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Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by maegul on Wednesday November 08, 2023 @10:53PM (#38200991)
> it's turtles all the way down with nostalgia.

And yet golden eras do occur, or so it would seem.

I’m sure it’s hard to tell when you’re in or near one, which is an interesting topic in its own right, but it doesn’t mean we should dismiss outright the possibility that a passing era might just be taking something truly valuable with it.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by eru on Thursday November 09, 2023 @12:27AM (#38201502)
Even a non-golden era can have something truly valuable.

Btw, we are living in a golden age. The vast majority of humanity has never had it better.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @12:51AM (#38201636)
> we are living in a golden age

I would've agreed pre-covid.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Eisenstein on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:16AM (#38202073)
Less than 130 years ago 47% of all children in the USA died before reaching age 5. I think that we are doing just fine even with covid.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by dopidopHN on Thursday November 09, 2023 @06:15AM (#38203582)
A lot of folks are hungry in my state. As in : not enough nutrient a day.

https://www.cpex.org/blog/stateofhunger

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by pmarreck on Thursday November 09, 2023 @10:20AM (#38206097)
Other states (that are probably run better): Exist
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by dopidopHN on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:38PM (#38212397)
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Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by jannes on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:17AM (#38202084)
Does COVID still exist meaningfully in your part of the world?

In my country the first few waves were very strong, but after a successful vaccination campaign (among other things) COVID has completely disappeared in everybody’s daily lives.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by BHSPitMonkey on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:29AM (#38202149)
I think they are referring less to the actual virus and more to the rapid deterioration of our discourse and politics that accompanied it. Or at least this is what I might mean when using "COVID" as an epoch.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by TerrifiedMouse on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:41AM (#38202545)
> rapid deterioration of our discourse and politics that accompanied it

That has been happening way before Covid.

IMHO it started with the internet. Pre-internet the flow of information is gatekept by traditional media - newspapers, radio, TV, … etc. Everyone watched, listened to, read more or less the same things. This resulted in a more uniform set of opinions and more common ground between people.

The internet broke all that. People could choose what they watch/listen/read and different people picked different things, coming to very different conclusions. In the past you could ask someone if they watched X last night and there is a decent probability they did. Today it’s much harder to find common ground - you could both be on YouTube but watching completely different things.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 2devnull on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:00AM (#38205053)
I agree it was happening before COVID. I think the internet could be part of the problem. But it wasn’t freedom of choice that caused the problem, which is what you claim. There’s much less freedom on the internet now, and if anything it’s much worse. If we’re going to blame internet then blame ads and big tech. Don’t blame people for watching cat videos, that’s absurd.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by TerrifiedMouse on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:02PM (#38213133)
I’m not blaming anything. But it’s my theory that whatever consensus we enjoyed in the past was due to the information landscape of the time - where information was controlled and curated by a dozen or so centralized entities and their affiliates.

The internet though is mostly chaos. There are gatekeepers, e.g. Google, but they don’t curate much - using a blacklist approach rather than whitelist - and instead just organize the information making it findable.

Niche ideas get air time and now compete in the market place of ideas.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by berdario on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:59AM (#38202295)
A teammate caught Covid this week, and they're now isolating.

Another teammate's family caught Covid last week.

Me and my wife caught Covid in August.

We're all vaccinated afaik (myself with 5 jabs), and thankfully we only got mild symptoms, but the problem with Covid is how easy it is for it to spread.

Do people in your life do a rapid test when they get sick? The only explanation I see for thinking that Covid has "disappeared", is that barely anyone still tests.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Ntrails on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:28AM (#38202469)
> The only explanation I see for thinking that Covid has "disappeared", is that barely anyone still tests.

That and barely anyone still dies (excess of eg the flu which kills a bunch of people each year)

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:04AM (#38203080)
Dying is no longer that much of a concern indeed thanks for the jabs (got my 6th this week) but long covid very much is.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by NoGravitas on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:00AM (#38205050)
And long COVID significantly increases your risk of death from other causes, including heart attack and stroke.

I did read recently that a long course of acyclovir may be a working treatment, possibly even cure, for long COVID. But in order to get that out to people, we'd have to start taking long COVID seriously.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by all2 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:01AM (#38206686)
I'm on 0 jabs (apparently they don't slow transmission or virality, so I figured I wouldn't bother) and long covid is still really rough. A few things helped me get through long covid: surprisingly, nicotine and a lot of natural carbs from fresh ripe fruits. And by an excess, I mean 200+ grams a day by macro. It took me a month or two of nicotine gum, about 100lbs of fruit (12.5lbs a week) and so much sleep, but I'm starting to do better.

It sucks, but you can make it through.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:35AM (#38207213)
do not listen to this guy.

long covid is not something you can combat with fresh fruits, it can cause a life long disability, brain damage and more. it's quite obvious an anti-vaxxer would try to dismiss it as a "sucks but you can make it through". Look up the stories of people who still can barely get out of bed after years of long covid.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by all2 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:51AM (#38207435)
I'm offering what worked for me. There's other stuff out there that might work, but I haven't tried. For example, I've heard folks talk about paxlovid working to alleviate symptoms, or using standard courses of antivirals, and so on. I'm here sharing my own experience.

If I've dismissed anyone, I sincerely apologize. That was not my intent.

When I say "it sucks, but you can make it through" my desire is to offer hope to a group of people - that I'm a part of - that often lacks hope given the severity of their symptoms.

As for efficacy, I'd invite you to look into mitochondrial dysfunction and how long covid is related. I'll note that a carb heavy diet is one of the ways to reboot energy production on the body, which can be potent for reducing fatigue.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @01:57PM (#38209273)
> I'm offering what worked for me

I choose not to believe you because you refused to vaccinate which makes everything you say suspect. Sorry.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by all2 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:27PM (#38209723)
> suspect

Why?

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:31PM (#38213355)
Because anti vaxxers want to downplay the disease to convince people not to get the vaccine.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by all2 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:00PM (#38214887)
Given the tenor of discourse around C19, I cannot blame you for making this generalization. I'm not even offended. It's a shitty place to be when no one can hear anyone else because the conversation is so volatile. There's definitely division here. The gramscian Marxists would be proud. We've been played straight out of Rules For Radicals.

I'll note that I haven't done what you've accused me of, though. Perhaps that counts for something, Perhaps not.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by capr on Friday November 10, 2023 @07:27PM (#38226342)
hey if the 6th doesn't work, there's always the 7th
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:32AM (#38204178)
Actually, I looked this up for you.

https://derekfranksmusings.substack.com/p/theres-no-such-thi...

> You see, covid is NOT really a respiratory illness. Researchers at Oxford University call it a “Serious Vascular Disease with Primary Symptoms of a Respiratory Ailment”. So, you need to stop comparing it to colds and flus. No cold killed 30,000+ Americans in less than two months in 2023. Covid did so in January and February. So, please stop comparing them.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by berdario on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:48AM (#38204906)
Thanks for sharing that article, there's also another recent one with plenty of references about the clusterfuck of the current situation:

https://www.normalcyfugitive.com/p/the-pandemic-isnt-over

One thing that (by skimming again) both articles don't touch is: excess deaths.

I've seen people suggest that we're "past it", because the excess deaths (compared to 2 years before) are now subsiding... While ignoring the fact that excess deaths compared to 2 year before are comparing against when the first few COVID spikes happened (and we didn't have vaccines, so mortality was even higher).

We need to compare our society excess mortality to 2019 (and/or average of years preceding 2020), for the foreseeable future :/

That said, I'm not spending 100% of my day worrying about COVID, and I don't take as many precautions as I could... I wear FFP2 masks in public transport, but I usually don't bother in the office, for example

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by tibbydudeza on Friday November 10, 2023 @12:14AM (#38215305)
It also does a number on your coronary arteries.

https://www.hopkinsmedicine.org/health/conditions-and-diseas...

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by tyiz on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:11AM (#38202359)
Perhaps you need a solid booster shot? And if it is for the Pfizer smile.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by slowmotiony on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:43AM (#38202551)
Have you thought about getting a sixth shot? It ought to work eventually...!
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by superhumanuser on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:52AM (#38202598)
> We're all vaccinated afaik (myself with 5 jabs), and thankfully we only got mild symptoms

You got the shot 5 times, still caught it, and you call it a vaccine...

Serious question. How do you keep making the decision to get the shot?

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by fragmede on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:12AM (#38202725)
Yearly flu vaccines have been around since the 1940s and change yearly to adapt to the latest strains. I don't see why covid should be any different in this respect.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:04AM (#38203082)
because of long covid
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by bigstrat2003 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:09PM (#38210462)
I mean, I don't think a flu shot is worth most people's time either. If you're around people with compromised immune systems sure, but for your average person it's really not beneficial.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by fragmede on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:43PM (#38215137)
It's not beneficial to not get sick with the flu for a week? you do you, but hey
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chimprich on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:24AM (#38203228)
> You got the shot 5 times, still caught it, and you call it a vaccine...

After almost 4 years of this virus, 3 years of covid vaccines, a presumably basic level of biological education, the baseline level of curiosity that I'd have thought would be present in anyone reading HN, and the world of free information at our fingertips, I don't rightly understand why people keep making elementary mistakes like this.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by flir on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:56AM (#38203444)
Surely it's obvious? It's because they want to.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by pmarreck on Thursday November 09, 2023 @10:33AM (#38206294)
I mean, you'd probably still wear a seatbelt after having an accident... It's insurance, like the flu vax, not completely preventative.

By redefining "vaccine" only as something that provides "sterilizing immunity" (which actually only a few of them have ever provided, and thus, this expectation was never actually part of the original definition; see: https://theconversation.com/coronavirus-few-vaccines-prevent...) and thus impugning vaccine advocacy (or specifically, COVID vaccine use) as misguided at best, you are actually contributing to a narrative of science/medicine doubt that will literally lead to more death in the world. So please reconsider your carefully-worded position.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by nicky0 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:31AM (#38202858)
Why do you still consider any of this necessary at this point?
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by alphager on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:48AM (#38202978)
Because the thing I use to make a living is my brain and COVID had a significant chance to impact it long term.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Al-Khwarizmi on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:31AM (#38203271)
This summer we finally relaxed a lot after years of masking, and BAM, a child coughed right on my wife's face and she got long covid. Fortunately she seems to be almost totally recovered now (fingers crossed for no relapse) , but she has spent two months with fatigue and headaches strong enough to prevent them from working or doing many daily activities.

My wife is in her 30s and healthy. COVID can still be quite brutal, although of course the extent of the measures one should take is highly debatable and subjective.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by chx on Thursday November 09, 2023 @06:02AM (#38203496)
I am done with people. I wear a Cleanspace Halo and hate the world for making me do so. Everyone is free to cough on me, ain't gonna do much.

As an aside: even pre covid I was eagerly waiting for a (somewhat) affordable exoskeleton. I am going to have the best Darth Vader cosplay ever.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by all2 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:08AM (#38206800)
I got another round of rona in February of this year and suddenly became so tired. I needed 14+ hours of sleep and concentrating was next to impossible. The fatigue was overwhelming at times. Some six months later I'm on my way out of that now, with more good days than bad.

It's good that she had you to rely on. I did a lot of reading on long covid and there were and so are so many people isolated because they're basically spent all the time.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by flir on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:54AM (#38203418)
What does the data look like in your country? England had 273 deaths and 3000 hospital admissions in the past week. It's still there, bubbling along in the background, it's just not getting media attention.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 2devnull on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:01AM (#38205061)
Data?!
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by jdhzzz on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:22PM (#38211531)
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by lk251 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:45AM (#38204293)
the main risk is long covid, not dying. exact risk of LC per infection is unclear but the order of magnitude of the figures i'm seeing for it are too high. i'm wearing ffp3 indoors in public places
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by DonHopkins on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:49AM (#38202981)
COVID is what saved us from four more years of Trump (and perhaps many more after that of his family and Rudy Giuliani and Sidney Powell and Steven Miller and Steve Bannon and the list goes on and on...).
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by peyton on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:16AM (#38202071)
Maybe you’re thinking of a “gilded age” in the sense of Twain. The Golden Age of Hesiod and Ovid was defined by peace and justice amongst a golden race. It’s about ideals and peace rather than material prosperity. The metals debase from gold to silver to bronze to iron as conflict increases and the social contract breaks.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Emma_Goldman on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:28AM (#38202466)
'Golden age' is typically used to mean a historic age of comparative greatness from which society has since fallen.

See the idiomatic vs. the mythological meaning on Wiktionary:

https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/golden_age

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Emma_Goldman on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:23AM (#38202426)
That's a bit simplistic.

If you haven't noticed, advanced economies are experiencing secularly stagnating growth, a crisis of democratic representation and its populist backlash, the return of oligarchic inequality to levels not seen since the gilded age, and extreme social atomisation and mental health breakdown.

We are also all hurtling towards catastrophic climate change, an AI revolution that could lead to generalised technological unemployment, and some indeterminate level of conflict between the US and China.

Unsurprisingly, therefore, most people in advanced economies look back on the post-war decades as a golden age - obviously there were problems, but there was high growth, full employment, good public services, strong unions, and comparatively cheap housing. Others look back to the 1990s as a time of untroubled horizons.

Also, the global 'we' is unhelpful. Have native Americans, Syrians or Greeks never had it so good?

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by vasco on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:40AM (#38202538)
> Also, the global 'we' is unhelpful. Have native Americans, Syrians or Greeks never had it so good?

Syrians are starving and in war, so they've been better. The other two examples, undoubtedly yes they are better than ever. For anyone to think it was better in any other time in history for most of the global population than now, shows such a lack of knowledge of history and the human condition that its hard to take serious.

Scrolling instagram and fake depressions aren't worse than having 7 miscarriages, half your kids dying as babies or children, being enslaved, starving to death and a million other nice things most humans had to deal with that they don't have to deal with now. Basic access to medicine, food stability etc, on a large scale is so much better. We have the fewest people living in poverty there ever was.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Emma_Goldman on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:15AM (#38202747)
Read the first sentence with which I began. I said it was simplistic, not that it was categorically and completely wrong, and certainly not that its opposite was true.

What I object to is the extraordinarily simplistic, one-dimensional view of progress peddled by the likes of Hans Rosling and Steven Pinker.

True, lot's of material and medical indicators of progress have consistently increased. That's to be celebrated. Certainly, if asked, the vast majority of people in the West would want to be born in the post-war years, and the average would probably slant towards the end of that period. Though I do think a good slice of people would choose against the post-2008 years in particular.

But that binary - better or worse? - is a crude measure of societal health. It lacks any dialectical sense of modernity, of that fact the same socio-technological expansion which brought about that progress, has gone hand-in-hand with extreme oligarchy, world war, nuclear weapons, climate change, the anthropocene. Certainly, the risks of catastrophic global breakdown are greater today than ever before.

I also think it has a superficial and philistine grasp of politics and the common good. Besides utilitarians, few political philosophers would so easily equate the good with material abundance. Hence why I pointed, by way of counterpoint, to today's secular stagnation, crisis of democracy, inequality, and withering of public life. These are not small problems, but speak to fundamental pathologies in our body politic.

> "The other two examples, undoubtedly yes they are better than ever."

Many native Americans and Greeks would viscerally disagree with you. Perhaps you're missing something?

> "For anyone to think it was better in any other time in history for most of the global population than now, shows such a lack of knowledge of history and the human condition that its hard to take serious."

As above, you have misread what I said, and I think trying to understand and evaluate society solely from the binary standard of 'better or worse' is extremely crude. I have a PhD in history btw.

>"Scrolling instagram and fake depressions aren't worse than having 7 miscarriages, half your kids dying as babies or children, being enslaved, starving to death."

True, but I think virtually no one would say otherwise. This is an unhelpful caricature of the argument I was making.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by vasco on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:44AM (#38202962)
If you think being able to take all variables you can into account and have your model spit out "better" or "worse" is crude, than you can't be asked anything cause any answer to anything is crude.

The question is simple, given any century throughout history, would a person prefer to be born in 2000 or any century before then, not knowing anything else about their life, where they will be born, who their parents are etc. I'm pretty sure a rational person will always choose 2000 as of today if they are choosing actually thinking of the consequences and not just "I wanna cosplay as a cowboy".

If you don't think you can answer that question you don't have any knowledge. You fell into the trap of "I learned how much I didn't know and now think nothing can be answered because everything is complex" which is a trap some people fall into. At some point laws need to be written and you need answers. What is simplistic to me is saying "aw chucks it's too complex, nobody knows if it's better because for one person over there it's worse". Even complex systems have answers at the end, said another way, whatever the distribution or long tails or whatever, I can still calculate a median. You should "roll up" your knowledge into being able to still answer "yes" or "no" to something. And the answer is yes, the world is better to live in today, regardless of how much hand waving you do about specific subsets of people or caring about 2008 till now vs before as if that realistically mattered on a large scale of centuries of human existence.

It's also funny how its crude when I say it's better for everyone but it's not crude when you say it's worse for Greek people. Also still trying to understand if you think the financial crisis has anything on medieval medical practices and lack of food and societal support systems. I was poor in portugal during that period so pretty much went through the same as the Greeks and let me tell you I'd rather be poor in the 2000s than rich anywhere on earth in the 1400s.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Emma_Goldman on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:12AM (#38203152)
>"If you think being able to take all variables you can into account and have your model spit out "better" or "worse" is crude, than you can't be asked anything cause any answer to anything is crude."

That doesn't follow logically at all!?

Trying to reduce human history down to a summative, categorical and dichotomous judgement of '-1' or '+1' is outrageously simplistic, almost by strict definition. Incidentally, precisely this observation is baked into common idioms, like 'black and white thinking', and Manichean 'good versus evil'.

You also seen to be taking an incongruently natural scientific approach to what is a largely a meta-ethical and historical question - two fields with their own, distinctive methodologies.

I don't think this conversation has been particularly constructive, so let's wish one another the best and park it.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by vasco on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:16AM (#38203176)
> That doesn't follow logically at all!?

The logic implication is that everything is complex :)

Anyway yeah lets park it. I think you should reflect on being able to reduce complex problems to practical answers and I should reflect on not over-simplifying complex topics and if we both do that this conversation is not a waste of time. Hopefully we agree at least on that. Otherwise have a great day!

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Thursday November 09, 2023 @06:00AM (#38203473)
>If you haven't noticed, advanced economies are experiencing secularly stagnating growth

Is growth really what we should care about though? Would you prefer to live in a poor society that's growing rapidly, or a rich society that's stagnating? In terms of your quality of life (medical, food, housing, education, etc.) you're going to have a better time in the stagnant-but-rich society.

The American economy is actually doing super well right now btw: https://www.noahpinion.blog/p/great-news-about-american-weal...

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 2devnull on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:45AM (#38204873)
I’d much rather be in a poor but growing economy than a rich stagnating one. I’m very sure about that.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:01AM (#38205060)
Why?
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by throwaway4aday on Thursday November 09, 2023 @12:45PM (#38208214)
Opportunity and poor, growing countries turn into rich countries within a human lifespan and then don't usually stagnate for another generation or two.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by eru on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:08PM (#38213179)
All of today's rich countries had massive growth spurts behind them to get them there. Most of that growth isn't that long ago in time.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by concordDance on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:56AM (#38204396)
Also worth mentioning the demographic collapse. Many ethnic groups are on their way to extinction.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by eru on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:06AM (#38205131)
> If you haven't noticed, advanced economies are experiencing secularly stagnating growth,

I haven't noticed that. The US is currently in a boom, and unemployment across the rich world is mostly at record lows.

> a crisis of democratic representation and its populist backlash,

Not sure what you mean there? Are you talking about US politics?

> the return of oligarchic inequality to levels not seen since the gilded age,

Global inequality has gone down considerably in the last few decades. Not sure what you are talking about.

> Unsurprisingly, therefore, most people in advanced economies look back on the post-war decades as a golden age - obviously there were problems, but there was high growth, full employment, good public services, strong unions, and comparatively cheap housing. Others look back to the 1990s as a time of untroubled horizons.

Those 'glorious' post-war years were when global inequality really took off. It's taken the rapid progress of the last few decades to partially undo the damage.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by concordDance on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:47AM (#38202573)
True, but the rates of depression and general unhappiness in the West are definitely up from 30 years ago.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by dotancohen on Thursday November 09, 2023 @03:56AM (#38202619)
No, there is more awareness and they are more vocal now.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by theclansman on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:20AM (#38202790)
That's an extremely simplistic way to dismiss the problem. Depression wasn't something that was invented or discovered in the last decade.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by WilTimSon on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:55AM (#38203023)
But openness about mental health issues and lower stigma around it is definitely a more modern thing, actually. I don't doubt that some subsets of the population got more depressed while others feel better, but it's very possible that rates would have been the same 30 years ago, had people felt okay with talking about suicidal thoughts, depression or a variety of other things that are at least a bit less stigmatised now. I'm not that old (or at least I like to think I'm not) but I can say with confidence nobody in my circle of friends 25 years ago would even think of saying they're depressed or suicidal. That would get you labelled a weirdo.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by codebolt on Thursday November 09, 2023 @06:35AM (#38203736)
Wrong. The rates are higher and the main reason is obvious.

Fewer families being formed => more lonely adults => more people depressed.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by pmarreck on Thursday November 09, 2023 @10:17AM (#38206064)
You know what would instantly greatly help online debates like this?

Actual data.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by codebolt on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:28PM (#38209738)
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by pmarreck on Monday November 13, 2023 @10:49AM (#38251545)
Oh, I agreed with you, I just feel like any blunt accusation of "Wrong" really deserves some data along with it.

I don't know how to solve this problem, either. Covid seems to have only caused all of us to double down on the social isolation that was already introduced by computing/the internet somehow.

As soon as my kid is a little older (he's 2.3 years old and still extremely high-maintenance currently), my partner and I will try to get back to what we used to do and throw more dinner parties/social events.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by pdntspa on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:02AM (#38202661)
That "golden age" is a huge cop-out for any topic that doesn't span hundreds of years
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by nicky0 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @04:29AM (#38202849)
Materially, we've never had it better.

Spiritually, we are in a deep crisis.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by eru on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:10AM (#38205187)
Where we ever less in a spiritual crisis? How do you measure these things? And who is 'we'?
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by master-lincoln on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:47AM (#38207373)
Depends on your definition of "we" There are regions where the opposite happened. E.g. native tribes who were expelled for resources
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by nicky0 on Tuesday November 14, 2023 @09:48AM (#38263899)
Missing the point.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by virtualritz on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:39AM (#38204812)
The issue is the definition of 'better'. If you think access to food, medication, education, higher life expectancy, then yes.

IMHO though, a more fitting defition of 'better' for the human condition is the amount of happiness you experience while being alife (i.e. decoupled from life expectancy).

I would then conclude (and I am really happy to be proved wrong) that the developed world being/becoming better is considerably more difficult to argue for.

Depression and sucidides in first world countries, the ones that tick all the intial boxes, are a highs not experienced since WWII. [1] is just from a quick googling and US-only. You won't have trouble finding much more evidence to support this though, for many other 1st world countries.

I would bet there is a direct link to this; between making GPD the driving factor for a country's governance vs. e.g. happiness of its citizens. Look no further than Scandinavian countries (Norway is the exeption, not declining but at least also not increasing)[2].

[1] https://time.com/5609124/us-suicide-rate-increase/

[2] https://tidsskriftet.no/en/2019/08/kronikk/why-suicide-rate-...

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by NoMoreNicksLeft on Thursday November 09, 2023 @12:44PM (#38208204)
> a more fitting defition of 'better' for the human condition is the amount of happiness

So, instead of measuring the objective/empirical things that:

1. Keep people alive 2. Keep them from going hungry 3. Make them healthy and pain-free 4. Keep them warm (or cool, where appropriate) 5. Etc etc etc

You instead are suggesting that we measure some subjective mood that no one can define well, test for, or detect with instrumentation? That would be the better measure?

> Depression and sucidides in first world countries, the ones that tick all the intial boxes, are a highs

I would not argue that these are insignificant, but there are methodological problems with both.

Suicide may have been traditionally undercounted for religious reasons. If you're investigating a suicide in the 1950s, it might just have been a gun-cleaning accident instead. Saves the family grief, means the deceased can be buried in the cemetery the family wants, etc.

Depression, while real, might still be subject to the sort of contagious hypochondriac panics that describe the late 20th century and early 21st so well.

Or, alternatively... it might have been undercounted until recently. We're not seeing an increase so much as that people are merely aware of it.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by DanBC on Friday November 10, 2023 @07:04AM (#38217872)
> Depression and sucidides in first world countries, the ones that tick all the intial boxes, are a highs not experienced since WWII. [1] is just from a quick googling and US-only. You won't have trouble finding much more evidence to support this though, for many other 1st world countries.

It's difficult to compare suicide statistics over time, especially over decades, because definitions change. (For one example, in England a coroner used to need to be able to prove beyond all reasonable doubt that a person had died by suicide, and that changed to balance of probabilities in 2018).

It's also important not to use sources like media outlets for suicide statistics, because they often don't understand what's being counted or how it's being counted. Statistics are tricky, and media often get them wrong.

You say that it's easy to show that suicides are at an all time high in many first world countries, but that's not correct. In many countries rates peaked in about 2008 - 2010 because of world wide financial crash, and have been declining since then. We might see another peak because of the financial (and other) distress caused by pandemic, but so far we're not seeing a big increase.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by tim333 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @11:03AM (#38206712)
>The vast majority of humanity has never had it better

There has been a general upswing since 1600 or so, so you could say that about most years since then, at least in economic terms. In terms of happiness it seems kind of flat though.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by gcanyon on Thursday November 09, 2023 @12:27AM (#38201505)
"I wish there was a way to know you're in 'the good old days' before you've actually left them." https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ujJQyhB0dws
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by MarkusWandel on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:20AM (#38204636)
That is actually a really useful, affirming thought exercise that I've done before. Simply take a nice present-day experience and run it through the "20 year ago nostalgia filter". Where all the boring/frustrating crap that surrounds the experience is forgotten, and just the good thing remains surrounded by the golden halo of nostalgia. It makes me appreciate the present experience more and dulls the "oh, life was so much nicer 10/20 years ago" nostalgia thing (it wasn't, it just seems that way).
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by jakderrida on Thursday November 09, 2023 @01:10AM (#38201739)
>it doesn’t mean we should dismiss outright the possibility that a passing era might just be taking something truly valuable with it.

Our youth is usually the part we're nostalgic for and nothing else. You ever hear the nostalgists crying out to go back to a "simpler time"? It's because they were children and the world is simpler for a child that lacks obligations. Fortunately, my childhood was crappy enough and my adulthood fun enough that I can more than let go of the 80s and 90s without any reservations.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by riffraff on Thursday November 09, 2023 @01:23AM (#38201799)
It's also whatever is removed in time because people simply forgot about it.

It's a constant discourse in my country to think of today as "dangerous" and idealize some earlier decades where you'd "leave the door open" while by all metrics crime was actually higher.

We just collectively forgot about it.

That's one of the reasons every age and culture has a golden age/arcadia/Eden mythology.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by jakderrida on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:25AM (#38202128)
>It's a constant discourse in my country to think of today as "dangerous" and idealize some earlier decades where you'd "leave the door open" while by all metrics crime was actually higher.

This highlights a great point about past media. Films like The Warriors, Class of 1999, and even A Clockwork Orange play into this notion that juveniles have become worse and worse and we can expect a hellscape from future generations of young people.

Truth, though, is that Gen Zs are so laughably well behaved compared to those my age were that we finally have a period where this genre simply has no place. I hear things from my nephews and nieces about "staying home for the weekend" and think of all the money my sister wasted on a home security system to make sure they don't sneak out and get arrested all the time like we did. Leave that door wide open with soundproofing and they still have no desire to sneak out, especially because nobody else their age is out anyway.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by closewith on Thursday November 09, 2023 @07:56AM (#38204393)
I don't think your experience generalises. Kids are still sneaking out.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by riffraff on Friday November 10, 2023 @04:59AM (#38217010)
I doubt it's about last century media, "youth have no respect these days" goes literally back to before Christ, we have ancient Greek texts that say this, and probably older still.

I do agree kids _seem_ to be more risk-averse these days.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by jakderrida on Sunday November 12, 2023 @07:05AM (#38239455)
I'm not saying it doesn't go back far. I'm saying that every generation says it, while media promotes it, and we've come to a crossroads where the current young generation has become so laughably well behaved compared to my generation that even a biased and nostalgic perspective can't sustain the myth of the forever worsening youth.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by Tijdreiziger on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:20AM (#38204643)
The news also plays a big role in this. If (in a given city/area) crime happens every day, it’s just business as usual, so nobody bothers to report on it. However, if crime happens once a year, it’s headline news.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by TerrifiedMouse on Thursday November 09, 2023 @02:15AM (#38202070)
That said, I do wonder if times really were simpler back then - in the sense of the way people thought.

Movies seem to be simpler back then. Watched Sleepless in Seattle a while back. I heard it was very popular back in the day. Well … I’m not that impressed, sorry to say. The plot is very simple and a little weird when viewed using today’s social mores. Direction and pacing is adequate. Or maybe I just don’t get it.

I think “things got more complicated” as “information velocity” increased, first with newspapers, then the radio, then TV, and finally the internet - the internet can even be broken down into before ubiquitous social media, before internet video became “trivial”, …

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by eru on Saturday November 11, 2023 @05:17AM (#38228990)
Movies maybe. We are in the golden age of TV, at least. Thanks to streaming and 'binge watching' creators feel a lot more comfortable with putting up shows with more complicated continuity, instead of independent episodes, than they used to.

As far as I can tell, books haven't really gotten more (or less) complicated in at least the past 200 years. Or rather: you might be able to detect some trends with a statistical analysis, but the variance is big enough that as a casual reader, you won't notice a trend.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Thursday November 09, 2023 @05:56AM (#38203446)
I think we're in a golden age of computer gaming right now. I remember what it was like when I was young: paying $30+ per game (many of which were flash-game quality, and I only learned how good the game was after I bought it), or endlessly scouring the internet for something free. Nowadays I can pay $5 on Steam, GoG, etc. for a game that will engross me for 100+ hours
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by rootsudo on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:05AM (#38204483)
On the flipside, is it the golden age of computing gaming or golden age of addiction? Paying $5 to be engrossed in a game for 100+ hours?
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Thursday November 09, 2023 @08:26AM (#38204698)
Point taken, but depending on the game it could be a better way to relax than e.g. browsing social media. I'm actually curious what people think a legitimate, cheap way to relax on a weekend or while sick is, if not gaming.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by rootsudo on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:04PM (#38214218)
Personally, I like reading (books, magazine, foreign langauge, physical and online - library is free! Bookstores are free if you don't buy!), learning new things - going outside, cycling, sports, etc.

Many of those things can be as cheap or as expensive as you want, the last two do have some cost of entry but, it entirely depends how deep you want to go.

I enjoyed gaming as a kid, but the older I become, the less tolerant of it I am. I was the sort of kid/teen that would dive deep into JRPG's and spend time on gamefaqs.com and other forums - so don't discount me as someone that never understood gaming - but now that I'm an adult I just don't enjoy it. Maybe it's because I understand how games are made, and what meetings/background context goes into publishing a game, maybe it's just that I have less and less freetime so I don't want to be involved in a computer-esque realted software type deal. There's also the whome gamification of society and microtransactions that really draw developers into extracting money every chance, and theres also marketplaces like Xbox Game Pass that offer unlimited gaming for a set fee.

I very much think we are in a true golden age of information exchange - letters - phone calls - instant transmisison via Internet to the point where we're conversing ways to relax with the time we have. And I don't mean to be negative of your hobby. As long as you enjoy the time you spend on it - that's excellent. :) And don't think I don't game now, I have a switch that I never use with a library of games that keeps piling up - heh.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Friday November 10, 2023 @02:11AM (#38216036)
Thanks for the recs! I used to read more, but I was having some trouble finding books in the sweet spot of (informative, classic/acclaimed/other evidence of quality, actually relaxing to read). (As an example of a book that meets all three criteria, I loved Andrew Carnegie's autobiography. Informs me about America in the late 1800s, written by a self-made tycoon who changed philanthropy, helps me relax by putting present-day events in historical perspective.) In general, with books I spend more time (proportionally) hunting for new books that are worth reading.

I also enjoyed gaming more as a kid. I found it easier to suspend my disbelief when I was young, and my patience for grinding/clunky interfaces was higher. I've never played a game with microtransactions, seems dangerous!

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by nkrisc on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:40AM (#38205558)
100 hours over one week, or 100 hours over twenty weeks? Makes a difference.

People pay $20 to be engrossed in a movie for 1.5 hours. Is that addiction?

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by FFP999 on Thursday November 09, 2023 @09:43AM (#38205602)
I'm curious about what about spending $5 to be engrossed for 100+ hours sounds like it's a bad thing to you.
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by aardvarkr on Thursday November 09, 2023 @10:52AM (#38206541)
What games would you recommend?
Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Friday November 10, 2023 @01:43AM (#38215850)
Here are various games that I really liked (trying to spread across genres a bit so you get a sense of what's out there):

https://store.steampowered.com/app/646570/Slay_the_Spire/

https://www.gog.com/game/sid_meiers_alpha_centauri

https://store.steampowered.com/app/219740/Dont_Starve/ (would recommend going into this game as blind as possible)

https://store.steampowered.com/app/368230/Kingdom_Classic/

https://store.steampowered.com/app/107100/Bastion/

https://store.steampowered.com/app/662540/Haque/

If you like puzzles, my roommate (also an engineer) was a huge fan of https://store.steampowered.com/app/736260/Baba_Is_You/

Usually I try to monitor prices using a site like isthereanydeal.com and wait until it's discounted at least 50%.

A mistake I made in the past was buying games just because there was a really good sale. At a certain point, I realized that the time investment in learning new game mechanics is more important than the cash investment in buying the game. Investing your time in learning the mechanics of a mediocre-but-cheap game isn't a great way to relax.

Another strategy is to use a site like ifttt.com to get alerts for free games on the /r/GameDeals subreddit. You can accumulate a large game library for no cost at all if you're patient enough.

I always like to play on an HDMI TV with a gamepad if possible; hunching over a laptop isn't very relaxing. Almost all the games I recommended above have good gamepad support. Steam has a nifty Big Picture mode that makes it easy to browse your library with a gamepad.

Beware: Having a game library that's too large may cause decision fatigue which makes gaming less fun! :-P

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by eru on Saturday November 11, 2023 @05:19AM (#38229000)
> A mistake I made in the past was buying games just because there was a really good sale. At a certain point, I realized that the time investment in learning new game mechanics is more important than the cash investment in buying the game. Investing your time in learning the mechanics of a mediocre-but-cheap game isn't a great way to relax.

I'm weirdly happy for you that this is your failure mode. For most people, buying games on sale just leads to a bigger and bigger backlog of unplayed games.

Re:Omegle founder shuts down site forever? by 0xDEAFBEAD on Saturday November 11, 2023 @06:19AM (#38229302)
Oh I've got that too :-)

The backlog thing is part of why I think we're in a golden age. I remember when I was a kid, it was common for my friends to own a game console (Gamecube, Gameboy, etc.) with less than 5 games for it. We're in an age of abundance now compared to those days.

I try to view my backlog as an asset, not a liability. Think of it as a garden of unexplored delights. It's just a matter of giving a new game 5-10 hours to prove itself to you as you master its mechanics, instead of skipping on to the next game if you aren't immediately hooked.