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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by heywintermute on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:06PM (#50459352)
He has to be finished as CEO even despite all the keyman risk right?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ro_bit on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:16PM (#50459481)
What difference is there between this and other tech CEOs who have had relationships with their staff? Musk and Gates come to mind
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by u1hcw9nx on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:19PM (#50459522)
He is very hands on. He has more direct reports than other other tech CEOs. I think close to 40.

Someone else stepping up or stepping in has things to do.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by 4ggr0 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:28PM (#50459663)
> He is very hands on

certainly sounds like that's the case, yup

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:36AM (#50467970)
I have it on good authority from my old football coach that a good butt slap while walking by is extremely motivating.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Tadpole9181 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:30PM (#50462327)
Without discussing the morality of his actions and what he should do as a person, I'm fairly convinced this is either a Chinese intelligence operation to destroy one of the last bastions of US dominance or a CIA operation to install a puppet in a powerful company who is not currently entirely subservient to the will of the US government.

And I'm pretty sure Jenson resigning without a suitable, almost identical successor will kill NVIDIA, the way Intel and AMD and IBM became mere husks of what they were, with no possible road to another western replacement in sight.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by throwaway89864 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:02PM (#50462518)
It is weird, authenticity of these New York Times photos and the story is worth exploring actually.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by drknownuffin on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:27PM (#50463078)
> I'm fairly convinced this is either a Chinese intelligence operation to destroy one of the last bastions of US dominance or a CIA operation to install a puppet in a powerful company who is not currently entirely subservient to the will of the US government.

It's odd that you seem to consider two /entirely opposed/ hypotheses as being similar to one another. Superficially, "I'm fairly convinced [this is an intel op of some kind]" makes the two seem similar, but each comes with an implicit set of consequences, right? So it's really "I'm fairly convinced [this is supposed to be really advantageous to the west because of these suspected consequences for the west] or that it's [really harmful to the west because of these other suspected consequences]". It seems odd to suspect two highly opposed set of consequences as both being reasonably likely and thus admitting to two diametrically opposed motivations for the same act.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Tadpole9181 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:27AM (#50463382)
How is that odd?

Nvidia is incredibly valuable, in large part due to Jenson.

The US is aligned with Nvidia, but it does not have total control and so is largely beholden to its choices. Amung other things, the US is paranoid about the resource ever aligning with China (thus export controls). Jenson may refuse to cede more control.

China is misaligned with Nvidia, due to competition with the US. It will never have any control, and thus wants it removed from alignment with the US to mitigate their advantage.

Both superpowers have vast intelligence networks with a long history of causing untold human suffering in pursuit of their short-term, often meaningless goals.

Suddenly, Jenson is under attack from all angles over something relatively unrelated and meaningless to Nvidia - certainly disproportional to his role as arguably one of the most important people on the planet. Within a day, with no actual information of what happened, major media companies are calling for Jenson to be removed from his position.

This could benefit the US government, who can now get a replacement more amenable to, say, the surveillance state or more ideologically opposed to China. Destruction of Nvidia be damned, the CIA hasn't though more than 2 years ahead since the 60s.

This could benefit China, as this could cause a rapid decline in Nvidia's progress and therefore the West's ability to continue beating China - in particularly since there seems to be no one capable of filling the gap if it were to happen.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by CodingJeebus on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:36PM (#50463113)
Occam's razor. We all saw the picture of Jensen signing the woman's breasts in Taiwan, his trademark leather jacket, etc. He very intentionally cultivated the rockstar CEO image. If your conspiracy is true (and I think it's much simpler than that), then Jensen was a huge flashing billboard saying to the world that he's absolutely down to be compromised.

> And I'm pretty sure Jenson resigning without a suitable, almost identical successor will kill NVIDIA

Maybe, but Nvidia bears responsibility for having such poorly de-risked corporate governance. It's actually shocking that the company propping up the entire AI industry (and thus the US economy) is led by a CEO with no COO and dozens of direct reports. Jensen thought he was invincible because he positioned himself to have total control of the company operations, which certainly didn't encourage him to think twice about making the mistakes he did. He acted out because he felt empowered to, and it's easy why.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Tadpole9181 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:35AM (#50463442)
> We all saw the picture of Jensen signing the woman's breasts in Taiwan

My argument isn't that Jensen didn't do it - I have no doubt he had multiple affairs. He already admitted to the first one!

My argument is that the President of the United States raped children and nobody even talks about it anymore. So Jensen fucking consenting 50 year-olds and suddenly having the CIA outing him (after knowing about it for a year apparently), and every major media company calling for his resignation over it, before any actual investigations finish and over something seemingly neither illegal or particularly related to his work is weird.

> Occam's razor.

In light of the above, I would say Occam's razor is someone is trying to get rid of Jensen.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mrandish on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:30AM (#50464121)
> I'm fairly convinced this is...

Reporting by both NYT and WSJ has said there have been two opposing factions in the White House on China/AI policy since Trump was elected. The Model Hawks want to Keep America Strong by slowing China's progress in advanced AI models. They think the best way to do that is by stopping US advanced AI hardware going to China (as much as we can).

The Hardware Hawks wants to Keep America Strong by slowing the development of AI's homegrown advanced AI hardware industry. They think the best way to do that is by ONLY selling US advanced AI hardware to China that's slightly more powerful than what China could make on their own now.

Trump vacillates between the two factions (sometimes daily), as indicated by banning the sale of certain somewhat advanced chips, then later reversing that ban. The argument to reverse the ban was because before any ban NVidia had >90% of China's domestic market and after a couple years of ban was down to ~50%, with the difference funding the development of China's AI hardware industry.

I think both factions actually have valid points and don't know which would be better. However, to your point about the reason for these leaks of >6 month-old intelligence reports now - it's that Jensen (and NVidia) have always been in the Keep America Strong by slowing China's domestic hardware industry. If China's domestic AI hardware companies are Mice, NVidia is the Cat saying, "I was keeping your mouse problem under 10% until you locked me out and now it's 50%" Let me back in and I'll get it under control again.

Jensen has developed a pretty good relationship with Trump and is able to sometimes sway his opinion. Whether this is good or bad depends on which kind of Hawk you are. For example, Jensen was invited to go on Trump's first China trip and the Model Hawks were not happy. On Trump's second trip, the Model Hawks managed to keep Jensen from being invited and the Hardware Hawks were not happy. Air Force One left Washington without Jensen, but then stopped in Alaska and picked up Jensen - which made the Model Hawks crazy. The Model Hawks made sure the intelligence report about Alice being a suspected asset for Chinese intelligence was included in briefing report sent to Trump back in May. But Trump it didn't get Trump to stop listening to Jensen sometimes (Trump today claimed he "doesn't remember seeing it, or if he did see it, it didn't make a big impression on him").

So who benefits by these old reports about Alice from May leaking now and blowing up all over the news? BTW, Jensen and NVidia have consistently been Hardware Hawks since long before Jensen met Alice in March 2024. Arguably, any NVidia CEO has a fiduciary duty to shareholders to be a law-abiding Hardware Hawk.

Also the WSJ has reported that Chinese intelligence first developed Alice into an asset because of her relationship with Jensen. Because export controls were bad for her data center company, Alice was obviously already on the Hardware Hawk side before being an info source for Chinese intelligence. The under-reported story (dig a little on WSJ) is that after nearly two years of Commerce and Justice Dept investigating Megaspeed, the US govt still hasn't put Megaspeed on the blocked Entity List (which they can do anytime without explanation). No one knows why, but congress is starting to ask about it. BUT, strangely, NVidia voluntarily placed Megaspeed on their own blocked list in June 2025 and hasn't sold any new GPUs to Megaspeed since then (they did sell a few repair parts and replacement components to support previous sales). So... "Good Guy NVidia?" Not really, these export controls have the same severe penalties as selling cruise missiles and it's a 'strict liability' regulation on suppliers. That means if the supplier "knew, or should have known" that GPUs were being diverted, they would be guilty - and that's potentially serious jail time (in decades) for every individual employee who knew and personal fines up to $1M per card. So... yeah, Alice banging Jensen didn't stop Megaspeed getting cut-off just over a year after she met him.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:15AM (#50463331)
I’ll do it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fidotron on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:20PM (#50459542)
Brin was absolutely next level.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by octoberfranklin on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:32PM (#50459726)
Musk isnt married.

Musk is also very "out" about it. Kinda like how it's okay to be gay in the CIA, as long as you're out. Being in the closet gets you fired because it makes you blackmailable.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by BigTTYGothGF on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:46PM (#50459930)
Cheating on your girlfriend who's also the mother of a couple of your kids is almost as bad as cheating on your wife.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by collingreen on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:56PM (#50460073)
Is it worse or does it dilute the bad if there are a ton of baby mammas not just a "girlfriend who is also the mother of a couple of children"? I don't like the guy but it kind of feels like it somehow isn't as bad when it's just open, repeat behavior and nobody thinks he is even trying to be exclusively "with" these women. I have no idea what their shared understanding is but it might not be as bad as your framing makes it sound if that is openly known between them.

Not a lifestyle I could ever be proud of living personally but ymmv and elon seems to be enjoying himself.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by serf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:56PM (#50461469)
significantly less odds that she's going to halve your fortune on the way out if you're not married, so it would tilt investors/investments way less.

morally I don't really disagree with you, but practically I do.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kevin_thibedeau on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:08PM (#50461616)
It's not like they don't know the deal up front. They certainly aren't reluctant to be the next in line.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by vidarh on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:48AM (#50465849)
In principle I agree. But at some point there were many enough of them that anyone who gets involved with Musk has very little legitimate basis for claiming to believe there won't be others.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by harryVic on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:04PM (#50462531)
Musk isn't really blackmailable either. He did a seig heil on live TV and nothing happened.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:37AM (#50463787)
Musk is also a well known ring piece
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by JumpCrisscross on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:35PM (#50459757)
> What difference is there between this and other tech CEOs who have had relationships with their staff?

This? Honestly nothing. It’s bad, but as you point out, precedented among this Epstein cohort.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by louiereederson on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:51PM (#50460003)
It's also very common for executives to get fired for affairs with direct reports. Kind of a cultural issue.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by reaperducer on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:01PM (#50462516)
Very true. There was a financial analyst on the radio today who read through a list of them.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dfabulich on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:12PM (#50460972)
If by "this" you mean the affair with Powell, probably not much difference between Jensen Huang's affair with Powell and affairs that Gates, Bezos, and Brin have reportedly had.

But the extramarital affair with Alice Huang is quite different. NYTimes reports that Alice Huang is a Chinese spy, with whom Jensen Huang may have conspired to break the law, selling advanced NVIDIA chips to China. That affair puts the whole company at extreme legal risk. Gates, Bezos, and Brin have nothing like this on their records that I'm aware of.

As I write this, the top post on HN speculates that this is "the tip of the iceberg," indicating that there at least may be more affairs yet to be uncovered, and, plausibly, Jensen Huang may have committed even more enormous mistakes with serious consequences for NVIDIA.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:21PM (#50462270)
Are you really summarizing other HN comments as a source?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by itsthecourier on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:58PM (#50462500)
that one time Musk got into Brins wife was way more dangerous. like bro, really?

Troy 2.0

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bendews on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:59AM (#50463583)
Don't use AI to write comments
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dfabulich on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:51AM (#50463888)
My comment was hand written, with no assistance from AI.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by anon7000 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:37AM (#50464562)
None of those sentence structures set off my AI spidey senses.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chasil on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:07PM (#50461599)
I remember Mark Hurd, who was hired by Oracle after HP ran him out.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mark_Hurd

Rest in peace.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mac-attack on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:13PM (#50462213)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ro_bit on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:52AM (#50463901)
Completely forgot about that haha. Thanks for bringing it up
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by consensus1 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:17PM (#50462611)
In the case of Musk, the amount of equity they own in the company. In the case of Gates, the fact that it didn't come out when he was still an executive.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jm4 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:18PM (#50459511)
I would think so. We can probably expect more to keep trickling out until he has no other choice but to resign. The spy thing was already bad enough. Now we find out he's hooking up with one of his direct reports? Seems like he runs a toxic workplace.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rvz on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:07PM (#50459368)
What a massive scandal. It is over.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by minimaxir on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:09PM (#50459390)
At this point there's a good chance there are much more than just two affairs.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wepple on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:25PM (#50459624)
If you spot two ants in your kitchen, the average number of ants is probably higher than two
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wewewedxfgdf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:51PM (#50460000)
If there are ants in your kitchen they might be coming in due to rain outside.

You can leave sugar water in strategic places and then follow the ant trail to track where they are coming in.

Probably there will be an entire trail of ants in the morning - not just two. You can then track the place where they are coming in and block up the entrance point.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ImPostingOnHN on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:37PM (#50461881)
Once the entrance point is blocked, you have the ants trapped, and can begin reeducating them to fight their own kind. Then, after months of work, you unblock the entrances and let them all duke it out, thus solving the problem once and for all.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wewewedxfgdf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:38PM (#50461892)
Perfectly valid, but probably more work than I am willing to go to.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by finger on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:38PM (#50461893)
If it rains outside remember to take in your laundry, otherwise it will get wet.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by coderenegade on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:19PM (#50462631)
I like how the OP specified the "average" number of ants in the kitchen, as though the distinction is meaningful. Like, yeah, I guess that's technically not wrong? Actually, I'm not even sure of that, because an average here implies that time matters, so... it could be wrong!

As for the above, well, let's just call it art. How should I interpret it? The analogy is that ants are affair partners, and so if I put some sugar water out, they'll all come out of the woodwork. Is this some kind of journalistic or legal exercise for building a body of evidence against Jensen? A mating strategy? I don't know! It could be both of these, either, or none! The limits of my own imagination are laid bare.

On the actual topic, though, anyone who doesn't see why this is a problem needs to think a bit harder. If the CEO puts on the show of being a family man, but is secretly getting hands-on with coworkers and spies, he's a liability to the company. It would be a stretch to say this would be acceptable behaviour even if he were above board about it, because it calls his overall judgement into question, but it would be marginally better. Remember, this is a guy who runs a multi-trillion dollar company that has limits on what it can sell to whom, because the product is a strategic asset. He can cause hundreds of billions of dollars of damage (and did!) just through his own personal behaviour. He doesn't get to have lapses like this, and if he does, is he making bad judgement calls elsewhere? It's not like it's hard to not sleep with your coworkers and clients. Billions of us do it every day.

Of course, this could just be the jealous ramblings of someone who doesn't have a sweet leather jacket...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by disiplus on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:41PM (#50459847)
i commented somewhere, it will hardly be the only one. I never knew somebody that cheated just once.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rafabulsing on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:14PM (#50463001)
From Paulo Coelho's The Alchemist:

> Everything that happens once can never happen again. But everything that happens twice will surely happen a third time.

I've found that to be a very useful heuristic.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by debrisontrack on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:11PM (#50459418)
The jacket, it's all because of that shiny leather jacket...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by xrd on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:11PM (#50459434)
He's trying to be a Japanese businessman.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/S%C5%8Dsuke_Uno#Economics

  Uno was highly criticized in public not for having a Geisha mistress, as it was a traditional leisure practice expected of politicians and wealthy men but instead due to relating his poor financial habits in the Japanese Diet as compared and paralleled to the ungenerosity towards his former Geisha mistress.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tantalor on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:47PM (#50459944)
What an awful sentence. Just terribly written.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by heromal on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:59PM (#50462065)
I really can't understand what it's trying to convey...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ryanMVP on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:59PM (#50462924)
Oh good, I thought it was just me. I had to ask an LLM to break it down for me, despite being a native English speaker. Turns out it's trying to communicate something completely orthogonal to my initial interpretation.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mertbio on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:13PM (#50459451)
Not surprising at all. Many tech CEOs are like this; Bill Gates, Elon Musk, Sergey Brin, Eric Schmidt and so on. People don’t stop idolizing these people, they don’t even think that this is a problem.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nerdstomper on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:21PM (#50459549)
> People don’t stop idolizing these people, they don’t even think that this is a problem.

They'd go as far as to call it a virtue. Silicon Valley is the greatest domestic enemy this country has ever seen. They've built entire machines to protect, reward, and normalize antisocial activity.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Hikikomori on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:26PM (#50459634)
Not much different from other industries, other than scale and reach. Took many decades to regulate out killing workers and customers for profit, some are still barely regulated.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:50PM (#50462857)
Life expectancy went up under capitalism, not down.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sethammons on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:06AM (#50465205)
The Jungle is famously about horrifying working conditions back in the day and was critical for gaining public support for legislation and regulations. "Capitalism" didn't improve the working conditions; regulations did.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:41PM (#50471119)
The Jungle is a work of fiction.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by drinkinghorn on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:40AM (#50466303)
It went up for a long while, then starter trending down.

Don't cherry pick.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:42PM (#50471134)
Cherry picking nearly two centuries?

Drug abuse is the culprit for a decline.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:41PM (#50462785)
You've basically just described capitalism.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:49PM (#50462853)
Under communism, people starve.

For a time, Kansas was the "Breadbasket of the Soviet Union".

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by GaryBluto on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:14AM (#50465626)
It’s called human behavior, and it has existed before any form of civilization and will exist long after it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ahtihn on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:27PM (#50459658)
What's the point of being a billionaire if you can't sleep with whoever you want?

What even is the problem with that really?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by vitaflo on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:29PM (#50459673)
Well one of them was a Chinese spy for starters. He's a compromised individual.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by disiplus on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:38PM (#50459815)
pretending to be a family man while doing it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:23PM (#50461090)
Did he make a promise to you about that?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by subarctic on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:31PM (#50461185)
I mean you can want to have a family and also get something on the side. It's basically fulfilling your biological imperative as a man.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:56PM (#50462489)
Never have I thought Jensen was playing a family man.

Did you not see his leather jackets?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by pton_xd on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:09AM (#50463298)
Yeah, signing a woman's bra at a tech conference really screams committed family man...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by quicklywilliam on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:43PM (#50459885)
This is a great question, just not in the way you meant it
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tiznow on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:03PM (#50460894)
The being compromised part and bringing your decision making into question, if you're asking
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mullingitover on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:39PM (#50461902)
“Billionaire” is largely a responsibility the market gives you: you have to command billions in capital. It’s actually a job a the end of the day.

We should have high standards for who is allowed to have this job. Huang should be replaced as easily and quickly as any mid-level executive who costs his company 340 billion in market cap.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Hendrikto on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:38AM (#50465025)
Replaced by whom though? Think about him what you will, but he is not your typical ivy league MBA CEO. He built Nvidia from the ground up, while being very technical and involved, and has done a great job at that.

He is not that easy to replace.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mullingitover on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:18AM (#50467596)
> He is not that easy to replace.

Yes, because while he was managing (and on some occasions sleeping with) his dozens of direct reports he made no succession plan!

A typical Ivy League MBA would cover the basics, which would be an improvement.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:47AM (#50463843)
Just shows you that being a billionaire doesn't make you happy I guess. Imagine having a billion and still being sad.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by CodeArtisan on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:31PM (#50459712)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by BeetleB on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:59PM (#50462063)
The difference is that Intel had a policy against it. Brian was having a relationship at the time they made the policy and it took months for him to wind it down

They used it against him 7 years later. He wasn't ousted because of his relationship. It's just the tool they used.

Also he wasn't CEO at the time of his relationship.

It also wasn't an affair. He was single at the time.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by CodeArtisan on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:41PM (#50472083)
Thank you for clarifying. Nvidia has no such policy but discourage "personal relationship".
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by pokstad on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:04PM (#50460193)
It’s an odd phenomenon alright. South Park covered it in the episode “Sexual Healing” where rich men kept cheating on their wives. We may never get to the bottom of it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by p00ki3 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:31PM (#50460503)
Marriage/long term coupling is not "natural" but normal in society

With the decline in religious attendance has come a decline in marriage; from 70%+ to 50%ish over the last couple generations

But divorce rate has declined so those that do marry seem to really want it; in the before times though it was how women survived

Coupling fits with biological imperative to have partners but longterm/for life is obviously not necessary since divorce is common too, partners die, etc

That and recent research shows long term married couples are 50% more likely to develop dementia; an imbalance in effort develops where one becomes codependent and forgets how to live and the partner in charge loses grip of themselves and taking care of their partner consumes them.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by debo_ on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:09PM (#50462161)
Being married reduces dementia risk. e.g. [0]

Being primary caregiver to a spouse who has dementia does substantially increase the caregiver's risk of cognitive decline due to caregiver burnout. [1]

I'm not sure if this is what you were trying to express.

[0] https://jnnp.bmj.com/content/89/3/231

[1] https://www.ovid.com/jnls/neurotodayonline/fulltext/10.1097/...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by p00ki3 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:14PM (#50462215)
Dude I got my banjo too...

18 year study found unmarried more likely to not have dementia:

https://alz-journals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/10.1002/alz...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by debo_ on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:29PM (#50462317)
Yes, and if you read that paper, they posit that a likely "cause" is that unmarried people tend to have cognitive impairments diagnosed later relative to when someone (i.e. a spouse) is living with them.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by p00ki3 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:34PM (#50462365)
But less likely to have Alzheimer's or Lewy Body Dementia

So either way, like how if ya live long enough some kind of cancer would get ya, so will mental illness

No beating physics

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by debo_ on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:42PM (#50462413)
Not less likely to _have_. Less likely to be _diagnosed_. It is unsurprisingly difficult to be diagnosed with progressive cognitive decline in most places regardless of source even if you have been referred once for MCI.

I think the easier way of looking at it is this: there is a Lancet commission that produces robust characterizations of the modifiable risk factors that lead to dementia. If you're in a marriage that promotes reducing those risk factors, you'll likely have a lower risk of dementia. Isolating one variate like this raises interesting questions, but isn't a "smoking gun'-- especially in this case since the authors themselves indicate this is a surprising result given other studies.

https://www.thelancet.com/infographics-do/dementia-risk

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by p00ki3 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:36PM (#50462748)
I think the easiest way is like I wrote "No beating physics."

Seems just as reasonable but less verbose; we appear to get cancer and mental illness with old age regardless of social conditions around us. Physics and entropy win again regardless of the care we put into our semantics.

Regardless my original point was about "long term".

"Marriage staves of mental health" and "a single, long term marriage improves mental health outcomes" are two different things.

Could just be a tight knit quasi-nuclear family social circle is sufficient too but social desirability biases lead is to lean into marriage tradition.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:44AM (#50463834)
It is natural and normal
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Hendrikto on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:33AM (#50465001)
> long term coupling is not "natural"

Source: dude trust me

Tell that to all the animals that exhibit long-term, often life-long coupling.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by p00ki3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:59AM (#50469532)
Look at all the animals and humans that don't

Lots of animals engages in non consensual rape; humans need to get on a level?

Don't anthropomorphize ducks.

Codependency to survive altogether is different than "2 people stuck together by social pressure even if its not working for them" which happens a lot to marriage often becomes unnatural abuse.

Unlike ferrets we engineered around raw need to hunt rabbits; we have grocery stores to serve the codependency.

It came from the past so it's natural is a terrible argument. Just a "dude trust me; its how grandpa did it"

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by PcChip on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:26PM (#50461781)
it's also possible the wife knew and was okay with it

my wife and I date other people, you'd be surprised how big the ENM/Poly community is when you start looking

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:38PM (#50462766)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bitcurious on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:32PM (#50461195)
Something like one in five married men has cheated on their spouse, approx one in eight women. It’s not that tech CEOs are “like this” it’s that they are not that different from other people, outside of their professional skills.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by serf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:02PM (#50461535)
So you don't think the world's most powerful and richest people engage in infidelity more often than the guy that cleans the toilets at the local gas station?

every argument that attempts to humanize and 'us too' these types of folks (billionaires that own islands and ultra-yachts) totally bewilders me.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Barrin92 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:33PM (#50461843)
about 30-50% of people across cultures self-report infidelity. I grew up in a neighborhood where people had jobs like cleaning toilets and it's pretty difficult to cheat more than what I saw growing up. I can tell you from first hand that economically downward communities aren't known for their stable families

the thing that's stopping Joe from the gas station is that he lacks the yacht and the credit line, not any ethics. Jensen's no more or less human than anyone else. The issue with megacorporation's is structural, not some "these types of people' provincial nonsense

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:45PM (#50462828)
Anytime there's a place where there are women and men, sex is inevitable.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by therealdrag0 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:26PM (#50462686)
My dad cheated while working at a magnesium plant as a blue collar worker. Theory is one thing evidence another. Do you have any evidence?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by geraneum on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:03PM (#50461549)
> it’s that they are not that different from other people

For this conclusion to be valid, you have to provide the proportion of tech ceos who cheat.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by somenameforme on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:59PM (#50462069)
That number would be dramatically higher in scenarios where men had desirable women basically throwing themselves at them, which is the case for the extremely wealthy.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by qgin on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:00PM (#50462076)
Studies show percentages all the way up to 40-50%, depending on methodologies and definitions.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:43AM (#50463823)
That doesn't mean its okay just because other people do
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Markoff on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:27AM (#50464952)
it's a bit stretch to compare poor Jensen having sex with 40yo+ women with Bill Gates visiting repeatedly Epstein pedophile island
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by thebeardisred on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:14PM (#50459459)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by u1hcw9nx on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:16PM (#50459487)
Huang Holds 3.4% of Nvidia and has no dual-class voting rights. He can't prevent getting removed if the board thinks it's time.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rubyfan on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:37PM (#50459795)
Assuming the board is truly independent.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by u1hcw9nx on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:52PM (#50460017)
They all are. No Jensen connections at all. All from finance or non related business.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by eunos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:44PM (#50459905)
Huge mistake of not trying to have dual class shares during the height of AI mania (or crypto)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ram1500natrluvr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:08PM (#50460255)
Or Nvidia comes out of this damaged but not nearly as much as if they were glued to Jensen. "Superstar" CEOs that have complete control over a company are only benefits until they become enormous risks.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by eunos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:28PM (#50461153)
Reminded me to that Osborn scene at 2002 Spiderman.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hn_throwaway_99 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:36PM (#50460561)
There is no way that would have been possible. And as I saw another commenter mention, even if NVidia were founded much more recently when dual share structures became much more common, you rarely (or maybe never, I can't think of any cases) see that dual share structure in very capital intensive industries like hardware where you have to sink a ton of money into the enterprise before you even see any revenue. Software is a whole different ball game.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mallipeddi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:40PM (#50461284)
But Elon Musk has supermajority through dual-class shares in SpaceX which is obviously a capital-intensive business even more so than making GPUs.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hn_throwaway_99 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:23AM (#50463719)
You are correct, and I was wrong. I originally thought SpaceX was a bit of a special case because the board (pretty much Musk loyalists) gave Musk a ton of restricted stock right before the IPO, but the voting rights vested immediately. But the part I was wrong about is thinking that was just an IPO thing. All the many billions that SpaceX got pre-IPO was done with investors being fine having Musk alone having majority voting control.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hi41 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:54PM (#50462034)
We have become a permissive society in regard to sex and extramarital affairs. What’s so wrong about having an affair with another employee in the company? I think they are making a big deal about this.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:02PM (#50462095)
Do you really think there is no issue with a person in a position of power engaging in an affair with a subordinate?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by grimcompanion on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:08PM (#50462159)
Can’t say I’m particularly bothered by it when the subordinate is 48 years old.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by uptrails on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:11PM (#50462179)
"Position of power" is a bit of a stretch when we're talking about two high-ranking execs who presumably make tens of millions of dollars. I doubt there's any problem related to consent / coercion here.

It's a corporate governance problem because the relationship can be seen as tainting personnel decisions, even if it actually doesn't, but that's hardly a morality issue. It's HR optics.

Note that I'm not defending Huang, but I think he's done for because of the spy thing more than because of this.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by shimman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:04PM (#50462124)
Well seeing how he also had an affair with a Chinese spy and broke federal law in assisting the Chinese government to access to billions of dollars worth of frontier AI chips, it's a little more than just worrying about extramarital affairs.

This is why you should only do one shitty thing at a time and not multiple.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sega_sai on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:05PM (#50462133)
It is inappropriate to have relationships with subordinates.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:29PM (#50462323)
No it's not. We are adults. Adults can consent to sex with other adults.

It's inappropriate to use coercion.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by slg on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:57PM (#50462497)
Boss-subordinate relationships are a lot like conflicts of interest. You can’t really rule out something nefarious without the ability read minds because coercion and self-dealing can happen at the unstated or even subconscious level.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by maximinus_thrax on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:02PM (#50462517)
> Adults can consent to sex with other adults.

This is questionable in the context of one of the adults holding a position of power. Also, even when assuming the adults are peers, there's another saying 'Don't shit where you eat' which is rooted in a lot of stories of workplace relationships going wrong in very creative ways.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TheOtherHobbes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:19PM (#50462619)
All adults are equal, but some are more equal than others.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by swyx on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:01AM (#50463244)
propriety is a higher bar than what you're referring here. it IS inappropriate to date in that power dynamic. but it is legal. and it can even be ethical with mutual consent and management of consequences. dont confuse them.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by SkyPuncher on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:21AM (#50463358)
There cannot reasonably be consent when a subordinate is involved. The power dynamic prevents the relationship from being on an equal footing.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:26AM (#50465339)
If you follow this line of thinking, everyone becomes a rapist. Money, social status, political status, a supporting family, a community behind you, intelligence, physical strength. These are all types of power. None of us are equal.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:01AM (#50465535)
Equal footing is not a requirement for consent. Nor should it be. I recommend you watch this video for a more robust argument.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=G0Z66pOkcB4

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nix-zarathustra on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:26AM (#50464094)
1. An employee might feel obligated to have sex with their manager knowing that it might affect their careers.

2. Other employees might feel that the employee having sex with the manager is getting better treatment at work.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by vidarh on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:50AM (#50465861)
There are plenty of contexts where adults can't even legally consent, because it sometimes becomes impossible to rule out coercion, and many more where it may be legal but still shows questionable judgement for the same reason.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by oliyoung on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:12PM (#50462190)
It's not "another employee" it's a direct report, a power imbalance so cliched that it's the first dot point in any HR/P&C management course
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:37PM (#50462380)
Ironically, making it company policy also means both sides now have power to get the other fired.

Which catch-22 swaps the power imbalance.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TheOtherHobbes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:20PM (#50462632)
Which, unironically, is just one of the many reasons why it's a bad idea.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:55AM (#50465137)
Bad idea, bad policy, and bad law.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by IncreasePosts on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:42PM (#50462408)
The Chinese spy who he was having sex with and probably helping break export controls and smuggle Nvidia tech into China through singapore is probably a bigger deal than this one
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by victor9000 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:35PM (#50462744)
Which could result in congressional investigations or worse, a tightening of export controls.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by thewhitetulip on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:03PM (#50462949)
I don't think they are firinf him for having an affair with hus subordinate. It's because of the Chinese spy allegations. This is just an add on
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by xyst on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:24AM (#50463370)
It shows you are easily manipulated, can make bad decisions.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sleazebreeze on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:17PM (#50459499)
I assumed he’d survive the one affair. A second one? Now I’m not so sure.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by b112 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:18PM (#50459500)
Looks to me like he has a target on his back, and people are just throwing stuff at it now. This could have come out years ago, if it is true. No reason not to. None, not in this day and age.

So it's all opportunistic, at this point.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by m463 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:29PM (#50459687)
nvda stock is on sale.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by b112 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:48PM (#50459954)
Of course. Find allegations which will stick, short, leak the allegations.

Then Investor lawsuit kick off, more allegations, a big drop, profit. Then "oh well", "can't prove it".

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:40AM (#50463807)
True, he should have been in jail a long time ago
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by classictraffic on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:21PM (#50459556)
> Both Mr. Huang and Ms. Powell are married to other people

Dumb language question: if Powell is married, why isn’t she referred to as Mrs. Powell in this article?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by eigenspace on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:24PM (#50459596)
Ms. is the 'new' address that is agnostic about the married status of the woman.

Many people find it demeaning to address women differently depending on whether or not they are married, especially when we don't do the same for men.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by grepex on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:27PM (#50459652)
That's funny, I've met men who think it isn't fair and wish we got a title change too!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by layer8 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:33PM (#50459732)
We could start using Mrr. for that (pronounced “misterer”).
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by cjbgkagh on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:54PM (#50460037)
Going from Master to Mister does feel like a downgrade
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by BigTTYGothGF on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:41PM (#50459854)
"Ms" didn't just happen, it was an effort. Those dudes should be the change they want to see in the world.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TwoFerMaggie on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:49PM (#50459975)
Maybe they can start by taking their wives' last names xD
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by actionfromafar on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:04PM (#50460200)
Some do.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by limagnolia on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:00PM (#50460865)
I offered, but my wife was like "hell no"! So I offered that we create a new last name instead of using either. She declined that as well.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skissane on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:53PM (#50462879)
I wanted to give our kids hyphenated names, with both my wife's surname and mine.

She insisted they get my surname only. So that's what they have.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:34PM (#50462364)
Many cultures the last (and first) names differ by the gender of the name holder, so it makes it even more confusing if you try that.

Notably, both my (now ex) wives insisted on taking my last name. I didn’t really care either way.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by flexagoon on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:36PM (#50461242)
You can get a PhD and have a title change to Dr!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by riffraff on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:02PM (#50462519)
You can also buy a parcel of land in Scotland and be addressed Lord.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by flexagoon on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:37AM (#50465021)
IIRC that's not really true and basically just made up by a company that sells souvenir land plots in Scotland
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skissane on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:19PM (#50462620)
Then you’ll trigger the “it’s not appropriate for PhDs to use the title Dr outside of academia” people
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chihuahua on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:27PM (#50462690)
That, in turn, will trigger the "Dr Jill Biden" people
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by GaryBluto on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:05PM (#50461568)
>especially when we don't do the same for men.

I was always taught it was 'Master' for unmarried and young men.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nonethewiser on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:13PM (#50462208)
You're damn right it is
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mikrotikker on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:39PM (#50462391)
Even when the last name is "Bates"?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bergen on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:53PM (#50462468)
And when was the last time you heard someone called master in a newspaper or actual life?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skissane on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:17PM (#50462610)
> I was always taught it was 'Master' for unmarried and young men.

I remember when I was a kid, bank correspondence would address me as MASTER. I found it amusing.

I don’t think they do that anymore though??? I think our son has always been MR to them, even when he was a 5 year old

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by BJones12 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:04AM (#50463260)
I see it used a ton in an airline context.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by GaryBluto on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:27AM (#50467815)
Commonly abbreviated as Mstr. I believe.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by anon7000 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:27AM (#50464506)
Which country? Never heard of it in the US but feels like a commonwealth or UK thing?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skissane on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:09AM (#50465227)
Australia
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by reorder9695 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:02AM (#50464751)
I knew someone with the surname Bates, that was amusing when things like his bank sent him letters when he was under 18.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by vidarh on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:30AM (#50465725)
I'm in the UK. Letters from healthcare providers regarding my minor son is addressed as "Master <name>".
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:22PM (#50462648)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazyasciiart on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:43AM (#50463500)
And when did you last use that instead of Mr?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Scharkenberg on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:24PM (#50459605)
"Mrs." is falling out of style. I kind of get it. "Mistress" is a loaded word, if you think about it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fluoridation on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:07PM (#50460241)
It's just the feminine of "mister". By this reasoning, "mister" is also a loaded word, given it's even more directly related to "master". Not everyone who has ever been called a "master" of something owned slaves. Most were just the master of a house.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dualvariable on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:52PM (#50460751)
I'm 55 years old and never thought about that, because the link never occurred to me.

But when Mrs first stood for Mistress, the word Mistress wasn't "loaded" at all.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by flexagoon on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:36PM (#50461232)
I never knew Mrs. stood for "mistress", I always thought it just came from "Mr's", as in, the wife of some mister
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by stavros on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:45PM (#50462423)
That's what "mistress" means.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by flexagoon on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:34AM (#50465009)
Is it? Etymonline says it's not

https://www.etymonline.com/word/mistress

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bethekidyouwant on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:03PM (#50470508)
Originally shortened from Mistress, their meaning and pronunciation diverged bc of mistresses associated taboo.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kevin_thibedeau on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:04PM (#50461559)
> "Mistress" is a loaded word

Only in English.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bethekidyouwant on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:27PM (#50461794)
Is english word
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by cheesecakegood on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:37PM (#50461885)
I always thought that it was Mrs. = missus, Ms. = miz, at least that’s how I would say them, but I now realize that a) that’s plainly incorrect and b) I’ve never actually ever seen them non-abbreviated.

If an abbreviation is never expanded, is it still an abbreviation? Personally I think it isn’t; I advocate for condensing i.e./e.g. to simply ie and eg, though this is a minority opinion.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hammock on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:12PM (#50462197)
Missus is a contraction of mistress (the feminine form of master/mister)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by everdrive on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:40AM (#50468066)
I think Mistress is primarily used in erotica or fetish communities.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by grepex on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:26PM (#50459632)
Ms. is just a safe neutral default.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TwoFerMaggie on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:27PM (#50459659)
> It is generally considered polite to address a woman by Ms. rather than Mrs., unless the preference of the woman in question is clearly known. This is especially true in written communication, as dictated by professional etiquette.[1]

> [Ms. is] intended as a default form of address for women regardless of marital status. [2]

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mrs. [2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Ms.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by classictraffic on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:39PM (#50459828)
Wow, I truly had no idea and thought Mrs. was always supposed to be used for married women. Thanks!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:02PM (#50460145)
You didn’t know, because it started with Gloria Steinem in the 70s.

Wikipedia tries to make it sound like it’s some old tradition, but it’s actually fairly new, with the prior historical references being obscure until it was resurrected.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rgmerk on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:16PM (#50460334)
Fairly new? Using "Ms" has been standard practice in the New York Times for 40 years, and it was regarded as a holdout at the time.

https://www.nytimes.com/2017/04/06/insider/1986-ms-joins-the...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:25PM (#50460433)
Cant read it, but the title literally says “1986, ‘Ms’ joins the Times vocabulary”, so I’m guessing that, you know…1986 is when it became the Times’s standard.

I don’t understand this need to rewrite history. Nobody in this thread is objecting to the use of the term.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:32PM (#50460506)
Cant read it, but the title literally says “1986, ‘Ms’ joins the Times vocabulary”, so I’m guessing that, you know…1986 is when it became the Times’s standard.

I don’t understand this need to rewrite history. Nobody in this thread is objecting to the use of the term.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by x1798DE on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:36PM (#50460560)
Hate to break it to you my dude but 1986 is 40 years ago.

Skeletor will return next week with more disturbing reminders about passage of time...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:39PM (#50460608)
Hate to break it to you, but you’re arguing with me about something I never said.

The term is recent in a linguistic sense. Even if you personally think it’s ancient history, there are plenty of us alive where it was invented in our lifetime.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by x1798DE on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:03PM (#50460889)
What? You had a whole thing about rewriting history because the parent said the NYT adopted 40 years ago, then you made a big deal about how it was in 1986 and resurrected in the 80s and talked about rewriting history.

What was that all about if you both perfectly agree on the timeline?

> Classy edit, btw.

Edit? I did not edit my post. I think you may not understand what that means. It is neither classy nor unclassy, it is a type of meme.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:16PM (#50461021)
> What? You had a whole thing about rewriting history because the parent said the NYT adopted 40 years ago, then you made a big deal about how it was in 1986 and resurrected in the 80s and talked about rewriting history.

I am the parent of the thread. It's all me.

It's simply a fact that the term was revived in the 70s and popularized in the 80s.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:26PM (#50462682)
The 70s was 50 years ago. You may have been alive then, but that doesn't make it "recent".

Given the magnitude of more recent shifts in language around equity, 50 years is ancient.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:06PM (#50462963)
So your argument is that anyone with a memory longer than yours, yet well within the median human lifespan, is “ancient”.

Okay, then. Good luck with that.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jrflowers on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:16AM (#50464034)
> So your argument is that anyone with a memory longer than yours, yet well within the median human lifespan, is “ancient”.

Deftly convincing my rhetorical opponent of my youthful vigor by misunderstanding what they wrote and getting noticeably worked up about being called ‘ancient’

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lokar on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:31PM (#50461827)
It’s recent linguistically, but not culturally, which I think is more important here.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:49PM (#50461982)
It's recent both linguistically and culturally. It was a thing in my lifetime, to the point where I remember explaining it to other people in high school.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by staticman2 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:13PM (#50462996)
For what it's worth, the median human is 31.1 years old. I wouldn't call something older than the median human "very recently, culturally."
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:23PM (#50463056)
That’s cute. Now try searching for the median age in developed countries, where people care enough to make up revisionist history about minor culture debates? (nevermind, I did it for you; it’s around 50)

More to the point, what’s the median human lifespan, in first-world countries? (average lifespan in the US is almost 80)

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by radlad on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:30PM (#50463092)
The person you're responding to isn't disparaging you. They're simply stating their opinion. That's all a judgment about whether something is recent can be.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:43PM (#50463144)
Fine, that’s fair. It’s not explicitly disparaging, it’s just implying that facts older than you, personally, can remember are irrelevant.

I don’t know what to call this, but none of the words that come to mind are positive.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by staticman2 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:41AM (#50463496)
The only thing I was "disparaging" was your grasp of the standard meaning of phrases such as "very recently, culturally".

You could have avoided the issue entirely by using clearer language like "in the last 40 years."

The idea that I was claiming things older than me are "irrelevant" is nowhere near orbit of anything I wrote.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by timr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:58AM (#50463934)
I didn't use the phrase "very recently". You did.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by staticman2 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:33AM (#50467912)
As far as I can tell this conversation has gone on because you've also chosen to "die on this hill". Have a good day.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by radlad on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:18AM (#50466676)
I think you've misdirected anger at GP towards me and OP.

I hope your day looks up.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by antonvs on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:15PM (#50462594)
It was actually Sheila Michaels in the 1960s who initially started the push for it: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sheila_Michaels

Gloria Steinem cofounded Ms. Magazine in the early 70s which helped popularize it further.

Anyway, how old are you that well over half a century is “fairly new” to you? Do you still wear galoshes and use a mimeograph?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by snayan on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:28PM (#50463087)
We really should bring back galoshes, if only because it's a fun word to say.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by layer8 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:28PM (#50459670)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mrs.#Modern_usage

“It is generally considered polite to address a woman by Ms. rather than Mrs., unless the preference of the woman in question is clearly known. This is especially true in written communication, as dictated by professional etiquette.”

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by xdennis on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:34PM (#50460544)
This is such nonsense. If you don't like Mrs, why even use the term at all? They all ultimately derive from "master/mistress".

There was such a huge push to convert all `master` branches to `main`[1], yet feminists have no issues addressing each other as master/mistress.

I'm not a native speaker, but in my experience, people don't even talk like that anyway. Newspapers may write "Mr Trump" but people just say Trump.

[1]: Not me, I still use `master`.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by p-e-w on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:22PM (#50461082)
This applies mostly to the US, to a lesser extent to the UK, and to a much lesser extent (or not at all) to the dozen or so other Anglosphere countries.

But as we all know, the US is all that matters, so you may as well state outright that it “is so”, and move on.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by freehorse on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:58PM (#50461490)
I looked at guardian's style guide (british) and some australian style guide I found and they both default to "Ms". Which specific anglosphere country did you have in mind?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by heromal on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:49PM (#50461984)
It was just an opportunity to throw in some low effort /r/AmericaBad shade
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by HaZeust on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:44PM (#50461939)
What value did second paragraph contribute to discussion?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by acedTrex on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:52PM (#50462011)
This is an American news paper reporting on an American CEO of an American company...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nozzlegear on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:52PM (#50462870)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nonethewiser on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:12PM (#50462198)
>It is generally considered polite to address a woman by Ms. rather than Mrs., unless the preference of the woman in question is clearly known.

Hm. Weird. Never seen that before. Let's check the source, emilypost.com:

>Mx. Is the universal title that can be used by anyone. It is gender non-identifying. Even if you identify specifically with a gender you may still use Mx. and you may see Mx. used when the sender is unaware of your title.

https://emilypost.com/advice/guide-to-addressing-corresponde...

OK, im out. I'm immediately out.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by JeremyNT on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:23PM (#50462278)
> Hm. Weird. Never seen that before. Let's check the source, emilypost.com

This is taught to children in the United States. I didn't go to an especially good school and I remember it to this day. If you're not from the US the custom may be different.

Perhaps you will consider the advice from Grammarly [0] as a more acceptable source.

[0] https://www.grammarly.com/blog/commonly-confused-words/ms-mr...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:32PM (#50462351)
I think they were referring to Mx, which is hilarious!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by drnick1 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:34PM (#50463108)
> This is taught to children in the United States.

No doubt, in today's absurdly woke school system.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jesseendahl on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:45AM (#50464208)
I learned this as a child in elementary school in the 90s in a mostly blue collar area of Long Island. This is not some new woke thing.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by happymellon on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:59AM (#50463939)
Primary school in the UK, I had a teacher who went by Ms. and was married.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by MaxHoppersGhost on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:27PM (#50462303)
How does one pronounce Mx?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lakeviewterrace on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:51PM (#50462452)
Mail eXchanger
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by itsthecourier on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:56PM (#50462490)
this is the way
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sgt on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:21AM (#50463707)
Just for the record!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Insanity on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:57PM (#50462494)
"Mexico"
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by addandsubtract on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:28AM (#50466791)
It's Mexic@
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by antonvs on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:06PM (#50462544)
Start by learning to pronounce Mister Mxyzptlk from the Superman comics.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mkaic on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:52PM (#50462871)
I've generally heard it pronounced like the word "mix".
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by will4274 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:10PM (#50462983)
Mexter
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by f38zf5vdt on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:06AM (#50463615)
"mixter"
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by thot_experiment on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:46PM (#50462433)
You're out because you don't think non-binary people are real and you can't imagine a situation where you'd want an ambiguous honorific?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by will4274 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:04PM (#50462528)
No. He's out because he works in a professional environment and knows that the statement that Mx is a universal title that can be used with anyone is untrue. In the vast majority of workplaces in the world, you'd get a weird look for calling somebody with an obvious gender identity Mx.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by runarberg on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:24PM (#50462663)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by will4274 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:08PM (#50462976)
Yes, I work in a workplace, so I've experienced people using personal titles first-hand. I've also read some studies about neo-pronouns and neo-titles, yes. Their prevalence is generally measured as being quite low.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by runarberg on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:43AM (#50469275)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rustcleaner on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:04PM (#50462536)
There is man,

there is woman,

and there is Klinefelter's.

(worth the karma hit)

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nonethewiser on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:26PM (#50463068)
The source discredits itself by claiming Mx is some sort of conventional title
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by icantevenhold on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:55PM (#50462481)
Sir this is not an airport, you don’t need to announce your departure
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by eps on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:20AM (#50464449)
Your reddit is leaking.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by antonvs on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:07PM (#50462552)
And you’re nonethewiser.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Chinjut on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:57PM (#50462912)
You've never seen Ms. before? This isn't some 2020s invention. My high school teachers went by Ms. in the nineties. Ms. Magazine is from 1972.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nonethewiser on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:23PM (#50463058)
For married women no. Where did you go to high school?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by marcianx on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:48PM (#50463173)
Yes, for married women.

Miss indicated that a woman was unmarried. Mrs indicated that she was. Ms was added to behave like Mr in that it doesn't indicate marital status.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by t-3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:06AM (#50464771)
Isn't Ms just a contraction of Miss? I've never heard of a distinction between the two.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ethbr1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:20AM (#50464887)
They're distinct in American English.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by t-3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:07AM (#50465580)
Is it a regional thing? I've lived in the Midwest mostly and never heard of this.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by zarzavat on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:06AM (#50465992)
I don't think so. In the UK the default is also Ms unless a preference has been expressed for Miss/Mrs.

Especially in a business context, it would be unprofessional to ask if a woman is married or not merely for determining which title to use. Unless you want to have an affair with her, of course.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by t-3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:38AM (#50466286)
I've always used Miss as the default when I don't know. Maybe everyone else has been using Mizz and I just didn't hear the difference.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rafram on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:57AM (#50465150)
No, there is no contraction of Miss and no expansion of Ms. (which is pronounced “mizz”).
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by everdrive on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:36AM (#50467981)
Does it stand for something? Just it stand for Mizz?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazyasciiart on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:41AM (#50463489)
It was invented to hide the distinction between married and single women. How do you know all the women you’ve met as Ms X are single?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jrflowers on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:55AM (#50463921)
What do you think the word invented means
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by reverius42 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:25AM (#50465336)
Do you think words are naturally occurring?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by eps on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:17AM (#50464427)
We were taught to use Mrs. unconditionally, and it was explained as a modern PC-rooted shift in formal written English. This was 30+ years ago.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sergiotapia on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:30PM (#50463091)
Like latinx, a straight insult for us latinos.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by SilasX on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:36AM (#50463455)
I semi seriously suggest we come up with neologisms to avoid gendered forms of address. We could take from Morrowind and replace Mr/Ms/sir/ma’am with “muthsera”.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by everdrive on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:39AM (#50468034)
Yes, what could be more offensive than someone noticing your gender.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by f38zf5vdt on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:05AM (#50463609)
Oh my God are native English speakers okay?? Ms. is not miss it's pronounced like "miz" and it's always been a convention to refer to women with their full or last name regardless of marriage state. Mx is just a gender neutral honorific for full or last names.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rTX5CMRXIfFG on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:06AM (#50465576)
Look, if you want to learn about social cues you’re going to have to draw from experience instead of links from the internet. Experience interacting with women will quickly teach you that Ms. is the safest option, if not preferred.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by boplicity on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:51PM (#50462454)
I personally think there should be a signifier that indicates whether a man is married. How convenient for people like Mr. Huang that there isn't.

Once that's in place, I would feel better about the use of Mrs.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by SilasX on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:34AM (#50463435)
Obligatory reference to Douglas Hofstsdter’s parody about gendered pronouns where he imagines an alternate reality in which English pronouns are race-based instead of gender-based, and they have the Miss/Mrs. distinction, but only non-whites have to use it, and it’s based on whether you have a job — because obviously only non-whites need to advertise this.

https://www.cs.virginia.edu/~evans/cs655/readings/purity.htm...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by everdrive on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:35AM (#50467958)
I've never heard of this in my life. I'm not doubting you or the Wikipedia article. I just have no idea how you're meant to keep up with this stuff.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by monideas on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:03AM (#50469598)
You’re not meant to keep up with it, it’s a means of control.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fspeech on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:50PM (#50459990)
A married woman may not have taken her husband's name. Mrs. implies it while Ms. is neutral.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fluoridation on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:04PM (#50460187)
Considering "Mrs." just means "mistress" (the feminine form of "mister"), I don't see how it implies that.

While I'm at it, I don't see how "miss" can be more respectful than "mistress" when the former is a clipping of the latter, so a miss is less than a mistress.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by swat535 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:23PM (#50461094)
In many places, the law doesn't allow for the woman to take the man's name. Only children's family name can be decided.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by LeFantome on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:04PM (#50462126)
> if Powell is married, why isn’t she referred to as Mrs. Powell in this article?

Because she is about to be single?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jliendo on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:08PM (#50462155)
Dumb profiling question, why isn’t Ms. Powell referred as a “spy” in this article?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by td521534f12 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:46PM (#50463162)
Because Ms. Powell is an Nvidia employee who is not suspected of being a Chinese spy. You're thinking of Alice Huang (turns out Jensen was having multiple different affairs!)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by 3836293648 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:16PM (#50463014)
Ms ≠ Miss ≠ Mrs
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by avidruntime on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:21PM (#50470796)
This thread accounts for almost a quarter of all comments in this thread, btw.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by anthk on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:23PM (#50459583)
In the end a Chinese model was a risk to national security...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by metalman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:24PM (#50459603)
He's kind of like 'scum bag lite' and now barely qualifies to join the rest of the mega wealthy and powerfull in there conspicuos imunity from censure.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bz_bz_bz on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:27PM (#50459653)
If his personal security detained the person videoing them and offered them money to sign an NDA, it feels like something they had experience with. Could this just be the tip of the iceberg?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by pcbro141 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:38PM (#50459806)
Most likely. It's hard to imagine an ultra rich man who is already unfaithful to only be having sex with 2 women. Wouldn't be surprised if there was a lot more, including paid encounters.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kappi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:42PM (#50459867)
If you see two ants in kitchen, actual count is not 2!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by matthewdgreen on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:55PM (#50461461)
This is actually an instance of the German Tank Problem.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sk5t on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:58PM (#50461494)
Are you implying his partners bear serial numbers?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by adrianmonk on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:14PM (#50461670)
Presumably so. Evidently he is a serial philanderer.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fatbird on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:14PM (#50463004)
golf clap
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ElProlactin on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:36AM (#50463453)
In Jensen's case, probably the clap.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazyasciiart on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:39AM (#50463476)
I see no evidence that he doesn’t have parallel affairs.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ethbr1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:11AM (#50464820)
The actual SIMT architecture of his affairs is more complicated but achieves higher throughput.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:10AM (#50463302)
Check with Ludacris for an example of this phenomenon.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dh2022 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:28AM (#50463391)
I am pretty sure CCP assigns serial numbers to its spies…
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:47PM (#50461959)
"Beware of the camel's nose"
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hartator on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:09PM (#50462562)
2! = 2
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by syndacks on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:22PM (#50460391)
You’d do the same! We all would!!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jan_m_savage on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:11PM (#50460969)
eh.. speak for yourself. There are people with conscience out there in the world.

I wonder if you'd still think the same after you read Defoe's Roxana and Dumas fils's Lady of the Camellias.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:24PM (#50461106)
Would you?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by the_sleaze_ on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:45PM (#50461355)
Better question: who cares?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:54PM (#50461452)
Are you saying you don't? I would if I'd done that. If you don't you might want to start doing.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ozozozd on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:08PM (#50461613)
Those who care about good judgement and not having unnecessary surface area for blackmail or other exploits.

No one is calling him a sinner.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by stirfish on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:29PM (#50461812)
Can't blackmail if nobody cares.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:48PM (#50461974)
I think that's what the pedophiles are trying to do, move the overton window so it's not such a big deal.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by somenameforme on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:51PM (#50461999)
Pedophilia is illegal, and that's not changing no matter how many grotesque articles are written. Adults having consensual sex with other adults is not illegal.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:10PM (#50462171)
Sorry I see how my point can easily be missed as I brought this up kind of randomly in a thread about otherwise legal behavior. My point is the normalization of deviance.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by stirfish on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:05PM (#50462134)
I'm struggling to understand what you are trying to say. Why did you bring up pedophiles?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:10PM (#50462165)
In media for stories surrounding Epstein and that class of people, we often hear of 'underaged girls' instead of 'children'. That is part of the shift of the overton window. Modern media is replete with children being put into adult situations (not necessarily media targeted at children, mind you) and that only helps to blur the line.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by stirfish on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:13PM (#50462202)
Okay cool. Maybe next time you have a thought related to raping children, maybe consider seeing if it relates at all to the thread you're in before you start typing.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:17PM (#50462239)
The whole point is reducing the care. You can't blackmail what people don't care about. Your response is pretty callous. Saying "next time you have a thought related to raping children" like what the fuck?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by stirfish on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:38PM (#50462388)
If I said "you can't blackmail people for littering because people don't care, but littering is still wrong.", would we be making the same point, or is there a connection between this and Epstein that I'm missing?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:09PM (#50462566)
If there was an effort to downplay littering in media then yes but I'm not aware of it. There's no direct connection to Epstein beyond blackmail. I regret bringing it up, I thought it would make for interesting discussion.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by stirfish on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:23AM (#50466731)
It just seemed to come out of nowhere, and following that guy saying he doesn't care about adults having affairs, it sounded like you were trying to say that anyone who doesn't care about this is somehow condoning child abuse? Which is why I was sure there was an Epstein connection I was missing, and also why I had a hostile reaction.

Now that I know where you're coming from, yeah, that is interesting.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by pixl97 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:30PM (#50461814)
There's a saying, and I have no idea if there any truth to it, that you can't blackmail French CEO's and government officials this way. Their wives already know they are cheating on them and the public expects it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Haven880 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:03PM (#50462115)
Chinese also the same. Super rich Chinese typically expected to have mistresses with the legit wife controlling access. It is abnormal for super rich Chinese not to have mistresses. Historically only one Chinese emperor did that monogamy thing, but he died young, so that probably the real reason. Western kibgs are bizarre monogamous by Chinese culture standard even today.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kodoman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:21PM (#50462268)
I believe this is true yes, you would have a hard time getting anyone to care. You should be worried anytime you are in a union with a French man (or Lady). See Cardinal Richelieu and French alliances behind the backs of the Catholic League.

I say this as a Brit and we are the same, only we are just as perfidious (maybe worse) but hide it from are selves and others so we are easy to blackmail.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mitthrowaway2 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:02PM (#50462096)
Even if you don't care about the adultery aspect, or the spying aspect(!), having sex with the people who report to you is a huge problem. First of all the power imbalance complicates questions of consent. Secondly, even if that's all fine, there are legitimate questions that could be raised by other employees about objectivity and favoritism. And for all of these reasons and more, it reflects very poorly on a leader in terms of their judgement and impulse control, which are reasonable traits to want a CEO to have.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:29PM (#50462326)
If you think that is the only crazy/insane/bad thing involved in these situations, I have a bridge to sell you.

Notably, it does get folks incensed, and it’s a good way to take out a senior leader if all other leverage fails.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wat10000 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:32PM (#50462353)
Who said it’s the only one? We can criticize them all.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:36AM (#50467967)
I just find the pearl clutching on this particular topic hilariously naive. Especially with the Epstein files having been such a big topic for years and years now.

It’s clearly some kind of hit piece. Dumb of Huang to have stepped on whatever landmine he did, let alone allow himself to get this exposed, but whatever.

I wonder if it’s someone trying to short Nvidia?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wat10000 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:44AM (#50469288)
As someone who doesn't cheat on their spouse or have unethical relationships with subordinates, it's frustrating to see bad behavior from powerful people and have the reaction be "There's a lot more where this came from, so it's not a big deal. This is just a hit piece."

Is it that hard to keep your wiener out of people who report to you? Why is the reaction "this is really common and it's unfair to target this guy" and not "at least one of them is finally seeing some consequences, now let's hope there's more to follow"? Apparently having and expecting basic ethics is "pearl clutching." Fuck that. If powerful people are commonly awful and I expect better from them, that's a problem with them, not with me.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:13PM (#50472625)
Oh you’re wildly misunderstanding my point.

Of course he should be fired for this.

The reality - at these levels - is that to rise to these levels typically requires that others involved feel comfortable they have enough leverage on you that they can force you out ‘quietly’ if they need to do so.

Which is what is happening.

I’ve seen some wild things that were allowed to continue because the math was paying out at the time.

Somewhere the math changed, and this is the consequence.

Post election ‘cleanup’ in approach?

Change in expectations on future growth trajectory?

Someone with their own interests (shorting the stock) got too much leverage?

This is already costing individual folks billions, and shareholders hundreds of billions. that kind of thing often involves someone’s ‘chess moves’, even if it’s just them blowing up in their faces.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wat10000 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:35PM (#50473854)
I'm not sure I understand your point any better now. Are you saying that "should" is irrelevant to what actually happens and that it's all about what makes money? I'd completely agree with that. But I don't see what that has to do with "I just find the pearl clutching on this particular topic hilariously naive." or "If you think that is the only crazy/insane/bad thing involved in these situations, I have a bridge to sell you."
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Forgeties79 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:24PM (#50462285)
Those of us with a moral compass?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nozzlegear on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:46PM (#50462830)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rustcleaner on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:55PM (#50462487)
Yes. :3
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by marcus_holmes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:59PM (#50461513)
No, that's the point, we wouldn't. And if we would then we should not be in charge of an extremely large organisation.

Part of the point of all this is that he's supposed to be in control of his emotions and able to make the best decisions without letting his emotions interfere.

If he can't even make the very simple decision to keep his dick in his pants in this very clear breach of commitments he has publicly made, then what other terrible decisions is he making? What other commitments will he break because it feels good and he can't control himself?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lmz on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:54PM (#50462035)
Plenty of leaders throughout the years, most notoriously royalty (leaders in an "extremely large organization" if there ever was one), have been doing this.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by marcus_holmes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:01PM (#50462094)
Yes, and they were eventually held accountable for shit like that, and we moved away from monarchies.

It's a sign of a really bad leader that they do this.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lmz on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:28PM (#50462312)
Or maybe it's inherent to power and the recent trend is against human nature. You cannot seriously say that this is a major concern in moving against monarchies. After all, the royals are just the most well known ones (because it involves succession). Plenty of non royal powerful people also do so.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nozzlegear on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:42PM (#50462800)
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by t-3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:16AM (#50463680)
Infidelity is as old as the institution of marriage. Very few people are ever ostracized for it, and most of those were women. Among elites, it was usually expected to have lower-status women for fun and not to bother the nobly-bred wife for anything other than bearing legitimate heirs.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:28PM (#50462313)
squints really hard looks at US president laughs.

Maybe eventually. After they have been doing it for decades. When it’s inconvenient for folks now.

Notably, every senior woman leader I worked for had something similar going on too.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wat10000 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:31PM (#50462334)
Royalty are also notoriously bad leaders a lot of the time.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by steve_taylor on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:18PM (#50462246)
I'll believe you when you're a powerful billionaire and you don't get caught.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kodoman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:31PM (#50462343)
> he's supposed to be in control of his emotions and able to make the best decisions without letting his emotions interfere.

I agree but that ship sailed a long time ago and this action is being blown out of proportion.

Look at the president of the US that is a guy who has to go (and all the people around him) and is still in office.

Quite frankly he has had an affair with consenting adult women not trafficked children why are the knives out for him when this is all he has done?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by marcus_holmes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:50PM (#50463182)
> Quite frankly he has had an affair with consenting adult women not trafficked children why are the knives out for him when this is all he has done?

Because he made commitments to people to not do this.

If you promise to do (or not do) something, and then you break that promise, you should be held to account for it. It should be obvious that you cannot be trusted to keep promises in future. Nothing you say should be believed, because you are clearly an untrustworthy person. You should not be trusted to make decisions that involve other people's money.

And, in addition. If you're a manager, you are responsible for the people reporting to you. You're the adult in the room. If your idea of managing people includes having sex with them, then that is an indication that you are unable to manage people.

This is not about consent. It's a different set of concerns than e.g. Russel Brand. This is about Huang not living up to the professional standards that we expect from people in authority. It's about being a good, trustworthy, custodian of other people's money, and about being a good choice as CEO of this business. Not having enough self-control to avoid these situations is a really good indicator that he is not a good choice for this role, because of that lack of self-control. If he can't control himself, how can he be relied on to control the organisation?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kodoman on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:22AM (#50465673)
> If you're a manager, you are responsible for the people reporting to you. You're the adult in the room.

> This is not about consent. It's a different set of concerns than e.g. Russel Brand.

My point was the president who has brought about an expensive war is an example of this times 1000. I think all we can infer from this is he is unfaithful to his wife, the inference you make about his commitment to his fiduciary responsibility is incorrect to me. They are different things and he has not shown he has been a highly effective CEO who actually has technical knowledge.

Perhaps I am overly cynical but I think a lot of CEO's (and other's for that matter) will engage in dishonesty.

Consider Aquinas on merchants (possibly quoting Chrysostom possibly mistaken)

> “He that buys a thing in order that he may sell it, entire and unchanged, at a profit, is the trader who is cast out of God’s temple.”

My claim is not that this practice is wrong per-say but even in this kind of business of arbitrage you can see at guile and cunning, that is hard to deny. Maybe he only lacked the ability to hide it.

I would ask you who would run a business better a man who is unable to use cunning, guile and manipulation (marketing) or one who does not. Their is times when the sort of morality you talk about is important and times where it is a hindrance and most people are evil, if you want the good Aristocratic souls you would do well not to look for it in the world of commerce.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mock-possum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:49AM (#50463869)
He said he wouldn’t do a thing, and then he did it anyway.

He’s already proven himself to be untrustworthy… what else is he lying about, hmm?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by therealdrag0 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:12PM (#50462578)
You seem to imply there is a performance aspect here. Yet there are high performing people in all fields do this. Something like 20% of men have committed adultery.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:24PM (#50462656)
> Something like 20% of men have committed adultery.

More like 20% admit to it.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by yeeetz on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:27PM (#50461797)
same this is actually a bullish signal
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by NordStreamYacht on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:30PM (#50461816)
No.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by DonHopkins on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:37PM (#50461887)
That's what your ex-wife suspected about you, and she was right.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Forgeties79 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:23PM (#50462279)
I’m sure your partner, if you have one, would love to read this comment.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by teaearlgraycold on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:27PM (#50461793)
I don't really care that much about Jensen being an unfaithful husband. That kind of pales in comparison to hoarding hundreds of billions of dollar. And as far as "paid encounters" go - I would hope no one uses this as an opportunity to tell me prostitution is unethical.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kodoman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:10PM (#50462166)
Yeah the moral angle of 'oh my god a billionaire was unfaithful' is just bizarre, given all the Epstein stuff at least he is cheating with adult women who consent.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jpeeler on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:49PM (#50462442)
I think you just proved the point that people's stance on morality is not universal.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by antonvs on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:03PM (#50462527)
Morality is not a binary. Some things are more immoral than others.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TheOtherHobbes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:15PM (#50462598)
The potential security costs are far more significant than any nominal market fee for services rendered.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:23AM (#50463716)
Just because some people have done worse things, doesn't mean you can do whatever you want
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mruniverse on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:56AM (#50465142)
But it does make you wonder why we let some people can get away it while we hold others to account.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by happymellon on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:43AM (#50463827)
Some of us think all of these things are bad.

Different scales, but all should be considered negative and penalised.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by balgg on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:14AM (#50465259)
> at least he is cheating with adult women who consent.

Well, he is his superior in a work setting, so there's that. There can be consequences for rejecting your boss's advances, which is the reason this kind of thing is usually heavily frowned upon!

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by machomaster on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:49AM (#50470292)
The infantilization of adult women is disgusting.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kodoman on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:48PM (#50471227)
What about the implication that these affairs are some how worse then Epstein trafficking underage girls. The mind boggles at what some of these people think, its been eye opening reading all the people who think he is the worst thing since sliced Hitler. Some have suggested their are various groups in the USA that want him gone (Government and/or AI labs) looking more and more plausible and I don't know if some of these outraged people are bots.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lotsofpulp on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:47PM (#50462435)
How do you know he is hoarding hundreds of billions of US dollars?

Is it possible you are conflating USD with Nvidia shares that he hasn’t sold? Is he not allowed to have 3.5% of the voting power for Nvidia?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by abletonlive on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:19PM (#50462626)
> That kind of pales in comparison to hoarding hundreds of billions of dollars

Unsurprising to see that the economic illiteracy that plagues reddit has made its way here, a place that is made by billionaires and tries to find and mint new billionaires

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chews on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:54PM (#50462891)
It didn't start that way and honestly has gotten worse every passing year.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Morromist on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:30PM (#50463093)
Nobody cares about that. They care about Jensen being an unfaithful CEO and compromising Nvidia's share price with this naughty flings.

They're already being sued by shareholders over the first affair. The suit claims Nvidia's relationship with Megaspeed posed a "material risk" to Nvidia's reputation and business prospects. Of course sleeping with your own employees is also considered a bad business practice.

It does feel a bit like Jensen is being held to a very much unfairly higher standard than, say, elon, who does drugs, lies extravagantly, has an openly corrupt relationship with the goverment, build the world's biggest deepfake porn machine, etc etc.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by thomasjudge on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:45PM (#50463157)
cf Matt Levine, "Everything is Securities Fraud"
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by happymellon on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:38AM (#50463799)
> unfairly higher standard

I don't disagree that they are being held at different standards, however Elon should really be held far more accountable for his manipulations around Tesla stock, porn machines, Space X fraud etc.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by t-3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:22AM (#50465674)
Elon doesn't really hide anything though. He's very public with his drug use and harem. Really hard to blackmail someone who's proud of what he does.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by verzali on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:04AM (#50465961)
He denies the drug use. Although his behaviour makes it very obvious.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by happymellon on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:27AM (#50466204)
I'm not talking about blackmail.

I'm talking fraud. The SEC should be getting involved.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by aleph_minus_one on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:12AM (#50466618)
> I don't disagree that they are being held at different standards, however Elon should really be held far more accountable for his manipulations around Tesla stock, porn machines, Space X fraud etc.

Outside of his fan bubble, Elon Musk is really not well-reputed.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Haven880 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:00PM (#50462077)
I dont think this is sex level. A date or kissing seems more likely. You can see all reports including rumors didnt talk about sex part.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lazide on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:27PM (#50462305)
Lolz
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by antonvs on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:02PM (#50462524)
Jensen isn’t a Mormon and doesn’t wear magic underwear. In fact those leather jackets he wears tell you everything you need to know.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by raffael_de on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:09AM (#50463296)
really? right in front of my leather jacket?!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nwhnwh on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:50AM (#50463871)
What do they tell?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ethbr1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:14AM (#50464839)
I believe, as the fellow kids say, that he fucks.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nwhnwh on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:38AM (#50465029)
So that's why these are always expensive then, hmmm.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by King-Aaron on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:11AM (#50463313)
Oh hun
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ElProlactin on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:36AM (#50463456)
Just a failed training run, right?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by randyrand on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:11PM (#50462181)
Oh the horror! Let's hope he doesn't enjoy it while he's doing it. I can only bear so much.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by itsthecourier on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:55PM (#50462484)
truly, I think it's way out of proportion, unless it had an effect on Nvidia management, we should give the guy and his family space and privacy. Jepsen net effect on the world is hugely positive. hope he recovers a good life and fix whatever they decide makes sense
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mikae1 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:02PM (#50462943)
> Jepsen net effect on the world is hugely positive.

Until the medical advances come raining from the sky, that is yet to be proven.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rawoke083600 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:59AM (#50463938)
> The net effect of the data centers filled with his cards is not positive.

You of course are doing your part by not using any of the data centres with his cards right ?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by musicale on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:20AM (#50464057)
> Jepsen net effect on the world is hugely positive.

I would have to agree. Also at least three top 40 hits in the US and 7 in Canada.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Carly_Rae_Jepsen

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tasuki on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:53AM (#50465493)
I thought this was about the aphyr database consistency tests!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jurgenburgen on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:40AM (#50465414)
You don’t think helping your girlfriend circumvent export controls and score billion dollar contracts for GPUs that her shell company bought for China doesn’t impact Nvidia?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by t-3 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:26AM (#50465701)
Shareholders like it though. Money is far more important to most people than which country "wins" AI. Huang also has a good relationship with Trump so enforcement is unlikely.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by raffael_de on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:11AM (#50463307)
given that he is dating adult women and was never implied in the epstein files, i'd say, give the man a medal!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dh2022 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:31AM (#50463418)
Trump will give him a medal :)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lhd1 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:22PM (#50462644)
Seems likely the board is aware of more instances than has been currently exposed. Given a second, a third seems highly likely.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by samlinnfer on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:52AM (#50463554)
Then given a third, then a fourth is highly likely. When does it stop?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rebolek on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:00AM (#50463586)
At certain island, I guess.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by justinator on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:09AM (#50463632)
What else do you do with $100+ billion other than have sex with whomever you want?

Also see our friend Elon Musk,

Bill Gates,

Jeff Bezos,

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chistev on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:17AM (#50465639)
Power is the ultimate aphrodisiac.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by aleph_minus_one on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:11AM (#50466610)
> What else do you do with $100+ billion other than have sex with whomever you want?

Finance fundamental research since it is well-known how precarious the job situation in academia is.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lhd1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:01PM (#50474218)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nprateem on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:26AM (#50463731)
NEWS FLASH: Man accused of acting like a man. More at 11.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tclancy on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:02PM (#50460146)
Somebody have an agent go back and look at that Coldplay concert footage.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tiznow on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:32PM (#50460509)
It's the tip of something, at least.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by outside1234 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:19PM (#50461719)
"If there are two ants in your kitchen then there are probably hundreds more"
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fedpost on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:20PM (#50463040)
At least in the US you're not allowed to just detain people for having a camera
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kart23 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:47AM (#50463528)
and private security isn’t allowed to detain anyone for any reason. they’re not cops
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fedpost on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:21AM (#50464891)
Slightly pedantic but I think in most US jurisdiction private security can detain you for theft under the doctrine of shopkeepers privilege but only long enough for law enforcement to get there.

Obviously not super relevant to this but that's where people get the idea at least.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by baxtr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:50AM (#50463547)
Maybe a state actor knew this already and then based on this knowledge devised a plan for a targeted spy operations.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by lapcat on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:33PM (#50459739)
I knew this was going to happen. It's highly unlikely that a man cheats on his wife for the first time after age 60. This was just the first time he was outed for it.

I hated the misogynistic narrative that Huang was somehow helpless against a super-spy-seductress. Men can in fact control themselves, and it takes a lot of effort, you might even say willpower, to turn a business meeting into a bedroom encounter, especially when you're in the public eye. If Huang was targeted, it was because he was an easy target.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by JumpCrisscross on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:41PM (#50459853)
> This was just the first time he was outed for it

For good reason. The level of fuck-up in sleeping with a Chinese spy and then having the gall to try and corruptly quash the investigations into it, coming clean only after Congress flips, is nuts.

I’m not convinced a good CEO can’t have affairs. I am convinced a liar and corrupter can’t.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by UltraSane on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:42PM (#50459864)
Yes even if you are a billionaire women don't just spontaneously strip naked for you it takes a real effort to make it happen.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by PorciiVorbesc on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:42PM (#50459879)
>Men can in fact control themselves

Yeah but then what's the point of being one of the wealthiest and most influential men in the world, if you can't slay some puss when the mood hits you?

This is in fact very mild and tame behavior for someone who's a famous influential billionaire. The other ones went to an island where they ... you know ... kids.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hn_throwaway_99 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:45PM (#50460681)
> Yeah but then what's the point of busting your ass your whole life to become one of the wealthiest and most influential men in the world, if you can't have an affair when the mood hits you?

Perhaps don't get married then, or have a consensual open relationship.

I love all these comments that are basically like "what's the point of being a billionaire if you can't stick your dick wherever you want when the mood strikes you and lie about it to your wife."

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by underlipton on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:12PM (#50460971)
I think the unspoken implication is that being a billionaire means having an inordinate amount of power, such that immoral behavior like this becomes almost a given, because you can literally buy your way out of consequences (if only up to a point). Maybe the pertinent question is less, "How do we stop there being billionaires who succumb to the temptations of their unfathomable amounts of power?" and more, "How do we stop there being billionaires?".
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:07PM (#50462151)
I think I see what you mean: we know that power corrupts, and billionaires have incredible power, so this is to be expected to some extent.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by PorciiVorbesc on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:31AM (#50466833)
You don't need to be a billionaire to cheat on your wife and have affairs. Average and poor dudes do that all the time.

The point I was making was, that what's the point of becoming a powerful billionaire if your life now has more restrictions than the lower classes? People amass wealth and power to gain more freedoms from societal rules, not less.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jorl17 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:16PM (#50461027)
Damn. The original comment is gone, but judging from what you quoted it seems it only went the way of OP's morals.

EDIT: Actually, yeah, just read it, even worse than I thought. How could I not give this man some slack? I mean, he managed to not go to an island where they abuse children, I should have known he's a good person!!

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by PorciiVorbesc on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:44PM (#50474003)
>Perhaps don't get married then, or have a consensual open relationship.

Clearly you don't understand that sexual desires and human constructed morality are different things, often in opposition with each other.

Surely he didn't know when he got married that 2 decades later, he'd become a billionaire surrounded by women more attractive than he could score before, otherwise he probably wouldn't have gotten married in the first place, if he knew a p**sy tsunami would await him.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tiznow on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:00PM (#50460866)
The affair part probably isn't as damaging to the average relationship of a CEO and their wife as the public embarrassment is.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by JKCalhoun on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:37PM (#50460580)
"I knew this was going to happen."

Maybe his autographing that women's bra (boob?) at a trade show was a red flag…

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jorl17 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:04PM (#50460903)
On nearly every post online about his affair, one of the most visible comments always ended up being about how one must "understand" that this just sort of "happens" when you're this rich and powerful. Poor thing, couldn't keep it in his pants. "Oh, just think of how hard it would be to resist! Would you?"

I pity whomever is in a relationship with someone who actually thinks that way. I'm disgusted, to be honest.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wewewedxfgdf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:34PM (#50459744)
Gotta get me a sharp looking leather jacket - that must be what's getting him all this action.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by layer8 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:35PM (#50459758)
You might need to also acquire his level of net worth.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wewewedxfgdf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:44PM (#50459899)
Nah - it's the style, the vibe of his presence.

People don't see the money, the global geopolitical issues at stake - they see the man - they see the jacket.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dancing on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:45PM (#50459915)
The wealth will come, but only after you get the jacket first.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by wewewedxfgdf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:48PM (#50459961)
Chicken and egg my friend - chicken and egg. What comes first?

This is one of the great mysteries in entrepreneurship.

I own 3 leather jackets and yet fortune has not come to me.

Perhaps the problem is I do not wear them every day - wearing a leather jacket every day - nay every minute takes focus and commitment that I simply cannot match Jensen on.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by hackingonempty on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:33PM (#50460518)
You gotta make the money first. Then when you get the money, you get the jacket. Then when you get the jacket, then you get the woman.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=o6gHS-eJNCQ

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jihadjihad on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:46PM (#50461361)
It’s the jacket that makes the man.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by WalterBright on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:58PM (#50462918)
How's that different from Jobs' "trademark" black turtleneck?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by groby_b on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:34PM (#50459750)
Purely accident that the news dribbles out like that. Nothing to see, moving on.

(If he's done this without his wife's full consent, he's certainly a despicable human, but that doesn't change that this looks like a really nicely orchestrated PR hit job)

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mlfreeman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:46PM (#50459928)
I agree with you. I also find it “interesting” that this all really started appearing a few days after DOJ made angry noises about nVidia buying Hugging Face.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mrtksn on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:36PM (#50459786)
Can someone explain how the CEO sex life is relevant? Is it because of the risk of a messy divorce that can both distract the CEO and eventually force voting share transfer since he’s also a shareholder?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by baby_souffle on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:39PM (#50459832)
> Can someone explain how the CEO sex life is relevant?

If it's true that he had the affair with the CCP spy or otherwise was encouraged to sell GPUs using loopholes that violate export bans, that would put him and NVDA into some hot water.

Investors do not like that and the implications for any rapid change in NVDA valuation would be immense.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mrtksn on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:41PM (#50459857)
Sure, the spy lady sex story is relevant but this is a different non-spy woman.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by galleywest200 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:53PM (#50460030)
He slept with a subordinate employee, which is a fire-able offense in essentially any corporate environment I have ever worked in.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mrtksn on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:58PM (#50460097)
So? He is a shareholder and CEO having sex with another consenting adult, who and why anyone would fire him. AFAIK Musk had kids with his subordinates and became a trillionaire afterwards.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ethanlipson on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:08PM (#50460935)
[delayed]
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jubilanti on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:18PM (#50461040)
For the same reason that, today, you're not considered a national security risk if you are openly gay, but you still are if you are closeted and trying to hide it. You can't easily blackmail an Elon type who has no shame and whose sex and drug addictions are part of his public reputation. Jensen presented himself as a faithful family man.

Also, if you cannot comprehend that there are issues of consent when it comes to having a sexual relationship with someone whose career you can destroy with no consequences, then I seriously hope you never get a management position.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by QuiEgo on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:28PM (#50461149)
Say your boss has two reports, you and someone else. You are the same gender as the someone else. They are sleeping with the someone else. They then promote the someone else while not promoting you. Now you have to ask yourself: do I need to have sex with the boss to get promoted? This type of situation is why most companies will fire you if you’re sleeping with someone you’re writing the performance reviews for. Also, all of Jensens reports now have a path to sue Nvidia for unfair treatment, he put the company at huge risk.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by flowerlad on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:08PM (#50462152)
You can ingratiate yourself to your boss without having sex. I have seen people doing non-sexual favors to then successfully get promoted. Not saying that sex with subordinate is OK, but that you have to ban all kinds of personal favors.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by anon7000 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:33AM (#50464541)
Lmao. No, one of those is not like the other. At all. Sounds like someone wasn’t paying attention during the harassment training. Basically you have a right to a workspace free from sexual harassment. The behavior described above is either explicitly harassment or getting close enough to it for people to get uncomfortable (and you have a right to not be made uncomfortable due to inappropriate/sexual work situations.)

You don’t have a right to a workspace free of social discomfort or pressure though. Feeling some pressure to bring them a donut isn’t protected in the same way unless it’s becoming harassment.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by flowerlad on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:12PM (#50470664)
I was not talking about bringing donuts. How about cooking especially for the boss and getting promoted as a result? This is not a sexual favor, does that mean it is a-ok? It should be banned because an employee is getting promoted not because of business outcomes they produced but because of their skills in kissing ass. Should other employees have to compete with this? If not, why not ban all personal favors, not just sexual ones?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rafabulsing on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:06PM (#50462959)
That was the policy at the company he runs. It's hypocritical, if nothing else (and it is much else).
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Forgeties79 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:33AM (#50467914)
Are you really trying to use musk as an example of normal social behavior that we should accept (encourage…?)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by everdrive on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:42AM (#50468090)
I'm not defending Jensen, but it's kind of crazy. What do you do if you fall in love at work? Wait for your fiance to get a promotion so you're at the same career level?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by yodon on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:55PM (#50460050)
> this is a different non-spy woman who is his subordinate.

FTFY

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Sparkle-san on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:40PM (#50459839)
Yes, his actions carry potential shareholder risk and the board has a fiduciary duty to treat it as such. Nvidia (and Jensen) carry extra risk given their corporate structure which is flatter than most companies. Jensen has dozens of direct reports and is a cornerstone of the company. The recent changes to the stock price exemplify all of this.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by sparkling on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:41PM (#50459861)
Potential for blackmailing, messy divorce, corporate liability with regards to potential sexual harassment lawsuits, overall negative PR/image... and a dozen other reasons.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by cromka on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:43PM (#50459886)
Yes, no one questions what he does with his wife (or used to...). That's sex life. Promiscuity and risky behaviors are that and have nothing to do with his sex life.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by glimshe on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:43PM (#50459892)
The latest one reported to him. If he wasn't the CEO, he'd be long gone.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rgmerk on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:18PM (#50460356)
Having an extramarital affair in and of itself isn't a fireable offence. Having sex with a subordinate is.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:25PM (#50461111)
Shouldn't be if the other person is an adult and there were no high pressure tactics.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fwlr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:37PM (#50461243)
Having sex with a subordinate is the high pressure tactic.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:53PM (#50462018)
No its not, quite literally. Can can come with some.

It is basically the difference between impropriety and appearance or possibility of impropriety

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:50PM (#50462856)
The problem is that you can't know. You can't read the minds of the people involved, so you can't know if there was pressure, coercion, or something else going on, and you can't be sure if either of them are telling the truth when they both insist it's fine and fully consensual.

So you prohibit it in all cases, punish in all cases, and then you don't have to wade into that mess.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:53PM (#50463198)
Thats a crazy approach. By that standard no man should ever have sex with a weaker woman, because you cant rule out physical fear entirely.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ethersteeds on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:07AM (#50464357)
Nobody should have sex with people whose livelihoods they have control over, it's not that crazy and its not a "men aren't allowed to flirt anymore" thing.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:56AM (#50468364)
Married couples off and a half control over each other's livelihoods. Tremendous Leverage.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by triceratops on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:13PM (#50462201)
His other subordinates will wonder if they have to do the same to get promoted.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Taniwha on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:27PM (#50462306)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by codethief on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:47AM (#50465834)
That doesn't necessarily make it a fireable offense, though.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:45PM (#50462827)
Most companies have policies prohibiting employees from having relationships with subordinates. If he's going to violate company policy in this way, what's to say he isn't doing other shady things inside the business?

Regardless, the saying, "don't shit where you eat" exists for a reason. Huang engaging in this relationship shows profound poor judgment. Is it wise to have someone with such poor judgment running a company of Nvidia's scale and importance?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by iotage on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:57AM (#50463575)
In an age of celebrity and wealth worship, such tidbits are entertainment food for the masses.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by JoshTko on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:15AM (#50463669)
1. Legally this is highly problematic as it exposed Nvidia in a bunch of different ways. 2. A CEO who is so unconcerned about 1. may be engaging in other risky activities.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:32AM (#50463763)
Morals are important. He could have used his position of power to do this. If you don't care about morals that's fine but don't get all tetchy when people who do have ideals care.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by prodigycorp on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:48AM (#50463854)
Let's say that we discover that he didnt use his position of power to advantage himself with Ms Powell. According to your reasoning, then it should be fine, right?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:06AM (#50463994)
Sure. Or let's say that he did and it was.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bad_username on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:43AM (#50464608)
Because the media says it is relevant, and the media want him out (or are aligned with someone who wants him out).
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Markoff on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:21AM (#50464890)
1. having sex with CEO of the company your are doing business with may affect the business itself, so you are not delivering best results for your own company

2. having sex with your own subordinate employee seems like potential abuse of power for starters and it is just calling for lawsuit, because while she can say today it was consensual, tomorrow she can say the other way

if he would be having sex with random girls he found in bars it would be certainly less problematic than having sex with people who are directly related to his company

btw. it also shows his character, if he was unfaithful once, he was unfaithful twice, do you really think these are only two cases and it ends just with his sex life?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by NotGMan on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:25AM (#50465694)
Anti AI freaks + competitors.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Forgeties79 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:32AM (#50467906)
Because sleeping with someone at your company in secret while you are married can be incredibly destabilizing. Also, she reports to him. There is an inherent consent issue.

How is the CEO having a secret affair with somebody at his company not relevant to the company?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nbobko on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:38PM (#50459810)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by shoobiedoo on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:38PM (#50459811)
I'm not condoning cheating at all, but if you're a billionaire with endless connections around the world, why wouldn't you just go to an escort if you can't keep it in your pants.

I know things are different when you're only thinking with your johnson but jeez, showing up with the same woman in front of the media many times and even displaying affection in front of a camera (there is pictures of them with light body contact afaik), what did he think was going to happen?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by UltraSane on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:44PM (#50459909)
Being seen in public so often with a mistress seems extremely arrogant or wanting to get caught.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by a_bonobo on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:08PM (#50460930)
it's a power thing - yeah he could go to an escort, but then it becomes only about money. He wants these relationships as a proof of his power; then walking around in public is to flaunt the power, the 'you can't do me nothing, look at me'. Power is the drug.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by UltraSane on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:30PM (#50462328)
The impunity is the point.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by minimaxa on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:40PM (#50459834)
Now we have to live through this nonsense for 10 years in the news.

He should have retired and done a handover last month and left at his peak to a beach villa on Maui...

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nixonaddiction on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:42PM (#50459878)
tbh if jensen is that prolific i wouldnt be shocked if lori huang knows and has like, made her peace with it.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by achandra03 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:23PM (#50461750)
Would not be the least bit surprised if the vast majority of men at this level of wealth/status have "arrangements" with their significant others.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by prawn on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:43PM (#50461936)
Isn't that the least of factors in the story (spy, subordinate, etc)?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by karimf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:46PM (#50459937)
Related: Nvidia Is Preparing to Oust Nvidia CEO Jensen Huang https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=50459703
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ecocentrik on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:47PM (#50459947)
Maybe I'm too old and stupid but I'm less concerned knowing that the guy has a few mistresses. It makes it less likely that any of these ladies are tugging on his heart strings for the keys to his kingdom. Nvidia security is probably all over these affairs monitoring his communications, personal devices...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by corroclaro on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @05:51PM (#50460006)
If he were French, no one would have blinked.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by parametersss on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:09PM (#50460266)
Michael J. Burry getting two for the price of one
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nxobject on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:44PM (#50460661)
Well, there goes the productivity bragging he does about his nonstop work ethic and sheer number of direct reports.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by fluoridation on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @06:49PM (#50460721)
Man, I am so fucking done with drive-by downvoters. Can't even make a good faith observation without some cuntbag pressing that fucking button like it gives them a dopamine injection straight to the hypothalamus.

If you like downvoting so much then downvote this, you piece of shit. At least this is warranted.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bpiroman on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:07PM (#50460927)
Leave Jensen alone!!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rdtsc on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:12PM (#50460979)
> Mr. Huang’s security witnessed the bystander with their phone and sequestered them, the people said. They made the person an offer to sign a nondisclosure agreement

This is not their first rodeo, is it? Wonder how much was offered? Did the person take it? ("hey, psst, we'll throw the latest GPU card on the table, how about now?")

Then, will Huang issue another, equally sincere, public apology to his wife about this other affair. He could have grouped them both into a batch for efficiency I guess.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jan_m_savage on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:14PM (#50461002)
[黃 (huáng) literally means yellow, but in slang and compound words, it can mean vulgar or lewd]....
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jihadjihad on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:18PM (#50461044)
Seems legit [0]:

> sexually obscene; pornographic

0: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/黃

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chasil on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:37PM (#50461249)
He should be allowed to retain the CEO role if he tattoos the following on his right forearm:

"Do not #&$+ where you eat."

Seriously, a second mistress, who is unqualified?

https://www.cnbc.com/2026/11/11/nvidia-jensen-huang-affair-e...

I just put a large amount of money into Nvidia, and I am aghast.

You never, ever have intimate relationships with professional connections. Ever.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by MegaDeKay on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:18PM (#50462614)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chasil on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:05AM (#50463266)
I have traveled to Colombia many times.

Prostotution is legal there. I never availed myself in this, but I saw what was available in the Provenza.

Cartagena is accustomed to this, but Medellin is not so much.

I am a follower of Kant, a formulation of his categorical imperative is that "we never treat people as a means, but always as ends in themselves."

I try not to touch people, because that is a big ask.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tw1984 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:11PM (#50461634)
when I was a kid, my parents taught me that making fun of other people's names, especially surnames, is the lowest form of action.

You have my deepest sympathy that your parents hadn't quite evolved to that level of civilisation to teach you the same. Life must be tough for your childhood in such primitive and vile family.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by 4738837329 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:21PM (#50461737)
Won't someone think of the poor Nvidia CEO :'(
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by shigawire on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:59PM (#50462071)
This guy must be named Mike Hunt or something
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by dang on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:26AM (#50463377)
Ai yai yai - resorting to that degree of personal aggression is absolutely not ok on HN, regardless of how bad some comment is or you feel it is.

Your comment would have been fine, and even appropriate, had you stopped at the first sentence. What you wrote after that is much worse than the comment you're criticizing, and obviously a bannable offense.

I don't want to ban you, so if you wouldn't mind reviewing https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and taking the intended spirit of the site more to heart, we'd be grateful. We've had to ask you this more than once before.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rjh29 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:21PM (#50461741)
I find it hard to describe why this comment triggers me... partly because 黃 is the 7th most common surname in China. And I don't think any native speaker would make that connection. It's like saying "haha that guy named Ryan Johnson was adulterous because his surname is slang for a penis!"
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bigstrat2003 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:24PM (#50461761)
> It's like saying "haha that guy named Ryan Johnson was adulterous because his surname is slang for a penis!"

That's totally a joke people would make. Joking about nominative determinism happens all the time.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by somenameforme on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:52PM (#50462013)
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by owlninja on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:55PM (#50462038)
You just made me have a flashback to the early 90s when there was a popular brand of t-shirts called 'Big Johnson' with the character E. Normus Johnson. The jokes wrote themselves and I am sort of shocked to see they are actually still in business!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by rjh29 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:51PM (#50471276)
It does, but I think Johnson is too much of a stretch to be funny, which is why I chose that example.

And nominative determinism is a dick move regardless of whether people do it or not.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jan_m_savage on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:57PM (#50462493)
Are you native speaker of Chinese? Have you lived in China? I didn't think so. The Chinese themselves make fun of this word all the time. The Chinese certainly have a great sense of humor, unlike you.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by andsoitis on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:41PM (#50461915)
Are you also into numerology?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by jan_m_savage on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:58PM (#50462502)
No, but you could be into making five out of two and two.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by washadjeffmad on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:22PM (#50462647)
I'd never noticed, but that's the first character in my Japanese family name, and I was once in a relationship with a Chinese girl whose family name was close to huáng.

I joked that she was a PRC intelligence asset because of what a perfect partner she was and came out of nowhere, which doubled as a subtle dig at her family having been supporters of the cultural revolution.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:16PM (#50461020)
Was she over 18? Seems like a non-issue
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TZubiri on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:30PM (#50461181)
It might be an issue in internal HR terms, and in terms of external fiduciary duties to investors since it's a public company.

In terms of sexual crimes, I think there's cases and situations where there can be coercion, but it's not necessarily the case.

Oh also it's a breach of the marital contract of course.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:53PM (#50462022)
Do we live under Sharia law? I didn't realize infidelity was a crime
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by voganmother42 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:02PM (#50462103)
Evading export controls and lying about it is a crime, falling for a spy is stupid and has tons of potential fall out, having an affair with a direct report is a major liability, I wonder what is next, maybe we will find out more about the connection to the administration next, this season of the leather lothario is wild, will it be the finale, is there another season of fall guy or a full on traitor arc?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by TZubiri on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:11PM (#50462182)
No I don't think it is, a breach of contract is a civil matter, not a criminal one. I think it's especially relevant in the case of the CEO of a company, it's certainly common for contracts to be breached, but it doesn't reflect positively on the company.

Marital contracts are not unlike commercial contracts and we are finding out the CEO is in the (non)business of systematically violating them.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by kelnos on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:51PM (#50462862)
Who said anything about it being a crime? There are many things that aren't crimes that can get you fired.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by literallywho on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:54PM (#50462885)
As long as Americans (and especially Americans in charge of USA) claim to be a Christian nation under God...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:49AM (#50463865)
You don't know what that means do you...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by AndroTux on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:35PM (#50461224)
Right? Why are we suddenly pretending like shareholders have such high morals? I really don't understand what's going on. Destroying the world is fine, but cheating, that's where I draw the line!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by serf on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:58PM (#50461487)
destroying the world hasn't yet set a precedent that made CEOs (and the investors under their umbrella) weary of an alimony payout.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by bar8uyr on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:47PM (#50461381)
One of them was 9
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by viklove on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:56PM (#50461473)
The more comments I read from HNers under articles regarding Jensen Huang, the more I realize that the crowd here is completely lost.

Ya'll need help.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by drinkinghorn on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:43AM (#50466332)
This has been true for years.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by insane_dreamer on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @07:50PM (#50461407)
the timing of this coming out now is certainly not a coincidence; same with the spy affair (which was known a year or two ago). the interesting question is who wants Jensen gone
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by skinfaxi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:03PM (#50462113)
This is the real question we need to be asking.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by NoPicklez on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:24PM (#50462282)
Yes and no, Nvidia have said they're conducting their own internal investigation among others. It doesn't surprise me that more information about this or other allegations come out while the fire is hot.

But I agree, anyone within the Nvidia circle looking to spread the information is certainly not doing it to help Jensen.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by nxobject on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:16PM (#50463016)
The article cites _five_ internal sources corroborating this -- the second affair must've been an open secret at this point.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ralph84 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:09PM (#50462563)
> who wants Jensen gone

The same people who want to ban open-weight models. For safety, of course.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by xyst on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:26AM (#50463379)
not really interesting, clearly china. Kill their competition by chopping off the head of the snake. Continue to gain massive lead and solidify their dominate position.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by insane_dreamer on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:32AM (#50463425)
actually, because of the scandal becoming public, Jensen's replacement is almost certainly likely to take a harder line towards China than if Jensen had remained in place and the scandal had remain buried

so no, IMO, not likely China

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by harhargange on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:20PM (#50461730)
If, at the end of the day, it is moral merit that matters for leadership positions, why is the hiring and training paradigm solely focused on technical skills?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by AshamedBadger56 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:01PM (#50462940)
It's not? Every large company I've ever worked for has culture fit as part of the hiring process.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by harhargange on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:48AM (#50464639)
But they value your presentation skills and the value you offer and company requirements above everything else practically
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by Haven880 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @08:59PM (#50462064)
Is the affair just be on surface like chitchat and dates, holding hands and kissing minus the Elon level of bed and babies? In the traditional western context you have to bed the women to consider affairs. Anything on surface is more like feminist definition of affair. Can anyone confirm the bedding part? Or even babies like Elon?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ryzvonusef on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:13AM (#50464022)
Not sure why everyone is bringing Musk as an example here, every single of his children alive today [afaik] were had via IVF (why he does it that way is a whole different can of worms), but it changes the consent dynamics quite a bit.

It's one thing to say your boss cornered you in the office, it's a another thing to go through the entire IVF procedure and then pretend you had no chance of escaping or whistleblowing over the however many weeks it takes.

Would prefer if more like Elon tbh, don't cheat and just be open about your relationships with clear consent lines, causes investors far less grief. He's weird and thus when you are investing, you are absolutely clear what sort of person you are investing in.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by alex1138 on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:03PM (#50462111)
Isn't Jensen on record as saying he won't do 1 on 1 meetings with employees? He seems like a run of the mill sociopath that runs off the work other people do
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ticksi on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:04PM (#50462119)
who up huangin' they jensen rn?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by yanhangyhy on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:40PM (#50462396)
Everyone is completely indifferent to the white guys who visited Little Saint James, yet a boring affair gets treated like the biggest news in the world.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ronsummer on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:51PM (#50462447)
She looks way more attractive than this spy girl. is this containment?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by itsthecourier on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:00PM (#50462515)
so Warren Buffett's wife moves to California to be a singer, guy remains in Omaha with Astrid. Sussie dies, Buffet marries Astrid.

my point being, Buffet still is Buffet.

hopes Jepsen life privacy is kept and they solved it backstage whatever they like.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by inshard on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:26PM (#50462683)
Where does one secure a black pair of jeans, tees and leather jacket? Asking for a friend.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by 0x4e on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:27PM (#50462695)
My honest reaction is:

If he cheats —- multiple times —- to his wife, what stops him from cheating to you, investors, etc…?

Maybe he is just very horny and that’s all, but his credibility and trust has taken a toll. Like the TBPN guys said, every time we see him now, we’re just going to think of this situation.

Has any of this deception also trickled down to business matters? I hope not, but it’s also a non-zero chance.

—-

Who should be the CEO? And what does this mean for the AI trade?

I don’t know who the CEO should be. I honestly think the most entertaining outcome would be for Elon to be the CEO but that would just be crazy and not sure how likely that is.

As for the AI trade, two scenarios come to mind:

1. Deception didn’t get into business matters, everything continues business as usual except for some deceleration.

2. Deception trickled down to business matters, say circular deals start smelling bad or something else, the market will panic and AI could hit a winter period.

—-

Just a speculative hot take!

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by purpleidea on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:36PM (#50462752)
If his personal security detained the person videoing them and offered them money to sign an NDA, isn't it a crime to detain someone who didn't do a crime?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by throw282736 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:48AM (#50468212)
Most likely they didn't "detain" but instead enticed them with a deal. Perhaps they offered to buy the video and exclusive rights to the video for a decent amount.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by deadbabe on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:27PM (#50463076)
The executive has denied the claims on X, so unless anyone has actual proof beyond all reasonable doubts (including AI), the show is over.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by freakynit on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @11:43PM (#50463150)
I had a feeling something damaging would happen to him sooner or later. My prediction was sometime before mid 2027.

My reasoning was that that he had become too powerful while largely avoiding politically charged positions, or other "stuff" that can be used to "control" him.

The political and intelligence establishment doesnt particularly like powerful individuals who remain politically independent.... outside of their control.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by huijzer on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:57AM (#50463576)
I knew things would go wrong when I saw the bra signing https://mothership.sg/2024/06/nvidia-ceo-jensen-huang-signs-...
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by eps on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:15AM (#50464417)
Unrelated, but it's a nice signature.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by ksec on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:17AM (#50463685)
This explanation actually makes more sense. He was even invited to EU, ASEAN Goverment etc more often than any other elected individual or powerful figures.

That is why ancient wisdom said you should keep low profile if you are super rich.

I hope Jensen can get through this.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by DarkNova6 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:53AM (#50463905)
Huang has had a noticeable shift in personality over time not unlike people such as Musk and other super rich. It doesn't take any external influence to cause bad character.

So many people here think character doesn't matter but it has now caught up with him as much as it has for Trump.

For years he was in the same anti-human AI hype club way too similar like Altman and he thought no consequences can catch him... it really doesn't take any conspiracy here. Everything he has chosen was all his doing.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by inglor_cz on Thursday November 12, 2026 @04:32AM (#50464997)
Musk is known for his ketamine habit. Maybe Huang uses something as well. Those high-powered careers are conductive to becoming a junkie. "The Wolf of Wall Street" exaggerated a bit, but not too much.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by program_whiz on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:12AM (#50467457)
And to bolster your point, people like Huang are surrounded by yes-men constantly. When you are a nobody, people criticize and keep you in line. Once you're running NVIDIA, people want power/money themselves, so they will tend to grovel and supplicate. Eventually, even the humblest begin to believe their own PR.

Those are "external influences", but your own gravitational field has warped them. Even the president wants your money and influence, and needs your company to do well, there is literally no one who will "give it to you straight", and it warps your mind.

The Roman commanders would sometimes hire someone to stand behind them and remind them they were only human for this reason (to avoid natural hubris), it was seen as naturally arising in these circumstances, and needed to be combatted to remain effective.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by promptsupporter on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:03AM (#50463979)
Politically independent? Jensen is not politically independent.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by 0xDEAFBEAD on Thursday November 12, 2026 @08:54AM (#50467113)
[delayed]
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by avidruntime on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:16PM (#50470716)
Remember, the golden rule in evaluating the pervasiveness and persuasiveness of conspiracy theories is measuring their frequency in the real world! The internet is the only place where conspiracies spread by people who want to spread conspiracy theories can operate at scale.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by avidruntime on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:14PM (#50470681)
This is an awfully generous characterization of the situation.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by uwagar on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:05AM (#50463265)
he must have done something to piss ppl off like yo yo ma.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by chasil on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:15AM (#50463333)
Judge not, for in the measure of your judgment, it will be measured to you.

Desire is the enemy of happiness. To abandon sorrow, abjure want.

We are all in wanting. Our want in lesser that the needs of our partners, our friends, and our world.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by xyst on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:20AM (#50463356)
Huang can't keep his wang in his pants. An absolute slam dunk case for his wife's divorce lawyers.

Will NVDA board give Huang a no-confidence vote before end of year, and give him the golden parachute?

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by guest__user on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:58AM (#50463577)
that leather jacket is too powerful
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by apexalpha on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:43AM (#50464195)
That would be crazy, to be booted out of your own company like this.

Perhaps his cousin can help him get a new job at a chip firm.

Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by krige on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:48AM (#50464229)
Yet another novel application of Nvidia's SLI technology for running many things in parallel!
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by penguin_booze on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:32AM (#50464533)
Maybe it's in the contract that such relationships are verboten. But what if two consenting adults find themselves in a state of mind where they want to pursue a sexual relationship? Do they ask for permission? And to whom - HR? What if it's not granted? Can they temporarily resign for the duration of the encounter, and resume their previous lives?
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by tsss on Thursday November 12, 2026 @07:57AM (#50466463)
Who gives a shit. They're both adults and can do or, more importantly, not do, what they want.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex... by mikewarot on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:52AM (#50468283)
This is the exact reason his should have been fired in the first place. What he does in his free time is a matter for his wife and divorce lawyers to deal with.