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Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theplumber on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:02AM (#50422976)
I don’t really understand what’s the issue with “cheating” his wife.

That’s his personal life and I fail to see why are we supposed to behave like some kind of religious zealots on marriage.

The best way to handle this should probably be to be upfront about it so that he could not be blackmailed. His only mistake was that he didn’t disclose it earlier when rumours surfaced

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by catmanjan on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:06AM (#50423016)
If your wife can't trust you, why should anyone else?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theplumber on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:09PM (#50432193)
Trust you to what? Be a good monk?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by stratocumulus0 on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:11AM (#50423069)
It would not be unethical if he agreed with his wife to an open relationship, but this email is proof that he did not.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dymk on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:31AM (#50426993)
The email was written by a team of PR people to assuage the public as best possible. You nor I know what his relationship with his wife is.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by boyka on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:15AM (#50423097)
Why would a trustworthy individual cheat someone they love? Would they cheat their customers?
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:39AM (#50427972)
Are you sure he cheated? Are you sure his wife was still physically involved at her age? Are you sure he was not trying to turn the Chinese spy into a double agent, making him a hero? Are you even sure he did not have the permission of his wife? Did they have an open marriage? All these questions with no answers suggest you are rushing to a conclusion that is not based on facts.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by kelnos on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:15AM (#50423099)
> religious zealots on marriage.

It's not about religion, it's about trust and keeping promises. Like it or not, the default understanding in a marital relationship in many places in the world is monogamy. Some people, of course, engage in other practices, after an explicit discussion, and agreement and understanding. But presumably Huang's wife believed she and her husband were in a monogamous relationship, and trusted Huang to keep it that way. That's the issue; religion is irrelevant. (And different religious practices have different things to say about monogamy vs. polyamory, and atheists decide for themselves if they want to be monogamists or polyamorists; religion need not be involved at all.)

But regardless, I think his infidelity is not his employees' business; IMO it's weird to bring it up in this way. The bit about his affair partner possibly(?) being a spy is the thing that actually matters to NVIDIA and NVIDIA employees, but he only dedicates a few sentences to it.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by Klonoar on Monday November 09, 2026 @08:35AM (#50425403)
> he only dedicates a few sentences to it

That may be by design: the spying issue might hurt the stock/situation/etc more than the affair.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by dymk on Monday November 09, 2026 @10:29AM (#50426977)
You and I have no idea what their relationship is. Maybe they swing.
Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by theplumber on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:01PM (#50432072)
Well marriage is really mostly a religious thing so you can’t say it’s not about religion. The vows or whatever you want to call them are all about that.

Imagine being almost 60 and worrying about your wife finding you had an affair. I think you should rather worry about the next episode which is certain death.

With the financial affairs settled, the kids old enough to not be affected and 40 years of marriage I really fail to see the issue of an affair here. Not to mention being an workaholic most of his life. Give him a break

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by computably on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:31PM (#50432482)
> Well marriage is really mostly a religious thing so you can’t say it’s not about religion.

That's a non-argument against a social construct. Religion has influenced every aspect of society, including morality as a whole. That historical fact doesn't invalidate the social norms, in the same way that secular norms are not invalidated by their dissociation from religion.

> Imagine being almost 60 and worrying about your wife finding you had an affair. I think you should rather worry about the next episode which is certain death.

Because of his actions, he will be alienated from his family. Objectively, pretty much every human derives fulfillment in life, and peace as they approach death, from their relations to others around them.

> Give him a break.

LOL. Let's give this poor trillionaire a break, think of what these HN comments will do to his psyche! What's that about his wife being cheated on? Shush.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by jonathanstrange on Monday November 09, 2026 @04:18AM (#50423120)
It's mostly a US thing, I've seen a huge divide about marriage between old Europe and the US that's due to influence of puritanism. Only 20% of men in the US cheat, that's a relatively low figure.

The moralists also conveniently ignore that the vast majority of men is not very attractive. Cheating would take a lot of effort for them. In contrast, I knew some men who were attractive enough they had to fend of women almost daily. For them, not cheating takes a lot of effort. The bottomline is that most of the 5/10 guys who say "I would never cheat" would do so the very next day if a 9/10 woman suddenly got interested in them, which is exactly what happened in this case.

Re:Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang's letter to staff about affair by AdrianB1 on Monday November 09, 2026 @11:36AM (#50427927)
There are very important questions here: did he obtained consent, was the consent valid, was "her body, her choice" a real behavior or a trama response, did he took advantage of her? All these important loose ends ...