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Re:Classism in America by JPKab on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:07AM (#11438845)
Because of where I grew up (rural South and Appalachia), my native accent is something that I've learned to mask in all professional settings. It doesn't matter how immaculate my grammar is: in the profession of software engineering, southern accent = ignorant bigot who can't be trusted. People's biases, conscious or otherwise, are noticeable.

The irony is that I practice "code switching", so basically my coworkers have no idea where I'm from until they ask me. They'll overhear me on the phone talking to my family, and notice that I speak in an entirely different manner. It's not a conscious thing on my part, but I sometimes feel very awkward about it. At times, I'm very upset by the fact that someone who grows up in a particular part of the country gets to speak in their native dialect at work without judgement, all because of stereotypes about intelligence and education, which essentially tie directly to the author's point about class.

Re:Classism in America by henrikschroder on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @01:55PM (#11440431)
Since no-one else mentioned it yet in this subthread, the phenomenon you are discussing is called a sociolect:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sociolect

Basically, since class is culture, and cultures have language, a sociolect describes the language of a class, the ways you have to talk to perform that class.

And, naturally, this goes both ways. Someone talking the sociolect of a certain class is seen as performing that class, and therefore belonging to the class.

It should also be noted that the original article is itself a class performance! The author uses more complex words and grammar than necessary, thereby signalling academia or professional class. (Someone in the comments on that page wondered why this article had a more complex language compared to other articles by the same author, but didn't connect the dots...)

Re:Classism in America by WalterBright on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @04:50PM (#11441993)
Back in the middle ages, when the French conquered Britain, the ruling class spoke French and the peasants spoke English. A lot of French words flowed into English as a result.

But even today, if people use the words of French origin rather than the old English words, one is regarded as being from the upper class, such as using 'purchase' instead of 'buy'.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_English_words_of_Frenc...

Re:Classism in America by benpbenp on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:19PM (#11442652)
The tendency to use "fancier" vocabulary has actually been noted as a tendency of the non-Upper class. Cf. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/U_and_non-U_English
Re:Classism in America by wizardforhire on Thursday April 07, 2016 @04:32AM (#11445667)
Absolutely! I'd like to add, high culture is also used as a term for cultures that are insular and use lots of culturally specific vocabulary. The Southern Culture and accent is actually considered high culture by many anthropologists! By the same token... So is tech culture... Even when it's really annoying stupid fat lazy and mysogonistic and repeating the same problems in a different language that were solved before computers were even invented!!! Wrap your head around that one!

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/High-_and_low-context_cultur...

Re:Classism in America by your_ai_manager on Thursday April 07, 2016 @09:11AM (#11446927)
I never thought I'd say that rare pepes are elements of high culture.
Re:Classism in America by radiowave on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:42PM (#11442866)
The language of aspiration. I like to think that "re-architect" is non-U.
Re:Classism in America by rwjwjuwjudf on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:52PM (#11443372)
People also use something like that to mask a lack of knowledge / experience / understanding / intelligence. Once in a while someone uses big words so well it's poetry, but those people are the exception.
Re:Classism in America by 13of40 on Thursday April 07, 2016 @12:27AM (#11444714)
It's interesting to watch how, in a big tech project, a director or architect will occasionally start using a word like "corpus", "idempotent", "assert", etc. and it will trickle down the layers of the team. By the time the keypunch guy is using it, it's gone out of fashion, like last year's suit.
Re:Classism in America by wizardforhire on Thursday April 07, 2016 @04:41AM (#11445704)
Knowing this, it's fun to purposely mispronounce words to see if it will catch on...
Re:Classism in America by facetube on Thursday April 07, 2016 @05:09AM (#11445846)
Go all the way IMO: make up the words and see if they catch on.
Re:Classism in America by WalterBright on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:59PM (#11443421)
Technobabble is a prime example of that. (Star Trek TNG is a hilarious example of pseudo-science jibber jabber.)
Re:Classism in America by wizardforhire on Thursday April 07, 2016 @04:41AM (#11445709)
Tech the tech!
Re:Classism in America by IkmoIkmo on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:21PM (#11443571)
> Back in the middle ages, when the French conquered Britain, the ruling class spoke French and the peasants spoke English.

This features quite a bit in War and Peace, too. As tensions increase between France and Russia as Napoleon takes over much of Europe and war between the countries looms, you'll find Russian nobility taking Russian language classes, because their first language is French!

Re:Classism in America by kyllo on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:36PM (#11444275)
Cultures vary from country to country, but the elites, they're all one and the same.
Re:Classism in America by JetSpiegel on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:40PM (#11443673)
That's the reason for the animal/meat duality, right?

Such as pig/pork, beef/cow. The working classes spoke English and dealt with the live animals, the elites just ate them.

Re:Classism in America by CWuestefeld on Thursday April 07, 2016 @09:53AM (#11447232)
This is a funny aspect of English. In general, we distinguish the meat of mammals (beef, pork, venison, mutton, ...), but non-mammals are their meat (fish, chicken, ...).

But I don't think this is well explained by a class distinction. I mean, the classes of people who raised sheep weren't so different from the people who raised chickens.

Re:Classism in America by cmurf on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:27PM (#11443936)
chicken, duck, goose, pheasant, squab / poultry?
Re:Classism in America by davidgay on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:20PM (#11444457)
One of those doesn't belong before the /:

Pheasant: from Old French fesan. (the current french is faisan).

Re:Classism in America by Ended on Friday April 08, 2016 @08:29AM (#11454122)
However this comes with the interesting caveat that the English upper classes don't like to appear too French, especially when it comes to pronunciation, where using the foreign pronunciation can be considered rather lower class. This is reflected in class shibboleths such as:

Upper class: valet [val-ett], fillet [fill-ett]. Middle class or lower: valet [val-ay], fillet [fill-ay].

Upper class: claret [clar-ett] (from French clairet). Middle class or lower: Bordeaux.

Re:Classism in America by 762236 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:19PM (#11442189)
I could see the author choose more complicated vocabulary (superfluously) as she progressed through her introduction, and I took it as a demonstration of what she was talking about.
Re:Classism in America by adambard on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:19PM (#11443555)
It may have been intentional or it may not have; I could hardly fault her for subconsciously "performing" given the context.
Re:Classism in America by jamiepenney on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:47PM (#11442900)
I do the same thing. There's a particular way of speaking in the North of New Zealand that is associated with poor Maori - when I'm talking to my dad's family, I switch back to talking like that. I mask it in almost all other situations, but it's caught a few friends out at times. One told me it was like talking to a completely different person.

My dad is a tradesperson, and his influence is the one thing I have never been able to completely hide, even in professional settings. It's gotten me a bit of grief over the years, as my response to stress is often to start swearing like a builder.

On one hand, I like being able to code-switch easily. On the other hand, I feel like the only reason I can do it is because I had to, and the inability to completely mask my lower class upbringing has negatively impacted my opportunities at times.

At this point, I just try to own it. If I don't, it's just persisting the negative stereotypes of people of Maori descent never making something of themselves. Gotta start breaking those biases down somehow.

Re:Classism in America by flashman on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:29PM (#11443233)
Sounds like you're internalizing a really complicated situation in your head, bro.
Re:Classism in America by jklp on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:18PM (#11443896)
In case people think you're being dismissive to the parent, this was a quote from a popular "drink driving" ad which ran in New Zealand - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CtWirGxV7Q8
Re:Classism in America by ethbro on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:13PM (#11444176)
The irony is people were down-voting flashman because they misunderstood the code he was talking with.
Re:Classism in America by flashman on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:55PM (#11444366)
That's always the risk of making an in-joke, especially one about a niche New Zealand drink-driving ad.
Re:Classism in America by Ntrails on Thursday April 07, 2016 @09:25AM (#11447017)
If a joke is worth making it's worth being pilloried for.
Re:Classism in America by nkurz on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:52PM (#11444347)
Oops. You're right.
Re:Classism in America by zeveb on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:18AM (#11439327)
It's remarkable to me how folks who would never, ever be seen to say anything rude about other races (or who would only do so very obliquely) will quite loudly smirk about how much they hate Southerners, how stupid they think Southerners are &c.

It's all just class. One can be just as intelligent with a Southern accent as one can be stupid with another.

Re:Classism in America by hoorayimhelping on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:46AM (#11439529)
When I moved to New York City after living in Florida and North Carolina, I was really surprised at the blatant bigotry here. I've had people respected in this industry for their open mindedness look at me without irony and ask me if it's really as bad as everyone "down there" calling everyone else ... (looks around nervously) ... the N-word.

Todd Barry has a great bit on this (language might be offensive to some) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HfNnM2aYsWo

Re:Classism in America by grahamburger on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:23PM (#11442236)
I had an opposite experience - I moved to Louisiana from a northern state and was shocked at the amount of racism and bigotry openly displayed. While looking in to buying a house I was told but multiple realtors to avoid certain areas because they are "too black." Also I distinctly remember seeing a bumper sticker that deriding mixed race relationships that ended with "don't be a race-mixing slut." Absolutely blew my mind - I didn't know those attitudes still existed.
Re:Classism in America by 0xEFF on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:39PM (#11444287)
Was it the openness of the bigotry that shocked you, or the bigotry itself?

In my experience, there isn't a huge difference in the level of racial bigotry between northern and southern states. The difference lies primarily in the openness of it.

For example, the effects of deed-restricted home sales are still being felt today in many neighborhoods in northern states.

In some ways, the openness of the southern brand of racism is more respectable than the northern brand. While the southern real estate agent was open with you, the northern real estate agent may simply assume you don't want to live in a neighborhood that's "too black," never say so to your face, and proceed to only show you houses in the "nice" part of town.

Yes, it's a contrived example, but it's also something that happens every day all over the country.

Re:Classism in America by gozur88 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:14PM (#11444439)
>In my experience, there isn't a huge difference in the level of racial bigotry between northern and southern states. The difference lies primarily in the openness of it.

When I was managing people in the '90s in California one of the technicians who worked for me was black and had worked all over the country.

He said he much preferred living in the South, because while there was no difference in the number of bigots he ran across, outside the South the bigots weren't brave enough to be open about it so it was harder to tell where he stood.

I think there's probably some legitimacy to that view, but I always wonder how much "shit happens" type stuff gets identified as racism. I'm white, so when a white guy is an asshole to me I assume he's an asshole. If I were black I might assume he's a racist.

Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:41PM (#11443310)
>While looking in to buying a house I was told but multiple realtors to avoid certain areas because they are "too black."

Besides racism, that's also a way to say "too poor/downtrodden/crime ridden".

To which, they would indeed have a point (statistics wise), although that of course is caused by the systemic injustice and lack of opportunities against blacks for centuries.

Also notice how people still say the exact same thing about "white trash" places in the North (and South), and nobody seems to mind, because while the US got more tolerant about race, they still don't give a rats arse about classism and social exclusion based on being poor and not a "success".

Re:Classism in America by stcredzero on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @04:19PM (#11441701)
When I moved to New York City after living in Florida and North Carolina, I was really surprised at the blatant bigotry here.

There is a lot of bigotry in the Bay Area and online. Considering what we know about the mental shortcuts people use to process complex social information, evidence/science minded people should expect there to be bigotry as an unfortunate phenomenon to be aware of. Instead, it has received the imprimatur of "sin."

It's a thorny problem. Talk about bigotry in the "wrong" way, and you ironically open yourself up to yet more bigotry involving projections about your internal mental state.

Re:Classism in America by placeybordeaux on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @04:56PM (#11442031)
Move to Seattle from Atlanta and quickly got sick of people up here talking about how racist it must be in Atlanta.
Re:Classism in America by xoqem on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:49PM (#11443723)
This particular point has always been a bit funny to me.

I mean, sure, there are super racist areas in the south. I grew up and lived in mostly rural Alabama for the first 20+ years of my life, and there were some rural areas that were just as terrible as people imagine (cross burnings, open Klan meetings, etc, though that was starting to die down in the last 10 years or so I lived there).

That said, a lot of cities in the south are 30% - 50% black (sometimes more), and people who live in those cities, generally speaking, coexist and interact with many black and white people on a continual basis. It'd be kind of hard to do that and be super racists to the level people imagine the south to be.

Re:Classism in America by ido on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:55AM (#11445030)
I talked to a lot more black programmers in meetups in Atlanta than I have in San Francisco (I'm not American and was a visitor in both places) & was surprised by how biased against the former people in the latter were, despite evidence to the contrary.
Re:Classism in America by placeybordeaux on Thursday April 07, 2016 @03:12PM (#11449783)
In Atlanta race is not a special issue, it's a fact of daily life. Interacting with black people isn't an unusual event where you get to pat yourself on the back for 'not being racist'. It's simply what happens everyday.

Or maybe I am just bitter about a 70% white city talking about how racist a 53% black city must be.

Re:Classism in America by JustSomeNobody on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @01:40PM (#11440325)
Exactly. As a southerner, I have an accent, but I also don't answer important questions fast. IOW, I pause a beat to collect my thoughts. People tend to think this too is a sign of "stupid". Really, it's just I don't like to be wrong. I'd rather be slow up front and be right, than fast up front and be wrong. However, our development culture tends to think everything needs to happen as fast as possible (the whole twitter in a weekend meme).
Re:Classism in America by CuriouslyC on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:08PM (#11443835)
Just a useful trick, you can have the best of both worlds if you respond with "well, it depends", play up a dramatic pause, and follow with "on one hand..." and finish with a counter-point. It seems to result in a less argumentative response when people disagree as well.
Re:Classism in America by hueving on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:20AM (#11444902)
(impending anecdote) - this is something I noticed when I lived in the south for a while. More people tended to think before they spoke which would result in cleaner, less runny conversations compared to the typical word diarrhea I was accustomed to sifting through growing up in the Northwest. It was actually quite nice to deal with after a short adjustment period for me to discard my knee jerk reaction of assuming the heat fried everyone's brains.
Re:Classism in America by protomyth on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:14PM (#11442599)
> IOW, I pause a beat to collect my thoughts. People tend to think this too is a sign of "stupid".

A lot of tribes in the US have members that exhibit this same behavior. A respectful pause to consider a response and a slow cadence should be a sign they have considered their words, but instead is portrayed as stupid. It made going to DC and dealing with bureaucrats in the 90's a pain in the butt.

Re:Classism in America by hkmurakami on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:06PM (#11443064)
>IOW, I pause a beat to collect my thoughts. People tend to think this too is a sign of "stupid". Really, it's just I don't like to be wrong. I'd rather be slow up front and be right, than fast up front and be wrong.

I'm really glad to hear that I'm not alone with this struggle. Still don't have a good answer for it though. :(

Re:Classism in America by alatkins on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:20PM (#11444458)
Just give it a bit longer... :-P
Re:Classism in America by leoc on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:22PM (#11443575)
If it's any consolation, I wish I could pick up that behaviour. Might have saved me a fair bit of unpleasantness.
Re:Classism in America by rgrieselhuber on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:37AM (#11439469)
That's because there is often a social (status signaling) benefit to disparaging Southerners in many parts of the US. Particularly in coastal, urban areas.
Re:Classism in America by jff on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:45AM (#11439521)
Don't forget "flyover states", to be uttered in the same tone of disgust as "southerner"!
Re:Classism in America by rgrieselhuber on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @01:24PM (#11440208)
Yup, same deal. The city dwellers always despise the rural folk they depend on.
Re:Classism in America by blakeyrat on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:55PM (#11442482)
The only reason I even live within commuting distance of a large city is because that's where the only good-paying tech jobs are. If I had been a, say, banker or a mechanic or a plumber I'd be able to work in any town in the country, but no, dumb me had to become a computer programmer.

If I could participate in this career/industry from a smaller town, you bet your butt I'd do it in a second.

Re:Classism in America by adambard on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:48PM (#11443713)
Do you realize that ours is one of the few jobs that can be conducted entirely remotely? Perhaps the remote-work train is destined to derail at some point in the future, but at the moment it's totally possible to find work that lets you live anywhere there's available internet.
Re:Classism in America by gozur88 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:24PM (#11444475)
Is it really? I see this written on HN all the time, but of everyone I know who tried to find a remote job failed.

The people who ended up working remotely are the ones who worked in the office for many years and gained the trust of their employer. Then when the family moved (usually due to a spouse changing jobs) the employer decided to let them work remotely rather than letting them go, at least in the near term.

Re:Classism in America by adambard on Thursday April 07, 2016 @12:48AM (#11444805)
> The people who ended up working remotely are the ones who worked in the office for many years and gained the trust of their employer.

Well yes pretty much this. I worked for a year on-premises before switching to remote, and I can imagine it's harder to find remote work from the get-go.

Re:Classism in America by ido on Thursday April 07, 2016 @02:00AM (#11445052)
I've had many remote jobs (including current). Another option is to start as a (remote) freelancer / consultant and transition to normal full-time while remaining remote.
Re:Classism in America by rgrieselhuber on Saturday April 09, 2016 @06:11PM (#11463596)
Our company works almost entirely remotely.
Re:Classism in America by blakeyrat on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:54PM (#11449177)
Yes; but I don't want to work remotely. I want to work in an office with colleagues. I just don't want to have to commute to the center of a large city to do it.

My father was a school board administrator. He was able to make good money, work in an office with colleagues, and still had the ability to live in practically every town in the US. School boards are everywhere. Tech companies are only in the largest cities.

It's really frustrating.

Re:Classism in America by Terr_ on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:00PM (#11442063)
I'd say that cuts both ways, as a latte-sipping godless liberal etc.
Re:Classism in America by protomyth on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:17PM (#11442628)
Yeah, but we don't control the media. There is not a national news station showing what's important to the middle states.
Re:Classism in America by gozur88 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:28PM (#11444495)
I noticed that, particularly about the New York Times. Periodically they'll have a piece about something in the South and it's always about the stereotypical slack-jawed yokel who's trying to marry his sister, or is living in a dirt hut but has 5000 guns, or a preacher who preaches black people are the descendants of Cain, or some such. It's like people in New York can't start their day without feeling superior to someone else.
Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:46PM (#11443336)
There is a big one, called FOX.
Re:Classism in America by protomyth on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:20PM (#11443562)
That would be the stereotypical wrong answer.
Re:Classism in America by amttc on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:25PM (#11444226)
The people who Fox News caters to the most are suburbanites. Most people way out here are lukewarm on Fox News. They're just... different. They agree with some things that I imagine would be popular in big coastal cities, but disagree with other things that might surprise you, so.
Re:Classism in America by catawbasam on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:54PM (#11443758)
ummm... not really.

Fox News Network, LLC 1211 Avenue Of The Americas New York, NY 10036

Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:21PM (#11444205)
That's its location.

The question was whether there's a network "showing what's important to the middle states".

(Which I interpret as "important related to their views on laws, life, politics, ethics, etc", not as "related to regional news").

Re:Classism in America by ArkyBeagle on Friday April 08, 2016 @01:24PM (#11456295)
FOX is targeted at McMansion owners.
Re:Classism in America by tomc1985 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:07PM (#11442115)
And country bumpkins despise townies... so everyone hates everyone! Let's just get that out there :)
Re:Classism in America by rgrieselhuber on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:17PM (#11442631)
Sure, but I'd wager that the rural folk would be fine if all the city dwellers disappeared, and that the opposite is not true.
Re:Classism in America by zeveb on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:55PM (#11442964)
> Sure, but I'd wager that the rural folk would be fine if all the city dwellers disappeared, and that the opposite is not true.

As much as I like rural folks and like to spend time with them (and despise folks who look down on them), the farmer is just as reliant on the financiers who ensure a steady cash flow for the multinational which delivers him his fertiliser, his fuel, the parts for his tractor, his clothes, his food &c. &c. &c.

We're all interconnected.

Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:47PM (#11443348)
Food wise maybe.

But do you think your medicine, qualified doctors, medical equipment, internet, computers you use, movies and tv series you watch, trucks you drive and tons of other things besides grow on trees?

(Not to mention farming subsidies)

Re:Classism in America by teacup50 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:12PM (#11443863)
Cities really, truly, do not have a monopoly on the production of those things.
Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:20PM (#11444202)
Cities really, truly, have historically predominantly invented, produced and designed those things (including designing and paying for the factories seemingly in the country).

Not many medicine schools, pharma corps, research labs, car manufactures, tech companies, tv and movie studios, etc operating out of rural Idaho, or South Dakota, or Alabama, or what have you...

Re:Classism in America by teacup50 on Saturday April 09, 2016 @01:01PM (#11462074)
You do understand that cities build up around industry, right?
Re:Classism in America by GFK_of_xmaspast on Thursday April 07, 2016 @10:14AM (#11447385)
Historically speaking, they generally do. See forex Jane Jacobs: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jane_Jacobs#The_Economy_of_Cit...
Re:Classism in America by rgrieselhuber on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:38PM (#11443659)
Those things are all related to quality of life vs. life itself.
Re:Classism in America by justin66 on Thursday April 07, 2016 @02:35PM (#11449489)
In the United States, if the "city dwellers" all disappeared, the "rural folk" would go from barely getting by despite being heavily subsidized by everyone else to some kind of devolved state that looked like an Amish version of The Road Warrior.

If the opposite happened, urban areas would buy their food somewhere else and eventually save some money thanks to the increased competition in the market and the lack of agricultural subsidies, not to mention all the other ways we subsidize rural America's inefficiencies.

Re:Classism in America by vacri on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:47PM (#11443706)
If you want to go back to subsistence farming, sure. The world is filled with places like that. Don't forget that your machinery is largely designed and built in urban environments. Don't forget that your serious medical care comes from urban environments. And, most importantly, don't forget that your customers largely come from urban environments. If the cities went away, so do your clients and your manufacturing and transportation sources. So, back to subsistence living for you...

I grew up in the city and spent summers on my uncle's farm and have seen both sides. Gods, I am tired of this fucking stupid rural vs urban debate. They need each other, and can't exist in a modern world without each other. Move to the countryside and I hear stereotypes about how shit the people in the city are. Move back to the city and hear stereotypes about how shit the people in the country are. Both sets of stereotypes are largely wrong. Likewise, the people whose jobs straddle both urban and rural environments are not the people who use these stereotypes.

Re:Classism in America by 100k on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:40PM (#11439906)
I got a bit of that when I moved to SF. It's harder to pin Midwesterners down by accent, though (city folks, anyway).
Re:Classism in America by cableshaft on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @03:42PM (#11441333)
Hey everyone, I found one! He said folk, without saying "indie" before and "music" after! Dead giveaway!
Re:Classism in America by caseysoftware on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:13PM (#11443110)
Part of that is because Chicago is considered the baseline "accent" for many news broadcasters, radio personalities, etc. As a result, most Americans have heard that accent their entire life and therefore don't really interpret it as all that different.

I've found that it's the keywords that indicate where people are from within the Midwest:

Is it soda or pop? Is it car-mel or care-uh-mel?

(I do linguistic stuff in my day job.)

Re:Classism in America by Retra on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:37PM (#11443284)
Even that can differ between rural and urban. I've lived in the midwest for most of my life, and apparently there's all sorts of "terms midwesterners use" that I've only rarely heard anyone say, and most often only to point out that they don't say it.
Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:51PM (#11443366)
This depends though. Did you live "all over the midwest" or in a specific state? The very same things people pointed they don't say, could be prevalent in a nearby state.
Re:Classism in America by ArkyBeagle on Friday April 08, 2016 @01:21PM (#11456269)
Is it Chicago? I used to hear it was Johnny Carson's Nebraska flat accent.

To my ear, the Chicago accent is represented but exaggerated in the "Bill Swerski's Superfans" sketches from SNL in the 1990s - "Da bearssss".

And it's "cur-muhl". :)

Re:Classism in America by jpulec on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:02PM (#11444387)
Being from Wisconsin, I always get called out for how I pronounce "bag" and "bagel".
Re:Classism in America by mbcrower on Thursday April 07, 2016 @12:35AM (#11444747)
From Minnesota. I get the same.
Re:Classism in America by CuriouslyC on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:12PM (#11443866)
I've met a few glib midwesterners that still had that characteristic way of pronouncing "roots".
Re:Classism in America by Roboprog on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:08PM (#11439693)
On the other hand, look at how (politically) "those people" behave in aggregate. It might only be a majority of 51%, but clearly there is a sizable portion of people in the (traditionally somewhat sparsely populated) south / center of the country that have quite different values than the the people living along the crowded coasts.

Not saying one group is smarter/dumber, just that the difference in values makes it hard to come to an agreement, which can make the "other" side seem stupid / "full of shit" / nuts.

Re:Classism in America by mikeash on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:44PM (#11444307)
Yes, but there are lots of Southerners who are just as progressive as anyone. The distribution is skewed relative to the rest of the country, but that sort of thinking is far from universal.

It's only reasonable to recognize and acknowledge that the South as a whole acts somewhat differently. But it's wrong to talk about all Southerners as if they're the same, or treat all Southerners badly because of it.

It's just like with race. There are real, factual differences between racial groups, and acknowledging this is not a bad thing. What's bad is judging or biasing your interaction with people from those racial groups because of it.

Re:Classism in America by fnovd on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:58PM (#11440008)
Not everyone southerner has "southern" values. The south also has urban areas where people lean more to the left than their rural counterparts. There are just fewer of them. They (unfairly) get stuck with the same stereotypes.
Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:52PM (#11443375)
That's the idea of generalizations. They don't need to be 100% fair, just statistically useful.

I'd wish people would get that, and only complain when a generalization is statistically wrong (e.g. doesn't really hold for the majority of the people it lumps along), instead of everytime they find a counter-example...

Re:Classism in America by hueving on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:32AM (#11444940)
Simpsons paradox though. There are more conservative people in California than there are in Georgia (e.g. more people in California voted for Mitt Romney than people in Georgia). Slicing people up into states to make nice sound bite statistics is useless and leads to stupid stereotypes.
Re:Classism in America by coldtea on Thursday April 07, 2016 @08:10AM (#11446573)
Well, that more people in California "voted for Mitt Romney than people in Georgia" might not tell the whole story.

Are the people in California traditionalist, religious, backwards, or even racist, etc, as the people in Georgia? They might not be, regardless of who they chose to vote for -- which takes into account many factors and policies.

That said, California is also traditionally regarded as conservative (at least by us in Europe) -- it's places like Massachusetts or Vermont that we'd count as progressive. Especially since California is regarded as hardcore pro-money/big-business, which is large part of being a "conservative" here.

Re:Classism in America by hueving on Thursday April 07, 2016 @10:53AM (#11447718)
Same percentage voted for Romney in Massachusetts as did in California. Again, grouping people by states is ridiculous to represent the views of the whole population of the state. It usually comes down to urban vs rural and that's about it.

Atlanta is not all that different from LA and Boston politically.

Re:Classism in America by Roboprog on Saturday April 09, 2016 @02:18PM (#11462542)
Thank you. Thus my using "51%" as a hypothetical proportion.
Re:Classism in America by moistgorilla on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @04:43PM (#11441931)
I've been living in Georgia for 5 years and I can count the amount of times I've seen or heard someone being blatantly racist on my hand.
Re:Classism in America by rnovak on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:03PM (#11442084)
Or, you know, less people vote in the south. In the 2012 Election, southern states all had far less turnout than northern states[1]. Your'e not comparing apples to apples.

Saying the entire south in aggregate is "stupider" because of that is plain wrong.

http://www.electproject.org/2012g

Re:Classism in America by Roboprog on Tuesday April 12, 2016 @09:54AM (#11479568)
1) I said that a difference in values (due to location / population distribution / history ???) made them reason differently, not that they were actually stupid.

2) I also meant to highlight "some do, some don't" by saying "perhaps 51%". Perhaps 51% is even too high, maybe it's just a vocal minority.

3) By calling them (in quotes) "those people" and "other" I was alluding to a certain amount of xenophobia on the part of coastal dwellers when considering fly-over dwellers. And yes, that cuts both ways.

Re:Classism in America by Spooky23 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:50PM (#11443735)
In many ways, it's true.

Educational outcomes are far worse in the South. Teachers make less, schools are funded more poorly, especially for poor folk.

Re:Classism in America by Spooky23 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:39PM (#11443667)
"Those people" are stuck with hopelessly gerrymandered districts and voter suppression.
Re:Classism in America by kyleblarson on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:10PM (#11442581)
If one hasn't visited the South and relies on current events and news to derive an opinion on the area it's hard to blame them for thinking the southern states are in a race to the intellectual bottom.
Re:Classism in America by NoGravitas on Thursday April 07, 2016 @08:31AM (#11446698)
I've lived my whole life in the South and think the southern states are in a race to the intellectual bottom -- though only the legislators are actually running in the race. A majority of the rest of us are just cheering them on.
Re:Classism in America by ArkyBeagle on Friday April 08, 2016 @01:09PM (#11456197)
Meh. Be loud and proud about it.

I bet half of those people left the South and are fronting about it.

Re:Classism in America by secstate on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:21AM (#11438917)
That's fascinating. I remember reading something a while ago about the loss of regional accents (there's a great "Downeast" accent up here in Maine that no one has anymore, except lobstermen). People like to blame mass media, but in reality it's mass communication and the stigma of having a thick Brooklyn, Southie, or Downeast accent that encourages folks to pretend they don't have one.

On the flip side, there is some evolutionary reasons why humans make quick decision when encountering new people or places, and I would guess it would take generations to change our hardwiring to NOT make those assumptions unconsciously. Even more brutal, if that hardwiring changes, there are circumstances where we'd likely be in trouble but for our split second assumptions.

Fascinating story on NPR last year about a cop in an evacuated Wal-mart looking for an active shooter. Came around the corner to see a white woman and for half a second wondered why a civilian was still in the store. Then she shot at him, he returned fire and barely escaped with his life. So there's arguments to be made for learning how to avoid those assumptions too :) Crazy, mixed up world we humans make for ourselves.

Re:Classism in America by tamana on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:06PM (#11439679)
And remember: if he had encountered a black civilian at that moment, the civilian would not have escaped with his life.
Re:Classism in America by kbenson on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:15PM (#11439747)
Just because he was quick to classify with a false negative doesn't mean he would have been quick to classify with a false positive. Just because he's a police officer doesn't mean he doesn't deserve to be seen as an individual that makes his own decisions, and has his own opinions, views and predispositions.

That you would make such a comment in a discussion about classism and racism is very ironic.

Re:Classism in America by fnovd on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:47PM (#11439946)
While the outright assertion that a black suspect would have been shot is unjustified, it seems counterintuitive to simultaneously make reference to one erroneous snap judgment (the cop assuming the white woman was not the shooter) without acknowledging the other side of that coin. Why is the cop an allowable surrogate of societal stereotypes when he assumes the white woman is not the shooter, but an "individual that makes his own decisions, and has his own opinions, views and predispositions" when an alternative hypothetical is presented?
Re:Classism in America by kbenson on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @01:04PM (#11440065)
> it seems counterintuitive to simultaneously make reference to one erroneous snap judgment (the cop assuming the white woman was not the shooter) without acknowledging the other side of that coin.

No supporting evidence has been presented that a person will necessarily attribute the same level of certainty when positively or negatively associating a person to a category, either globally or under specific circumstances that match these. Identifying someone as a threat and discounting someone as not a threat may engage different levels of reasoning and heuristics in different circumstances, and assuming they are equivalent without justification is a mistake, in my opinion.

> Why is the cop an allowable surrogate of societal stereotypes when he assumes the white woman is not the shooter, but an "individual that makes his own decisions, and has his own opinions, views and predispositions" when an alternative hypothetical is presented?

His behavior with regard to race was classified based purely on his profession. I'm not sure how that's justifiable.

Edit: To more directly address what I think your point is, we were presented a situation, not necessarily the police officer's reasoning and perspective. We don't know if the reason he thought she was not the shooter was her color, gender, clothing, bearing or some combination of those and other factors. There is little information to go on, so we shouldn't assume we know much.

Re:Classism in America by secstate on Friday April 08, 2016 @01:00PM (#11456120)
In the long-form radio story, the cop very clearly presents that it was the shooters apparent gender that confused him and nearly cost him his life and the life of the perpetrator. They also noted in the story that officers are briefed on active shooter situations to assume a white male suspect. This was in Nevada, a state that has become (thanks largely to this and other similar stories) a paragon of officer education on the nature of cognitive biases and how to understand and use them to greatest affect.
Re:Classism in America by kbenson on Friday April 08, 2016 @01:56PM (#11456554)
If this information was available at the start, portions of my comments would have been different. As it is, I don't think it's appropriate to assume the facts you've now presented, as it doesn't make for a good discussion, and it isn't fair to the people involved. As it is, I stand by my earlier comments which referenced what information we know or don't know, since anyone coming with information only from your original comment couldn't know that, and what's more, according to you, the skin color actually wasn't the deciding factor.

I present this not as an argumentative reply to you, but just to clarify my point in my immediately preceding comment in this thread, as it seems to have been polarizing (it fluctuated from -2 to +3 multiple times, and now sits at 0).

Re:Classism in America by refurb on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:41PM (#11444001)
I don't think that's true if it had been a black woman. I'd argue that it was the sex of the person more than the color that got him in trouble. Men commit a lot more violent crime than women do.
Re:Classism in America by civilian on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:36PM (#11442796)
That's doubtful--- it's young white men who tend to execute mass-shootings, and the officer in question knew he was responding to a mass shooting.
Re:Classism in America by im3w1l on Thursday April 07, 2016 @03:38AM (#11445437)
While you are right that gender is a very strong predictor, you are wrong about race, according to CNN[1].

> white people ... committed some 64% of the shootings ... Black people committed close to 16% ... Asians were responsible for around 9% ... Latinos are almost nowhere to be seen

> whites and blacks are pretty proportionate to their population

[1] http://edition.cnn.com/2015/06/27/us/mass-shootings/index.ht...

Re:Classism in America by secstate on Thursday April 07, 2016 @10:02AM (#11447300)
No, the cop on the show explained his reasoning that he expected a young white male. Cops are taught that active shooters are predominantly young white males. You can argue statistics, but the officer in the piece specifically said he was looking for a man, not a woman.
Re:Classism in America by civilian on Saturday April 09, 2016 @04:33AM (#11460506)
Yup, this. I tried to find the episode but I can't remember what show it was on. :-/
Re:Classism in America by SEJeff on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:51AM (#11439138)
Also being from the south (Kentucky, so not as far south perhaps), I see this as well. My approach is actually the inverse. Like racism or really any form of bigotry, I call it out when I see it and make it known this is _not_ ok. Very few HR departments are ok with bigotry of this sort.

You shouldn't have to be ashamed of how you sound or where you're from. I do massively agree with you regarding people thinking southerners are stupid bigots. The way to fix that is to show them you're not, and make a strong point of showing it.

It reminds me of a trip I recently took to Belfast. The day I was there, a car bomb from the IRA killed a police officer. A cabbie asked me if I supported Donald Trump and told he we was surprised I didn't. He told me all Americans supported Trump. So I asked him if he was an IRA thug/terrorist, to which he naturally said no. So rhetorically, I asked how he was from northern ireland and not IRA. When he explained what was obvious, I said EXACTLY, this is much like people who support trump in America. The vocal minority often drown out the majority. Blindly categorizing someone in $group is bigotry plain and simple. Just because it comes from an educated person in tech doesn't make it any less so. Perhaps point out this hypocrisy.

Re:Classism in America by falsestprophet on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:16AM (#11439311)
"A cabbie asked me if I supported Donald Trump and told he we was surprised I didn't. He told me all Americans supported Trump. So I asked him if he was an IRA thug/terrorist, to which he naturally said no."

It's hardly reasonable to compare being a member of a terrorist organization to supporting the leading candidate of one of two major parties.

Consider just the sheer effort of participating in terrorism is far greater than voting.

Re:Classism in America by PhasmaFelis on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:49AM (#11439556)
Can you come up with a better analogy on the spot that would have worked in that situation?

SEJeff obviously isn't saying that Trump support and IRA support are exactly equivalent. He's saying they're both subgroups in a larger population that outsiders stereotype as representing the entire population, to the disgust of many of the people stereotyped. It's an excellent analogy because it references a situation that's intimately familiar to the person he's speaking to.

Re:Classism in America by vacri on Thursday April 07, 2016 @12:27AM (#11444717)
"Are you protestant/catholic" would suffice. Lots of people in the US support Trump. Lots of people in NI are either protestant or catholic, and it's a shorthand for the sides of the same political divide that the IRA is involved in.
Re:Classism in America by SEJeff on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:53AM (#11439594)
bingo!
Re:Classism in America by SEJeff on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:45AM (#11439522)
Well I was pointing out his logical fallacy in assuming I supported someone because of where I was from. That is a ridiculous assumption, so I made an equally ridiculous one, which he immediately understood. Then we got on really well.
Re:Classism in America by falsestprophet on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @12:21PM (#11439792)
It isn't equally ridiculous.

38.6% of Americans state that they would vote for Donald Trump over Hilary Clinton while 49% state that they would vote for Clinton over Trump.

There are only several hundred members of the IRA today (out of 1.8 million people in Northern Ireland) and even fewer of them participate in terrorism.

And it's not a logical fallacy. The cab driver clearly didn't mean all Americans support Donald Trump. Presumably he knows there are other candidates so thats at least a few people who don't support Trump. He meant a lot of Americans do support Trump and clearly they do.

[1] http://www.realclearpolitics.com/epolls/2016/president/us/ge...

[2] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Real_Irish_Republican_Army

Re:Classism in America by PhasmaFelis on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @03:26PM (#11441175)
> The cab driver clearly didn't mean all Americans support Donald Trump. Presumably he knows there are other candidates so thats at least a few people who don't support Trump. He meant a lot of Americans do support Trump and clearly they do.

Why are you willing to accept that the cab driver was speaking figuratively, but not that SEJeff was?

Re:Classism in America by mikeash on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:47PM (#11444323)
> The cab driver clearly didn't mean all Americans support Donald Trump.

Then why was he surprised to meet an American who didn't? You're really reaching.

Re:Classism in America by gilleain on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:23AM (#11439353)
Not only unreasonable, but also fairly unwise to be asking a Belfast cab driver if he's a member of the IRA.
Re:Classism in America by mineshaftgap on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:26AM (#11439379)
Trump is considered racist for wanting to secure the borders. Both parties leadership, made up of out of touch elites, have decided that illegal immigration is good for their interests, voters be damned. Dems need to have more people on gov assistance and the GOP wants cheap labor with no rights. I dislike Trump but if both sides are demonizing him then he is probably on the right track.
Re:Classism in America by vinbreau on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:50PM (#11442930)
I'm from SE Texas and had a very thick accent growing up. I spent considerable effort getting rid of that accent around age 16. It's a double edged sword. I got so good at it that when I acquired a job at a newspaper in the town I was born in it caused some issues. Locals were upset about our paper hiring a girl from Indiana and another guy from Ohio. It was a very small town and the locals believed the local newspaper should be staffed by locals. When I would interview people they would get standoffish, accusing me of being a northerner, an outsider. I would tell them I could see the hospital I was born in from my office window, but they wouldn't believe me. My accent still comes out when I've had a few drinks or get tired. I've had a few people notice and think it's hysterical that I try to hide it. I too work in tech now and don't want anybody making snap judgments about me from the way I speak.
Re:Classism in America by ArkyBeagle on Friday April 08, 2016 @01:16PM (#11456231)
I use both accents with people, depending on context. It it not false nor disingenuous in my opinion because different sentences may work better with one or the other.
Re:Classism in America by coroutines on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:16AM (#11444887)
I think this kind of goes both ways.

I've had instances where if I reveal my technical experience with the usual way I speak about such things - I get cold/rude service. This happened at one of those AT&T storefronts, Best Buy, Fry's Electronics, and at more than a few Apple Stores. I don't try to be intimidating, but I do want to inform the person "helping" me if I can...

I've gotten into the habit of adopting a slower speech with a slight drawl in an effort to appear more relatable and honest about my intentions. It takes some patience as I have to describe my problem 'in a circle' and without a larger vocabulary. However, I don't get treated like sheltered upper-class and people seem to want to help me rather than avoid me.

I've also avoid sounding like the stereotypical homosexual. Just the "accent" makes some people freak out and say I'm 'shoving it in their face'. I'm looking at you Aunt Marlene. I reserve the lisp for Vegas and Chippendales.

Just something to think about...

Re:Classism in America by wil421 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:06AM (#11439244)
I'm from Atlanta and still live here. You wouldnt know I was from the South because of my accent, I have none. I did kill my accent in grade school when kids made fun of me for saying words different.

In my limited experience working with others, southern accent = ignorant bigot has not been something I have seen with my co workers. People usually just shrug it off but I can see why a country accent may be looked down upon by ignorant people.

What part of the country do you work in?

Re:Classism in America by juejuli on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:09PM (#11444157)
> I did kill my accent in grade school when kids made fun of me for saying words different.

Ha ha amazingly I can detect a southern accent even in your writing! ('different' when someone not from the south would say 'differently')

Language is amazing isn't it.

Re:Classism in America by brandonmenc on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:29PM (#11444241)
I'm from Northwest Pennsylvania, and everyone there would also say "different."

I know, because in high school I became friends with a highly educated family who moved into town after having lived all over the world, and made an effort to match their more intelligent sounding speech (which included, among other things, adding -ly to adverbs.)

My mom still occasionally teases me that I say "eye-ther" instead of "eee-ther" (for "either.")

Re:Classism in America by jpindar on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:53PM (#11444356)
Pennsyltucky is almost south. :)
Re:Classism in America by jdminhbg on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:03AM (#11444852)
Only if you have trouble distinguishing Appalachia from the South.
Re:Classism in America by brandonmenc on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:24AM (#11444912)
Well... I'm from Erie, which is more like Cleveland or Buffalo than central PA.
Re:Classism in America by hkmurakami on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:08PM (#11443072)
Fascinating since I feel that a southern accent (perhaps a light one) can be an advantage in professional services (ex: law) since it communicates approachability and trustworthiness.
Re:Classism in America by cmurf on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @09:13PM (#11443867)
Stereotypes. They exist for a reason, it's just that we think they are true more often than they are, so we end up making the wrong choice much of the time.

Most elite Northerner whites are just as insulated as they think Southerners are, when it comes to traveling within their own country. In fact they typically know jack shit about Southern culture. There was a time when Southern accents were considered deliberately slow, enunciated, cultured. Yes, at that time whites were at the top of the class food chain, and yes most of that white privilege was racist or at least depended on it. But the accent is orthogonal to racism. We've just come to associate one with the other, using a stereotype.

Another stereotype is white Northerners will pretty much assume white Southerners, identified as such by their drawl, may be a racist.

Assumptions are traps.

Re:Classism in America by superdude264 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:55PM (#11442479)
If it makes you feel better, Fred Brooks of System/360 ("mainframe") fame has a pronounced Southern accent, and is a Turing award winner.
Re:Classism in America by forrestthewoods on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:10PM (#11442134)
Seattle is wildly bigoted against Southerners. Wildly. It's a real problem.
Re:Classism in America by xoqem on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:31PM (#11443623)
This hasn't been my experience at all. I moved to Seattle from Alabama (almost 10 years ago now), and openly tell people I'm from Alabama, and I've yet to feel discriminated against because of it. In fact, some people are a bit envious of property prices there. I think mostly they are just glad I'm not from California ;).
Re:Classism in America by santaclaus on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:55PM (#11442485)
Really? I'm originally from the south but have had zero issues in the northwest -- everyone is super mellow.
Re:Classism in America by forrestthewoods on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:55PM (#11443395)
They like you just fine. You're not like "them". You're not like the racist, bigoted, regressive, backwards, ignorant, inbreds of people who still live in the South.

Most people out here can comprehend the concept that there are people in our country who conservative, religious, and smart. They'd shit themselves if they met someone who was conservative and smarter than they were. (This is where you insert a joke about if they're so smart then why are they conservative! hardy har har.)

Re:Classism in America by elandybarr on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @08:33PM (#11443632)
You don't deserve the downvotes.

I grew up in Seattle and still live there. If you voice any opinions that are not in a narrow band of the far left wing, they (including recent transplants) will attribute you holding that opinion to your place of origin, rather than listening to any justification you have for holding that opinion.

Re:Classism in America by forrestthewoods on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:23PM (#11444470)
My girlfriend's company in Capitol Hill is super big on diversity. It's a huge part of their hiring process. They're about 50 to 60 people large. I asked her how many conservatives work there. Answer: zero.

Along some axes Seattle is very diverse. But along others not so much.

Re:Classism in America by kelukelugames on Friday April 08, 2016 @12:27AM (#11452575)
I don't believe you. How many ethnic people at her company? 3 Asians?
Re:Classism in America by vacri on Thursday April 07, 2016 @12:28AM (#11444724)
"No True Scotsman..."
Re:Classism in America by Natsu on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @07:22PM (#11443173)
Do you speak with an identifiable accent?
Re:Classism in America by seansmccullough on Thursday April 07, 2016 @03:07AM (#11445297)
And Midwesterners.
Re:Classism in America by r00fus on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:59PM (#11443002)
Everything you say is essentially also valid for immigrants (perhaps now citizens) who haven't lost their accent.

While I agree this is not ideal, it's also built into human nature to use any/all hints to help generalize/categorize (likely because it determined survival in the past).

Re:Classism in America by santaclaus on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @05:50PM (#11442445)
Tim Cook has a southern accent.
Re:Classism in America by nfriedly on Thursday April 07, 2016 @06:16AM (#11446133)
Not quite the same thing, but I have a friend who naturally has a Midwestern accent. She told me once that when she used to be a waitress, she got way better tips by faking a British or Australian accent.
Re:Classism in America by filmgirlcw on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:40PM (#11442847)
I can relate to much of this.

I grew up in the South (though not rural or Appalachia) and at age 10, I made the conscientious decision to get rid of my southern accent. It sounded "unintelligent" to me but more than that, it seemed to bely my moral values. As judgmental as this sounds (and it's true, it is judgmental), I looked around at the values that are often attached to the South -- bigotry and racism being the big two -- and said, "no."

So, at age 10, I lost my accent. I first stopped saying "y'all" -- but it quickly morphed into my entire accent changing. My parents/sister and most of my friends still had an accent, but I lost mine. With the exception of a few words or phrases, I don't even say southern colloquialisms. (I do still call every type of soda "Coke" -- but that's just Atlanta pride).

When I take those tests that determine dialect, I never get the South, I almost always get midwest or Southern California. (That was the goal, so go me?) Even drunk, I don't slip back to a southern accent, simply because it doesn't exist as part of me anymore.

The fact that I made that decision at age 10 -- and to be VERY clear, it was my own decision and not one pushed/encouraged by my parents (in fact, they probably rolled their eyes) -- I think says a lot about just how palpable those stereotypes that you mention are. Because at that age, when given the opportunity to lose an accent (I had speech impediment, was taking speech therapy a few times a week and had to basically re-train myself to talk. I decided to hack the system and get the accent I wanted in the process), I took it. I'll be totally honest, I don't regret it.

But still, I do often think about the code switching that I chose to take on at that age and what that means. For my career now, which often includes going on television -- it's realistically probably served me well to have no accent. Even in high school working in retail, it often served me well to "not sound like I was from the South" when selling someone a $1500 digital video camera or charging $50 an hour to repair a computer.

Still, I do think about it a lot. I think about why it was so important, even at that age, for me to reject something like my voice/accent.

My husband (a software engineer) is a lot like you in that he is able to switch his accent on and off depending on who he talks to. When speaking with his parents or grandmother, his Tennessee twang comes out. With colleagues or people in our neighborhood, there is a slight hint of an accent, but nothing major. And he does it for the same reasons.

No one wants to sound like a redneck in a professional setting, especially one stereotypically white-collar like software engineering. And yet, we don't talk about why that is the case -- or why where we are from matters.

Re:Classism in America by aryehof on Thursday April 07, 2016 @06:02AM (#11446081)
While I was born in Australia, I worked in the UK for many years in a job that involved traveling the country. I would often see confusion as people realized I didn't fit their social groupings and stereotypes. It was a real advantage.
Re:Classism in America by dboreham on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:39AM (#11439032)
Pretty much everyone in or from Scotland (true or not) does this to some degree.
Re:Classism in America by wil421 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:10AM (#11439275)
For me, the Scottish accent is the hardest of the English accents for me to understand. I work with English speakers from New Zealand/Australia and India to the UK/Ireland.

English and Scottish sayings/slang are my favorite. Southerns have some good sayings but they are not as enjoyable for me to hear, maybe because I used to them.

Re:Classism in America by arethuza on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @06:06PM (#11442556)
There are quite a lot of Scots accents and dialects - my wife, who is from near Glasgow, can't understand a word of anything said in the dialect I used as a kid as I'm from a completely different part of Scotland (Moray).

Indeed when I was growing up even though I was in a rural area people who lived on farms had a noticeably different accent from those of us who lived in coastal fishing villages even though the farms might only be a kilometer or so from the coast.

e.g.

“A ken a ken im, but a da ken far a ken im fae.”

or

"I know I know him, but I don't know where I know him from".

And of course, I was a "wee loonie" when I was younger.

Edit: Of course, the biggest crime I commit when it comes to class is, of course, using "toilet" rather than "loo".

Re:Classism in America by pjc50 on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:44AM (#11439512)
I remember having to interpret between an Ulsterman and an Afrikaaner, both of whom were nominally speaking English but to mutual incomprehension.
Re:Classism in America by gilleain on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:24AM (#11439364)
It's hard for lifts to understand as well...

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Avp9aUkM5g0

Re:Classism in America by mdpopescu on Thursday April 07, 2016 @01:24AM (#11444913)
(Non-native English speaker here.) I worked for a Scot in Dublin for three months before I realized his accent wasn't Irish. I also had almost no problem understanding him.

On the other hand, I find it almost impossible to read text that is supposed to show Scottish accent, like the one from arethuza.

Re:Classism in America by arethuza on Thursday April 07, 2016 @04:43AM (#11445717)
Listening to that phrase would be worse in reality as folk from the North East of Scotland tend to talk quite quickly and without proper breaks between words.

I've probably said something like that many times when I was younger (I now have, as someone described it, an "affected Edinburgh accent"). However, you can get silly Scots phrases like:

"Fit fit fits fit fit?"

Or, my favourite:

"Aye, ane an an ingin ane an a"

The latter I can't say without almost singing (and smiling).

Re:Classism in America by hoka on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @10:08PM (#11444148)
I lived in the south for some time, and being from the midwest ('no' accent), I was always called a yankee. Sometimes as a joke, but there were plenty of cases where it made me feel uncomfortable.
Re:Classism in America by hedonagenda on Thursday April 07, 2016 @08:54AM (#11446807)
Wear your accent with pride, if your co-workers' stereotyping persists then they're the bigots. Otherwise it becomes a cool personality trait others can't fake.
Re:Classism in America by wizardforhire on Thursday April 07, 2016 @04:13AM (#11445579)
Duuuude! Me too all the way... Except I don't change my accent. I just fuck with people and their stupid biases... I tell the truth, and when people are sacarcastic I take it all literally on purpose... And I make them explain everything, especially their stupid jokes!!! Oh man I love making people explain their stupid jokes to me. My favorite thing to say is, "I don't get it?" Or "yeaaah, I'm a literalist. I don't get sarcasm." ....and if the conversation hasn't turned to something real and interesting by this point and right when they're fedup and ready and to walk away and dissmis me... That's when I tell them I'm fucking with them in my best voice impression of theirs. It's all about vetting and breaking social facades. Most people and especially in tech were abussed by their peers as kids. They learned early on to judge and dismiss. You can't take it too personally and you always have to be ready to fight. The key is to come from a place of humility and not to be mean. Otherwise you'll just add to the problem and growing cultural divide. Oh yeah I'm from Oklahoma, I had a speech impediment as a kid so they tell me. I was beat up or confronted nearly every day in school by people who were afraid and didn't understand me. It didn't help that I went to school in the poorest school in town, that was also the most racially/culturally diverse school... And my mom was an administrator there. So all the worst kids had beaf with me because of my mom. But one of the best lessons I ever learned was "fuck the dumb shit"... This goes for all things in life.
Re:Classism in America by kbenson on Wednesday April 06, 2016 @11:58AM (#11439631)
Is this a predominantly east coast thing, or am I just oblivious?