Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by sega_sai on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:05PM
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It is inappropriate to have relationships with subordinates.
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Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by randyrand on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:29PM
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No it's not. We are adults. Adults can consent to sex with other adults.
It's inappropriate to use coercion.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by slg on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @09:57PM
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Boss-subordinate relationships are a lot like conflicts of interest. You can’t really rule out something nefarious without the ability read minds because coercion and self-dealing can happen at the unstated or even subconscious level.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by maximinus_thrax on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:02PM
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> Adults can consent to sex with other adults.
This is questionable in the context of one of the adults holding a position of power. Also, even when assuming the adults are peers, there's another saying 'Don't shit where you eat' which is rooted in a lot of stories of workplace relationships going wrong in very creative ways.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by TheOtherHobbes on Wednesday November 11, 2026 @10:19PM
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All adults are equal, but some are more equal than others.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by swyx on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:01AM
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propriety is a higher bar than what you're referring here. it IS inappropriate to date in that power dynamic. but it is legal. and it can even be ethical with mutual consent and management of consequences. dont confuse them.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by SkyPuncher on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:21AM
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There cannot reasonably be consent when a subordinate is involved. The power dynamic prevents the relationship from being on an equal footing.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by randyrand on Thursday November 12, 2026 @05:26AM
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If you follow this line of thinking, everyone becomes a rapist. Money, social status, political status, a supporting family, a community behind you, intelligence, physical strength. These are all types of power. None of us are equal.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by randyrand on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:01AM
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Equal footing is not a requirement for consent. Nor should it be. I recommend you watch this video for a more robust argument.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by nix-zarathustra on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:26AM
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1. An employee might feel obligated to have sex with their manager knowing that it might affect their careers.
2. Other employees might feel that the employee having sex with the manager is getting better treatment at work.
Re:Jensen Huang Said to Have Had Relationship with Nvidia Ex...
by vidarh on Thursday November 12, 2026 @06:50AM
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There are plenty of contexts where adults can't even legally consent, because it sometimes becomes impossible to rule out coercion, and many more where it may be legal but still shows questionable judgement for the same reason.