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Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by bvinc on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:34PM (#18591492)
My daughter at 12 got sucked into Tumblr and developed an eating disorder. She was in this gigantic web of pro-ana tumblrs with crazy diet plans that tell you to eat like 100 calories a day. Then the app would just keep suggesting more, "skin and bones", "thinspo", "meanspo". Holy crap there are some scary corners of Tumblr.

I of course am more mindful of what she looks at, but she was hiding it and I can't monitor everything.

It's hard to balance my love of free speech with the responsibilities of myself, these bs Tumblr pages, and the app suggestions.

From what I've seen, Tumblr can be a very toxic place and I could understand why advertisers would have problems with the content that ends up next to their ads.

I wish them luck trying to figure out this mess.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dvtrn on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:48PM (#18591640)
My daughter at 12 got sucked into Tumblr and developed an eating disorder.

I'm really sorry to hear this, having gone through a similar thing with a now ex-significant other.

She too became very active in the segments of tumblr you identified and others (showed me many of them, some seemed like teenage angst in blog form, others were far more...worrisome), developed an eating disorder along with severe anxiety issues, and in my attempts to remain empathetic, supportive but cautionary about the affects those groups had had on her in the last two years of a five year relationship, she abruptly called it quits on our relationship and walked away.

Citing the anxiety was too much for a relationship, to this day I can't help but look back and wonder if those groups were partly to blame given how recent her changes were leading up to us parting ways.

This wasn't a 12 year old adolescent as it was in your case, she was-up to that point-a healthy, happy 34 year old woman with a great career in the corporate world. Our relationship was healthy, we had a track record of building each other up and improving as people together. If there was something going on under the surface for these groups to infiltrate and exacerbate to the point of us breaking up, she did an amazing job suppressing it. The decline however was swift, immediate and depressing. Each time I'd try to be involved and supportive to help her out, I always got rebuffed and turned away until, well like I said she decided to just walk away from our relationship. To say I'm still stunned would be an understatement.

Good luck with your daughter, I hope what you and your family must be going through improves for the better

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jacquesm on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:05PM (#18593588)
These online groups have the same advantage that many other cults have over their victims: they can re-try until they find enough buttons to press that work to bring out the vulnerable people. It's like negotiating against a much more experienced adversary: you're going to lose.

The only way to deal with that stuff is not to get exposed to it in the first place. Something similar happens with advertising, there too the best recipe is not to be exposed, not to think that you are strong enough to withstand it.

One way in which these groups succeed is by alienating their victims from anybody that would empower them with common sense. Parents, siblings, spouses are all pushed away with tricks honed over many encounters.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by leppr on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:03PM (#18594057)
What does a "pro-ana" group gain from attracting new members ? Seems to me the dynamics are very different from a cult, where members are asked for money/work, and to bring new followers.

This is mostly just teens discovering fetishes and sharing them to feel better about it.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jacquesm on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:05PM (#18594075)
To drag in new members in order to normalize their own behavior. The more people do it the more normal you feel.

Lots of cults are like that, not all of them have money or labor as their prime motivators.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by madamelic on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:23PM (#18594225)
>What does a "pro-ana" group gain from attracting new members?

Friends. I'm 'part' of a pretty positive one (they allow thinspo but don't encourage it, no one is shamed for speaking about anything they want) and I think in the right conditions, it is actual helpful.

Many people (see thread) shame those with eating disorders and being around others can help recovery by being exposed to others with the disorder, even without having to be shamed by messages. Huge asterisk though. :)

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by everdrive on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:42PM (#18594356)
There are a lot of valid answers to this, but I honestly feel like they can all be boiled down to the same idea: people organize into groups, no matter what.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by wtracy on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:33PM (#18594698)
Don't discount the possibility that these groups generally believe that they are helping others through outreach.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by wtracy on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:31PM (#18594678)
Does anyone have any resources that explore how these groups achieve these things? (Especially the process of alienating inductees from friends and family--that's scary stuff.)

It seems like understanding how these systems work would be a prerequisite for protecting your loved ones (or even yourself!).

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jacquesm on Monday December 03, 2018 @08:23PM (#18594993)
Read up on Scientology. It's pretty much a textbook example of how it is done.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Disconnection

See also, the Fishman affidavit and a lot of other bits and pieces of the COS internal documents that were leaked or published.

https://kspaink.home.xs4all.nl/fishman/home.html

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by barry-cotter on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:42PM (#18594743)
This is bull. I have had ample exposure to far right and far left groups and their philosophy as well as many varieties of weird deviant porn and a plethora of other subcultures the wider world would look askance at. I fall pretty squarely within normal.

Online subcultures can’t target people because online subcultures don’t have memories, minds or goals. They are distributed patterns of behaviour, beliefs and norms, which attract people or not based more on the people than the subculture.

Brainwashing doesn’t work. The cult panic was bull. You can’t change people’s minds outside of a totalitarian society. They change their own minds.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jacquesm on Monday December 03, 2018 @08:20PM (#18594959)
> Brainwashing doesn’t work.

It looks like there is ample evidence to the contrary. The fact that it doesn't work on you is great but the number of cults out there that have successfully managed to co-opt large numbers of otherwise pretty intelligent people (and let's not get started on religion) and that have managed to get these people to act against their self interest, to harm people they loved and to do things they would never ever do under normal circumstances is proof positive that brainwashing does in fact work.

To say that they 'change their own minds' is victim blaming of the very worst sort.

Groups and pressure from groups on an individual are extremely effective means to get people to conform. The need to belong is extremely strong and a very powerful button to press and all kinds of groups have abused this and other psychological levers to gain power over others.

So yes, online subcultures which consist of large number of individuals are able to influence other individuals. They have a collective memory and they act as emergent structures that have a lot more power than each individual.

Your personal experience is - unfortunately - not a very good guide for this.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by barry-cotter on Tuesday December 04, 2018 @02:05AM (#18597020)
If brainwashing doesn’t work why don’t you rule the world? Why doesn’t somebody? If there is a known or knowable with some research way of altering the goals and beliefs of people permanently outside (or including) totalitarianism I am unaware of it. If you are aware I would appreciate some citations. If brainwashing worked a whole hell of a lot more of the world would be communist in name and fact than is the case for either now.

If people do things mostly because they want to do them is victim blaming where is individual responsibility for anything? We are all enmeshed in society and systems of social control (but I repeat myself).

Groups and pressure from groups on people to belong may be extremely strong but the overwhelming majority of people belong only to the most anodyne inoffensive subcultures, thoroughly accepted by the host society, whether they be a religion, political persuasion, musical taste or athletic subculture. People dip their toe into a subculture and if they like it they either start paddling or jump right in. Most of them try multiple subcultures and eventually settle on a small number to continue in or none.

Online subcultures are no more, and probably less, able to influence other individuals than offline ones. They’re just more attractive because you can find the one that’s just right for you. People move to be around others like them, gay men and lesbians to Amsterdam, Berlin, Paris, New York, hippies to San Francisco in the 60’s, people into dance music to Detroit or Chicago, rationalists to Berkeley and the Bay. The only way emergent structures and collective memory can have _control_ over free people is through their free choice.

My personal experience is as excellent a guide as yours. I do not see successful brain washing. I see subcultures, some deeply unhealthy, attracting people who find them congenial.

Here’s a literature review on brain washing and how it doesn’t work.

https://www.lesswrong.com/posts/TiG8cLkBRW4QgsfrR/notes-on-b...

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jacquesm on Tuesday December 04, 2018 @03:12AM (#18597364)
As much as I'm a fan of Gwern's work the conclusion he reaches is dead wrong. A high rate of attrition does not prove that brain washing does not work. It proves it works as long as a victim can be kept isolated, see previous comment about how cults do what they can to isolate their followers. The converse is also true, family and friends already belonging to some group is a powerful agent to keep an individual in that group.

So all of this is about belonging and how to get someone to move from one camp to another.

Scientology and all the other cults out there have to live by the same sword that they die by: influence. And the fact that there are online support groups for some of these cults is a powerful anti-dote.

Some groups are simply more effective at isolating their followers from people who really have their best interest at heart.

I'll do you the courtesy of continuing the conversation on your terms, you want to call this brainwashing and if that's it then it works. If you want brain washing to refer to the CIA being able to program people then that indeed does not work. It requires constant upkeep and maintenance as well as the will of the victim to belong to some group to begin with. But once that condition is met the victims can be made to do a lot of stuff they would not otherwise do.

If you have not seen firsthand how cults can take otherwise normally functioning people and drive a wedge between them and their loved ones to see their lives taken over then I don't think your - or Gwern's - faulty conclusions count for much. It's bad enough that this happens, it is much worse to see people deny it because that essentially leaves the victims of cults without any support at all, which effectively enables the cults.

For many people - including many people who are simply religious - fear of being thrown out of the in-group is sufficient to get them to act against their own self-interest.

Quite a few religions have this practice and members have been known to kill themselves for the simple reason of being thrown out of the group they've been a part of for all of their lives simply because they are who they are. To see you dismiss this so callously because of a link to a narrowly researched article that has a conclusion that skips a few thousand years of evidence to the contrary seems a bit of a short-cut.

Take for instance Catholicism and the fear of excommunication, a powerful form of peer pressure where the people thrown out of the group are shunned.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Excommunication

here is another interesting view on the original subject, eating disorders and the kind of pressure they flourish under:

http://nedic.ca/eating-disorders-and-depression-story-surviv...

Not to mention the kind of pressure your typical ballet dancer is under (or fashion models for that matter).

None of these rate a mention in your finely researched link, and that is the sort of thing I was getting at before you moved the goalposts.

Isolating people from their friends and family is a tried and true method of cults (including mainstream religions) the world over. It usually starts with attacking the identity of the person and driving a wedge between them and their families or friends. Can't have that kind of interference if you're going to get away with the next stage.

That's a very practical approach. For an encore, of course it helps to start with targeting people who are already in a fairly weak position socially.

For more examples of how strangers get into your head and make you do stuff you don't actually have a self-interest in see advertising, aka applied psychology. Attack the persons self-image and presto, you can sell beauty and fashion products much more easily. Buy our shitty product and you too can be loved.

Of course in basis everybody has agency and you could if you are really strongly opinionated resist all of this. But even for the most die-hard resisters the fact is that all of this works, and works ridiculously well. The best way to stay on the right side of the line is to avoid exposure and that is getting harder and harder.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by gwern on Thursday December 06, 2018 @02:53PM (#18621470)
> As much as I'm a fan of Gwern's work the conclusion he reaches is dead wrong. A high rate of attrition does not prove that brain washing does not work

Yes, it does. What else could possibly show it doesn't work better than the fact that it doesn't work?

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by doodliego on Tuesday December 04, 2018 @12:07AM (#18596453)
Your sample size of one is incredibly convincing. /s

People who are isolated, bullied, low self-esteem, shut-ins, suffering mental illnesses, or a host of other factors can and do fall into echo chambers of radicalization and extremism. You see the results in the news every day. Of course forms of it exist, like what happened to op's daughter.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by barry-cotter on Tuesday December 04, 2018 @01:32AM (#18596877)
I don’t have a sample size of one. I have the evidence of my eyes. Incredibly successful social movements look like the Mormons or Corbyn’s Labour, not some master brain washers who can take mentally healthy people and make them join a cult or other social movement and never leave. The Church of Jesus Christ of the Latter Day Saints is the most successful new religion of the past two centuries, possibly excluding the Baha’i. It has some weird and crazy beliefs and demands a level of commitment and community involvement that most Europeans or Americans would balk at and the average missionary spends two years trying to convert people. And most of them get nothing. I don’t even live in America and I know two ex-Mormons and one who based on his lifestyle will soon be an ex-Mormon. I hope I don’t need to convince you that Corbynism has been very successful indeed. It took over the main opposition party in the U.K. Much as I’m impressed by their fervour and convenient as they’ve made becoming a member of the Labour Party most of these people will not be Labour Party members in ten years, possibly five. They’ll get older and more cynical and age out of thinking they can make a difference in politics, Corbin will get into government and disappoint them, they won’t have enough cash to renew their membership. And that’s a successful political movement!

People aren’t brain washed. They make choices, sometimes shitty self destructive choices, occasionally deluded ones. But they are making choices.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by sdegutis on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:15PM (#18592476)
Online groups can and do influence people's thoughts and beliefs over time. Just my own anecdotes, but I've seen people completely turn against those in their lives who were obviously well meaning and supportive, because of baseless anger and fears which seem to have come from nowhere. And then it comes out that they were actively reading online groups that encouraged and normalized these anxieties and rage, condemning those who common sense and anyone else can plainly see are active forces of good in a person's life.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Canadauni on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:06PM (#18592412)
It sounds like you did all you could in your situation and you were willing to work through it with her. Empathy and support are really all you can provide in situations like yours. Particularly as a partner there isn't much more you should do other than encourage professional help.

Eating disorders are a complicated class of mental illness with a varying collection of co-morbid issues such as anxiety and depression. I've come to dislike the binary labeling of anorexia and bulimia because the symptomology is so much more complex than the classifications we give them.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by village-idiot on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:26PM (#18592060)
I think a lot of people over-estimate the resilience of the human emotional state, especially their own. Time and time again we see regular functioning adults get sucked into objectively insane or self-harmful communities, be it the above phenomenon or 4chan crap like QAnon.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by joe_the_user on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:49PM (#18592820)
I would put it as "people misunderstand the source of their emotional resilience". A lot of people think that having "strong will" or "strong values" is what will prevent them from picking up extreme, obsessive or hateful ideas.

Instead, anything like resilience is a process. Your friends and your community is part of it. Everyone is suggestible, everyone takes beliefs from associates as well as from experience. Conspiratorial and prejudiced ideas are seductive specifically because of how uncertain the world is. One has to reject such ideas in a way that avoids considering them in terms of "either this is true or this is false" since so many questions well beyond proof either way.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by noobermin on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:31PM (#18592106)
How many people follow QAnon or 4chan nonsense? You're over weighting a sheer minority of people who probably have other issues in their lives as for why they chase down conspiracy rabbit holes.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by groby_b on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:51PM (#18592260)
Alas, they don't have "other issues" - because recommendation algorithms drive people down the conspiracy rabbit holes.

Conspiracy, fear, hate - they all drive engagement better than anything else. And since we all optimize for engagement, guess where things are heading. And no matter how resilient you are, there's some really dark shit out there. Ready to tear down even rather healthy people.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dvtrn on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:13PM (#18592462)
optimize for engagement

This to me seems like it's the key to all of this, or at least a portion of it that really shouldn't be ignored. As I shared, if my ex had other ongoing issues under the surface, they were never presented and she did a great job keeping the visible symptoms from manifesting for the better part of three years.

Maybe she didn't realize they were there herself, hard to blame anyone for that.

It doesn't seem that remarkable, contentious or incendiary of an idea to wonder if following these blogs and communities infiltrated and started poking at something that was already there, driving a curiosity to dig further, effectively picking at a scab....so to speak. And when the platform responds to your interactions, likes, reshares, searches by pushing more of that in your face, it doesn't seem any more remarkable that someone could find themselves facing mental anguish or other personal/emotional problems that wouldn't have ever otherwise seen the light of day.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by village-idiot on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:03PM (#18592965)
Optimization for engagement is actually quite scary to me: because the effects upon the user (beyond engagement) are literally meaningless. If the system can burn out your mental health while increasing engagement, it can and will make that choice.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dvtrn on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:16PM (#18593125)
If the system can burn out your mental health while increasing engagement, it can and will make that choice.

While the platform, many more times than not profits from that engagement? I completely agree.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by stareatgoats on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:41PM (#18592174)
Came to say I agree with village-idiot, many if not everyone overestimate their emotional resilience and those that become victims usually become so inadvertently and don't realize the ramifications until it's either too late or a real steep climb to get back up. QAnon might not be the most common rabbit hole, but it was in all fairness just an example. The most common example is probably drugs and alcohol.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by cm2012 on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:12PM (#18593070)
QAnon stuff gets millions of shares on Facebook every week. It's nuts and not a tiny slice of people. Ballpark 20% of republican voters at the very least believe in this stuff.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ryanmarsh on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:40PM (#18593373)
At least 20%. I’m right wing. Lemme tell yah.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by village-idiot on Monday December 03, 2018 @08:48PM (#18595155)
I mean this question without any malice or partisanship, because I’m genuinely curious. What’s it feel like to watch those in your political in group seemingly lose their minds? Has it affected your opinions or relationships with fellow conservatives?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ryanmarsh on Monday December 03, 2018 @10:01PM (#18595722)
No, if anything it's brought us together. What's been hard is losing leftie friends for no reason. I don't talk about politics, but if they find out I went to a Trump rally (instagram pics) suddenly we can't be friends. It's weird. I lived in San Francisco 20 years ago and had rabidly leftie friends whom I very much enjoyed sparring with over drinks, however something has changed and we can't even make small talk anymore. Bizarre.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by village-idiot on Monday December 03, 2018 @11:40PM (#18596333)
The sign of our polarized times.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by pjc50 on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:23PM (#18594221)
Enough to win an election.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by village-idiot on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:00PM (#18592948)
It’s not like 4chan is the first cult to start up and rope in otherwise functioning adults.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by sleepybrett on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:38PM (#18593872)
there are functioning adults that frequent 4chan. I think not.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by scythe on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:13PM (#18594132)
There's a lot more to 4chan than /b/ (and the associated /pol/, /r9k/, /s4s/ crap). I haven't used /b/ in years (it stopped being funny around 100M get) but I still use some of the special-interest boards.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by village-idiot on Monday December 03, 2018 @08:45PM (#18595136)
First, my point is not specific to any one crazy movement or community. QAnon is the most recent one, but anyone historically aware can point to a variety of similar examples.

Second, if you think QAnon is relegated to only those who visit 4chan, I have very bad news for you.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by rjplatte on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:57PM (#18592326)
I do. It's entertaining, especially since there's been some Qanon posts which seem almost plausible, and the rest of the time it's some guy with a neckbeard trying to get likes.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Aeolun on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:05PM (#18592399)
I have my own share of mental issues, but I just have a hard time seeing how I could ever get involved in one of these groups, much less believe the bullshit they are spouting.

What is the situation that makes these seem like a solid choice?

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by wpietri on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:26PM (#18593779)
I try to keep in mind that if a con looks obvious to me, I'm just not the kind of mark the con was designed for. Why will a fish bite on bait that doesn't look edible to me? Because it looks delicious to them. It was made to look delicious to them though a long process of trial and error.

For a long while I was fascinated that people could get caught up in cults. It was very much not the kind of thing I would fall for. So I read a bunch of memoirs from people who had left/escaped cults and eventually it made a lot of sense to me. I would still never fall for one, but I can see how they take advantage of basic human drives and the weaknesses of their particular kind of victim.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by specialist on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:28PM (#18592589)
I'm more interested in how I (apparently) avoided it all.

Methinks it's because I got it out of the way early on. I definitely have had my own phases for occult, religion, conspiracies, MLM, alcohol, outrage addiction, counter cultural impulses, protests, etc.

Further, I once thought I'd get into journalism, did student radio & TV, wrote for a bit.

I think seeing how the sausage is made, learning the craft, helps one develop an immunity.

Having a contrarian reading list probably helped. For example, Robert Anton Wilson and stuff like https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Church_of_the_SubGenius

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by shaki-dora on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:45PM (#18593410)
Equating journalism with QAnon and recommending “contrarian reading” seems strange advise for avoiding conspiracy theories.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by pjc50 on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:27PM (#18594257)
Early is the keyword. I got through a lot of conspiracy / UFO stuff as a kid, the way others go through paranormal phases. I outgrew it, just as I outgrew Santa.

Robert Anton Wilson is also good, because he presents all this stuff clearly marked as fiction.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by specialist on Monday December 03, 2018 @08:53PM (#18595204)
What?

My advice is to study the techniques, to better guard against them. This much is obvious, no?

Though illustrative, I acknowledge The Illuminati and the Subgenius stuff are not very accessible.

Thank You for Smoking https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0427944 and Network https://www.imdb.com/title/tt0074958 are probably more your speed.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by namlem on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:54PM (#18594813)
I've heard this type of story way too many times. People getting sucked into some social media community and becoming anxious, fearful, and bitter. Social media is much more dangerous than we bargained for it seems.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by garyng on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:24PM (#18594634)
You make me think of Boyinaband.

(https://youtu.be/xR3hrZS2c0A?t=705)

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ggggtez on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:56PM (#18592313)
Not to point out the obvious, but the content you are talking about isn't going to be affected.

The issue with banning adult content, is that it often ends up being more easy to ban all adult content and LGBTQ+ content.

Generally speaking, people on the fringes lose a safe place to discuss issues that matter to them, due to keyword proximity to pornographic keywords.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dmix on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:02PM (#18592961)
Likewise we can't ban/censor our way to good parenting nor will it prevent people (not just kids) from finding bad information in the internet.

If anything the kids will stop using Tumblr at a faster rate once all of the false-positives of the censorship stuff blocks basic enjoyment.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by iamdave on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:02PM (#18592373)
I read the two anecdotes shared as mere allegories of the reaction tumblr is taking to the content that is being banned from the platform, not a 1:1 comparison of pornographic content and body image content; that in mind I think these types of stories are just as relevant when looking at how we signal collective approval of the types of content we are willing to expose ourselves and our young ones to-and the impact these disparate types of content have, wouldn't you say?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by panic on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:19PM (#18591965)
This content will still be allowed, though, since it's not "real-life human genitals or female-presenting nipples".
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by tapland on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:52PM (#18592842)
Yeah it's just 'how to live an unhealthy life and risk dying well before turning 15: 101'

I don't know what to do about it, but even as a tech savvy free speech proponent I feel very unhappy about the content kids consume on tumblr specifically. Bullying groups on snapchat etc are just the same old bullying upgraded with a better communications platform, but tumblr offers thousands of insane cult groups run for and by kids.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by wolco on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:05PM (#18593595)
It is the same as before but parents feel safer the kids are on their room.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by notyourday on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:47PM (#18593921)
That's because at this time parents manage to do the following two seemingly incompatible things:

1) pay no attention to the kids (got to do Netflix! Read HackerNews! Enjoy my hobbies!)

2) demand that the entire universe of everyone else revolved around their kids and those kids be protected against any possible exposure to the negative thoughts -- "Good vibes only!"

So by the time kids become semi-autonomous adults they quite literally do not know what to do when anyone or anything does not fit into reality their parents managed to construct for them.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by duxup on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:56PM (#18592310)
>From what I've seen, Tumblr can be a very toxic place and I could understand why advertisers would have problems with the content that ends up next to their ads.

I'm with you on the free speech thing. Early days of the internet I was much more optimistic / naive about free speech and the internet. Now, not so much. Not that I belive in government censorship, but maybe less naive about the results of free speech.

I guess it would change if I had tons of money rolling in, but just generally if I created / ran a social media site, Facebook, Reddit... whatever. I'd feel really NOT OK with a lot of the content those sites are ok with hosting.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by bad_user on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:09PM (#18591863)
I think monitoring the child's online activity is a must, until he's mature enough and at 12 years old, that's basically the start of adolescence, when children aren't very trustworthy :-) On the other hand you can't let them know that you're constantly monitoring them, or they will feel suffocated and start a rebellion.

In other words I think having some kind of anti-virus software on their computer or tablet, that logs the websites they visit, the articles they view, is totally fine.

The problem is that many parents aren't very subtle when bringing up sensitive issues, causing anxiety and determining the child to hide in the future. And I don't have a good solution for it — my son is only 8 and I'm still thinking how to tackle such problems.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jstarfish on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:59PM (#18592333)
Yeah you really have to be tactful about it, and do parallel reconstruction wherever possible. Once they know their devices are bugged their behavior will change to evade you.

On the other hand, like sysadmins who enjoy reviewing network logs to find which married executives spend their days skulking around Grindr there are a lot of parents that abuse this to become straight-up voyeurs. There's even an episode of Black Mirror about it. Regardless of your moral/religious convictions, you really don't want to discover or become party to your kids' sexual proclivities without cause.

I don't bug my kids' devices, but I did have to resolve a sexual harassment issue with my own daughter. Her behavior was starting to become worrysome-- lengthy secretive sessions on her phone, followed by signs of distress, anxiety, not eating, etc. When she didn't have access to the phone (or the battery died) it was even worse. So I black-bagged the damn thing, found out what was going on, and confronted her only on the nature of her behavior ("you haven't been eating lately"), gently guiding the questions toward what I knew to be the truth ("is someone bothering you?") and letting her do the talking.

She's none the wiser, the problem got resolved to mutual satisfaction, and I don't have to continuously violate her trust or privacy.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by SlowRobotAhead on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:50PM (#18592254)
I had a couple mention to me "we don't like to big brother our kids".... Without thinking I said "big brother when you are the parent is just parenting." made the wife/mother really mad.

Not sure what you do when they realizing you're watching them and then just get sneaky about it. I remember being sneaky. I assume my kids will be sneaky.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by closeparen on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:23PM (#18592539)
I don’t think anyone would consider making your children wear a wire to school/friends’ houses “just parenting.” Yet many parents are proud of the digital equivalent. The big bad internet is one thing, private conversations with real-world friends are another.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by taobility on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:56PM (#18592305)
maybe not provide them the smartphone, and also limited the time of playing tablet?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ASalazarMX on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:08PM (#18591839)
I knew pro-anorexia groups use slang like "your friend Ana" to hide their actions, but had to google "thinspo" and "meanspo".

Thinspo (thin inspiration) is positive anorexia reinforcement, like anorexic role model pictures.

Meanspo (mean inspiration) is negative anorexia reinforcement, like aphorisms demonizing fat or destructive critic.

Why are young girls so vulnerable to mental disease trends? What can we do better as a society to strengthen the resilience of kids?

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by megy on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:21PM (#18593748)
> Why are young girls so vulnerable to mental disease trends?

Are you serious? Have you heard of qanon, anti-vax, scientology, pyrmaid schemes? We all are vulnerable to this stuff.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by wpietri on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:31PM (#18593815)
I know this is getting downvoted, but the odds are very good that we each believe something that future generations will correctly see as obviously idiotic. History is just full of things where large fractions of society were wrong. It seems extremely unlikely that this is the moment in history where that stops.

I think it's fair to say that kids are more vulnerable, though, for the same reason that they also get physically sick more. Immune systems develop through exposure, and they just haven't had as much exposure.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by iamdave on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:53PM (#18593965)
History is just full of things where large fractions of society were wrong.

It's sometimes really hard to appreciate how much a moment in time affects the long-tail of history when you're living in it.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ot8 on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:10PM (#18593054)
| Thinspo (thin inspiration) is positive anorexia reinforcement, like anorexic role model pictures.

Thinspo was originally "thin and sporty" (Thin+Spo) and promoted a super healthy and physically fit lifestyle and positive choices.

Over time it has been co-opted by those with deeply negative body image issues, and those with anorexia fetishes.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by washadjeffmad on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:31PM (#18593287)
I'm not asking for a specific source, but how do you know this?

I've just heard people saying it as 'in-SPO-ration' for so long that a -spo suffix seems more intuitively to be a truncation of -spiration.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by namlem on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:57PM (#18594835)
Boys instead fall into other toxic communities, like incels.

The youtuber ContraPoints made a great video about such communities: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fD2briZ6fB0

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jimmy1 on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:35PM (#18592679)
You have highlighted a key distinction here, but proceeded to go back to "kids" but I wanted to highlight something that the US HHS found when studying the gender differences between bullying and that is girls tend to experience victimization in the form of sexual harrassment or emotional aggression where as boys were more likely to be victimized physically. Whether nor not this leads credence to any sort of gender theory, or how girls and boys are stereotyped or whatever you want to infer, there are real measurable differences between the type of toxicity found through online bullying or in person bullying, and for girls it does tend to be something emotional (think "ew you're fat, you should just stay home", "ew why are you wearing that", "ew you look like such a pig") versus boys where it tends to be physical threats of violence (think "I'm going to beat your ass", "give me all your lunch money fatty or you'll pay")
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by derefr on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:37PM (#18592150)
> Why are young girls so vulnerable to mental disease trends?

Nothing to do with young girls in particular, nor "mental disease" in particular.

Adolescents are constantly trying to find some axis along which they can excel/stand out, in a way that gives them societal power. (They're trying to "win", without really caring what it is they're winning at. They're just aware that right now they're not winning along any axis, and that has to change.)

For women specifically, being beautiful is one thing you can "win" at that can give you power.

Now, separately, anorexia can happen to anyone—recent research has suggested it's a sort of dual to obesity, another way the ventromedial hypothalamic nucleus (VMN) can become deregulated and cease to output the correct signal in response to fluctuations in leptin levels. For obesity, that makes people eat when they're "full" (because they don't feel full); for anorexia and bulemia, that makes people not-eat when they're "hungry" (because they don't feel hungry, and do feel disgusted/nauseous at the idea of eating more just like someone who's already stuffed full would.)

Like obesity, anorexia isn't necessarily genetic, but rather seems to be a disordered "state" that the brain can get into, which means that it potentially has environmental "triggers", even if it's purely a neurohormonal problem from that point forward. Some scientists hypothesize obesity as being the result of "re-training" your brain by forcibly exceeding your calorie budget. Anorexia is hypothesized similarly: "re-training" by forcibly starving yourself.

So: take teenage girls who want to "cultivate beauty" in order to gain social power. Some of them think they need to be thinner in order to be more beautiful. At this point, they're okay. After dieting, some are still okay. For others—perhaps the ones who saw the largest gains in social power from their loss of weight—something in their brain breaks a bit, and now they can't eat regular amounts of food any more without feeling sick.

Note that that could have happened to anyone, at any time, who decided to go on a diet. We don't understand exactly what makes people more "vulnerable" to anorexia, but adolescents aren't especially vulnerable. Teenage girls are just more likely to be people who are trying to diet for the first time, and therefore are more likely to be triggering and exposing an underlying vulnerability to anorexia for the first time—which we end up describing as "developing" anorexia.

Compare also: the guys who obsessively lift weights to gain muscle mass—because "cultivating your physique" is social power for teenage/college-aged boys—but then, once they start, their "unfitness" becomes a self-image problem, and they can never be happy with how they look, no matter how "ripped" they get.

Compare also: the development of Narcissistic Personality Disorder. People find that "cultivating a charismatic public image" gives them social power, but then become unable to stop optimizing their public image, even to the point that they habitually lie to their loved ones to present every action in the best possible light.

I feel like there's some unifying neurological principle to how these disorders develop, though I've never heard one suggested.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by tedsanders on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:53PM (#18593476)
There is evidence that it's gendered. One example is that hospital admissions for self-harm are higher for girls than boys. It's also going up for girls and not going up for boys. See figures 1 and 2 of: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/26640...
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by wpietri on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:33PM (#18593831)
That reminds me that The Economist had some interesting material on suicide rates recently: https://www.economist.com/the-economist-explains/2018/11/30/...

In some countries there has been a huge fall in the suicide rate for women. It seems to be correlated with increasing opportunity and independence.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by IfOnlyYouKnew on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:36PM (#18593856)
Check the statistics of hospital admissions for being harmed by others, check the perpetrators, and you'll find the boys missing from your statistic.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by autokad on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:35PM (#18592672)
> Why are young girls so vulnerable to mental disease trends?"

all kids are vulnerable. maybe girls are more sheltered? and..

> "What can we do better as a society to strengthen the resilience of kids?"

stop sheltering them, let them fail.

i am still a little pissed at pink floyd. i get what they are railing against, but yes, yes I do need an education. i nearly took that too literally when i was a kid.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by api on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:26PM (#18592057)
It's not a gender thing. Young people in general are vulnerable to all kinds of negative groupthink because they don't have a fully formed identity, experience, or adult critical thinking skills. The nature of the toxic material seems to differ a bit by gender.

Loads of teen boys are sucked into toxic online cults too including neo-Naziism, extreme misogyny, other kinds of toxic political radicalism, gaming addiction, self-help cults, etc.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ASalazarMX on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:30PM (#18592100)
I think you hit the nail in the head. Kids (and many grownups) are very vulnerable to groupthink, The only solution I see is encouraging common sense through critical thinking.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by IfOnlyYouKnew on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:03PM (#18593569)
Considering most of these groups rally around conspiracy theories, which by definition start from a position of questioning commonly accepted facts (i. e. "critical thinking"), maybe we have actually gone too far with the critical thinking?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by api on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:26PM (#18593784)
We teach the idea of critical thinking but not the intellectual disciplines of doing it honestly and effectively.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ASalazarMX on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:38PM (#18593874)
It could be taught in schools, but it has to be taught at home too, by example. I wonder if enough parents would be willing to let their kids question something as basic as their religion and indoctrination?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ASalazarMX on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:34PM (#18593839)
> maybe we have actually gone too far with the critical thinking?

No, because it would be something else than critical thinking. It's like the scientific method, where you can't dismiss any possibility, unlikely as it be, but pursue the most likely explanations first.

Conspiracy theories bizarrely pursue the least likely explanation. Granted, this explanation might be real, but until new data arrives (Assange, Snowden, Manning, etc.) it can't outweigh the simpler ones.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by tedsanders on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:00PM (#18593540)
There is evidence that it's gendered. One example is that hospital admissions for self-harm are higher for girls than boys. It's also going up for girls and not going up for boys. See figures 1 and 2 of: https://jamanetwork.com/journals/jama/article-abstract/26640...
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by IfOnlyYouKnew on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:24PM (#18593769)
Check the statistics of hospital admissions for being harmed by others, check the perpetrators, and you'll find the boys missing from your statistic.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by tedsanders on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:55PM (#18593987)
I couldn't find those stats - could you please share your source with us?

I was able to find stats on violent crime by youth (mostly boys), and unlike self harm by girls, the rates of serious violent crime have been trending down for years.

https://www.statista.com/statistics/477466/number-of-serious...

In any case, there is a clear gendered difference in the average behavior of girls and boys.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ConceptJunkie on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:09PM (#18593639)
And groupthink is orders of magnitude more powerful in the era of social media.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by IfOnlyYouKnew on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:55PM (#18593484)
I love how your comment is being downvoted for the heresy of suggesting there is something wrong with neo-nazis or /r/incels.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by api on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:24PM (#18593764)
4chan is a cult with a lot of traction among mostly male technical types.

There are lots of online cults though, not just on the chans. Tumblr is particularly bad. Lots of little Borg minds looking to assimilate young novelty.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by devwastaken on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:28PM (#18592584)
The modern web hasn't changed from olden times in any significant manner. Yeah, there's not just random cp being shared across open channels, but the internet is a reflection of humanity. Humans love to share their problems and evils through it. Platforms like Tumblr take what you've found some interest in and scope in on it to surround you with it.

I had a 14 yo cousin who started subscribing to /r/incels and a 'pol' attitude and is simply incapable of being a decent human being. All it takes is group-think and idealogy. People will fall into it, and teens are especially targetable.

You two will get through it. Teens have a lot more change to go through.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by androidgirl on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:36PM (#18592681)
Hey, firstly I am so very sorry for what you and your family is going through. Having a child encounter very scary parts of the world is always awful.

I'm now in my early 20's, but when I was a kid about your daughter's age I also stumbled into that awful, awful corner of the web and developed an eating disorder (ED).

As an adult now, my message is it can and will get better. ED is a tough problem, but with work and persistence both she and you can work through it.

I won't tell you how to raise your daughter, at all. Just offering a sympathetic viewpoint!

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by 51lver on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:39PM (#18591549)
Giving people suggestions based on their profiled interests was a nice toy idea, but it's very dangerous in the real world. I worry about that often with my kid online now.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by datenwolf on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:12PM (#18591886)
Outside of purposeful oscillators, positive feedback loops rarely are a desireable thing.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by sargun on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:15PM (#18591909)
I mean, maybe this is where neural networks that forget are valuable? They allow for exploration, and don't create local maximas in the same way?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by briffle on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:51PM (#18591672)
Its bad in general, for sites like Facebook as well. People are now presented with news and stories that they are predicted arithmetically to like, in order to further "user interaction" (ie, more ad impressions). But this leads to an echo chamber, where people are not exposed to alternative ideas, contrasting viewpoints, etc. (And then, when they are my parents, call it 'fake news' when presented with them).
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by groby_b on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:53PM (#18592275)
It's worse. It's not an echo chamber - because the recommendation algos don't keep you with like minded people. They purposefully guide you towards more "engagement". And online, the most engagement can be had by trolling, not by agreeing with each other.

And "contrasting viewpoints" mean little when they're sheer lunacy.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dvtrn on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:28PM (#18593801)
And online, the most engagement can be had by trolling, not by agreeing with each other.

The example that screams out to me reading this cmoment is Reddit and it's ability to sort comments and threads by "controversial".

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by behringer on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:48PM (#18591636)
You need to teach critical thinking skills. Not promote censorship. There's a lot of stupid things in the world you can't censor.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by 51lver on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:59PM (#18591746)
I do not for a second advocate censorship. No content should be barred from uploading, that should be a retroactive process always, otherwise free speech is impossible. Gotta make mistakes to learn from the correction, and that is especially true for young people unfamiliar with the law.

What I am against is machines feeding you more of what you just looked at. That's dangerous. It's too easy to end up VERY deep down dangerous rabbit holes. You should have to use critical thinking to explore your interests, not just get fed whatever will drive engagement.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by noobermin on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:29PM (#18592089)
Sure arguing against the algos is fine. THAT should be under discussion, not censorship. Censorship is an easy out because every fucking person on this board profits off of algos that drive people insane and unhealthy but censorship is an easy out to avoid confronting the real problem.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by 51lver on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:00PM (#18594034)
You hit the nail on the head there. Blacklists just don't work for users. They work for providers, but only for CYA. Users need tools to help them find good useful things.

This brings my morning routine to mind, which I explicitly designed to combat this feed poisoning that everyone is enduring. I literally hit the wikipedia random button every morning before I get out of bed. It's hooked into my morning alarm. I don't check feeds in the morning because I want to let my mind explore without someone influencing my focus, which helps me be more creative later in the day.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by noobermin on Tuesday December 04, 2018 @03:25PM (#18603296)
This actually sounds interesting and I'll try it.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by hsaliak on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:58PM (#18591745)
While this is ideal, critical thinking skills take time to develop.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by DanBC on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:51PM (#18591680)
That's not how mental illness works.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by behringer on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:01PM (#18592953)
The lack of critical thinking skills is a mental illness.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by 51lver on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:06PM (#18594079)
Some people are strong willed, some people are followers. Some people are deep thinkers, others are quick wits. Some people plan, and some only live in the moment. Everyone has different tools they use to navigate the world.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by behringer on Monday December 03, 2018 @11:11PM (#18596167)
Some people are going to grow up and be out on their own, and not have you around to censor for them. Everyone needs critical thinking skills. Without it, you're going to become a sucker, sooner or later.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by DanBC on Tuesday December 04, 2018 @12:08PM (#18601294)
Can you show me where it says this in either DSM or ICD?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jfrankamp on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:22PM (#18591997)
Classical critical thinking skills are great, and no match for reinforcement based suggestion engines. You might critically pick the best item from the 5 pieces of shit you are offered next, but comprehending how your viewing habits are being shaped over time by moving the _neutral_ point a half-a-degree is another thing entirely.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by guelo on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:26PM (#18592054)
Not getting promoted by a recommendation algorithm is not censorship.
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Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by mulmen on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:18PM (#18591939)
Does knowledge of the obesity epidemic help anorexics?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by berberous on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:19PM (#18591950)
Anorexia (and pro-ana websites with words like "thinspo") were around before Tumblr even existed, so it's nothing new. I suppose recommendation algorithms and the existence of this stuff on popular platforms like Tumblr and Instagram could make it more viral and spread more, but I wonder if that's true (e.g. if Anorexia has increased in the past 10 years).
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by duskwuff on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:57PM (#18593500)
Yep. Pro-ana groups were a serious problem back when Livejournal was still relevant (i.e, early/mid 2000s) -- and that was with very limited discoverability features. Modern recommendation algorithms just make the problem worse.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by tapland on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:57PM (#18592900)
Yes, it was around and was more focused upon when I was a kid without an internet connection.

But nowd you get that fed straight to you on sites/blog-platforms targeting children. All with huge real-time support groups that will help you not to eat. It's the $90/session personal trainers but available 24/7 and without any knowledge of side-effects and with a huge amount of denial.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by type-2 on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:11PM (#18591878)
Yeah but those are not adult content. They are undeniably very bad but tumblr is only banning porn.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by noobermin on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:26PM (#18592055)
This post is literally "cocaine and rock and roll" but they know they won't win the war on calling for bans on porn for their innocent child's eyes so they do this diatribe that is fully unrelated to banning adult content.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by madamelic on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:21PM (#18594201)
I'm sorry about your daughter, but blaming Tumblr completely for her disordered behavior is incorrect.

Simply being exposed to the existence of behavior doesn't cause a disorder.

She would've developed those behaviors regardless, maybe not to the same degree but you can't 'catch' or 'develop' anorexia nervosa (or any other mental illness) from viewing media. You can absolutely make it way worse, but the seed has to have already been planted.

There are biological and mental predipositions to eating disorders. If people could will themselves to have eating disorders, everyone would have eating disorders. It's a really terrible disease and blaming 'the Internet' papers over the deeper reasons she developed the disorder (pressure to reach high standards, little control, hopelessness, etc)

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by rustybelt on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:00PM (#18592350)
Why can't you monitor (almost) everything? Unless it's at a friend's house, my ten-year-old has no access to tumblr. I fail to understand why children must have access to internet connected devices.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Nelson69 on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:20PM (#18593170)
What's your long term game plan with that? At some age, they'll get a device, are you just hoping for the best when that happens? Or "you pay for it, it's your problem" or what?

We limit device time and I try to be as involved as I can, we ask them what they're doing, we try to play games with them, etc. Every day. We keep repeating the mantra about not talking to strangers online, and to tell us if they talk to you. Honestly, I think it's other stuff that will make the difference, spending time with them every day, talking to them about everything, and encouraging active participation in real world stuff like sports and some volunteer work for the homeless through our church.

I don't disagree with the "no internet" idea exactly but at some point they'll be exposed to it and the way things are, I wouldn't be the least bit surprised if a smartphone was required equipment for junior high or highschool within the next 5-10 years. Already our schools send us just about everything online, we have regular emails with the teachers and they use google docs and other platforms for online sharing within the school.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by MickerNews on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:08PM (#18593617)
>What's your long term game plan with that?

That they're going to be more mature when that happens because they've demonstrated that they weren't ready just yet.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by WillPostForFood on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:08PM (#18594099)
It is difficult to demonstrate your readiness when you've never been allowed to use it. Access + monitoring and support is a better strategy than hiding technology from your kid. Unless you are Amish, your kids are going to get dropped into the deep end.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by solveit on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:37PM (#18594719)
Like all the old people on facebook demonstrating that their decades of life experience has taught them to recognize obvious bullshit..?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by seattle_spring on Monday December 03, 2018 @09:10PM (#18595365)
That strategy is proven ineffective with abstinence only sexual education, and I'm sure the exact same problems would arise applying to online access.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by yellowapple on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:19PM (#18594609)
There's a pretty wide spectrum between full-blown free-for-all and full-blown Amish-mode. In particular, routers/firewalls with parental controls (whether network-wide or by MAC address) are increasingly common in homes nowadays, even if those features go unused. A whitelist would be pretty effective here for outright blocking.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by flukus on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:45PM (#18593910)
All this does is create adults with the same problem. You have to introduce them to the world (including the bad parts) slowly, not shield them from it until they move out.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by code_duck on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:07PM (#18593002)
Just on google, children are a few clicks and a word or two away from hardcore porn. I agree that a parent who gives their child open internet access has to accept their kid will probably see disturbing things before they’re ready, or strictly restrict and monitor everything. I’m not even sure how feasible or reasonable it is to try.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by tumblr-what on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:03PM (#18592968)
This sort of stuff furthers my resolve to give my kids dumbphones and PCs with no internet access until they're at least 14 or 15, with plenty of education beforehand. For example, at school we got taught about anorexia, body image and coping strategies in junior high. If they need to get online they can use the family PC in the living room that's in full view of everyone.

My observation is that what I can only call information operations on Tumblr are very similar in form to various groups retweeting divisive political memes on Twitter or other social media. Most likely it has been freelance individuals with some sort of sexual fetish, not an organization, but still. It's not normal user behavior to be constantly re-posting and mashing up memes all day long every day encouraging pre-teen girls to be anorexic.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by iamdave on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:10PM (#18593048)
My observation is that what I can only call information operations on Tumblr are very similar in form to various groups retweeting divisive political memes on Twitter or other social media.

I'm sure it's no different on any other platform, so I hope this comment isn't seen as some way to skewer tumblr for being unique in this regard: but the number of times I've stumbled across content spreading some nugget of content about a health-condition, mental state of being or current event that is OBJECTIVELY untrue getting eager reshares and comments applauding the original poster that would cause any trained professional to expire from the horror is staggering to behold sometimes.

Again, not unique to tumblr, not here to suggest it is, but since it's the focus of the conversation we're having, there it is.

Already I've seen people I follow talking about leaving the platform because of this decision, which is going to hurt my own blog as I rely on them to discover new and interesting content (not porn, but I'm a big fan of futurist artwork, giant robots, Ralph McQuarie style space paintings, stuff like that).

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by NorthOf33rd on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:38PM (#18591529)
Gosh, that's tough, and I'm hoping she came out the other side stronger.

This doesn't seem specific to tumblr though. I can't think of a network that doesn't have the same dark corners and nasty reinforcement. It's the internet.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by nashashmi on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:34PM (#18592128)
No, it is not the internet! It is a recommendation engine. It is a content network in the business of profit. It is a social entrapment.

The internet is a bunch of channels (websites) with subchannels (groups). Sometimes channels that have earned far too much legitimacy overflow into illegitimate corners. And that is a problem. It is like CNN with great content and then having crappy content. How do you start ranking sites then? How do you as a website evaluator start white-listing domains then?

I know you are defending free speech while encouraging selective roaming. But that is not an easy act. Some have difficulty while others do not. Some can moderate themselves while others cannot. Restriction + Avoidance is better than Exposure + Ignorance towards these harmful things.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by GreeniFi on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:22PM (#18592531)
I’m really sorry to hear this story. It makes me feel pretty sad, and worried as a recent parent. I think I have a preference for free speech, but stories like this really make me wonder where the boundaries are. Communities are bound together by common stories. If we cannot control the stories members listen to, the community ceases to function. And I’m starting to wonder whether we are beginning to see this failure writ large around the world right now.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Nelson69 on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:25PM (#18593230)
I'm sorry to hear that. I wish the best for your family.

Is there something unique to tumblr that makes this content thrive there? If tumblr cleans their stuff up (and I know there are legitimate stuff that is impacted by that) won't those communities find refuge elsewhere? There are some incredibly seedy parts of reddit and sites like voat and just tons of places where there is "bad stuff" on the internet.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jimmy_chewbone on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:35PM (#18592673)
The solution is in societal morals and not in tech companies doing the censoring.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Nasrudith on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:51PM (#18593950)
While I strongly oppose the tech company censorship push societal morality is utterly dubious. As in let me know when you find anything worthy of the name. Seriously "moral" society has condoned all sorts of utterly fucked up things while stridently opposing harmless and helpful things for the stupidest reasons.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by B1FF_PSUVM on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:56PM (#18593492)
> societal morals

Good luck with that. Advertisers figured out they could pound those to a pulp, and they were not wrong.

Any sane man of a couple centuries ago is now a leper by modern standards. They don't have us walking on our hands because ... I don't know, perhaps there's no money in it or that did not yet occur to them.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by kartan on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:43PM (#18592763)
I posted this 1 day ago (https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=18583017) "YouTube, for example, can show advertisements for well known companies in videos about Anti-vaccination, far-right conspiracies, etc. without consequences.

Why is that? Because all that happens in the privacy of your own computer. Usually any newspaper that publicly have printed such bullshit in their pages will be dead. Public will react to it.

What is different? Facebook, YouTube, etc. are personalized. You are shown what you are interested in without public accountability. Niche radical content gets a lot of views for its own controversial nature. Views and money.

Who wants to investigate, hire good writers and expend the money that it takes to write a good article when you can hire some one without ethics for a fraction of the price and get as many or more views as radicalization grows?

YouTube, Facebook and others say that they are not responsible of the content they offer. I think that it should be true for things like comments. But for the monetized content they are 100% responsible of incentivizing that radicalization and killing good journalism in the process. "

Tech (apps) companies cannot solve so much problems as they think. But, they can solve the problems that they have created.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Nasrudith on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:59PM (#18594025)
How are they supposed to do that? You can't watch all of youtube. Even all of monetized youtube.

As for good journalism it either committed suicide or was killed off by management depending on perspective - either way it was quite a while ago. The actual newspaper conglomerated were doing the same damn thing before there was a Google - just look up a list of old moral panics. Look up Grunge slang hoax - they didn't even call a guy in Seattle to ask if they ever heard anything like the joke article to be sure it wasn't somebody taking the piss - and it was.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dqpb on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:24PM (#18592030)
Google "elsagate" for some other disturbing examples of how YouTube is being used to traumatize and corrupt our children.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ebullientocelot on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:47PM (#18593424)
I came across "elsagate" the other day and was unpleasantly not surprised by what it means. As a father of two young children this is a tough one--I'm 100% pro free speech, especially the speech I don't agree with, but have a hard time with deceptive messaging designed to harm vulnerable populations. I don't have an answer, but it sure is a damnable problem.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by otakucode on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:50PM (#18592256)
None of that sounds like it would be affected by this. This move is to try to purge human sexuality from the platform, especially when it is depicted in a positive light. Appeals to insecurity, suffering, and ignorant health advice will still be permitted.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by davemp on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:48PM (#18592814)
The loose association, engagement suggestion algorithms are seriously dangerous. The suggestions can cause a "thermal run-away" [1] feedback loop for the mind.

Even in a less egregious example than the OP, take modern English for example. If search engines loosely relate English words to some moving abstract concepts, humans no longer have direct control over the colloquial. In a world that defines terms with Google Search, the implications can be disturbing.For example ::

Search: "the beatles are an antiquated band"

-- Results -> "Beatlemania in 1964: 'This has gotten entirely out of control' ...", "Quincy Jones: 'The Beatles were the worst musicians in the world ...", etc.

And: "the beatles are an obsolete band"

-- Results -> "We'll Never See a Band as Big as The Beatles Again — Here's Why - Mic", "Is the notion of a rock band obsolete? - Quora", etc.

    __note:__ these results come from a computer with little google finger printing.
Definitions: [2]

-- Obsolete :: "no longer in general use; fallen into disuse:"

-- Antiquated :: "continued from, resembling, or adhering to the past; old-fashioned:"

-- Antiquated :: "no longer used; obsolete or obsolescent: "

Why are these almost synonymous, benign words related to love of and hate of? I honestly fear for what could be unethical software engineering [3] in these critical resources. Thermal run away of hardware is taken very seriously--see the Samsung Note 7 battery fires.

---

[1]: In a circuit, current through a resistor causes heat generation. Increasing heat on a resistor also lowers its resistance. Lowering resistance can increase current (V = IR). Ad infinitum or until catastrophic failure.

[2]: definitions from Dictionary.com on 12/2018

As a thought exercise, try replacing "current" with "negative emotions", "resistor" with "mind".

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Thermal_runaway#Electrical_eng...

[3]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Engineering_ethics

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by paulddraper on Monday December 03, 2018 @07:22PM (#18594628)
My sympathies.

The internet an interconnected web of information, used by both children and adults.

It can be more friendly for children when large platform "police themselves", but those efforts will naturally paint with very broad strokes.

I suspect the best strides here will be made by parental restrictions, so that the choices can be more individual and appropriate. (That's no panacea either of course; I'm merely suggesting it is the most promising solution.)

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by trhway on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:59PM (#18591755)
>My daughter at 12

i think websites/pages, like for example movies, should have age restriction in their metadata.

>love of free speech

as we know children arent capable to give an informed consent and thus free speech (the same way like any issue requiring informed consent like freedom of entering into contract for example or submitting to medical procedure) just isnt applicable when it comes to children as they cant make that free informed choice themselves.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by vanadium on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:14PM (#18592472)
> i think websites/pages, like for example movies, should have age restriction in their metadata.

A few friends and I had an idea for voluntary rating back in '97, not long after the CDA of 1996 ("Black Ribbon") debacle.

To be fair, while when we envisioned it, it was something more facetious to get a laugh, but thinking retrospectively about it 21 years later actually made (and still makes) a hell of a lot of sense (now) as the father of a young boy.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by mcbridematt on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:46PM (#18594375)
Didn't we (sort of) try age restriction metadata during the '90's with P3P? (or a closely related technology.. the name escapes me)

If you tightened the settings in Internet Explorer it would only allow you to access sites with P3P data - which was pretty much _nothing_ on the internet.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/P3P

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by guid_luckWitDat on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:52PM (#18592270)
Did you know that adolescent children are clever enough to lie about their age, AND flout rules enforced by simple button clicks and honor systems?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by trhway on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:11PM (#18592449)
Browser on locked in system honoring the age metadata would go a long way. It is parental decision whether to give locked or unlocked device to the child.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Nasrudith on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:28PM (#18593794)
No offense but that sounds like the most likely effect is promoting tech literacy and sneakiness.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by guid_luckWitDat on Monday December 03, 2018 @06:46PM (#18594376)

  locked in system
Is exactly the system they won’t be using on starbucks wi-fi. Laptops are cheaper than console games.

Chrome books cost less than a PS4. You aren’t going to solve this by locking down the client side. Not at school. Not in the home. Not even in federal prison.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mobile_phones_in_prison

You are out of your depth.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jstanley on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:02PM (#18592372)
> free speech just isnt applicable when it comes to children

Are you arguing that free speech must be abandoned, just in case children happen to be listening?

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dang on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:50PM (#18593445)
"Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize."

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by trhway on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:09PM (#18592433)
That isnt what I said. What I said is that children mustn't be allowed to some audiences the same way they aren't allowed in bars, porn movies or making legally binding decisions in corporate boardrooms.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by jstanley on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:19PM (#18592508)
> What I said is [...]

You actually didn't say that, you just said free speech isn't applicable when it comes to children, and left us guessing about how you might want that to be implemented :).

I'm glad you're not advocating for the end of free speech, however.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by trhway on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:25PM (#18592555)
Of course not. I even against any restrictions on hate and harassing speech. Not that I like it. It is just I think that censorship in any form is worse than any speech it may be trying to censor. So choosing lesser evil out of 2.

note: Censorship above is in the sense of making content decisions for capable adults. Children isnt capable adults.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by Dylan16807 on Monday December 03, 2018 @05:55PM (#18593981)
The post says "age restriction in the metadata" right there. So yes, they did say that, and you didn't need to guess.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by valar_m on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:44PM (#18592207)
This is patently false.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by acquacow on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:01PM (#18592361)
Pintrest is the same way... there are tons of pro-ana pinboards/etc up there, so beware.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by em3rgent0rdr on Monday December 03, 2018 @03:16PM (#18592486)
What about safety filters or parental controls?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by draw_down on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:01PM (#18591768)
OK, but a) this is about "adult material" (porn) from what I can see, not other things that one may find disturbing like "thinspo", b) "thinspo" is around in lots of places, not unique to Tumblr
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Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by dang on Monday December 03, 2018 @04:49PM (#18593437)
It's ok to make a point like that in general, but not fine when it's personal, and there's nothing more personal than a case like this. Please don't do that here.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by chimeracoder on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:09PM (#18591864)
> From what I've seen, Tumblr can be a very toxic place and I could understand why advertisers would have problems with the content that ends up next to their ads.

The content you're describing is not affected by this Tumblr policy change. Secondly, the content that you're describing is pervasive across all social media networks (Reddit, Twitter, Facebook, and so forth).

I'm sorry for your daughter's health struggles, and I wish her (and you) well, but it's a completely separate topic from today's announcement.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by qwerty456127 on Monday December 03, 2018 @02:29PM (#18592094)
I'm sad this has happened to your daughter, nevertheless I believe it's your own fault, not Tumblr's (well, someway maybe, the recommendation system could have been made less nasty, people interested in weird content should probably search for it themselves) and not of its users. Every thing should have its corner on the web and you just shouldn't go and let your kids go to those that are not for you. The fact tigers will probably kill whoever they meet doesn't mean there should be no places on Earth where they are not exterminated, just don't go there unprepared. Not every site on the web is to be sterile.

Also really dangerrous and really weird content like that you've described is not going to be affected by the new policy, all it bans are genitals and nipples which actually make nearly as much sense to hide as ears and fingers, people have imagined particular body parts are some kind worse than others and made this a part of the culture but it's not real and just seeing particular body parts can not actually harm a psyche of a healthy human in whatever an age (although I don't insist actual sexual acts can't).

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by walrus01 on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:38PM (#18591540)
If you think those parts are scary, you should see the "yiff". Basically, furry porn. In the modern era it's considered rude to judge people for their kinky sex life, but some of the illustrations and cartoons in that community are highly unusual. To put it politely.
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by sanityvampire on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:42PM (#18591588)
Yeah, I'm gonna go ahead and say that blogs encouraging preteen girls to develop eating disorders are much scarier than furry porn.

Unless... unless it's pro-ana furry porn.

Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by throWoway on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:45PM (#18591613)
We just have wholesome vore encouraging healthy eating
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by zethraeus on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:40PM (#18591556)
... how in the world is that scarier than anorexia?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by ghostly_s on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:42PM (#18591573)
And which group of people are being harmed by this porn that's not to your liking?
Re:Tumblr will ban all adult content on December 17th by throWoway on Monday December 03, 2018 @01:44PM (#18591596)
Rude.

It's all moved to deviantart and FA now mostly anyway, but there is historical stuff only on tumblr.