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Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by nonrandomstring on Thursday July 14, 2022 @08:52AM (#32095418)
The reason this act breaks a moral boundary is that it subverts a principle of "ends" [1]. A genuine random act of kindness cannot occur if it's being filmed. Filming the act turns it into a virtue display. It also turns the subject into an object of utility, a means and not and end in themself.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kingdom_of_Ends

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:09AM (#32095601)
Social Media has largely exposed the levels of narcissism embedded in a large number of human's psychological makeup , Selfies, clout chasing and virtue signalling are ever increasing forms of narcissism that really has destroyed the internet IMO
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by orthecreedence on Thursday July 14, 2022 @02:04PM (#32099463)
> Social Media has largely exposed the levels of narcissism embedded in a large number of human's psychological makeup

I don't think this is entirely fair to humanity. I think social media encourages and incentivizes this behavior. Was it there before? Sure. But social media hasn't just exposed it, it has also optimized for it.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by RugnirViking on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:31AM (#32095875)
it takes what is a useful social response (I had better be kind, so other people physically present don't shun me) into a twisted spectacle (I must show me being kind to as many people as possible and in the internet I have the means to do it)
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by CPLX on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:26AM (#32095799)
Alternately we could look at Social Media as a defective product. I think it's a much better metaphor. The product has horrible consequences and side effects. It's a for profit making entity, creating a product that often causes people to get hurt or damaged. Like lawn darts.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:33AM (#32095905)
Well I enjoyed Lawn Darts and disagree with the prohibition on them so if the desire would be to ban social media I would also disagree with it

neither were "defective" products, just because they caused harm does not make them defective, both lawn darts, and social media are working exactly as the manufacturer intended, calling them "defective" is stretching the definition of the term

if you want to make the case of regulation one does not need to nor should the term defect be perverted to be used to get around legal productions (like free speech). Cocaine is banned not because it is defective but because it is harmful, though I also disagree with the banning of cocaine generally because I do not believe it is role of government to protect someone from self harm

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:52AM (#32096101)
>just because they caused harm does not make them defective, both lawn darts, and social media are working exactly as the manufacturer intended

Then would it possibly be a better distinction to define them instead as poorly designed products with large negative externalities? If I build a product that meets it's stated goal but poisons the environment around it, it's not "defective" in the myopic view, but poorly designed in the global view. Even taking the libertarian line, doesn't the government have a role in regulating negative externalities?

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:01AM (#32096211)
That depends on the type and scope of "negative externalities", and not all libertarian philosophies agree on the where to draw that line.

Some would say a negative exernality like CO2 emissions would raise to the level for government regulations (violating NAP) , other libertarian philosophies would not, viewing it a totalitarian control as human breath expeals CO2 so if the government can regulate it then there are no limits on government at all.

I dont know if I have a good answer

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by jamiek88 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:53PM (#32098527)
Well who gives a shit what libertarians think?

It’s a philosophy for 12 year olds.

I can come up with any old bullshit by extending arguments to a level of ludicrousness like that. Doesn’t mean you should entertain my bullshit.

humans are social creatures and have alway, always, always lived in a societal hierarchy. Our only genuine political decision we can make is what kind of government we want and how much freedom to give up.

The idea that we can live without giving up any freedoms to a society just means that the strongest, most ruthless person ‘wins’ and is king.

This is just a fact. There is no opinion involved. And the only reason this flavor of internet libertarianism exists is because those espousing it have grown up in relative comfort with no fear of warlords.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @01:31PM (#32099060)
Please review the HN Guidelines:

"When disagreeing, please reply to the argument instead of calling names. "That is idiotic; 1 + 1 is 2, not 3" can be shortened to "1 + 1 is 2, not 3."

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @07:22PM (#32102543)
>>Well who gives a shit what libertarians think?

well the person I was responding to who specifically talked about libertarian positions.

>>It’s a philosophy for 12 year olds.

Only for those with a 5th grade understanding of philosophy. The rest of your comment highlights your extreme ignorance of libertarian philosophy nicely, because no where in the philosophy do we deny social hierarchy or human nature, infact the primary goal of the different philosophies is to curb the natural tendencies of human nature to seek power over others, the "most ruthless person" wins has been found through out history in all manner of non-libertarian government, and the US Constitution is the closest formation of a libertarian government and has been pretty successful at resisting those natural tendencies, to the extent we have seen revision from that it is directly due to removal libertarian ideas from the US Governmental system and replacing them with majoritarian / collectivist ideals and policies

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by cool_dude85 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:27AM (#32096483)
>viewing it a totalitarian control as human breath expeals CO2 so if the government can regulate it then there are no limits on government at all.

"If the gubmit can tell multinational corps not to pull oil out of the ground, they can make me hold my breath! It produces the same molecule!" Libertarian philosophy in a nutshell.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @07:14PM (#32102488)
That is hardly the argument but it is clear you do not want to have a substantive discussion so there is little point wasting my time explaining it
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bcrosby95 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:29AM (#32097294)
Your post made me wonder what libertarians think about things like llcs and corporations - the legal shields they provide are a massive government subsidy.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by corrral on Thursday July 14, 2022 @01:51PM (#32099316)
Left-libertarians often think they shouldn't be A Thing, since they're extensions of state power and, besides, left-libertarians are more concerned with large concentrations of power per se than whether those concentrations happen to be called governments.

Your average common-on-the-Internet right-libertarian usually hand-waves away how they're somehow fine and part of the "natural" (I cannot roll my eyes hard enough, in case you couldn't tell) free market. Some of the softer right-libertarians (bleeding over into folks who'd likely style themselves "classical liberals" rather than libertarians) aren't as hard-line and rigid, so don't really have the dilemma to begin with, but they're much less vocal on the Internet, probably in part because they disagree with the average person a lot less than the former sort does, so it just doesn't come up as much.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by int_19h on Thursday July 14, 2022 @08:01PM (#32102865)
Libertarians are not a hivemind. I mean, for starters, you'll have to clarify if you mean right-wing or left-wing libertarians.

Speaking for myself, as a left-wing libertarian, I think that corporations, being an artificial creation of society, can come with whatever strings society deems suitable to attach to that privilege - provided that they're the same for everyone.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by CPLX on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:42AM (#32095991)
The difference between the two of them is that due to historical specifics, the social media companies have Section 230, which completely immunizes them from dealing with the consequences of any of their actions.

Without that they'd be subject to the same constraints as your average newspaper or TV station. Which is to say not a lot of constraints. But there would in fact be a means to address the consequences of their editorial decisions.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by hackyhacky on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:35AM (#32096581)
That's not at all a reasonable characterization of 230.

https://www.techdirt.com/2021/10/29/everything-you-know-abou...

Websites and TV stations have the same first amendment protection. The main difference is that users do not contribute content to TV stations. That's what 230 protects.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by cronix on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:50AM (#32096772)
There were "public access" shows on cable that showed user generated content. Not so different than the majority of tik-tok content today.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0G8reRPOoiw

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wFBIMKdOdBg

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by hackyhacky on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:31AM (#32097342)
Actually, very different.

Public access was very limited in bandwidth: one simply didn't have thousands of people posting content. As a result, public access was heavily curated and subject to the same broadcast restrictions as traditional television.

Even allowing that, public access isn't much of a thing anymore. In modern mainstream television stations, there is absolutely no user-generated content.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:57AM (#32096165)
Given the clear editorial choices via moderation that the platforms have chosen to undertake I would be in favor of treating them like a newspaper of TV Station
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by CPLX on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:18AM (#32096382)
Yup. The second you prioritize one piece of content over another by other than an automatic means like chronological order or votes you're not presenting user generated content any more, you're making editorial decisions.

The fact that we've tolerated this for so long is appalling.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by hackyhacky on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:35AM (#32097384)
The overwhelming majority of content on social media is curated by automatic means. Manual curation at that scale, is, as you know, infeasible.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by CPLX on Thursday July 14, 2022 @02:44PM (#32099939)
Automatic perhaps, but still editorial in the decision making process.

As soon as you start deciding to show some content and not other content based on the content of the communications you're making editorial decisions. Algorithms or not, it's a judgement call.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by hackyhacky on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:40PM (#32104361)
Sure it is. It's also inevitable. Every communications medium makes similar judgement calls, including broadcast television, which chooses which shows to air based on their content, and which news story to cover, based on their content. Given the scale of social media, curation is a necessity.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by kodah on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:35AM (#32096573)
Civil courts deal with "defective" products, legislatures deal with harmful products. I had an ATC growing up, so many people died on them they outlawed the design - mainly because it was pretty easy to endo with the wrong tires. Interestingly, we still had one, and it wasn't illegal for me to operate, but you definitely couldn't buy another one legally.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by o_1 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:43AM (#32096679)
I agree, I think the internet took all the trash content over. Reality Shows/MTV to Tick Tok. We really better filters trash content. Kind of the reason most people are here on HN.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by RulerOf on Thursday July 14, 2022 @04:01PM (#32100811)
>We really better filters trash content.

I can see it now, "Show HN: Introducing InstaGavage, force-feed all the bullshit from your socials to this neural network and let it throw out the trash."

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by Baeocystin on Thursday July 14, 2022 @04:20PM (#32100966)
I wonder how long it would take to just evolve | /dev/null.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by cratermoon on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:36AM (#32096584)
And the dark mirror of "virtue signaling": vice signaling https://kthorjensen.medium.com/jordan-peterson-donald-trump-...
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by throwaway0a5e on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:13AM (#32095650)
It's really a shame people turned virtue signaling into a dirty world that can't be used in civil discussion. It is a great descriptor for all sorts of human behavior in all sorts of contexts.

Edit: y'all are kind of proving my first point.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:14AM (#32095674)
I am not aware of a context where virtue signaling would be a good practice or behavior.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by erybodyknows on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:29AM (#32095849)
Virtue can be practiced and even observed without being signalled.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by tsol on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:54PM (#32098537)
Practicing virtue in public, even if you don't intend it that way, is signaling virtue. What is strange is how in our society virtue has to be justified. Is it virtue signaling that people dislike, or being fake?
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by watwut on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:33AM (#32097356)
Virtue signaling has similar effect as vice signaling: it signals to others what you think is good thing to do. It is statement toward rest of word.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by throwaway0a5e on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:58AM (#32097740)
The signal it sends is that appearances and whatnot matter more than actual substances, that appearing to do something is more important than doing something.

Bragging about how your food is cruelty free when you don't really care about the food, you care about being able to say that it's cruelty free doesn't make you against animal cruelty except by some absurdly expansive definition of "against".

And there's also 800lb gorilla that is political discourse where people routinely say one thing and then not only do nothing to advance that, they live their lives by something that's close to the opposite.

Rewarding virtue signaling absolves people of much of the requirement to put their money where their mouth is and relaxing that requirement is a bad thing.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by watwut on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:38PM (#32098301)
First paragraph care more about what whoever does that action feels then about what impact it has.

All in all, it rewards primary doing and saying nothing. Everyone else can be accused of virtue signaling.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by afavour on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:39AM (#32095955)
Perhaps we're working to different definitions of the term. To me, virtue signaling is signaling (i.e. making publicly known) a virtuous act. To me that seems like an unambiguously good thing: it is likely to inspire others to similar virtuous acts, creating a feedback loop of people encouraging others to engage in good behaviour. "I voted! You should get out and vote too" feels like an example of positive virtual signaling.

Broadly speaking, I think there is nothing wrong with, say, videoing yourself serving food at a soup kitchen. It's when you use that video to boost your own profile rather than the virtuous act that it becomes problematic. There are plenty of people that do that. However there are also plenty of people who interpret any public record of virtue as being inherently narcissistic and I think that's just as bad.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by vinyl7 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:14AM (#32096340)
The problem with public displays of virtue is that it comes off as seeking return value for the action. Virtuous acts should be done in quiet/secret and for the simple reason for it being virtuous. Seeking some other sort of value out of it (like social recognition, social credit, youtube views which end up with ad revenue) makes the act look dishonest. The act wasn't done because they were a nice person, the act was done because they were seeking to increase their own value.

The way to go about this is to do the thing without anyone knowing and without displaying it. To do it without expecting any personal gain at all. If a friend tells their friend "afavour brought me soup when I was sick, it was so sweet of them" or if someone asks you what you do in your spare time and you say "sometimes I serve at a soup kitchen." then that's fine because that kind of display, which was prompted by other people, can't really be seen as you seeking to cash out the value of the virtuous act.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by afavour on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:25AM (#32096451)
> it comes off as seeking return value for the action

Surely that’s in the eye of the beholder? It is possible to interpret it that way, certainly. But applying the observers value judgement (i.e. how it comes off) onto the original actor seems unfair to me.

Sometimes I feel like (and I don’t mean anything personal by this) we’re all cynical bastards these days so when we see someone do something genuinely altruistic we simply cannot process it as such and immediately seek a way to dismiss it as self-serving.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by haswell on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:15AM (#32097064)
> we’re all cynical bastards these days so when we see someone do something genuinely altruistic we simply cannot process it as such and immediately seek a way to dismiss it as self-serving

The question to ask is where this cynicism came from.

I would argue that it is the performative variety of virtue that has made us mistrust such acts.

We wouldn’t have a reason to doubt one’s intentions if those intentions are indistinguishable on the surface from a popular meme, which is what many of these recorded acts of kindness seem to be.

Only the person carrying out the act knows the truth of what is in their heart, but I would argue that the very act of recording, bolstered by the act of publishing that recording reveals there are other motives involved.

After all, why does one post such a video? To participate in the incentive structure afforded by the social media platform of choice.

Those incentive structures are inherently about self promotion, which feels incompatible with virtue.

Now you could argue that I’m just being cynical about why people post on social media. Maybe that person has a genuine desire to brighten someone else’s day through their own act of kindness. Maybe the guy with the flowers was similarly genuine.

I think the video that is the focal point of this thread provides a good counterpoint to this. It made me uncomfortable when I first saw it (before this article emerged), and now I have a confirmation as to why. Even if the guy had every right intention, the incentive structure of social media overrode his better judgement and blinded him to the impact he was actually having.

I don’t think it is impossible to highlight one’s good work in an appropriate way, and I do think there’s an opportunity to inspire people to do good things, but I’m not convinced that this trend of social media posts has anything to do with that.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by vinyl7 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:45AM (#32096701)
> But the people in the soup kitchen see me serving the food. Anyone walking by might see me in the window.

The nuance here is that there's a difference being observed doing a kind act versus purposefully making it a public spectacle. I don't view people I observe doing something altruistic as self-seeking unless they try to "cash in" on it.

I would see someone helping a person in need and think "how kind of them!" But then later, if I see an Instagram post from that person saying "There was this person in need of help and I went over there and did something about it", then it can be seen as self-seeking.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by afavour on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:49AM (#32096768)
I actually erased the part you replied to, sorry. Primarily because I figured out the response to it myself!

> it can be seen

I still maintain that it’s unfair to project the value judgement of the observer onto the observed, as if the observer is impartial in all of this. It can be seen that way, yes, but it doesn’t have to be. That is the observer’s choice.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by watwut on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:35AM (#32097401)
> Virtuous acts should be done in quiet/secret and for the simple reason for it being virtuous.

Genuinely, why? As in, why is it better to do nothing then to do virtuous action that you also get some benefit from?

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by Domenic_S on Thursday July 14, 2022 @02:31PM (#32099786)
Might be better stated as "altruistic acts", but the primary reason is that the benefactor's anonymity preserves the dignity of the recipient. When done privately:

1. The recipient doesn't have to cop to/explain their situation that prompted the generosity,

2. The recipient doesn't feel the need to publicly acknowledge the help (which in turn implies publicly explaining that you needed help),

3. The recipient doesn't become a revenue-generator without giving their permission, as happens in this case and others like it

When done in public, these acts cease to be altruism - they're now a business exchange ("content creator" gives you something of value (flowers) in exchange for something else of value (clicks/views/clout)). Except you didn't know you were making this business deal, which is beyond slimy.

IIRC most religious texts teach to do altruism privately, for reasons such as this. Attention-seeking didn't just come about in the internet age, it just got easier.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by ckw on Thursday July 14, 2022 @03:42PM (#32100631)
I would alter that slightly: virtuous acts should be done whenever an opportunity arises. When we see particularly conspicuous acts of virtue, by which the practitioner benefits greatly, especially when the opportunity to avoid conspicuousness existed but was eschewed, we are right to suspect that the act would not have taken place in the absence of an audience, and thus actually signals a lack of virtue. (Because the virtuous act so regardless of audience, and personal benefit, and even at great personal risk or hardship).
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by nathanaldensr on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:16AM (#32096362)
I agree that folks need to have a discerning eye on this. There are several channels on YouTube where lawn care guys will mow an overgrown yard for free. Yes, they are filming it and hoping to drum up interest in their channel, but providing free lawn care is objectively a kind and expensive thing to do. In these cases, the amount of effort expended being actually kind makes it obvious it's not just some stage with props.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by afavour on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:28AM (#32096499)
Absolutely, and I’d say your example prompts a further question: even if it is partially self serving, maybe it’s worth the price? If these YouTubers are are looking for subscribers but also do free lawn care and inspire others to do other free things for those who can’t do it themselves… do we really need to be so down on it?
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by nonrandomstring on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:42AM (#32097508)
> "I voted! You should get out and vote too" feels like an example of positive virtual signalling.

Good point. This is a clear example of where "virtue signalling" (leading by example in this case) can be considered a good. rather than an ostentatious, pretentious, or pridefull showing-off of empty virtue.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by mcv on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:47AM (#32097580)
I think there's basically two different sorts of behaviour that could fit the description. One is doing something good while setting an example for others, and the other is being seen to do something good or virtuous in order to receive appreciation for it.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by s1artibartfast on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:50AM (#32096777)
Virtue signaling in the common parlance specifically refers to exposition for personal benefit. Ie, they don't act virtuously when the cameras are off

I think demonstration of virtue would be a better term without this connotation. EG being a role model.

The large amount of virtue signaling has poisoned the Well for people that simply want to promote good deeds and behavior.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by Zachsa999 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:24AM (#32095777)
I like too think a virtuous person signals virtue without being narcissistic
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by goodpoint on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:23AM (#32096437)
Most people now use "virtue signaling" as as insult to quickly dismiss any person expressing ethical concerns.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by goodpoint on Thursday July 14, 2022 @05:43PM (#32101810)
The silent downvotes only prove my point.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by throwaway0a5e on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:17AM (#32095700)
I meant it's a useful and descriptive term. I abhor the behavior.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by dools on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:51AM (#32096784)
Virtue signalling is a term made up by a hard right libertarian propagandist writing for the spectator as a means of silencing progressive voices online. It’s a bullshit term for which we already had a perfectly good word: hypocrisy
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by Karunamon on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:47PM (#32098446)
Hypocrisy is insufficiently precise. It is possible to disingenuously engage in any particular activity. If you wish to describe a specific behavior, then a better descriptor is necessary. On top of that, not all virtue signaling is necessarily disingenuous.

And all terms are made up, and the political leanings of the person who supposedly coined the phrase is irrelevant to its applicability.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by dools on Thursday July 14, 2022 @08:52PM (#32103259)
You’re using the term disingenuous incorrectly so excuse me while I disregard your opinion on language entirely.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by jancsika on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:23AM (#32096438)
It's similar with C. Who knew the levels of memory unsafety embedded in a large number of human's psychological makeup!

Luckily, now that Rust exists, our collective psychological makeup is proven to be much safer.

But of course on a deeper physical level, hertzbleed shows that all of us are one Javascript away from becoming Manchurian candidates.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by disqard on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:11PM (#32097921)
Was this generated using GPT3?

Lately, I find myself wondering whether I'd be able to tell the difference.

In this particular case, I'm not at all sure how this string of words came to be.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by dwringer on Thursday July 14, 2022 @04:23PM (#32100989)
I read it as a bit of a joke about unprotected memory, human fallibility, and language complexity, in the style of a Gene Shalit review.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by jimmyjazz14 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:51AM (#32096788)
The act itself is also shallow, flowers are meant more of a symbolic gift; I give my wife flowers maybe to express love but if I just gave some random person flowers on the street without any further explanation then I have simply given that person a dead plant. If the guy gave the lady something of actual value or that served a need, or even just made statement as to the meaning of the flowers it could have changed the dynamic. Further it is customary to ask someone (especially someone you do not know well) to accept a gift and to explain why the gift was given; there is a very good reason for this.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by guerrilla on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:28AM (#32096505)
I'm not religious but it reminds me of Matthew 6:5-6 "And when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites. For they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by men. Truly I tell you, they already have their full reward. But when you pray, go into your inner room, shut your door, and pray to your Father, who is unseen. And your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."

Some people have always just wanted to show how good they are instead of trying to actually be good (not saying praying is necessarily good but clearly the people who wrote the bible and the people they're speaking of did :P)

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by ask_b123 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:19AM (#32097136)
I was also reminded of Matthew 6, but I thought of the first 4 verses

“Be careful not to practice your righteousness in front of others to be seen by them. If you do, you will have no reward from your Father in heaven. So when you give to the needy, do not announce it with trumpets, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and on the streets, to be honored by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. But when you give to the needy, do not let your left hand know what your right hand is doing, so that your giving may be in secret. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you."

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by zelos on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:50AM (#32097627)
Although, one could read that as "do good for an audience, just do it for the right audience"
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by guerrilla on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:09PM (#32097891)
I think that's abstracting too far. They're not even of the same metaphysical substance in the mythology, let alone ethical character.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by the_af on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:01AM (#32095517)
Not only was this act meant for an audience, but he also tricked her because he was afraid she wouldn't want the flowers. Very underhanded.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by treesknees on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:11AM (#32095623)
It depends on the context and use of the video, and I really blame social media for driving this constant pressure to be relevant and generate content people will interact with.

Granted this isn't a random act, but at a family birthday gathering sometimes it can be fun to take a photo or video of a loved one opening a present and capturing their genuine surprise as a memory. But I've never uploaded them to the Internet, because it wasn't about likes or shares. And I don't feel that capturing the moment ruined any of the meaning behind it.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by EnderWT on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:38AM (#32096612)
It's not even an act of kindness. It's a prank.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:06AM (#32095562)
Isn't a limitation of Kant's view that intention is all that matters? In other words, neither context or outcome change the morality of the action?
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by Corazoor on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:45PM (#32098416)
Kants moral philosophy (the categorical imperative) is deontological, which means it is based on the action (and only the action) itself.

Intent and Outcome are important in other moral philosophies, but for Kant these were hypothetical imperatives: Nothing more than mere whishes, nothing concrete.

For him, moral philosophy should be based on concrete, testable tenets, which have to be unconditionally true (categorical) and are always required (imperative).

While one might disagree with that worldview, Kant's work on this kind of moral philosophy was so comprehensive and - quite franky - logically sound, that to this very day any deontological philosopher or moral theory is still called "Kantian" or in "Kantian tradition"...

To come back to your question: While dismissing intent and outcome can be seen as a limitation of Kant's view, it also provides a very strong logical underpinning for the whole philosophy. Of all the moral philosophies, it's the one based most on pure reasoning.

Of course, it qickly breaks down when pitting two moral wrongs against each other (ratting out innocents vs. lying to state forces, various trolley problems etc.), but any moral system seems to get in trouble in these kind of situations.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:52PM (#32098509)
Thank you for clearing up my misconceptions. Is it fair to say Kants view mostly works when there is a universal answer that is not context dependent?

I know this is a bit of an ad hominem and an aside, but is it true that Kant was a loner? Do you think his idealist worldviews contributed to that, I.e., his moral philosophy is more fit for theoretical and academic discussions rather than applied in practice, in the sense that philosophy is aimed at living a better life?

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by Corazoor on Thursday July 14, 2022 @02:16PM (#32099592)
The categorical imperative (kinda) ALWAYS works for a single action, thats the real power of it. No matter the situation, applying Kants reasoning to a possible action will always give you a definite answer - Moral or Immoral.

It is actually rather easy to apply: If you can generalize an action (i.e. "what would happen if everyone does this in this situation") without contradiction, then it is moral. Otherwise not.

What it cannot do is weigh two actions against each other: Lying is immoral, but so is treason. You might be forced to break one principle to protect the other.

Kant is kinda famous for taking extremist views in these circumstances. He regarded lying as the worst kind of immorality. Which, with a bit of hindsight, leads to the questionable stance, that it is worse to lie to a nazi, than to protect and harbor a jew from death. Obviously not a popular stance nowadays, and probably not even back then...

But you can fix that by applying a different 'order' to the individual principles. Modern kantian theories heavily focus on these parts.

I'm not sure if you can dismiss context entirely when thinking about a single action, I have the feeling that not. But on the other hand, I cannot think of an example where context does matter, but does not simultaniously pit two moral principles against each other... The answer to your first question kinda hinges on that...

About the loner part: Kant was among the most influentual figures in the european enlightenment movement, he wrote the very influental pamphlet "What is the enlightenment", and he regularly held lectures at various universities. I dunno if he was an introvert, but he certainly didn't avoid society or discussions.

He was a racist, though. Even made money through questionable lectures on the inferiority of non white races. Not that uncommon (and widely accepted) in Germany at that time, but yeah... Great intellectual, an actual liberal in many ways, but still a shitty asshole in many others...

And for academic vs practical: Another name for the whole branch of moral philosophy is "practical philosophy". It is not possible to make an actual useful distinction between academic and practical application of morality. The questions are the same, the reasoning is the same. Only difference is if you have to actually go through with your choices, which makes it emotionally different, but not logically...

I'm a bit of a Kant fan, but here are some telling quotes from wikipedia: (Not all about his moral phlosophy thoguh) "Kant's influence on Western thought has been profound." "Kant is credited with having innovated the way philosophical inquiry has been carried at least up to the early nineteenth century" "Arthur Schopenhauer was strongly influenced by Kant's transcendental idealism." "With his Perpetual Peace: A Philosophical Sketch, Kant is considered to have foreshadowed many of the ideas that have come to form the democratic peace theory, one of the main controversies in political science" "Jürgen Habermas and John Rawls are two significant political and moral philosophers whose work is strongly influenced by Kant's moral philosophy." "Kant's influence also has extended to the social, behavioral, and physical sciences, as in the sociology of Max Weber, the psychology of Jean Piaget and Carl Gustav Jung,[199][200] and the linguistics of Noam Chomsky." "Kant's work on mathematics and synthetic a priori knowledge is also cited by theoretical physicist Albert Einstein as an early influence on his intellectual development, but which he later criticised heavily and rejected."

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by crmd on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:15AM (#32096356)
His intention was to film and monetize a viral video.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:42AM (#32096657)
That's the cynical take, yes.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by jeremyjh on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:46AM (#32096727)
It is a factual description of what happened. I don't see a lot of room for interpretation here.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:20AM (#32097143)
Except the distinction is you were describing intent and not the event. The event can be framed as a factual description, but the intent cannot unless you somehow have unique insight into the person's mind. You can infer intent in this situation, but you can't really claim it as an objective fact.

That's not to mention that the two (action to create a viral video and the intent to truly act out of kindness) don't have to be mutually exclusive. For example, if I did the same to create a viral video with the intent to shape social norms, that would probably be a more moral decision than to create a viral video for monetary gain.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by mekoka on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:39PM (#32098331)
In other words, morality is relative to intent. I think the jury is still out on that.

Our planet has seen its fair share of saviors, liberators, purifiers, improvers of all sorts. And they've left us with a culture rich in clichés and aphorisms that teach us that although you can't make an omelette without breaking some eggs and the ends will eventually justify the means, the roads to hell remain paved with good intentions.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:44PM (#32098412)
Agree that there is no clear-cut answer. That’s what makes ethics hard.

On the flip side, consequentialism can justify all sorts of actions that are objectionable in other moral frameworks. Machiavelli isn’t usually thought of as a bastion of morality, and he coined the phrase “the ends justify the means”.

The best answer is probably somewhere in between, but I think many people prefer simple to nuanced answers.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by dncornholio on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:26AM (#32096476)
It's not her limitation. A limitation would be to not realise the true intent.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:41AM (#32096650)
Sorry, I don't follow, can you explain? The limitation I was referring to was in the OP references Kant theory, not to the person being filmed.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by vlunkr on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:32AM (#32095891)
Context has a big impact on intention. This video is a prime example of that.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by mikkergp on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:37AM (#32097426)
Social media has certainly bastardized this, but I think healthy behavior is often dependent on your natural instincts. If your instinct is towards virtue signaling, then advertising your genuine random act of kindness for the clout is probably bad.

But I'm shy and don't value social media clout. It then morally to me seems that despite the fact that you may judge me for advertising my "random acts of kindness" I should do it anyways, because if I inspire someone else to do said good act, I maximize the good in the world, even if it is a reputational hit to myself or I am embarrassed to do so. This seems compatible with the kingdom of ends, even if it is oppositional to what I see as the general interpretation of it, which is to do the best good, it must be done in private.

Anyways I guess in the spirit of this, I make micro-loans on Kiva (https://www.kiva.org/) and you should too ;-). Or take this time to donate to whatever cause you're passionate about.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by duxup on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:00AM (#32095503)
I dunno I disagree. Something can be kind and filmed.

The issue here is how it plays out the person gifted isn’t more than a prop.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by IG_Semmelweiss on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:03AM (#32095531)
I think the wikipedia article from OP makes a strong point that you may have missed.

Notice the wording "ENDS"

That would modify your statement as follows :

Something can be kind and filmed (provided.. ENDS).

OR restating your sentence:

"Something can be kind and filmed provided filming was not the goal of the kindness, and in fact filming was entirely unintended and unexpected"

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by silicon2401 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:06AM (#32095572)
I agree much more with your wording of the idea, though I still believe 100% it's possible to do something kind with the intention of filming it. If someone wants to donate a million dollars to me they're welcome to film it on a million cameras if they want
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by petercooper on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:27AM (#32095819)
MrBeast. He's almost universally lauded for his generosity and good deeds which are mostly funded by ad revenue or sponsors and seemingly done specifically for YouTube clout.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by flatline on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:31AM (#32096538)
My kids love Mr Beast. I have used the same word used here, “dehumanizing”, to describe him. The very premise places more value on money than people. It’s made for some great philosophical discussions with two ~10 year olds though.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by throwaway675309 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:16PM (#32103888)
Ugh. Everything about "MrBeast" I find marginally offensive. The way that he approaches the idea of unconditional charity is almost theatrical and smacks of sensationalism.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by phpisthebest on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:13AM (#32095648)
The flip side here is agreement on both sides, for me that is the moral question. Not that it was filmed, but that all parties should agreed to the filming.

Prearranging to film giving you a million dollars, is very different from just showing up an putting camera's in your face with out your foreknowledge or consent

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by silicon2401 on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:25AM (#32095796)
Then I think we may differ on whether we consider consent/agreement a part of kindness. I don't think it's that simple. I think an act can be kind but be delivered in an incompatible way. Asking someone how they're feeling after a breakup can be genuinely kind IMO, even if you didn't realize that that's the last thing they want to think about and asking them caused them to have an emotional breakdown that they blame you for. At this point I'm disregarding the tiktok thing entirely; I would still consider the million dollar gift to anyone an incredibly kind gesture, even if filmed without prior planning/agreement.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by IG_Semmelweiss on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:23AM (#32096429)
i think we are discussing separate points

OP commingled morals and kindness when his intent (now obvious to me after rereading) was to explicitly discuss morality of the situation.

You are exploring the morality of performing an action that violates moral norms (in this case, expectation of privacy)

We were exploring whether it is possible to be kind from an act if the end goal is obtain valuable exchange, off the act

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by azemetre on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:21AM (#32095742)
What about this story that the thread is discussing? The woman in question did not appreciate being filmed, is this still an example of kindness? Not trying to argue here just understanding your thought process, because I agree with the poster you replied to.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:58AM (#32096183)
I think the distinction comes from differing worldviews on moral behavior.

Consequentialists believe all that matters is the "ends". So even if I filmed something with the aim of patting myself on the back but it made people feel good, it's moral because the outcome was positive.

Others believe all that matters is intent. A good Samaritan may act recklessly and end up maiming somebody, but they acted morally because they had positive intent to offer aid.

(Of course, there's many other takes but those seem to be the one's germane to this part of the discussion).

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by ncallaway on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:24AM (#32097205)
I’ve really come to think of my moral framework as trying to maintain an Aristotle golden mean between Consequentialism and Deontology.

Both outcome and intent matter, and the tricky question is how to balance the two.

I don’t have a strong philosophical argument to justify the balance I aim to strike in daily life, but it definitely feels like both consequentialism and deontology fall down when left totally to their own devices.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by bumby on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:28AM (#32097277)
>the tricky question is how to balance the two.

I've heard people smarter than me advocate contractualism as a way of finding balance between the two.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by sixothree on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:57AM (#32096159)
Agreed. I don't see any kindness in this video at all.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by duxup on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:07AM (#32095575)
Yes I think that’s reasonable.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by jcynix on Thursday July 14, 2022 @09:41AM (#32095975)
From the description, the flowers weren't offered as a gift, but he asked her to hold them. And then disappeared. Just think of someone asking you told hold his stuff for a moment and then disappears. Now you have to care for something that's neither your's nor wanted? I'm tempted to call that obnoxious, not nice.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by TheDudeMan on Friday July 15, 2022 @11:50PM (#32115080)
Sure, it can still be kind. But it is not an act of kindness, it is an act of social media.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by TameAntelope on Thursday July 14, 2022 @03:38PM (#32100583)
Meh, virtue displays that still help people are fine by me.

I don't think this really helped anyone, but "dehumanizing" is an overreaction, IMO. "Mildly annoying" is probably the more accurate term.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by wahern on Thursday July 14, 2022 @05:32PM (#32101705)
Words like "dehumanizing" and "trauma" have lost their meaning. I was listening to an NPR program a few weeks ago discussing the Uvalde massacre where the speakers described the Uvalde families as being "traumatized" while also describing themselves (the speakers) as being "traumatized" by the online political debates over gun rights. They very briefly caught themselves, and at one point of them briefly, self-consciously excused themselves (something like, "not [traumatized] like the Ulvalde families"). Yet they continued (I lost count how many times) using and relishing in the word as a descriptor for their experience of the debates.

It's absurd and surreal, and yet here we are. People think they're being empathetic by applying these words more widely but it's really reflective of how disconnected people are from reality, and how much narcissistic license they've given themselves. Social media gives people an illusion that they're connected to others, but the effect has mostly been to turn the vast majority of people and issues into caricatures. One might even say it's "dehumanizing", but what's the point.

A decade or two ago the word for criticizing the TikTok video would have been "objectifying". That word got overused, too, but it still had academic connotations (from the feministic movement) that better contextualized the point someone was making. Sadly the political left PC movement has created such an arms race in linguistic virtue signaling that more precise, descriptive language is considered lacking in empathy and therefore, well, "dehumanizing".

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by TheDudeMan on Thursday July 14, 2022 @01:27PM (#32099018)
Even liking and sharing these videos is virtue signaling.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by golemotron on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:20AM (#32097150)
> It also turns the subject into an object of utility, a means and not and end in themself.

False dichotomy. It can be both.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by nonrandomstring on Thursday July 14, 2022 @11:51AM (#32097647)
> False dichotomy. It can be both.

I was about to agree, but then this is deeper than a simple binary. You are right if saying one could act towards another so as to benefit them and yourself. And, if so maximising the total utility that is utilitarianism. No dichotomy. However, and this why Kant's categorical imperative isn't utilitarianism, something cannot be both a means and and an end. A node in a tree cannot be both a parent and a leaf node.

Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by golemotron on Thursday July 14, 2022 @12:25PM (#32098110)
Why not? I can exercise both because it makes me feel good and because it is good for my health. There is no contradiction. I think people can tie themselves in knots looking for the true cause or intent. I'm not sure it matters or even exists in any way that matters.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by e-clinton on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:43AM (#32096684)
I disagree. If entertainment value can be extracted out of people doing good things, then we 100% should do that. The issue here is that the creator didn’t do a good thing. He should’ve offered the flowers outright and asked permission to post the video.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by cwkoss on Thursday July 14, 2022 @02:24PM (#32099700)
in the words of everlast: 'some people will rob their mother, for the ends'
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by t_mann on Thursday July 14, 2022 @04:14PM (#32100919)
Beautifully said.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by TheRealNGenius on Thursday July 14, 2022 @10:47AM (#32096731)
Tell that to mr beast.
Re:Woman ‘dehumanised’ by viral TikTok filmed without her co... by TheRealNGenius on Monday July 18, 2022 @05:50AM (#32136352)
what in the ever mother loving fuck did 9 year old beasturds just downvote me lol.