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Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by monero-xmr on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:07AM (#36630448)
> Social norming can work both ways. If you remove all of the students whose parents are willing and able to go through the application process, the norms of acceptable behavior for those left behind will move in an ugly direction and the kids who started out with the greatest disadvantages would be left to bear the burden

I went to public school as a kid and the disruptive kids were expelled. Not just kicked out of class - totally kicked out of school and told to find a new one! One reason I send my kids to private school is if you don’t want to learn they will kick you out. In public schools today you get a few bad kids and it ruins the whole class. This is a big reason why teachers are quitting en masse from public schools - they are behavioral consultants rather than teachers. The pay has always sucked - it’s the lack of ability to discipline bad kids that makes it miserable, and then parents blame you for everything when you just want to teach math and go home.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Simulacra on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:19AM (#36630579)
I went to a public school and disruptive kids were NEVER expelled, or kicked out of class, they were just tolerated and placated. I wish I had gone to your school because no matter how disruptive they were, or how much they bullied others in class, the school simply would not expel them. The worst they would get is after school detention. It was hugely disruptive and made life miserable for the rest of us.

If only disruptive kids were expelled instead of placated MANY of us might have had a better education.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:23AM (#36630627)
Too many liberals feel such guilt about expelling disruptive kids, when the reality is just what you've said: if they stay, they don't improve and they ruin genuine learning for everyone else.

It is so wrong for adults to fail to protect children who want to learn simply because they want a facade of feel-good egalitarianism.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by afavour on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:31AM (#36630703)
I think it’s correct to feel guilty about expelling disruptive kids. Majority of cases they’re disruptive as a direct result of their home life, which you’re now throwing them into full time.

I agree that keeping them in general education is bad too, though. A caring society would take that kid somewhere with specialised staff that will help them work through their issues.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by zmgsabst on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:36AM (#36630755)
You should feel more guilty of subjecting twenty kids to the spillover of that one child’s dysfunctional life.

The problem is the selective and performative guilt:

Why don’t kids who have a terrible home life, but are studying diligently to better themselves and improve their lives equally deserve our help?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:54AM (#36630978)
Exactly - this is the tragic mistake of fixating on only one type of "victim".
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:58AM (#36631023)
Kids should learn that other people have dysfunctional lives early so that they grow up with the capability of empathy towards others. Too many people are in their own bubble about how the world works.

For this same reason I've always hated (since a kid) the way anti-drug education has been presented to children. It's not taken seriously and doesn't present the reality of how prevalent drug (even prescription) use is among adults in society. It doesn't treat prescription drug use, alcohol, nicotine or caffeine abuse with any weight whatsoever and doesn't prepare children for the reality of having to deal with people who are on drugs.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:05AM (#36631118)
Where does this end?

Are people with a pattern of disruptive, dysfunctional behavior allowed to be present in your workplace?

Is this something you would see as desirable to experience, for the same reasons you've given that children should experience it?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:08AM (#36632009)
> Are people with a pattern of disruptive, dysfunctional behavior allowed to be present in your workplace?

Yes, actually. The standard to fire people is high and HR wants these people constructively managed out rather than fired. This is incredibly common in large corporations.

Had a bad hire once that abused an entire engineering department for 2 years while they had no responsibilities and did no work until they were finally bored enough to quit.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:24AM (#36632222)
What about the second question? Is it desirable to tolerate abusive employees? Should managers who do something about it be considered problematic because they're shielding people from the real-life learning experience of being bullied?

These are not gotcha questions. I'm honestly trying to understand your worldview here.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:37AM (#36632389)
It's not desirable, no, but there are other employers to go work for.

If you get expelled _by a public school system_ you may not have another option.

My worldview is that all kids have the right to an education, regardless of how "manageable" adults interpret their behavior. "Disruptive children" are more often a failure of the adult to meet the needs of the child. Also they're children. They haven't learned how to behave like adults yet. Expecting them to do so is cruel.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:46AM (#36632535)
But you've defined education as learning how things are out there in the real world, including bullying which prevents children from getting what people traditionally called education.

What if most people don't want this type of education? Are they wrong? Do you have the moral authority to force it on them?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by boeingUH60 on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:09AM (#36631192)
> Kids should learn that other people have dysfunctional lives early so that they grow up with the capability of empathy towards others.

They should learn by being subjected to the effects of their dysfunction? I honestly don't grasp this strategy. It's like saying that we should learn that some people are psychopaths by going to live with them..

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Simulacra on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:09AM (#36631187)
Nah, looking back on it, there was no learning about dysfunctional lives, it was just absolutely misery. Emotional and physical bullying, fear, intimidation, and misery. If a child is disruptive to other students and impinging on their opportunity to learn they should be removed from the classroom. It's not the school's job to teach discipline. Removing them from the class puts the burden on the parents and the administration, instead of the kids.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:12AM (#36631227)
School isn't really just there to teach you facts, it's to prepare you for life as an adult. You are going to deal with bullies your whole life and you'd better be well prepared for it before you're out on your own as an adult.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by NoMoreNicksLeft on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:05AM (#36631968)
> You are going to deal with bullies your whole life

Never dealt with them again once I left high school. Not even any close calls.

That shit's like living in a war zone. No one sends their kids to a war zone so they can "learn to survive". No good lessons exist in a war zone, not even in between people stepping on landmines or getting pulverized by airstrikes.

All that exists in such a place is a bunch of trauma, and yes, debilitating/mutilative injuries, for those that somehow manage to get sneak back out of them.

Bullying is like this too, though obviously to a lesser degree.

I strongly suspect that most people get their ideas about what bullying is from the same half-dozen made-for-tv movies and other narrative fragments thereof on the subject.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Simulacra on Saturday July 08, 2023 @06:39AM (#36643140)
Cannot echo this enough. Not once in the 20 years since high school have I had to deal with with the same kind of bullies, intimidation, and violence. School was like a prison and going each day, steeling myself to deal with misbehaving kids, apathetic teachers, and an administration that thought ignoring the problem, social promoting, and punishing anyone who fights back was the best strategy.

It's not just the constant picking and poking that bullies do, it's the way they make the entire school environment like a prison yard. You never know when someone is going to do something to you, or how a teacher (guard) would react. Teachers exacerbating the problem because, while powerless, they mostly threw up their hands because they were not allowed to send the student out of the class.

Public school in America is, in a word, prison.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by NoMoreNicksLeft on Saturday July 08, 2023 @03:54PM (#36648102)
> It's not just the constant picking and poking that bullies do, it's the way they make the entire school environment like a prison yard.

It wasn't the only way that schools were like prisons, just the most uncomfortable of those. We can be honest now, we're well distance from it at this point.

> You never know when someone is going to do something to you, or how a teacher (guard) would react.

Did you ever have any of the teachers join in? Not just decide that it was your fault, but to actually pick up on the name-calling and contempt? When it happens during class, that's the cue for everyone else to join in too, even those who'd always be too timid.

But pretty much the whole administration does this in more subtle ways, you know? For me, this happened on the school bus more than anywhere else. I was in second grade, they were in highschool. An hour's bus ride to school every morning, an hour home each afternoon. Bus driver was an old asshole of a curmudgeon and from his driving I doubt he could see 6ft in front of his face (let along 14ft back through a mirror). When my mama went to the administration to try to have a stop put to it... they threatened her with me being thrown off the school bus. We lived in a rural area, she didn't have a car at the time. The implication was that if/when I missed school, it'd be truancy. She'd be arrested, I'd be put in foster care.

You know, me. The second-grader who is a troublemaker just provoking the 16 yr olds into beatings, into having my clothes torn and stained with god knows what, into having my hair snipped off whenever my head was turned.

I can't even tell anyone about this shit. No one believes me. I don't believe it myself. My memories seem like lies to me.

> Teachers exacerbating the problem because, while powerless,

Sounds alot more like "only following orders" to me.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by candiodari on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:22AM (#36633096)
You're going to learn to avoid bullies entirely and live the remainder of your life without them, is what you mean.

As to how 18 years of being forced into a small room with them helps prepare you for that, I hope you'll enlighten me.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by mrguyorama on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:07AM (#36632007)
>It's not the school's job to teach discipline. Removing them from the class puts the burden on the parents and the administration

No, all it does is make sure that any child with a bad home life has no future. Sure, it solves the "problem" of making one teacher manage 30 kids meaning one kid can DDoS the system but it does that by ignoring it all together.

Mom's a teacher, and "bad" kids LOVE her because she's extremely good at her job. Those bad kids pretty much universally just need attention because they get none in normal life. There are still occasionally young psychopaths but they generally do get expelled at some point. Otherwise most bad kids would come do their homework in her class because she was basically the only adult in the building they respected. She was literally "just" a french teacher but because she understands what it means to be a teacher she was an intervention for many a "bad" kid.

You want one bad kid to not spoil the bunch? Stop making undertrained, underpaid "teachers" without even an education degree oversee a class of 30 kids. How good could one person possibly manage 30 adults, let alone kids. Stop hiring glorified baby sitters because that's all you can get for $30k a year in salary. Stop treating teaching like a disposable profession.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:12AM (#36632077)
Also it's not always the kid's home life that's the problem.

Teachers can be bad and do have the capability to pick on children. Having these kinds of outcomes totally allows a teacher to single out a child they don't like and wreck their whole life.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by zmgsabst on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:03AM (#36631087)
All you’re teaching is that adults lack empathy towards them:

Adults are intentionally victimizing the majority of students to cater to their own shallow virtue signaling.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:07AM (#36631144)
Everyone votes too. The government lacks empathy towards me by forcing me to have an equal vote with morons and criminals.

There are scenarios in life where we're all in this together and excising people for their inconvenience isn't what's best for society.

You don't just cast off disabled people into the void, for example. Unless you have a solution for where to put these problem public school kids that isn't juvenile detention, I don't want to hear it.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by vacuity on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:36AM (#36632374)
I hear you. It's no good for chronically disruptive kids to be in juvie all the time, but it's also no good for them to remain in classrooms. Any amount of pay won't salve the sheer stress of attempting to teach those who won't learn. It would be great if someone could just snap their fingers and give those kids stable homes or something. Unfortunately, I suspect the solution requires efforts on multiple fronts (ample food, housing, social support, etc.) and will be expensive, difficult, and slow.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:42AM (#36632460)
The callousness of the HN commentariat towards those who "don't behave according to the rules" is off the charts these days.

We're talking about children here. They don't know how to behave like adults yet. Cutting them out of society where they fail to meet expectations is cruelty.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:52AM (#36632631)
It seems to me that you recognize one kind of cruelty but not another, forcing innocent bystanders to have their education heavily disrupted.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:40PM (#36637274)
No, it's just that "disruptive" is a pretty broad and subjective spectrum of behavior and a lot of kids get a raw deal from school administrators for really harmless shit. See zero-tolerance policies. Everyone in this thread is using broad weasel language with a blanket response of "expulsion" when really that should be reserved for heinous offenses.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by vacuity on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:22PM (#36637801)
By "weasel language", you make it seem as if we're intentionally lumping in kids who aren't really problematic and being sneaky about it. We could all stand to be more nuanced, and there may be some people here who are just that harsh, but I think you're reading too much into our intentions. I doubt most of us support zero-tolerance policies (if informed about it). Frankly, I think administrators have to be willfully perverse to actually enforce such policies.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:25PM (#36640024)
> Frankly, I think administrators have to be willfully perverse to actually enforce such policies.

I think you misunderstand what a zero-tolerance policy is and how it's applied. There literally is no tolerance. There is no nuance to them. If an incident is reported they are required to take action. There isn't a decision-making process past the point of the incident being reported. Everyone involved and any witnesses literally have to keep their mouths shut.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by hackinthebochs on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:35PM (#36634287)
This is sympathy ethics run amok. Being unable to protect yourself or your family from disruptive influences because of some sympathetic property of the disrupter is self-undermining. Presumably you would quarantine a kid who contracted some highly contagious and potentially deadly disease. This is really no different. One can be sympathetic to the plight of an innocent and not be willing to suffer significant hardship for their benefit. There is no contradiction here.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by NoMoreNicksLeft on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:00AM (#36631887)
> Kids should learn that other people have dysfunctional lives early so that they grow up with the capability of empathy towards others.

You say children should learn this, and then you say that this is because they will have some new capacity for empathy they wouldn't otherwise have.

I see no reason to believe this proposition is true. What if instead, when they learn this, it just makes them more vulnerable to various kinds of dysfunction themselves? What if, even if learning about this is a good thing, it's only a good thing when they're well on their way to adulthood?

You have no real evidence of cause and effect here. Just a lazy asumption. "But when I learned of this, I immediately had intense feelings of empathy!" doesn't mean much because you're not even a single data point, but an anecdote. Self-reported. And not a young child.

> or caffeine abuse with any weight whatsoever

This is coming from someone who would legalize heroin, cocaine, and meth and sell it from liquor stores: no one ever sucked cock in the alley behind the pawn shop for a hit of caffeine. It's not in the same category.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Simulacra on Saturday July 08, 2023 @06:42AM (#36643153)
You say children should learn this, and then you say that this is because they will have some new capacity for empathy they wouldn't otherwise have.

Public education is like Lord of the Flies. There is no room for empathy, only survival.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by afavour on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:31AM (#36631478)
I literally said “I agree that keeping them in general education is bad too” but I feel like you have a point you want to make irrespective of anything I’m saying so go on.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:58AM (#36631860)
And I agree with you. It's right to recognize that there are no good options here. In such situations, it's important to consider the bad effects and victims on both sides, not fixate on one as the only morally correct one to consider.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:27PM (#36634161)
This is life though, that spillover doesn't disappear when you're an adult. You will always be subject to someone else's dysfunctional life unless you isolate yourself from society completely.

We need to have structures that can address this behavior in a way that fosters societal integration. This "spillover" might not be a problem given proper staffing... but a 1:25 ratio is never enough to handle problems and never will be.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by tivert on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:48AM (#36632574)
> which you’re now throwing them into full time.

Is that really possible in the US? IIRC, the government has a mandate to educate every child, including those that are extremely developmentally disabled (which is why special education is such a huge item in school budgets). If a kid is expelled from school, wouldn't the district be legally required to find some alternative arrangement?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by zdragnar on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:16AM (#36632998)
No, the parent is. Worst case, they can be home schooled.

Despite being treated as such, schools are not day cares, and parents still have some responsibility for the upbringing of their children. If the kid misbehaves enough, it is on the parent.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by aidenn0 on Saturday July 08, 2023 @07:15PM (#36649720)
We might want it to work that way, but depending on which state it is, and the she of the child, the district's legal responsibilities might be what the GP wrote.

In places with mandatory public education, parents suing the district for not providing education for their expelled child are likely to win.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by SoftTalker on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:54PM (#36634622)
The school cannot fix the home life, so it should not try.

Home life should be addressed by child services, etc. Granted in reality they are often as understaffed or as incompetent and corrupt as any other government service, but at least that's their mission. School teachers should not be doubling as social workers.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by vacuity on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:54PM (#36640219)
There should be counselors to help ease the gap between school and home, but yes, teachers don't need even more burdens.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by swores on Saturday July 08, 2023 @05:50AM (#36642904)
I personally suspect that it would work better if schools had dedicated staff to deal with that side of stuff rather than only having those people in the separate child services organisation - maybe in such a way that it's the school social care team who directly work with the children & families (with a separate team at child services to do the same for any kids not attached to a school), while being able to call on support from central child services for either advice and guidance or for the use of an expert in a specific area when needed.

But underfunding is a big problem whichever way it's structured, and I of course agree with you that it's not something you can just say "this is the responsibility of the teachers to do on top of their existing responsibilities".

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by boeingUH60 on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:35AM (#36630742)
And this feel-goodism causes serious long-term harm. It's better to discipline people displaying rogue behavior when they're young. This feel-goodism just pushes the consequences to when these people get old, and they end up in prison, unemployed, working dead-end jobs, or something similar...at that point no one cares because they assume the person is an adult that can take care of themselves.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by vacuity on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:52PM (#36640202)
Not to mention that behaviors become more ingrained with age.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by lotsofpulp on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:05AM (#36631120)
A Republican Congress with a Republican President in 2004 enacted the federal law that makes it difficult for public schools to expel disruptive children.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/IDEA_2004

All a parent has to do is ask for an individualized education plan, IEP, and a public school will have to do a metric ton of cover your ass to be able to expel a child.

https://files.eric.ed.gov/fulltext/ED495879.pdf

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:09AM (#36631185)
While much of what Bush did as President was not at all compassionate, he actually did believe in and try to practice compassionate conservatism. He made major concessions to liberal ways of thinking, some good and some not so good. A major good one was fighting AIDS in Africa. His education policies were on the not so good side.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by latency-guy2 on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:43AM (#36631641)
> He made major concessions to liberal ways of thinking, some good and some not so good. A major good one was fighting AIDS in Africa.

This is not making concessions to "liberal ways of thinking".

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:49AM (#36631731)
I think it is. Part of liberalism is seeing all people as worthy of compassion and help, even if they're not closely related to you. While the contrasting tendency in conservatism is to help people closer to / more similar to us and protect ourselves from outsiders who we do not understand, may not benefit from our help, or may even exploit us. Both of these tendencies are valid and adaptive in different situations, they're just different and at least somewhat in opposition. Do you disagree?
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by lotsofpulp on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:52AM (#36631781)
I would think a truly liberal policy would be to provide funding for the “compassionate” policies.

On the other hand, federally legislating that local school taxing districts provide services costing $x and if they do not, open up local taxpayers to litigation of $y where x and y are quite large is…something else.

How is a poor school district serving poorer taxpayers supposed to provide expensive IEP for every problem child and/or collect all the evidence to expel them, and at the same time provide quality education to well behaved kids?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:56AM (#36631826)
Well, I'd be the last person to expect that any particular policy enacted by the US Congress does either liberalism or conservatism effectively.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by rascul on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:13AM (#36631246)
> A Republican Congress with a Republican President in 2004 enacted the federal law that makes it difficult for public schools to expel disruptive children.

The Republicans only had a slight majority. And after a change, the bill passed in both chambers almost unanimously.

https://www.govtrack.us/congress/bills/108/hr1350

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by lotsofpulp on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:20AM (#36631328)
The purpose of pointing out that it was a Republican majority is to counter the claim that (only) “liberals” support not expelling kids.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Simulacra on Saturday July 08, 2023 @06:43AM (#36643162)
Anytime something becomes political there becomes two sides. If conservatives want to expel students, liberals want to keep them. If conservatives say no, liberals say yes, this is America at its core. We cannot agree on anything so when it comes to public education, it's better to ignore the politics and focus on results.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Der_Einzige on Friday July 07, 2023 @01:28PM (#36635200)
The reason for this is that the overwhelming majority of bullies and disruptive kids go on to become republicans. Unironically.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by ElevenLathe on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:58AM (#36632716)
The problem is that it just moves the issue around. If you expel a 5th grader, they will be at SOME school for at least several more years, since that is the law. All you're doing is making life more miserable for their parents as they have to arrange transportation to increasingly far flung school districts, and for the child as they are ripped away from all their friends every year when they are sent to a new school.

I don't know what the answer is, but "all children are owed a public education and in fact we'll arrest their parents if they drop out" and "public schools can kick children out" are self-evidently not compatible policies.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:16AM (#36632994)
> All you're doing is making life more miserable for their parents as they have to arrange transportation to increasingly far flung school districts, and for the child as they are ripped away from all their friends every year when they are sent to a new school.

That's not all we're doing. We're also protecting an entire classroom of children from disruptive behavior.

If it's gotten to the point where we would consider expulsion, then some of those children, or their families, likely find that disruption so intolerable that they themselves would need to arrange transportation to far flung school districts. That's why so many underprivileged families are desperate to get their kids into charter schools.

As I keep trying to point out in this comment tree, people seem to have learned that it's morally appropriate to talk about only one type of victim here. I don't agree. I think it's morally necessary to always discuss both the disruptive child and the classroom they are disrupting, always in the same breath.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by ElevenLathe on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:25AM (#36633148)
If we suppose that this theoretical child is a problem that is disrupting their classroom, then we are not saving any children from that disruption, merely spreading it around. They will be a problem for one classroom this year, a different one next year, and so on. Assuming class sizes are the same, we will have on average the same number of disrupted-pupil-hours with the expulsions as without them, just a different distribution.

If you want to argue it's a better distribution, or that there is some reason to believe expulsions will push "problem children" to smaller classrooms on average, then fine, but absent those arguments it's very clearly worse for the student and their parents but not better for anyone else (or rather, it's maybe better for specific other people, but also worse for yet other ones, and on average no better for anyone).

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by civilized on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:41AM (#36633428)
I agree that spreading it around is not clearly better. In many districts there are special-ed schools where these students are placed. I don't know what it's like in these schools. Some of them are probably terrible. But I think I'm obligated to weigh that against the disruption to a much larger body of students.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by at_a_remove on Friday July 07, 2023 @02:26PM (#36636197)
Making life more miserable for the parents is, in some senses, an encouragement for the parents to straighten up and spend a little more effort on their kids. If it were completely painless, fewer would bother.

Changing behavior requires pressure and people generally do not like it when they notice it.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by drak0n1c on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:00PM (#36637535)
There used to be regional boys schools and girls schools that had a military-style ethos and were quite effective in reforming bad students. They would still interface with the local school system in sports and dances, etc. So in some cases expelled students didn't necessarily have to travel too far, just to the shared alternative school for the area.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by specialist on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:42PM (#36638032)
Was the disruptive student. Am now very leftist.

Some aspects do give me pause.

Such as Any regiment which makes things worse. We're all just guessing; people need to be empowered, so hopefully they can muddle thru things.

Thresholds need to be obvious and ruthlessly enforced. Not fuzzy and optional. (eg If a student assaults a teacher, insta removal, to never come back. And so forth.)

Alas, forging these kinds of rulesets, and then sticking to them at scale, is all but impossible.

Also, most people blathering about public education are repeatedly proven worse than wrong. (Including me.) So am deepyly skeptical of fixes and silver bullets. I insist there's at least some existence proof before supporting any reforms.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:47AM (#36630895)
I was the disruptive kid in public school (although I'd blame it on excessive and biased attention from teachers and teachers not in control over their egos) and I was indeed kicked out of class and eventually given the ultimatum of be medicated into submission or be expelled.

The next year I was at the private school across the street. Suddenly I wasn't a problem child anymore there.

I had already been taught algebra at home by first grade. I was in the "gifted program" in public school and the curriculum was still boring and slow. Teachers lasered in on my boredom and made my life miserable despite (or perhaps because of) being able to answer anything. I thrived a little more in private school in part because the children were on-average smarter but also because instead of the school treating everyone like they were special and going to save the world (and rewarding only the kids they liked) they taught children the value of group conformity and not being the nail that sticks up.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by themitigating on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:06AM (#36631140)
What made them like a student over another? Behavior? Ability?

How/why were students they liked rewarded? Teaching is a job, there are tests and many times grading is subjective. The only factors I thought would come into play are.

1. How much the student tried, cared, or showed interest during class

2. The content of the test (answers-objective, writing-subjective)

3. If they were disruptive in class which normally led to 1 and 2 being negative

What unjustified reasons would a teacher have to show favoritism to a portion of students excluding rare situations like sexual relations and nepotism?

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"because instead of the school treating everyone like they were special and going to save the world"

How? When I was in school I went from class to class where the teacher would read material, show examples (i.e.) math, or have a class discussion. Do you mean they inflated grades? Then you wouldn't have done poorly in public school as you said.

If you mean they verbally told students they were doing good when they weren't why would they do that? Public school students have to take standardized test which are so important for the school that it's a common complaint that teachers only teach the test. If this is the case how does rewarding unworthy students benefit the teacher or school. Why would they do that?

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Your comment hit a nerve because it is very dense with political talking points.

- public school teachers are corrupt (i.e.favoritism )

- public school teachers are bad at their job

- public school teachers are too soft and treat kids like snowflakes and this has a negative affect.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:08AM (#36631163)
> What made them like a student over another? Behavior? Ability?

Between my experience and the data I would say it comes down to class and gender, but maybe in the reverse order.

In my primary school education, both public and private, there was a pervasive and often oppressive favoritism towards the girls in just about all situations.

We've been starting to see the results of this in the data for the last couple of decades where men have worse education outcomes by a sizable percentage.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by themitigating on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:11AM (#36632929)
I'm not sure how that relates to my comment which was a response to a private vs public school comment.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by knome on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:34PM (#36637181)
>they taught children the value of group conformity and not being the nail that sticks up

That seems like an awful lesson to impose on children. "Keep your head down and don't do anything to attract attention. Go to your grave having spent your life hiding among the faceless crowd".

Shitty teachers that play favorites won't not exist in a private setting. Shitty teachers that demand abject compliance from students to soothe their egos won't not exist in a private setting.

It sounds like a bored student was disrupting the education of 30 others, so teachers punished them more than the other students? They should have probably kicked you ahead a grade if you were so far ahead of your peers, but that would require someone in the situation to attribute your behavior to boredom rather than mere defiance. Did your parents not suggest such a thing? Was it not an option for some other reason? It sounds like a change of environment brought you away from old grievances and that the increased coursework gave you something to do. It's completely possible that a grade skip in the same school could have done the same.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by busterarm on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:45PM (#36637345)
> That seems like an awful lesson to impose on children. "Keep your head down and don't do anything to attract attention. Go to your grave having spent your life hiding among the faceless crowd".

It's a crucial survival skill. You learn when and where in your life to apply it. The "lesson" is that the whole world doesn't revolve around you. Please keep me away from the karens that _haven't_ yet learned that about life.

> It sounds like a bored student was disrupting the education of 30 others, so teachers punished them more than the other students? They should have probably kicked you ahead a grade if you were so far ahead of your peers, but that would require someone in the situation to attribute your behavior to boredom rather than mere defiance. Did your parents not suggest such a thing? Was it not an option for some other reason? It sounds like a change of environment brought you away from old grievances and that the increased coursework gave you something to do. It's completely possible that a grade skip in the same school could have done the same.

Most of my time in that school was fine, I just got unlucky one year and got a nasty old tenured b* of a teacher who decided from day one that she hated me and directed constant negative attention towards me. I just wanted to be left alone. I had had 5 consistent years at that school already without problems, but she was besties with the principal. Later on in her career she got rubberroomed by the school board, so I don't think the problem was me here.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by knome on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:27PM (#36637873)
>they taught children the value of group conformity and not being the nail that sticks up

>The "lesson" is that the whole world doesn't revolve around you

These strike me as very different things.

Teaching kids to remain grounded, respectful of others and how to live within an existing system is one thing.

The former sounds like teaching them to avoid garnering attention at all, which is quite another.

I've read about cultures where standing out, for good or bad, is socially punished. "The tallest blade of grass is the first to be mowed down". I would not want us to foster such a culture here.

I could agree with "don't stand out for the wrong reasons".

>Most of my time in that school was fine

It doesn't seem this has much to do with the debate between public and charter schools at all. Just a poor experience you unfortunate enough to have gone through.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by sidewndr46 on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:55AM (#36630980)
The public school I went to was worse. If you were attacked by one of those disruptive kids you'd be suspended for starting a fight.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by brvsft on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:55AM (#36631818)
My middle school was like this. They had a "zero tolerance" policy on fights, which meant if you were in one, you were supposed to get suspended.

In reality, it did not actually work this way. I did get into at least one fight where administration got involved, and they let me off the hook. (Neither of us got suspended, in fact.) In my own view, I 'started' that fight although I did not 'instigate' it, not that the difference matters much. Some kid in line for PE kept kicking the back of my shoes, and after the fourth or fifth time, I started punching him.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by dev_daftly on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:09AM (#36632030)
That's because of "zero-tolerance" policies, which never made any sense.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Nasrudith on Friday July 07, 2023 @01:53PM (#36635601)
I always say the best way to solve Zero Tolerance policies is to threaten to replace the management with a minimum wage box-checker. If we aren't getting any discretion or thought why pay more for it? You would see quite the shift from acting like lazy ass-covering automatons.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by ZeroGravitas on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:08PM (#36633837)
This comes up a lot, but similar to people complaining about wikipedia reverting their edits, no one seems to even care if it is on balance a good policy or not. They're too caught up in their own injustice.

Maybe it works, maybe it doesn't, I don't know but I have to at least consider that a few innocent kids getting suspended unfairly for being attacked might be worth it if it prevents more attacks that escalate further.

You could even argue the opposite, that if you're going to get suspended for being attacked you might as well try to bite their ear off and go down fighting, but no one does, they just focus on the innocent kid getting suspended.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by sidewndr46 on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:11PM (#36633900)
So when you get jumped in a hallway, a concussion so hard you black out, multiple broken ribs from being kicked while on the ground & then you wake up in a hospital with no memory of the event, you should consider that it is OK you got suspended for getting your ass beat?
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by ZeroGravitas on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:21PM (#36634044)
A good example of my point. So you don't even care if the policy helps other kids avoid that same fate, it's just a point of principle to you and you're happy to see them go to hospital with concussion?
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by swores on Saturday July 08, 2023 @05:42AM (#36642873)
It's hard to guess why you've interpreted their comment as being "happy to see them go to hospital with concussion".

But I would suggest that in a debate over whether or not it's a good idea to punish children who are innocent (e.g. being attacked in a one-sided "fight"), the onus is on you to demonstrate that there are benefits to the approach, not on others to demonstrate that punishing innocent kids, or people in general, isn't a bad idea.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Nasrudith on Friday July 07, 2023 @01:51PM (#36635563)
An injust policy is not a good policy by definition. There is a reason "better a hundred guilty go free than one innocent should suffer" is an axiom. To do otherwise utterly fucks with incentives and promotes selfishness in the worst of ways. Why bother being honest if it is no protection? Do whatever the fuck you can get away with and maximize the personal advantage. That is a recipe for breakdown. Injustice has a way of creating a "karmic backlash" of reputations which is less than precise. Not through any cosmic force but that in a world with billions of agents actions begetting reactions. It goes beyond classic vigilantism and into reputations in general. Letting the Mai Lai Massacre go unpunished certainly contributed to Vietnam Veterans branded baby-killers.

On another note I highly suspect residual trauma is a reason for teachers having issues with parents, and schools with willingness to fund. The tree remembers and assumes the worst of teachers based upon their own experience.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by marcosdumay on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:20PM (#36637001)
> a few innocent kids getting suspended unfairly for being attacked might be worth it if it prevents more attacks that escalate further

What is it with education that makes people so willing to internalize well known Fascist values?

Acceptance of that thought is common; of collective punishment is common; blatant repression is advocated everywhere. If you take the values of a common school and try to apply them to adults, you will get either punched away or arrested.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by dragonwriter on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:24PM (#36637047)
> a few innocent kids getting suspended unfairly for being attacked might be worth it if it prevents more attacks that escalate further.

Kids being unfairly punished for being attacked encourages more attacks, though, especially if it is punishing all participants regardless of role in a manner that is less of a punishment for the kind of people who would be inclined to attack and more of a punishment to those who would not.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by dllthomas on Saturday July 08, 2023 @10:12AM (#36644604)
It also might discourage reporting.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by specialist on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:24PM (#36637830)
Huh.

I categorically oppose "zero tolerance". It removes judgement, ignores context. It's a strategy for bureaucrats to absolve themselves of responsibilty.

But I actually don't know if it's better, worse, or indifferent. If it proves a net win, I might change my stance.

Please share if you find any such research. Thanks.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by vacuity on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:50PM (#36640193)
I would be astounded if a strategy that "removes judgement, ignores context" can be effective in a world of people who may be dealt injustices and have complicated circumstances. Seems completely antithetical to improving trust and social cohesion, which are important for a healthy society.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by stronglikedan on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:10PM (#36636882)
It hasn't been that way for a long time, but it used to be. And I can say that as a disruptive kid that was kicked out of a school. I then had to go through middle school in a special school for kids kicked out of other schools. Thankfully, they knew what they were doing when it came to getting kids back in line, and I turned out pretty okay in my book.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by aidenn0 on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:17PM (#36636956)
My daughter was threatened by 3 girls (with a long history of behavioral problems) that they would beat her up the next day. The school VP suggested with a straight face that maybe my daughter should stay home that day (since it was a Friday).
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:10AM (#36630493)
“bad” kids don’t need discipline, they need help - of course they don’t behave well when there’s 0 modeling at home, it’s not because someone isn’t yelling at them enough - raising a child “takes a village” and many of us aren’t operating within a village anymore, we’re all stressed out and working too much
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by goda90 on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:27AM (#36630670)
Yelling isn't the only form of discipline. There's withholding privileges. There's physical restraint even. Without cooperation from parents, school staff can't really do either. A teacher I know tells me how some of the violent elementary school children just get put in a room alone when they are having an episode because that's all they are allowed to do. These children (under 12 years old) have sent teachers to urgent care with injuries, and the kids are let back to school not long after.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:56AM (#36631001)
physical restraint and discipline addresses a symptom, not the cause — if discipline worked the US wouldn't have outrageously high prison population and recidivism rates
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by goda90 on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:20AM (#36631329)
The US justice system isn't discipline. It's punishment. Discipline isn't just giving consequences for actions, but it's also giving tools to choose better actions.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:21AM (#36632187)
On that I agree, but specifying "discipline" for the average person often means punishment only. This is why the prison system is the way it is... no one wants to pay for things that benefit the prisoners, just the punishment.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by monero-xmr on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:16AM (#36630550)
This is why if I had to teach I would teach college kids. I don’t want to be a therapist and bear the weight of all parents’ failures. I want to teach math. So if to be a public school K-12 teacher you have to also “model” how to be a functional human (as the kids go home and see the opposite) then I would never accept that job.

I was raised by a single mom who worked a million hours and didn’t have a baby sitter when I let myself in after school. Don’t see how “working too many hours and being stressed” is a new phenomenon because most of my extended family is poor and have always been. My mom told me not to steal and don’t be an obnoxious asshole in school, wasn’t exactly rocket science.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by mbork_pl on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:23AM (#36630633)
While (as a former math teacher, btw) I sympathize with you, let me point out that absolutely every teacher should "model how to be a functional human" (and in fact does, better or worse). This is true for every stage of education, from kindergarten to a university.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by briHass on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:23AM (#36630630)
Discipline does work; it's ultimately what the 'bad' kids get when they have runins with the criminal justice system.

The lack of discipline from the parents, mentors, and teachers early on is why the State has to do it later. Discipline is not orthogonal to 'help'.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by afavour on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:31AM (#36630710)
> Discipline does work; it's ultimately what the 'bad' kids get when they have runins with the criminal justice system.

…and does that work? Recidivism rates would suggest otherwise.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by monero-xmr on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:36AM (#36630752)
Considering a large experiment has just occurred with progressive prosecutors no longer putting criminals in jail, and the SF prosecutor was recalled and a tough-on-crime mayor was elected in NYC, I think the results are that “throwing criminals in jail” works better than not.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by afavour on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:42AM (#36630812)
As an NYC resident I can assure you in at least one of those examples you are vastly, vastly oversimplifying matters.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by mikeyouse on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:04AM (#36631108)
Both examples are silly and bad. Alameda County (Oakland) elected a tough on crime DA at about the same time as SF’s “reform” one and their crime rate increased more than SFs in that period.. there are no easy answers in policing or discipline.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by monero-xmr on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:13AM (#36632097)
Yes the “crime rate” when no one goes through the hassle to report petty crimes because it’s a pain in the ass and they won’t solve it anyway. The stats are a joke and everyone knows it.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by mikeyouse on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:46AM (#36632532)
Yeah except for this conversation, we're clearly talking about violent crime which increased in Oakland at a rate far greater than it did in SF.. and I can't imagine your contention that the people of San Francisco are less likely to report violent crime compared to people living 10 miles away..
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by kjkjadksj on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:58AM (#36633678)
To be fair, theres no way to reliably control for the affect of the da without a parallel universe with a weak on crime oakland da. Especially when certain violent crimes like murder are so rare in the population to begin with where a single multiple shooting event could skew things significantly year over year.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by mikeyouse on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:07PM (#36633822)
Yep. No argument there. Which definitely cuts both ways though. The 'weak on crime' DA in SF was lambasted and ultimately recalled for a crime spike that was smaller in magnitude than the crime spike in much of the country in areas with all manner of DAs and Policing policies.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by zmgsabst on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:40AM (#36630792)
If you want to treat crime through a disease model, then you should quarantine the infected and prevent transmissions, eg by them victimizing more people.

Somehow, that part of medicine never makes it into these “alternatives” — which makes claims of “systems thinking” or “crime as disease” sound like shallow pretenses for performative virtue rather than legitimate considered policy.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by afavour on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:48AM (#36631720)
At no point did I say I wanted to treat crime through a disease model so your "shallow pretense" dismissal feels out of place.

All I'm saying is that it's pretty obvious jailing criminals is incredibly expensive and not particularly effective at reducing future crime.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:58AM (#36631029)
I'm not going to be able to convince you otherwise if this is a strongly held belief, but once a kid (or anyone) is in the criminal justice system they're pretty much doomed. I've seen this time and time again, it's all punishment and very little help. We literally enslave inmates in some states, they're picking cotton on former slave plantations. We need to get over this concept of punishment only.

> Discipline is not orthogonal to 'help'.

Yes, but discipline alone will never work. Never has.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by artificialLimbs on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:06AM (#36631135)
>> We need to get over this concept of punishment only.

And replace it with what?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by giantg2 on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:51AM (#36631766)
Depends on the circumstances. If someone gets a life sentence, then it's probably not a benefit to society to work on rehabilitation. If someone gets 5 years or so for a non-violent offense, then perhaps providing resources that foster hope of permanent change could benefit society rather than derail them from society entirely just to punish them. That can be a balance many factors, such as a display of discipline through good behavior in jail/prison, work release, learning a skill/trade so one can get a job to support themselves (the primary precursor to being a benefit to society), and some sort of job placement assistance or at least the removal of so many barriers.

Some of these exist to some degree already. Some of the issues are systemic and not just related to those in prison. For example, the decline of real wages over the past 50 years and the rise of barriers to entry for many things (renting, jobs, etc) has made it difficult for lower skilled individuals to succeed. If you feel you have no hope in the system, then you will be more inclined to act outside the system.

None of this is an excuse for someone to break the law, merely an observation that the current system might not be maximizing societal benefits but rather too focused on punishment alone.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:23AM (#36632204)
Rehabilitation. We need to help people understand why they're constantly angry and impulsive, it can not be beaten out of them. For some people this can take a lifetime of mental health counseling.

I've seen irate voters at town meetings upset that tax dollars were being using to pay for books and tutoring for inmates, let alone mental health counseling. As a country the US is incredibly far off from the mindset of prisoner rehabilitation. We treat prisoners like animals, and for some reason are surprised when they keep acting like animals.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by robnado on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:26PM (#36637078)
Or you can teach the normal kids how to defend themselves and unite against the bully.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by giantg2 on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:35AM (#36631535)
The justice system is punishment. Proper disciplining would help foster discipline in the individual with teaching and guidance on how to make good choices and conform with those consistently.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by giantg2 on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:31AM (#36631474)
'“bad” kids don’t need discipline, they need help'

Some would argue that disciplining is helpful in many cases. Proper disciplining is not just punishment but should include an explaination of why what they did was wrong and what the right thing to do is.

Kids having discipline is a slightly different topic, but can be partially built through the process above.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:23PM (#36634092)
Discipline without love or some care starts to look like authoritarianism, so if you're not careful you can instill a strong sense of oppositional defiance and make things worse.

This is a very difficult problem to solve and people will often support the stick and complain that someone doesn't deserve the carrot. Everyone needs both.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by MisterTea on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:34AM (#36631510)
A friend taught public school in a poorer area outside of DC for about 8 years until moving into admin. He had one tactic that worked for many "bad" kids - call their parents, in the middle of the class if need be. He said today's young teachers, are non-confrontational and not used to verbal communication over phones as they were raised on social media and texting. So those young teachers sit there helpless while the student runs wild.

Now in admin hes some kind of teacher manager and he had teachers come to him, sometimes physically crying, unable to deal with a child with a behavioral problem. His says 99% of the time these problems are corrected with a single phone call to the parents. Just one call but no - young teachers these days don't have the guts or social wherewithal. So his job is now teaching adults how to make phone calls.

Another thing to realize is a lot of these kids do respond positively to teachers when they show them that they care and aren't there to simply baby sit and yell at them. He has had many students come to him later on thanking him for breaking their balls and setting them on the right path. Kids aren't stupid - they want respect but are treated like little monsters to be corralled and controlled like cattle.

Showing the kids you truly care is incredibly powerful for them - it connects at the human emotional level and those positive interactions boosts the kids moral and they feel more confident or centered in life.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by JediWing on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:05PM (#36633776)
Agreed, but teachers can't be expected to be the only ones providing this help.

Other public institutions outside the school system need to be in place to support the parents who are stressed and overworked and barely have time to parent.

And their right to be helped stops at the line where they're causing harm to the learning of others.

Discipline in schools isn't and cannot be about holistically reforming the problem kids, it's about making sure those who want to learn can.

You can't dump the entirety of systemic poverty, racism, mental health, etc. on the education system and expect it to work well.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by micromacrofoot on Friday July 07, 2023 @02:41PM (#36636482)
Yep, but also many schools in the US don't even have the basics AND they're getting all of that stuff dumped on them. Teachers are quitting at alarming rates since the pandemic. This is not being treated remotely like the emergency it is, and 10 years from now we're really going to feel it.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by themitigating on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:55AM (#36630981)
What makes a private school more likely to expell children?

Since they are a for profit enterprise, unlike public schools, wouldn't there be a financial incentive to have as many customers as possible?

In one particular area what is the reason a charter school would be better than a public school. Since the entry factor for most (excluding schools for smart kids) is money why wouldn't the same problems occur at a charter school? Finally, why can't we just fix public schools?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by mhb on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:59AM (#36631040)
What makes a private school more likely to expell children?

Uh, because more customers will leave if the private school is no better than a public school.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by conception on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:00AM (#36631048)
It’s a business where all the customers interact with one another. If it costs more in complaints, then you drop the bad apple.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by monero-xmr on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:00AM (#36631056)
Because the paying customers will go elsewhere if they allow another paying customer to ruin it. They want 20 to stay even if they have to lose the 21st payer.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by giantg2 on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:01AM (#36631918)
The private schools are seeking and selling quality. Plus, the majority of private schools are non-profits. Many are religiously affiliated and would like a large population as as a potential source of new religious members, but they also need some way to fund that. If a family is already paying $5k/yr in property taxes it is less likely they can afford another $10/yr for 2 kids to go to private school. The funding is the biggest blocker to increased private and charter school attendance. That's why there's so much talk about things like vouchers, 529s, etc.

"Finally, why can't we just fix public schools?"

That's a good question without a good answer. Perhaps the best answer is the meta that people don't agree on the course of action that would "fix" the schools since there are numerous opinions on what that is, resulting in no action or half measures.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by light_hue_1 on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:28AM (#36633208)
Many public schools simply cannot expel problem students.

The school district must educate everyone. When a school expels or excludes a student that student is still a live human that must somehow be educated. They may need to be bussed somewhere. Or to be sent to another school in another district. All of this is very expensive. Never mind that someone needs to administer this.

So in a public school expelling a student increases costs significantly, several fold. In a private school, it decreases costs. The private school just tells you to hit the road.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by JediWing on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:11AM (#36631214)
This is absolutely a huge factor, if not the biggest factor in education: kids who are actively disruptive and harmful to the learning of others being kept in with other kids, draining all of the attention from the teacher.

The causes and solutions are not as simple as "these kids are bad, kick them out of school", but any solution needs to involve kids who aren't disruptive and WANT to learn getting an environment conducive to that.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by stainablesteel on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:21AM (#36632184)
its worse than that, i have some examples of what always annoyed me:

- a terrible kid was constantly given presents from a teacher, chocolates, and small things she could give him so that he would stop misbehaving in class. normally these prizes would go to a single student every day, for merit, but once this terrible person kept getting them, everyone else became pissed and demoralized.

- the young kids copy the teachers behavior, and it creates this culture of "they have a harder life than you" when trying to complain about the terrible students in their vicinity (which i completely disagree with, they're not trying hard at all that's why they get like this), so when terrible people bully decent, kind, and hardworking students, there's no sympathy for the hardworking students. they get treated like shit and abused from the future-criminals who do nothing but degrade the experience of everyone who attends, then they get told "get over it, you have everything" by their peers who for whatever reason weren't bullied, and refuse to help. its cult-like behavior

- you also have kids who are way too old for their grade, by at least 4 years. someone who should otherwise be way ahead of the classroom they're in is 2x the size of anyone else, is a literal delinquent, and is for some reason still allowed in the public school system where they either terrorize their classmates, get them into their same terrible habits, or bully people who express any kind of discontent with their behavior.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by tivert on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:42AM (#36632462)
>> I went to public school as a kid and the disruptive kids were expelled. Not just kicked out of class - totally kicked out of school and told to find a new one! One reason I send my kids to private school is if you don’t want to learn they will kick you out. In public schools today you get a few bad kids and it ruins the whole class.

> The causes and solutions are not as simple as "these kids are bad, kick them out of school", but any solution needs to involve kids who aren't disruptive and WANT to learn getting an environment conducive to that.

But it might not be that much more complicated. It's been a long time since I've been in school, but in our district there was an "alternative" high school, which had a reputation among the kids as the place you'd end up if you were too much of a behavior problem.

That said, the kids at my schools were well-behaved in class and I never knew of anyone specific who was expelled.

If behavior problems are getting more widespread, maybe embracing more of an explicit containment strategy is appropriate.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by JediWing on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:05AM (#36632830)
It's sad but I largely agree.

The complicated part is the "why" of their behavior, which can range from an antisocial personality disorder, to not getting enough attention at home.

Sadly many of the cause of behavior problems is from systemic issues like poverty, or poor mental health services across the country.

The bottom line is that neither the kids nor the teachers want to, or deserve to, deal with the byproduct of other failed systems.

The failed systems should be fixed, and services provided to these kids to the extent possible, but OUTSIDE of a classroom setting.

The cost of past failures can't be borne by the students and teachers in the public school system.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by marcosdumay on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:12PM (#36636901)
> The complicated part is the "why" of their behavior

You can have specialized people look at the "why" after you remove the disruptive (some times dangerously disruptive) person from forced prolonged contact with innocent ones.

It's certainly very good to look and fight the causes; as it's important to give the people chances to go back on track, and protect them at that new environment too. But forcefully submitting everybody else to them is just horrible.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jacknews on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:29AM (#36631449)
Indeed, and the assertion that 'only poor kids together' will behave even worse certainly needs backing up with data.

It seems obvious to me (since the experiment is repeated over and over within millions of families) that environment plays a major role in behaviour, but tbh I don't see good behaviour rubbing off onto the 'bad' kids, it's almost always the other way around, or at best, a productive environment is disrupted by a few troublemakers.

So 'good' kids should get an environment free of disruption so they can do what they do. And the 'bad' kids should get an environment much more focused on encouraging good behaviour, so they learn to do the good stuff too. Win-win.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by II2II on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:55AM (#36631815)
Except you run into a few problems when implementing that, especially for public schools.

Proactive parents will typically want their children in good schools, regardless of their child's behavioural history. (This doesn't mean they refuse to acknowledge the issue, though some will. It simply means they want their children to have access to better supports.)

There is an overarching philosophy within the school system that integration is better than separation. I don't know if this has to be the case, but it has been historically true. Think of it this way: even though some of the best teachers may want to serve the most challenging schools, good teachers almost always want to teach in good schools. Where does that leave the challenging schools? If they're lucky, with a great teacher. More often, with a bunch of mediocre teachers.

Related to that, schools rarely have the resources to distinguish between students who would benefit from integration and those who would benefit from specialized and separate programs.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jacknews on Friday July 07, 2023 @09:57AM (#36631848)
I don't think you should segregate schools. Just classrooms. That gives students in 'bad' classes something to aspire to, and keeps them on the map rather than being written-off to a 'poor school', and parents should realise that, though their kid is in the 'bad' class, they are getting appropriate help, not just being discarded.

In some ways, the 'best' teachers should be assigned to the 'bad' kids, certainly those with the best command of a class. The 'good' kids don't need that so much.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by coredog64 on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:41AM (#36632438)
These kids are still going to be on the bus, at recess, or at school functions. Not sure if you were ever bullied, but all three of those are prime locations due to lack of adult supervision.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jacknews on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:58AM (#36632723)
I mean bullying is a thing worldwide to some extent, but I think America needs to fix it's high school culture. If not it's entire, aggressive culture.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by themitigating on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:25AM (#36633161)
Bullying is worldwide but to the same frequency and intensity?
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by bobthepanda on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:02PM (#36633727)
IIRC bullying is much worse in East Asia (Korea/Japan/China)
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by EatingWithForks on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:19AM (#36633055)
I think you still need something to incentivise the best teachers to voluntarily sign up for the lowest performing classes. Obviously its way more prestigious to be the teacher with all the ivy league destined students than the teacher whose students are just trying to get set up for a community college or a blue collar apprenticeship. [This is not to say the latter cohort is less intelligent, capable, or important-- just less prestigious.]
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by QuadmasterXLII on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:08PM (#36637626)
The right answer is probably to pay the teachers of the problem kids more or adjust student teacher ratios- For example, with no behavior problems a single math teacher could probably handle instructing and grading 50 students, as this is the model in college calc.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by Wowfunhappy on Friday July 07, 2023 @08:21PM (#36639996)
For what it's worth, in New York City the Gifted & Talented classes are often larger for this reason. A 2nd grade G&T classroom where I was a student teacher had 30 students, for example; standard classes at the same school had ~20 students per class.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jacknews on Friday July 07, 2023 @07:25PM (#36639597)
I see teaching these kids as a specialization in itself, so the incentive is to be a great 'turnaround' teacher, plus the pay should reflect that it is a difficult specialization.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by kelipso on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:58PM (#36637503)
I think you do want the "good" kids to be taught by the best teachers. That way they'll have better chances to succeed and you won't have so many good teachers get burnt out. I think people should just normalize sort of giving up on the "bad" kids and send them to the delinquents school or military school or whatever. The whole idea of having the best teachers teach the "bad" kids is completely wasteful of limited resources.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by themitigating on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:21AM (#36633085)
"Proactive parents will typically want their children in good schools, regardless of their child's behavioural history"

Why wouldn't this apply to private schools especially because in that situation parent's have financial leverage?

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by scythe on Friday July 07, 2023 @02:59PM (#36636756)
>There is an overarching philosophy within the school system that integration is better than separation.

I don't think it's fair to Black or female students to equate their integration with the "integration" of students who are specifically disruptive.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by danaris on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:05AM (#36631959)
While there's obvious classism (and very-slightly-more-veiled racism) in the assumptions that "poor kids" will be more disruptive in class, there is, to my understanding, substantial data backing up the perception, with causal mechanisms that have nothing to do with race or "poor breeding", and everything to do with how grindingly awful it is to be poor in America.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by droopyEyelids on Friday July 07, 2023 @10:55AM (#36632677)
Agreed, and to the parent comment's point, I believe the studies that prove this have already been done, it's just that they study the material effects of poverty in america, so they're more specific than 'poverty'

Kids have more behavior problems and remember things poorly when they're hungry.

Kids that don't have a stable housing situation struggle to focus in school.

Kids with untreated medical problems struggle to focus in school.

Kids with absent parents (like a parent that tries to work multiple jobs) struggle in school

Kids with parents in unstable relationships (poverty screws up relationships and forces people into suboptimal relationships to combine resources) do poorly in school and are more susceptible to abuse

Kids that are the victim of abuse struggle to focus in school.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by kneebonian on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:10AM (#36632913)
Seems that the biggest problem all relates to an unstable family life.

Hey you guys remember when in the 80s we convinced all the women that it would be empowering and freeing to start slaving away as a corporate drone and that would be the best life for them, that kids didn't need 2 parents at home?

Isn't it great how that panned out.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by EatingWithForks on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:21AM (#36633086)
I don't think you understand: poor women have never been able to afford to be a stay at home mother. Stay at home motherhood has always been a middle class and above lifestyle. Wealthier women employ the nannies and maids that are obviously overwhelmingly women who aren't at home.

I wouldn't attribute a lack of home stability to women empowerment. A lack of home stability is often caused by poverty. A poor mother cannot afford not to work, cannot afford suitable environments to raise her children while she works, and must make difficult decisions regarding proper nourishment/safe place to sleep/access to utilities/physical presence.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by sarchertech on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:31AM (#36633244)
Historically poor, married women did tend to stay at home, but frequently worked from the home sewing or washing etc…

Childcare and household chores were too time intensive for a woman with small children to go off to work.

Nannies and maids were generally unmarried, childless women.

I’m the early 20th century only 5% of married women worked outside the home in the US https://www.brookings.edu/articles/the-history-of-womens-wor...

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by keenboy on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:08PM (#36633840)
You're not looking back far enough historically.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jacknews on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:18AM (#36633042)
sure everything would be rosy if women just spent their time breastfeeding somewhere near the sink or cooker.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by keenboy on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:08PM (#36633833)
We've fallen prey to the philosophy that being at home with kids isn't adding value to society. You should be out making some big corporation wealthy!
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by fknorangesite on Friday July 07, 2023 @01:47PM (#36635503)
> I'm not saying women shouldn't be in the workforce

Whether you intended to or not, it is exactly what you were saying.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by ndriscoll on Saturday July 08, 2023 @11:32AM (#36645362)
"Women shouldn't be in the workforce" is a statement with ambiguous and even opposite meanings (with regard to why), so I think GP's intent is probably better captured by a statement like "raising children and maintaining the home is more important, more impactful, and more fulfilling work than almost all work outside the home".

When my daughter was born, a coworker asked if I hope she'll be a programmer one day, and my answer was that I hope not; I want her to be able to stay at home like her mother, and if she can't and has to work some corporate job, that means I will have somehow failed her. If she wants a job like mine, then again I will have probably failed her somehow.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jacknews on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:09AM (#36632893)
Sure, and in fact it's not only about poverty, I think there are some relatively wealthy (maybe white) kids who struggle because their families are dysfunctional, it's all about their close environment.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by elektrontamer on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:10PM (#36633874)
> While there's obvious classism (and very-slightly-more-veiled racism)

I don't get the mind reading. Why? It's like we read completely different posts.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by TimedToasts on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:03PM (#36637575)
It's just a bad-faith take, ascribing intentions as a smear on the OP.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by danaris on Saturday July 08, 2023 @10:37AM (#36644828)
I'm not claiming to read anyone's mind; I wasn't commenting on the opinions of the GP or GGP, but rather on that assumption as it exists within our culture.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by kjkjadksj on Friday July 07, 2023 @11:29AM (#36633226)
That still only goes so far because sometimes its a disrupted life at home that causes the in class disruptions.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by wing-_-nuts on Friday July 07, 2023 @02:45PM (#36636549)
Only, the measure of what constitutes 'bad behavior' is inconsistent as heck. I had cerebral palsy and undiagnosed ADHD as a kid and was constantly being sent to the principles office for simply 'spacing out' and getting distracted. I would have been royally screwed if I had been diverted to a school for kids with behavioral problems. Eventually I got glasses, got medicated, and thrived, but there were a lot of people who wanted to write me off without giving me a chance.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by drak0n1c on Friday July 07, 2023 @03:52PM (#36637425)
This used to be the case. Even in rural Wyoming. In each region there were at least one military-style dedicated boys school and girls school focused on disciplining bad students. Public school students would receive a few detentions and suspensions, followed soon after by expulsion to the boys school. Parents could also voluntarily and temporarily enroll their kid there if they needed disciplinary help.

The boys school had a good reputation and would have engagement with the local schools via sports and dances.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by jim-jim-jim on Friday July 07, 2023 @07:25PM (#36639599)
I benefited immensely from a homosocial environment, though in a snootier form of what you're describing. There's basically no incentive to be a cheeky little shit when there are no girls around to impress. I always thought it'd be nice if same-sex education were not just limited to expensive private schools and borderline prisons. I reckon a lot drama for students and teachers alike would vanish in these settings.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by dehrmann on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:05PM (#36633777)
> they are behavioral consultants rather than teachers

During covid, someone observed that it exposed the primary role of public schools to be day care.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by analog31 on Friday July 07, 2023 @12:52PM (#36634591)
Except there must be a difference between school and day care because the kids who stayed home during covid are now way behind academically.
Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by nonameiguess on Friday July 07, 2023 @01:10PM (#36634897)
I don't get the expulsion discussion here (not just your comment, but responses as well). At least in the US, these kids legally need to be educated somewhere. Expelling doesn't remove them from the school system. It just means they'll be disrupting a different set of kids at some other school. Making something someone else's problem isn't solving the problem. It's like dealing with homelessness by rounding them up and bussing them to a different city.

You could conceivably create schools composed entirely of the kids who got expelled from somewhere else, which I think some districts have actually done (continuation schools), but you're effectively creating a juvenile prison system for people who didn't commit any actual crime and definitely never got a trial.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by sixothree on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:20PM (#36637771)
I think that's pretty much the crux of every argument here - move those other kids somewhere else. Don't worry about improving their situation, but make my situation better.

Cite a study, draw incorrect conclusions from it that support your argument, find some exception to the norm and use that as your example, and don't forget - describe how you were brought up and how that was better.

Re:Charter schools, social norming and zero-sum games by JJMcJ on Friday July 07, 2023 @04:16PM (#36637724)
An analogy.

In a dorm the week before finals, 90% of the students are urgently trying to prepare for finals.

10% are drunk and or high and playing frisbee in the halls 24 hours a day.

From friends who have taught high school in poor neighborhoods the situation as similar, only more violent.