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Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by frereubu on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:06PM (#25663282)
I'd love to give up WhatsApp, but network effects are key here. I tried moving my extended family off WhatsApp onto Signal a couple of years ago and it failed miserably because the app wasn't nearly as easy to use, and they had all their friends on Whatsapp. Has anyone here had any success moving a large group of people onto something like Signal or Telegram? If so, do you have any tips?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by MattPalmer1086 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:50PM (#25665559)
I've used Signal for years, and for most of that time only had about three people who also used it in my contacts.

My wife recently got her entire extended family to use Signal. She has always refused to use WhatsApp. They all love Signal now, and use it all the time. However, this was during a family crisis.

During the Covid lockdowns, many companies I know used Signal as their preferred non corporate communication platform over WhatsApp... But again, that was a crisis.

It seems to be difficult to dislodge people from their preferred platforms without some kind of external driver to adopt it.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by the_arun on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:01PM (#25665736)
I am moving to Signal too. Group by Group. May not happen over night, but in few weeks
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by ent on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:18AM (#25668585)
How well do Signal groups work these days? I tried moving friend groups to signal some years ago and even managed to do that for some large ones but the group chat just didn't really work. Keys changed and somehow the group got into a state where some people got messages and others didn't and the only way to fix it seemed to be creating a new group which, for large groups, isn't really an option and everyone ended up going back to whatsapp.

I'd love to use signal with more people but that, and the ux around changing phones means I can't really recommend it to anyone but the most technical of my friends.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by happymellon on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:55AM (#25668448)
Signal, that's another one that requires your phone number?

Yeah, thanks but no thanks.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by godelski on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:11AM (#25668555)
Don't they all? But good news is that they have pushed code to allow for usernames (or not even that). It isn't open to the public (or beta) yet, but it looks like the feature is going to be released fairly soon.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by happymellon on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:28AM (#25668654)
> Don't they all?

That's my point. I hate systems that require a phone number, as they usually mean that I have a substandard experience when I'm not on my phone and I can't sign my children up so that we have a general chat tool.

The only option ends up being massively over the top team style chats like Rocketchat, Mattermost, Discord, or Slack. So we end up back on Hangouts.

A bit shit for general family conversation.

[Edit] If they do allow signing up/in with a username then I'll probably be all over it. That would be awesome news.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by godelski on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:42AM (#25668744)
I'm curious why you value your phone number over your data.

I'm unsure if they will allow signups without phone numbers, but they don't store that information. Signal doesn't have it. [0][1] It is very possible they go around this though.

[0] https://signal.org/blog/looking-back-as-the-world-moves-forw...

[1] (time-stamped to only the important part) https://www.youtube.com/watch?t=894&v=Nj3YFprqAr8&feature=yo...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by happymellon on Thursday January 07, 2021 @04:03AM (#25668867)
Reasons:

> they usually mean that I have a substandard experience when I'm not on my phone

> I can't sign my children up so that we have a general chat tool.

This isn't a privacy thing, this is a general tool that is fundimentally broken if I'm not on my phone.

I'm not always on my phone, and my kids don't have phone numbers.

They are unusable.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by godelski on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:25PM (#25675073)
I think these are fair points. I'll mention that I predominately use the desktop client and it works well since I frequently leave my phone somewhere else. But doesn't seem like a right fit for you until usernames and multiple device signup. Both are in the works though so maybe good for you in the future but not now.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:53PM (#25676380)
If you don't have your phone with you, you can't sign in. Some services, like Whatsapp, will not work if your phone is turned off/broken
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Asraelite on Friday January 08, 2021 @06:34AM (#25683627)
> I predominately use the desktop client and it works well since I frequently leave my phone somewhere else.

In my experience the desktop client is slow, buggy, and takes eons to start up. There's also no web version, making it awkward to use on computers other than your own.

I would be more willing to switch over to Signal if it wasn't so lacking in this regard.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by castorp on Thursday January 07, 2021 @04:48AM (#25669198)
> Don't they all?

No. Threema does not require a phone number (it uses one for the registration verification, but your account is not linked to that number).

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:54PM (#25676386)
So can I use 1 number to create 2 users?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by under3 on Sunday January 10, 2021 @06:14PM (#25721381)
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by chappi42 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:25AM (#25668635)
Threema doesn't.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by fsflover on Thursday January 07, 2021 @07:05AM (#25670083)
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Bit32 on Friday January 08, 2021 @12:59PM (#25687567)
Er, The third link doesn't even support your argument and the first two links are written by the same author.

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Signal IS much better.

It's a nonprofit, not a commerical company.

There are arguments for and against centralized systems and forks of apps. The lead dev of Signal is concerned about interoperability; but still leaves users the option of doing things the way they would like with the open source code; it's just not 'supported™'

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by fsflover on Saturday January 09, 2021 @02:17PM (#25703568)
In the third link, look at the replies. Matrix is much better than Signal, because it solves all the problems listed in my links.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by SkyMarshal on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:03AM (#25668088)
How did the Covid lockdowns and family crisis in your examples affect the choice between Whatsapp and Signal?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by AnthonyMouse on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:19AM (#25668184)
If the only way to reach you is to either install Signal or wait until tomorrow when they see you in person, people wait until tomorrow.

If the only way to reach you is to either install Signal or wait a year until the lockdowns are over, people install Signal.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by MattPalmer1086 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @05:31AM (#25669466)
For my wife, she had to travel abroad and the family had to stay in contact with her. Since she absolutely wouldn't use WhatsApp, they all installed Signal, and discovered it's actually really usable now.

I can only speak for why one company adopted Signal over WhatsApp, but the main reason was that the company did not want their communication metadata tracked by Facebook. They were regarded as equivalent in terms of E2E encryption and functionality.

EDIT: They also did not trust Facebook entirely not to break the E2E in some way (eg cloud backups or whatever), and the message contents had to remain secure. It wasn't a huge concern, but all else being equal, Signal was the better choice.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by aasasd on Thursday January 07, 2021 @08:29AM (#25670761)
So the solution is more crises.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by mister_hn on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:27AM (#25668226)
but can you do video calls on Signal?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by godelski on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:38AM (#25668309)
Yes, and in groups! This is a new feature though.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by lodovic on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:45AM (#25668363)
In Europe the WhatsApp alternatives are generally framed as tools for pedophiles and organized crime. Even installing them on your phone may alert LEO that you're suspect. This move by Facebook is highly troubling.

edit: mass downvote! here are the links.

this link talks specifically about signal protocol being used by organized crime https://www.volkskrant.nl/nieuws-achtergrond/waarom-criminel...

https://www.securityweek.com/telegram-rivaling-tor-home-crim...

https://nakedsecurity.sophos.com/2019/05/03/criminals-are-hi...

https://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/gadgets-and-tech/ne...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Tomte on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:20AM (#25669771)
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by rcMgD2BwE72F on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:05AM (#25668521)
Source?

My friends and family have mostly been using Signal for over a year and we never had such worry. I also know laywers, lawmakers, doctors and CEOs who are also using Signal for important communications.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by midasz on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:09AM (#25668542)
That's absolute nonsense
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by patall on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:58AM (#25668471)
Do you have an source for that claim. I am in Europe and have never heard that. The closest I know of is right wing groups using Telegramm for their Anti-Covid agitation.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by lodovic on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:31AM (#25668665)
updated GP
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by patall on Thursday January 07, 2021 @04:21AM (#25669007)
Sorry, I have now spent almost an hour reading 7 articles of yours and, from my point of view, none supports your claim. Framing implys for me that some other person publicly claims something although that is not really the case (i.e Telegramm is not popular with criminals), else, it is just reporting.

Neither could I find anything matching your second point that installing any of these messengers might make law enforcement suspect you to be a criminal.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by jsinai on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:16PM (#25664886)
Sure the network effect is strong but let’s not forget how WhatsApp got here in the first place: people installing a strange new app, often shared by their friends via a text message invite link. I remember sitting in a circle with a group of friends one night 10+ years ago while each of us installed WhatsApp and had our first conversations on the app. It was a time when BBM was dominant and cross-platform messaging was new. Fast forward to today and already many of my groups are switching to Telegram or Signal.

The move can be made faster now because groups are so prevalent on WhatsApp.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by lifty on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:33PM (#25665268)
Whatsapp had to compete with SMS, so when I was introduced to WhatsApp I thought it was a godsend and immediately adopted it. Also advertised it to all my friends. Switching now might be harder because there is a lot less to gain, besides some non-tangible “privacy”. What is this thing called “privacy”?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by esperent on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @10:35PM (#25666981)
Even my mother, in her 70s, who somehow always manages to have a new virus or piece of crapware on her laptop every time I visit, knows about the importance of this thing called "privacy" and had no trouble grasping the idea that everything she shares on FB is recorded and used for advertising.

It's not a hard concept, and it's not just tech people who care about it. It doesn't require any knowledge of tech to understand.

On the other hand, she knows how to use FB messenger and my efforts to get her to switch to email/telegram have just caused confusion so far.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by dvtrn on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @10:57PM (#25667121)
Am I off the mark in guessing your mother, in her 70’s has some strong opinions about one Senator Joe McCarthy or Hoover? Has she ever spoken much about living through that period-assuming your family are American?

My apologies for the imposition if that’s not the case.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by dvtrn on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:15PM (#25673866)
I'm going to guess the downvotes are from people who don't know the history of people like McCarthy or Hoover's FBI and why someone who was lived through that era might be sensitive to and have opinions about topics of privacy[0][1]?

[0] https://www.techrepublic.com/article/j-edgar-hoover-would-ha...

[1] https://journals.openedition.org/diacronie/4823

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by esperent on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:05PM (#25675652)
Not American, no idea who Joe McMarthy is, and I doubt my mother does either.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by sthnblllII on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @11:41PM (#25667344)
J Edger Hoover was a cross dressing homosexual who collected blackmail on political opponents while he was himself being blackmailed by organized crime.

https://www.mojeek.com/search?q=j+edgar+hoover+blackmail

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by LordDragonfang on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:25AM (#25668218)
Most of the search results on that page are pretty sketchy, the top result is a tripod site and one is literally a school paper.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by sthnblllII on Thursday January 07, 2021 @09:09PM (#25680578)
https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/five-myths-about-j-e...

They call everything "a myth" and then cite strong circumstantial and testimonial evidence that those "myths" are true, only to dismiss everything with hand waving about how "we'll never know" what his extremely private and mysterious sex life was like. Give me a break.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by renjimen on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:47PM (#25665512)
I was nodding along with your comment, wondering why it had been downvoted until I reached your last statement and couldn't tell if you were being serious or not.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by colmvp on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:16PM (#25665891)
The parent poster is likely mimicking the people asking why are you asking me move to another app when this app does everything fine?

To be honest, I'm not well versed in the debate of privacy, but invariably in discussing user tracking by BigCo's a lot of my friends just say "I don't care if they have my data, I've got nothing to hide."

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by daemin on Thursday January 07, 2021 @07:22AM (#25670203)
I've been thinking about this a bit recently, and the saying should be extended to "I've got nothing to hide, now." Things change and either you'll do something which you'll want to hide, or society/politics/community will change which you'll have something to hide.

An example in the first case is that you'll want to buy a secret gift for someone, but because of the tracking the surprise will be spoiled because they'll be seeing ads for it on their systems.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by cercatrova on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:15PM (#25666436)
Are they not right though? People don't really care about "privacy", they just want it to work, and work with their friends. You or I can harangue all we want but it doesn't change the fact that people don't care in aggregate.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by linspace on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:18AM (#25668177)
The next time someone says me "I have nothing to hide" I'm thinking of asking their salary because in my experience when people say that they actually mean they are not afraid of jail but would rather don't have a lot of details being made public like who they vote, their sexual preferences, their wealth or their personal opinion of a lot of their colleagues. Most of these details are easily inferred from their online behavior, not to mention personal chats. Part of the problem is that no one is going to say "I have something to hide". I'm not going to continue this rant because HN is not the audience that needs it but to summarize: defending privacy is an uphill battle and people are not right.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by toyg on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:55PM (#25665631)
I think (and hope) he’s just relying the difficulty of communicating the concept and value of techno-privacy to his friends and relatives - as opposed to the immediate and self-evident differential between whatsapp and sms texts.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by lifty on Thursday January 07, 2021 @11:24AM (#25672980)
Indeed, I was playing the devil's advocate. I definitely care about privacy and I am quite an ardent supported of projects that try to solve this issue. I just learned that if privacy comes at a large expense (losing their social graph or unfriendly UX), people will not care for it. So I guess we need to do better so we can have both privacy and good UX.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by renjimen on Friday January 08, 2021 @02:21AM (#25682419)
I'd hoped so! Somethings are lost in text and you know what they say about assuming
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by im3w1l on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:51PM (#25666223)
Facebook is a private company. Freedom of speech doesn't mean they are obligated to give you a megaphone for asking your mom how she is doing. They can and do ban people for any and no reason, cutting you off from your social network at a moments notice.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by decrypt on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:04AM (#25669673)
I remember paying a dollar to use WhatsApp for an year. I wish it remained independent and subscription-supported.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by chupchap on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:48PM (#25665517)
Telegram is getting really popular in India for bigger groups such as those in building societies and for parents in schools as they allow for more members. For one to one communication I don't see a change happening soon.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by cat199 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:46PM (#25666665)
> cross-platform messaging was new.

when was cross-platform messaging ever new?

... IRC, AIM, etc ...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by beagle3 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:22AM (#25667564)
Neither was effectively available on phones ever.

This is in relation to iMessage vs BBM vs whatever was popular on Android at the time.

(And they got on boarding, group functionality and UI better than anyone for a very long time)

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bigiain on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:15PM (#25663367)
From the opposite point of view, in the last hour I’ve been added to 3 different group chats on Signal that were all previously WhatsApp chats (in which I did not participate, in spite of many of those friends repeatedly asking me to).

That’s added at least 20 or 30 friends/acquaintances into my signal contact list that I’m 99% sure downloaded signal for the first time this morning.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by misiti3780 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @06:51PM (#25664531)
Why not just use SMS/iMessage groups ?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by frereubu on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:03PM (#25664673)
You can't do group chats in the same way using SMS messages. People who receive an SMS have no idea who else the message was sent to, so they can't even "reply all".
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by CincinnatiMan on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:15PM (#25664873)
The person you're replying to probably meant MMS which can be used for group texting as you're describing.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by deathanatos on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:33AM (#25667608)
The fragmented and quirky MMS implementations in the wild render MMS functionally useless, especially compared to what feature set an app can have. I've seen MMS implementations that send replies to only the sender of the original (so some replies, from better implementations, end up in the MMS group, and some end up only sent back to the sender, resulting in confusion); I've seen MMS implementations that allow you to "like" a message, and this is implemented by just sending "I liked this." as a message back to the other clients — which can't interpret it as anything other than just a normal message — resulting in confusion.

Did you know that MMS can transmit slideshows[1]? I didn't, until my father somehow sent me one. The UI that Android has for that is — naturally — a complete afterthought. (No way to pause the slideshow, no way to navigate the slides, nothing. Just one run through the animation at Warp 8.)

[1]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Multimedia_Messaging_Service

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by codeduck on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:58PM (#25665685)
MMS is not a common technology in Europe.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by foepys on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:16AM (#25667840)
Many European providers are still charging for each MMS. Something like 40cent/MMS.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by frereubu on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:42PM (#25665441)
Ah, I hadn't heard about that before. That's either not available or not common knowledge in the UK.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by toyg on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:59PM (#25665699)
MMS are available in UK but not popular, because they were heavily overpriced and fundamentally underwhelming when they were introduced 15 years ago. They are also metered like SMS - one of the big wins when switching from SMS to internet-based systems was to stop worrying about yet another limit.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by avh02 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:34AM (#25668278)
I've lived in several places and nobody really uses SMS unless it's for 1) someone you don't really know or 2) notifications of some sort...

My impression is the US/Canada are one of the only places where SMS is still frequently used for casual text communication and i'm horrified that Apple's iMessage is the one to somewhat challenge that.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by SturgeonsLaw on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:03PM (#25664670)
SMS is not encrypted, iMessage is Apple only
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by misiti3780 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @10:03AM (#25671828)
good point.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FabHK on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:02PM (#25664658)
In many countries, few people have iPhones, and SMS are costly.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:07PM (#25665801)
SMS prices (or 'lack of price') was something that really surprised me after I moved to Canada, as well as phone voicemail.

In Brazil we hurry to turn off the call if it goes into voicemail, as we pay to leave a message AND nobody listens to them because it costs a lot to listen (or at least used to).

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by anilakar on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:53AM (#25668812)
As someone whose mobile data plan is faster than home wi-fi and who does not pay for receiving calls and SMSes, the "fixed landline data first" approach in Android really pisses me off.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by marssaxman on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:11PM (#25664820)
Signal is encrypted.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bigiain on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:05PM (#25666340)
That's why I was there already, along with a few of those friends who used to be part of various WhatsApp groups as well - and they've convinced large groups of pissed off WhatsApp users to download and use Signal today.

I don't know how many of the new Signal users will stay (there's already discussion in one of the new Signal groups about "Why aren't we using Telegram instead?")

Same as much of this thread - these people are not concerned much at all about encryption details, they're largely a pissed of mob of people departing WhatsApp. And some of them are already saying "there's no web client! I can't use this!!!"

I suspect I may well end up back being "the guy who's not part of most group chats" if/when they decide Signal isn't for them... And I'm OK with that.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by mmwelt on Friday January 08, 2021 @01:15AM (#25682057)
International SMS is quite expensive and sometimes unreliable.

iMessage is only for Apple devices.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by dijit on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:22PM (#25663445)
I contact the majority of my friends with telegram, the UX is similar enough and people get on board quite quickly- the difficult part is convincing someone to install /another/ messaging app- if they have network effects too then it's a hard sell.

But once most people have both it gets easier.

Signal (UX wise) is not really super great for my family, I burned a lot of my "technical expert advisor" capital and reputation by pushing that too hard.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by codemac on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:56PM (#25666273)
Signal has improved a lot. I burnt a lot of the same thing, but it's finally sticking when I ask people to first install it within the last year or so.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by roel_v on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:22AM (#25668616)
"Signal has gotten better" is the new "Linux on the desktop". When I move to a new phone with Signal, is there already an (easy) mechanism to take along all my messages from my old phone? Last time I checked, there wasn't, and this is a core requirement, even if most people don't quite realize it when they start using Signal.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by querez on Thursday January 07, 2021 @05:54AM (#25669609)
There is a mechanism that works very well and reliably. It involves manually copying an exported backup from the old phone to the new one, and entering a 16 digit (IIRC) passcode. Wheter you consider that easy or not depends on you. For me it was a 5 minute procedure
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by roel_v on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:02AM (#25669659)
Right, I used that procedure once, it's completely inadequate. It relies on having access to the old phone, knowing how to get files off it (and onto a new phone; both of which probably assume you know how to navigate the filesystem), and you basically need to follow documentation to do it, it's completely undiscoverable (maybe that last part has changed).

All of which is completely unacceptable in 2021 for a product meant for a large audience. Messaging is integral to people's lives, to the point where people keep 10+ year old phones because they have messages on them from people that passed away and they can't figure out how to move the messages across or to a new system. As much as it pains me to say, there just aren't any production quality alternatives to WhatsApp that can take over. And don't even get me started on Element/Matrix...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by baq on Thursday January 07, 2021 @08:14AM (#25670608)
this also highlights that somehow it's ok to not be able to easily extract files out of your phone. it's maddening.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by jbotz on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:35AM (#25669885)
You have a point, but one should point out here that WhatsApp makes this easy only if you stick with the same type of phone... if you switch between Android and iOS you're completely SOL with WhatsApp. With Signal on the other hand you can use the (admittedly non-trivial) procedure mentioned in sibling in either case.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by ObsoleteNerd on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:43PM (#25663701)
Another vote for Telegram here. I tried to get at least the core group of family/friends on Signal or Wire and to their credit they tried but it never stuck. They loved Telegram so much that we now have the entire extended family/friends on it.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by frereubu on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:47PM (#25663741)
Interesting that you had such a different result with Telegram. I'd prefer to use Signal for privacy reasons, but like you I burnt a lot of social capital trying to get my extended family to use it!
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by shard on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:31AM (#25667922)
It will be a hard sell for me to switch, that's for sure. I am already using Whatsapp for Western contacts, Kakaotalk for Korean contacts, and WeChat for China contacts. I don't have any Japan contacts currently, or else I'm sure I will have to install Line. I installed Signal on my laptop for one heavy-privacy-proponent friend, and had Telegram for a while for another friend's group business chat, but I never really used either.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Tepix on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:53AM (#25669994)
Telegram has no end-to-end encryption for group chats at all.

And normal chats are not end-to-end encrypted by default. Are you using end-to-end encrypted chats with your contacts?

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by aabbcc1241 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:44AM (#25667982)
Another bonus of telegram (as compared to WhatsApp) is you can access the messages even when your phone run out of battery.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by avh02 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:38AM (#25668308)
This is the case in telegram by default when messages aren't E2E encrypted so they (I assume) sit on a server somewhere.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:54PM (#25663831)
I had success at least moving my parents and sister to chat with me on Telegram. I was having weird issues with Telegram video call (very low sound on my parent's phones), so I still had to call them on Whatsapp. Also, didn't find any audio call option on Telegram, only video call.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by subaquamille on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @06:15PM (#25664062)
Contrats ! Genuine question: Why don't you use phone call for audio-only calls ? In my experience the quality is better and degrades better. Is it because of bundles quota? In my country most plans includes unlimited voice but not sure what's the "world norm".
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by jamiek88 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:12PM (#25664823)
Well a 6 minute conversation cost me $21 on Xmas day from USA to Europe.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by 75rchkiyt on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @11:10PM (#25667190)
You can use a web browser aimed at the Skype website to setup a calling card equivalent system to dial out internationally over plain old telephone service for 2 cents per minute. You don't even need an app installed.

Don't get the subscription, pay as you go with Skype credit.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:13PM (#25664840)
Yeah, and considering every time I call my parents it's 20 to 60 minutes long... I would go broke
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by chiefgeek on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:52PM (#25665585)
Does Android not have the equivalent to FaceTime audio? I get that for x-platform you have to use one of the apps being discussed. I use FT Audio with my sister, who's in UK, all the time (I'm in Chicago). Completely free and excellent sound quality.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by technofiend on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:26AM (#25667899)
Google surprisingly has a raft of telephony options.

You can use Google Duo to make voice or video calls for (other than data costs) free, Google hangouts also has voice-only plus video options and of course Google voice integrates with the classic telephone network and has cheap international rates.

Google Fi has free calling from the US to over 50 countries and otherwise their plans start at one cents a minute depending on destination. https://fi.google.com/about/unlimited-calling/

Most of my friends from Asia tell me WhatsApp was and is popular because it carried voice over data, bypassing the PSTN which apparently has very high per-minute rates.

If you want to go slightly higher tech there are telepresence appliances like 8x8, Amazon or Google IOT devices or you can just use sip phones and call between the devices free of charge using your own pbx software or a free service like Callcentric's IP Freedom plan.

There a million options that either let you opt out of Facebook's data collection and trade it for Google's, or just opt out entirely.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Zak on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @10:31PM (#25666959)
Google was pushing Hangouts heavily for a while, and I think that's still bundled with Android but is now on the way out. It did the job last I checked.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by codecutter on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:25AM (#25667573)
Try Google voice. https://voice.google.com/rates

I call my family for 1 cent per minute.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by 1_player on Thursday January 07, 2021 @08:54AM (#25671001)
US only.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:08PM (#25665808)
No, nothing native for Android
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by InvertedRhodium on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:24PM (#25666515)
Android (at least used to) has native support for SIP through their phone application. I used it quite a bit 5 years ago or so, but moved over to...well, I can't remember. A 3rd party app that gave better visibility over what was happening with the service. I don't use VOIP too much any more, Signal is fine.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:12PM (#25664832)
Because making a cellphone call to an overseas cellphone number costs way too much vs free?

Edit: sometimes I also start with an audio call, but midway there's something I want to show them, so we switch to video by just pressing 1 button.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by baxtr on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:56AM (#25667716)
This is changing rapidly. Many people I know are moving Signal. Also, don’t delete WhatsApp right away. Do a “silent” move: whenever people send you a WhatsApp answer on iMessage if they’re Apple users and actively push the Android friends over to signal. Works well in my case.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by frereubu on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:39AM (#25668312)
I like the simple idea of replying on another service, thanks for that.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by sundvor on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:06AM (#25668107)
I'm taking this approach now too. There's a free text status message as well that's suitable for the purpose.

App is going in February though.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by srfvtgb on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:11PM (#25663327)
Fortunately I don't live in a place where WhatsApp is completely pervasive. I personally had luck saying "if you want to contact me use Signal, iMessage or at the very least SMS" and when people asked why, I would cite Cambridge Analytica.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by golemiprague on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:51PM (#25666225)
How do you use iMessage if you got android phone? I hate this thing, would rather give my data to facebook then use it because it creates class separation between poor and rich. I have seen it with my kids who wanted iphone because they couldn't communicate with all the iphone kids who used iMessage. That's in itself much worst to me than some privacy which i already gave up on.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by tryptophan on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:13PM (#25676695)
Absolutely agree. iMessage is even more cancerous in its social implications than WA.

I have had smart, educated people say "I got an iphone so I wouldn't be left out of group chats". Because downloading an app is too much work. I'm not sure how asking people to take 5 seconds to do something to improve their life and society became such a taboo.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by gotem on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:14PM (#25663364)
Which turned out to be a bunch of hyped up marketing talk. Why does every person in SV I know seem to love the narrative that we’re being mind controlled by micro-targeted FB ads, which to be fair is what I used to believe.

Everyone on HN switches between “ads don’t work and targeting is BS” to “ads are manipulating our entire country by taking our data”

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Retric on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:18PM (#25663404)
Not everyone on HN is the same person. So, different people can believe each without any contradiction.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by qznc on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @06:23PM (#25664169)
Even individuals are capable to hold contradicting opinions.

> There are lots of contradictions in people’s strongly held beliefs. Someone might preach self-sufficiency in politics, but coddle their children. An individual might oppose abortion on the grounds that human life is sacred and may still support the death penalty for convicted murders. A person might argue for the freedom of individual expression in the arts but want hateful speech to be regulated.

from https://www.fastcompany.com/3067169/how-your-brain-makes-you...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by rpdillon on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @06:55PM (#25664579)
I think they are both true, but the second is worded differently than I would.

I think ads can work, but don't in many cases (based on recent stories that cancelling certain kinds of ad spend has no effect on outcomes). In some cases, like Uber advertising to get users, this seems entirely plausible.

So I largely think ads themselves are kind of harmless. But ad-backed business models are dangerous, because they optimize for "engagement", which tends to promote content that is divisive over more thoughtful, nuanced content. Sadly, it also seems to require gathering huge amounts of information about users in a centralized spot, which seems risky for a variety of reasons.

The whole thing reminds me of a call I got about 10 years ago to participate in a survey about smoking, and one of the questions they asked was "Do you believe nicotine causes cancer?" I paused because my understanding is that nicotine itself doesn't cause cancer, but the common delivery mechanisms at the time (smoking, dipping) do increase the risk of cancer. They forced me to answer yes/no, so I said "no", but obviously a decade later, I still remember it. Do ads cause harm? Probably not much, taken on their own. But everything _around_ them seems to.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by srfvtgb on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:45PM (#25665491)
Whether ad targeting works or not, Cambridge Analytica did show that Facebook was willing to abuse the data people are trusting them with.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by lrvick on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:22AM (#25668621)
I simply stopped using anything except decentralized ethical services that offer freedom, privacy, and high security like Matrix.

I refuse to help walled gardens get bigger. It has cost me a lot of contacts, but so be it. There is always a choice.

If you had a friend you respected that was vegan for ethical or environmental convictions would you insist on continuing to exclusively have social gatherings at BBQ restaurants with no menu options for them? Would you take them seriously if they caved to avoid being excluded from the group?

When I deleted all walled garden messengers by Google, Facebook etc they knew I wasn't kidding. Anyone that refuses to make small allowances for you living your convictions is not your friend.

The people that need to talk to me use matrix now or found other ways to reach out like e-mail or in person. Those that don't respect my ethics don't get free advice from me anymore.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by contradictioned on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:33AM (#25668269)
I managed to get a part of my family to Threema. Just the part of "you are paying for the product, thus you are not the product yourselves" was reasonable enough.

In my friends circle we are all on telegram (after trying wire which is just buggy as hell), but I think this is mainly due to its multi device story and then fact that it is not WhatsApp.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by veddox on Thursday January 07, 2021 @04:07PM (#25677488)
I shifted my family to Threema last year. Paid for it myself in the case of my younger siblings :D But it‘s working really well.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by _jal on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:36PM (#25666083)
I don't know how you make your loved ones stop using specific software, and generally speaking I wouldn't want to. But if people want to contact me, well, they have to use a mechanism I also use.

I know what you're asking, but I don't think there's a fix unless you somehow have tremendous influence with them. So you either put up with being coerced by your group, or you don't.

This is probably easier if you never used the services in the first place. My mom will occasionally whine that she has to open Imessage to talk to me, and that's about the extent of it. But of course, I am missing whatever they get up to on FB without me. And that's OK with me, but I know it isn't with everyone.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by qalmakka on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:14PM (#25664853)
I managed to get almost everyone I know on Telegram in the last few years, to the point I get a WhatsApp message less than once a week. On the other hand, I usually hundreds of messages daily on Telegram. It's not hard if there's already interest among the people you talk with and you find the right way to get them on board.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by cabamba on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @11:28PM (#25667278)
Don't you think that Telegram has the same monetization problems (it burns "a few hundred million dollars a year" while the owner left Russia with $300m in his bank account a few years ago) and they already announced their monetization plans https://techcrunch.com/2020/12/23/telegram-to-launch-an-ad-p... Where would you move next?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by SpaceRaccoon on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:08AM (#25668535)
What's wrong with their monetization plans?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Quiark on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:13PM (#25666419)
And that is an improvement over WhatsApp when Telegram doesn't even encrypt group chats?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by codemac on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:55PM (#25666259)
Signal - moved my immediate family to it, and now have a few friends on there as well.

It had some rockiness maybe about 3 years ago, but with their new group implementation and some other small tweaks I find it just as easy to use as whatsapp, albeit it a little uglier.

#1 complaint is the coloring - incoming messages should be high contrast, outgoing should have the background color. For some reason signal does the opposite and it's hideous.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by benhurmarcel on Thursday January 07, 2021 @08:28AM (#25670738)
For info, the colors (and whole style) in Signal are the same as iMessage.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by codemac on Thursday January 07, 2021 @04:39PM (#25677913)
?? It's not for me on android :(
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Hammershaft on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:59AM (#25667737)
Telegram is fantastic! Frankly I think it has a better ux then Whatsapp, especially considering the desktop apps.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by qwertox on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:25AM (#25667893)
Telegram isn't serious about privacy. They made my number searchable and notified people who have me in their Google contact list even though I didn't grant Telegram access to my contact list (before the time when Android would enforce this with permissions) and didn't allow them to use my number for anything.

Then it turned out that they have a setting where one can opt out, but what good is that if you already were opted in automatically.

In "Last Seen & Online" I had a deleted account in the exceptions of those who can always see my status, even though I never added one.

Telegram may be better than WhatsApp, but it is far from fantastic.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by easytiger on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:05AM (#25668520)
I'm fairly certain I enabled all possible privacy options when I installed telegram. I went to specific lengths to do so. I still get "xyz has joined telegram!" when a new friend joins up from my contact list.

Yep: just checked. Nothing more I can do to increase privacy settings. Zero confidence in it after that

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by neuronic on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:55AM (#25668451)
You're right but I prefer it over WhatsApp/Facebook and I started using it when about 3/4 of my network moved to Telegram (to support their move away from WhatsApp/Facebook).
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Hammershaft on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:12AM (#25668140)
Those are fair problems that I wasn't aware of.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by brobinson on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:10AM (#25668550)
Consider Threema instead. It recently went open source and it has top-notch, Signal-quality crypto and you don't need to provide a phone number or email.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Tepix on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:55AM (#25670007)
Telegram lacks end-to-end encrypted group chats and normal chats are not end-to-end encrypted by default, you have to switch to a "secure" chat every time you start a new chat.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Akronymus on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:21PM (#25663435)
I personally moved to Element/Matrix with a large community. It works quite well.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by znpy on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:50PM (#25665544)
> I'd love to give up WhatsApp, but network effects are key here.

Be the change you want to see in the world.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by tharne on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:31PM (#25666042)
You should try it again now, Signal is very user friendly these days. I've moved most of my very non-tech-savvy family and friends onto it without too much drama.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by nifhel32 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:58PM (#25663877)
I moved almost all my friends and family to Telegram. I think the secret, once I managed to get them to install it, was to create common groups instead than many one-to-one chats.

Then they got hooked up, mostly thanks to the huge amount of high quality stickers.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by zouhair on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:59AM (#25667739)
I just stopped sending stuff to friends and family who want to keep using whatsapp.

So I just use email.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by qwertox on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:08AM (#25667790)
I also use email (and Threema), but it annoys me a lot when I then get those "(no subject)"-Emails with multi-megabyte VID-20201225-WA0005.mp4 attachments.

I just wish they would keep all their WhatsApp stuff away from me.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bilekas on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:24PM (#25663483)
IMO telegram has the best feature and usability parity as Whatsapp..

As for converting people who are not that interested, I can tell you from experience talking about privacy generally doesn't sell it.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Valodim on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:27AM (#25668650)
It bears repeating: Telegram is not e2e encrypted. Messages you write on telegram will be stored on some Russian servers forever.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bilekas on Thursday January 07, 2021 @05:12AM (#25669339)
What are you talking about ? Telegram encryption is based on 2048-bit RSA encryption, 256-bit symmetric AES encryption, and Diffie–Hellman secure key exchange

For end2end you can just use the secret chat function.. https://core.telegram.org/api/end-to-end

Feel free to check their source out - https://telegram.org/apps#source-code

So I'm not sure what 'bears repeating'.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Tepix on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:57AM (#25670031)
The "secret chat" function should be default. Why isn't it? Also, it's not available at all for group chats.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by FalconSensei on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:56PM (#25663854)
People still use facebook/instagram/gmail. If you tell them whatsapp is linked to facebook, it changes nothing to them...
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by petersonh on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:14PM (#25663356)
I had success moving my friend group onto Signal, but that was a group of young-ish, privacy interested, anti-Facebookers, so it wasn't much of a hard sell.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by shadowfaxRodeo on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @07:51PM (#25665571)
I managed to get most of my family to use telegram. I just stopped using whatsapp and convinced a few of them to do so also, the rest came because they couldn't speak to us otherwise.

The key was being stubborn and banking on them eventually wanting to talk to me.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by midasz on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:20AM (#25668604)
> The key was being stubborn and banking on them eventually wanting to talk to me.

This. Same for me. I just put a message like this in the family whatsapp groups and then deleted the app/account: 'Hey everyone, I'm not going to be on WhatsApp anymore - you can call, text, signal, telegram or email me. Talk to you later!'. It was that simple. It took a little while but now my family is on Telegram. I know they still use WhatsApp but it's honestly not my problem or issue that they use the app - I just don't want to.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by iforgotpassword on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:12AM (#25668560)
My family is on Threema, but I advocated for it heavily and it's still an island and they all use WhatsApp in parallel. But at least family photos get shared on Threema now.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by gsich on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:47PM (#25663744)
Probably depends on you. Do people want stuff from you? If yes chances are good.

Don't expect people to uninstall Whatsapp. Having multiple messengers is fine.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by anoncow on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:03AM (#25668087)
WhatsApp is a masterclass in network effects. You can no longer decide whether or not you want to use it. Because your employer uses it, you have no choice but to use it. The only thing that will disrupt this is if security concerns make companies come out and explicitly ask employees not to use WhatsApp and I don't see that happening any time soon.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by daemin on Thursday January 07, 2021 @07:29AM (#25670260)
If your employer insists on installing and using a specific application on a phone, ask them for a phone to use it on. Don't feel the need to install it onto your personal device.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by hliyan on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:24PM (#25666517)
I'm wondering if someone can develop a product that addresses the networking effect problem. I.e. a service that allows groups to move their member lists seamlessly between networks and to be able to also see at a glance, which networks (e.g. WhatsApp, Signal, FB Messenger, Slack) the members are on. Perhaps a network of network memberships?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by pharke on Thursday January 07, 2021 @08:48AM (#25670942)
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Blikkentrekker on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @10:30PM (#25666948)
Such implicit locks are quite common a hamper to let the best product succeed.

We are all running what most would consider an outdated and poorly designed c.p.u. architecture by modern standards, simply because most software is not compiled to run on other architectures, and it won't be until those architectures see significant adoption.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by techsin101 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:05PM (#25666333)
this is wrong way to look at things, switch is never binary. Yes i have whatsapp, but i also have discord, messenger, hangouts, etc. You need to find an angle to attract user for something different and then keep them for everything else.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by throwaway17_17 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:36PM (#25666611)
This is a genuine question, what is it that prohibits your group from using text messages and phone calls? I do not use any apps for communication, and can’t think of why I would have a need.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by el_dev_hell on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:45PM (#25666660)
Not OP but in a similar situation.

The main lock-ins for WhatsApp with my friends/family/colleagues are:

1. Group chats. SMS group chat doesn't exist (or it's next to unknown) in Australia.

2. Sharing images and videos. SMS destroys images/videos/gifs (if they even send).

3. International. Messaging friends/colleagues when they're overseas is easy.

4. Videochat (however, it's usually FaceTime with an older relative).

I attempted a shift to Telegram with a few close friends and family members. Eventually, we started to drop back to the "normal" comms route because our extended network was on WhatsApp/iMessage and juggling several methods was irritating (e.g you message a friend on Telegram and get no response -- they then message you later that day on WhatsApp -- it's irritating to move the conversation back to Telegram).

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by webmobdev on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:48PM (#25666680)
I don't use any of the private and popular messaging apps on my phone and do rely on SMS and phone calls to stay in touch. But there are limitations:

- SMS is not encrypted.

- SMS supports text only. MMS is not well supported, and often not free.

- SMS is sometimes not as "instant" as it can be delayed.

- Delivery reports and, read receipts are not user-friendly, and maybe unreliable, too.

- Group SMS support depends on your default SMS app.

RCS or Rich Communication Service on 4g and 5g looks to fix this, but support and compatibility between network is still lacking. Privacy laws also need a reevaluation as even cellular providers are looking to data harvesting to make more money and RCS may also lack encryption support.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by kyrra on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:00AM (#25667743)
FYI, Google has a working end-to-end encryption with RCS.

https://www.theverge.com/2020/11/19/21574451/android-rcs-enc...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by webmobdev on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:02AM (#25668503)
Thanks for sharing this, good to know. But in the context of this discussion, it is kind of bad news. Those who avoid WhatsApp (and other messengers) do so because they don't want to trapped within it - SMS and RCS promises us more mobility and privacy because it is a standardised technology that works with all cellular service providers. Using a Google app for RCS, instead of WhatsApp, will just trap you within Google ecosystem, instead of Facebook.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by eightails on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:49PM (#25666684)
To list a few benefits:

- e2e encryption

- many extra chat features (reactions, stickers, replies, polls, etc). It might seem unnecessary but imo they do genuinely increase functionality and ease of communication

- scalable to large groups (maybe sms is as well, I've never tried more than 3-4 people)

- don't need a phone, can message from a computer instead

- messages sync across multiple devices

- video calling for groups with some apps

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Macha on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:52PM (#25666708)
Most phone companies on their lower tier plans make you pick 1-2 of free calls, texts or a data allowance. High end plans aren't nearly so popular because most people don't get high end phones and of the people that do, many buy direct from Apple so don't have a contract associated with it, instead just using a prepay or sim only plan. So it's really only the high end android phones which get bought on contract which is a much smaller market than iPhones or the actual big market segment here: €100-200 androids

Nobody picks free texts. This leaves 15c/message as a discouragement for using SMS.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Jommi on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @11:11PM (#25667195)
For impromptu groups when you don't want to give your number?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bozzcl on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:10PM (#25666396)
Unfortunately, I'm on the same stand as you. I managed to move my direct family and one group of friends into Telegram, but the rest didn't follow and many have been pestering me to go back.

I was thinking about going back, actually, but using a separate phone number (dual SIM FTW) and a work profile sandbox with heavily restricted permissions. I might still give it a shot, see if that's enough to quell FB's insatiable hunger for personal data.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by majjam on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @10:34PM (#25666973)
I moved family and friends quite successfully over once I’d had a child and told them that I didn’t want any photos sharing on facebooks platforms.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by 6gvONxR4sf7o on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:19PM (#25674989)
It’s a shame the technology and usages are still moving quickly enough that there’s no obvious standardization that’ll last the next five years.

Social technologies would benefit from some regulation along the lines of “you must be able to use other apps to send to/receive from your app” for at least a minimal feature set, but it would be super hard to nail down what that regulation should exactly be.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by AdamJacobMuller on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:25AM (#25667575)
> Has anyone here had any success moving a large group of people onto something like Signal or Telegram? If so, do you have any tips?

I just dropped the link in the title into all the group chats I'm in, said I'm headed to signal and removed myself from the groups.

I was not the first person to do that in these groups. Will it cause a critical mass exodus? Idk. I won't know, I won't be back.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by pier25 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @01:57AM (#25668049)
It's not only about friends. Here in Mexico many small businesses operate with Whatsapp (eg: food delivery, gas delivery, plumber, etc).
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by tallanvor on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:08AM (#25668115)
My response to anyone is "I'm sorry, but I don't use WhatsApp or Instagram, and I rarely use Facebook because I don't trust them. You can reach me through X, Y, or Z."

If someone refuses to make an actual call, text me, email me, or use Signal, then clearly they don't respect me enough for me to need to communicate with them.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Leherenn on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:21AM (#25668196)
When I had roommates, one only wanted to use services A, B, ... and another one C, D, ... with no intersection between the 2 sets. So we had 2 group chats on two different services and we had to transfer messages from one to the other.

I don't know whom was not respecting whom, but I didn't feel really respected either, despite respecting each guy wishes.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by A4ET8a8uTh0 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:38PM (#25663640)
Sadly, no 6 people was my max and those were my family members. And my mom still complains Whatsapp was easier..
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by hertzrat on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @06:29PM (#25664259)
I had better luck because most of the people I know aren't deeply invested in their apps. I just told everyone to add me on signal and over the years more people have started using it, and suggest signal or a phone call when its time to have a conversation
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by narrationbox on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @06:25PM (#25664195)
You can try locking down the app, it's not ideal but it is better than nothing:

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=25664130

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by perryizgr8 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @09:06PM (#25666359)
How's signal different? It's also in the same position as whatsapp was a few years ago. For the time being it may be better, but surely it is not a long-term alternative?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by iforgotpassword on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:28AM (#25668656)
My thoughts as well. If the product is free, who is paying the devs? Who is paying for infra? I'm exclusively on Threema since it's not free, and the yearly external code reviews are stellar. The only thing that bugged me was that it was not open source, which changed by the end of 2020. Multi device coming this year, which was the last thing missing for my use case.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Bit32 on Friday January 08, 2021 @01:35PM (#25688039)
> signal

Amongst many, many other factors, it's a nonprofit foundation, not a commercial company.

Long term, it has backing from people (like the original founders of Whatsapp) who want to see an open solution flourish. Plus people can donate.

Also, both the client and server are open source.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by midasz on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:22AM (#25668614)
You don't have to pick a messaging app for life.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by inbx0 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @04:12AM (#25668930)
If the new messaging app doesn't have an option to import previous chats from the old platform, changing platforms does come with a price.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by shureluck on Sunday January 10, 2021 @04:46AM (#25712916)
I moved my entire family onto it easily. But they are fairly conservative and so it simply was a matter of explaining the situation about big tech lying and they were sold.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by paride5745 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:58AM (#25668470)
I managed to get people on Telegram by showing Stickers and public groups you can join without sharing your number.

Signal is much harder to sell to non-tech users IMHO.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by intrasight on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @10:43PM (#25667036)
I have used WhatsApp and Telegram and Signal. For me the network effects are the opposite - just driving me back to using text messages.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by holler on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:29PM (#25666024)
Yes, I've moved all my friends and family to Telegram and it's been great. I communicate with them daily since many months.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bashwizard on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:32AM (#25668267)
I hope you're fine with Telegram sharing your location data.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by detaro on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:33AM (#25668274)
Not turning that on is pretty easy.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by bashwizard on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:49AM (#25668399)
It's still sharing data. Sorry.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by detaro on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:03AM (#25668508)
source? I assume you are refer to the thing that went around yesterday? Then no, there is a big difference between the option to share data to get a feature (even though I'd agree the feature isn't well-designed) and what WhatsApp is doing here.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Tepix on Thursday January 07, 2021 @06:56AM (#25670018)
What percentage of those messages are end-to-end encrypted?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by stiltzkin on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:17PM (#25675830)
Only secret chats, and seems people using WhatsApp, tiktok or FB do not care
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by holler on Friday January 08, 2021 @09:30PM (#25695601)
Zero, but I guess we're not particularly worried about it?
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Traubenfuchs on Thursday January 07, 2021 @03:32AM (#25668667)
Wait til WhatsApp gets ads. The only reason Facebook hasn't introduced them yet is because they are terrified we will leave.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by paulz_ on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:16PM (#25663378)
I've moved some group chats to discord and have had pretty good luck with it so far.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by godelski on Thursday January 07, 2021 @02:36AM (#25668297)
I've had success and you're right that it is about network effects. So you gotta take into account who you can convince first. But also consider that Signal hasn't been fully featured until about last month. So it isn't a good idea to just try to convert random non-techy people. For them you'd need to use current events that highlight how important privacy is (which there have been quite a few this year). But also focus on generating a critical mass. Now it isn't hard for me to convert people because we'll be planning things and 4/5 people have Signal so you just strong arm the fifth person and then they start using it more because they realize a fair amount of their friends are already there. It takes time though and let's be real about that Signal hasn't been fully featured. Until recently it has been more a geeky app.

So tldr target the people you want to convert to develop a critical mass.

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by nalekberov on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:01PM (#25665739)
It’s just not worth it.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by Triv888 on Thursday January 07, 2021 @12:38AM (#25667640)
One thing that is strange with signal is that you are required to have a phone number to signup?

That's one reason with I prefer Matrix/Element...

Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by gameswithgo on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:03PM (#25665761)
dont use apps at all. works fine.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by tgsovlerkhgsel on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @08:08PM (#25665811)
If you're in Europe with a typical circle of friends, your advice is basically equivalent to "don't communicate with people, works fine".
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by stainforth on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:21PM (#25663441)
Network effects as a emergent principle has been discovered to violate the promises of capitalist economics. We have a right to come together and set the limits and terms by which a few can extract from the many.
Re:WhatsApp gives users an ultimatum: Share data with Facebo... by netizen-9748 on Wednesday January 06, 2021 @05:45PM (#25663724)
Why must there be extraction at all? Even trade seems like it would be better for the majority of parties involved, including having the effect of not having a bunch of pissed off people down the line.