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Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by crdrost on Saturday September 11, 2021 @06:43PM (#28496781)
Related to this, there is an intimacy of small community which makes you feel valued and a proper contributor, that social networks really seem to oppose: they want to make the network bigger, you are part of the biggest world context, everybody on TikTok is eating a habanero while watching Bob Ross, so only if I do the same nonsense do I have a chance of 100 people noticing and liking the video and maybe opting to see more of my content.

When I put it that way it feels banal, but like, you know the “fast-growing subreddits” list on Reddit? There were meetings! Someone worked on that! People literally sat in a room and said effectively, “Hey Fatimeh, what is the status of the ‘make subreddits suck faster’ feature? Management is very interested in delivering that in Q3.” Right? Like this connection from global to personal is just automatically assumed, nobody spends a waking moment thinking it could be anything but that way.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by 2OEH8eoCRo0 on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:50PM (#28497214)
Could you imagine if hypothetically, HN suddenly became the world's most popular social network? It would be unusable for it's current purpose and no amount of moderating could ever fix that.

This sounds harsh but not everyone deserves to be heard all of the time- myself included.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by osrec on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:36AM (#28499298)
I especially hate the trend of people deliberately saying something controversial, to get more comments/likes/publicity.

One recent example is Piers Morgan in the UK, who randomly decided to criticise Emma Raducanu, a rather likeable British teenager, who just won the US open without dropping a set (including in qualifying rounds)! I can't understand why he would do that, other than to stir up some controversy, and get himself back in the public eye. Either way, it worked.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by cheschire on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:38AM (#28500250)
And now that you've shared it here, you've contributed to the success of the marketing campaign.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by quickthrower2 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:41AM (#28500274)
Kind of! I know who I’ll be ignoring now
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by woko on Monday September 13, 2021 @04:22AM (#28509028)
It would be interesting to monitor his number of followers before/after the controversy. For information, John Gibson, CEO of Tripwire Interactive, which is a videogame publisher, recently tweeted a controversial opinion about abortion, then had to step down from his job, yet his number of followers increased from 2.5K to 9K in the process.

This can be seen on websites like: https://socialblade.com/twitter/user/rammjaeger/monthly Picture: https://i.imgur.com/poc1QcE.png

Edit: when it comes to Piers Morgan, it does not seem to have been worth it. The last bump of followers happened in March.

Reference: https://socialblade.com/twitter/user/piersmorgan/monthly Picture: https://i.imgur.com/s7145UK.png

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by amelius on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:50AM (#28500325)
I generally have more respect for journalists than athletes, because the former group contributes more to society. But in this case, yuck.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by kQq9oHeAz6wLLS on Saturday September 11, 2021 @08:38PM (#28497516)
To quote David Duchovney:

"I think when I was younger I wanted to tell everybody everything, because I thought I was so damn interesting. Then I heard the snoring."

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by everdrive on Sunday September 12, 2021 @09:08AM (#28500812)
>This sounds harsh but not everyone deserves to be heard all of the time- myself included.

The exact same rules don't quite apply to real life, but they make for a nice comparison: in a small group of people (say, 4-5 people) no formal rules are needed. Generally, everyone will have a chance to speak and be heard. Imagine a a much larger group, say, 300 people. There's no way everyone can meaningfully be heard. In the real world no one goes into a group of 300 people to communicate with those 300 people. Usually there is a speaker or performer communicating them as an audience. Even if those 300 people wanted to set aside the time to listen to every audience member, it'd be meaningless: no one would remember anything meaningful from most of the 300 different speakers.

In any case, it should be obvious that group dynamics and the need for structure are modified by group size. A very large online community can never be intimate, and perfectly healthy communities can be irreparably damaged simply be in influx of people.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by smichel17 on Saturday September 11, 2021 @09:02PM (#28497634)
I like browsing HN from the Android app Materialistic because (1) I can't see votes on my posts and (2) it's difficult to find replies to my posts (you can view your profile, but jumping to a post only shows its ancestors, not replies). This combination, plus the annoyance of typing on a smartphone, means I usually * only comment when I have something that adds value to the conversation; I tend to engage more with the content and less "socially".

* Of course, there are exceptions, and I actually use hnreplies.com to get emails when someone replies to me, but there's enough of a delay that I usually am able to avoid getting caught up in a back-and-forth argument. Especially since, by the time I see the replies, someone else has already clarified my position :)

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by iszomer on Sunday September 12, 2021 @12:17AM (#28498589)
Materialistic used to be able to cache articles and comments when you saved a story (for offline consumption) but that is no longer the case. I've also only been able to export the list of stories *once* before as that feature is more or less broken at this point.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by jcun4128 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:56AM (#28499587)
That's interesting about the votes. I find myself complying/wanting to fit in to avoid the "dinging" feeling of being down voted ha. I also just use another account.

I get it though, there are mental tiers I know where I am. Thankfully I can at least make a decent living/do my own thing.

I'm also aware of effort too. Looking into something/asking.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by winternett on Monday September 13, 2021 @10:03AM (#28511634)
The bell of death tolls whenever a site gets flooded with reposts from TikTok... Reddit reached that point this year.

Engagement stats and views are the wrong KPIs to focus on for social media aites and most of us know it yet Product Managers are just trying to stay n their jobs and collect checks.

If you want to really succeed in creating a community like HN that lasts much longer than a cheap start up like ClubHouse, the key is to stay local, dedicated to a niche, keep ads controlled carefully, and be happy with smaller-scale operations rather than trying to dominate the world. Dominating the world is a very risky and high overhead venture meant only for those who can ask for a small million dollar loan from their father.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Barrin92 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:23AM (#28499713)
That basically happened with Usenet's 'Eternal September'

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eternal_September

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mdp2021 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:07AM (#28499209)
> no amount of moderating

There can be automated systems to fix that - to rank contributions, with the aim to boost the signal and reduce the noise, with the final aim to facilitate a lean and productive debate and information sharing; and also to connect contributions, to reduce dispersion, etc.

Such systems to rank contributions are related to the theory of voting systems (quantitative ranking of voters and options).

The aim of many big "social networks" is not «to facilitate a lean and productive debate and information sharing».

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by pathseeker on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:27AM (#28499269)
Those are based on the assumption that votes are equal. There are a lot of people I just don't have any interest in hearing from.

No automated system is going to fix eternal September style problems. And before you suggest that I could simply follow the groups I'm interested in, that's still not the same thing because the people in those groups will still be engaging with/distracted by the people I'm not following.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by lonk11 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @11:40AM (#28502135)
How about this way to automatically address the Eternal September problem:

When you upvote an item - you connect stronger to people who upvoted that same item.

When you downvote an item - you connection to those who upvoted it becomes weaker.

The content is ranked based on how strongly you are connected to people you upvoted each item.

That way when a lot of clueless/uninformed people come in and start upvoting useless to you content - they don't create noise in your personalized content list.

The content you see comes from people who have proven to find useful content for you.

This is how my hobby project https://linklonk.com works.

I did a Show HN a week ago and that post has more details: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=28405659

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mattowen_uk on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:50PM (#28503233)
On the surface this seems reasonable, but in reality I think the users would end up inside echo chambers very quickly.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by lonk11 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @08:23PM (#28506507)
Yes, an echo chamber is a concern. But unlike other systems, you are in total control of who you get your content from. You are responsible for what you see. Which I think is the best place to have this responsibility. This does not work for everyone (e.g., kids don't know what is better for them), but hopefully many people will find it useful.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mdp2021 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @02:10PM (#28503403)
> Those are based on the assumption that votes are equal

No, absolutely not. Voters can be categorized, clusterized and ranked, already as part of voting systems theory (one single example in the latter: election of electors), and more beyond it.

> No automated system is going to fix eternal September style problems

And why not. One example: views filtering contribution by score.

> people in those groups will still be engaging with/distracted by

Not necessarily, if they are given the option to avoid that.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mrweasel on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:46AM (#28499795)
Moderation is something I've been think about lately. So fare the best idea I've come up with is "hide all posts by default", then randomly show a post or comment to something like 5 - 20% for the other users. Only when a post then reaches some level of likes/upvotes/whatever will that post open up to comments and be visible to all other users of the platform. If it fails to reach the required number of votes in 24 hours is will just be deleted.

Most social media platforms are simply to big to moderate in any meaningful way, in my opinion. AI has so far show to be ineffective, as show by comments and open letters from Facebooks human moderation staff.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by tcmart14 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:27AM (#28499266)
It could be automated, but would we want it to be? I don't get to see twitter's or facebook's back-end, but my guess is there is probably already a large sum of automation. Which leads to some of the very things people are complaining about. Right now, I don't see a path forward for automating moderating, meanwhile appeasing everyone. So, I think we would just see the same criticisms of HN emerge that are already present on the mainstream social networking platforms. People would just figure out a way with bots to sway the voting to suppress a voice or lift a voice artificially (something that is probably already done on twitter with people in both directions across all spectrum of opinions).

I could be wrong, I hope I am wrong.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mdp2021 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @02:25PM (#28503524)
> would we want it to be?

Do we want to live in a sophisticated democracy as opposed to a naïve democracy? Some would.

Would you like to be part of an information exchange and debate platform using sophisticated systems as opposed to an open billboard? Some would.

It is very doable. It was done in history and it can be done technically in many ways.

Take for example HN: before you can downvote, you must have consolidated your position as contributor. Very simple - yet affecting the result, the "experience". Much more sophisticated techniques can be used.

Malicious parties could attack a system exploiting its weaknesses: yes, this is why take precautions like testing systems theoretically and practically, and implement defence systems.

> automating moderating

The point is not to automate moderation - it is not about the work of DanG. It is about reducing the noise generated by users "in development" and boosting the signal donated by "developed" users.

In the area of "ranking according to the favouring of favoured users, recursively" is a way to implement it.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by tcmart14 on Monday September 13, 2021 @03:06AM (#28508630)
Interesting, I did not know that one had to be a 'developed' user to be able to down vote. I may have to look more into the history of this and see some examples of implementations. Thanks for the info!
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by burnished on Monday September 13, 2021 @08:37AM (#28510699)
It happens at 500 karma, and even then there are times you can't I think, such as direct responses to you.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by tester756 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:24AM (#28499477)
dang as a service doesn't scale
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by austincheney on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:54AM (#28499576)
I have already observed the worst case scenario of this context on HN.

It was a thread about an application correcting for some aspects of ADHD. With ADHD persons there is already an information filtering disorder of variable degree; specifically an inability to separate ones-self from a context of conversation, subject matter, or even the logical distance therein. This means that under an extreme case it only takes a single person to mimic the effects of a social network echo chamber of heightened sensitivity. That thread was bizarre in that many comment replies were wildly on a tangent from their respective GP comment and the emotion expressed was completely off the chart for HN.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by vic-traill on Sunday September 12, 2021 @09:02AM (#28500769)
I gave up on Usenet newsgroups when the noise in groups of interest (mainly rec.music., comp.lang. and comp.sys.*) led to me spending too much time managing my killfile in relation to actually reading and replying to news.

It really was too much to self-moderate your way through. The volume was just too much. As well, you couldn't sort through the trash to find the pearls.

The volume was a trickle compared to volume today. I don't have a source for this assertion, but I think it is reasonable.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mattowen_uk on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:54PM (#28503268)
On the basis that all the spammers have moved onto riper fruit such as Facebook and Twitter, I do wonder if Usenet will see a resurgent, after all in the good groups it's just a federated version of HN in style.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by taylorportman on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:46AM (#28500302)
How does hackaday do it? I think it is the focus on details, the absence of popularity metrics that tend to skew in favor of distracting comedies.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by amelius on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:52AM (#28500336)
Perhaps it's the light text on black background, a colorscheme that would suit a site called hacker news also.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by AltonWells on Monday September 13, 2021 @02:26AM (#28508389)
That sounds horrible. This place has become a little solace of mine. There’s probably some theoretical threshold for when a community grows to a certain size it becomes more and more difficult to having meaningful discourse. The noise becomes too great
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by peakaboo on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:46AM (#28499538)
It's the same with Linux. If it would be super popular and mainstream, the corporations would destroy everything that's fun with it in order to sell you things and track your data.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by WesolyKubeczek on Sunday September 12, 2021 @06:08AM (#28499870)
They already do. Not everything even in the server segment is unicorns and rainbows; a lot of corporate “fauxpen source” is SDKs for proprietary hosted services, and paid staff working on those “OSS” offerings is more about “building a vibrant community” (read: extracting free labor) and making sure the only contributions accepted are those that narrowly match their internal roadmaps (which reinforces my previous point).

I mean, it’s still better than closed source SDKs with bugs unfixed for years and books written about working around them, but that would be a pretty low bar anyway.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by lioeters on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:25AM (#28500181)
TIL:

> fauxpen source

> Etymology: a term invented by Phil Marsosudiro at a dinner party in North Carolina

> Date: 2 May 2009

> A description of software that claims to be open source, but lacks the full freedoms required by the Open Source Definition. http://www.opensource.org/docs/definition.php

> synonyms: see open core, neo-proprietary

> antonyms: see Linux kernel, Apache, OpenNMS

https://www.linuxjournal.com/content/open-vs-fauxpen (2009)

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by notanzaiiswear on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:37AM (#28499767)
Like Android?
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by squarefoot on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:19AM (#28500147)
Sorta, although to get to that point it had to lose 99% of what it needs to call it Linux.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mananaysiempre on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:33PM (#28497107)
This strongly reminds me of Kornhauser’s three levels of social relations (Politics of Mass Society, 1959):

> We can conceive of all but the simplest societies as comprising three levels of social relations. The first level consists of highly personal or primary relations, notably the family. The third level contains relations inclusive of the whole population, notably the state. The second level comprises all intermediate relations, notably the local community, voluntary association, and occupational group.

Etc., the argument being that much of the socially important parts and ills of industrialization, urbanization, and the ensuing mass society are reducible to the dissolution of the second level and the transferral of its customary characteristics and behaviours (strong attachment, group identity, and so on) to the third.

But that’s mostly me channelling my history teachers, not original thought, so maybe someone who actually knows this stuff can say more.

Lest this be perceived as doomsaying, let me mention that Russian-language LiveJournal seemed to retain that small-town feel up until the very end (early 2010s) despite the considerable number of readers and commenters (thousands of readers for the most popular post on a slow day—much less than on Facebook, much more than you could ever possibly know). Possibly that’s because the number of writers (worth following) was much smaller, due to the higher effort required for long-form posts.

Again, people with more experience in older online communities should know more about this, as that was the only thriving one I experienced personally.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by FabiansSuck111 on Saturday September 11, 2021 @11:21PM (#28498358)
You can reduce all of this to the simple observation that:

There are little consequences when the pool of people you have access to is massive; and there remains no reason to become emotionally invested in a certain "core" of people, when you can easily jump to another if that "core" is not perfect.

This leads to a feedback loop that stunts relationship "depth."

Or further: when you have options, the default modus operandi is to not become completely invested into any single one -- you can always "jump" to another, and are always on the lookout for "greener pastures."

People have more options than they used to.

As much as I craved these "second level" (and even "first level") social relations, over the years I've become assimilated and contribute to the aforementioned feedback loop.

The "ills" of modern life have been exponentially increasing, but for the future generations they are simply "life."

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Dracophoenix on Sunday September 12, 2021 @09:54PM (#28507047)
You say that like the alternative is any better. Historically small communities with high levels of "investment" had a heavy hand over the lives of their community members. They're practically cults that exist to "save" their investment from outside influences. To Kill a Mockingbird demonstrates how such societies function.

In my opinion, it's good to have options. It's good not to have an X-or-bust social investment in a particular community because, as the 20th century has demonstrated, communities don't last forever. They change, they warp, they include, they exclude, they rise ,and they disappear. Societies are built to serve an instrumental function. When a society fails to provide that function in any meaningful way, people will vote with their feet when they can find another goal that suits their purposes. Even if such a goal is outside their current limits. This his been the way of humanity for thousands of years, so I don't understand why should we stop people from having options. I don't see a reason why people risk sinking with a ship they no longer have an interest being aboard.

Ideally one would have an arrangement that mimics the Viennese Cafe societies. Strict but fair rules on conduct, but ultimately leaving personal agency to oneself and one's confidants .

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by waynesonfire on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:04AM (#28498758)
Interesting, also why online dating can be difficult.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by dylan604 on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:15PM (#28496996)
>When I put it that way it feels banal,

It is banal, at least the largest portion of social media is. Originally, I could see the usefulness of FB with connecting with friends near & far, sharing, planning, etc. All sounds useful, but then FB turned it creepy with their method of monetizing their products and algos to pull the strings to make it as addicting as possible. Insta, TikTok, etc has pretty much fully embraced the dark side of social. LOOK AT ME!!! LIKE ME!!! FOLLOW ME!!! Again, with the tweaking of the algos to up the addiction factor. All in the name of "engagement".

YouTube already made me nervous, but there's definitely some people creating content there that is not about that at all so I don't lump them in with the others.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by vlunkr on Saturday September 11, 2021 @10:48PM (#28498197)
I don't know if it's just nostalgia talking, but I feel like a decade ago Facebook really was good at connecting people. I enjoyed it, because most of the content was real people you knew having conversations, or sharing pictures they had taken. I eventually left because it was honestly just boring. My timeline was nothing but shared posts from big content pages, which of course became mostly bad politics over time.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by smegger001 on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:56PM (#28497251)
>Originally, I could see the usefulness of FB with connecting with friends near & far, sharing, planning,

honestly I would love social networks that was just that but as it is now i actively avoid most social media outside of small niche communities (certain subreddits that relate to fairly narrow interest fan communities for a couple of authors that sort of thing [i don't fallow any default subs], hacker news, and a couple of small discord servers for open source projects and small podcasts)

but everything for talking to friends and family and keeping up on there lives is either been turned into a politically toxic battleground or monetized into unusability.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by kentm on Saturday September 11, 2021 @10:25PM (#28498088)
Anything online funded by primarily by advertising will necessarily turn creepy or exploitive. Advertising always demands more engagement so there will be teams of people trying to game you for that engagement.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by rg111 on Saturday September 11, 2021 @11:51PM (#28498494)
> I could see the usefulness of FB with connecting with friends near & far, sharing, planning, etc.

When I used FB, I used it as a non-professional LinkedIn. Like, networking, but for people outside of your professional network.

Being connected to people who are not so close that you shared your cell number, but still wanted to stay connected.

(Email isn't big where I live)

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Buttons840 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:25AM (#28499258)
I've thought of creating a social network that groups people into small groups of 100 or so, by interests and location. I would advertise it as a chance to escape the monoculture and explain that the cost if you must participate a minimum amount, like 1 post or comment per week on average or something. And then you could mix up the groups every year or two. It would have its pros and cons, but it would achieve the goal of letting small groups form and create their own cultures. It would also succeed regardless of its size, so long as you have enough users to form a small group.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by capableweb on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:14AM (#28499448)
You're effectively describing Scuttlebutt in a nutshell. Small communities that are formed ad-hoc by peering with each other. "Follow" mean you'll help replicate their content for others who follow them + you. Scuttlebutt is already successful even though it's very small so far. Tags and other things can be used to explore content on the network, as long as you've found an entry-point.

I'm a bit split about spreading the word about Scuttlebutt, I don't want to ruin it since it's already so great. But felt it was very related to what you were writing, so here goes nothing :)

In case you wanna join: https://scuttlebutt.nz/

The client I'm using is https://github.com/ssbc/patchwork

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by peakaboo on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:44AM (#28499530)
The name is awful. I certainly don't want to spread the word about "scuttlebutt". So I guess that's a good thing, keeps it small and cosy.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mikro2nd on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:56AM (#28500363)
What is so awful about "scuttlebutt"? In the old days, when ships were wooden, real sailors were pressed, etc., etc., every ship had a water container available to the sailors -- a water butt -- bigger than a puncheon but smaller than a tun. So sailors would share gossip (probably about how misguided their management was) -- scuttle -- around the water butt, hence "scuttlebutt".

Where's the "awful"?

eta: Exactly what we today refer to as "water cooler chatter/gossip"

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by aendruk on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:52PM (#28503254)
Having never been in the old days, the word scuttlebutt isn’t in my vocabulary, but I do know scuttle (scamper) and butt (buttocks). Scampering buttocks, the meaning I would surmise in the absence of your history lesson, is indeed an awful choice of name if the network is aspiring for general appeal.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by chasedehan on Monday September 13, 2021 @10:45AM (#28512157)
In the US military “scuttlebutt” refers to gossip. So that’s my first reaction to this name.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by capableweb on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:51AM (#28499809)
You sound like the same person who could never work on a ship as there is a "poop deck", and you could of course never refer to it as such, poop is a bad word!

Also, never try archery as some people might try to use the word "prickshaft" towards you. The horror.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by ColinWright on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:54AM (#28499825)
The first part of what you say is similar to what's happening with some parts of Mastodon. There are many, many small instances that are (apparently) starting to develop their own cultures, but you can still see what other people are saying because of federation.

The ideas of requiring engagement, and mixing the groups, are interesting, but I'm not sure how they'd work. I've seen the "You must engage" idea applied elsewhere without success, so it needs a little more work.

Even so, I think your ideas have promise.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by blondin on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:59PM (#28497270)
wonderful remark.

i have this nagging feeling that nothing good ever comes out when there is a large group of people involved. and that the most successful communities, teams or groups are small. i have seen small communities ruined when they got big or niche communities wrecked when they went mainstream. time and again. but we keep pushing for larger groups, larger teams, more networking, more friends, etc...

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by BeefWellington on Saturday September 11, 2021 @08:50PM (#28497564)
> i have this nagging feeling that nothing good ever comes out when there is a large group of people involved. and that the most successful communities, teams or groups are small. i have seen small communities ruined when they got big or niche communities wrecked when they went mainstream. time and again. but we keep pushing for larger groups, larger teams, more networking, more friends,

This made me think of the quote from Men in Black:

> A person is smart. People are dumb, panicky dangerous animals and you know it.

I think there's some major exceptions but they require heavy-handed moderation. Notable among these is the AskHistorians subreddit. You could argue though they're the exception that proves the rule.

I will say though, I'm a frequent participant in a few topic-specific forum, and I think if anything the concentration to places like Reddit, Facebook groups, and Discord has helped these places quite a bit in the exact way you suggest. They've been insulated because they're too obscure now and that has allowed them all to largely have reasonable organic growth, rather than explosive "hug of death" style sudden growth. I just hope that lasts.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by mdp2021 on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:40AM (#28499308)
Small communities need less management. Population increase in the community offer chances of acquiring new assets: it has potential.

Management is everything: creating an environment and systems that facilitate the best allocation of resources.

Of course if your small team of three already contains "the masters", the result can be e.g. the CBM C64. And, they say, "in ancient Athens democracy was easier". But the small team did great thing because of the quality of its members, and a small community is facilitated by a reduced noise. Quality of members and noise control are the problem of management.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by stavros on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:04PM (#28496929)
Nitpick: There's no ñ in habanero.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Stratoscope on Saturday September 11, 2021 @09:02PM (#28497628)
And in fact that informs how to pronounce the word. It's not hah-buh-NYAIR-oh, it's hah-buh-NAIR-oh.

A similar one that I used to get wrong all the time is empanada. No ñ in that either, but I always said em-puh-NYAH-duh. Then one day I noticed it was just a regular n and it is pronouced em-puh-NAH-duh.

Now for a really embarrassing one. This was back in the day when I was working with my friend and colleague Alan Cooper (of interaction design fame) on what became Visual Basic. We were on a phone call and I said something about a zhuh-NAIR of music. Alan asked "what's that?" I explained that it was like a category or a particular style. He said "do you mean ZHAHN-ruh?"

It's funny how these embarrassing moments stick in your brain. I could tell you exactly where I was, and even which direction I was facing when we had that conversation.

But I was grateful that Alan corrected me and I won't sound like a fool any more when I talk about a genre.

I had one friend who would never gracefully accept a correction like that. One time he told me about a neighbor who "took his dog to the pond." I said "that's nice, does the dog like to go swimming?" He said "no, the POND, the place where they put dogs to sleep."

He went through his whole life mispronouncing "dog pound", and many, many other words.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by stavros on Saturday September 11, 2021 @09:04PM (#28497644)
A Chinese colleague of mine liked to say that "there are many ways to peel a cat".
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Stratoscope on Saturday September 11, 2021 @09:07PM (#28497671)
Ouch. As someone who lives with three dogs and three cats, that one hits close to home.

One of our cats thinks she is my girlfriend! When I go to bed, she immediately jumps on the bed next to me and places herself right where my hand is, so I can scratch her back and tummy.

No cat peeling here!

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by pathseeker on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:31AM (#28499278)
I love these idiom screw-ups. One of my coworkers once tried to use an English idiom and it came out, "let's not beat a horse to death."
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by usui on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:04AM (#28499617)
The worst offenders are ones that can be solved logically if the person spent 5 seconds to think.

"I could care less" vs "I could not care less"

The amount of people who defend the former with their own head-canon is frightening. Ones I have heard are "It's sarcastic" and "I care so little that I won't put the extra effort into caring less"

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Stratoscope on Sunday September 12, 2021 @06:18AM (#28499909)
Steven Pinker and other linguists would like a word with you:

https://www.google.com/search?q=steven+pinker+i+could+care+l...

From Pinker's book The Language Instinct (p.377 or 389 depending on the edition):

> A tin ear for prosody (stress and intonation) and an obliviousness to the principles of discourse and rhetoric are important tools for the language maven. Consider an alleged atrocity committed by today's youth: the expression I could care less. The teenagers are trying to express disdain, the adults note, in which case they should be saying I couldn't care less. If they could care less than they do, that means that they really do care, the opposite of what they are trying to say. But if these dudes would stop ragging on teenagers and scope out the construction, they would see that their argument is bogus. Listen to how the two versions are pronounced:

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     COULDN'T care
                    LE
                      ESS.
  i
  
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  I
            CARE
                  LE
                    ESS.
     could
  
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> The melodies and stresses are completely different, and for a good reason. The second version is not illogical, it's sarcastic. The point of sarcasm is that by making an assertion that is manifestly false or accompanied by ostentatiously mannered intonation, one deliberately implies its opposite. A good paraphrase is, “Oh yeah, as if there was something in the world that I care less about.”

But I hear you and sympathize with your point of view. I have been there myself. It didn't make sense to me that people would use a word or phrase in any meaning other than its literal one.

Especially a word like "literally", right?

Merriam-Webster has a article on that. It's literally the best article ever written!

https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/misuse-of-lite...

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by a_e_k on Sunday September 12, 2021 @04:43AM (#28499527)
I discovered just this evening that the approach I try to use to correct my kids on that sort of thing was described by Marcus Aurelius:

> From Alexander the grammarian: to avoid fault-finding and not to censure in a carping spirit any who employ an exotic phrase, a solecism, or harsh expression, but oneself to use, neatly and precisely, the correct phrase, by way of answer or confirmation or handling of the actual question—the thing, not its verbal expression—or by some other equally happy reminder.

https://en.wikisource.org/wiki/The_Meditations_of_the_Empero...

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by pezezin on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:57AM (#28499830)
I will never be able to understand English phonetic approximations. Spanish is my mother language and I don't know how they are supposed to sound like xD

In any case, "empañada" is a real word, it mean's "foggy", but used for glasses, not for the weather itself. For example, "tengo las gafas empañadas" -> "my glasses are foggy"

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by Stratoscope on Sunday September 12, 2021 @05:12AM (#28499664)
I just remembered a couple more of my late friend's interesting pronunciations:

"Old-timer's disease" (Alzheimer's)

"Valentime's Day"

Too late to correct him now! May he rest in peace.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by b3morales on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:46PM (#28503197)
Old-timer's/Alzheimer's probably qualifies as an Eggcorn: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eggcorn

(In fact I see that it is mentioned at the beginning of that article!)

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by tacostakohashi on Saturday September 11, 2021 @07:10PM (#28496960)
Don't be such a ñitpicker.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by dredmorbius on Saturday September 11, 2021 @09:07PM (#28497664)
The proper form, when turned to 11, is haban̈ero.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by crdrost on Sunday September 12, 2021 @12:08AM (#28498558)
Thanks! Fixed.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by d0mine on Sunday September 12, 2021 @12:41AM (#28498674)
I'm willing to bet that my fyp on tiktok is much different from yours.

Niche subreddits could have been the solution. It is the specific implementation suck, not the idea of openness of a subgroup to new comers e.g., there can be a feeling community while participating in an open source project even if anybody may join.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by ramijames on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:36AM (#28498847)
Growth is always the default expectation. It's part of humanity at this point. I personally feel that it is destructive. I hate the idea that static and stagnant are NEGATIVES. They are not. They have value.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by WesolyKubeczek on Sunday September 12, 2021 @07:13AM (#28500108)
In a niche community, even to be stable you need slow growth, even if at a trickle pace. The simple reason is that some formerly active people grow disinterested and move on, some grow old, some die.

You need such a stream of newcomers that within their first, say, 500 contributions they get savvy enough to fit in and carry the momentum. You also need enough people who understand and tend to the spirit of the community so they can successfully oppose a famed veteran who may suddenly go renegade.

Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by dukeyukey on Sunday September 12, 2021 @03:34PM (#28504140)
I think humanity is meant to work to a "grow and bud model", where when a community starts getting unmanageably large, a number "bud off" and form their own. Like how the Greek city-states formed associated colonies across the Mediterranean, or how large friend groups almost always have sub0units within them. It even happens to subreddits, but since it hurts the network effect social media companies strive for they want to prevent this happening.
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by b3morales on Sunday September 12, 2021 @01:55PM (#28503269)
"Stagnant" definitely has negative connotations; better words might be "stable", "steady", "established"...
Re:Social Networks: It's worse than you think (2020) by bckr on Sunday September 12, 2021 @10:29AM (#28501462)
Louis Menand's The Free World, a history of public thought in the cold war era, recently taught me about the relationship of the masses and totalitarianism.

The relationship appears to be : destroy classes & traditional relationships -> produce masses & the mob -> totalitarianism arises out of the masses' anxiety and the mob's despotic idiocy.

Something like how too many chickens in a big barn can't form hierarchies and so live in a perpetual panic, except along comes a Big Chicken who makes everyone feel better because they finally know their place again.

I hope something different and less awful happens. But the early results are worrying.

Can we just pull the plug on this experiment, please?