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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shock-value on Sunday November 08, 2026 @06:39PM (#50418933)
Incredibly sad and demoralizing to see the rationalizations and excuses people are making for this behavior in the comments here (or for the likely lack of professional consequences). But I guess these are the times in which we live.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Sunday November 08, 2026 @09:36PM (#50420313)
There was never a time when men didn't have affairs.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shock-value on Sunday November 08, 2026 @10:08PM (#50420540)
Nor did I imply there was. I was talking of consequences when they came to light (doubly so when they materially impact one’s company and national security).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:18PM (#50421023)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by hackernud3s on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:18AM (#50421361)
Do you really think it was never the norm for rich men to have affairs? That's a very optimistic view of history, I wish I shared it.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:47AM (#50424288)
I think it's more accurate to raise an eyebrow at the idea of powerful people not habitually having affairs (historically, most of which have been men in modern times).

Because power is an ability to do what one wants, and a lot of people want sex.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:25AM (#50427744)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by rmunn on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:12AM (#50421691)
Read Anna Karenina sometime. Tolstoy shows both the aspect of a society in which rich men having affairs was considered the norm, and the destructive effect it has on people. (And also the double standard by which women were judged much more harshly than men for having affairs). And he also, by comparing the two main relationships in the book (Vronsky's affair with Anna, and Levin's marriage to Kitty), said "It doesn't have to be this way, you can have healthy relationships if you just reject society's advice to have affairs and instead stay faithful to your wife".

I didn't like the book when I first read it (mostly because I seriously dislike Anna, and the book naturally spends a lot of time being told from her POV), but in retrospect, it's brilliant. Tolstoy has, without a single bit of moralizing, presented one of the best arguments I've seen in literature for being faithful to one's spouse and not engaging in affairs.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by gramie on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:13AM (#50425920)
I think that "rich men having affairs" has been considered normal for most of human history. Of course, in China there were official (and unofficial) concubines, and many cultures have accepted and endorsed polygamy.

In South Africa, men marrying multiple wives is still accepted as long as they are "traditional". https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Polygamy_in_South_Africa.

Most Muslim-majority countries currently allow polygamy. https://worldpopulationreview.com/country-rankings/countries...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:24AM (#50427718)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by victorhooi on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:18AM (#50427633)
I think most of human history would want to have a word with you...

Now whether it was directly admitted to is a different thing, versus a nudge nudge wink wink thing....cue British aristocracy.

We might all have our personal views on whether it's right or wrong. Or whether it's sinful, etc. But that's orthogonal to reality.

I mean... seriously, look at literature, look at music... Heck, read the Bible? It's been a feature of all of recorded human history, that people will stray. We are human as they say...

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nozzlegear on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:28AM (#50427793)
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by marliechiller on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:43AM (#50422831)
It takes two to tango!
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by acoustics on Sunday November 08, 2026 @11:45PM (#50421165)
No excuses or rationalizations here, but: Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse? Seems like a private, family matter.

Of course, the spy aspect could be relevant from a professional perspective, but I'm guessing you're talking about him having an affair.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by specked-citrus on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:09AM (#50422092)
Espionage aside, let's not forget that he was having an affair with a customer company's executive. If that's not a massive professional fuckup I don't know what is.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by aiven on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:01AM (#50422508)
That's called "business", look it up.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jorisw on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:15AM (#50422608)
Look it up where?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by qs1ykyusPlate on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:33AM (#50422744)
up OP arse I would guess
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by zurfer on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:28AM (#50422701)
To be fair he probably spends all of his "free" time working. As the founder and CEO of it there is no personal or professional life. It's all one life.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Arn_Thor on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:29AM (#50422714)
It's not personal when you're in a certain role. You are not just representing your company, as a CEO you are practically embodying the company. It is the ultimate position, and it's compensated accordingly. If you want a personal life, resign from the job of CEO of the world's biggest and most strategically important company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kaon_2 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:22AM (#50423153)
That is a very American take. I think there are other countries (e.g. Germany, the Netherlands) where there is a much stricter separation between the professional and private persona. Nvidia is american, and so is Jensen, so i guess it is OK to judge him by this standard. Just saying that different cultures judge this behavior differently.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by shakow on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:22AM (#50424092)
Yeah you say that then your country elects a serial-cheater pedophile as president; I'm not sure you are so representative of your country customs as you think.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by nicce on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:12AM (#50423574)
> No excuses or rationalizations here, but: Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse? Seems like a private, family matter.

It is not so clear, if this is about his character and can he be trusted. This is evidence that someone is capable for lying and doing something that might not be in line with company ethics either. I don't think we can assume from humans that "he lies only in his private life, but can be totally trusted on business side".

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by sire-vc on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:42AM (#50424245)
> Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse?

Yes, in many places, absolutely. Bad decisions in your personal live suggest bad decisions in your professional life.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Aerroon on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:32AM (#50424723)
People who speed take reckless actions endangering others, therefore we should fire anybody who gets a speeding ticket. Thoughts?

Now take the same point and apply it to every other crime, misdemeanor, and breaking of rules. Should companies really operate based on that? Or should we maybe draw a boundary around professional life and only consider the professional life?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by famouswaffles on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:57PM (#50428999)
If your speeding ends up harming others and it comes to light then you will probably get fired yeah.

Most CEOs are gone the moment any affair comes to light, nevermind one supposedly with a Chinese spy.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by martin- on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:03AM (#50425025)
What absolutely ridiculous places are these? Do you also get fired for lying to a friend, or wasting your personal money?

Does it work the other way as well, so you're forced to divorce your spouse if you make a bad business decision?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by lithos on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:20AM (#50425217)
Irresponsible enough with that money, and you lose govt. clearance and can't pass background checks (even civilian ones).
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by victorhooi on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:10AM (#50427488)
I think the issue is normally more that these might expose you to blackmail or extortion.

But that's ironically a non issue now that's it's front page press...lol.

It's a bit like celebrities who release embarassing photos themselves, to bypass hackers leaking them. (To be clear, I don't think the photos should be out either way, your private matters should stay private, celebrity or not, and it's horrid to have it dragged out in public. But I do admire the ballsiness in just releasing it themselves. And in this post-modern era, perversely some people seem to benefit from the exposure)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by pizzafeelsright on Monday November 09, 2026 @12:03PM (#50428308)
I would argue places with high trust and high accountability.

I am realizing that this is very foreign to some people and cultures. Among those who value honor, reputation, and trust the world is different.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by solenoid0937 on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:33AM (#50425373)
He did sell billions of dollars of chips to the shell company his spy girlfriend worked for, violating export controls. So there is that.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by tremon on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:00AM (#50425716)
> Do we fire people for cheating on their spouse?

Nowadays, we make them president.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway5752 on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:30AM (#50426989)
When they are the CEO of multi-trillion dollar, geopolitically important companies, and when we are talking about spies of geopolitical adversaries? Yes, absolutely.

In fact, the affair was less important. Even if they were just a very close but unromantic professional relationship it would be a serious scandal.

Most posters in HN don't think "poor corporations are the victims when they are hacked". They think "the corporations should be liable because they did not invest enough in security". This is morally the same.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Synaesthesia on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:42AM (#50427118)
We don't know that she was a spy.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by _doctor_love on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:11AM (#50427511)
Hm sure but politicians and world leaders cheat serially on their spouses and we don’t seem to think that’s something they should be held accountable for.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by throwaway5752 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:22AM (#50427692)
I will repeat myself.

Only shallow and unimportant people are focused on sex and cheating here. The problem is who he was influenced by and who he went on to influence, whether this relationship was romantic or not. This is a problem of judgement and damage control now.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by threetonesun on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:22AM (#50427693)
I think every corporate training I've ever taken has made it pretty clear if you had an affair with a vendor and gave them something in exchange you'd be fired as soon as it came to light. I've seen people, even CEOs, fired for affairs at work because of the power dynamics. So the answer is maybe, it depends.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dezsiszabi on Monday November 09, 2026 @02:47PM (#50430854)
Exactly.

I can't even remember how many times I read a permutation of the following in company trainings:

"Failure to adhere to this policy will result in disciplinary action, up to and including termination of employment, and may also subject the individual to civil or criminal legal proceedings."

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by butlike on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:54AM (#50428180)
IF they're the CEO of the company, yes. That's part of what you sign up for; to be a figurehead; a paragon of excellence for the company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by yoyohello13 on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:11AM (#50421686)
I’ve seen some wild opinions on HN. One that particularly lingers in my mind was a suggestion that we use immigrant women as incubators to solve the population crisis. Shockingly not downvoted into oblivion.

HN cares about money and tech. Don’t take morality or life advice from here.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by antonvs on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:06AM (#50423015)
That was probably just Musk’s alt account.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by olelele on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:50AM (#50423862)
I mean there has been extensive reporting on the eugenicist sides of Silicon Valley.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by IAmGraydon on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:08AM (#50427458)
Link to that comment?
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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by GlacierFox on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:02AM (#50424438)
Why do people virtuously out their own personal weaknesses on here with such glee? Then again, this is Hacker News, wouldn't expect many men on here to get much attention from the opposite sex. You're probably right.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by fzeroracer on Monday November 09, 2026 @07:29AM (#50424690)
For reference, one of the first things I was taught as a software engineer working in a highly secure industry was that we should take psychological manipulation/seduction very seriously to avoid damaging the company and leaking national secrets. If I did something like this I would've lost my job at minimum and likely face legal action.

Regardless of how much you think we can or cannot resist actions from a foreign nation state, the ultimate fact of the matter is that he failed and thus is no longer suited for his position. If I would face worse consequences for such an action, then I damn well expect someone who's paid far above my pay grade to represent a company to face those damn consequences as well.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by NetMageSCW on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:44AM (#50427142)
Perhaps you face worse consequences for your hypothetical actions because you are less valuable to your company.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:00AM (#50422503)
A non-trivial % of people engage in this behavior themselves. Gotta remember that.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by charles_f on Monday November 09, 2026 @09:32AM (#50426187)
You don't applaud people for doing something easy. A non trivial % of people are in prison as well.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Lerc on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:22AM (#50426877)
I don't think anyone was applauding.

There's somewhat of a difference between 1:4 and 1:200 (US) or 1:300-500(most countries)

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:17PM (#50429327)
My IT teacher always told me "don't go to jail for 50 bucks - go for 50 million".
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jlarocco on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:16AM (#50426793)
The "big deal" here isn't the affair - that happens all the time and if he were dating an employ or something boring like that we'd probably never even hear about it.

The problem is the spying and Chinese influence - which doesn't happen all the time and is a big deal because he runs the biggest chip company in the world at a time we're trying to keep that tech away from China.

Security clearance applications have a whole section asking about extra-marital affairs, money problems, and whatnot precisely because spys use those types of things to bribe, blackmail, and pressure people. It sounds like a cheesy Cold War spy movie - but it happens in real life, as we're seeing.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by latentsea on Monday November 09, 2026 @01:16PM (#50429304)
Sure, but all that seems as obvious as people cheating. To me at least.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Gareth321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:17AM (#50422630)
Agreed, and I'm not even that moralistic about the affair. It happens. This guy is in charge one of the most influential and important companies in the world. He owes the entire world a higher standard of conduct. Not for moral reasons, but for security, integrity, and consistency. If he's allowing himself to be influenced by China, the ramifications for Nvidia are staggering. If he wants some sex, use a hooker, or at least have an affair with NOT A SPY. Having an affair with a spy is unbelievable levels of incompetence, and calls into question his competence as a leader.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by beng-nl on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:57AM (#50423438)
We're not going to do the complexity justice with our 2 comments, but..

My opinion is that - particularly with the wisdom of hindsight - it is right to say this is a serious lapse in judgement of Jensen. Especially given the potential security/strategic implications.

However to then make the jump to this saying something about his qualities of leadership is a big leap. His leadership record is exceptional: decades of foresight, strategic risk-taking, and execution. It seems wrong to allow one episode to outweigh three decades of evidence.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Gareth321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:44AM (#50423805)
That's fair too. Perhaps on balance a little Chinese influence isn't worse than what he has accomplished. It just feels like one of those red lines for me. If he's willing to canoodle with spies from adversarial nations, what else is he doing exactly? And is he doing it on purpose or by accident?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by ethbr1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:40AM (#50424230)
I'd make the observation that she probably wasn't wearing her "I'm a Chinese spy" hat when they met.

And from the reporting I've read, it isn't actually clear if she was a spy (i.e. directly trained and employed by a PRC intelligence agency).

The details (businessperson working in a viable business) make it seem more like she was a willing asset, who likely had a PRC intelligence handler.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Gareth321 on Monday November 09, 2026 @06:54AM (#50424363)
I don't think that framing helps him. He's one of the most targeted people in the world for espionage. If the claim is he didn't know, to not check the background of a prominent Chinese national with which he was having an affair is gross incompetence.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by f6v on Monday November 09, 2026 @03:39AM (#50422788)
> But I guess these are the times in which we live.

Get a load of this person who thinks affairs were invented in 2026. Are we from the same planet?

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by CalRobert on Monday November 09, 2026 @05:13AM (#50423584)
Not sure these times are at all unique. If anything I imagine equivalent billionaires from the past were even greater philanderers. Hell, I was recently reading about Benjamin Guggenheim, who died on the Titanic and is known for "I played the game straight to the end and that no woman was left on board this ship because Ben Guggenheim was a coward. Tell her that my last thoughts will be of her and our girls" - and he was travelling with his mistress while those final words were recorded.