Proactive parents will typically want their children in good schools, regardless of their child's behavioural history. (This doesn't mean they refuse to acknowledge the issue, though some will. It simply means they want their children to have access to better supports.)
There is an overarching philosophy within the school system that integration is better than separation. I don't know if this has to be the case, but it has been historically true. Think of it this way: even though some of the best teachers may want to serve the most challenging schools, good teachers almost always want to teach in good schools. Where does that leave the challenging schools? If they're lucky, with a great teacher. More often, with a bunch of mediocre teachers.
Related to that, schools rarely have the resources to distinguish between students who would benefit from integration and those who would benefit from specialized and separate programs.
In some ways, the 'best' teachers should be assigned to the 'bad' kids, certainly those with the best command of a class. The 'good' kids don't need that so much.
Why wouldn't this apply to private schools especially because in that situation parent's have financial leverage?
I don't think it's fair to Black or female students to equate their integration with the "integration" of students who are specifically disruptive.
Kids have more behavior problems and remember things poorly when they're hungry.
Kids that don't have a stable housing situation struggle to focus in school.
Kids with untreated medical problems struggle to focus in school.
Kids with absent parents (like a parent that tries to work multiple jobs) struggle in school
Kids with parents in unstable relationships (poverty screws up relationships and forces people into suboptimal relationships to combine resources) do poorly in school and are more susceptible to abuse
Kids that are the victim of abuse struggle to focus in school.
Hey you guys remember when in the 80s we convinced all the women that it would be empowering and freeing to start slaving away as a corporate drone and that would be the best life for them, that kids didn't need 2 parents at home?
Isn't it great how that panned out.
I wouldn't attribute a lack of home stability to women empowerment. A lack of home stability is often caused by poverty. A poor mother cannot afford not to work, cannot afford suitable environments to raise her children while she works, and must make difficult decisions regarding proper nourishment/safe place to sleep/access to utilities/physical presence.
Childcare and household chores were too time intensive for a woman with small children to go off to work.
Nannies and maids were generally unmarried, childless women.
I’m the early 20th century only 5% of married women worked outside the home in the US https://www.brookings.edu/articles/the-history-of-womens-wor...
Whether you intended to or not, it is exactly what you were saying.
When my daughter was born, a coworker asked if I hope she'll be a programmer one day, and my answer was that I hope not; I want her to be able to stay at home like her mother, and if she can't and has to work some corporate job, that means I will have somehow failed her. If she wants a job like mine, then again I will have probably failed her somehow.
I don't get the mind reading. Why? It's like we read completely different posts.
The boys school had a good reputation and would have engagement with the local schools via sports and dances.
It seems obvious to me (since the experiment is repeated over and over within millions of families) that environment plays a major role in behaviour, but tbh I don't see good behaviour rubbing off onto the 'bad' kids, it's almost always the other way around, or at best, a productive environment is disrupted by a few troublemakers.
So 'good' kids should get an environment free of disruption so they can do what they do. And the 'bad' kids should get an environment much more focused on encouraging good behaviour, so they learn to do the good stuff too. Win-win.