on timing).

Small beer stuff today, titillating gossip for some.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by BoorishBears on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:49PM (#50419972)
Having Steve Jobs on your list makes me retroactively suspicious of every other name on the list
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by armchairhacker on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:06PM (#50420085)
https://www.ranker.com/list/steve-jobs-loves-and-hookups/cel...

This doesn’t read “groomed by intelligence agencies” to me. He had relationship troubles, but they were before Apple blew up. He met Laurene Powell in 1989 and they stayed together until his death in 2011.

I also don’t think it’s an excuse that he was particularly attractive, since plenty of other men on this list are less so. Buffet married a 60-year old woman in his 70s, if he cared about looks he could’ve dated a 20-year old.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hnfong on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:52AM (#50422438)
You said "tragic", not "groomed by intelligence agencies tragic".

Maybe you thought the context was clear, but I honestly had no idea that was what you were trying to convey.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by armchairhacker on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:36AM (#50423260)
It’s not tragic, either. He was happily married for the last 20+ years of his life and even his daughter reconciled with him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dcrazy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:03PM (#50420066)
Steve Jobs, the man who named a computer after the daughter he denied for years was his?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by armchairhacker on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:13PM (#50420134)
True, but we’re talking about him being manipulated by intelligence or a gold-digger, then betrayed. His relationship troubles with Chrisann Brennan happened before he got famous, and it doesn’t seem like she manipulated him, rather his obsession with work and rudeness put her off.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ciupicri on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:28PM (#50420686)
Didn't Bill Gates' wife hint that the divorce was caused by some Epstein stuff?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rajup on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:01PM (#50420055)
What a load of bollocks. You make it sound like Jensen was some kind of victim here and had no choice. Please let's not normalize moral failings and weaknesses (especially of powerful people).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tsunamifury on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:27PM (#50420239)
Moral? Where is morality here?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vineyardmike on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:37PM (#50420320)
Their whole point is that he had many choices.

He chose to start a business, stay in charge, grow it to its current state. He chose to meet politicians and world leaders and get involved in global affairs. Those choices, as lucky as he’s been, have put a target on his back.

He chose to talk to these women. He chose to have the affair. He chose those actions. He should have known the prior choices (be a major and visible CEO) would lead to a world where future choices (have affair with random women) may be complicated.

He is no victim to anything but his own ego and foolishness. Taking no moral stance of having an affair, he should have known better because he had made his choices already.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rayiner on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:57PM (#50420463)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by spicyusername on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:15PM (#50420595)
Moral failings and weakness is the most normal thing there is, though?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wewewedxfgdf on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:19PM (#50418716)
I don't give a shit about affairs - that's personal business.

However if you lack the common sense to not fall for Chinese spies then your judgement really must be questioned.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:31PM (#50418867)
If detecting spies required mere common sense, there would be no spies.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wewewedxfgdf on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:33PM (#50421095)
He runs one of the biggest companies in the world with massive interest from China.

It's not hard to guess.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by BLKNSLVR on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:58PM (#50419110)
I agree with the first part, inasmuch as volatility in one's personal life affects one's professional conduct and ability. The two cannot be entirely separated, but there are definitely varying scales of inter-connectivity.

Common sense and judgement fluctuate. Humans, you know, we're prone to entirely unpredictable moments of emotional weakness. Maybe we're hungry, maybe we're tired, maybe the missus or the kids have been sick, maybe we just don't want to face leg-day after 12-hours of strategising. As per the attack and defense argument: A defender only needs to be wrong once.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ricksunny on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:45AM (#50422383)
I actually don’t have anything derogatory to say about Jensen.

But bonus instructive irony points if (de-facto gpu-based) LLMs were used by the malicious actors to psych-profile him to probe for which of the many character vulnerabilities we all share assortment of that he would be more receptive to.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ed_mercer on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:35PM (#50419416)
>then your judgement really must be questioned.

As if it were that easy? Being that rich and influental means someone out there will attempt (and succeed) to game you.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by net01 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:20PM (#50418725)
are there trainings on honey traps, like waht can a company do to prevent this ?? i just feel bad for his wife and also him
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by zulux on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:30PM (#50418851)
I came into some fair amount of power, and the CCP honey pot shenanigans got crazy. I didn't get in-person treatment, but the DMs were off the hook. A Cantonese businessman warned me, but I have to admit it could have worked if I had been in the wrong frame of mind.

They tried every persona: Sexy, shy, homely. Same sex. Confrontational. Open, but scared her overseers would punish her. Still get a ping now and then.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NullPrefix on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:46PM (#50421166)
please do tell us more about these encounters
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tgv on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:42AM (#50424808)
My first (well, metaphorically speaking) thought after reading the news was: how many attempts did it take? How many seductors and seductresses are out there? I can only assume the other major powers are playing similar games, given the history.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:26AM (#50426935)
>A Cantonese businessman warned me, but I have to admit it could have worked if I had been in the wrong frame of mind.

Im curious more about that. He was just some regular businessman acquaintance with no special knowledge? Was he fairly accurate and specific in his predictions?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by listedb on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:58AM (#50422477)
There is a company called DarkMind that is doing personality detection to filter people who are susceptible to manipulation

Detection and prevention is key

https://foxandlion.pub/analysis/traitors-among-us-who-is-vul...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dietr1ch on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:22PM (#50418747)
PSA: Don't tell your wife that you are now technically cheating on the other woman
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ChrisArchitect on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:25PM (#50418781)
Related:

Statement from NVIDIA Board of Directors

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50416801

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ilaksh on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:30PM (#50418848)
Take this with a grain of salt, but my guess is that the board on some level has to judge him as being so high performing that they would try to keep him as long as that doesn't cause too much PR damage to the company, or the deals get them in too much trouble with the government.

This is just a total guess, but I assume what a lot of the board want is for him to sell as much to China or indirect channels as he can get away with. So whatever these deals were that involved this woman, they probably want him to get those deals through it he can get away with it (although they wouldn't admit it).

I see this more or less as Huang doing his job. And relative to international expectations at that level of wealth, one public affair is probably not something most of the board (presumably largely male) is going to (privately) judge him for.

So if the board is investigating, I assume what they are trying to figure out is if the US government is going to do anything (probably not) or waiting to see if there is going to be some kind of public demand for him to be removed. Or it there is something likely to come out that will cause either of those things.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by avazhi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:36PM (#50418902)
The board is investigating because the woman he had the affair with is a Chinese spy.

Neither the board nor the US government nor investors nor the average person gives a shit about a CEO having an affair as long it doesn't compromise his ability to do his job well.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by seanmcdirmid on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:41PM (#50418944)
Alleged Chinese spy unless I’m reading the article wrong? A Chinese intelligence asset could mean someone who just had CPC membership in college. Not that I’m saying Alice Huang isn’t a spy, I just would want more information before deciding.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by skippyboxedhero on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:56PM (#50419097)
She was being monitored by the CIA, who believed she was a spy.

Also, just to be clear here: the story is that Jensen was also going to Taiwan to meet with this person who was helping Alibaba evade sanctions, when Jensen met with this person Alibaba reps were always there, and in the US Jensen was making media appearances saying that sanctions on China had to be lifted.

Bear in mind that multiple people at Supermicro were charged for allegedly smuggling servers to China, and that the reason Megaspeed is being investigated is for effectively the same thing. Jensen denied he had anything to do with Supermicro, it is going to be much harder to say the same thing here.

I don't think the affair itself is necessarily related to the direction this will shortly take.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anonymous908213 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:14PM (#50419246)
> She was being monitored by the CIA, who believed she was a spy.

MLK Jr. was being monitored by the FBI and CIA, who believed he was a Communist.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by UberFly on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:26AM (#50421808)
That has nothing to do with the fact that she was being monitored by the CIA, who believed she was a spy. Stop it with the red herring bit.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:18AM (#50427632)
That appears to be an appeal to authority instead of establishing any facts, and the argument in the authority is not one rather than a red herring. Unless what matters isn’t whether she was actually a spy, only what CIA thought of her.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by seanmcdirmid on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:21PM (#50419763)
There is a huge difference between smugglers and spies though. Profit motive is all you need to be a smuggler, you don’t need espionage or anything else, you definitely don’t need a handler in zhongnanhai.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by m10i on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:51PM (#50419981)
> Profit motive is all you need to be a smuggler, you don’t need espionage or anything else

What you need to be a smuggler is to avoid prison.

When one side is fully aware that you are a smuggler that they can rat on to the other side whenever they want, even a child could blackmail you.

So that's one (fairly realistic imo) pathway from smuggler -> to espionage.

This is a hypothetical anyways.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by newsclues on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:33PM (#50420291)
The core competency of smugglers is getting the goods delivered. Some smugglers are motivated beyond profit or avoiding jail.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by paimapi on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:22PM (#50420645)
Certainly no government would ever encourage its own agents to engage in things like smuggling like that of drugs especially to certain Global South nation states where the capital acquired from those drugs ended up funding pro-American paramilitaries and interests.

Contra-ry to common conspiracy theories, I'm certain any government-led self-investigation into culpability was all very aboveboard and well-substantiated.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mlmonkey on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:54PM (#50421218)
> Certainly no government would ever encourage its own agents to engage in things like smuggling

North Korea has entered the chat ...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by defrost on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:59PM (#50421243)
Some may have missed that GP comment was dripping in /s tags and Contra-iness: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/CIA_involvement_in_Contra_coca...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mejutoco on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:50AM (#50421958)
They are talking about the USA
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by adrian_b on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:08AM (#50423536)
USA, which is famous for engaging in several smuggling operations, like the Iran-Contra affair.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by paimapi on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:45AM (#50427155)
I thought including 'bananas [...] republic' and 'Contra-ry' would be obvious enough of hints that I was being deeply sarcastic but alas
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mlmonkey on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:02PM (#50429083)
Sarcasm is a subtle art, my friend, and sometimes the audience misses the point. I did too, and re-read your comment and now see where you were going. <soft golf clap....>
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by chmod775 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:26PM (#50421064)
The Chinese government definitely has better sticks to threaten Chinese nationals with than ratting them out to the US. That's laughably backwards.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by seanmcdirmid on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:04AM (#50421635)
She is a CEO in Singapore, she avoids going to jail by obeying Singaporean law. I don’t know how American law would even apply to her, they definitely apply to Jensen though.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jon128 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:07AM (#50425074)
American law, procedures and formalities or not, can potentially apply to anyone. Nothing is beyond our reach.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:16AM (#50427610)
Iran appears to be.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by crossroadsguy on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:51AM (#50421548)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by seanmcdirmid on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:03AM (#50421624)
Smugglers can be spies actually, it’s not an uncommon trope. Just not all smugglers are spies.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jmtulloss on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:24PM (#50421058)
Doesn’t sound like the Alibaba reps were at _every_ meeting
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by purpleidea on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:16AM (#50421351)
They were watching through very secret hotel cameras ;)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by UberFly on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:28AM (#50421830)
That's the risk - blackmail. It may very well be the reason Jensen is being so out in the open about this.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dannyw on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:43PM (#50418961)
Chinese spy can mean everything from “sell us more GPUs to China or I leak our affair” (which I think NVDA would be very happy with - they’ve already admitted to chip diversion, and their senior execs have been arrested for the same) to trade secrets being given to Huawei.

IMHO, I’m speculating, but I think the affair happened first, and then the MSS got involved for access and blackmail.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:27AM (#50422220)
> ...and then the MSS got involved for access and blackmail.

If you look at Megaspeed, it has Chinese state asset written all over it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:38AM (#50425430)
How
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:52AM (#50425603)
1. Singapore is a well-known hub for the smuggling of Nvidia chips to China.

2. The company was originally set up as the subsidiary of a Chinese gaming company.

3. When the US added stricter export controls for Nvidia chips in 2023, it was spun off and ownership reportedly moved to a BVI shell company.

4. Later it was sold to a company that is apparently owned by one person who is believed to live in China.

5. The Singapore offices of the company and others he is an owner or director of show little activity and according to one report, the co-working space at the address listed for one didn't even have a record of the company.

6. Despite the fact that Megaspeed showed less than $6 million in cash at the end of 2023, it somehow became an Nvidia Cloud Partner and between 2024 and 2026 purchased $4.8 billion worth of advanced Nvidia chips, making it the top Nvidia chip buyer in ASEAN.

This company was on the radar of people in the industry well before this scandal because basically nobody had any idea who it was and where the money was coming from.

https://en.thairath.co.th/money/tech_innovation/tech_compani...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:59AM (#50426556)
Thanks for the extensive write up! Every point except 6 (the acquisition) sounds very normal for Chinese companies. 6 million is worth a lot more in the Mainland, not many AI chips tho… mmmm
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:25AM (#50427753)
I actually live in Asia and have done business in the region for years.

Very "normal" for what? None of this is "normal" for a legitimate company supposedly running a neocloud business on $4+ billion worth of Nvidia chips.

Singapore-based companies with this type of footprint run by Chinese nationals are almost always fronts for shady stuff.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:40PM (#50428768)
I also live in asia, and many bosses have like 10-20 companies all sorta feeding of each other in the most complex and strange ways. One day I was stepping into the office, and it was just stripped to the ground. “Oh yeah, we moved”… I am not surprised by anything anymore.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ElProlactin on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:45PM (#50428838)
Legitimate companies don't have a collection of offshore shells, offices that keep moving, etc. Tax avoidance is real, but if you're seeing dozens of shells trading with each other in ways that don't make any sense, offices moving overnight, you should consider that you're not seeing companies that are on the up and up.

I don't know what sort of work you do/what industry you're in, but that's not how legitimate business operates in the region.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:57PM (#50429007)
I dunno, they kinda do? Involution
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:51PM (#50428914)
I cant comment on the comment below but… this is the new normal. Everyone is shady. From the bubble teashop francise on the corner to some fancy startup. Do you ever talk with locals?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alt227 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:28AM (#50427792)
> This company was on the radar of people in the industry well before this scandal because basically nobody had any idea who it was and where the money was coming from.

Yet still they sold them the chips. Shows just how much Nvidia care about the restrictions placed on their clients.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dcrazy on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:05PM (#50420078)
She was also the CEO of a large customer. That sounds like it could impact his job performance.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bzax on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:34PM (#50421101)
Just to be clear, alleged spy, and working for a foreign government which wants to do a tremendous amount of incredibly profitable business with the company. Which he should be carefully weighing against the very real legal risks when the US government doesn't want that business to happen. And if he can't remain impartial, the board should be concerned about whether he can make the right decision for shareholder about that risk/profit.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ramraj07 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:38PM (#50421124)
What OP is implying is that the Board likely implicitly condoned any effort Jensen would take to make sales to China including making underhanded deals that look like honeypot operations but may as well have been a double honeypot operation. The implication is that the outcome of said affair was actually good for Nvidia. You imply that the interests of Nvidia and the US government and by extension the US public are aligned. That’s a citation-needed level assumption. Nvidia just wants to make money. The government hopefully has different interests.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lakeviewterrace on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:02AM (#50421272)
The penalties for ITAR/EAR violations are severe so I suspect it's as ludicrous and incorrect a theory as one might suspect.

What is interesting is the woman appears to be extremely mid-looking.

If there is a lesson to be learned from all these extremely powerful men cheating on their wives with objectively ordinary women (e.g. Gates, Bezos, Tiger Woods) it's that the most beautiful woman in the world is worth about the same as the woman that works at McDonald's.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cowlevel on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:05AM (#50421290)
Implying that beautiful people can't work at McDonald's?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lakeviewterrace on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:06AM (#50421300)
There is a more crude corollary to this theory that I chose to omit for decorum's sake:

P = P

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ranger_danger on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:27AM (#50421414)
More like beautiful people are less likely to be into weird stuff probably.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by andoando on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:33AM (#50426201)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ranger_danger on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:07PM (#50432144)
Based on what?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by csomar on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:07AM (#50421657)
From observation, it seems Starbucks/High-end coffee chains attract easier looking staff. At the end of the day, you are going to get the higher paying job, and the higher paying job can afford to select the easier looking ones.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bushwart on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:32AM (#50421441)
These guys are so rich they can hire beautiful prostitutes whenever they want. Looks alone are dime-a-dozen, in the end it's personality that counts (the latter notably also holds true for non-gazillionaires).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lakeviewterrace on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:23AM (#50421788)
I like to believe Bezos was still being yelled at to take out the trash and for leaving dirty pancake batter bowls in the kitchen sink.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hax0ron3 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:30AM (#50422249)
Yeah, someone like Huang probably has beautiful women throwing themselves at him all the time and it's quite possible that he's taken many of them up on the offer already, it's just never come out before. A man who has access to such abundance of beautiful women may over time become more interested in things like personality, if he wasn't already more interested in personality before -- there are some men who care more about personality from the start.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tudelo on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:50AM (#50421546)
I'm sorry but what is this vapid take on personal relationships and attraction? I don't get the point of anything beyond your first sentence. Can you explain?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lakeviewterrace on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:17AM (#50421740)
This isn't a storybook love story.

Men — in particular, powerful men — want to stick it in the hole.

Above all else, even if it means risking everything, they'll do it anyway.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by p1anecrazy on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:27AM (#50421815)
Incel views
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by paganel on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:27AM (#50421821)
Not the OP, but I was also curious about how the woman looked, i.e. if she was physically attractive or not. That's interesting from a "history of honey-potting"-perspective, good for the Chinese that they knew what moved this horny CEO's gears and that they were able to match it. As far as I know it was the Russians/Soviets who were experts at honey-potting, this is the first time when I read from the Chinese doing the same at such a high level.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ThePinion on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:45AM (#50421931)
There was also Fang Fang and Rep Swallwell

https://abcnews4.com/news/nation-world/swalwell-and-fang-fan...

Diane Feinstein also had a Chinese spy for a driver for 20 years, though I'm going to assume for my own sanity that wasn't a sexual relationship.

https://www.cbsnews.com/sanfrancisco/news/details-chinese-sp...

I think this has been going on a very long time, it's just that these were politicians so I think everyone just brushed it off as "business as usual."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rapidaneurism on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:25AM (#50422206)
Diogenes?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by numpad0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:36AM (#50422766)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by matwood on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:37AM (#50422774)
Outside of your odd take on attraction, which is way more than looks alone...

There are memes that super-model looking women dating nerds are almost always spies of some sort. For this spy to have any chance at gaining real information she needed to have an actual relationship with Huang - which, see above, is more than looks alone.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by noitpmeder on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:32PM (#50419405)
It's unfortunate how it's perfectly rational for a board to want their CEOs doing just enough fraud/backchanneling/cosying-up-to-suspect-world-leaders to maximize shareholder value, as long as they're not getting caught/... in ways that overall minimize shareholder value.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pjjpo on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:28AM (#50421829)
I don't think it's rational for boards to encourage fraud, as it is illegal, nor does it happen much. The others sure.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by unsupp0rted on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:36AM (#50422312)
That's not unfortunate: that's the way the system is designed to work:

* Corps maximize shareholder value

* Govs make laws/penalties to avoid too much harm/risk by corps

* Press keeps everybody accountable

It's great when everybody's doing what they're supposed to do.

Unfortunate is when corps are so in bed with gov that they don't bother innovating or growing

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by novia on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:18PM (#50421024)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mlmonkey on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:55PM (#50421226)
On Wall Street, no.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ctkhn on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:01AM (#50421270)
I think it was Francois Hollande who was photographed while in office on his vespa leaving the presidential palace to see his mistress
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by GolfPopper on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:36AM (#50421459)
Surely you weren't under the impression that the executive class is honest?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by steele on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:17AM (#50421739)
Sure, if by high performing you mean fully assuming the lions share of risk of establishing monopoly in a speculation market via personal enmeshment with a corrupt political administration on the verge of sunset. His job for this board could very well be gone-rogue fall-guy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jfrbfbreudh on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:13AM (#50422124)
I think he meant, look at the chart, and not whatever you just typed up.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by steele on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:47AM (#50422853)
Chart analysis of bigger-number-better is accelerating past 1 recession per decade.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dzonga on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:33PM (#50418877)
or sometimes - you shed the image of being a family man & embrace being a 'player'

the reason bond was made - was the guy who the novel was based on - being a double-agent couldn't be honey-trapped as he was already womanizing.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by IncreasePosts on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:50PM (#50419979)
Everyone knew exactly what jensen was as soon as he donned that slightly too tight leather jacket like 15 years ago
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by WatchDog on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:50PM (#50421194)
Could we see Jensen abandon the leather jacket as part of atonement for his affair?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kridsdale1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:02AM (#50421273)
Correct. He put that on, and I said “This guy fucks.”
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by logicallee on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:35PM (#50418897)
This is not newsworthy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shrubble on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:39PM (#50418932)
In parts of Asia it is "expected" that a successful politician or businessman will have a "second family". I'm thinking the spying part (Huang is from Taiwan and was possibly leaking info to China) is considered worse than the cheating part by everyone involved.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by losthubble on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:45PM (#50418987)
US probably cares about the 2bil worth of gpus she brought. This looks like it will get messy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ii41 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:05PM (#50419668)
> parts of Asia

That's Japan. Don't make it sound like other parts of Asia are like this.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shrubble on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:11PM (#50420121)
It’s much more than Japan: Chinese in other countries, Philippines, etc. I’ve met in person sons and daughters from “second families”.

Also the French, so it’s not exclusively a practice of East Asian people.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by augment_me on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:58PM (#50420469)
You literally have cities in China that are called "second wife villages"(二奶村) where politicians and rich people have their mistresses that are located close to ports/airports for quick access on "work trips". In Shenzhen for example its the Luohu (罗湖) and Futian (福田) districts that are for this purpose.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sampullman on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:48PM (#50421181)
It's a bit much to say the purpose of Luohu is mistresses, but you're right that it definitely is not a Japanese-specific thing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dumfries on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:08AM (#50423993)
Might be but last time I checked Huang was not Chinese.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thenthenthen on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:52AM (#50425612)
Correct, and OCT (also in Shenzhen)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pjjpo on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:34AM (#50421864)
Don't make it sound like Japan either. It's just not possible where no family with a connection to someone powerful would be satisfied hidden away in a rural village. When caught by a tabloid, your career ends completely, not really excepted behavior.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Foobar8568 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:39AM (#50422343)
Confident much or are you playing on concubine vs wife game word?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _nobody on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:03AM (#50421276)
> In parts of Asia it is "expected" that a successful politician or businessman will have a "second family".

What kind of reasoning is this? Americans sexually exploit their children and later shoot them. So by your logic, rest of the world can now do the same and justify this by saying the greatest country in the world does the same as well?

What a retarted comment!

Jensen’s was suppose to hold himself to a higher standard, considering his position. Only reason he is apologising is he got caught.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by y1n0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:11AM (#50421676)
> what a retarted comment!

Nothing makes you look dumber than misspelling an insult to someone else’s intelligence.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _nobody on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:37AM (#50422773)
Don’t worry I will still sleep peacefully. You know why, because atleast I am not a child predator like Americans nor an adulterer like this famous american. Ohh to be an american!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _nobody on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:35AM (#50427908)
> In parts of Asia it is "expected" that a successful politician or businessman will have a "second family".

What kind of reasoning is this? Americans sexually exploit their children and later shoot them. So by your logic, rest of the world can now do the same and justify this by saying the greatest country in the world does the same as well?

What a retarded comment!

Jensen was suppose to hold himself to a higher standard, considering his position. Only reason he is apologising is he got caught

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shock-value on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:39PM (#50418933)
Incredibly sad and demoralizing to see the rationalizations and excuses people are making for this behavior in the comments here (or for the likely lack of professional consequences). But I guess these are the times in which we live.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:36PM (#50420313)
There was never a time when men didn't have affairs.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shock-value on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:08PM (#50420540)
Nor did I imply there was. I was talking of consequences when they came to light (doubly so when they materially impact one’s company and national security).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:18PM (#50421023)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:18AM (#50421361)
Do you really think it was never the norm for rich men to have affairs? That's a very optimistic view of history, I wish I shared it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:47AM (#50424288)
I think it's more accurate to raise an eyebrow at the idea of powerful people not habitually having affairs (historically, most of which have been men in modern times).

Because power is an ability to do what one wants, and a lot of people want sex.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:25AM (#50427744)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rmunn on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:12AM (#50421691)
Read Anna Karenina sometime. Tolstoy shows both the aspect of a society in which rich men having affairs was considered the norm, and the destructive effect it has on people. (And also the double standard by which women were judged much more harshly than men for having affairs). And he also, by comparing the two main relationships in the book (Vronsky's affair with Anna, and Levin's marriage to Kitty), said "It doesn't have to be this way, you can have healthy relationships if you just reject society's advice to have affairs and instead stay faithful to your wife".

I didn't like the book when I first read it (mostly because I seriously dislike Anna, and the book naturally spends a lot of time being told from her POV), but in retrospect, it's brilliant. Tolstoy has, without a single bit of moralizing, presented one of the best arguments I've seen in literature for being faithful to one's spouse and not engaging in affairs.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gramie on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:13AM (#50425920)
I think that "rich men having affairs" has been considered normal for most of human history. Of course, in China there were official (and unofficial) concubines, and many cultures have accepted and endorsed polygamy.

In South Africa, men marrying multiple wives is still accepted as long as they are "traditional". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy_in_South_Africa.

Most Muslim-majority countries currently allow polygamy. https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:24AM (#50427718)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by victorhooi on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:18AM (#50427633)
I think most of human history would want to have a word with you...

Now whether it was directly admitted to is a different thing, versus a nudge nudge wink wink thing....cue British aristocracy.

We might all have our personal views on whether it's right or wrong. Or whether it's sinful, etc. But that's orthogonal to reality.

I mean... seriously, look at literature, look at music... Heck, read the Bible? It's been a feature of all of recorded human history, that people will stray. We are human as they say...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:28AM (#50427793)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by marliechiller on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:43AM (#50422831)
It takes two to tango!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by acoustics on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:45PM (#50421165)
No excuses or rationalizations here, but: Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse? Seems like a private, family matter.

Of course, the spy aspect could be relevant from a professional perspective, but I'm guessing you're talking about him having an affair.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by specked-citrus on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:09AM (#50422092)
Espionage aside, let's not forget that he was having an affair with a customer company's executive. If that's not a massive professional fuckup I don't know what is.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aiven on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:01AM (#50422508)
That's called "business", look it up.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jorisw on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:15AM (#50422608)
Look it up where?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qs1ykyusPlate on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:33AM (#50422744)
up OP arse I would guess
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by zurfer on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:28AM (#50422701)
To be fair he probably spends all of his "free" time working. As the founder and CEO of it there is no personal or professional life. It's all one life.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Arn_Thor on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:29AM (#50422714)
It's not personal when you're in a certain role. You are not just representing your company, as a CEO you are practically embodying the company. It is the ultimate position, and it's compensated accordingly. If you want a personal life, resign from the job of CEO of the world's biggest and most strategically important company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kaon_2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:22AM (#50423153)
That is a very American take. I think there are other countries (e.g. Germany, the Netherlands) where there is a much stricter separation between the professional and private persona. Nvidia is american, and so is Jensen, so i guess it is OK to judge him by this standard. Just saying that different cultures judge this behavior differently.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shakow on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:22AM (#50424092)
Yeah you say that then your country elects a serial-cheater pedophile as president; I'm not sure you are so representative of your country customs as you think.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nicce on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:12AM (#50423574)
> No excuses or rationalizations here, but: Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse? Seems like a private, family matter.

It is not so clear, if this is about his character and can he be trusted. This is evidence that someone is capable for lying and doing something that might not be in line with company ethics either. I don't think we can assume from humans that "he lies only in his private life, but can be totally trusted on business side".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sire-vc on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:42AM (#50424245)
> Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse?

Yes, in many places, absolutely. Bad decisions in your personal live suggest bad decisions in your professional life.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Aerroon on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:32AM (#50424723)
People who speed take reckless actions endangering others, therefore we should fire anybody who gets a speeding ticket. Thoughts?

Now take the same point and apply it to every other crime, misdemeanor, and breaking of rules. Should companies really operate based on that? Or should we maybe draw a boundary around professional life and only consider the professional life?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by famouswaffles on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:57PM (#50428999)
If your speeding ends up harming others and it comes to light then you will probably get fired yeah.

Most CEOs are gone the moment any affair comes to light, nevermind one supposedly with a Chinese spy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by martin- on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:03AM (#50425025)
What absolutely ridiculous places are these? Do you also get fired for lying to a friend, or wasting your personal money?

Does it work the other way as well, so you're forced to divorce your spouse if you make a bad business decision?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lithos on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:20AM (#50425217)
Irresponsible enough with that money, and you lose govt. clearance and can't pass background checks (even civilian ones).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by victorhooi on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:10AM (#50427488)
I think the issue is normally more that these might expose you to blackmail or extortion.

But that's ironically a non issue now that's it's front page press...lol.

It's a bit like celebrities who release embarassing photos themselves, to bypass hackers leaking them. (To be clear, I don't think the photos should be out either way, your private matters should stay private, celebrity or not, and it's horrid to have it dragged out in public. But I do admire the ballsiness in just releasing it themselves. And in this post-modern era, perversely some people seem to benefit from the exposure)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pizzafeelsright on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:03PM (#50428308)
I would argue places with high trust and high accountability.

I am realizing that this is very foreign to some people and cultures. Among those who value honor, reputation, and trust the world is different.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solenoid0937 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:33AM (#50425373)
He did sell billions of dollars of chips to the shell company his spy girlfriend worked for, violating export controls. So there is that.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tremon on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:00AM (#50425716)
> Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse?

Nowadays, we make them president.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway5752 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:30AM (#50426989)
When they are the CEO of multi-trillion dollar, geopolitically important companies, and when we are talking about spies of geopolitical adversaries? Yes, absolutely.

In fact, the affair was less important. Even if they were just a very close but unromantic professional relationship it would be a serious scandal.

Most posters in HN don't think "poor corporations are the victims when they are hacked". They think "the corporations should be liable because they did not invest enough in security". This is morally the same.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Synaesthesia on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:42AM (#50427118)
We don't know that she was a spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _doctor_love on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:11AM (#50427511)
Hm sure but politicians and world leaders cheat serially on their spouses and we don’t seem to think that’s something they should be held accountable for.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway5752 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:22AM (#50427692)
I will repeat myself.

Only shallow and unimportant people are focused on sex and cheating here. The problem is who he was influenced by and who he went on to influence, whether this relationship was romantic or not. This is a problem of judgement and damage control now.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by threetonesun on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:22AM (#50427693)
I think every corporate training I've ever taken has made it pretty clear if you had an affair with a vendor and gave them something in exchange you'd be fired as soon as it came to light. I've seen people, even CEOs, fired for affairs at work because of the power dynamics. So the answer is maybe, it depends.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dezsiszabi on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:47PM (#50430854)
Exactly.

I can't even remember how many times I read a permutation of the following in company trainings:

"Failure to adhere to this policy will result in disciplinary action, up to and including termination of employment, and may also subject the individual to civil or criminal legal proceedings."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:54AM (#50428180)
IF they're the CEO of the company, yes. That's part of what you sign up for; to be a figurehead; a paragon of excellence for the company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yoyohello13 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:11AM (#50421686)
I’ve seen some wild opinions on HN. One that particularly lingers in my mind was a suggestion that we use immigrant women as incubators to solve the population crisis. Shockingly not downvoted into oblivion.

HN cares about money and tech. Don’t take morality or life advice from here.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antonvs on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:06AM (#50423015)
That was probably just Musk’s alt account.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by olelele on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:50AM (#50423862)
I mean there has been extensive reporting on the eugenicist sides of Silicon Valley.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by IAmGraydon on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:08AM (#50427458)
Link to that comment?
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by GlacierFox on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:02AM (#50424438)
Why do people virtuously out their own personal weaknesses on here with such glee? Then again, this is Hacker News, wouldn't expect many men on here to get much attention from the opposite sex. You're probably right.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fzeroracer on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:29AM (#50424690)
For reference, one of the first things I was taught as a software engineer working in a highly secure industry was that we should take psychological manipulation/seduction very seriously to avoid damaging the company and leaking national secrets. If I did something like this I would've lost my job at minimum and likely face legal action.

Regardless of how much you think we can or cannot resist actions from a foreign nation state, the ultimate fact of the matter is that he failed and thus is no longer suited for his position. If I would face worse consequences for such an action, then I damn well expect someone who's paid far above my pay grade to represent a company to face those damn consequences as well.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:44AM (#50427142)
Perhaps you face worse consequences for your hypothetical actions because you are less valuable to your company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:00AM (#50422503)
A non-trivial % of people engage in this behavior themselves. Gotta remember that.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by charles_f on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:32AM (#50426187)
You don't applaud people for doing something easy. A non trivial % of people are in prison as well.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Lerc on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:22AM (#50426877)
I don't think anyone was applauding.

There's somewhat of a difference between 1:4 and 1:200 (US) or 1:300-500(most countries)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:17PM (#50429327)
My IT teacher always told me "don't go to jail for 50 bucks - go for 50 million".
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jlarocco on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:16AM (#50426793)
The "big deal" here isn't the affair - that happens all the time and if he were dating an employ or something boring like that we'd probably never even hear about it.

The problem is the spying and Chinese influence - which doesn't happen all the time and is a big deal because he runs the biggest chip company in the world at a time we're trying to keep that tech away from China.

Security clearance applications have a whole section asking about extra-marital affairs, money problems, and whatnot precisely because spys use those types of things to bribe, blackmail, and pressure people. It sounds like a cheesy Cold War spy movie - but it happens in real life, as we're seeing.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:16PM (#50429304)
Sure, but all that seems as obvious as people cheating. To me at least.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Gareth321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:17AM (#50422630)
Agreed, and I'm not even that moralistic about the affair. It happens. This guy is in charge one of the most influential and important companies in the world. He owes the entire world a higher standard of conduct. Not for moral reasons, but for security, integrity, and consistency. If he's allowing himself to be influenced by China, the ramifications for Nvidia are staggering. If he wants some sex, use a hooker, or at least have an affair with NOT A SPY. Having an affair with a spy is unbelievable levels of incompetence, and calls into question his competence as a leader.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by beng-nl on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:57AM (#50423438)
We're not going to do the complexity justice with our 2 comments, but..

My opinion is that - particularly with the wisdom of hindsight - it is right to say this is a serious lapse in judgement of Jensen. Especially given the potential security/strategic implications.

However to then make the jump to this saying something about his qualities of leadership is a big leap. His leadership record is exceptional: decades of foresight, strategic risk-taking, and execution. It seems wrong to allow one episode to outweigh three decades of evidence.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Gareth321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:44AM (#50423805)
That's fair too. Perhaps on balance a little Chinese influence isn't worse than what he has accomplished. It just feels like one of those red lines for me. If he's willing to canoodle with spies from adversarial nations, what else is he doing exactly? And is he doing it on purpose or by accident?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:40AM (#50424230)
I'd make the observation that she probably wasn't wearing her "I'm a Chinese spy" hat when they met.

And from the reporting I've read, it isn't actually clear if she was a spy (i.e. directly trained and employed by a PRC intelligence agency).

The details (businessperson working in a viable business) make it seem more like she was a willing asset, who likely had a PRC intelligence handler.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Gareth321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:54AM (#50424363)
I don't think that framing helps him. He's one of the most targeted people in the world for espionage. If the claim is he didn't know, to not check the background of a prominent Chinese national with which he was having an affair is gross incompetence.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by f6v on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:39AM (#50422788)
> But I guess these are the times in which we live.

Get a load of this person who thinks affairs were invented in 2026. Are we from the same planet?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by CalRobert on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:13AM (#50423584)
Not sure these times are at all unique. If anything I imagine equivalent billionaires from the past were even greater philanderers. Hell, I was recently reading about Benjamin Guggenheim, who died on the Titanic and is known for "I played the game straight to the end and that no woman was left on board this ship because Ben Guggenheim was a coward. Tell her that my last thoughts will be of her and our girls" - and he was travelling with his mistress while those final words were recorded.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yunnpp on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:44PM (#50418980)
> My family bears no responsibility for my choices. I do. Please give them privacy.

Props up the surveillance state with Palantir, requests privacy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jgalt212 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:49PM (#50419020)
Is he known to talk in his sleep?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gigatexal on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:55PM (#50419085)
Would be hilarious if a man thinking with his dick and not his head causes the next US recession.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mlh496 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:56PM (#50419093)
Selling GPUs to China is similar to selling refined uranium to the Soviets in 1945.

I think the FBI needs to investigate Jensen Huang, the Board of Directors of Nvidia, and all top NVDA investors to see if they were helping China just to get richer... or worse.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by matteoraso on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:56PM (#50419094)
Pangram says that this letter is partially AI-generated. Hilariously, it's the part where he's sorry that he cheated on his wife that's AI-generated, while the part about cooperating with the investigation and affirming his love of America is real.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by busymom0 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:47PM (#50420393)
Isn't the letter too short to make any kind of accurate assessment of whether it's AI or not?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ciupicri on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:52PM (#50420869)
Shouldn't he eat his own dog food?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by CTDOCodebases on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:52AM (#50424340)
I would love to see the prompt.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by w10-1 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:12PM (#50419230)
I've never seen a more direct statement, with the right priorities, in such a case.

As always, recovery under stress is more telling than speed on the happy path.

The other name founders - Bezos, Zuckerberg, Jobs - fell into the guise of their own image propagating down their leadership chain; Huang seems to be actually leading, often by example. I'd expect his team to do ok without him, but believe only he could make some of the hard decisions, particularly now that their success is bounded by their customers'.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ihuk on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:05AM (#50423504)
Unless they want to keep the focus on the affair on purpose. What if she just helped him circumvent the ban on selling Nvidia cards to China or, if you want to really push it, on selling Nvidia tech to China?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TheRealPomax on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:23PM (#50419336)
Given the entire thing's paywalled, what's the tl;dr, and is it actual tech news or just drama?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vkaku on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:31PM (#50419394)
I respect the guy. It takes guts to admit when something like that is up.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by MOARDONGZPLZ on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:00PM (#50419618)
Per the article he was basically forced. He didn’t admit anything of his own free will.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vkaku on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:16PM (#50429293)
Wait, why do these people need to be forced? Even if he did have to speak to the board, didn't have to send an email or anything - to all employees. Which he did.

I'm also reading a ton of information now which suggests many people (incl. family and employees) already knew about it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by portmanteur on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:35PM (#50419415)
This is all very distressing, but I say: Let he who has not built the linchpin company of the industry the entire global economy is levered to and not risked it all in an extramarital affair with a chi-com honeypot cast the first stone!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by oumua_don17 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:40PM (#50419459)
Is Jensen most likely on his way out? I think yes, more interesting times ahead and will his exit eventually help in reducing Nvidia's dominance which might be a desirable result though there're quite a few conditions to be met so that it indeed is one.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by waterTanuki on Sunday November 08, 2026 @07:59PM (#50419612)
Rich Americans don't face consequences. He'll probably be required to attend some mandatory government/corporate seminar on espionage for a couple of weeks and then things will go back to business as usual.

When the money is this big, all ethics go out the window.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ciupicri on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:48PM (#50420836)
You're just making things up. From https://edition.cnn.com/2025/07/19/business/andy-byron-astro...

> Andy Byron, the chief executive of New York-based tech company Astronomer, has resigned from his role after he was spotted embracing an employee at a Coldplay concert, according to a statement shared with CNN on Saturday.

Also from https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/world/us/coldplay-kiss-c...

> Former McDonald’s CEO Steve Easterbrook was fired in November 2019 after it was discovered he had engaged in a consensual relationship with a subordinate, breaching company rules that prohibit managers from dating employees they oversee. Easterbrook admitted the relationship, calling it a mistake, and stepped down. Initially, he left with a $40 million severance package.

What other consequences do you want? Jail? Infidelity is not a crime in the US.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by leoc on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:09PM (#50419689)
A BoingBoing article from 2003, "Pr0nstar Catalina's appearance at Nvidia E3 party raises eyebrows": https://boingboing.net/2003/05/27/pr0nstar-catalinas-a.html .
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kridsdale1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:03AM (#50421274)
Everyone was doing that at E3 in 2003. Everyone. Microsoft, Sony, EA, etc.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by leoc on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:27PM (#50431533)
I can well believe it. But that hardly changes the fact that it's evidence of nVidia under Huang having been careless about this kind of thing in the past, too.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 01100011 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:41PM (#50419914)
If you think last week's selloff in AI stocks was solely about the democrats winning a majority you're naive.

This was most certainly known about last week and front-run by insiders(maybe NVDA insiders, more likely Trump insiders, but we will probably never know).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jimbobbam on Sunday November 08, 2026 @08:55PM (#50420019)
I guess 2 Huangs don’t make a right.

10/10 dad joke satisfaction on this one.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jp0001 on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:35PM (#50420309)
What if she wasn’t a spy and it was just an affair.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joebig on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:46PM (#50420385)
You know you're worth zilch when you are not getting honeypotted; even by the Hot Singles in Your Area.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wortelefant on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:19PM (#50421026)
The threat of Chinese models running on NVIDEA hardware..
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Harukadia on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:22PM (#50421048)
He doesn't need to apology, it's a common failure of man.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by charlieyu1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:31AM (#50427841)
I don’t know why you are downvoted.

Assuming you are quoting Jackie Chan who said exactly this when caught for cheating.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by flufluflufluffy on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:40AM (#50421482)
> I am fully committed to NVIDIA and will work to earn back your confidence.

Hmm, just like you were fully committed to your wife?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gla67890543 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:08AM (#50421660)
Spooks from CIA must be aware of this for a long time. The only question now is why this information is leaked now? What is the distraction they are trying to create by leaking this now?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by datahack on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:11AM (#50421677)
The market just corrected. That’s why.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nemonemo on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:29AM (#50421835)
It could be just as simple as taking time to be confident. Or it could have been somebody wanted to use this as a bargaining chip and failed somehow... Who knows.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mi_lk on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:04AM (#50422527)
Just days after midterms? Sure
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lakeviewterrace on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:58AM (#50422025)
I saw a clip of them together on what appeared to be Korean TV.

What was the original source?

Was it leaked or a Korean TMZ-type tabloid thing?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ransom1538 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:02AM (#50422054)
Spooks is a pretty knowing term to use. Not exactly a word the average person throws around. And yes, they likely knew long before now. Right after the midterms? Interesting timing. Seems the spooks are doing what spooks do.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rdidjdi3748 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:03AM (#50422065)
There’s a British TV show with that title
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by newterminus on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:32AM (#50422270)
hey been trying to meet you
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antonvs on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:05AM (#50423008)
They had to rename it to “MI-5” for the US market. The word doesn’t have the same connotations in the US as it does in the UK. One reason is that it was used as a racial slur in WWII and after the war.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kelnos on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:19AM (#50423139)
I think that's just a result of the term falling out of common use in the US. I'd expect 30 years ago "Spooks" would be a perfectly fine name for a TV show in the US. (I remember watching spy shows/movies and reading spy novels as a kid in the 80s/90s and hearing/reading that term.)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:19AM (#50426848)
It generally doesn't. People should stop reviving the negative connotation. Sure if someone is calling a black person a spook let's call them out but if that's not how it's being used let's not insist it's an inherently racist term. It's totally counter-productive.

Not what you are doing, just elaborating because while it can be used as a racial slur it doesn't generally have that connotation. I think if you directly asked most people they would either not know about the slur or not be able to specifically identify the targeted group. We can choose to let the term die.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by JohnMakin on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:39AM (#50422344)
what? no it isn’t
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:58AM (#50422479)
You seem to know it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:14AM (#50426766)
What are you talking about?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by specked-citrus on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:02AM (#50422058)
The administration has known about it since at least May. https://www.nytimes.com/2026/11/08/us/politics/rubio-nvidia-...

This "what distraction are they trying to make" line is ridiculous conspiracism. It's completely obvious that someone leaked it to the NY Times because they are alarmed that the admin is doing nothing about what is obviously a huge national security problem.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sleight42 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:17AM (#50422145)
Why assume it was a US leak?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hellgas00 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:24AM (#50422202)
It just seems like a coordinated crack down on Nvidia's relationship China.

Consider that the leak destroys the legitimacy of Huang's lobbying efforts efforts against tighter chips controls to China. In parallel the NYT released yesterday their investigation into commerce dept approvals of h200 chips to Chinese entities that the NYT claims are ghost offices linked to Chinese military contractors [1]. Also consider that these events put Nvidia under long term congressional security oversight with an installed watch dog. Nvidia is losing it's autonomy to cut international deals. Seems like the CIA/permeant state is getting nervous about China again.

[1] https://www.nytimes.com/2026/11/07/business/economy/nvidia-c...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by colechristensen on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:43AM (#50422369)
Maybe whomever knew wasn't sure of the election outcome of the revelation so they held it until reasonably afterwards.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by camgunz on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:46AM (#50422391)
I would guess it's to avoid Congressional investigations.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sgt101 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:07AM (#50422547)
He has a close relationship with Trump, so this could be an internal Whitehouse play to hurt Trump, or, he might have "disappointed" Trump, so this could be punishment.

Alternatively this could be a Chinese play designed to sow dissent and disruption in the USA post the mid-terms.

Or, it could just be a rather trivial story about an over confident and all to human titan of industry making the kind of mess in his personal life that a lot of people end up making - watch any TV mini series for example after example.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antonvs on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:51AM (#50422900)
How would personal trouble in Huang’s life hurt Trump? Compared to all the other things that Trump has done to hurt himself, culminating in the midterm results?

And China, really? What dissent is this going to cause? As for disruption, Nvidia essentially has a monopoly on what they do. Who the person in charge is, or what he’s doing, barely matters at this point.

> watch any TV mini series for example after example.

You might have been watching too many of those.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Betelbuddy on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:19AM (#50422636)
It has already leaked Trump and Rubio knew about this for 1 year.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by CodeArtisan on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:30AM (#50422720)
It was known for months already.

(May 2026) https://culperresearch.com/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Culper...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 4ggr0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:44AM (#50423808)
> Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang has not only vouched for Megaspeed, but seems to have quite literally walked alongside Megaspeed at every step, while maintaining an uncomfortably close relationship with Megaspeed’s Alice Huang, a Chinese national. He was first spotted partying with Alice Huang in June 2024 – the same month the Apex/Alibaba pledge was filed. He then dined with Alice Huang in Taiwan in May 2025 - just weeks after the news of U.S. trade restrictions.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Zigurd on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:25AM (#50427755)
Counterespionage isn't magically more competent than any other intelligence function. It seems like a pretty obvious prediction to make that because of the lackadaisy in following normal national security preventative measures in the Trump administrations, all kinds of preventable penetrations and compromise have happened in the past decade, now that we have a Congress that can investigate these. Elon reportedly calls Putin regularly. That can't be bad, right?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by esFran on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:11AM (#50421682)
China spying the West for some key tech secrets. Not New.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by agent_turtle on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:02AM (#50423476)
love this comment. the ceo of one of the most influential companies in the world gets caught sleeping with a spy of a rival hegemonic nation state during a period of intense technological, political, and economical change, and OP is like "pfft nothing to see here". amazing
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by petterroea on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:12AM (#50421687)
Not at all defending his actions, but I am reminded of someone in an earlier thread predicting that there may be some political reasons for this to come out, and that we may see NVIDIA do favors for the US government some time soon. That doesn't seem to be the case, but an observation:

"I love our country and our company. I am committed to protecting NVIDIA and supporting America’s national security. I am proud and grateful to be an American." sounds like the exact words one would say if they expected to be threatened of being un-patriotic and therefore cancelled in the right-wing sense. As others have pointed out in here, affair or not, the spy label is very much up to US government opinion.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by treebeard901 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:59AM (#50422034)
Probably a big nothing burger... Sad to see someone so smart got the Christine Fang treatment. Spy agencies are really something.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ricksunny on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:26AM (#50422211)
And with one letter, Jensen ceases to be a blackmail target candidate.

Author David Brin has been outspoken lately about politicians taking active measures at neutralizing the effects of blackmail, (which Jensen’s activity happens to match), in pointing to an older post of Brin’s: https://davidbrin.blogspot.com/2025/09/how-hero-might-escape...

(i don’t recommend reading directly as it is verbose, but summarize with AI)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mightysashiman on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:58AM (#50422485)
Enlighten me please: why should anyone (CEO included) apologise to employers/colleagues/board for a private matter such as an affair?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixmastamyk on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:41PM (#50431760)
Agreed in general, however there is impact to the company. Distraction at best, a significant stock selloff at worst. The second happened today. These are real impacts. (BTW, please respond to my earlier question in your history.)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Roark66 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:06AM (#50422545)
Personally I think if she's a spy he is a victim. Who knows what his relationship with his wife is. It's none of the public's business.

The only newsworthy part of this is possibility he could've been blackmailed in the past about it and I assume this is what the investigation will be about.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Traster on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:15AM (#50422609)
There are just some things that as the head of one of the world's largest companies you can't do. If Jensen Huang doesn't realise the geo-political importance of his chips, then he shouldn't be in the job. But we know he does because he spends all his time hanging around the white house lobbying Trump to let him sell his chips to America's geopolitical rivals.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by randomNumber7 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:39AM (#50422792)
> There are just some things that as the head of one of the world's largest companies you can't do.

He can't fuck anyone except his wife?

Remember that most politicians and other rich people can fuck minors without consequences.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alcomatt on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:52AM (#50422910)
So it makes it ok then? /s
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by randomNumber7 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:42AM (#50423309)
Not ok for the Catholic church, but absolutely ok if judged by the standards of our society.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alfiedotwtf on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:12AM (#50423083)
This is why I think it was released to the public because he didn’t want to do something and this is Trump’s payback ie sell a percentage to the government like how he forced Intel to do the same
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Traster on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:21AM (#50423144)
Well there's two parts to it, firstly yes, it's morally wrong for him to have an affair. I'm not sure if that particular part of it would warrant being fired. The part that I think is particularly bad is who he was having an affair with.

I'm kind of bemused by this "But Epstein" defence. No one thinks that's a good thing! Seriously, is that how we run society, if we can point to any grievous failure of justice we just suspend all further rules? No. Of course not.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yibg on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:23AM (#50426897)
But surely that only applies if there was some reasonable way for him to know she was a spy, if she’s even a spy. That part is still only an accusation, not even proven / confirmed.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Marazan on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:04AM (#50424455)
> If Jensen Huang doesn't realise the geo-political importance of his chips

The chips he wanted to sell direct to China?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Frieren on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:17AM (#50422626)
Defending a man cheating his wife because you probably have shares on the company is a great example on how messed up the world is.

A world in which Kings rule, and peasants defend their depraved way of life.

I really hope that you are a bot from a PR firm, because it his hard to image people being so servile to power.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by matwood on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:27AM (#50422698)
> Defending a man cheating his wife because you probably have

...

> defend their depraved way of life.

How about it's none of our business what happens in other people's bedrooms. For all we know his wife was fine with it or maybe she wasn't. Either way, not my business.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qurren on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:31AM (#50422727)
> For all we know his wife was fine with it

If she was, he wouldn't have apologized, he would have defended his open relationship.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by HappMacDonald on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:03AM (#50422989)
Because that worked so well for Charlie Sheen?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thaumasiotes on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:49AM (#50424880)
It also worked well for Bill Gates.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Ylpertnodi on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:38AM (#50423274)
He'll do exa tly what his pr company will tell him. 1. Admit guilt, 2. Apologise 3. Casually mention the thing most people are concerned about. 4. George Carlin script to follow...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bamboozled on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:39AM (#50422793)
This is a great example of someone not reading the article but commenting. RTFA.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sheepdestroyer on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:32AM (#50422731)
I don't see how or why whether someone "cheated" their spouse would be at all relevant for anything, or to anyone other than said spouses. Caring about this, like if that was somehow important to fixate upon, is disgustingly sick. Have some morals
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alcomatt on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:55AM (#50422928)
It does have shade a light on someone's moral compass and violates trust in the individual. If you break promises given to your partner of choice then you are going to break any promise period. Especially since you only apologise after you've been found out.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ctmlr on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:10AM (#50423061)
How do you know what promises they gave to each other? Maybe they're freaky.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sib on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:30AM (#50424155)
Because his own letter clearly admitted that his behavior toward his wife was wrong and not up to her / his expectations.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ctmlr on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:28AM (#50426958)
It's a PR statement for a country that is generally conservative about these kinds of things. Could be true I suppose.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by refurb on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:43AM (#50424254)
Why would he apologize if they weee in an open relationship?

Come on, think before you comment

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thaumasiotes on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:50AM (#50424317)
You've not commenting on an apology from him to her. You're commenting on an apology from him to you.

It's a public document; the reasons he published it aren't even likely to include whatever relationship he has with his wife.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nacs on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:03AM (#50425022)
It's relevant because he's the CEO of one of the largest US companies that makes export-restricted, highly-coveted tech with military applications.

Because it's a matter of national security.

And because he deals with foreign governmennts and should know better being of Chinese origin that the Chinese are known to use such honeypots?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Frieren on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:45AM (#50425515)
> I don't see how or why whether someone "cheated" their spouse would be at all relevant for anything,

I am not talking about the news. But about the people defending the cheating.

The news are not that he cheated but he cheated "... with a Chinese spy". And the post is not even about the news but an official release from Nvidia!

I do not even know anymore what is your point? Are you just asking people to stop caring about what billionaires do? Are you trying to protect the image of a billionaire for some weird reason? I do not get how do you fail to just read the news or the actual press release from Nvidia.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by trymas on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:26AM (#50423185)
Exactly. Downvotes on your comment just proves your point.

OC says Huang is a victim. For real?

Owner and CEO of a TOP 3 company by market cap.

At that point he's not a private person, his actions have global consequences (his wife, kids most likely still are private persons, that's true, but I don't know about them).

He's in an incredible position of power against the majority of world leaders, but he's apparently "a victim" in an eyes of HN oligarch apologetic crowd?! Because he was allegedly seduced by Chinese spy? What in the sinophobia and oligarchophilia is this?

If Huang wouldn't be of ultra-billionaire class and the woman would truly is a spy - he would be in prison for treason in a heart beat. I can bet - nothing will happen and by next Monday this all will be forgotten, washed by best PR firms he can buy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thih9 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:32AM (#50422732)
He may be a victim, but note that he had to choose to participate.

Also note that his wife and children are victims of his unfaithful actions. He is the only one responsible for that - he just said so himself.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by eecc on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:37AM (#50422778)
Jensen's offspring are both adults, at some point the relationship changes from one of total responsibility and dependence to one among equals.

We should really stop with this "just think of the children" knee-jerk

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by overfeed on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:00AM (#50422964)
> We should really stop with this "just think of the children" knee-jerk

From the horse's mouth:

>> My actions hurt her and our children.

Parents (or "equals") can hurt and and disappoint others at any age - including adults.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by not-kinsale-joe on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:03AM (#50422994)
I have friends who as an adult one of the parents had an affair and and it was pretty tough for them, and the parent child relationship has never been the same again.

I don't know why you seem to be so against considering Jensen's children. Some people really value the commitments of marriage and see adultery as something very serious and damaging.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by origini on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:57AM (#50423905)
And project their world views onto others.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solenoid0937 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:32AM (#50425355)
I don't consider his children because they are nepo-babies that were hired into Nvidia, make tens of millions of $$$, and stand to inherit billions. They will be fine.

There are so many other children in the world that deserve consideration before his (grown adult, very rich) children.

Jensen should be apologizing to Americans for compromising NatSec.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tremon on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:56AM (#50425668)
> Jensen should be apologizing to Americans for compromising NatSec

Why? National Security is not in his job description.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vikramkr on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:15AM (#50425956)
He does advanced chip technology it's 100% in his job description and is why he spends a full paragraph talking about natsec in that apology letter
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 59percentmore on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:41AM (#50426303)
There's a tacit expectation that you don't use the privilege of doing business with/within a country to put the people you're doing business with at risk.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joebe89 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:17AM (#50423108)
I disagree. Even as an adult I would be distraught if one of my parents decided to cheat on the other. Your children being adults doesn't mean you no longer have a responsibility towards them.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mapcars on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:15AM (#50423599)
Then its time to grow up, people change, interests change, lifelong love and happy life together is and always was a fairytale. Once you are 20 and somewhat independent its time to relax your responsibility claims on your parents. They already spent a great deal of their so very limited life time on you, at least be grateful for that.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joebe89 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:37AM (#50423759)
Of course people change, but there's a way to go about it that doesn't involve going behind your partners back and making national news coverage in the process. The fact you don't see that difference is bizarre.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mapcars on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:31AM (#50424164)
The national new part is only because he is a CEO of the gigantic and strategic company, I was addressing the idea that parents are responsible to adult children in general.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thadt on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:00AM (#50424416)
Perhaps growing up is coming to the understanding that we have a responsibility to each other regardless of our ages.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:51AM (#50426440)
>Then its time to grow up, people change, interests change, lifelong love and happy life together is and always was a fairytale.

If this is your attitude then you should just never get married in the first place. At the very least you owe it to a partner that expects a real commitment.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by javier123454321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:05AM (#50427425)
This is not people changing. This is discovering someone that you had an intimate connection with and who helped shape your worldview actually has some major flaws in character. Presumably and at some level, you probably followed their advice and made choices that lead you to where you are in connection with their wishes and it should be at the very least a great cause for self-reflection given they are not the person you thought they were.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Tade0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:01AM (#50427371)
I can tell you from experience that it hits different when you're legally an adult.

For one, there's no custody case. There's often also no child support (some jurisdictions extend it to college students) to speak of.

There's really mostly the sorrow of the parent who was cheated on.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yabatopia on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:18AM (#50423126)
Forget the children. Please think about the shareholders!

I notice quite a few people worry more about the financial implications (nVidia's stock price) than the ethical ones.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bigfishrunning on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:20AM (#50426030)
I think many of his defenders are very worried about the financial implications and are defending him to try and steer the conversation in a way that will minimize those implications.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pixelstack on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:23AM (#50423164)
> Jensen's offspring are both adults

So, they are not allowed to be upset if daddy decided to cheat on their mommy after long marriage with some chinese honeypot? I hope you are not planning on start your own family any time soon

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:35AM (#50424183)
I believe parent post's point was that the children are allowed to be upset, but it's a bit rich for the internet to be clutching its pearls on behalf of them if they're adults.

"Think of the children" is a rhetorical appeal to pathos.

There's plenty to talk about here that doesn't require assuming how an adult is going to feel about another adult's behavior.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Keyframe on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:22AM (#50424618)
He may be a victim, but note that he had to choose to participate.

To play devil's advocate here.. If she's a spy trained in psychological manipulation and seduction we'd be right to call him a victim instead of a participant since he'd be a target of those techniques applied to him. Maybe?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _heimdall on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:29AM (#50424691)
That can help explain what led to him deciding to cheat, but no it doesn't make him a victim. People have to be responsible for their actions rather than being labeled a victim of their own choices.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hermitShell on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:47AM (#50424854)
I would personally agree that it is possible he is a victim of advanced psy-op technology. I don't personally believe we have nearly as much 'choice' or 'free will' as NA culture of the past 40+ years has led most people to believe.

At a deeper level we do get to choose our overall environment and what kinds of things we are exposed to frequently, the recurring patterns of life can be consciously managed and shaped. But in the moment, we are more like an LLM doing a forward pass on next token. If a specific weight relating to refusal has been abliterated, it's not realistic to expect the next token to somehow still come out to refusal.

We can control our training better than we can control our inference. We have ego-ideals and specific mental makeup that can be exploited if identified.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gamerdonkey on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:21PM (#50428527)
The "advanced psy-op technology" of feigning physical attraction to a sexagenarian billionaire.

I kind of see where you're coming from, but people are still responsible for their actions. McDonald's employs psychologists and spends millions if not billions of dollars per year to abliterate my weights in regards to their restaurant, and yet I still refuse. And it would be my choice if I gave in. As pointed out elsewhere in the comments, Huang had to make many decisions to end up in his current situation, and each one is a failure for someone leading a company of that size and influence.

Also, other reporting has well established that extramarital activity is the relative norm for ultrawealthy men in business. Are we to believe that every time one of these guys enters a sexual relationship with a younger woman, it was an attack leveled by some psy-witch harpy on a hapless CEO? It seems more likely to me that Huang was participating in normal behavior for men in his position, and in this case it may have actually had consequences.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by MisterMunchkin on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:10AM (#50425865)
And if he was a gambler and she offered him money to pay his debts, would you say he is a victim? Come on man.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by catchnear4321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:29AM (#50426148)
There are other ways to compromise a target that do not involve infidelity. These “techniques” just facilitate the process for an at least somewhat willing and/or interested target.

So, no, he’s not a victim, his existing personal potential for infidelity was exploited. It worked because he would have done the same thing if the right non-spy were to arrive on the scene. The spy takes advantage of that.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by noisy_boy on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:18AM (#50426834)
What if she wasn't a trained spy but someone naturally gifted in psychological manipulation and seduction? No longer victim but participant? Even though the effect he faced was the same?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by superxpro12 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:28AM (#50426959)
He's married... he made an oath, signed a social contract to another person, his wife, that he made the conscious choice to break.

Its clear his wealth generated a level of narcissism here that rose to a level that permitted him to invalidate the feelings of his wife, who, again, he made a vow to.

It does not matter if some hot chinese spy tried to get into his pants. He still let it. For a loooooong time.

I'm personally so tired of excusing infidelity. He is a big boy. He can make big boy decisions.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ClarityJones on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:50AM (#50428122)
That's generally true if the victim is a laymen, but somewhere between being a college pool-boy, to the president of a nation, to running a company that is more powerful than many nations... there arises an obligation to defend against such foreseeable attacks.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by montjoy on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:30AM (#50426986)
We just don’t know the story enough to judge. What if he was given benzos and was immediately blackmailed for example? This is a nation-state organized affair after all, not just a poorly judged night at the bar.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qs1ykyusPlate on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:32AM (#50422737)
victim of cheating on his wife? hahhaha c'mon people is this place are hilarious.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 1dom on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:37AM (#50422776)
> Personally I think if she's a spy he is a victim. Who knows what his relationship with his wife is. It's none of the public's business.

This is an interesting take. I'm not sure I agree with it. I understand the principal: that she might have been being dishonest towards him, so he's a victim of lies.

Anyone who's worked in and around any high value, high risk or regulated areas has done the training courses on these sorts of risks though: specifically, people will lie to you to get information out of you.

Sure, on a personal level, consider him a victim if you want. On a professional level, this is him ignoring training, at great risk to the business.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by weatherlite on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:41AM (#50422800)
> The only newsworthy part of this is possibility he could've been blackmailed in the past about it and I assume this is what the investigation will be about.

What ? If she was in his house and was a real Chinese spy who knows what data she extracted. Sorry, that's news worthy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vova_hn2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:47AM (#50423348)
> If she was in his house and was a real Chinese spy who knows what data she extracted.

Not sure, if I follow. Are you saying that he has confidential papers just lying around his house? Or a computer (or other device) with confidential data without a strong password and an encrypted drive?

If any of this is true, I would say that this is actually a bigger problem, than the whole affair thing.

I'm just a humble software engineer and wouldn't let myself to handle any work related data so carelessly. Not sure, why a CEO of a huge multinational corporation would be held to lower standards.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pjc50 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:55AM (#50423420)
Advanced security technology does nothing against the old attacks of "look over the person's shoulder while working in bed" and "your work is really interesting and important, please tell me more".
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vova_hn2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:01AM (#50423471)
> "look over the person's shoulder while working in bed"

I don't know, maybe you're right. I, personally, am very uncomfortable (almost physically) if I know that someone is seeing my screen and I wouldn't be able to get any work done in such state. Maybe I'm just weird.

> "your work is really interesting and important, please tell me more"

This one is unrelated to physically being inside someone's house.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by varjag on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:06AM (#50423981)
It requires intimacy, and Huang is not in the age/wealth bracket for long distance relationship.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Cthulhu_ on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:10AM (#50423558)
Actually non-advanced security technology can prevent that by locking the system / user entirely if they're using their work laptop or accessing company data like... emails while not in a secure location, e.g. the office.

Corporate security is a strong reason for leaving your work at work.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by swiftcoder on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:17AM (#50425194)
> Corporate security is a strong reason for leaving your work at work

Never met a tech executive who left work at work. Also never met an IT security team who had the juice to tell the CEO what he could and couldn't do on his corporate phone...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rsanders on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:25AM (#50426092)
I suspect this team will have a little bit of leverage now.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by croon on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:00AM (#50423465)
Hardware keyloggers, microphones, spycams, etc.

The precautions you describe does not shield against any of those, and I'm not even being creative.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vova_hn2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:03AM (#50423490)
> Hardware keyloggers, microphones, spycams

You're right, haven't thought about those.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by infthi on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:12AM (#50424531)
in that case the rootcause is letting other people into your house, not cheating
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by weatherlite on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:54AM (#50425639)
All of it together. He compromised the company by having an affair with a Chinese spy. The cheating is relevant.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yibg on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:21AM (#50426871)
If that’s all it takes then he should never have any friends either. They could be compromised too.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by chvid on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:47AM (#50422864)
It seems to have a political dimension: Jensen having a laissez-faire AI attitude and being a China dove.

Jensen also probably got too close to Trump and now the China hawks and maybe the dems are out to make an example.

Also Jensen does not have golden shares/full control unlike Musk, Zuckerberg etc. so he can be actually be unseated.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by maxglute on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:01AM (#50422965)
Or she's not a spy and both are victims of more yellow peril shenanigans. Like a Chinese national spins up SG proxy to legally buy Nvidia cards. Jenson wants to legally sell Nvidia cards to China within export control limits. He hardly needs pussy as incentive to sell more hardware. Business people running billion dollar companies (megaspeed is) talking to domestic politicians isn't a fucking espionage, just like Jensen phoning Trump isn't. Like is PRC going to lock up any western businesses men that's ever been to the white house? It's just business as usual except useful idiots will by the yellow peril narrative that a moderately attractive Chinese MILF is a spy and business friend with benefits being used undermine Jensen for following letter / not spirit of law, aka customary fiduciary duty stuff.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Ylpertnodi on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:33AM (#50423245)
Is the "yellow peril", only Chinese or does it refer to all asians?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by scns on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:46AM (#50423821)
Thought it might be a quite fitting substitution for yellow press.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joey486DX4 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:59AM (#50423925)
>Is the "yellow peril", only Chinese or does it refer to all asians?

I mean, Shou Zi Chew was grilled by Congress for his "links" to the Chinese Communist Party, and made to state that Tiananmen Square 1989 was a massacre despite being born, raised in Singapore, and served the Singapore military.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thaumasiotes on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:47AM (#50424298)
A guy from a Chinese country with an obviously Chinese name isn't the greatest exemplar of the idea that "it's not just the Chinese".

The concept seems to have been mostly focused on the Chinese, but that in turn seems to have been largely because they outnumber everybody else.

You can read an essay criticizing the concept at Project Gutenberg: https://www.gutenberg.org/cache/epub/26350/pg26350-images.ht...

(It's in French, written by a Russian in 1897.)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by victorhooi on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:04AM (#50427412)
I think many here are conflating quite a few different things here.

Firstly, ethnicity is not the same as nationality.

Secondly, the CCP and China are two separate things. And then there's your definition of China, but I'm not going there. RoC and all...

Thirdly, Singapore is actually a former British colony, the native people are Malays, and there's four official languages (English, Chinese/Mandarin, Tamil and Malay). Now yes, there's a large erhnic Chinese diaspora in Singapore, but arguing that being Singaporean makes you a CCP spy would be a bit of a reach.

And geopolitical naivety aside, I find it mildly perturbing that somebody might assume that I'm a red under the bed, just because I have black hair, an olive complexion and am lactose intolerant.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sysguest on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:30AM (#50424701)
idk so Tiananmen Square 1989 isn't a massacre?

if I was given this much easy task on congress hearing, I'd just say it with megaphone and take the lead from there

why is it difficult to say some fact?

is it difficult for you to say so?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cousin_it on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:57AM (#50424966)
People shouldn't be forced to say things.

Freedom of speech is valuable and fragile. It's always in danger of being eroded by authoritarians.

"Why do you refuse to say this true thing? Are you evil?"

"Why do you insist on saying this false thing? Are you evil?"

Because you're not the boss and don't get to tell people what to say or not say.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joey486DX4 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:19AM (#50426849)
Because he isn't from China. It's racial stereotyping that everyone that looks a certain way is a threat to America. It's dangerous especially when violent attacks on Asians in the United States have skyrocketed as a result of this kind of discourse.

Change the race and ethnicity and tell me that it's okay.

Why can't you admit that this is yellow peril?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by uxp100 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:55AM (#50424370)
Originally used with Japan and China. It would be odd to invoke the phrase in some situation involving like, Bangladesh I suppose.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sysguest on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:22AM (#50424619)
yeah as an east-asian, I find it really hard to believe that THAT lady is attractive...

hell that's the typical "before" face of countless plastic surgery hospitals -- provides a great contrast to the "after"

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ink_13 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:21AM (#50427674)
You don't bait a honeypot with supermodels
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by maxglute on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:54PM (#50428958)
Of course you do, almost exclusively, name one expose in last 20 years where high profile honeypot wasn't initiated by some 20-30 year old. This isn't WWII or Cold War where age gap matters, this degenerate 2000s, it's like always some leggy soviet goldens showering on daddy for leverage... except when it comes to Chinese then it's old madam... despite all the yellow fever going around and Jensen signing tits. Like successful Chinese men cheating with 20 yo side piece as apple pie tier accepted phenomenon. Somehow China, a country with unlimited seductress sends a... 40 year old, to a thirsty leather jacket wearing Chinese CEO that signs tits.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by maxglute on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:12PM (#50429241)
Of course you do, almost exclusively, name one expose in last 20 years where high profile honeypot wasn't initiated by some 20-30 year old. This isn't WWII or Cold War where age gap matters, this degenerate 2000s, it's like always some leggy soviet goldens showering on daddy for leverage... except when it comes to Chinese then it's old madam... despite all the yellow fever going around and Jensen signing tits. Like successful Chinese men cheating with 20 yo side piece as apple pie tier accepted phenomenon. Somehow China, a country with unlimited seductress sends a... 6/10, looks like >40yr old to a thirsty leather jacket wearing Chinese CEO that signs tits.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by philwelch on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:03AM (#50422991)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by elp on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:25AM (#50423183)
It's the oldest trick in the book for a reason.

Or to paraphrase a really old joke: Men have two heads but only enough blood to run one at a time.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mock-possum on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:28AM (#50426116)
The real joke is the sexism that says this is somehow uniquely a problem with men. Women do plenty of stupid things because they’re horny and/or lonely. That whole ‘little head’ thing seems like a bit of harmless cheek until you start looking at it in the broader context of sexism and gender roles, then it gets a lot more tedious.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pixelstack on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:28AM (#50423202)
how is he a victim for choosing to cheat on his wife? Leave alone a possibility of the honeypot. Like he willingly was engaging in the relationships with that chinese women behind the back of his wife. How is he a victim now?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by philwelch on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:46AM (#50423335)
I was agreeing that he was a victim of the foreign spy operation, if there was one.

I’m not commenting on the adultery because that’s a separate, private matter.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by TedDoesntTalk on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:20AM (#50423646)
Is the gambler the victim of the casino?

Is the alcoholic the victim of the liquor manufacturers?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by philwelch on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:32AM (#50423717)
As I said, I’m not commenting on personal vices. I’m commenting on foreign intelligence operations because that’s the only question of legitimate public interest here, as opposed to prurient gossip.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by John23832 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:47AM (#50423827)
Yes. They can prey upon the people who frequent them.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:06AM (#50426673)
These arent great analogies because you dont have to have sex with a spy to be a victim of a foreign intelligence operation.

The gambler goes to the casino to gamble. And Alice Huang was sent to meet Jensen Huang under normal business pretenses.

The analogy cant quite represent it but its more like the casino sent a dealer-in-disguise to the gambler on some plausible non-gambling pretenses to spy on him. So he's a victim of the casino's spy operation. Then he gambled.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by philwelch on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:53AM (#50428158)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:55AM (#50426493)
>how is he a victim for choosing to cheat on his wife?

He's not, you're adding details to his claim that he never said. He's the victim of a foreign intelligence operaiton.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by InsideOutSanta on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:19AM (#50423135)
> I think if she's a spy he is a victim

He's both a victim and a perpetrator.

And while I usually wouldn't care if he cheated on his wife, because that's between him and his family, in this case, he was also incredibly dumb. This guy could have cheated on his wife with any number of women, but he chose to do it with a Chinese spy. I think having somebody who makes incredibly dumb decisions be the CEO of the world's most important company is definitely newsworthy.

"You're not talking to someone who woke up a loser, but you are talking to someone who woke up next to a Chinese spy."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xienze on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:44AM (#50424271)
> but he chose to do it with a Chinese spy

The implication here being that he _knew_ she was a Chinese spy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by InsideOutSanta on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:06AM (#50424480)
No, the implication here being that he should have turned on his fucking brain and thought about it for one second before having sex with her.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by toolslive on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:43AM (#50424812)
"...he should have turned on his fucking brain...". That's exactly what he did.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xiphias2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:30AM (#50423220)
I think the cheating is newsworthy as well, but separate: Lori likes to donate money and she would be a great target for donations if she leaves Jensen.

There's $50B at stake, so there's a huge incentive for foundations to ruin what's left of the family.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shakow on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:14AM (#50424034)
> if she's a spy he is a victim

I don't know; at some point “don't put your dick in people from the Other Side” should be a pretty well known rule if you're someone important. She didn't even hide her nationality.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by watwut on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:53AM (#50424353)
> Who knows what his relationship with his wife is.

Best bet: not too good right now.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _heimdall on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:27AM (#50424673)
He may be a victim of espionage, but he isn't a victim of adultery. He knew what he was doing, a spy didn't make him take his pants off against his will.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwayay58373 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:33AM (#50427885)
If people can't take responsibility for their social media addiction because social media companies hire addiction experts, then I don't see how this man can be responsible for being manipulated and seduced by a professional spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _heimdall on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:29PM (#50429496)
For one, we don't know what would have happened between these two people so to write off responsibility simply because she is believed to be a spy seems early.

Second, yes someone with an addiction is still responsible for their actions. That doesn't mean it isn't an understandable and difficult struggle, but they aren't free of all responsibility either.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Zigurd on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:16AM (#50427612)
Companies with valuations like Nvidia have hard-core corporate security. While it is possible that Nvidia is only newly important to national technology policy, and therefore not super aware of espionage threats, this still seems like a pretty bad fumble.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwayay58373 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:32AM (#50427861)
It's interesting to see this discourse play out.

In the news we're told countless times that eg. that some unhoused person who burned mutilated another person is actually a victim of some-system-X, or that we're all victims of social media companies building addicting products -- BUT in this case Huang SHOULD have known better and had absolute control over his actions.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dagenleg on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:59AM (#50428260)
I know "woke" is over, but it's exactly the sentiments like this on HN that make me understand why it arose in the first place. Just like in any other techie-dominated space, the level of complacency and self-victimisation is off the charts here.

In what universe does cheating on your wife make you a victim? Even if the other party had a vested interest in making it happen, it's still a free choice that Jensen made. It's really tiring to read these theories and mental gymnastics involving a sly seductionness engaging in psy-ops and psychological manipulation to get into the pants of a reluctant billionaire.

Women are not some kind of mind-manipulating fantasy creatures, nor do spies running honeypot stings spray their marks with irresistible aphrodisiac pheromones. It's honestly very concerning to me how easily people here snap into this kind of simplistic us-vs-them model of the world, which I guess well explains the constant bemoaning about male loneliness, lack of male role models, male dating prospects, etc that I see here.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ricksunny on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:20AM (#50422650)
I hope it’s apparent to everyone that the natsec state (whether CIA or FBI for its domestic counterintel mandate) had to actively engage in ‘conspiracy theorizing’ in order to determine whatever exposure Jensen had, which seems to be bearing out to some as-yet-unknown degree. Worth keeping in mind next time you’re feeling shy about expressing your own latest conspiracy theorizing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jongjong on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:30AM (#50422719)
Probably he had to have an affair with that woman to give the CCP some leverage over him. Powerful financial entities nowadays won't allow you to have any opportunities unless they have have leverage over you.

Maybe he had to do it in order to be allowed to make sales in China.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by flakeoil on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:33AM (#50422741)
It's called prostitution.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Ylpertnodi on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:30AM (#50423222)
It's actually called espionage. Take a read of the UK cops infiltrating animal rights groups. When jo blo cops get the protesters they are investigating pregnant....who can only guess what goes on with the people at the pres's table.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alcomatt on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:49AM (#50422878)
Big Tech CEOs - all of them are the same sociopathic liars...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by zan2215 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:50AM (#50422882)
Fell for the oldest trick in the book.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theplumber on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:02AM (#50422976)
I don’t really understand what’s the issue with “cheating” his wife.

That’s his personal life and I fail to see why are we supposed to behave like some kind of religious zealots on marriage.

The best way to handle this should probably be to be upfront about it so that he could not be blackmailed. His only mistake was that he didn’t disclose it earlier when rumours surfaced

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by catmanjan on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:06AM (#50423016)
If your wife can't trust you, why should anyone else?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theplumber on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:09PM (#50432193)
Trust you to what? Be a good monk?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stratocumulus0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:11AM (#50423069)
It would not be unethical if he agreed with his wife to an open relationship, but this email is proof that he did not.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dymk on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:31AM (#50426993)
The email was written by a team of PR people to assuage the public as best possible. You nor I know what his relationship with his wife is.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by boyka on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:15AM (#50423097)
Why would a trustworthy individual cheat someone they love? Would they cheat their customers?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:39AM (#50427972)
Are you sure he cheated? Are you sure his wife was still physically involved at her age? Are you sure he was not trying to turn the Chinese spy into a double agent, making him a hero? Are you even sure he did not have the permission of his wife? Did they have an open marriage? All these questions with no answers suggest you are rushing to a conclusion that is not based on facts.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kelnos on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:15AM (#50423099)
> religious zealots on marriage.

It's not about religion, it's about trust and keeping promises. Like it or not, the default understanding in a marital relationship in many places in the world is monogamy. Some people, of course, engage in other practices, after an explicit discussion, and agreement and understanding. But presumably Huang's wife believed she and her husband were in a monogamous relationship, and trusted Huang to keep it that way. That's the issue; religion is irrelevant. (And different religious practices have different things to say about monogamy vs. polyamory, and atheists decide for themselves if they want to be monogamists or polyamorists; religion need not be involved at all.)

But regardless, I think his infidelity is not his employees' business; IMO it's weird to bring it up in this way. The bit about his affair partner possibly(?) being a spy is the thing that actually matters to NVIDIA and NVIDIA employees, but he only dedicates a few sentences to it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Klonoar on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:35AM (#50425403)
> he only dedicates a few sentences to it

That may be by design: the spying issue might hurt the stock/situation/etc more than the affair.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dymk on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:29AM (#50426977)
You and I have no idea what their relationship is. Maybe they swing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theplumber on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:01PM (#50432072)
Well marriage is really mostly a religious thing so you can’t say it’s not about religion. The vows or whatever you want to call them are all about that.

Imagine being almost 60 and worrying about your wife finding you had an affair. I think you should rather worry about the next episode which is certain death.

With the financial affairs settled, the kids old enough to not be affected and 40 years of marriage I really fail to see the issue of an affair here. Not to mention being an workaholic most of his life. Give him a break

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by computably on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:31PM (#50432482)
> Well marriage is really mostly a religious thing so you can’t say it’s not about religion.

That's a non-argument against a social construct. Religion has influenced every aspect of society, including morality as a whole. That historical fact doesn't invalidate the social norms, in the same way that secular norms are not invalidated by their dissociation from religion.

> Imagine being almost 60 and worrying about your wife finding you had an affair. I think you should rather worry about the next episode which is certain death.

Because of his actions, he will be alienated from his family. Objectively, pretty much every human derives fulfillment in life, and peace as they approach death, from their relations to others around them.

> Give him a break.

LOL. Let's give this poor trillionaire a break, think of what these HN comments will do to his psyche! What's that about his wife being cheated on? Shush.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jonathanstrange on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:18AM (#50423120)
It's mostly a US thing, I've seen a huge divide about marriage between old Europe and the US that's due to influence of puritanism. Only 20% of men in the US cheat, that's a relatively low figure.

The moralists also conveniently ignore that the vast majority of men is not very attractive. Cheating would take a lot of effort for them. In contrast, I knew some men who were attractive enough they had to fend of women almost daily. For them, not cheating takes a lot of effort. The bottomline is that most of the 5/10 guys who say "I would never cheat" would do so the very next day if a 9/10 woman suddenly got interested in them, which is exactly what happened in this case.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:36AM (#50427927)
There are very important questions here: did he obtained consent, was the consent valid, was "her body, her choice" a real behavior or a trama response, did he took advantage of her? All these important loose ends ...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by igleria on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:02AM (#50422977)
he will only have to deal with the embarrassment of figuring out how to spend his golden parachute money. IF he gets ousted, which is not a guarantee at all.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antman on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:09AM (#50423042)
If he had moved the Nvidia HQ to France it might have reached the back-pages but nobody would have cared. It’s interesting how overall virtue signalling is presented as important whereas the obvious bubble of the actual numbers of Nvidia is for considered important enough for relevant statements or actions.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alfiedotwtf on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:09AM (#50423049)
Anyone else think that they’re only making this public not because it happened but because he’s tried to go against Trump and releasing this is payback/coercion
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by agent_turtle on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:17AM (#50423619)
no. this is a national security failure, and reflects poorly on the administration considering there's reporting they've known for months and still had huang in close proximity to the white house.

china has to resort to honeypots because they have few legitimate political tools to influence decisions of an american company. not so for Trump et al - there are much more effective ways for the president to coerce a ceo than telling the world they let a potentially compromised individual help make policy decisions lol

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by thordenmark on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:22AM (#50423148)
Maybe they are just an innocent couple who fell in love, and his wife was not providing the affection he needed. Why jump to conclusions?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Capricorn2481 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:13AM (#50423591)
If that were the case I imagine he'd divorce his wife privately and not publicly admit to cheating on her.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mytailorisrich on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:24AM (#50423171)
There was no reason to make this public and this happens just after the midterms.

This screams political hit job.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by agent_turtle on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:45AM (#50423330)
lol what

i mean it is political in the sense that he slept with a chinese spy while also doing business deals with chinese companies.

but if you're suggesting this has something to do with the midterms, what would even be the gain

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Aboutplants on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:50AM (#50424322)
The political move was to wait until after the midterms for this to come out, because data centers/AI has such a negative public perception. Turns out waiting didn’t help
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by contubernio on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:29AM (#50423210)
Essentially all CEOs of big companies have affairs and employ prostitutes. There are very few if any exceptions. Some hide their behavior better than others, some feel no need to do so. It's how 50+ heterosexual men behave if they have the resources to do so, and these guys have the resources to do so.

The consequence of this for security is twofold. First, compromising someone with sex is both much cheaper than compromising someone with direct payments of money and much easier to hide in an operational sense. Second, this is particularly so when the married mark's image (even sincere mentality) is one of rectitude and hard work and so forth.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by usrnm on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:38AM (#50423276)
> heterosexual

You mean, employing male prostitutes is somehow any better?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by KellyCriterion on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:41AM (#50423305)
Well, the "mechanics" in these (rare) case work "different"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by usrnm on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:50AM (#50423375)
How so? Genuinely curious
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by iinnPP on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:42AM (#50423310)
The poster made no such insinuation.

A much more reasonable interpretation is that they are limiting their statement to their knowledge.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by contubernio on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:23AM (#50426058)
I made no such statement. I simply qualified that the specific behavior I was describing seems particular to a certain context.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xuhu on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:58AM (#50423449)
It's reassuring to know I owe nothing to people who describe men this way.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Pentamerous on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:39AM (#50423282)
Opinions on the affair and the public discourse aside, I have to say though that it is the first time in a long time that I see an apology letter written from a business person in the name of the company that actually admits wrongdoing and has accountability.

Usually they are more along the lines of fake apologies like "I'm sorry that you feel that way", or in this particular case I would imagine something like "I'm sorry that I was spied on, I was doing my best and nothing prepared me to deal with a foreign agent".

It's refreshing to see words like "My responsibility is to serve you and be worthy of your trust. I have fallen short of that responsibility. I am fully committed to NVIDIA and will work to earn back your confidence.".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wewewedxfgdf on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:43AM (#50423321)
"I'm very sorry I got caught."
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by torben-friis on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:58AM (#50423450)
I'm being a bit weirded out to see, for this story (not just this thread), how the top comments are positive takes on Jensen.

He's a victim, he apologizes well, he's working with the board on this...

Is HN just this millionare-friendly? astroturfed?

Not that I expect a metaphorical lynching, but it's certainly a take when the news is "one of the most important roles in the US is potentially losing national secrets by absurd oversight".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nomorewords on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:06AM (#50423515)
I'm not American but having retirement money be in the markets creates some wild downstream effects
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Capricorn2481 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:07AM (#50423522)
> Is HN just this millionare-friendly

He is a billionaire and people here fall over themselves idolizing figures like him. You get the sense reading HN comments that they respect founders they don't know more than their own spouse or kids.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yreg on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:10AM (#50423562)
> Is HN just this millionare-friendly?

What do you mean by this, should we be negative about him because he is rich?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by torben-friis on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:17AM (#50423613)
No, you should be negative about him because he's exposing an industry to sexual blackmail and espionage in a position way too high to not know better.

I'm implying him being rich is making people blind to this fact.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lukan on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:27AM (#50423686)
He had an affair(into which he was lured by someone professional) and accepted his fault and responsibility. He did not poison people for profit and tried to hide it, so personally I see this more as a internal family issue for him and not so much the worlds buisness.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by torben-friis on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:33AM (#50423727)
If he had stored an important password on a postit on his laptop, would you call that a private matter?

I'm personally not interested in the morals of cheating, but claiming this is a private issue is crazy, as is removing his agency and implying it was something done to him. You don't fall in a random's bed by stumbling.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by codeduck on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:59AM (#50423929)
"Oops, I tripped and somehow my penis ended up inside them."
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bartread on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:16AM (#50424050)
> If he had stored an important password on a postit on his laptop, would you call that a private matter?

Whoa, whoa, who, whoa, whoa! You know the rules: no leaking next week’s headlines in advance. What kind of outfit do you think we’re running here?

I do agree though: regardless of whether the woman is a Chinese agent or not, and regardless of whether he knew or suspected (I doubt he did), this affair represents a serious lapse in judgement that has implications far beyond his personal life.

If you can be compromised personally, you can certainly be compromised professionally.

I suspect it won’t happen, because it would likely tank the stock, but really he should be thinking about resigning.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joyeuse6701 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:09AM (#50425857)
True, you get seduced. You think Russian and Chinese spy agencies leave these things to chance?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by figmert on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:24AM (#50424112)
While I agree with the top level in this thread that it _is_ refreshing to see someone like Jensen taking responsibility for once, I disagree that we should absolve him of all wrong doings. This is also not just a personal matter. If this person was indeed a Chinese spy (I believe this is still not confirmed), then that can have big impact on NVDA. Naturally, it may also not have any impact, but regardless, if it is the former, it certainly is not an internal family issue.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lukan on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:26AM (#50424666)
"I disagree that we should absolve him of all wrong doings"

I did not. If there was more to it, leaked confidentials, blackmailed deals etc. then yes, he will be responsible. There is an investigation. But what is known, so far he "just" cheated on his wife. And this is what they have to deal with.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mrngld on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:27AM (#50425316)
Whether it happened or not I don't think is relevant, the lack of judgment in opening himself to blackmail, etc., was a lapse in judgment that at least IMHO disqualifies him from leading one of the most valuable and strategically important companies on the planet.

For what it's worth, I believe the military would agree, that would lead to a pretty quick loss of security clearances.

The dude isn't running a McDonalds franchise, after all. Everyone is saying he "took responsibility". No, he admitted it after it was already public (which is no great act of courage), now the board needs to actually make him accountable. And unemployed.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antihero on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:26AM (#50424657)
I'm not sure why we should give a fuck unless she was a spy or whatever.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by watwut on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:52AM (#50424348)
Based on HN, a programmer who used company laptop for interview is total irresponsible unprofessional looser, no one should hire him. Whoever says something else is heavily downvoted.

CEO who gets honey-trapped by stripper agent ... is well meaning smartest person ever.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by akoboldfrying on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:56AM (#50425660)
Very apt and timely comparison.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joyeuse6701 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:07AM (#50425826)
I think this is the wrong take. Being rich doesn’t suddenly reduce people’s humanity.

Assuming the spy angle to be true, He IS a victim as a target of a concentrated effort by a nation state to compromise him.

If all it took to compromise US national security was for a nation state to exploit the oldest backdoor in the human/male psyche, then I’d say there’s something wrong with the national security defense strategy.

Don’t blame the single point of failure, blame the design, maybe the designers.

It should never have been possible.

Having said that, Russia/China wouldn’t use this strategy unless it worked against most powerful men and their psyche.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yibg on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:18AM (#50426839)
I see a lot of comments like this, but I’m not sure people thinks he should’ve done. He cheated on his wife, that’s a bad thing. But let’s say he was single and got into bed with a spy, the situation wouldn’t be any better for I’m. So, what’s the actual criticism?

- he should’ve been more careful? How?

- he should never get into a romantic relationship because they could be a spy?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Capricorn2481 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:18AM (#50423622)
The implication is that HN commenters have a tendency to attribute more humanity and depth to rich and powerful figures
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dezsiszabi on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:32PM (#50430577)
In general, yes.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dolkycape on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:42AM (#50423794)
A lot of users here probably have a lot of Nvidia stock in their portfolio.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ForHackernews on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:32AM (#50424168)
At the risk of stereotyping, even more users here wish pretty women would pay lots of attention to them.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ubercore on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:51AM (#50423867)
Even while admitting that this apology genuinely is one of the better ones I've seen, I am with you. The response is a bit... fawning.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 127 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:14AM (#50424038)
It's stockholder psychosis. Similar to AI psychosis. It's easy to convince the poor to defend you when you give them the illusion that their fortunes are riding with yours.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tt24 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:44PM (#50428824)
It’s not an illusion. Americans have shocking amounts of money in SPY, retirement accounts and otherwise. What’s good for Jensen is what’s good for NVDA is what’s good for me and most other Americans.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:24AM (#50424114)
Because Huang's decision to invest heavily in CUDA and GPGPU for years and support it across their entire consumer and enterprise product stack, before even crypto, was impressively prescient.

Say what you want about the Altmans who lucked into a rising tide, but Nvidia has been doing hard engineering, consistently delivered, strategically brilliantly for a few decades now.

Plus, the primary risk here isn't that secrets were exposed but rather that Huang attempts to hide the thing and makes himself vulnerable to blackmail. The facts leaking (three letter agency off the record?) nuked that possibility.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solenoid0937 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:27AM (#50425308)
It is rewriting history to think that this was prescience.

They lucked into being the available useful product when the transformer dropped. This was not some megabrain multi year preparation they had been doing.

Jensen did attempt to hide the affair. That's why it was an affair. Even now he does not mention the fact that he sold billions of dollars of chips to his girlfriend's shell company, violating export controls and creating a NatSec risk.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:51AM (#50425592)
GPGPU across the product line with a stable programming interface isn't contingent on LLM success.

It was a bet that the future would need more streaming parallel compute, and GPUs were well-placed to deliver it.

That's a shrewd bet, and one AMD (and Intel) were stupid not to also make.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by figmert on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:38AM (#50425432)
I don't know about HN being millionaire-friendly (it probably is), but right now it looks like prop 40 (one-off tax of 5% on billionaires) in California is about to fail. Make of that what you will.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:47AM (#50426387)
Can you explain how he's not a victim of a Chinese intelligence operation?

Clearly his wife is the victim of him cheating. And he's a victim of a foreign intelligence operation.

It doesn't even mean he deserves sympathy but I see no rational basis for saying he's not a victim of anything here.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by coef2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:10AM (#50423561)
I felt the same way. I can see his remorse and genuine care for his family which makes me feel a bit sad.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ldite on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:43AM (#50423804)
...you do realise that every word of this would have been written by a top-flight crisis management PR agency?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:12AM (#50424020)
That doesn't explain why other similar letters, written with similar PR resources, always fail to meaningfully apologize.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bushido on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:48AM (#50424302)
Not being facetious, but it is very possible that the person/people in the PR team who wrote it were familiar with similar situations or had a higher emotional intelligence.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kevmo314 on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:06AM (#50424476)
Are you suggesting that so many other companies’ PR teams are simply incompetent?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sznio on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:06AM (#50425060)
yeah. most people i see anywhere are incompetent.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by notenchange on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:22AM (#50426044)
Including at your own job? Or does it apply only to other people?

I also see this behavior quite a lot in people that claim that meritocracy doesn’t exist in our society. But they never go far enough to end point where they admit they don’t deserve their own job.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bushido on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:35AM (#50427040)
> Are you suggesting that so many other companies’ PR teams are simply incompetent

No.

I'm suggesting that a writers emotional intelligence and personal experience can show up in their writing. Especially, when the party they're writing for is receptive of the style.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by brookst on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:25AM (#50426091)
So they are top-flight PR and crisis management companies that are terrible at emotional intelligence, and Huang just got lucky that rather than hiring one of the apparently-universally-incompetent companies, Nvidia hired the one good one, which nobody elsewhere thought to hire before?

And that’s a simpler answer than Huang actually wanting a more direct apology?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bushido on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:48AM (#50426403)
> And that’s a simpler answer than Huang actually wanting a more direct apology

I never said that. Both things can be true at the same time.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bpicolo on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:59AM (#50424402)
Well, usually the source of information isn't U.S. intelligence agencies via the NYT
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SilasX on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:32AM (#50426181)
I assume in those cases that's because they're up against constraints about what they can say without incurring legal liability.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cynicalkane on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:58AM (#50424398)
The PR agency writes what one of the world's most powerful CEOs tells them to write. They can strongly advise sounding sincere, but it's not their decision.

Sounding sincere doesn't mean they actually are, but it does mean they didn't let their ego get in the way of it, which is more than can be said about many who would be caught in a position like this, rich or not.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by q3k on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:44AM (#50424263)
They played you like a fiddle. Your comment will end up on some PR agency's pitch deck.

It's so depressing to see people eat this up.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by A_Venom_Roll on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:53AM (#50424351)
Curious what you think would be the 'correct' course of action in such a scenario
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by program_whiz on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:00AM (#50424414)
The GP isn't saying Jensen took the wrong action, he's saying that this is a carefully crafted message from a top PR firm, and that the posters saying how its "genuine and heartfelt, I can see he really cares" are just eating it up. Those lines will become advertising for the agency as they land the next big client, like book reviews, but for the "publicly vulnerable executive" PR package.

Its not that Jensen is wrong, its a good play, the GP is just saying how sad it is to watch people eating this up like they think Jensen cracked open his laptop and drafted a note, pushed it up to the public web site, then forwarded it to axios or something.

There were lots of people involved in a carefully crafted rollout, the wording of which has nothing to do with how Jensen or his family are handling this. We will never know how he personally feels or how any of this really played out behind closed doors. For all we know he and his wife are talking divorce and shouting it out and this piece is just crafted damage control.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by A_Venom_Roll on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:34AM (#50424735)
I can definitely see where you're coming from, but I think both can be true at the same time: Jensen regretting genuinely what happened and taking responsibility, while the PR department also steered and approved the message.

GP's take seems to assume bad faith, regardless of the message. Mu question was aimed at finding out what GP would actually consider a "genuine" response in this situation.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by akoboldfrying on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:47AM (#50425544)
The problem is precisely that there is no reliable way to discern "genuine" from "competently synthesised".

Many social situations have this signalling problem -- in fact I would say it's the rule, and the exception is the case where it's rational to believe another person's signals because it's known to be costly to generate them.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gramie on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:00AM (#50425725)
"The most important thing in show business is sincerity. Once you can fake that, you've got it made"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by noisy_boy on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:14AM (#50426770)
> GP's take seems to assume bad faith, regardless of the message. Mu question was aimed at finding out what GP would actually consider a "genuine" response in this situation.

We have no way of knowing what he feels genuinely regardless of the words which doubtlessly were crafted by experts and approved by him. We do know his actions that caused this though. And the only real and verifiable thing will be future actions. Rest is fluff.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DivingForGold on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:02AM (#50425019)
<For all we know he and his wife are talking divorce and shouting it out and this piece is just crafted damage>

...just like Bill Gates and Bezos, both were found to be "foolin around" behind the backs of their spouses. A pic of a young Russian babe appears on the net with Gates. Money = power and corrupts most of us. But to Huang's credit, it likely was not he that "chased down" this Chinese spy. The Spy was the one coaxing him into an affair.

It's sort of like 1st degree versus 2nd degree. If you kill a person in cold blooded murder it is 1st degree, but if you have a good reason, or, are "lured" into the act, it's 2nd degree. I would argue for 2nd degree in this case.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solenoid0937 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:24AM (#50425270)
Acknowledging that he compromised US national security by selling billions of dollars of chips to the shell company his spy girlfriend worked for.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by carlosjobim on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:35AM (#50425395)
What do you genuinely believe that a person looses if they choose empathy? And what does a person win if they choose the opposite?

Let's say there was a false apology. And a person here on HN fell for it. What exactly have they lost by falling for it? Let's say a person here on HN didn't fall for it. What exactly did they win?

People get to caught up in being right and "not being a sucker" that they forget if it's worth their time and worry. It seems people are most competitive when stakes are the lowest and there's nothing to gain.

None of us here have any stake in this.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by LightBug1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:59AM (#50424403)
So said every adulterer ever, after the event ... fuck that bullshit.

I'm not saying crucify him. We all make mistakes. But he doesn't deserve your sadness. His family does.

He made a horrible mistake which should serve as a cautionary tale and reminder to us ... that's all.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by freeopinion on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:40AM (#50426292)
I think it is proper to have compassion. It is ok to be sad for him as well as his family. That doesn't mean you absolve him of consequence.

If he was goofing around trying to juggle a bowling ball and it slipped and smashed the coffee table next to him, I could feel sorry for him. I'd still expect him to pay for the damage.

Doing stupid things with a bowling ball and cheating on your wife and family are not the same level error. I can still feel sorry for him in his mistake. And I can still expect him to pay for the damage. In this case, it isn't paying for a new coffee table. And it isn't just writing a public letter.

The levels of trust he has violated are deep. Not just for his wife and family. He has been smoozing the President of the U.S. to influence U.S. foreign policy towards China. Do we trust this was for the best interest of the U.S.? The world? So that his company could make more money? Or for his personal gratification?

I believe in second chances. I think he can work to rebuild trust. But rebuilding trust doesn't mean you start over with 100% trust. Put him back in the mail room and trust him with small things. Then trust him with increasingly important things as he earns that trust back. Maybe someday he might earn back enough trust to regain his current position. Ok, maybe don't restart him in the mail room. But don't restart him where he is.

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All of the above is a mostly useless opinion. I am not on the board. I am not in any position to dictate anything about the situation. It is mostly none of my business. I just offer it as some food for thought for anyone trying to form their own philosophy. Consider compassion with consequences.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wildmXranat on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:04AM (#50425042)
Uh, Do you feel sad for his family or sad for him, because I think he's a real POS. We men should lead by example. He's a leader, but behaves like a weak coward.

It's not hard to keep it zipped up in the pants.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by noJiveTV on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:18AM (#50425206)
you sound sheltered. Everyone is tested with that which could possibly take them out.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solenoid0937 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:22AM (#50425243)
Cheating is not "being tested", no one made him fuck a spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by LightBug1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:23AM (#50425267)
You rather confirm the OP's point.

Mr Huang was tested, and failed that test.

He was weak when he should have led.

I've said before. He doesn't deserve crucifixion, but he doesn't deserve your/a defence.

Save your words for his family.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by joyeuse6701 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:47AM (#50425547)
Judge not, lest ye be judged.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dezsiszabi on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:17AM (#50425987)
I judge and I expect others to judge me. Like a normal person. But you do you.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gjsman-1000 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:22AM (#50426048)
And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and throw it away. For it is better that you lose one of your members than that your whole body go into hell.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by foldr on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:45PM (#50428833)
Jensen Huang isn't a Christian as far as I know, so the logical conclusion of that (famously rather challenging) Biblical passage is that Christians shouldn't judge him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by notenchange on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:24AM (#50426078)
It’s interesting the lengths people here go to blame the victim, but not the Chinese CCP.

You know, the ones that actually did the spying.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by brookst on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:30AM (#50426160)
That’s an odd take. The CCP was literally doing their job, just like US and other spy agencies also engage in espionage. Whether or not they “should” be doing so is a geopolitical debate that it’s easy to moralize about but difficult to change.

Huang had many responsibilities that he failed to live up to. Sure, he’s a victim of sorts, but he also failed everyone.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by LightBug1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:11AM (#50427504)
Sorry, pathetic.

It was the Mr Huang's personal weakness that enabled the spying.

I've said before. This was a private matter, and I will not crucify him for his mistake / weakness - though it does speak somewhat to his character.

However, the spying element of this is absolutely deserving of blame. The personal weakness he's shown has enabled a national security risk. That's no small thing.

Let's pretend I took drugs and got caught. That's a personal matter.

Now let's pretend I took drugs and then ran over a family while driving. It's no longer 'just' a personal matter, despite my having zero intent to harm. But I bet you'd still, and should, blame me as my personal failing led to significant harm. Manslaughter is different to murder, but it's still blaming me for what I'd done. Rightly.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aruametello on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:57PM (#50429002)
that is a good point in the strict POV of the "spy" problem.

most people seem to be mad with the fact he cheated on his wife. That does not draw him as a "great guy, friend of the pc gaming community" but cheating on his wife is barely a scratch given everything else he also did.

tl;dr: gpu man put his thing into a chinese honeypot.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by oenvoendoskfk on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:45AM (#50426356)
I agree he is a real POS. But this “we, the men” discourse is insane to hear/read in the 21st century.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by coef2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:05AM (#50426647)
I've heard Bill Gates had two affairs. It's hard for me to be sympathetic for his actions. Jensen being targeted by a spy agency and fell for it could be a little more nuanced than that. I want to learn about what exactly happened. I'm not denying his failure in any case.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by montjoy on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:18AM (#50426844)
Bill Gates is a good example. If you’ve heard him talk about it it’s pretty clear he still loves his ex wife and would get back with her if he could. People make mistakes. People with that much money and power are dropped into situations most of us can’t imagine.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by therouwboat on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:28PM (#50429486)
Of course he would like to have his wife back and also maybe some cute blonde with nice rack.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dezsiszabi on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:04AM (#50425787)
They're just words, brother. Don't get fooled by anything a CEO says. They say whatever people want to hear.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by brookst on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:22AM (#50426047)
I’m so tired of the rote cynicism. If he doesn’t apologize, it proves a sociopath billionaire who cares for nobody. If he apologizes, it proves he’s a sociopath billionaire who cares for nobody. I’m reminded of Life of Brian.

We can’t know what he really thinks, but as apologies go, this is a good one. And it’s not healthy to see every piece of evidences as further proof of one’s own unshakable beliefs.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qlte on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:32AM (#50427005)
It's entirely logically consistent: these are just words, any combination of them doesn't change that.

When people say that the implication is they expect to see some action beyond issuing a statement.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:48AM (#50428099)
It's not a good apology. It's boilerplate to save the stock price. It's not from the heart; it's vague by design. It's meant to get as many shareholders as possible to say: "ok." That's not genuine.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:32AM (#50427864)
He used a good prompt to generate the text. So good it impressed you.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pointlessone on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:22AM (#50423656)
Responsibility is only mentioned in the context of who to contact regarding this. It’s basically do not bother my wife I cheated on, she only found out about it from the news like all of you.

Responsibility implies consequences and as far as I can tell there are none so far, other than minor embarrassment.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jaynate on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:21AM (#50424087)
He has tremendous EQ
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rithdmc on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:31AM (#50424159)
He didn't seem to leverage that when deciding to have a prolonged affair.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ukblewis on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:52AM (#50424339)
And that is very unfortunate. Maybe we all need better access to therapy and mental health care… billionaires included
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by program_whiz on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:09AM (#50424500)
Haha, wow, yeah I'm sure the reason for all this was that Jensen couldn't find a therapist. Aside from assuming he cheated for mental health reasons (not sure where you get that, maybe he just wanted some strange), the man could literally buy an entire therapy practice for his private use or just put one on $250k retainer to be available at all times. I would be surprised if they didn't have coaches / mental health professionals that attend to him all the time anyway.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by oenvoendoskfk on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:49AM (#50426422)
It only feels good if the act of cheating is what get you off, which, then again, is another problem entirely.

And please, no, cheating is not part of “men’s biological wiring”. Not one is “wired to cheat”. It’s a choice. A conscious choice. We have enough will power to stop ourselves at any moment regardless of whatever bullshit “wiring” theory you might have. It was his choice and he chose poorly. Simple as that.

It always astounds me how billionaires (of all people) can be the stupidest people on Earth while also being the most powerful people on Earth.

Power doesn’t corrupt, power seeks the corrupt.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by program_whiz on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:35AM (#50427041)
Yes, crazy how ignoring the evidence for all of human history to support your theory means that otherwise the most rational, educated, successful people in the world are complete buffoons.

On the other hand if we are partially controlled by biological drives, it explains these patterns we repeatedly observe, despite the consequences. I posit Jensen is not among "the stupidest people on earth" but that the skills that allow him to head a trillion dollar company are separate from the have-an-affair part of his biology. Of course, you could be right, maybe Bezos, Gates, Juang, Clinton, and others are just really stupid.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rithdmc on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:55AM (#50427275)
Cheating is not part of men's biological wiring. Survival and procreation are, and monogamy is a new enough concept.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kdisicjwkcksk on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:28PM (#50428646)
Sir, this is a Wendy’s.

You seem to be conflating quite a few different subjects there. Procreation is definitely a biological drive, cheating is not. And thus, your argument is undone.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Aerroon on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:14AM (#50424543)
Or maybe "therapy and mental healthcare" are simply not up to the task and it's not a matter of access?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wooger on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:42AM (#50424802)
with an obvious Chinese honey-trap spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by figmert on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:34AM (#50425387)
Hindsight bias.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ape4 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:04AM (#50425037)
I wonder what the pillowtalk was like: so are you ramping up production of product ABC, honey
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qlte on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:44AM (#50427152)
See the TV series The Americans for a fictional depiction.

You know product ABC has ongoing yield problems from an outside source. Wait for moment when Person Z looks burnt out/stressed/etc and walk through emotional availabile "you can talk to me about anything" routine. Don't pry about specific topic but wait until Person Z volunteers some vague conflict at work you know is the yield issue and try to gently redirect conversation using your insider knowledge Person Z isn't aware you know to specific area you're interested in.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by program_whiz on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:05AM (#50424471)
His PR firm definitely does, this piece gives no indication of how Jensen is actually feeling or his EQ. I assure you he didn't draft this and push to a public website. There are literal investigations of national security implications, as well as billions on the line over this. This is the most strategic and controlled rollout of a story you will ever read. The wording is designed perfectly to minimize impact to stock:

1. take responsibility (by saying you take responsibility, hopefully there is no actual fallout from this). 2. Admit wrong doing (people hate someone who tries to cover up) 3. Talk about how much you love your family and how wonderful they are and you would never want to hurt them (relatable). 4. Write in a tone of sincere regret to avoid any public backlash (stock price depends on this).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by GlacierFox on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:52AM (#50424341)
Do you have a lot of Nvidia stock? . Embarrassing reading this.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sspiff on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:24AM (#50424642)
I feel like with all the stuff coming out and congress and Nvidia both looking into it, it was only a matter of time before the facts became public and he's getting ahead of it this way.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by red-iron-pine on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:01PM (#50430011)
nows the time to sell, too.

big divorce happens. gotta sell all of it. it's not cashing out before the bubble bursts, it's a "i need to do this" situation, like elon buying twitter

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by arevno on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:28PM (#50430476)
In California, and most US states, divorce is statutorily no-fault.

Meaning that if she didn't like the stitching on Jensen's leather jacket one random morning, she could divorce him, and the courts wouldn't care.

Divorce is always a risk, whether your CEO is a Papal-certified Saint, or whether he drowns puppies in his spare time.

So sure, sell now, now that the risk of divorce is slightly elevated; but be not deceived: divorce is a risk at all times, for every corporate principal, in every publicly traded company.

We also don't know what private contracts, provisions, prenuptial agreements, etc apply. It's quite likely that they have a private set of agreements, if NVDA's attorneys are at all competent.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gokuljs on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:37AM (#50424761)
The phrases “I’m sorry” and “I take responsibility” are like Flex Tape for any problem.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Lu2025 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:08AM (#50425089)
Words are still empty without actions. He chose not to take any.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mgoetzke on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:23AM (#50425262)
So because he was tricked he must resign ?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Pikamander2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:47AM (#50425548)
Who among us can say that we haven't accidentally slept with a Chinese corporate spy at some point? Happens to the best of us.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Insanity on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:29AM (#50425325)
What action would you have him take?

And honestly, we are all human and all of us make mistakes. Having an affair is usually something that should be resolved privately, in your personal life, not in public. The business context of this affair is clearly something he wasn’t aware of at the time and punishing him for being deceived seems extreme.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:40AM (#50425457)
Resign. Bro cheated on his wife. You trust him? I don’t.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixdup on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:52AM (#50425599)
A lot of people cheat on their wives and husbands and are still trustworthy. Bill Clinton didn't auction off the nuclear launch codes to prevent the Lewinsky scandal from becoming public. A person being unfaithful to their partner is in and of itself not a deathknell, so it's less of a risk to other aspects of that person's professional life than it might have been in decades past
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:58AM (#50425698)
Sorry do you make an oath to your partner or not? Cheating on someone after explicitly promising to be a faithful partner is as low as it gets and burns trust forever.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixdup on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:04AM (#50425780)
I have no idea what oath or commitments he made with his wife
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dd8601fn on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:31AM (#50426171)
And I don’t look to CEOs for moral guidance and leadership. Ever.

I might evaluate someone’s good sense before investing, and this was bad decision-making, but it’s hardly the whole of his career.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by boringg on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:06AM (#50425819)
Don't confuse your own religious views with those of everyone else. Probably your first mistake.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gjsman-1000 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:18AM (#50426000)
Good point. Most people do make oaths to our partners. "Till death do we part."

But then we culturally decided divorce doesn't count. "Till death do we part" became "Till death or major or minor inconvenience do we part."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by oenvoendoskfk on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:43AM (#50426335)
Or we just culturally decided that a centuries-old tradition didn’t mean we had to forever put up with something we only later found out we’re unhappy with. Marriage should not be a life sentence nor an unbreakable commitment.

Funny things, the rules we make up to justify nonsensical behaviour.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:15AM (#50427576)
Only some religious traditions actually involve that oath. Jews have practiced a religious version of no-fault divorce for thousands of years.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hobo123 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:35AM (#50427916)
People also promise to love and honor each other (until death...), and see how well that's working out for many. Cheating is often only the consequence of that failure, and as someone "outside" - who are we to judge the people who are inside of the relationship?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:12AM (#50427519)
Have you considered the possibility that sometimes people give their spouse permission to have an affair?

Have you also considered the fact that you can get married without taking such an oath? A wedding ceremony is not how you get married. You get married by signing a document that says you are marrying the other person who signs the document, and then filing the document with the government. Marriage is a legal arrangement that primarily covers property rights and certain legal decisions (e.g. the presumption that your spouse can make decisions on your behalf if you are incapacitated). Even in the few remaining places where cheating has any meaningful legal significance divorce lawyers often advise clients not to bother -- it is rarely worth pursuing and most people just want to finish the divorce as quickly as possible and all filing for fault will do is raise your legal fees (for little tangible benefit).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Danox on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:29AM (#50427812)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:30AM (#50427826)
I don't remember any oath about not sleeping with another woman, in my language and culture. Maybe there is one in his language in culture, but I am not sure about that. There is one about being together in good and bad times, but "cheating" does not imply separation or divorce, just having some time with someone else. It is even something agreed in a marriage in certain circumstances of health or age.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by MisterMunchkin on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:08AM (#50425843)
He cheated on his wife with a Chinese spy and sold her millions of chips which were routed directly to his Chinese competitors via her shell company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixdup on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:13AM (#50425926)
The second part of that is a problem, for sure. The first part IMO is irrelevant
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ModernMech on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:55AM (#50426491)
The first part explains why the second part happened, it's wholly relevent.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixdup on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:00AM (#50426576)
OP only mentioned him cheating on his wife, so my comment was related to that: his infidelity to his wife

The entire scandal is a scandal to be sure. That he cheated on his wife with an intelligence operative and whatever happened beyond that is a problem and needs to be investigated and dealt with

But this thread was about him cheating on his wife full stop. He could have cheated with anyone else and it would not have been a problem. The cheating wasn't the problem, it was who he cheated with and what happened downstream

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Danox on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:31AM (#50427842)
Madam Butterfly is irrelevant? Who she is is the most important part.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by SilasX on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:29AM (#50426139)
Heh, good example, because that was the primary justification for trying to remove him from office over that, and turns out not to be such a good reason.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixdup on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:55AM (#50426496)
The argument around the Clinton impeachment was that he had lied under oath. Yes, the circumstances of his relationship with Lewinsky were shocking and got all the press but the charges brought against him in the House was that he had lied in previous sworn testimony in a deposition where he said he hadn't cheated on his wife by having sex with anyone else
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:49AM (#50428105)
More like that was the reason they managed to find after spending years pursuing a completely unrelated, and unsuccessful, investigation into a real estate deal.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ModernMech on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:41AM (#50426305)
> Bill Clinton didn't auction off the nuclear launch codes to prevent the Lewinsky scandal from becoming public.

I mean... he did lie through his teeth to make it seem better, so not exactly trustworthy no. That he didn't sell the nuclear codes doesn't mean people trusted him after that.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mixdup on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:58AM (#50426533)
The people who didn't trust him after that didn't trust him before and would never have trusted or liked him. On the whole people didn't care about what he did with his dick and he ended his presidency just fine
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ModernMech on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:03AM (#50426619)
Speak for yourself? I can think of at least myself who liked him before that and didn't trust him after. It also followed his wife around in her political life, and she was asked about it constantly, or is she in the category of "didn't trust him before and would never have trusted or liked him"? To this day his affair and the lies thereafter are the top of what's talked about for his whole 8 years in office.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:45AM (#50428053)
Uhh, Bill Clinton got impeached for it. "Lying under oath"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by g8oz on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:00AM (#50425727)
Why not execute him while you're at it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:19AM (#50426022)
No thanks I’ll just shame him and the people who excuse moral depravity.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by boringg on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:05AM (#50425809)
Man you've lost the plot. No one is condoning cheating but relationships are complicated things.

How is billionaire related? Its such an unoriginal complaint.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:20AM (#50426027)
Billionaires get a free pass for their bad behavior because they’re such great “business leaders” or whatever.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by boringg on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:25AM (#50426096)
That's lazy complaining - replace billionaire with person in power (cultural, religious, cult leader, political) its the same thing.

I would argue that he's not a hall pass given the coverage.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:28AM (#50426130)
I agree that those in power too often abuse it. If you can’t wield your power for good than society should strip it from you.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by robotresearcher on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:53AM (#50427247)
Yes as you can see everyone is turning a blind eye to Huang’s behavior.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dijit on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:06AM (#50425817)
Moral absolutism has shown itself to be largely incorrect.

I’m not religious at all, but one of our oldest texts in modern circulation says “let he without sin cast the first stone”- we’re all guilty of something after all, and while some poeple have no moral compass at all, some people rationalise ”a little” indecency or indiscretion.

I’m not defending him, but it doesn’t tell me he is not trustworthy in totality, its just distasteful and I don’t like it and I think this behaviour is worth some social punishment.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by brookst on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:18AM (#50426002)
Cheating is never cool. It’s awful.

But the knee jerk maximum-cancel for any offense is a problem. CEOs are not saints. Very few people are. If our standard for corporate leadership is not just to be good at business but also to be above reproach personally… who’s left?

It’s an unfortunate fact that humans are generally fallible and imperfect. Jack Welch cheated on his wife. Many other execs have. It sucks, but the world would not be better if there were a career death penalty for doing so.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:18AM (#50426010)
Yes it would. I follow the moral not the rich.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by geertj on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:00AM (#50426565)
Literally nobody would be left. This is big issue with our cultural moment right now. In the past, it was understood that all humans are fallible and worthy of forgiveness. The standards seem to be so unrealistic right now that it is making everyone miserable. This is not to say there should not be accountability. But there should also be proportionality and second chances.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nish__ on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:04AM (#50426644)
The children would be left.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alistairSH on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:22AM (#50426888)
Literally nobody would be left.

If every C-level in the world is morally suspect, we have a bigger problem. Seriously, is your claim that being a bit iffy is a pre-requisite for the job? That's a pretty damning statement about capitalism if that's the claim.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by geertj on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:26AM (#50427770)
In my experience it is much more accurate to not see the world in terms of good and bad people, but to accept that each of us have the capacity for good and bad in ourselves. To quote Solzhenitsyn: the line between good and bad goes through the heart of every person.

This world view is not only more accurate, but also more forgiving, and and overall leads to a less angry world view.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Planktonne on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:48PM (#50428875)
> The standards seem to be so unrealistic right now that it is making everyone miserable.

This is not at all true; our standards are extremely low for moral behaviour from public figures, and they traditionally face minor or no consequences for even severely unethical or actively criminal behaviour.

You can't say we need to preach forgiveness rather than consequences when no consequences are happening at all; it reads as insincere, and is at best inaccurate.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by infamouscow on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:03AM (#50427401)
Who's morals exactly? There's a big difference between following the morals of a traditional religion and following the morals of some retards you happen to align with because of your pre-existing lived experiences. If it's the later—which it is, unless it's the former—then you haven't really become moral in any sense unless you're a Nietzchian.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ModernMech on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:38AM (#50426262)
> maximum-cancel for any offense

They aren't saying "maximum cancel", they're just saying maybe this guy shouldn't be running one of the most consequential companies in the world when he's more interested in dopamine farming.

At the end of the day, asking a billionaire to resign his role, so he can sail off into the sunset on his yacht and have all the affairs he wants for the rest of his days isn't really on any scale of punishment or cancelling I'm familiar with.

Somehow we live in a world where with great power comes no responsibility or accountability, and it's quickly becoming too big of a problem to handle.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by chipotle_coyote on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:48AM (#50426393)
I think I'm with ModernMech on this one. It's too easy, I think, to focus on the idea of CEOs being forced to resign as a "career death penalty" to the degree that we lose sight of how well-off the people we're talking about are. Jensen Huang's wealth is estimated at over $150 billion dollars. That's more than most corporations in America. If he never worked another day in his life, never earned another cent of interest on investments, lived to be 100, and spent $5M per day for the rest of his life, he would die being worth over $80B. I understand "death penalty" is metaphorical, that he probably wants to work, yadda yadda yadda, but goddamn, let's not pretend that is an actual penalty.

(For that matter, let's not pretend that if he resigned now he wouldn't be able to immediately pick up work again if he wanted to. Because, to reiterate, he is worth over $150 billion dollars. He could start a new company. He could start ten new companies. He could buy an island and build a secret underwater volcano lair to start a new career as a Bond villain. Assuming he doesn't have a secret underwater volcano lair already, of course.)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by skinfaxi on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:49AM (#50426411)
Moral degeneracy from the top down. At least in the past there was some appearance of statesmanship.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:15AM (#50426782)
Appearance is all it was, don’t be hypocritical.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by skinfaxi on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:01PM (#50429072)
Yes and when the mask drops we don't even have appearances anymore. Is that a better state of affairs?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alistairSH on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:21AM (#50426870)
Career death penalty is a bit hyperbolic, no?

Nobody is saying he can't retain most/all of hi billions and do something else. But, leading a multi-billion dollar business should come with some minimum expectation of morality. If for nothing else because being an immoral turd opens you to extortion.

I really don't get the sentiment that flying around the world to cavort with a Chinese spy is ok-ish. That's insane.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by moralestapia on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:51AM (#50427223)
>Career death penalty is a bit hyperbolic, no?

"He could just leave nVidia, the company he built btw., and build another 4 trillion company before he dies."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alexjplant on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:25AM (#50426915)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nobodyandproud on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:55PM (#50428982)
I was amused to see Jack Welch mentioned, for the same exact reason you’ve stated.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:02AM (#50427389)
> Jack Welch cheated on his wife. Many other execs have

Along with a lot of people who are not executives, and people who were not executives at the time and went on to become executives. Like it or not cheating is relatively common, our species is not strictly monogamous and the evidence can be found in male anatomy (read about it if you are interested, particularly in comparison to Chimpanzee and Gorilla anatomy).

I am not saying this as a defense of cheating; it is just a fact that people cheat on their spouses, regardless of the moral implications or how "never cool" it is.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Planktonne on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:50PM (#50428892)
> The evidence can be found in male anatomy

This research is deeply suspect, theorises far beyond its data, and tends to be galloped from to the is/ought fallacy.

You are absolutely saying this as a defence of cheating, and it would be more compelling if you said that outright.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:01PM (#50429074)
Dispute the research all you want; really, it does not matter why people cheat because it is a fact that people cheat. How is it a defense to point out a fact? It is also a fact that people murder each other, does point that out amount to defending murder?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Planktonne on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:56PM (#50429895)
It mattered to you when you were supporting it with shaky evo-psych. And it's a defence when you try and rely on the same to justify it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Exoristos on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:54PM (#50431981)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:44AM (#50428032)
First of all, asking a liar to resign is not "maximum-cancel"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by xivzgrev on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:37AM (#50426255)
Why would a private, personal decision matter for his role as CEO?

If it does, where do you draw the line? What personal moral failing deserves to be fired for and which do not?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by monkeywork on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:38AM (#50426261)
Most people do not consider a persons marriage status when choosing if they do biz with them.

When did we fall back to religious level purity requirements in persons personal life in order to interact / do biz with them?

If your co-worker cheats on his/her partner should they be fired from their job?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by infecto on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:42AM (#50426316)
I suspect most folks like myself are simply not a fan of cancel culture. If he leaked secrets I would agree, he needs to leave. Cheating on his wife? It is not great at all. It is worthy of evaluating that person as a business partner but canceling them? No way. Humans have been cheating on each other since the beginning of recorded history.

I don’t know why so many people jump so easily to canceling someone.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:42AM (#50426325)
Did you trust him before he cheated on his wife?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yibg on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:14AM (#50426772)
So anyone that has an affair should be fired on the spot?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by maerF0x0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:20AM (#50426858)
I feel you. It is a sign of poor judgement and a lack of integrity.

I will credit him the consideration that she is a state actor probably extensively trained in how to leverage men's weaknesses and fool them.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jmull on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:36AM (#50427059)
Don't worry. The blanket downvoting of anything not pro-Huang/Nvidia sends its own kind of message.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:53AM (#50427245)
Hate to break it to you but cheating is far more common than anyone wants to admit. You probably know many people who cheated, or perhaps are currently cheating, on their spouse, and there is no reason you would be aware of it (it is not exactly something people share with their friends or family). If you are going to take the position that someone who has an affair cannot be trusted in any other context you are going to live a very paranoid and unproductive life.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:27AM (#50427775)
I am not sure cheating on his wife is really cheating; kings and billionaires during the entire history of humans had multiple wives, consorts, concubines and mistresses, it came with the power and fame. It was one of the perks of the job, I think, and it was quite normal in all civilizations until recently and it is still happening and continue to happen. Why would to struggle to become a billionaire and die of old age after living like a saint when you can live like a saint even if you are poor and unknown?

I am not supporting cheating, I am just pointing to the facts. I am poor and not famous and I would not cheat, but if I would be a billionaire or the King of America I have no idea what I would do, I am not spending a single neuron-milisecond thinking about that.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by limagnolia on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:23AM (#50426063)
I am pretty sure he was aware that she was an Nvidia costumer even if he was not aware of her alleged status as a Chineese spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by etchalon on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:38AM (#50426258)
He should resign. He's proven himself an unreliable leader.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:41AM (#50426309)
Seems like NVIDIA is doing great to me.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 34679 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:52AM (#50426460)
Yeah, but now all of those circular financing deals have even more "Why would I lie to you?" vibes. Incompetent?- no. Dishonest?- yes.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ulfw on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:36AM (#50427056)
Stock is down 12% over the year
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by robotresearcher on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:46AM (#50427175)
And up 580% over five years.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by robotresearcher on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:48PM (#50430873)
Ooh, and 7,900% over 10 years, good lord.

Jensen has made a lot of people an extraordinary amount of money. Fuck-up to money ratio could still be good.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by richwater on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:57AM (#50426516)
Absurd, internet-only opinion. He's led Nvidia to a 4 trillion market cap and then cheated on his wife? Is it shitty, yea. Does it have literally anything to do with business? no
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 27183 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:16AM (#50426806)
> Does it have literally anything to do with business?

Yes. The cheating is only a small part of it, although it does confirm he's a piece of trash and thereby throws into question his capability as a leader. More seriously, he potentially colluded with this person, an agent of a foreign government, to bypass export restrictions.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rat9988 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:10AM (#50427491)
He is no leader of the free men. He is the CEO of a company that wants to make as much money as possible.

Honestly I don't even care about the restrictions, not my law.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 27183 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:12AM (#50427523)
Yes, and as the CEO of the company he did something really stupid that exposed that company to massive regulatory risk. And in so doing showed his entire ass. You don't have to care about the morality or legality of it to see that his fuckup has put the company in jeopardy. It was his only job to do literally the opposite of that. This incident means he's incompetent.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by peezd on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:14PM (#50428438)
Yes exactly this. Also don't forget the mechanics of the deal for the export-capable chips for China, that last I read they had way under-delivered on so far, so that's a sensitive and potentially major issue.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sheikhnbake on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:16AM (#50426807)
It could still be an issue if his wife divorces him, takes a significant portion of his stock and decides to sell it off. The NVIDIA board would have to consider that possibility.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qlte on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:29AM (#50426975)
Are we talking about what is optimal for NVDA shareholders or what a genuine demonstration of "taking responsibility" might look like?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rowanG077 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:09AM (#50426703)
I'm all for having CEOs take responsibility. But unless it comes out that he actually leaked anything of substance than it really doesn't matter that he cheated on his wife from the business perspective.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sheikhnbake on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:16AM (#50426800)
It could still be an issue if his wife divorces him, takes a significant portion of his stock and decides to sell it off. The NVIDIA board would have to consider that possibility.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dymk on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:24AM (#50426905)
How would firing him make any difference. He’s already got the stock.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rowanG077 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:30AM (#50426985)
The worst she can do is sell them off. And at something like 1.75% she would own that is not likely to damage them seriously. Besides firing him or not, he already has the stock so it would accomplish nothing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by betterunix2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:44AM (#50427147)
There was always that risk, whether or not he had an affair. People get divorced for all kinds of reasons and you have no idea how she felt about their marriage before she learned of the affair. You also do not know how she feels about the affair, she might have some kind of private (i.e. none of your business) arrangement with him because she sees enough value in keeping the marriage intact.

Also keep in mind that divorce is not some formulaic thing. Most divorces are settled out of court and a hypothetical settlement could have terms that allow him to keep those shares in exchange for something else (e.g. maybe he agrees to pay her the cash value or agrees to a large and permanent alimony structure). I doubt the Nvidia board is worried about this issue considering the other, more immediate problems here (like the fact that his mistress is a Chinese spy).

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stickfigure on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:28PM (#50430488)
> arrangement

Everyone always assumes wives are naive wilting flowers, but for all we know she has her own private life on the side. It's really none of our business.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by d4v3 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:49AM (#50427206)
One could certainly question his judgment. As CEO of Nvidia, he should have recognized that his position made him an exceptionally valuable target for foreign intelligence operations
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Insanity on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:00AM (#50427352)
Usually when emotions are involved, people don’t think rationally. I don’t think he should go around his life 24/7 on alert that anyone showing sexual or romantic interest is out to get him.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by red-iron-pine on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:12PM (#50430180)
he doesn't have to "leak" shit.

10 minutes alone with his laptop and a well crafted malicious USB is enough.

illicit visit with a few nice gifts, all bugged.

her whole role may have been simply to isolate where is and his laptop is inside of a hotel or building so that another team can slip in and grab it or clone it.

he could have kept his mouth 100% shut and been on full opsec the whole time and still gotten played by CCP intelligence.

and at this level of the game he should fuckin know better.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AndreyK1984 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:33PM (#50431629)
It would make more sense for him to say that they agreed to open marriage long time ago but decided to never ever say anything about it openly.

That would look better, after all, we are all just human.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Insanity on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:58AM (#50427321)
Unreliable by having an affair? How does that translate to not being a good CEO?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by anamexis on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:15AM (#50427577)
Being vulnerable to espionage seems like one pretty obvious way.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Tadpole9181 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:37AM (#50427946)
I mean, I don't think he's gonna be making this mistake again.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dh2022 on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:56PM (#50428989)
Failing forward:)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dominotw on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:58PM (#50429026)
He will be more carful but these attacks are almost indefensible.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ffsm8 on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:04PM (#50430048)
Cheaters always cheat again. And again.

He's gonna fall for it again. It may just be harder for the spys to pull it off.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:42AM (#50428012)
If he's lying to his wife who else is he lying to?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Insanity on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:10PM (#50428391)
Humans always lie, there was some data showing it’s about 0.75-1.5ish per day (I don’t remember exact thresholds but you can think of it like one per day).

It might actually sustain civilized communication and behaviour, e.g a small lie to not hurt someone’s feelings.

Of course this level of deception in a marriage is worse, but it’s naive to think anyone is entirely honest.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mebrainmush on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:06PM (#50430094)
Its not about the lie, its about the trust thats being broken. Most lies don't end your relationship.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Insanity on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:30PM (#50430516)
_Technically_ it didn't end his relationship yet. But I do get your point, about the 'severity of the lie'. But honestly, this is a personal thing not a work thing. One doesn't have to carry over to the other, people _thankfully_ behave different at home than at work.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stickfigure on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:30PM (#50430518)
You and I have no idea what he and his wife have said to each other.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aiisjustanif on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:50AM (#50428123)
Because these are known risks for a CEO of a top 3 market cap company. Not to mention there is still to be an investigation on if it was on purpose.

This a known attack vectors that global security teams and front of house security teams go over yearly with C suite.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by cameldrv on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:50AM (#50428132)
It means that you’re dishonest and can’t be trusted to keep big commitments. That seems to be less valued than it once was though.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Insanity on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:06PM (#50428338)
That’s kinda every COE, and you generally can’t trust companies. Or maybe I’m more cynical than others lol
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by etchalon on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:21PM (#50428535)
Yes. Unreliable by having an affair.

Not because he had an affair (who cares, really, and hardly uncommon), but because he had an affair that endangered the company, and in some respects our country.

Functionally, it's not different from "left an unlocked phone at a bar". A mistake anyone could make, but, when you're paid what he's paid, that type of mistake is the thing you're paid not to make.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mebrainmush on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:02PM (#50430023)
If he is willing to betray his wife, who else is he willing to fuck over?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by marcusverus on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:58PM (#50429022)
This is the appropriate step so long as your goal is to maximize the negative impact of Chinese espionage.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stronglikedan on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:13PM (#50431271)
> He's proven himself an unreliable leader.

I highly doubt that's "proven". He's handling it like a good leader so far. And by "it" I mean a mistake that literally every human on Earth could easily make. Everyone is susceptible to matters of the heart.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:41AM (#50426301)
Nothing short of ritual seppuku will satisfy the righteous hackernews commenter.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mitchdoogle on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:09AM (#50427470)
It's not about being righteous. It's about whats good for the business. CEOs wrapped up in scandals of any kinds distract and cause stock prices to fall. Most CEOs in this situation are out quickly.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by npc99 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:24PM (#50429427)
We should indeed bring that back
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by red-iron-pine on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:13PM (#50430213)
i'd even settle for japanese style intense shame
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Danox on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:15AM (#50427583)
Not many people. Have affairs with Madame Butterfly…
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by bix6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:39AM (#50425451)
Fool me once shame on you… fool me won’t get fooled again.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Balinares on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:54AM (#50425640)
I struggle to understand how you can come to this conclusion from reading the same letter I did.

Huang doesn't even admit wrongdoing for the actual important part of the scandal, selling restricted hardware to an adversary!

Besides, taking responsibility is something you DO, not something you say. Stepping down would be taking responsibility, for instance.

Seriously. The letter reads like 100% insincere PR hot air. Don't fall for it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dominotw on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:51AM (#50426437)
how is it refreshing to see if he had no other option. Wasn't he denying it just last week?

I dont get all the Jensen glazing. "we are all human and all of us make mistakes. " . ok so what?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AtNightWeCode on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:59AM (#50426558)
Good if he wrote this himself. But it sounds like the legal department been involved in writing this. If it is AI then it is really impressive.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nater5000 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:21AM (#50426872)
>the first time in a long time that I see an apology letter written from a business person in the name of the company that actually admits wrongdoing and has accountability

Yeah, but how often is a "business person" (a) clearly personally, entirely responsible for a mistake like this and (b) is a significant enough "business person" for such a public letter to even matter?

To put it another way, Huang's apologie is how someone in his position would address a situation like this. It's not very impressive to hear a CEO make a personable apology for making such a personal mistake. Like, how else would it read?

Like, it wasn't that long ago that Bill Gates' got called out for similar things and made a similar apology (https://www.wsj.com/articles/bill-gates-apologizes-to-founda...). Of course, Bill Gates isn't at the center of the world's entire economy while getting caught sleeping with a Chinese spy, so there wasn't as much scrutiny on him.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DarkNova6 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:23AM (#50426900)
Responsibility means taking consequences when you/your company failed or you took missteps. Too often I read of "taking full responsibility" as an empty phrase that invalidates said ownership of responsibility.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by vocram on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:33AM (#50427874)
Seriously; one should only say they take full responsibility if they also disclose what doing that entails. Otherwise just say you fucked up. Here and in many other cases it sounds like: “oh I’m so sorry. Anyway, …”
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sowbug on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:37AM (#50427945)
What if the misstep is inconsequential or even blunders into a good outcome? Must the company conjure up a punishment to complete the acceptance of responsibility?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aiisjustanif on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:45AM (#50428051)
There is obviously a range to magnitude and consequences. However let’s stay on topic, the action of feeding information to a spy while being the CEO of a top 3 most valuable company on earth, knowing this is a known risk smh.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway5752 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:36AM (#50427064)
It's the least important part of it. Huang's conduct, and even the romantic affar, are not important.

The corruption in terms of PRC GPU import policy and Huang's relationship with the US administration are important.

This is not a prurient sexual scandal, it's a major corruption and infiltration scandal in one of the most important companies in the world. Huang personal travelled with the US President and advised him on regional strategy, and gave him tens of millions of millions of dollars in gifts.

Huang can handle it correctly and be as contrite as he wants but it won't take away the geopolitical impact created by the operation.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jmspring on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:43AM (#50427132)
Usually someone in the executive staff making mistakes ends up being required company training.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway2037 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:48AM (#50428094)
I agree 100%. I also like the last line:

    > My family bears no responsibility for my choices. I do. Please give them privacy.
Arnold Schwarzenegger is also surprisingly candid in interviews about how much he regrets his affair and how it ruined his marriage.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by etempleton on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:28PM (#50428636)
I will give him credit for this as well. No excuses or softening what he did. He took full responsibility for his actions. Perhaps it was all out there anyway, but most executives find a way to excuse themselves of their actions.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by LeSavant on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:25PM (#50430430)
I am sure the crisis communication management company he hired last year (Heller) came in handy :-)
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jimbob45 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:41AM (#50423303)
I listened to Jensen give a rousing speech extolling the benefits of hard, important work that you enjoy at a university more than a decade ago now. It wasn’t until many years later that I’d realized he’d shamelessly lifted the idea from Daniel Pink’s Drive (worth the read btw). I’m now wondering if his comments that his brains were what attracted his wife to him and him to his wife were perhaps less than honest as well.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ricksunny on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:54AM (#50423413)
by the way - are we allowed to debate whether the alleged honeypot was in fact herself an intelligence agent of one sort or another, or was it just the (somewhat justified) background level of ‘she / her company is a Chinese national / has significant Chinese ownership whether private or public, and therefore subject to China’s version of our US national security letters.

I just was seeing very little advance-neutralizing of 1950s Red Scare talk in these comments.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by chopete3 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:23AM (#50427713)
Based on the background information on her, her nationality, and lack of visibility into funds to purchase the chips, the general consensus is she is a spy. The only thing left is to discuss the follow on stories.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nirui on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:11AM (#50423567)
Bias: I'm a Chinese.

How did they met? If it was a spy operation, then it will be an interesting case study to learn how the spy agency managed to connect these two without raising suspicion, and the information can serve as a warning/education.

BTW, the woman is fine, sure, but not cheating-worthy fine. Why? A escort (a.k.a prostitute) is much safer and clean option for man like him if he's THAT desperate. https://www.reddit.com/r/PeterExplainsTheJoke/comments/1xrlb...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 4ggr0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:19AM (#50424068)
> the woman is fine, sure, but not cheating-worthy fine

ugh...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pythonRon on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:26AM (#50423683)
This reminds me of President Clinton's apology to his wife and the nation, except in this case, it's a letter so we can't be sure he even wrote it himself or feels the sentiment expressed therein. In any case, it matters not to the price of GPUs.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by egorfine on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:30AM (#50423705)
This is a strong worded letter from a person with balls.

Yet this person immediately demonstrated political obedience before trump, calling AI "super intelligence" immediately when trump renamed it and multiple times in his twitter.

I don't have a conclusion here.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by mrkramer on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:57AM (#50423911)
This is like WW1 spy movie but IRL....ROFL
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by christkv on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:05AM (#50423974)
I suspect nothing will change at Nvidia although Jensen does not have any sort of "super shares" so he can easily be deposed by the board if they really want to. But why would they.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lofaszvanitt on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:11AM (#50424016)
Nobody cares. Nothing will happen/change. Move on.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by notorandit on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:50AM (#50424316)
> you deserve better from me

This sentence is laughable without resignation.

Jensen does not need to resign.

He needs to stop using AI for these letters. Big power requires big responsibility (cit. S.M.)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Marazan on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:01AM (#50424429)
Oh wow, the guy who pushed for being able to sell advanced AI chips to China was having an affair with a Chinese intelligence asset?

Shocked. Shocked I tell you.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DivingForGold on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:55AM (#50424943)
Will Huangs wife CASH OUT ?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 48585858 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:01AM (#50425008)
Its priced in
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by t1234s on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:42AM (#50425483)
I like to see this more alpha pivot in tech.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _doctor_love on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:48AM (#50425557)
“Vanity…definitely my favorite sin.”

- Devils Advocate

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by DerDerDaIst on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:00AM (#50425729)
"To my wife and family: I love you. I know an apology cannot undo what I have done. I hope our family will heal and that, over time, I can earn back your trust." I hope he told them in person. I don't understand why this is mentioned inside the NVIDIA press release.

His family is not of other peoples business....

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by everdrive on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:06AM (#50425822)
On the other hand his family could have continued their private lives if not for an extremely public espionage-fueled affair.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by 11101010010001 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:14AM (#50426771)
Guess Jensen didn't read the terms and conditions...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethansinjin on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:02PM (#50428304)
This section is clearly included as signaling for the intended audience of NVIDIA employees and the broader public.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kklisura on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:01AM (#50425733)
A banger of a tweet: "A man who pioneered parallel processing cannot be expected to run a single thread" [1]

[1] https://x.com/FangYi11101/status/2119586357853204813

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by wannabe44 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:08PM (#50429181)
"Forward Deployed CCP GF"
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by blondie9x on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:02AM (#50425754)
Man of all the girls in all the towns in all the world why the spy?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by paulluuk on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:05AM (#50425802)
I suspect that billionaires don't exactly hang around in normal spaces, so whomever they will run into will be "special" in some way or another.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by MisterMunchkin on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:12AM (#50425903)
If you're a spy you can be whatever they want you to be. You like abstract geometry? Oh my god I have a PHD in abstract geometry. Would you like to come back to my room and read my thesis? You're so funny! People don't normally get my abstract geometry references!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by flerchin on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:13AM (#50425927)
There's plenty of cheating CEOs. I don't really understand what difference it makes that his mistress was Chinese Spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sschueller on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:31AM (#50426176)
Unlike a "regular" affair. The spy may have used many tactics available to her including knowing all his weaknesses, having the ability to manipulate his relationship with his wife by her state hacking the phones etc. With enough resources you can probably manipulate anyone to cheat or at least 99% of the population.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by andsoitis on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:14AM (#50425939)
Caught with pants down while wearing leather jacket.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by alexandre_m on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:22AM (#50426050)
I find the geopolitical aspects of this news far more interesting than the affair drama.

That is totally unprecedented.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by musha68k on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:36AM (#50426234)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nojvek on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:44AM (#50426352)
A billionaire or powerful man had an affair? news at 11pm.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jjoe on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:48AM (#50426395)
I wonder if this was all planned out. Perhaps NVIDIA can't spearheaded by someone unimportant and dispensable like Jensen Huang. Watch him get replaced by someone from a very specific ethnoreligion.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by knowknow on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:54AM (#50426490)
Not only are you antisemitic, but your too much of a coward to say jew.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aryanupardeshi1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:55AM (#50426492)
Sounds logical to me!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nonethewiser on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:12AM (#50426752)
It boggles my mind that Singapore!=China in terms of export controls. They're the same thing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yibg on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:29AM (#50426971)
It boggles my mind that you think Singapore and China are the same thing. Because why? Lots of ethnically Chinese people? Is Taiwan and China the same thing too then?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sspiff on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:52AM (#50427240)
While I understand what you're saying, it's pretty well known that Singapore is a major gateway for Chinese espionage and theft of intellectual property and company secrets.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by noisy_boy on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:22AM (#50426885)
I can't believe the naivete of people in this thread taking a well crafted statement to be a definite representation of how he feels. How the hell would you know? It feels direct and authentic? Yes, that is why the personal crisis management agencies are paid a load of money - to make things seems genuine.

The only thing verifiable so far is what he did.

Watch what he does in coming days, not what he says today.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway5752 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:28AM (#50426955)
-NVDA/Huang gifted Trump $25 million for his ballroom

-NVDA Huang agreed to pay Trump 15% of sales of certain chips to China

-Trump gave Huang the "National Medal of Science"

-Huang on AF1 for last China trip

This seems like the tip of the iceberg on a major corruption story.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sidcool on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:18AM (#50427627)
There is a case to be made that by pleading guilty to something could be a diversion to hide something much worse.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by VonGuard on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:25AM (#50427749)
LOL. This is way more common than people think. Remember AMD CEO Hector Ruiz? Same exact thing happened to him, except the woman was selling secrets to wall street instead of China. This is a thing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:28AM (#50427788)
Not stepping down when there's money to be made, I see...
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by LeSavant on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:59PM (#50429029)
To those discounting his act and going gaga over "oh he said sorry", you seem to be discounting the fact that he is not fit to lead an organization.

He CHEATED on his family! That's a serious character flaw.

How can he be considered trustworthy? How can one be assured he will not cheat on his shareholders, his employees or his country? For a president that is grounds for impeachment. for a CEO, that should be grounds for immediate dismissal.

If he really is contrite, he should find the right replacement and then step back.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aanet on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:19PM (#50432330)
I didn't think *this* is how the US AI industry would be destroyed by the Chinese models...