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Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by chris_j on Thursday May 20, 2021 @09:37AM (#27220933)
I (native English speaker) have noticed this a lot. The example that I remember most vividly is receiving advice while trying to cook food on a barbecue: A Portuguese speaking friend suggested that I "move the burgers to the periphery of the barbecue". It make perfect sense but sounded incredibly fancy to me. A native English speaker would never have said that... unless they had received a really expensive education.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pmoriarty on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:04PM (#27222941)
"A native English speaker would never have said that... unless they had received a really expensive education."

There's the opposite problem, too, where people with poor educations will try to use fancy words to impress people (but often wind up just sounding pretentious).

One of my pet peeves is hearing people using the word "utilize".

Just say "use"! It sounds far less pretentious and means the exact same thing.

I intentionally try to simplify my word choice, even though my vocabulary is much larger than what I use in writing or daily speech, and even when the first word that comes to mind is long/fancy word.

I try to use a five cent word when even a five dollar word would do. It sounds more natural, and you don't come off sounding like you're trying to impress anyone (which is usually counterproductive if you're using vocabulary to do it).

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by WalterBright on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:04PM (#27224764)
> It sounds more natural

Weeeell, there's more to it than that. English has a rich vocabulary, why not use it? Just like there is more to a palette than primary colors, why restrict yourself?

Me, I enjoy using "five dollar words" where they fit, I also enjoy inserting slang, obscure puns, deliberate misspellings, foreign words, all to add some texture and color. Wakarimasu ka?

My father was felled by Alzheimers. What was interesting is his sentences became an incomprehensible jumble of words, but the words were from a well educated man's vocabulary. He never sounded pretentious, it was just how he talked.

(My family does not hail from English aristocracy as far as I can discern. He was the first to attend college.)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by throwaway894345 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:02PM (#27225602)
I'm from a lower class background; I learned from early on to adapt my language to that of the upper/upper-middle class, and it has 1000% earned me more credibility than my intellect or experience deserve. This isn't to say that this kind of implicit classist gatekeeping is merited--it's not--but this is the reality of the world we live in.

So the scenario in question is "someone trying to fit in with the upper classes" to which your response is something like "use the language however you like"--which is a fine thing to say, and no doubt especially easy to say for those of us who have the ability to speak in the upper class dialect/register, but that's not the stated goal. I.e., if you're trying to fit in with the upper classes, using "utilize" is a tell that you don't fit in (IMO the upper class register prefers to use very few words to convey a lot of meaning; precise, terse, and fashionable vocabulary is the name of the game)--if your goal is to use English however you like, and if you like "utilize" instead of "use", then go right ahead.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by alienthrowaway on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:43PM (#27227742)
> I'm from a lower class background; I learned from early on to adapt my language to that of the upper/upper-middle class

I have a similar background, but I can't say I adapt my language to that of upper classes. My accent and skin color pretty much gives away my background when I utter my first word, and unfortunately, just like having a southern US accent, people are subconsciously biased to thinking I'm probably not too smart. I love using "ten-dollar words"[1] - not that I shoe-horn them in, but they are the ones that usually pop into my head first and I can't be bothered to water them down. Additionally, I figure, "dumb" accent + "smart" words cancel each other out - more or less - which puts me on equal footing with my "normal" sounding colleagues. It's easier to change/adapt my vocabulary than it is to change my accent.

I love language, I do a lot of reading, and it's a delight when you find the right word that precisely expresses what you're thinking. Reading a lot expands your vocabulary and improves your adeptness at deploying it. When done in moderation, using puns and subtle literary references is fun (even when no one picks up on it) - as long as it doesn't detract from the actual message I'm communicating.

1. I do not mean speaking like the Architect from The Matrix here. The other week, I was called out by a monolingual collegue for using "nomenclature" rather than "naming convention" or "naming system" - which feel kludgey to me. Also, when I do make the effort to use shorter words after thinking of a long one first, that adds brief pauses to my speech, which gives the appearance of an ineffective communicator.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by WalterBright on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:09PM (#27225671)
There are a lot more tells than vocabulary. There's accent, even tone.

And, of course, there's the style of clothing, haircut, makeup, accessories, etc. Pretty much everything :-)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pmoriarty on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:25PM (#27225854)
One interesting tell that I might have heard in Jamie Johnson's documentary "Born Rich" was talk of holidays.

If you talk about holidaying with one's family in some exotic locale or of having a summer home in the Hamptons, the person you're speaking with can surmise that you're not poor.

The rich kids in that documentary also regularly go out to bars and think nothing of spending hundreds or even thousands of dollars on champagne.

It's definitely not just about how one talks that signals to others that one is part of the upper class.. but once one is established as in the upper class, then things such as one's manner of speech might distinguish you.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by alienthrowaway on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:59PM (#27227956)
I think the idea is not to perfectly blend in, but to get closer to that circle by being more relatable.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by hnick on Friday May 21, 2021 @05:47AM (#27232107)
I still need to grow out of the opposite. I had a typical lowish middle class upbringing, not poor, but parents were teachers so I was ahead of most classmates just by being around that environment and reading a lot. Being a country town this of course attracted teasing. I learned to talk plain and dumb it down. It's still hard for me to talk otherwise, but writing is OK. Only the teacher saw that so I never changed how I wrote too much.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by leoc on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:30PM (#27225933)
Much worse than using high-falutin' vocabulary (I might sometimes take advantage of 'utilise' myself) is using high-falutin' grammatical constructions AND USING THEM WRONGLY. Which takes us back nicely to the OP:

> "Having lived in the U.K., I know many whose first (and only) language is English and who make routine errors when speaking and many more when writing," says Madani.

The latest horror is people trying to use the 'so [adjective] a [noun]' construction but instead saying 'so [adjective] of a [noun]'. Folks, when you say 'so [adjective] of a [noun]' you don't sound no ways educated. There's a reason that Abraham Lincoln wrote of "the solemn pride that must be yours to have laid so costly a sacrifice on the altar of freedom" and not "so costly of a sacrifice"; and the reason is that Abraham Lincoln was not bloody illiterate. (It may actually have been written by John Hay https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bixby_letter, but Lincoln's secretaries weren't illiterate, either.) Now you might not think it makes much of a difference; but 'much' is a determiner, not an adjective, which should be clear if you think about it for a much time.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by amake on Saturday May 22, 2021 @10:23AM (#27246800)
*highfalutin (without apostrophe)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by sebmellen on Sunday May 23, 2021 @05:22AM (#27253578)
Dontcha think its awfully “high-falutin’” to correct a man on his grammar in a such as that way?
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by leoc on Sunday May 23, 2021 @03:37PM (#27257873)
That is not obviously so. Spellings and proposed origins are fairly all over the place.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pmoriarty on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:52PM (#27225474)
"I enjoy using "five dollar words" where they fit, I also enjoy inserting slang, obscure puns, deliberate misspellings, foreign words, all to add some texture and color. Wakarimasu ka?"

This reminds me of William Gibson's Sprawl slang, of Anthony Burgess' Nadsat slang from A Clockwork Orange, and of Cockney rhyming slang, thieves' cant, etc.

That sort of use can have a certain appealing charm to it in small doses (or might be annoying, depending on who you talk to and what you say), but unfortunately I don't think most users of "utilize" and the like rise to that level.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by WalterBright on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:56PM (#27225518)
Personally I don't care to utilize "utilize", either. It smacks of annoying bureaucratic slang, like "synergy", "incentivize", "leverage".

I'm bemused by cop jargon like "vehicle". Even journalists, when covering crimes, slip into saying "vehicle".

> rhyming slang

I like dazzuble dazzutch, but am not very good at it, fo shizzle.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by ghaff on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:27PM (#27225879)
Yep. I'm not sure there isn't ever a place for utilize; it's not 100% interchangeable with use. But, yes, it's part of a list of business and related jargon that is usually best avoided. Sometimes there are legitimate synergies. And sometimes leverage does actually apply--as in getting outsized benefits from using something. But, yes, should probably be used a lot less than they are.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by tombert on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:36PM (#27226035)
I actually purposefully try not to use sesquipedalian language much anymore ( ;) ) because I'm always afraid it's going to come off as pompous, and moreover nothing is worse than someone who learned a new fancy word but is using it incorrectly. Well, one thing is worse: when you're that person.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by WalterBright on Thursday May 20, 2021 @04:29PM (#27226771)
Of course I'll simplify the language I use when talking to people who have limited English skills, like kids or others learning the language.

Sesquipedalian means use of very long words, not quite the same as using a rich vocabulary.

> incorrectly

I sometimes pronounce words incorrectly that I'm very familiar with. What happened was I read the word a lot, yet had never heard it spoken. My mind would make up a pronunciation as I read, and eventually thought that was the real pronunciation.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by tombert on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:54PM (#27227884)
I wasn't referring to pronunciation, but rather the word having a slightly different meaning than how it's being used.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by 35fbe7d3d5b9 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:30PM (#27224236)
The concept of "U English" vs. "non-U English" was written about in the '50s. Don't say "pardon?", say "what?" or you'll be marked as a commoner ;)

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/U_and_non-U_English

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pmoriarty on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:35PM (#27224311)
The US has had a long history of anti-intellctualism[1], and in the 1950's "egghead" was popularized as a term of abuse against intellectuals.[2]

It's possible that the popular disdain towards the use of long words in the US is related to this anti-intellectual attitude.

[1] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Anti-intellectualism_in_Americ...

[2] - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egghead

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jll29 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:34PM (#27225214)
When I first studied at an English university (having been halfway through a linguistics program in Germany) my fellow students said I "sound like a book".

As being told that is embarrassing, one quickly adjusts...

(Nice examples here on HN, like "utilize the periphery of the barbecue" [to place one more sausage on it].)

But a latter move to the US led to a repeat ("Hey dude, you talk like an alien?! Goofball!!") although the British accent was well liked.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mrec on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:10PM (#27224861)
> I try to use a five cent word when even a five dollar word would do

"Short words are best, and old words when short are best of all." -- Winston Churchill

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by ithkuil on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:50PM (#27225437)
Minuscle locutions are preferable, and superannuated locutions are pre-eminent
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by fenomas on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:32PM (#27225198)
> pet peeves is hearing people using the word "utilize"

This battle is lost, but mine is "proceeded to". People seem to feel like it makes them sound more official - "He proceeded to enter the room, and he then proceeded to sit down." Once you start noticing it it's everywhere.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pessimizer on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:05PM (#27228016)
It's one of the things people do when they're making fun of cop-speak. Cops are the best example of people who are trying to make what they say sound official, but instead just make it long-winded and bizarre.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by FabHK on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:56PM (#27225512)
> Just say "use"! It sounds far less pretentious and means the exact same thing.

I shall avail myself of that advice.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by oblio on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:17PM (#27223114)
In Romanian "a utiliza" is "to use". I imagine it's the same in other Latin languages. So, see the original comment :-)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pmoriarty on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:19PM (#27223147)
I'm talking about native English speakers. It's not as grating if it comes from a non-native speaker, who you know hasn't mastered the language yet. When a native speaker says it, it feels like they should know better and are intentionally trying to make themselves sound smart.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by kilbuz on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:31PM (#27224254)
I think a lot of the usage you reference is blindly picked up in corporate environments, and has little to do with trying to 'sound smart'. My wife laughs at my vocabulary on my Zoom calls. After listening to myself, I have to agree.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by oblio on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:32PM (#27225964)
So what I'm hearing is that your ask for everyone is to not leverage obvious linguistic synergies in order to enhance the listening experience?
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by Mediterraneo10 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:05PM (#27223866)
Romanian is an example of the exact same thing. It did not inherit a utiliza from Latin, rather it borrowed it in the 19th century from French utiliser, because French was viewed as the posh and intellectual language then. Before that, for ‘to use’ Romanians just used the (Greek loan)word a folosi, which is generally more common than a utiliza even today.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by fmihaila on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:39PM (#27224367)
I think a better correspondence is "a utiliza" -> "to utilize" and "a folosi" -> "to use".

Edit: Mediterraneo10 explains it better.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jjav on Friday May 21, 2021 @04:50AM (#27231824)
> try to use fancy words

As a non-native speaker of English, one that I have never grasped is the overuse of the word "vehicle" to mean "car". It's extremely common, but not sure why. It's just a car, why call it a "vehicle"?

I understand it in the very generalized context of, say, the DMV. It's the dept. of motor vehicles because they handle cars but also trucks, vans, commercial haulers, even boats.

But not sure why someone says "I bought a vehicle" when really they just bought a car.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by hnick on Friday May 21, 2021 @05:53AM (#27232140)
People here wouldn't do that so maybe it's more of a US thing. It seems to be a common affectation from police to sound authoritative by using words like this, and that's all over the news and TV. Maybe it leaked from there into the general population.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by Kihashi on Friday May 21, 2021 @11:15AM (#27235123)
I'd use "vehicle" to be more general than "car". If I just bought one, I'd know whether I bought car, truck, SUV(ehicle), etc. Although, in some cases, you might say "car" generically if the distinction doesn't matter. Also, "vehicle" sounds a bit more formal, so if I were giving, say, a deposition, I might say that. I can't say that I think people around here overuse the term.

(Midwest USA)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jodrellblank on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:21PM (#27223180)
> Just say "use"! It sounds far less pretentious and means the exact same thing.

It's a pet peeve as well, but they don't mean the exact same thing; you "use" a doorstop to hold a door open, you "utilize" a shoe as a doorstop. "util - ize", to turn something into a utility, in a way that it wasn't before. Use an umbrella, utilize a leaf as an umbrella. Use email, utilize email as file transfer system.

https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/is-utilize-a-w...

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pmoriarty on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:22PM (#27223202)
"you "use" a doorstop to hold a door open, you "utilize" a shoe as a doorstop."

Really?

Because I'd use a shoe as a doorstop.

I'd never "utilize" anything.

Update: Well, on doing a bit of research in to this instead of just using my intuition, I found that you're absolutely right about the special meaning of the word "utilize", according to a number of sources like [1].

I guess I must have been too hard on those people who were properly using the word.

Still, a survey of articles on these terms shows I'm far from the only one for whom the word "utilize" sounds pretentious, so in ordinary, non-specialist language I'd still err on the side of caution and use the word "use", which can in fact be used correctly everywhere "utilize" is used.

There's a good discussion of various points of view on this issue in [2].

[1] - https://www.merriam-webster.com/words-at-play/is-utilize-a-w...

[2] - https://english.stackexchange.com/questions/19811/using-util...

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by andyana on Thursday May 20, 2021 @07:06PM (#27228565)
Would you say you are trying to foster communication by using the lowest common denominator with regards to your choice in words?
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by tcgv on Thursday May 20, 2021 @09:50AM (#27221078)
That's interesting. I'm a portuguese language native, and I can relate, but not because we talk like this in portuguese:

> "move the burgers to the periphery of the barbecue"

That would be really formal over here too, the kind of wording that I'd expect in a grilling manual explaining how to use it, but not at a barbecue.

I can relate because sometimes I find myself speaking like that when talking to english counterparts, but mostly because when I'm "translating" my thoughts into sentences I have to choose between a group of words of similar meaning, and due to my inexperience, I often choose a less "popular" one.

EDIT:

After reflecting on this a bit more I also believe I often sound formal when speaking english because it's easier to use more/fancier words for the sake of not being misunderstood than it's to come up with a short, direct sentence that transmits my message in a clear way.

It's like adding redundancy to the message for reducing the risk of transmitting unintentional errors ;)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jozvolskyef on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:12AM (#27222178)
I can also relate and my native language, Czech, is in the Slavic family. GP's friend probably used the word periphery because they knew it's common to the two languages, unlike the hypothetical Portuguese synonym. This applies to many words of Greek and Latinate origin. Their frequency is low in most languages, but they are understood in many languages. I find it sad that Brits are peer-pressured into giving up this aspect of their language due to perceived elitism. These 'elitist' words facilitate understanding across the various European languages.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jrochkind1 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:07PM (#27222979)
So I'm assuming there is some cognate to "periphery" in portugese -- a portugese word that sounds very similar to that, becuase of shared Latin etymology.

so it's not that that word isn't fancy in portugese too. It's that that word might come easier to a portugese (or other romance language) speaker, since it's a cognate, so they use it, and end up sounding fancy in English.

An English speaker could do the same thing in portugese with the same words in reverse!

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by carlosf on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:13PM (#27223052)
Exactly, periferia.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:51PM (#27223656)
Only it comes (through Latin) from Greek :)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by robocat on Thursday May 20, 2021 @08:15PM (#27229075)
I notice I use some obscure words when speaking Spanish because there is a similar obscure word in English.

I even guess at words by taking what I think is an English word with a latin root, and converting it to Spanish, which sometimes works really well and at other times it doesn’t work quite so well at all!

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thaumasiotes on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:14PM (#27227371)
> I'm assuming there is some cognate to "periphery" in portugese -- a portugese word that sounds very similar to that, becuase of shared Latin etymology.

"Periphery" does not have Latin etymology. "Peri" is overtly Greek, and so is "ph".

The Latinate version would be "circumference".

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by dragonwriter on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:22PM (#27227458)
> "Periphery" does not have Latin etymology.

Yes, the English word (and the Portuguese cognate, periferia) does have a Latin etymology, via Late and Medieval Latin peripheria.

Now, the Latin word peripheria itself has a Greek etymology, from Greek periphereia. But both Portuguese and English get their word via Latin (and, in the English case, possibly also French, which also gets it from Latin, though sources differ on whether English got it from French or directly from Medieval Latin, and its plausibly not uniquely one or the other.)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by chris_j on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:11AM (#27222170)
> That's interesting. I'm a portuguese language native, and I can relate, but not because we talk like this in portuguese:

The chap in question was from Portugal. If I understand correctly from your website, you're from Brazil, right? Is there any difference between how that word would be used in Brazilian vs European Portuguese?

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by tcgv on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:44PM (#27223535)
That's right, I'm from Brazil!

The meaning is the same, both in Brazil and in Portugal.

As a curiosity the two countries (along with others) are part of the Portuguese Language Orthographic Agreement of 1990 [1] whose purpose was to create a unified orthography for the Portuguese language, to be used by all the countries that have Portuguese as their official language.

Nonetheless there is a lot of differences in usage, mostly regarding the "popular" vocabulary. Some heavily used words in one country are less frequently used in the other. There's also a noticeable difference in the accent.

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Portuguese_Language_Orthograph...

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by myohmy on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:07PM (#27224820)
Honestly we need the same for English.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by henvic on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:21PM (#27228156)
No. Just let the language naturally evolve. This "agreement" was an awful thing forced down by political forces.

Context: I'm Brazilian and during high school I studied Portuguese "one official version behind". It had more rules, but the language itself was way nicer, and people used to write more close to it, than nowadays.

It's better to have a few mistakes due to some archaic rules than to force everything to be sterile and complicate how you pronounce things IMHO

Just let people evolve the language naturally instead...

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pessimizer on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:10PM (#27228056)
No, our orthography is terrible. We should let it slip towards rationality in any of the tiny ways it tries.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by ORioN63 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:54AM (#27222805)
I'm from Portugal. I'm not aware of any difference regarding that word in particular, but tbh I wouldn't know. I'm always surprised with some of the differences I find from time to time.

I can tell you though, that using the word "periferia" is actually common in some place (although a bit rare in most). It's mostly used as a synonym for 'around the borders'.

The example you've mentioned: "move the burgers to the periphery of the barbecue", actually seems perfectly fine. It seems a little bit over-detailed, I guess that a bit context-dependent but I wouldn't bat an eye to the equivalent of "move them to the periphery".

From what I recall 'periferia' is also commonly used in TV news.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by kelnos on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:09PM (#27224848)
In case it wasn't clear (I don't think anyone has mentioned this, but maybe I missed it), it's not that "periphery" is overly-detailed, it's just an overly-formal, uncommon word. I think the more common phrase would be "move the burgers to the side of the barbecue". "Edge" might also be used too, which is probably a little clearer.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thaumasiotes on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:20PM (#27227441)
My sister married a Brazilian guy, and one of the biggest things she noticed about his English was that he would agree with negative sentences ("I don't like sushi") by saying "Me too", which is impossible. (You have to agree with a negative sentence by saying "Me neither".)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by dormento on Friday May 21, 2021 @11:19AM (#27235178)
Its more like:

- "Eu não gosto de bolo" ("I don't like cake")

- "Eu também [não gosto de bolo]" ("Me too [I don't like cake]")

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thiagocsf on Friday May 21, 2021 @04:12PM (#27239283)
I’d have chosen “I also” to explain, even then it’s not what he uses but it makes a bit more sense in English:

- I also [don’t like cake]

After 15+ years speaking and writing English daily, I still trip over the use of “in, on, at”.

And every now and then I have my first time pronouncing a word that I’ve known for years, from reading book in my teens. When I first tried to pronounce “phlegm” I tried to sound every letter on it.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thaumasiotes on Friday May 21, 2021 @04:16PM (#27239343)
> When I first tried to pronounce “phlegm” I tried to sound every letter on it.

The G is pronounced in the derived word "phlegmatic". It can't be pronounced in "phlegm"; English phonology doesn't allow for "gm" as a sound cluster.

(Whereas in "phlegmatic", you can put a syllable break between the G and the M, so it's at least possible to produce the sounds.)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by scrubs on Thursday May 20, 2021 @07:29PM (#27228749)
See my post elsewhere ... I was pointing out there are three things I dislike in native English Speakers (I am one) that I have not yet detected with my Portuguese friends. Now, I can't understand it but I've asked about this and nothing was confirmed or denied:

- Stalling mid-talking with "ummm" or "ahh" while one thinks of more words to say

- Rising intonation to make a statement; usually rising intonation is for questions"

- Over reliance on works such as "like" ... which even now can be used to start a sentence as with: "like, I was going to the store the other day, and ..."

Portuguese is a beautiful language, and like French definitely unlike English, pronunciation of all the syllables is required. In that way it's a more athletic language. In English it's quite important enunciate the first and last syllables, while we compress or cram the middle ones.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by painfulpox on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:23PM (#27230129)
Stalling noises are common. In French, the most common one is a sort of euuuuuuuu noise. This is one of the first things taught in intensive language courses to sound "native."

The rising intonation is just an evolution of the language. I doubt it will stick, but it seems to be mostly used in story-telling scenarios to express some exasperating or confusing scenario in which the question is the point of the story. Almost all meaning in English is in the grammar and diction, so intonation is much more of an aesthetic preference.

Like is just a stalling word. French for example will often use words like donc to take a pause and decide how to best continue.

There is all sorts of slurring going on in French, as well. You can certainly say gendarmerie, but you'll more often probably hear gendarmrie in day to day speech. Certain subgroups do tons of weird stuff like swapping syllables of words. Mon moto becomes mon Tomo. The language is pretty famous for not pronouncing the last syllable of tons of words.

I don't speak Portuguese, but I bet you will find the same or similar patterns in that language.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by StavrosK on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:53AM (#27222792)
I'm Greek, and "periphery" sounds fancy here too :P We'd just say "to the edge".
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:56PM (#27223741)
We also say "Perifereia Attikis" for the municipality (?) of Attica. I don't find it fancy, just not often used.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by StavrosK on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:03PM (#27223832)
It depends on the context, you wouldn't say "στην περιφέρεια της ψησταριάς", that sounds pretty fancy.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:23PM (#27224113)
It does. To be honest, I don't know how I'd phrase "on the edge of the barbecue". "Στην απέξω μεριά"?

We also use "περιφέρεια" for the circumference of a circle so I could say "στην περιφέρεια της ψησταριάς" to make a nerdy joke... but that supports your point.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thaumasiotes on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:12PM (#27227345)
> We also use "περιφέρεια" for the circumference of a circle

Blasphemy! (In English, at least, circles have a "circumference" while every other shape has a "perimeter". Ovals seem to use either word.)

I never actually thought about combining "perimeter" with "circumference" to get "periphery".

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by StavrosK on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:43PM (#27228370)
We don't really use "periphery" for the circumference in Greek, we use "perimeter". Periphery refers to something outside the object you're describing, whereas perimeter is right at the edge of the object, but usually belonging to it.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Friday May 21, 2021 @12:38PM (#27236321)
... and I've forgotten how to speak Greek :(

I've lived in the UK for the last 15 years. I even think in English, these days.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by StavrosK on Friday May 21, 2021 @06:47PM (#27240907)
I've lived in Greece for the last 40 years and even I think in English (when I think in language).
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Saturday May 22, 2021 @06:08AM (#27245121)
For me it's to do with work. I think of work all the time and I find it difficult to think of it in Greek. So I end up thinking about work, in English, all the time.

The problem is that I keep forgetting Greek words and I find myself using English expressions even when I speak in Greek, even when I'm not speaking about work. And then I start saying things I'd never say in either language. I'm particularly shocked when I make blunders like "περιφέρεια του κύκλου". I just hope it's too early for early Alzheimer's.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by StavrosK on Saturday May 22, 2021 @06:11AM (#27245129)
Oh don't worry, this happens to me all the time too. It seems to be normal.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by StavrosK on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:29PM (#27224204)
"Στην άκρη" I'd say.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:32PM (#27224263)
Ah, right. Dammit. I'm starting to forget my Greek...
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by cosmodisk on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:36PM (#27228303)
I'm Lithuanian and the main use case for "periphery" is to describe everything else outside the major cities:) E.g. : they live in periphery, aka in a small village.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by WalterBright on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:08PM (#27224829)
> "move the burgers to the periphery of the barbecue"

To my ear, that sounds like something a non-native English speaker would say, rather than what an educated native would say. In my head the phrase comes complete with a vague foreign accent :-)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by asveikau on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:37PM (#27223437)
I think the typical word probably has no cognate in English.

Eg. I don't speak fluent Portuguese but the closest cognate to o lado that I can think of would be to suggest to move it laterally.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by dsr_ on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:05PM (#27224782)
To the side.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by asveikau on Friday May 21, 2021 @09:55AM (#27234009)
Side is not a cognate with lado. It's a translation.

Lateral is a cognate. They both come from latin latus.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by WalterBright on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:52PM (#27224576)
> A native English speaker would never have said that

English has its barbarian roots overlaid with French words from the Norman conquest of England. The French aristocracy moved in and took over. The modern result of that is the "English" words of French origin are tells of upper class origins. Americans use that, consciously or unconsciously. Sometimes it's referred to as "coded speech".

For example, someone from upper class America will "purchase" something while a lower class person will "buy" it.

It's not just slight accent changes that distinguish class in America.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by hervature on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:30PM (#27225172)
Very interesting. The connection to French is not immediately obvious as both "purchase" and "buy" would translate to "achat". However, "por chase" in French is "for the chase/hunt" which begins to resemble some definition of "purchase".
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by quickthrowman on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:48PM (#27225422)
Norman/Saxon meat/animal word pairs are interesting; the saxons were the hunters and farmers, and the normans ate the meat. This led to a bunch of word pairs:

  Beef/cow  
  Poultry/chicken  
  Pork/pig  
  Veal/calf  
  Mutton/sheep
There are other areas of English vocabulary with dual Saxon/Norman words as well.

Bill Bryson has a great book that explores how English became what it is now: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Mother_Tongue It’s an easy read with lots of interesting info.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by Mediterraneo10 on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:27PM (#27228219)
Please don’t recommend Bill Bryson’s The Mother Tongue. Bryson has no actual background in linguistics and there is a factual error or urban myth on nearly every page of that book. There are loads of pop-sci “history of English” books written by people who were actually competent in the subject.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by quickthrowman on Friday May 21, 2021 @01:19PM (#27236980)
Thanks for the heads up, I looked into criticism of this book and I won’t recommend it in the future.

If you happen to see this reply, would ‘Our Magnificent Bastard Tongue: The Untold History of English’ by McWhorter be a better choice for a pop-sci history of English? r/Linguistics seems to be fine with him.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by BrandoElFollito on Thursday May 20, 2021 @04:02PM (#27226400)
In which French did you find "por chase”? (this is not aggressive, I am french and this does not mean anything but it may be a dialect or some as ancient French?)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jgwil2 on Friday May 21, 2021 @10:53AM (#27234791)
The etymology given by Wiktionary[0] is:

> From Middle English purchasen, from Anglo-Norman purchacer (“seek to obtain”) from pur- (from Latin pro-) + chac(i)er (“to chase, pursue”). Compare Old French porchacier (“to follow, to chase”), which has given French pourchasser (“to chase without relent”).

[0]: https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/purchase

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by BrandoElFollito on Friday May 21, 2021 @12:46PM (#27236464)
OK thanks, so this is XIV-XV century French (http://micmap.org/dicfro/search/dictionnaire-godefroy/porcha...)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by anotherhue on Thursday May 20, 2021 @10:22AM (#27221441)
An Italian friend of mine, when struggling to find the word for a Satellite Dish, called it a parabola. I was very impressed.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by ftio on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:31PM (#27224243)
As an Italian-American who rarely gets to speak Italian, my visits to my family in Italy are full of these kinds of things, but in the other direction, naturally.

I end up using less common, typically larger words mostly because they have direct equivalents in English, including a whole bunch that end in -ation, which in Italian typically end in -azione.

My relatives joke with me that I'm a weird, overeducated dummy who "knows" these big words but doesn't know basic idioms.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by BrandoElFollito on Thursday May 20, 2021 @04:06PM (#27226459)
No worries, Feynman used such a word in Portuguese when he did not know the short, common one and it was a great success.

I do not remember the word anymore, it was in You Must Be Jocking, Mr Feynman. - in the party where he was teaching in Brazil

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by insipid on Saturday May 22, 2021 @02:39PM (#27249144)
I read that book when I was an English-monolingual kid, living in Portugal, and /consequentemente/ that story really stuck in my head when I was struggling for Portuguese words: https://southerncrossreview.org/81/feynman-brazil.html
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by ot on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:48PM (#27223607)
As an Italian in the US, I initially had trouble in stores asking for "sodium bicarbonate" (baking soda) or "talc" (baby powder). I would have never thought of those names since I didn't need them for either baking or babies.

But maybe it was just my accent.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by ncpa-cpl on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:06PM (#27228024)
In Spanish we call them "antenas parábolicas".

I knew what a parabólica was as a child, but learnt the root of the word until high school math class.

I had a moment in math class when I thought... "So that's why it's called parabolica".

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thiagocsf on Friday May 21, 2021 @04:19PM (#27239372)
Other Latins might not have been so impressed. This is exactly what we call it in Portuguese: a parabolic antenna (antena parabólica).
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by manuelmoreale on Thursday May 20, 2021 @10:59AM (#27221962)
I find that particularly amusing because Parabola is exactly how we call satellite dishes here in Italy. It’s technically called Antenna Parabolica but plenty of people simply call it Parabola (at least here up north)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mumblemumble on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:56AM (#27222832)
Technically in English you'd only use "satellite dish" to describe a parabolic antenna that's being used for satellite communications.

In practice, though, I don't think I've ever seen that happen outside of a technical context.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by jpindar on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:44PM (#27223523)
What else does anyone use the term satellite dish to refer to?
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by kadoban on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:27PM (#27224175)
Any antenna that's parabolic in shape that isn't designed/used to communicate with a satellite is just called a satellite dish is common usage, but technically really shouldn't be.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by saltcured on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:17PM (#27228112)
It's funny, I can't recall every hearing anybody say "satellite dish" for a terrestrial antenna in my years in metro and suburban California. I've heard "reflector dish", "dish antenna", "microwave dish", or "directional antenna" (which could also apply to YAGI and other non-dish structures).

I wonder if it is regional or has other socioeconomic factors? Actual satellite dishes weren't common structures when I was growing up, outside either a sports bar with satellite TV feeds or more commonly large dishes on industrial, military, or scientific facilities. Other, smaller directional antenna were more commonly seen on radio towers etc.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mumblemumble on Thursday May 20, 2021 @07:08PM (#27228582)
Probably? One of the subtexts of this article and the ensuing conversation is that English has an absolutely mind-smashing amount of variability in usage.

In my general area, just a few hundred kilometers separates two groups of people who are frequently confused by each others' usage of the word "party store." Expanding a hyponym's meaning to encompass that of its hypernym is so common that I'm not even sure it requires special explanation. I've got some family members whose favorite kind of coke is Pepsi.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mumblemumble on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:22PM (#27224089)
Parabolic antennas that are used for terrestrial communication.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by tengbretson on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:46PM (#27223563)
Meanwhile in America, you will often hear a satellite dish be shortened (incorrectly) to just being called a "satellite."

You'll even hear the word "satellite" mis-applied to parabolic antennas that are not directed at an actual satellite!

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by fidelramos on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:41PM (#27223496)
We say "parabólica" in Spain.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by YeGoblynQueenne on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:00PM (#27223792)
That too (like "periferia") comes to Latinate languages through Latin from Greek.

Seems all you nice folk think of Greeks as... posh? Must be all the philosophers :P

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mytailorisrich on Thursday May 20, 2021 @11:12AM (#27222181)
Exactly the same in French, for what it's worth.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by BrandoElFollito on Thursday May 20, 2021 @04:09PM (#27226494)
I asked my teen children what "parabole" means to them and they had no idea that such antennas exist (or rather existed... at least for the generak population) :) They know about disquettes, though.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by thaumasiotes on Thursday May 20, 2021 @05:06PM (#27227258)
> A native English speaker would never have said that... unless they had received a really expensive education.

Education doesn't affect word choice much. The people who will say things like this were largely already saying them before they received an education.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mwcampbell on Thursday May 20, 2021 @10:39AM (#27221687)
I don't know if this is quite the same phenomenon, but when I attended the 2008 Lua workshop (in Washington, DC), my roommate was Brazilian, and when he needed to refer to the blanket on my bed, the word he found was "mantle".
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by TheOtherHobbes on Thursday May 20, 2021 @12:53PM (#27223686)
Portuguese sometimes has a strangely literary cadence and the sentence structure tends to formality.

It's quite an unusual language - a mix of Romance, Arabic, and a hint of English, which sounds like Russian when spoken. There are also plenty of false friends which confuse native speakers of both languages.

That still doesn't explain why someone would say periferia when they meant lado or maybe bordo.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by reubenmorais on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:54PM (#27228459)
Usually the words that are close to Latin or Greek in Portuguese will have English equivalents (<- here's one!) that are also close to the Latin/Greek. So in a pinch for a word and trying to translate in your head, it's easier to remember the words with a smaller transformation from Portuguese to English than something very different. Some sort of compression coding of a translation dictionary inside of the brain :D
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by gverrilla on Friday May 21, 2021 @09:11AM (#27233559)
in Brazil the outskirts or suburbs of a city are called "periferia", and it might be that the person didn't know the english words for "lado" or "borda" so he used a close relative which is "periferia", sounds very plausible to me. nothing to do with fancy words, because "periferia" definetly ain't fancy (in pt)
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by orthoxerox on Sunday May 23, 2021 @07:20AM (#27254193)
> which sounds like Russian when spoken

Or rather Polish. Both Polish and Portuguese have nasals and sibilants in abundance.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by BrandoElFollito on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:55PM (#27226284)
It also depends on the kind of education.

I studied physics so moving the burgers to the periphery of the bbq is great. Precise, unambiguous and what not. Moving them to the side may mean so many things: one side (which one), how bug the side is. Heck, is that side still on the bbq?

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by cosmodisk on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:29PM (#27228235)
English isn't my mother tongue and my vocabulary is rather simplistic but I had some situations where I had to simplify it even further,as some native English speakers didn't know the meaning of certain words: e.g. acquire, kitsch,etc.

As for the example you mentioned, I mainly noticed similar when speaking with my French colleague: when he runs out of words he throws in a French word,which in most cases I can immediately understand because it's either used internationally or at least in my own language,but it's often not the most appropriate word for that sentence,so there's lots of 'periphery of the barbecue' :)

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by angry_octet on Thursday May 20, 2021 @04:24PM (#27226702)
> A native English speaker would never have said that... unless they had received a really expensive education.

A native english speaker would not have said that, unless they wanted to sound like the instruction manual, or a BBC BBQ Sports commentator. It is overly formal, a common problem that non-native speakers face.

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by potta_coffee on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:19PM (#27224039)
That sounds like the kind of phrase I would use as a mild joke while hanging out with someone. It's my sense of humor sometimes to be intentionally fancy because it sounds pretentious.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by loxs on Thursday May 20, 2021 @01:59PM (#27224682)
Someone please tell me what's the correct way of saying this
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by kuang_eleven on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:23PM (#27225832)
As is general true in English, there are a lot of idiomatic ways to say the same thing.

I would probably say to move them "off to the edge" or just "to the edge". Confusingly, "off the edge" would not be correct, that would mean pushing them onto the ground!

Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by BrandoElFollito on Thursday May 20, 2021 @04:10PM (#27226507)
Wouldn't you say "on the side"?
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by pessimizer on Thursday May 20, 2021 @06:16PM (#27228105)
Almost never. I wouldn't even assume that a grill had a "side", I'd think it was just as likely to be round. I'd say "edge." Native speaker.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by fennecfoxen on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:51PM (#27225454)
"edge of the barbecue"
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by loxs on Thursday May 20, 2021 @02:56PM (#27225514)
Uh, I would never say "edge", as for me the edge is the absolute end where it would fall off (also not a native speaker). Periphery is very natural and "the side" is probably how I would say this (as I realise that periphery probably does sound awkward). TIL
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by samuel on Thursday May 20, 2021 @03:17PM (#27225752)
Bear in mind that people tend to use periphrasis for concepts don't know or can't remember in the moment, which can end sounding fancy.
Re:Nonnative English speakers share their gripes about speak... by mondoshawan on Thursday May 20, 2021 @10:35AM (#27221627)
I'm a native English speaker, and that sounds like something I've said before, and all I've had is public schooling, with no college. :)