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Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by retrac on Monday December 13, 2021 @05:21AM (#29538319)
While e.g. Nüshu (a secret women's only writing system) is a rather extreme example, Japanese with its various first-person pronouns and gendered patterns to verb conjugations is not that odd. Many languages are like that. Possibly all languages, to some degree. It's a continuum, probably, between slightly to moderately gendered with most languages.

English is definitely on that continuum, by the way. Any significant text (just a few paragraphs) has enough clues to predict a speaker or writer's gender with considerable confidence. This shows up most dramatically with statistical models (including deep learning) but trends with particular grammatical constructs and word choices were noted long ago.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by TheOtherHobbes on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:38AM (#29538705)
This seems to be conflating grammatical gender - which includes differences in pronouns, adjectives, sometimes verbs, and pronunciation, but is still based on relatively minor variations in a common vocabulary - with full dialects, which can have very distinct vocabularies and may include words with unique meanings.

English is at the de-grammarised end of the spectrum. There are gendered clues in English, but they're (mostly) not baked into the grammar. The differences are more about specific idioms and expressions that one gender is more likely to use, and they're really a kind of variation on other subgroup slangs - like teen slang, other age-related indicators.

Most languages have far more obvious grammatical distinctions. The Romance languages have obvious gender in the grammar, but it's... just there. It doesn't do much except to indicate that the subject or object is male or female. Beyond that, there are some rather random associations of gender to specific nouns.

Fully distinct dialects/languages are incredibly rare and are often artificial and/or more likely to be created by a subculture than as a direct result of gender differences.

Example: English has Polari, which was entertainer/street slang and often used in gay subcultures. It also has Cockney, Estuary, Northern, Scottish, Urban, and others - all differentiated by culture.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by retrac on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:06AM (#29538821)
I used Japanese, like the article did, as an example for this reason. Japanese has no grammatical gender like French. But Japanese is gendered. There are patterns in Japanese, where men and women use pronouns differently, and have slightly different patterns to which grammatical forms they use, and when. Women tend to use polite forms, in pronoun and noun choice as well as verb conjugation, more than men do. Small differences in sentence final particles, and so on. In practice the standard language becomes nearly gender-neutral in formal, polite contexts. Still, there's a real effect in Japanese, where men and women do speak and even write slightly differently. Male students of Japanese can even suffer a problem where they sound effeminate because they have modelled themselves on teachers who are mostly women.

I was just observing this general effect is probably true, to some degree, big or small, for most languages. It's probably a little more pronounced in Japanese than English. In neither case is it anywhere distinct enough to call it a separate dialect for men and women.

> Most languages have far more obvious grammatical distinctions.

Grammatical gender like French or Arabic is pretty unusual, really. It's common in the Indo-European and Semitic languages, which are prominent by number of speakers, but grammatical gender is fairly rare when surveying the world's language families as a whole. It's completely absent from many of them. The whole Sino-Tibetan language family (including modern Chinese), for example. They get along fine with a single third person pronoun (in speech) and no grammatical gender.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by cmrdporcupine on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:55AM (#29539573)
Interesting fact is that very early Indo-European likely didn't have grammatical gender. The (extinct) Anatolian languages (Hittite, Luwian) split off before Indo-European really gelled, and they didn't have gender but instead a system of animate/inanimate.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by jhgb on Wednesday December 15, 2021 @10:01AM (#29566825)
> and they didn't have gender but instead a system of animate/inanimate

But...that's gender, linguistically speaking.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by cmrdporcupine on Saturday December 18, 2021 @08:13PM (#29610430)
Yes, it's gender, technically -- not but not in the way other Indo-European languages practice it.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by geraneum on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:09AM (#29540228)
In Persian (an Indo-European language), not only is there no grammatical gender, but also there are no gender pronouns [1]. You can write text that is technically gender-neutral.

[1] http://sites.la.utexas.edu/persian_online_resources/pronouns...

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by devilbunny on Tuesday December 14, 2021 @01:41PM (#29555470)
Interestingly, I heard a podcast or read a book not long ago (I'd guess John McWhorter, but don't quote me on that) that touched on this, and the author attributed this simplification from the Indo-European norm of heavy grammatical gender to the fact that both Persian and English achieved their modern forms largely as languages learned by adults - the Vikings mixing with Saxons, the various subjects of the Persian Empire - and thus they tended to simplify endings.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by brnt on Monday December 13, 2021 @03:16PM (#29544043)
Sounds like cannot possibly write a nonneutral text!
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by geraneum on Monday December 13, 2021 @04:23PM (#29544849)
It’s still possible to explicitly mention the gender. For example say “that woman” or “the man”. The reader also might get some clues from the context, for example, saying “my dad said…” will reveal some clues about the gender of the subject. It’s optional.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by emteycz on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:47AM (#29539052)
I don't see how is grammatical gender relevant to this. Czech has it, and both males and females speak it the same. Different suffixes are used to refer to yourself but nobody would think of that as "men/women language" as it's exactly what the others use when speaking about men/women.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ecpottinger on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:05AM (#29539641)
This has shown up in the responses to my fan-fic. More than once I have been told I used suffixes wrong because I have someone of the wrong sex used -chan -kun to the other sex.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ggrrhh_ta on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:32AM (#29539409)
Turkish, an indoeuropean language, has no grammatical gender markers.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by cmrdporcupine on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:34AM (#29539431)
Turkish is not Indo-European
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ggrrhh_ta on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:43AM (#29539486)
Oh, is Altaic, it's grammar and structure is so similar in many other regards to indoeuropean languages that I did not reliazed it wasn't. Thanks.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by eatplayrove on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:58AM (#29540132)
If you took any Indo-European language and created a new language completely contradicting it with respect to any aspect of the language, you'd get something pretty close to Turkish :-) I am really surprised you think Turkish is similar to any Indo-European language. Btw, the Altaic language family is also disputed. The most accepted theory is that Turkic languages are an isolated language family by themselves.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ggrrhh_ta on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:05AM (#29540201)
I am sure I had learned (long in the past) that they were in different families; but my little exposure to Turkish led me to believe (having forgotten what I had learned) that they were related; why? because the conjugations and tense modalities evoked to me an analogy to those of romance languages, and the declination cases and flexible word order evoked to me those of Easter European languages; while at the same time dismissing the greatest difference: it's agglutinative character.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by vincentmarle on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:13AM (#29540260)
That’s correct, grammar wise Turkish is closer to Japanese and Korean than to Indo-European languages, but there’s an incredible amount of French loanwords (partly because of Ataturk’s obsession with French).
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by mda on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:49AM (#29540644)
French loanwords started came to language in first half of 19th century, during the attempts of reforms by Sultans and with the influence of people who had French education. I would argue most french loanwords were adapted earlier than 1920's where Ataturk had an influence on Turkish language. Roughly ~4% of Turkish words are French loanwords.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by mda on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:33AM (#29540467)
Turkish has little structural or grammatical resemblance to Indo-European languages from the perspective of its main features (extreme agglutination and vowel harmony).

(Edit: reduced absoluteness, because lack of grammatical gender feature can be found in some Indo-European languages)

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by the_af on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:54AM (#29538769)
> Most languages have far more obvious grammatical distinctions. The Romance languages have obvious gender in the grammar, but it's... just there. It doesn't do much except to indicate that the subject or object is male or female. Beyond that, there are some rather random associations of gender to specific nouns.

I can't speak for all Romance languages but my native Spanish: it's true that we have gendered nouns (most if not all of them, I think) but it has nothing to do with the speaker, so it's not a language for men or women. For example, a chair ("silla") is always female, regardless of whether it's me saying it (a male) or my mother. It's a bit like how ships in English are a "she" regardless of who's speaking, only more enforced and for all nouns.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by okal on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:58AM (#29538787)
An interesting Romance counter-example is "Obrigado" vs "Obrigada" ("thank you", in Portuguese). I'm not even remotely fluent, but if I recall correctly, the gender is dependent on the speaker, not the person being addressed.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by n4r9 on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:40AM (#29539016)
I've heard of this example before, and this is speculative but I wonder if it's because the speaker is counter-intuitively also the object of the phrase.

The root "obrigad" sounds a lot like the English word "obligate". If this is more than just a coincidence, then a more direct translation is "I am obliged" rather than "thank you". Said this way it makes a lot of sense why the verb is determined by the speaker.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by telmo on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:51AM (#29539085)
Yes, this is exactly the reason. (I am a native speaker)
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by the-smug-one on Monday December 13, 2021 @01:49PM (#29542890)
Can it be extended with a reference to the (self-)object? Like "me llamo" being "I call myself" in Spanish for "my name is".
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by jolmg on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:59PM (#29547683)
The difference between the "obrigado" in Portuguese example and the "me llamo" in Spanish example is that "obrigado" is probably an adjective while "llamo" is a verb. An equivalent Spanish example would be "estoy obligado" ("I am obligated" with male speaker) and "estoy obligada" ("I am obligated" with female speaker).

As an aside, I don't think Spanish has a word that's quite like "obliged". Maybe "endeudado", but that's just "in debt" and is not particularly about favors.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by nachexnachex on Tuesday December 14, 2021 @09:34AM (#29551920)
We can say "muy agradecido" or agradecida in formal context. It's unusual, but works as an example
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by the_af on Monday December 13, 2021 @02:53PM (#29543710)
In Spanish, "me llamo" carries no gender information.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by codethief on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:32AM (#29538980)
Well, practically all adjectives in Spanish/Portuguese/French/Italian change depending on the grammatical gender of the noun they refer to. And, of course, if the noun in question is "I" (as in your case), then they reveal the (physical) gender of the speaker because usually

    grammatical gender of a person == physical gender of that person
But compared to the differences in, e.g., Japanese that some people here are discussing, this seems rather minor.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ggrrhh_ta on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:28AM (#29539377)
The most obvious English case would be "beautiful/handsome".

I am handsome.

I am beautiful.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by WillPostForFood on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:30AM (#29539873)
Those words are differentiated on the object, not the gender of the speaker.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ggrrhh_ta on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:48AM (#29540027)
I was trying to give an example similar to obrigado/obrigada in English.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by WillPostForFood on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:59AM (#29540736)
OK, but neither are examples of language being different based on the speaker, they are both based on gender of the object, whether is is contextually yourself, or another.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by kingcharles on Monday December 13, 2021 @03:39PM (#29544327)
Handsome being a male adjective is a recent development though. Read some 19th century novels and the women are routinely described as handsome.

I told my girlfriend she was handsome the other day and she objected strenuously.

https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/355908/why-is-ha...

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by the_af on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:04AM (#29538808)
Oh, yes, but those aren't nouns. I didn't mean Spanish isn't gendered -- it obviously is -- but that gendered nouns aren't indicative of the gender of the speaker, so that particular observation was unrelated to the topic under discussion. Your example is indeed an example of gendered language depending on the speaker, and has similar examples in Spanish (e.g. "contento" / "contenta" for "happy").
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by jolmg on Wednesday December 15, 2021 @04:03PM (#29571598)
Seeing that "obrigato" is used to say thanks kind of makes me wonder if Japanese's "arigato" has a similar etymology.

Apparently not:

http://www.accessj.com/2014/05/etymology-of-arigato.html

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by forinti on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:41AM (#29539967)
There are other little things in Portuguese:

I did it myself: Eu fiz eu mesmo/Eu fiz eu mesma.

And most adjectives. Actually, "obrigado" is "obliged" so the phrase "much obliged" is equivalent to the Portuguese "muito obrigado".

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by pvaldes on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:41PM (#29546228)
"Obrigado" is a contraction for "I am" obrigado. ("I'm indebted to you"), so you need to use the gender appropriate for the speaker
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by guerrilla on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:25AM (#29538946)
I don't think you understood what you're responding to as it was not talking about grammatical gender, which is why it mentioned the use of statistical methods. The claim was that men and women do write in different dialects although they are less pronounced than in other languages.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by StuffMaster on Thursday December 16, 2021 @09:19AM (#29578338)
I thought I read about one such study. IIRC it said women use more personal pronouns in academic papers. Take with grain of salt.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by dudeinjapan on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:47AM (#29539514)
> Japanese with its various first-person pronouns and gendered patterns to verb conjugations is not that odd

Japanese does have gendered first-person pronouns, though the textbook standard one "watashi" is neutral. In Japanese, pronouns in general (including fp) are used less than English; they are only used when there is ambiguity, names are often preferred to pronouns, and in casual speech it is even OK to refer to yourself by your name (like Jimmy from Seinfeld.)

In the textbook, Japanese doesn't really have gendered patterns to verb conjugations. Verbs are rather conjugated based on level of formality, for example "itte-ru", "itte-imasu", "itte-orimasu" all mean "I am going" in ascending degree of politeness. There are also impolite/brash-sounding forms "iku-zo", "ikou-ze", "ike", etc. which tend to be said more by men (or teenage boys) but women can use them too, it's just not "lady-like".

That said--it is fair to observe that in film for example samurai and geishas speak essentially two different sounding languages, more so than a knight versus a princess. Men are expected to be rugged and use "rugged" words; women are expected to be beautiful and use "beautiful" words. There are definitely words, speech, and tonal patterns which are more masculine and feminine, but in anime for example these differences are exaggerated far beyond real-world conversational norms.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by kemayo on Monday December 13, 2021 @12:23PM (#29541774)
I always thought the pronouns were fascinating, just because of the level of intentionality implied in picking one. It's like if in English I deliberately chose to say "I, a tough guy, did X" (which I gather is the approximate equivalent of saying "ore wa X"...).
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by numpad0 on Monday December 13, 2021 @02:10PM (#29543125)
An explanation that I find very fitting to Japanese is it’s a “topic prominent” language with topic-comment structure rather than being subject prominent like English is. The concept of topic explains frequent absence of explicit subjects better, I think.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by tkgally on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:29PM (#29546642)
> ...in anime for example these differences are exaggerated far beyond real-world conversational norms.

Yes, and not only in anime. The stereotyping of language by gender, occupation, social class, etc. is pervasive in Japanese popular culture. The linguist Satoshi Kinsui calls this practice yakuwarigo [1].

It also exists in translations into Japanese from English and other languages, with dialogue in novels being rendered into stereotyped forms, even though the original dialogue was not marked for gender and Japanese people often do not speak that way in real life, either. I worked as a Japanese-to-English translator for many years, and those gendered translations in the other direction always felt strange to me.

I’ve discussed this issue with Japanese translators several times over the years. Most of them said that they were uncomfortable about using those stereotyped forms but that their publishers and, they presumed, the readers expected it. Times are changing, though. Just last month, the Asahi Shimbun ran a series of articles [2, 3, 4; paywalled and in Japanese] about changing attitudes toward gender stereotyping in translations into Japanese.

In real language use, sociolinguistic differences often vary by the individual and the situation. I’ve known Japanese women who never—except maybe when being sarcastic—use the pronouns or sentence-ending forms that are typical of female characters in manga and anime. The faculty meetings at the university where I now teach are conducted in very formal Japanese, and I have never noticed anyone use an expression in those meetings that seemed typically masculine or feminine. Real-life professors don’t talk like professors in manga, either.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Yakuwarigo

[2] https://digital.asahi.com/articles/ASPCB6KD1PBTUPQJ009.html

[3] https://digital.asahi.com/articles/DA3S15110092.html

[4] https://digital.asahi.com/articles/ASPCD3FPHPBPUPQJ014.html

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by qsort on Monday December 13, 2021 @05:49AM (#29538454)
> Any significant text (just a few paragraphs) has enough clues to predict a speaker or writer's gender with considerable confidence.

Do you have any examples of this?

Not saying I don't believe you, but unless the text contains something very obvious (e.g. "my wife"), I often can't tell if the writer is a man or a woman.

It's much easier to tell in Italian, French or Spanish, for example, all languages where the gender of the speaker is baked into most sentences.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by retrac on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:40AM (#29538717)
Some anecdotes I remember regarding American English: men pose fewer questions, are more likely to use double negative forms, and use the passive voice less. Many word choices are somewhat gendered as well. One reply gives the obvious example of "lovely" being much more commonly used by women, but many words are like that. Even a simple choice like which empty qualifier you use -- "drastically", "dramatically", "enormously", "badly", "awfully" -- can apparently tip the scales one way or the other. (I don't know which is supposedly which for those!) These are small differences individually, but summed up they apparently become considerable.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by mojuba on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:03AM (#29538527)
Even as a non-native English speaker I can tell you off the top of my head: "lovely" in the American culture is predominantly used by women (though in the British culture exceptions can be made more often). But I'm sure there are a lot of more subtle differences too.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by kwhitefoot on Monday December 13, 2021 @11:27AM (#29541061)
British culture is very much not homogeneous in this regard. The use of words like lovely probably tells a British speaker more about the geographical origin of the speaker than their sex.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by 3np on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:01AM (#29538516)
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by tech2 on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:22AM (#29540339)
There is a site I'd used a while back for exactly this when I was trying to ensure that my writing (and speech) in some fiction was gendered in a particular manner - https://www.hackerfactor.com/GenderGuesser.php#Analyze

Playing "guess why" is the fun part :) I'm sure there are other tools available now and I'd love to hear of them if people are aware of them!

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by silvester23 on Monday December 13, 2021 @05:56AM (#29538483)
I don't speak any Spanish or Italian, but I had French in school (it's been a while) and I presently cannot recall how the gender of the speaker is more obvious than in, say, English.

I'm curious, could you give me an example please?

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by Fradow on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:02AM (#29538522)
First very simple example that comes to mind, the sentence "I'm happy": in English, the speaker's gender is not obvious.

In French, you will say "Je suis content" if you are male, and "Je suis contente" if you are female.

The trailing "e" change the pronunciation: in the male variant, the trailing "t" is silent, while it's not in the female variant because of that "e".

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by SilasX on Monday December 13, 2021 @11:03AM (#29540782)
English kind of has traces of this in eg “I’m an actress/waitress/stewardess” (vs actor/waiter/steward) although gendered role-terms like those are less common and tend to get phased out in favor of gender-neutral ones (“server” replacing waiter/tress and “flight attendant” replacing steward/ess). And I wouldn’t consider it incorrect or out of place for a woman to say “I’m an actor”.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by pvaldes on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:10PM (#29546490)
Same in Spanish
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by dgellow on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:12AM (#29538564)
"Mon amie est enseignante. Durant l'été elle s'est engagée à se lever plus tôt pour la nouvelle année scolaire."

- "amie" is feminin of "ami"

- "enseignante" is feminin of "enseignant"

- "elle s'est engagée" is feminin of "il s'est engagé"

Edit: note that the concept of "gender" in indo-european languages is only vaguely related to the concept of "gender" as in human sexual expression. For example "la nouvelle année scolaire" ("the new school year"), "année" is considered feminin, so "nouvelle" has to be adapted to the feminin, instead of the masculin/neutral "nouveau". But that of course doesn't make any sense if you only consider "gender in languages" to be about male/female.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by the_af on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:56AM (#29538783)
> - "amie" is feminin of "ami"

But this relates to the gender of the friend, not of the speaker.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by kaladin-jasnah on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:12AM (#29538861)
Yeah, a better example would be something describing their speaker. For example: "je suis américain" vs. "je suis américaine," (I'm American) the latter being the feminine form of "American."

I am not a French speaker by any means so feel free to correct my words.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by kergonath on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:46PM (#29546284)
> feel free to correct my words.

There is nothing to correct, you’re right ;)

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by dgellow on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:57AM (#29539587)
The principle is similar for the speaker. Anything the speaker would say about themselves would have to be gendered accordingly.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by the_af on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:58AM (#29540128)
I don't speak French, but I'm a native Spanish speaker and I have two observations:

First, it's true that Romance languages use gender in this manner. I was just pointing out that the specific example chosen didn't show this. The example has nothing to do with the gender of the speaker, but with the gender of the object under discussion; it's similar to you saying "she" or "her" when referring to a woman; it enables me to make no assumptions about your own gender.

Second:

> Anything the speaker would say about themselves would have to be gendered accordingly.

In Spanish there are careful ways to avoid making assertions about yourself in a gendered manner. They are a bit more roundabout, but can be done. My point is not that this is the most natural way of speaking, just pointing out that it's technically not true that you must always make gendered assertions about yourself.

Example:

Instead of saying "I'm very tired", "estoy muy cansado" (gendered male language) I can say "tiredness overcomes me", "el cansancio me invade", hiding my gender. Yes, it's a bit artificial but not so uncommon I have never read it. So in Spanish you can make assertions about yourself without betraying your gender. Don't know about French or other Romance languages, but it wouldn't surprise me to know you can employ similar tricks. It's probably harder in Spanish than in English to hold a conversation longer than a couple of sentences while hiding your gender; it will start sounding very unnatural, I grant you this.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by dgellow on Monday December 13, 2021 @01:04PM (#29542298)
I guess you could do it to certain extents, but it’s likely to be considered incorrect French, or just really weird. Now if you’re writing a song or a poem, it’s more common to see that kind of construct, as a way to play with rhythm and sounds, so it’s not entirely impossible.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by Al-Khwarizmi on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:01AM (#29538515)
Many adjectives in Spanish have gender, so for example:

I'm tired (male) -> estoy cansado

I'm tired (female) -> estoy cansada

In French it works the same way, although I'm not confident enough in French to give you an example without making horrible spelling mistakes. But the idea is the same.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by Rels on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:47AM (#29538744)
For French:

I'm tired (male) -> Je suis fatigué

I'm tired (female) -> Je suis fatiguée

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by forinti on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:39AM (#29539943)
The French passé composé is funny if translated word for word into Portuguese:

Je suis tombé -> Eu sou caído (or Eu sou tombado) Je suis tombée -> Eu sou caída (or Eu sou tombada)

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by WastingMyTime89 on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:29AM (#29540424)
Je suis tombé is passé composé. Je suis fatigué is présent de l'indicatif. Fatigué can both be an adjectif and a participe passé. The verb fatiguer uses the avoir auxiliary verb when using passé composé however: ils m'ont fatigué / la poutre a fatigué sous le poids.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by simiones on Monday December 13, 2021 @11:38AM (#29541196)
The passé composé of "je suis fatigué(e)" [I am tired] would actually be "j'ai été fatigué(e)" [I was tired]. Translated word for word to Portuguese, this would be "Eu tive sido/estado cansado(cansada)".
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by mrighele on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:11AM (#29538559)
In Italian some tenses are gendered. They are more or less the equivalent of english perfect tenses, like "Io sono andato"/"Io sono andata" (I have been to) "Io sarò andato"/"Io sarò andata" (I will have been to)
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by jameshart on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:51AM (#29539087)
While you can certainly use statements like that to adjust your priors, be careful not to make absolute assumptions - in the US approximately 1% of people who have a wife are women.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by namelessoracle on Monday December 13, 2021 @10:11AM (#29540244)
If your machine learning model had a indicator that could point to something with 99 percent accuracy, you would tell it to ignore that?
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by jameshart on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:17PM (#29546548)
Well, no. And that isn’t what I said, is it?
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by LudwigNagasena on Monday December 13, 2021 @12:31PM (#29541892)
I would say that an assumption with 99% accuracy is a pretty good one.
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by CoastalCoder on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:37AM (#29539930)
Just to clarify to help avoid some awkward moments...

In the U.S., the normalization of gay marriage has involved a lot of cultural strife over the past few decades.

One may still encounter cliques in the U.S. that refuse to accept grammatical constructs such as "her wife" for various reasons.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by wodenokoto on Monday December 13, 2021 @11:36AM (#29541168)
There's a great, and almost impossible to translate, scene in the movie "Your name", where, after the female protagonist character finds herself in the body of the protagonist male characters, almost gets in trouble for using the wrong "I".

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iowh6UxahKs

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by ncpa-cpl on Monday December 13, 2021 @02:07PM (#29543091)
I was going to mention this same example :)
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by throwaway472927 on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:28AM (#29538638)
I imagine to some extent men and women choose different words because they express different ideas? That can still be a for societal reasons if you like but at a "level lower" than language.

This kind of question reminds me of "if a lion could speak, we could not understand him"

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by bruce343434 on Monday December 13, 2021 @05:43AM (#29538422)
do you have a source/more info on your last paragraph?
Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by fxtentacle on Monday December 13, 2021 @05:48AM (#29538448)
I do :)

"We analyzed 700 million words, phrases, and topic instances collected from the Facebook messages of 75,000 volunteers, who also took standard personality tests, and found striking variations in language with personality, gender, and age."

https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal...

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by xioxox on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:17AM (#29538586)
Is it just me, or are most of the results in that paper rather obvious and not very useful in general, outside of social media posts. In Facebook posts, it's not surprising that men talk more about computer games and sport, and swear more. Women using more emotion words and men more object words, is again fairly obvious.

If one took an academic text, a short story, a novel, a blog post, or some other more careful piece of writing, it is unclear whether this kind of classifier would work as well.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by bruce343434 on Monday December 13, 2021 @07:18AM (#29538901)
> Women using more emotion words and men more object words, is again fairly obvious.

Is it? I think it's rather interesting. Though not really as much of a language dialect rather than a perspective shift, as if the men and women on average interpret the world differently.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by jrochkind1 on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:18AM (#29539289)
> If one took an academic text, a short story, a novel, a blog post, or some other more careful piece of writing, it is unclear whether this kind of classifier would work as well.

It should be a pretty easy test to do, for those with the trained classifier; I wonder why they haven't reported on doing it.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by yorwba on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:22AM (#29538604)
It seems like the differences in word choice are strongly driven by the topics people choose to talk about on Facebook. Besides obvious cases like "shopping" vs. "xbox" there's also more subtle things like

> we noticed ‘my wife’ and ‘my girlfriend’ emerged as strongly correlated in the male results, while simply ‘husband’ and ‘boyfriend’ were most predictive for females. Investigating the frequency data revealed that males did in fact precede such references to their opposite-sex partner with ‘my’ significantly more often than females. On the other hand, females were more likely to precede ‘husband’ or ‘boyfriend’ with ‘her’ or ‘amazing’ and a greater variety of words, which is why ‘my husband’ was not more predictive than ‘husband’ alone. Furthermore, this suggests the male preference for the possessive ‘my’ is at least partially due to a lack of talking about others' partners.

To disentangle the effect of topic choice from word choice, you'd probably need a controlled study with fixed writing prompts.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by Metacelsus on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:04AM (#29539173)
>gendered patterns to verb conjugations

Polish does this too.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by eesmith on Monday December 13, 2021 @06:49AM (#29538751)
Is Turing's Imitation Game - in its original formulation to identify which of players A and B is the woman and the man - so easily solved? I don't think so.

It's clear that many factors contribute to one's choice of language.

In the mid-1950s people studied the differences between the English spoken by the upper class ("U") and middle-class ("non-U") in the UK - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U_and_non-U_English .

In the US, a Black American may grow up with speaking African-American Vernacular English (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/African-American_Vernacular_En...), and code switch to speak a more general American dialect.

My freshman year roommate spoke more "Southern" when on the phone to family than when talking to others in the dorm.

The language of a scientific monograph is quite different than the language of an HN comment, and being able to write in that style suggests an academic training.

So I'm not surprised that gender can also be a factor in word choice. Indeed, a friend of mine who reads romance novels claims a common difference between male and female authors is how they describe clothing.

If you want to describe all of those as different languages ... I've long given up trying to understand the differences between 'dialect' and 'language' (much less 'sociolect', 'ethnolect', 'stylistic register', etc) so go right ahead.

But I'm hesitant to believe that "Any significant text" predicts a specific author's gender "with considerable confidence."

I know of several cases where people tried and failed to guess an author's gender. Robert Silverberg, for example, found "something ineluctably masculine about Tiptree's writing"; James Tiptree, Jr. was the male pseudonym of a female author. (https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/James_Tiptree_Jr.)

Searching Google Scholar, I find articles like https://arxiv.org/ftp/arxiv/papers/2109/2109.13890.pdf saying:

> However, other gaps need to be addressed as well, including that no method of classifying age or gender—both of which are aspects of author profiling—that also considers the genre or nature of the analyzed text has been widely endorsed. Beyond that, to the best of our knowledge, no research has involved surveying or comparing the different approaches used in author profiling. In fact, current knowledge about the task is largely based on small-scale experiments conducted to find a reliable classification method with a near-zero error rate. In order to use forensic authorship profiling as admissible evidence in courts, the proposed methods must have about 100% accuracy. The average accuracy of good proposed methods are ranging from 70-85% [5]–[9]. However, the proposed methods still suffer from low accuracy.

That suggests that the "with considerable confidence" you refer to is on a population level, and not a per-person level. Rather like how, with considerable confidence, I can say that in general men are taller than women, even though many women are taller than many men.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by FabHK on Monday December 13, 2021 @08:46AM (#29539505)
> Is Turing's Imitation Game - in its original formulation to identify which of players A and B is the woman and the man - so easily solved? I don't think so.

The imitation game is adversarial (both players try to convince the interrogator that they are the woman, or the human). GP was talking about non-adversarial settings.

Re:Cultures where men and women don’t speak the same languag... by eesmith on Monday December 13, 2021 @09:07AM (#29539657)
The original claim was "Any significant text (just a few paragraphs)".

"Warm Worlds and Otherwise" is a significant text.

I'll grant this qualifier for purposes of discussion. In that case:

- if someone writes using adversarial methods, can that person's gender still be detected? How much text is required?

- Here are male authors who wrote romances using a female pseudonym - https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/104973.Male_Authors_Who_... . Can we presume they used other adversarial methods? I do.

- How many people are trained to write using an adversarial style?

(Quoting the top Google hit for "write like a man" at https://www.timsquirrell.com/blog/2017/3/29/write-like-a-man... : """Teachers often make up for this by telling their female students, either explicitly or implicitly, to "write like a man". This means that they should write confidently, "objectively", not hedging their arguments, coming down boldly on one side of an issue, etc.""")

- Are all gender mis-identifications due to the authors using deliberate adversarial techniques?