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Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by netrap on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:06AM (#50467316)
Not the _only_ reason, sure. However, it's quite common when executives have an affair they will get fired. I think that's just the reality. If you publicly humiliate your family and the business, you're out...
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by hypfer on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:10AM (#50467397)
That is assuming there is a layer above the executive, which is not necessarily the case.

It is true for anything with a board, of course. But there is no rule mandating boards.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bpicolo on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:12AM (#50467444)
Pretty sure all publicly traded companies in the US are required to have a board
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by hypfer on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:13AM (#50467496)
Most certainly, but the statement was

> If you publicly humiliate your family and the business, you're out

There is no "* only applies to publicly traded companies". Hence, it is incorrect.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by swiftcoder on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:23AM (#50467729)
Several publicly traded companies have (or had) majority-owner CEOs, which makes it more than a little awkward for the board to fire them. I can't really see the board outing Zuckerberg under similar circumstances
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:31AM (#50469050)
Zuckerberg protected himself from this scenario by starting off with an Asian wife.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by miki123211 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:25AM (#50467764)
In publicly-traded companies, the board is not the ultimate boss, though. That would be the shareholders. And, at Meta and many companies copying Meta's playbook who have IPO'd since (notably including Anthropic, though notably not including Nvidia), founder shares have so much voting power that the founders are effectively in complete control.

In theory, Nvidia shareholders, if dissatisfied with today's decision, could vote to oust the current board and replace it with people more sympathetic to Huang, who would, as their first decision, re-hire him as CEO, as would be their prerogative. This is... unlikely to happen.

None of the above is investment advice.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:32AM (#50469066)
It worked for Sam.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by antonvs on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:24AM (#50467756)
Public companies in the US are required to have a board of directors. If they’re not a “controlled company” - i.e. no single person controls more than 50% - then a majority of the board are required to be independent, i.e. not employees, executives, or consultants to the company.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by tyingq on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:13AM (#50467474)
It seems more common they get fired for either "with a subordinate" or "a relationship with a conflict of interest for the company".

There are many examples where the outed affair resulted in nothing material when neither of the above was true.

This case, seems to touch both.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by foobarian on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:08AM (#50468600)
Reminds me of the Coldplay concert couple, which happened to be a CEO and head of HR. Head of HR! And what's more interesting is that they only got removed when the affair became public. At the same time the company was small potatoes so presumably less interesting to state actors.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by johnnyApplePRNG on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:13AM (#50467486)
We know literally nothing about Jensen's private life or if he humiliated his family here.

Marriages of 41+ years can get into literally any kind of dynamic.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by noboostforyou on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:16AM (#50467568)
> or if he humiliated his family here.

His open letter about his infidelity seems to imply he has embarrassed his wife and family, have you read it?

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by simoncion on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:47AM (#50468176)
> His open letter about his infidelity seems to imply he has embarrassed his wife and family, have you read it?

He has also said so very many times in so very many ways that Nvidia was absolutely not involved in violation of export control laws regarding the export of its products to China. That -in fact- there was absolutely no smuggling going on and claims to the contrary were utterly baseless and without merit.

I agree with ohnnyApplePRNG's assertion that we know literally nothing about the private life and situation of Mr. Huang and his family.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by noboostforyou on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:50AM (#50468246)
So because he lied when he denied certain allegations, you don't believe his admissions of guilt? That seems like an odd logical jump.

> we know literally nothing

He "literally" wrote about how his actions hurt his family, I'm not sure why there's a second account parroting the exact same phrase.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by simoncion on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:52PM (#50473205)
> So because he lied when he denied certain allegations, you don't believe his admissions of guilt?

He repeatedly and aggressively lied about violating export restrictions. "Our chips aren't potato chips. These GPUs weigh two tons. [So, how would you smuggle those? It'd be impossible!]" is an especially memorable deflection of his. He's obviously very willing to lie about very serious things when doing so is beneficial.

> He "literally" wrote about how his actions hurt his family...

He also spoke and wrote about how it was impossible to smuggle Nvidia hardware into China, and that everyone who was claiming that smuggling was going on were liars. CEOs will often lie when issuing Obligatory Standard Statements, whether they be brusque dismissals of accusations of the company's wrongdoing, or assertions of how shameful they consider their behavior that lead them to do whatever it was that they've been caught doing. CEOs make the expected public statement and get on with their lives.

Plus, given how most folks are -at best- confused by and -at worst- enraged by things like polyamory, why on earth would he publicly reveal it if his family was actually totally okay with regular extramarital sex and romance?

No, situations like this get the Standard Admission of Deep Shame and Regret For All The Harm Caused, regardless of whether or not what's said has any resemblance to what the family feels about the situation. The only folks who know how the members of the family feel about this are folks who actually know the family.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by esseph on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:20AM (#50467655)
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Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by pbhjpbhj on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:56AM (#50468369)
If he is actually a bi-furry with an understanding with his wife on 'affairs', do you think he'd say that? Or would he maintain the straight, family-friendly, investor-friendly front expected of him [by some people] in his position?

Don't get me wrong, I'm very much a promoter of monogamy.

I think it is naive to assume that such public statements are the whole truth of a matter.

People who fuck up a company (or have an affair, or get caught snorting drugs off a sex-worker) aren't really 'stepping back to spend more time with their families'. Historically the classic example of executive public statements.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by dannyw on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:15AM (#50468738)
People don’t realise that execs don’t actually write these messages usually.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by ImPostingOnHN on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:51AM (#50469407)
Perhaps, but it's also more common than not for affairs to hurt families, and the statement confirms that applied here.

If you have stronger evidence that the statement was untruthful when it said he hurt his family, you may present it.

Until such time, the statement only strengthens the bayesian prior, which is that his affairs hurt his family, and that is what we can conclude.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by itishappy on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:19AM (#50469841)
> If he is actually a bi-furry with an understanding with his wife on 'affairs', do you think he'd say that?

Yes, and it would have helped. These are entirely different stories:

"My wife and I have a non-traditional relationship and would prefer to keep the specifics private, but no harm was caused by my actions."

"I was unfaithful to my wife. My actions hurt her and our children. There is no excuse for what I did. I am deeply sorry."

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by selimthegrim on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:24PM (#50470836)
I think the thriving bi-furry community on HN might have a word or two to say about that
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by Yeri on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:22AM (#50467695)
100%. While I do not condone his actions, publicly we do not know anything about his private life and the dynamics. Until there's a statement from his family, for all we know they may have been separated.

It's clearly the CN link and/or the cosying up with a customer that is the problem; the board would not care about his private life (and neither should the public, tbh).

And the open letter sounds more like it was written the way the public would expect a CEO to write.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:26AM (#50467779)
Then obviously his letter could've said as much. It didn't, ergo an interpretation of available evidence clearly indicates you are wrong.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by wildzzz on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:28PM (#50470904)
If he was in an open relationship or had a girlfriend while separated from his wife, that's not really something to be embarrassed about. His letter talks is him apologizing to his family and asking for forgiveness. He got caught in a Chinese intelligence honeypot and knows he fucked up.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:25AM (#50467769)
We do actually know enough to know that the edge cases do not sufficiently apply here to arrive at the conclusion you're implying.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by cm2012 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:25AM (#50468939)
This is incorrect. Even if they had a totally open relationship, it being public news across the world can be humiliating.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bigstrat2003 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:19AM (#50469838)
We don't know, but it is overwhelmingly likely that he and his wife do not have an open marriage. Most people do not.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by landl0rd on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:14AM (#50467498)
Which is as it should be. First of all, marriage is a covenant. If someone cannot be trusted to keep his word on that, it's tough to trust him with power over thousands of employees and trillions of dollars. Second, I'm guessing the board asked Huang after the first affair's revelation whether there were more skeletons in his closet, and he said no. Lying to one's board is more than enough reason to be ousted.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by gwbas1c on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:28AM (#50467830)
> marriage is a covenant

That's a very narrow view that's a function of one's religion, culture, and values.

When I was in school, (US) my very Catholic French teacher explained that his uncle, in France, had a mistress. His uncle's wife knew and was okay with it. What my teacher was explaining is that the culture around marriage varies considerably through the world, and you can't take for granted that what we were taught (monogamy) is the standard that others live to, or even expect from you.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by landl0rd on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:02AM (#50468484)
First of all, yes, I can. The normalcy of a thing doesn't make it right. But this isn't really about whether absolute cultural relativism is appropriate or not. It's about a man who broke his word. Nothing about this situation indicates Huang's wife was remotely aware of nor alright with his philandery.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by cunnymcface on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:17AM (#50468778)
Wait till you hear about what wives get up to at “board game night” in San Jose.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by landl0rd on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:28AM (#50468988)
My mother had gotten "two wrongs don't make a right" through my head by about age four. It's still true. I don't know nor care what they're doing in San Jose.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by cunnymcface on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:57AM (#50469492)
Seems like what they’re doing in North America kind of undercuts your assumptions.

Perhaps it’s you that is out of touch?

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by gwbas1c on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:22AM (#50468867)
> Huang wed an American woman in America

Please don't make the mistake of assuming that American culture is homogeneous: It's not.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by landl0rd on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:27AM (#50468979)
There's no major American subculture in which stepping out on your wife behind her back is "a good thing" or even "an okay thing". A vast majority of Americans poll consistently against adultery and is often the single most universally condemned actions in surveys. Here's one example: https://news.gallup.com/poll/692801/adultery-cloning-seen-im...
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by gwbas1c on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:55PM (#50472317)
> There's no major American subculture in which stepping out on your wife is "a good thing" or even "an okay thing".

No, there isn't.

There is a significant part of American culture that separates personal life from professional life. IE, an affair is treated as a private matter to be handled by the married (or committed) couple. (IE, this is why many people in this thread focus on Huang's job performance over the affair.)

And I agree with the latter: The affair is a matter between Huang and his wife; it's a signal of his trustworthiness and honesty, and raises concerns about national security. But beyond that, it's not my place, or your place, to judge.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by qwytw on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:29AM (#50467842)
Seems like some weird fundamentalist take. On its own it's purely a private matter between him and his wife (obviously the GPU smuggling stuff is a separate thing). Given that the affair has been semi public for years it's hard to imagine his wife didn't know about it anyway.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by landl0rd on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:58AM (#50468418)
If it's fundamentalist to hold a man to his word, then I suppose you can count me among them. If he'll shatter trust with the person he purportedly loves most in the world, just what might he do to you, the customer or shareholder?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by qwytw on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:08AM (#50468595)
> shatter trust with the person he purportedly loves most in the world

Well we don't know that, you are not legally required to love someone you are married to and I have no clue what their relationship is like or whether they have any sort of "arrangements". I could hardly care less really since its their private matter.

> just what might he do to you, the customer or shareholder?

I don't really see a correlation between those things. All sorts of immoral degenerates (e.g. Musk, (potentially) Gates and I assume plenty of other lesser known CEOs) have generated massive amounts of value for their shareholders.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:38AM (#50469161)
It may even be the case that immoral degenerates are the MOST suitable people to invest your money with.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by martiverse on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:01AM (#50468478)
From a religious perspective, sure. From an earthly perspective, you don't know what the other side was doing. Have you ever been married to a menopausal or a post menopausal woman? A marriage in which there is a permanent refusal to have sex can be annulled.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by otterley on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:08AM (#50468605)
> A marriage in which there is a permanent refusal to have sex can be annulled.

Where?

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by neom on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:14AM (#50467511)
I was on the leadership team of a startup that is now public, during that build something like that happened, there were basically 5 of us involved in what the outcome should be and it basically came down to: me and another guy didn't want to sit on a a leadership team with someone who exercised judgement that way, to the point that it was me and the other guy or affair person, so affair person was out, even tho it was very painful for the business. Also, I don't think what I just described is particularly uncommon.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:24AM (#50467750)
Yeah it's insane how many people are like "bro affairs are totally normal!" (they're not) or "affairs have nothing to do with the business!" (of course they do)

Look at the NVDA stock chart. There you go! That's why affairs are relevant to business! Business is always about trust, and someone who isn't deserving of their own spouse's trust certainly isn't deserving of anyone else's.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by darkwater on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:42AM (#50468108)
> Yeah it's insane how many people are like "bro affairs are totally normal!" (they're not) or "affairs have nothing to do with the business!" (of course they do)

Why? I'm playing a bit devil's advocate here, but why? Because society think it's bad and a leader should be associated with positive views? Because if they got caught they are not smart enough to be the leader?

Why just this specific thing is to be considered? Why, for example, all the Musk's "extravagances" are not ground for a CEO termination? I'm pretty sure many other CEOs have many of those "extravagances" and manage to keep their position but yet, if you have an affair, you're 100% toasted.

Maybe I don't understand enough the US culture.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by halfmatthalfcat on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:52AM (#50468284)
Going through dating, marriage, having children, growing a family, co-parenting children is a massive time and emotional investment (for most people who take it seriously). A large part of, at least Western, society is built on this concept of spousal trust. It's part of the tax code, its part of the legal code (spousal privilege), it's part of our moral fabric, it's a cornerstone of many religions. Breaking that is a huge betrayal of our collective societal moral understanding.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kome on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:04AM (#50468523)
gosh we need another 68
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by throw310822 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:23AM (#50468893)
All this coming from a country that elected twice as President a guy that married three times, led a very sexually promiscuous life, including the notorious boasting, and was accused of sexual misbehaviours by almost 30 women. Hilarious.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:34AM (#50469104)
Trump's key innovation was shamelessness. It's good that Jensen feels shame here.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by balarjin on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:21AM (#50469873)
The US system gives voters two options for president. Those options are chosen by parties, and parties make terrible choices.

In 2016, the choice was between Trump and Clinton. Clinton famously excused her husband's infidelity by calling the long list of women who claimed they were assaulted as "a little bit nutty and a little bit slutty".

In 2024, the choice was between Trump and Harris. Harris got into politics by being the mistress of a CA governor.

It would be interesting to see what would happen if the US presidential election offered a choice between someone who was moral and someone who was as immoral as our existing political class. But that has not happened in my lifetime, and I don't expect that to change.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by selimthegrim on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:22PM (#50470813)
Willie Brown and Jerry Brown are not the same person
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:25AM (#50468931)
What does that mean?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kome on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:06AM (#50469651)
1968
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by robhlt on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:14AM (#50468702)
Right, and because he was willing to break a commitment that serious it de-values other commitments he's made, including those more directly relevant to the business.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:54AM (#50468327)
It's not true that if you have an affair you're 100% toasted. And CEOs do get ousted for non-affair-like drama all the time.

But anyway a person's character is not cleanly separable between personal and professional life, so yeah affairs add (many) points to the "not to be trusted" column.

> Business is always about trust, and someone who isn't deserving of their own spouse's trust certainly isn't deserving of anyone else's.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by nemomarx on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:55AM (#50468349)
Musk controls his companies stock and can't be fired. If that wasn't the case I think his situation would be very different - he's an outlier in most ways. But there's no board to enforce anything on him.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by stetrain on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:58AM (#50468406)
> Why, for example, all the Musk's "extravagances" are not ground for a CEO termination?

This has less to do with the relative social morality of his behavior, and rather that he has more control over the boards of his companies, and his personality represents a larger percentage of the perceived values of his companies.

Meaning that the desire and leverage for shareholders or the board to actually punish him is significantly less. Shareholders would potentially be evaporating trillions in speculative market value that is not backed up by Tesla or SpaceX's actual business fundamentals.

And any shareholders who disagree with his behavior have had plenty of time to leave and take their earnings by now.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by zdragnar on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:00AM (#50468457)
One part trustworthiness, one part likeability, one part risk aversion. Some companies have very unlikable CEOs but they are otherwise effective enough to get by.

In this case, Huang hit all three. Changing CEOs is also a good way to get the media coverage over faster, or at least change the narrative in the pubic (and investors) minds.

If it were just an affair, I doubt he would have lost his job. It wasn't, though, and the other circumstances- potentially dodging export controls and abusing a role of power over a subordinate- came with far too much heat, so to speak.

Also, affairs make for much more entertaining gossip than the other items, so it's probably natural that that aspect gets talked about more.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by neom on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:14AM (#50468710)
I think it often comes down to: do your actions match your words? In the instance above, when said exec joined our leadership team, he was well aware of the standard of conduct we expected, he agreed to them with his words, in fact. Then, his actions did not match those words, when that is true, where else? In society more generally I think this is true, there are people who we strongly expect that to be true and there are people who we know that isn't true and on some siding scale we accept it (I didn't say acceptable), for example Fox News or CNN, marketing people, and to some degree apparently Elon Musk (in that people who matter to his success appear to believe they know where they stand with him). I don't think this is an American thing or a European thing or anything like that, my understanding is this is a pretty human thing generally?

*Everything on a spectrum.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bluGill on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:35AM (#50469122)
> Why?

It is a conflict of interest same as any other. If there is no conflict of interest then the company won't care. As the CEO of the company every other employee works for him and in turn he has power over them.

Society will not like you (in the US), but nothing more will happen.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by inanutshellus on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:46AM (#50468167)
(Agreeing, with an asterisk.)

Markets care about predictability.

To that end, it's the secret and the reveal of that secret that's the issue for a leader. If a CEO is open about his socially-unacceptable behavior from the beginning, there's no shock to absorb.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:55AM (#50468353)
Yep that's an even better point. Though I would say there's a distinction between socially-unacceptable and untrustworthy. Being forthcoming both limits surprise (per your point) and mitigates the trust component of deviance.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by vasac on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:48AM (#50468209)
Somehow, that wasn't an issue for Eric Schmidt, who was shagging some publicist while he was Google's CEO (and while happily married). Wonder why.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:58AM (#50468398)
For one, Schmidt left Google in 2011. Cultural acceptance of fucking subordinates has changed a lot since then.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by vasac on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:43AM (#50469259)
Considering that extramarital escapades didn't prevent the current US president from being elected twice - and quite recently at that - I'm pretty sure this has nothing to do with cultural acceptance.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:10AM (#50469714)
You're "pretty sure" that you can isolate causality in multicausal and overdetermined systems by pointing to a few extreme examples?

I'm jealous!

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by vasac on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:13AM (#50469768)
I can dumb it down even further for you.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by estearum on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:40AM (#50470148)
Yes, please do!

Seems like a real analytical breakthrough that I'd legitimately love to learn more about.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by _ph_ on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:07AM (#50468585)
Was she working at Google at that time and reporting directly to Eric Schmidt?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:28AM (#50468989)
That’s how it was for Sergei brin.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by OvervCW on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:04AM (#50468532)
You cannot tell from the NVDA stock crash if it's because the CEO had an affair, or because NVIDIA illegally sold GPUs to China and is in huge trouble.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by GolfPopper on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:07AM (#50469659)
Or because the current stock value is highly inflated and the bubble is starting to pop.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by NetMageSCW on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:09PM (#50471538)
Feels like the pop would start with companies like OpenAI and Anthropic.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kube-system on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:23PM (#50472770)
...Or if it's because Chinese intelligence has stolen confidential information from Nvidia.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by threetonesun on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:34AM (#50467936)
I have worked at a larger company where the CEO did something similar and across the company all anyone could ask was "why would you do something that dumb", which is not a great way for people to feel about the person supposedly leading the company.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kome on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:02AM (#50468493)
this is something i am probably too european to understand...
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by crazygringo on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:11AM (#50468648)
At the end of the day, it's also just too simplistic.

Humans don't have some kind of overall "morality" or "judgment" setting that applies equally to all areas of life, where a failing in one area translates to failings in other areas.

You can be an amazing CEO and a terrible father. You can have the best judgment in the world around mothering, and abysmal judgment in business. Most importantly, you can be totally trustworthy in the realm of business, yet not in romance.

The idea that there is this binary switch, where someone is either perfectly trustworthy in all contexts, or else you can no longer trust them in any context, is just not an accurate understanding of how real human beings work. It's not supported by modern psychology.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kome on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:18AM (#50468789)
yes, that exactly the point. i want my colleagues to behave correctly on the job - i don't care if they have 3 boyfriends or cheat on their partner. it's not the point. it can be fun to gossip around the coffee machine, but that's about it. nobody should be fired for having an affair.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bluGill on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:31AM (#50469041)
This is more than an affair though. This is an affair with someone he has a business relationship with and thus it becomes the interest to the business. There are many many cases where someone give business favors to the person they are having an affair with.

My company is willing to hire my wife, but she wouldn't be allowed to work for me, nor I her.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by qsi on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:32AM (#50469065)
You should be fired if you're having an affair with a spy, or with someone who reports to you.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by NetMageSCW on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:25AM (#50469933)
How do you know you aren’t?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by AnimalMuppet on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:45AM (#50470226)
By not having an affair with anyone?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by mrkstu on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:38AM (#50469163)
If he’d had an affair with his physical therapist absolutely no one would care and he wouldn’t be out- it’s the totality of his actions and his extreme lack of judgement at issue.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by MadnessASAP on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:29AM (#50469000)
The affair isn't the issue, or at least not the only issue, it's who he had the affair with.

At the end of the day Jensen chose to have an affair with a senior officer of a company strongly suspected of bypassing trade restrictions and should have known that it would be a terrible look for Nvidia and himself. Even if he didn't suspect her of being an agent of China, even if he didn't believe the allegations against Mega speed, even if he had no intentions of passing confidential information or aiding in bypassing trade restrictions. He knew it would carry the appearance of all those things.

That is the unforgivable lapse in judgement.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by dingaling on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:39AM (#50470136)
"you can be totally trustworthy in the realm of business, yet not in romance."

If you can't adhere to the terms of a voluntarily-entered personal contract, why should I believe you'll be trustworthy in other impersonal contracts?

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by cossray on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:34PM (#50471014)
[delayed]
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by madaxe_again on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:42AM (#50469243)
If he was French, this would be “oui, et?”
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by sensanaty on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:24AM (#50469910)
You're too European to understand infidelity? Must be French!

- Signed, another European

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kome on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:42AM (#50470179)
i understand infidelity, i don't understand who would care on the job. also, not french :)
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by Starman_Jones on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:21PM (#50472749)
All (or nearly all) fortune 500 company has a rule against sleeping with a subordinate, and it is one of the most common reasons for a CEO to be fired. If all we learned about was the second affair, I still expect he would have been fired. So every single successful actor has arrived at the same conclusion, but you don’t understand why. This is a great opportunity to learn something new.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by ludicrousdispla on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:16PM (#50471657)
...must be those long vacations
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by spbaar on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:14PM (#50473492)
Starting a c-level polycule to derisk the s1
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by siva7 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:17AM (#50467576)
Tell me you have no clue how corporations are run without telling me. Furthermore Jensen wasn't some random executive.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by another_twist on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:17AM (#50467584)
Hasnt Elon been jizzing around Silicon Valley for like years now ? I guess enforcing these guidelines requires an independent board.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by k12sosse on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:25AM (#50467775)
Doesn't count if you only rub into a cup and have lawyers exchange the fluid. elon, worlds richest virgo
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by netrap on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:27AM (#50467811)
He isn't married?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by alpaca128 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:51AM (#50468264)
To be fair his marital status changes frequently so it can be hard knowing what happened when.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by wildzzz on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:38PM (#50471075)
Yeah but he's somewhat open about it and isn't really cheating on anyone. It's weird behavior but it's not being a sperm donor is going to ruin his personal life, like one would by cheating on their wife.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by miohtama on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:18AM (#50467608)
Good executives go to Epstein island and do not get fired.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by godshatter on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:11AM (#50469736)
I wonder where they are going now.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by mapcars on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:19AM (#50467632)
Not sure how personal affairs humiliate your business
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by aaronharnly on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:20AM (#50467661)
They do when they're with a subordinate or a vendor, both of which he did. Add on "foreign agent" and you're done.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by wolfinterval on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:38AM (#50469165)
They do in our puritanical culture.

In a Goffman Front Stage/Back Stage sense, you are supposed to keep the front stage presentation on the level of a pious monk or nun.

The irony to me is this just another asymmetrical advantage for Chinese culture.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:42AM (#50469235)
Maybe people are tired of that bullshit. The most powerful guy in business clearly felt empowered to let that facade go. I guess he just got a check for his experiment.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by ks2048 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:18AM (#50469826)
Trump was elected twice. I think there are other factors here.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by wildzzz on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:36PM (#50471046)
They can when they reveal poor decision making. If this guy is so stupid that he's willing to stick his dick in anyone, including a Chinese spy, what does that say about his ability to make rational decisions elsewhere in his life? He's clearly not making decisions that benefit him personally in the long term so can he even make good long term decisions at his job?

There's a reason why government background checks looks at financial records. Someone that has trouble paying their bills due to a gambling habit might be easy to turn by the enemy with some cash. Or someone that regularly cheats on their wife might be willing to do some favors for a pretty girl if she lets him sleep with her.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by butlike on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:44PM (#50471174)
"Oh hey, I'm going to be buying 1,000,0000,000 widgets from that widget maker Nvidia"

"Haha you mean the Chinese spy guy? Hey ask if you can get a discount if your secretary sleeps with their CEO haha"

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bar8uyr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:08PM (#50473429)
Getting obviously played so hard that it makes you, your wife, your children, your company and your entire country look like idiots surely should humiliate your business no?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by JeremyNT on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:21AM (#50467675)
One of the reasons this behavior is problematic in general is the potential for blackmail. It's not even really a statement about morality, just an acknowledgement that somebody who wants to keep things hidden is going to be beholden to the people who know the secrets.

"It's not the crime, it's the coverup."

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by chabska on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:39AM (#50468041)
Jensen went to many high profile parties with this woman. I don't see where he's trying to even hide it. Even the kiss was made out in public, not like a hotel room.

Also, an affair is only blackmail material in a society of prudes. I recall the story about a president who was confronted with condemning photos of his activities by CIA agents, and he pretty much encouraged the agents to publish the photos.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by sarchertech on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:02AM (#50468495)
> Also, an affair is only blackmail material in a society of prudes.

You don’t have to be a prude to think cheating on a spouse is condemnable.

In general, it also doesn’t really matter what society thinks. You can just threaten to reveal the affair to the spouse. And even in the case the spouse doesn’t really care it’s fodder they can potentially use in a divorce to get a better deal.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by otterley on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:06AM (#50468566)
> affair is only blackmail material in a society of prudes

For better or worse, this is the world we live in.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by I-M-S on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:31AM (#50469048)
For worse.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by k1ko on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:45AM (#50470236)
That's pretty wild. A society that doesn't value faithfulness to a spouse or looks the other way at sleeping with a subordinate is pretty sick imo.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by red-iron-pine on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:08AM (#50468597)
> I recall the story about a president who was confronted with condemning photos of his activities by CIA agents

Sukarno. "Project Happy Days", lol.

He (Sukarno) thought it was hilarious and sent copies to his friends.

CIA was pissed w/ him because he killed a lot of Communists but then started leaning to China and beefing with Malaysia, which irritated the British

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by victorhooi on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:46AM (#50470248)
Apparently the KGB tried to honeypot him - and they were flabbergasted when he asked for copies of the photos. Apparently photos of him with multiple Russian women would bolster his machismo image back home?

Although if you read his Wikipedia page, he had many, many wives, some concurrently, and the youngest was 19...so it's probably true, lol.

Then you read about a certain EV company CEO and his escapades and repopulating the planet, and you don't know what to think.

Or Charlie Sheen...

I guess politicians, celebrities and CEOs are another world from us mere mortals.....

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by afavour on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:13AM (#50468685)
> Also, an affair is only blackmail material in a society of prudes

No? All it requires is for Jensen to want to remain with his wife, and for his wife to be willing to divorce him if she finds out he has an affair. Very little involvement from society in that one.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:29AM (#50469004)
186 thousand million.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by red-iron-pine on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:21AM (#50467685)
no one cares who you put your dick into if the returns are good and there are no threats to the business. but he only fucked threats to the business.

he was fucking a spy

he was fucking one of his direct reports

what are two things you shouldn't ever do as a CEO of the biggest company in the world?

this wasn't Cindy the random waitress from the Palo Alto Ruth Chris', these were literally two people he should never be fucking

he put the company at risk of national security issues and HR lawsuits for what is otherwise painfully mid-tier pussy. he's gotta go.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by orliesaurus on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:27AM (#50468973)
was it confirmed she was a spy? or is that just twitter rumors?
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by cm2012 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:50AM (#50469378)
It is the official allegation of the United States and other major governments. So that doesn't guarantee it but it is more than a rumor.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by orliesaurus on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:54PM (#50471324)
Can you link me to the press release or anything where this is said? I want to share it with my friends!
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by orliesaurus on Thursday November 12, 2026 @01:34PM (#50471962)
appreciate it!
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:39AM (#50469184)
I dunno that executive looks rather top tier to me. Maybe you have different standards for late-40s extremely accomplished women.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by cm2012 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:48AM (#50469349)
Exactly. Jensen could have had ten high-priced escorts attending to him at home at every hour and there would be no issue.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by noboostforyou on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:49AM (#50469370)
> for what is otherwise painfully mid-tier pussy.

This is an extremely unnecessary misogynistic comment.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by hatethehate on Thursday November 12, 2026 @02:01PM (#50472419)
commenting on someones looks is does not confer hatred of women. it is fine to have opinions about how someone looks. i thought it was funny.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kccqzy on Thursday November 12, 2026 @11:12AM (#50469744)
This is the kind of story that makes me think most critical leadership should be held by women. Grossly generalizing here, but I think women are inherently less corruptible than men in this manner, especially older women.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by chaorace on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:23AM (#50467716)
It's entirely possible that the board just wasn't that warm on Jensen in the first place. Not cold, not looking to be the tall poppy that gets cut down... but at least willing to give Jensen the boot if given the right push.

This is how things change. Slowly and then all at once. If the board were more in love with him, they'd probably have been willing to turn a blind eye for just a little while longer. No such luck for Jensen, but we make our own luck in these things.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by kridsdale1 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:40AM (#50469212)
Not looking warm on a guy that synthesized five trillion dollars from nothing in the 90s is some high standards.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by throw310822 on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:28AM (#50467822)
> If you publicly humiliate your family and the business

I can hardly imagine anything more stupid than judging the aptitude of the CEO of a 5T$ business based on his private love life.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by II2II on Thursday November 12, 2026 @09:51AM (#50468260)
I suspect so many of us see examples of corporate crime or even of corporate greed (legally) causing an incredible amount of damage that an affair feels trivial in comparison. That is especially true when the private family life of a CEO is private. The damage of the affair could be anything from devastating to the family to they were all but legally separated.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bluGill on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:42AM (#50469233)
Two wrongs don't make a right.

You should be concerned about corporate crime.

That doesn't change that there is a conflict of interest here and any company should fire someone who has a conflict of interest that they are not carefully managing to ensure they don't become real.

Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by bluGill on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:39AM (#50469182)
This is not about his private love life. This is about a conflict of interest that happens to also involve his private love life.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by jackbravo on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:03AM (#50468508)
Famously, Mark Hurd made dubious expenses that were perceived negatively by the public and was ousted as CEO from HP. Then Larry Ellison mocked HP and hired Mark as Oracle's President. So, some companies are worried about that, others aren't
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by rhipitr on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:14AM (#50468703)
It’s not just about humiliation. If your boss is sleeping with your coworker or someone on your team, how can you trust their decisions are grounded in fairness and logic. Sure, the world doesn’t work this way, and ceos are at a different realm than a mid level manager, but this is usually how HR defines things.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by alkonaut on Thursday November 12, 2026 @12:46PM (#50471197)
Yeah there’s a reason it’s strictly against companies policies and it’s not a moral reason.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by carlosjobim on Thursday November 12, 2026 @03:43PM (#50473983)
You don't have any say in that anyway. People hire and promote their spouses, relatives and friends all the time.
Re:NVIDIA Announces CEO Transition by reaperducer on Thursday November 12, 2026 @10:39AM (#50469179)
If you publicly humiliate your family and the business, you're out...

It's not entirely about humiliation.

Having an affair (or multiple, in this case) demonstrates poor decision making. You don't want someone who can't make wise choices running your company.