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Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Wednesday August 12, 2020 @11:20PM (#24139644)
For anyone interested in this type of stuff, I can recommend reading Drive.

Briefly, human behaviour can be motivated for extrinsic and intrinsic reasons. The rewards in this article are extrinsic motivators. Exploring is rewarding in an intrinsic way; it is a strive towards autonomy, mastery, and purpose.

In adults (and in older children) applying extrinsic motivators kills intrinsic motivation. Once the extrinsic motivators stop coming in, there is no desire left to do the task. Intrinsic motivation is practically infinite, as long as the environment is set up right to enable it.

Extrinsic motivation also tends to produce behaviour that does the bare minimum to get the reward (or avoid the negative consequences) whereas intrinsic motivation is what makes us want to excel.

Of course, I've skipped many important points and not countered any counterargument here, but I recommend reading Drive first if you think you disagree.

But the worst part of it all?

The schooling system, with its grades, signed slips, and whatnot, is set up through extrinsic motivation to teach obedience, conformity, and smothering the intrinsic drive so necessary for the creative work we will expect from the children later in life.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by adrianN on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:56AM (#24140069)
I often see criticism of the school system like yours. I think it comes from a perspective of a fairly intelligent, self-motivated individual, probably from a family that valued education. However many children lack one or more of those factors. For them the intrinsic motivation is to play video games all day, or talk to their friends, or smoke weed. There is no intrinsic motivation for most children to learn all the subjects taught in school. I think the school system is fairly good at forcing all children to learn at least a little about all subjects. This comes at the price of not optimally supporting students who would do much better in a different kind of system.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by yellowapple on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:22AM (#24140175)
> I often see criticism of the school system like yours. I think it comes from a perspective of a fairly intelligent, self-motivated individual, probably from a family that valued education.

I ain't vain enough to consider myself even "fairly intelligent", but I can say that I ain't very self-motivated, nor have I been since elementary school, and in hindsight my education system's insistence on strangling such intrinsic motivation in favor of extrinsic motivation is exactly what killed said self-motivation. "Grades are all that matter, and mine ain't anywhere near good enough to go to a good college, so why bother trying?"

It's something I'm actively working on trying to fix to this day, but old habits die hard.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by zornthewise on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:46AM (#24142319)
I am not pursuing a PhD in pure math so I certainly have both interest and ability in doing academic stuff but I found it incredibly hard to get acceptable grades in high school.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by quietbritishjim on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:20AM (#24142579)
> I am not pursuing a PhD in pure math so I certainly have both interest and ability in doing academic stuff

I don't see how the second half of the sentence follows from the first half. Did that "not" slip in by accident? Or do you consider a PhD in pure maths to be evidence of not having academic ability?

-- Yours, offended holder of PhD in pure maths :)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by Garlef on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:36AM (#24142699)
I guess this was written on a phone: "now" became "not"
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by garyrob on Thursday August 13, 2020 @11:01AM (#24144004)
I did too. But I've gotten much better at studying/learning over the years, and I attribute my high school problems with grades as a combination of ADD and my head being focused on trying to deal with what, in retrospect, were psychological problems. What I needed back then was a really great therapist and some training in mindfulness meditation. Alas.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by whywhywhywhy on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:06AM (#24142899)
> "Grades are all that matter, and mine ain't anywhere near good enough to go to a good college, so why bother trying?"

Or even worse when teachers decide it isn’t worth you trying because they failed to inspire you.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by tmaly on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:39PM (#24146697)
> Grades are all that matter

I think this has shifted somewhat to the standardized tests mattering quite a bit now these days.

Should we not consider alternative methods or options for education? What should everything be concentrated into one public model that follows one national standard?

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by droopyEyelids on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:48AM (#24143878)
maybe your vanity is so strong it prevents you from even making a fair judgement of your aptitude relative to the mean
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jariel on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:50AM (#24140321)
Decent high school grades are not that hard to get. It's not 'strangulation' to have to take 'English, Geography, History and Math'. I wish I had paid more attention in English class, I did not respect how important it was going to be until later in life, for example.

The course load in Eng. or in Grad School - now that can be overwhelming to the point of exhaustion.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jdmichal on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:00AM (#24142862)
The forced cadence of certain topics actually does have a part to play. Imagine if you could have skipped all those English classes back then. Guess what? You would be learning it all right now! Just like you're _re_learning it right now. Why? Because you now have intrinsic motivation to learn it. Having entirely skipped it, you might even have realized a lot sooner the actual need instead of limping along with whatever informational crutches you managed to walk away with. The fact that we leave little room to teach the need of a subject, and force feed it in a prescribed manner rather than allowing exploration, is all commingled together into the failure mode being discussed.

Allowing children to pick what they want to explore and modeling the education after exploration is part of the baseline for Montessori education.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Montessori_education

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jariel on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:07PM (#24147045)
So I agree about the 'cadence' bit.

But this:

" Imagine if you could have skipped all those English classes back then. Guess what? You would be learning it all right now!"

No, no way.

It's a total misunderstanding of education to contemplate this.

Education is not 'some facts and things you learn that you may use later'.

Education at HS level is much more fundamental than that, particularly English.

It's about communicating, developing ideas, writing. Not only is it essential, it takes quite a lot of time and effort, and it's hard to just 'pick up'.

I have an Angel investor friend who just set up his own basic website (simple is fine) and wrote his own little intro copy. It's atrocious. Basically, in four sentences in writing, he reveals his own lack of education to anyone who cares to read. I mean - it's not 'that that bad' - but it really is sub professional and embarrassing. He's otherwise very smart, very educated, but it turns out he can't string together a few tightly coherent sentences to make a point.

There's no 'going back'. Both of should have paid more attention in school.

I do agree with he cadence, I think that school days should be shorter, and there should be more music and sports, shop class and longer term projects.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jdmichal on Friday August 14, 2020 @08:44AM (#24157141)
I agree with you. I did intend for that as a thought experiment, but I didn't make that clear. However, the part about teaching the need before the material and leaving time for exploration I'm very serious about. I think it's the biggest change we could make to the system without completely breaking the current structure of it.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by yellowapple on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:18AM (#24142565)
> Decent high school grades are not that hard to get.

"Decent" high school grades are seldom adequate to even meet acceptance requirements for "good" colleges, let alone actually compete with the straight-A students also applying to said colleges.

Not that this really does anything to address the broader point: that "get into college because you'll make more money" is one of many extrinsic motivators American schools seem to push in order to strangle intrinsic motivators.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by spanhandler on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:03AM (#24143425)
Right, but the other 99.9% of people don’t go to a “good” college. Plenty of ones that are considered quite good by the Little Folk—the mere commoners—can be attended with grades far from a 4.0 and nothing special in the extracurriculars department, if your test scores are decent (and I assure you, the cutoff for lots of them is way under what you’d consider good)
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by cameronbrown on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:38AM (#24143776)
Your university does not define you. Plenty of people go to a crap university, yet can still be the top of their field one day.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by yellowapple on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:58PM (#24149961)
It's easy to say that now, we being adults long out of high school. Do you really expect a high schooler to understand that? I sure as hell didn't back then (my guidance counselor strongarmed me into a curriculum specifically around meeting UC and CSU requirements, despite me having nowhere near the GPA to get into any such school), and thus admission into a 4-year university was an extrinsic motivator that seemed unrealistic and was therefore ineffective.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by cameronbrown on Friday August 14, 2020 @05:59PM (#24163810)
Well, I only left high school last year... I don't think it's impossible to at least guess this. I think I got very lucky in realising that the school's goals (push me to university) were not aligned with my own.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by krageon on Thursday August 13, 2020 @06:26AM (#24141803)
Your experience mirrors mine, but it's not like that for everyone. There's a group of people for which a given level of highschool education is going to be a crushing workload. Minimising their effort doesn't help them to get to a better mindset, so why do it at all?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by ajmadesc on Thursday August 13, 2020 @06:57AM (#24141973)
Decent Eng Grad School grades are not that hard to get. It's not 'exhausting' to have to take 'Electrodynamics, Orbital Mechanics, or Geophysics' I wish I would have paid more attention in Project Management class, I did not respect how important it was going to be until later in life, for example.

See how stupid that sounds

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:50AM (#24142348)
Your version sounds stupid, because Electrodynamics and Orbital Mechanics are notoriously difficult classes where even those who passed them use expressions like "working hard" and "difficult". And many students actually fail them.

High schoool English, Geography, History and Math is referenced as easy by many students. Typical student does not have a problem to pass that class.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jariel on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:11PM (#24147093)
Yes, your version does sound stupid.

English, Math, History and Geography at the high school level are fairly straight forward, and the subjects are important to a rounded character. They really are not hard.

Most of Grad school is utterly gruelling, there isn't time to sleep, students pulled in different directions, and studying mostly arcane subjects that really are not important to anyone.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by Aeolun on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:28AM (#24142201)
Sounds about as stupid as the first version?

Theoretically the courses are probably designed to allow most people to succeed.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by atoav on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:49AM (#24140310)
As someone who in his (mandatory in my country) social year worked with "difficult" kids: for nearly every kid there is intrinsic motivations you can find. Of course that isn't easy and requires much more teachers and a bit more flexibility when it comes to which topics to learn, but good education is making every bodies life better and should be IMO much higher valued both in societal and monetary terms.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by acituan on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:07AM (#24140424)
> for nearly every kid there is intrinsic motivations you can find

I think this can be generalized to all humans. It would be near impossible for a true lack of intrinsic motivation to have made it through evolutionary selection.

Like you say, what matters is matching the child's potential with what is available in their current environment, and institutional schooling might be a very blunt tool for that. Not only it is necessarily inadequate for every individual kid, it can also occupy too much time and deprive them from the opportunity to experiment and explore to their niche in society in their unstructured free time.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by adrianN on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:45AM (#24141551)
I don't like evolutionary arguments because society changes much faster than genetic adaption can keep up with. There was no industry making money off distracting people when our intrinsic motivation system was shaped.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by acituan on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:13PM (#24147113)
Certainly our environment changes very fast but assuming all adaptation has to happen in the genetic space is fallacious. Humans are already the most generalist species ever existed; even at the most basic level we can live in environments ranging from deserts to arctic, just using our bodies we can locomote through walking, climbing, swimming, and on top of that our offsprings take the most time to raise because so much of our adaptive machinery is installed memetically on that generalist hardware (genes). Besides, even the society we change is part of our niche construction, so we do have influence over it. Maybe not huge as single individuals, but that industry making money off distracting people is still our own making, not a "force of nature", and most of what is done by us can be undone by us.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by coddle-hark on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:21AM (#24140492)
> It would be near impossible for a true lack of intrinsic motivation to have made it through evolutionary selection.

Be careful making assumptions like that. Suicidal tendencies made it through evolutionary selection, after all.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by acituan on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:12AM (#24140750)
For the case of suicide there is a potential mechanism in which there is a benefit for genes to pass. We can imagine a hardship scenario in which removal of oneself leaves more resources to the remainder of one’s group, which is likely to be their kin and have shared genes. In this case suicide would be adaptive for the genes to pass on. This is nor far fetched because we see other self sacrifice behavior (e.g. between parents and offspring) too.

True lack of motivation both consumes resources and doesn’t contribute to back to the individual or group survival. It is a mode of being that approximates non-living with extra costs. And to be clear I am not talking about a temporary state like depression, or a disease state like chronic depression. I just can’t imagine a permanently stagnant reservoir of genes really passing on without any form of intrinsic motivation. Even at the lowest end of mammalian bioeconomics like sloths, there is motivation, if is just fulfilled it with a different strategy.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by andrepd on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:59AM (#24142423)
People almost never commit suicide for "leaving more resources to the tribe". They do because they are complex persons living in a complex environment that is radically different from the savannahs for which our genes evolved.

Likewise, your evolutionary arguments for motivation are equally useless. Evolution takes place on much larger timescales than the changes in our environment. 3000 years is almost nothing in terms of meaningful evolution through natural selection, and the world has drastically changed in the last 400, or 150, or even 70!

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by acituan on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:20PM (#24147214)
> People almost never commit suicide for "leaving more resources to the tribe". They do because they are complex persons living in a complex environment that is radically different from the savannahs for which our genes evolved.

We are not talking about why people might be committing suicide now, we are talking about how the genetic disposition for suicadility might have passed along. To give context, 50% of the people will seriously have suicidal thoughts in their lifetime for about a week or two (so few actually do).

> Likewise, your evolutionary arguments for motivation are equally useless.

You misunderstand. We are not talking about an environment - gene mismatch, therefore the timescales are not relevant at all. I am positing a near impossibility of complete lack of intrinsic motivation to have passed genetically, regardless of timescale or even species.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by heavenlyblue on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:45AM (#24143252)
Have you seen “natural” watermelons?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by SuoDuanDao on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:21AM (#24142595)
But identical arguments to the suicide-logic can be made about a lack of intrinsic motivation - someone without intrinsic motivation but who is easily externally motivated could be a great asset to a group with more plans than people to enact them. I could imagine plenty of situations where strong intrinsic motivation relative to external motivation could be detrimental to either the individual or the group.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by acituan on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:28PM (#24147353)
That is a fair point. But wouldn't an intrinsic motivation for group conformity be a competitive advantage here, instead of being coerced or convinced for it? For example ants must have high intrinsic motivation for following the group, they don't need to be motivated or convinced. Likewise, humans come with factory settings for many prosocial behaviors somewhat instinctively (e.g. mother-infant behavior), therefore the group benefit and intrinsic motivations being in alignment can be a selective advantage.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by SuoDuanDao on Thursday August 13, 2020 @06:35PM (#24150428)
Can be certainly, but I'm not convinced it would be a selective advantage in all situations - when being coerced by a more powerful human or group of humans for example, it may be most adaptive to be pliant to the extrinsic motivation for co-operation but maintain an intrinsic motivation to act against the coercer's interest.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by raxxorrax on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:32AM (#24140863)
You too. I doubt suicidal tendencies are generally a danger without extrinsic factors and I don't think the current structure of our society could be called "natural" in a way that behaves neutral to evolutionary selection.

The argument would propose that desensitization is mostly preferable, which is probably false if you look at particularly gifted people.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by euske on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:20AM (#24140483)
I think the major obstacle here is the cost. Since intrinsic motivators vary a lot from person to person, the program has to be customized for individual learners. Unless every kid has an individual tutor or something, this isn't feasible. Most education problems are basically a money problem.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:25AM (#24140515)
Student-to-student tutoring is super effective.

Even if most students suck as tutors (which they probably do – tutoring is difficult), the benefits outweigh the problems by a big margin. Most importantly, it allows each student the desired individual focus. But it also improves the tutors' memories of the classes they used to take.

I'm baffled it's not more widely employed in lower education. (Higher education seems to get it right by using former students as TAs. Although then it happens against payment. I'd argue for simply making it part of the regular curriculum.)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by cycomanic on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:44AM (#24140928)
The finish system seems to get this mostly right, from what I've read. No clear age based classes, group work across traditional class boundaries, older kids helping the younger ones. They also seem to get excellent results based on the Pisa studies.

Mind you, this is from reading about it, I don't have first hand experience how the system works. I can however attest to the effectiveness of tutoring in higher education. Tutors (typically grad students) often understand much better the subtle points that are difficult to understand in a topic, I guess because it's been more recent that they have learnt it. There also seems to be less reluctance for students to ask questions of their tutor then their lecturer.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by simonh on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:04AM (#24141033)
Come on Finns of HN, we know you're out there. What's your experience of this?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by lxrbst on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:45AM (#24141226)
The Finnish school system is nice, until you wanna go to college/university.

I think higher education in Finland isn't anything special, if you actually want a quality education you'll have to go abroad (like the actually successful people do here anyway). Even the arguably best schools aren't that good. People mostly coast through them once they get in and just want the piece of paper at the end. Good parties though.

Years later in the work force they'll wake up and see they barely make more money then an electrician with their fancy degree because of the insane tax policies here. What's the point of having a nice degree if you're still gonna have a moderately low salary compared to other European countries?

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by e12e on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:53AM (#24141269)
> What's the point of having a nice degree if you're still gonna have a moderately low salary compared to other European countries?

Interesting comment in a thread about intrinsic and extrinsic motivation...

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by simonh on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:10AM (#24142061)
It's not an either or though. Just because a company generates good extrinsic motivation by paying well, that doesn't mean its impossible for them to also foster intrinsic motivation too. It's really not unreasonable to ask for both.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by rpastuszak on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:21AM (#24140794)
+100000

> Even if most students suck as tutors [...]

Teaching is such a valuable skill in itself! And, it can be improved. I'd argue that you can't say that you understand something unless you can explain it to someone a step away from your current level of depth in the domain.

Now, imagine every developer spend 5%, 1% of their (coding) time learning how to teach or communicate ideas in a succinct, empathetic way.

We'd not only have less 40yo ranting at some 15yo project, because they used React, but also the quality of our work would improve drastically.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by batty_alex on Thursday August 13, 2020 @06:39AM (#24141865)
> We'd not only have less 40yo ranting at some 15yo project, because they used React, but also the quality of our work would improve drastically.

I’m not sure what you have against people in their 40s but, it might be worth it to spend 5% of your time learning to respect and have empathy for them.

Side note, people in their 40s aren’t old. Damn.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by rpastuszak on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:57PM (#24149001)
Whoa, I meant something completely different! My point was that when you're in your 40s your emotional intelligence is probably well developed.

Context: As I was replying to this post I saw another one where a bunch of senior 10x developers were bashing a 15yo who came up with a personal project, because the poor guy/gal used React(!).

I mean, surely we can do better than that. I'm really tired of seeing senior engineers, often fairly intelligent people acting as if being kind to others wasn't their responsibility because how smart they perceive themselves. HN is a prime example of that (despite some amazing content that can be found here too).

I'm sorry if my comment hurt you in any way. I hope it's a bit more clear now. (I won't edit the parent comment—to keep the context of your reply and remind myself to be more specific).

> Side note, people in their 40s aren’t old. Damn.

Personal note: I hope so!

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:00AM (#24141020)
> Teaching is such a valuable skill in itself! And, it can be improved.

You dont improve peoples skills in general just by throwing them into water and hoping that swimming happens by itself.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by tremon on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:00AM (#24141305)
Very bad analogy. Yes, for almost all skills, just doing them improves your proficiency. For example, toddlers learn primarily by mimicking their parents, replicating their behaviour.

The exception to this is skills that will kill you if you get in over your head. But that's a rather small category of skills, and it only calls for supervision, not avoidance.

As for tutoring itself: it increases the skill level of both the teacher and the student. The student gets 1-on-1 directed focus, and the teacher is forced to reflect more deeply on his own skills. Having students teach each other is very beneficial at all levels of education.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:14AM (#24141377)
> As for tutoring itself: it increases the skill level of both the teacher and the student.

As someone who was a kid in that position, no it did not increased my skill in thing I was supposed to teach at all. That might happen when you are teaching interested peer at similar level, does not happen when you are teaching someone uninterested and someone who has much lower skills.

> For example, toddlers learn primarily by mimicking their parents, replicating their behaviour.

That body of knowledge wears off after you are like 3. Then explicit teaching by parents and other adults becomes much more prominent. And even toddlers are explicit taught a lot.

> Very bad analogy. Yes, for almost all skills, just doing them improves your proficiency.

Only up to the pretty low level for most people and most activities. After that, you reach a plateau.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:30AM (#24141466)
It makes no sense to blame a bad outcome on the student being uninterested and of lower skill. As a tutor, you have exactly two jobs:

1. Make the student interested.

2. Improve the student's skills.

Of course the student is uninterested and has low skills when you start out. Otherwise there wouldn't be much of a point to the activity.

You might argue that it's not the tutor's job to make the student interested, but it is. The primary thing that sets good tutors apart from bad ones is their ability to motivate their students. To care. To fiendishly ask questions that are just out of reach of the students ability, or will reveal some tiny flaw in the students understanding. This type of thing engages everyone when done well.

(I did have a source for this but I seem to have lost it. That is a shame because it was a really good article.)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by tremon on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:52AM (#24142360)
To fiendishly ask questions that are just out of reach of the students ability, or will reveal some tiny flaw in the students understanding. This type of thing engages everyone when done well.

What you are describing is out of range for peer tutoring (child-to-child) which is what I was thinking of. For children, the motivation for the task doesn't need to come from the subject matter itself, the very fact that a friend/peer is working with you can be all the motivation you need.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:46AM (#24141556)
So now, you are blaming another kid for failure to be perfect tutor where adult educated teacher failed too. And that good kid is supposed to study out tutoring methods from materials targeted at adults. Which is definitely not fun free exploration for that good kid.

Which is why literally this whole setup where you have good students tutoring weak ones is a trap and punishment for the good one.

Expecting well behaved kid to be that emphatetic mind reading tutor is waaay beyond age appropriate expectations and abilities of typical kid.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:49AM (#24142339)
I think you'll find better discussions if you choose to attack the steel man version of someone's argument, rather than the straw man.

Nowhere did I state I expected any expert tutors from children. I merely said that something, anything at all, is better than nothing. It might not even be better in all cases, but on average, the evidence tells us it is.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:28AM (#24143097)
Literally in the comment I responded to, you expect student tutor to make the subject interesting. This is your description of what you expect: To fiendishly ask questions that are just out of reach of the students ability, or will reveal some tiny flaw in the students understanding. This type of thing engages everyone when done well.

Plus, this is your attitude toward kid tutoring another kid: as a tutor, you have exactly two jobs: Make the student interested. Improve the student's skills. And you have this expectation placed on a kid.

> I merely said that something, anything at all, is better than nothing.

That something is to put responsibility on a kid and then blame a kid for not tutoring well enough it it fails. And I am telling you that it is unfair to punish the good kid by doing this. Because this plan is not caring about the "good" kid at at all.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by rpastuszak on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:23AM (#24141118)
Well, yes. Your point being?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:58AM (#24141001)
It sucks to be the kid who behaves well is punished by being a tutor for kid with issues the adults have hard time to motivate or deal with.

The tutors is not improving own recall. The tutor is dealing with social problem outside of tutors control or abilities. And no, good student kid wont be able to individualize teaching better then adult teacher. The good student kid will struggle with the whole motivational thing much much more.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:32AM (#24141476)
> And no, good student kid wont be able to individualize teaching better then adult teacher.

That's not the alternative, either, because nobody will pay for one adult teacher per student. The alternative is no tutoring at all.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by watwut on Thursday August 13, 2020 @06:45AM (#24141905)
One kid teaching another is nice occasional exercise.

It is absolutely not solution to lack of teachers. Even teacher having 15 bad students the same time is better then one kid trying to be tutor.

It is also quite unfair expectation to be placed on a kid.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by atoav on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:28AM (#24140532)
I managed with ~4 kids at once, but it was one of the most exhausting jobs I ever had (which includes street/road work in the summer and carrying stone tiles up houses).

Education problems are indeed money problems.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by robocat on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:21AM (#24140797)
FYI A “street worker” is a prostitute in some English dialects - I am guessing you didn’t mean that!
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by atoav on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:44AM (#24140929)
Ah THX for the heads up, road work is the word
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by grasshopperpurp on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:54AM (#24142808)
This highlights our inability as a society to properly value things. Things like education, the environment, mental health, and just creating a place that does right by as many people as possible are improperly weighted. I'm not saying it's easy to put proper valuations on any of this, but it's easy to do a lot better than we - at least in the US - are.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by brnt on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:23AM (#24143617)
How do you find those motivations for children who seem to have none at all?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by atoav on Thursday August 13, 2020 @11:42AM (#24144529)
That's not true. They all have some sort of thing that drives them. For some it might be football, for others it is making up stories, for yet others it is coming up with drawings of weird mad-professor like castles, fashion, a certain genre of music, food, cooking, decorating things you name it.

The one kid that I ever encountered which I didn't find something that I could leverage to get their intrinsic motivation was a very young syrian refugee child who must have been so severeley traumatized he barely remembered my name despite seeing me every day – he was 6 years old. With him it was like working with someone who had dementia, you could only get him for very short periods and do something and he would completely lose it the day after. Most times it seemed like he wasn't there at all mentally.

But for all the others it was just about finding a way to connect certain topics to their field of interest. E.g. xkcd-style calculations for catapult with the "mad professor" as a trojan horse to physics he tended to hate before that, doing record sales calculations with the hiphop guy, writing a text about a soccer game with the soccer guy etc.

Of course sometimes they just wanted to do nothing, but slowly connecting the stuff they were forced to do before with their interests was something that showed tremendous effect. They were gladly coming every day (most because it was worse at home). If someone is stressed they cannot focus unless you make them care and motivate them.

Edit: as you can imagine, this is not the easy route to do that job. The easy route is more authoritarian.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by entropicdrifter on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:37PM (#24145247)
I'd imagine the authoritarian route isn't even all that much easier in terms of total effort expended, it's just easier from a mental perspective because it's so formulaic.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by yummypaint on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:03PM (#24144810)
For them the intrinsic motivation is to play video games all day, or talk to their friends, or smoke weed. There is no intrinsic motivation for most children to learn all the subjects taught in school.

This is a false dichotomy that gets reinforced everywhere to the detriment of all students. There is no reason those things should be mutually exclusive, but we make it so by the power of our collective expectations.

Lots of people are discouraged and pushed away from their areas of interest because they aren't seen as fitting a stereotype or mold. Some people never even get a chance to discover that they have academic interests, and are effectively placed on a "remedial" track from the time they enter the school system because of their background. The messaging is that they cannot succeed without external motivation, which sets them up for failure.

On the other side of the coin, it also contributes to the unhealthy pressures advanced students face. Building rigid assumptions into the education system about how students spend their leisure time is part of what kills diversity.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by rpastuszak on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:21AM (#24141111)
> However many children lack one or more of those factors. [...] For them the intrinsic motivation is to play video games all day, or talk to their friends, or smoke weed.

We grossly overestimate the amount of kids who fall into this group, maybe because we're priviledged enough exclude ourselves from it.

> I think the school system is fairly good at forcing all children to learn at least a little about all subjects.

Dude, ca. 20% of people in the US are either illiterate or functionally illiterate. How is that good?[1]

Unless, given your previous point, they're too busy playing computer games or getting high on Satan's lettuce?

Pardon the sarcasm, but this is an extremely dangerous mindset as it distracts us from the actual problem.

Edit: source

[1] https://www.libraryjournal.com/?detailStory=How-Serious-Is-A...

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by mantas on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:58AM (#24141288)
I read it as OP saying that illiteracy rate would be even higher if not this system.

It’d be great to solve internal motivation issue. It’s damn hard though. Forcing some of them to learn in other ways is better than nothing while we come up with a solution for the core issue.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:33AM (#24140235)
Right. You're touching on another important factor: everyone, and especially children, want to belong to a group. They do this by adopting values similar to their peers.

When those peer groups have values that include playing video games and exclude exploring learning, it's very hard to motivate members of the group to explore learning. I don't actually have any data on this, but I suspect that applies even under extrinsic motivators. In other words, telling the cool kids who hate school that they will get bad grades if they don't learn more will not make them learn more. It will simply become a badge of honour to have bad grades.

Perhaps the single most important job of a teacher is to attempt to create a single group of the class[1] with which every student identifies, and then imbue that group with the value of learning.

I don't think the way to do this is by promising rewards (good grades) for good performance (doing exactly what the teacher asks.) The way to do it is to encourage self-directed exploration and mastery, with a sense of a greater good. (This sounds like something out of an Italian-inspired educational philosophy, but as far as I'm concerned, it's just rather simple reasoning from the principles of motivation and social behaviour as we know them.)

In the end, this is a really tough problem. If children are convinced (based on interactions with their peer groups) that learning sucks, then it's really hard to change their mind. This goes for adults as well. I'm not saying there's a magic formula to make everything work out right.

What I'm saying is that there are two insufficient and contradictory methods. I think one of them is slightly less bad than the other one.

[1]: It might sound like creating multiple groups would be easier and accomplish the same thing, but the danger with that is that small natural variations in the value of learning between these groups could get exaggerated in an attempt to create group identities. I.e. if one group is just about considered more school-happy than the other group, then that will become a point both groups can use to distinguish between themselves: one group will intentionally become more ignorant of the benefits of learning to separate its members from the other. It has to be one single group for them to all adopt the same value of learning.

Edit: I almost forgot. For more on this, see The Nurture Assumption – well worth a read.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by cyberdrunk on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:59AM (#24141293)
Yep. I am a fairly intelligent person (your typical coder) from a family that valued education. I was nevertheless never internally driven to do anything. I played a bit with computers when I was a child - BASIC and assembler on C-64, then a little bit of AMOS and computer graphics on Amiga etc. - but it was never any sustained effort that led to anything - I was mostly just satisfying my own curiosity, which didn't run that deep. Instead, I spent the majority of my time playing games (video and otherwise), hanging out with friends, watching TV and reading books. If I wasn't forced to go to school, I think I'd just do more of those things (certainly that's what I did during vacation time). I think what the highly internally driven people cannot understand is that they're the minority and majority of people is more like me.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by throwaway_pdp09 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:47AM (#24140303)
> However many children lack one or more of those factors. For them the intrinsic motivation is to play video games all day, or talk to their friends, or smoke weed.

Totally unlike adults then.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by qwertox on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:16AM (#24141393)
In German "to educate/bring up someone" is "jemanden erziehen".

"erziehen", if translated literally, means "to pull", "er" is something like "to act" while "ziehen" means "pull"

Sometimes it feels like that, that it is necessary to pull someone into a certain direction in order to better that person. And this is usually not easy to do.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jv22222 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:37AM (#24140889)
Check out this article about unschooling, you might find it interesting:

https://www.vox.com/first-person/2020/7/17/21328316/covid-19...

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by SuoDuanDao on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:12AM (#24142524)
Fair enough - but my solution to that has always been, 'pay children to pass their classes'. That would be an extrinsic motivator the kind of families you're referencing would respect.

And annoyingly, when I bring this proposal up, most people talk about how important it is for learning to be intrinsically motivated.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by decasteve on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:47AM (#24142761)
> This comes at the price of not optimally supporting students who would do much better in a different kind of system.

It depends on the culture of the place the school system is applied in. This kind of blanket utilitarianism by way of school is a sad state for society as a whole. In a country like Canada we have a sordid past, very recently, when implementing the residential school system [0].

That's the more extreme case but I'd argue that elements of that exist in every school system when applied in a one-size-fits-all fashion and when that system has a monopoly on education.

[0]: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Canadian_Indian_residential_...

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by donw on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:39AM (#24140261)
I think you're both kinda right?

Drive is great. Leverage it heavily as a manager.

But when it comes to kids, the problems I see are that (a) cognitively speaking, children are not tiny adults; and (b) if you want them to be successful and happy adults, you need to give kids the ability to work through mountains of "I Need To Do This Even Though It Sucks"

Cognitive development is an amazing process to watch -- you can see as brains grow and develop a wide variety of skills we take for granted.

But what that means is that you can't treat a six-year-old as an adult.

Their thinking is likely highly egocentric, because they have not yet developed the ability to realize that "my feelings and wants" are different from "other peoples' feelings and wants".

In their world, when they like Pokemon, they literally believe that everybody in the world feels the same way about Pokemon that they do. They just haven't yet gained the ability to handle that concept.

So, up to age eleven or so, you need to put enough structure around children to deal with their cognitive development path. Rules that are consistently enforced are critical (it's also good if those rules, in fact, make sense), with a gradual loosening of constraints as the child grows the ability to handle greater responsibilities.

This path continues from eleven -- when, cognitively, your child is now a functioning adult -- onwards towards the age of majority.

You still need to provide structure, but with enough freedom and ability to bend-or-change the rules such that the child can learn how to make their own decisions. Your goal is ramp them towards the full set of adult responsibilities, as quickly as they are able to handle it.

The problem with a lot of "traditional" education is that it failed to do the latter in a lot of ways -- rigid structure until age of majority, and then bam!, you're an adult, good luck.

This is compounded by how much regulation and how little slack there is in society. In the 70s, teenagers commonly brought rifles to school (because they were on the shooting team, or going hunting afterwards). Nowadays, kids are getting expelled for accidentally forgetting a tiny, micro-sized pocketknife.

The problem with "modern" education is that there is no expectation that you will ever assume responsibility. If you've dealt with a lot of recent graduates, you probably know what I mean. They have been denied much of the experience required for them to mature as adults, all in the name of keeping them "safe".

Including being "safe" from boredom. Which relates to giving kids the ability to get through mountains of drudgery.

That skill is so critical.

And I didn't really master it until I was an adult, much to my disadvantage.

If Elon Musk and every one of his employees were to vanish tomorrow, I'd be sad. SpaceX is cool. But my life would go on.

If the organization that handles sewage for my city were to vanish tomorrow, I would soon be, quite literally, in a world of shit.

I doubt that working for a sewage treatment plant offers much in the way of Autonomy. Mastery, perhaps? Purpose, absolutely.

And I doubt most kids grow up dreaming of being a waste engineer.

It's a hard job, and it demands grit. But that job makes modern life possible, and I don't see us setting up kids to be able to tackle both kinds of challenges.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:11AM (#24140442)
> I doubt that working for a sewage treatment plant offers much in the way of Autonomy.

I wouldn't be so sure. I think Deming (and, perhaps more concretely, the Toyota Production System) has showed us that there is a surprising amount of autonomy that can be unlocked even for the most menial roles.

Treating low-level workers with respect, training them well, and listening to what they have to say is a mutually beneficial agreement. They are the people who know what is really going on in the processes they control. They are (or at least should be!) the most informed people in the room when it comes to decisions around those processes.

In exchange for their valuable input, low-level workers should, then, get a piece of autonomy. If they have figured out a way to prevent mistakes, or a more efficient procedure to accomplish their objective, they can do it their way – with the support of management. Of course, if they know they aren't respected or listened to, it will never occur to them even to think about improvements.

Really, it's two sides of the same coin.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by hamandcheese on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:55AM (#24140353)
> (a) children are not tiny adults

Adults are merely large children.

Edit: I did read the rest of your comment and generally agree whole heartedly.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by donw on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:00AM (#24140383)
Have edited for clarity, thanks!

And I do know a frighteningly large number of thirty-odd-year old children. :)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by Tainnor on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:13AM (#24141374)
Just saying, in Europe kids didn't bring rifles to school in the 70s and they are not getting expelled for accidentally bringing in pocket knives nowadays.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by cycomanic on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:57AM (#24140991)
There is some fascinating research on how children think vs adults. Adults use much more their frontal cortex (responsible for rational thought). However, when children experience trauma, e.g. abuse they will use much more their frontal cortex. The kicker is that those kids when they become adults use the frontal cortex much less, thus becoming more impulsive less rational.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by tmaly on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:29PM (#24146552)
I suspect that many kids do not understand the why behind many of the subjects being taught. What intrinsic motivation could they have under these circumstances?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by ksdale on Thursday August 13, 2020 @11:42AM (#24144527)
It doesn't seem self-evident that forcing kids to learn a little about all subjects has that much benefit. I do taxes for a living and we have a lot of tradespeople as clients, and their life histories are surprisingly frequently - do miserably in school to the point that their self-esteem is destroyed, spend a few years bumming around, drinking too much, playing video games, get a job in the trades, realize they can make more money owning their own business, etc. By the time they come to us, you'd never be able to tell they were the worst students ever.

How many people never make it out of the drinking and playing video games phase because school has convinced them that they're failures?

A lot of kids would be perfectly happy starting some sort of apprenticeship when they were teenagers, and it's not obvious to me that that would be worse than forcing them through the remainder of school.

I think it's hard to tell the difference between kids who have an intrinsic motivation to play video games, and kids who have an intrinsic motivation to do anything but school and have to default to video games because the world doesn't offer much of an avenue for kids to be productive on their own (unless you happen to be very interested in computers and have access to one and the internet).

I say all this as someone who thinks education is profoundly important. I just don't think as much education happens in schools as we'd like to believe, especially for people who don't fit neatly in the system.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by fulafel on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:48AM (#24140305)
To be fair, even for an intelligent and educated person it's prettty likely to end with a worse benefit footprint to the world (environmentally & socially) than being with friends and playing video games / smoking weed.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Wednesday August 12, 2020 @11:41PM (#24139748)
Then again, if one is more interested in practically applicable tips, the book How To Talk So Kids Will Listen... And Listen So Kids Will Talk is great too -- for all kinds of interpersonal relationships.

It covers empathy (actually listening and confirming feelings) but is largely about how to enable extrinsic motivation, through encouraging autonomy, mastery, and purpose.

One rather concrete example is that the authors argue it is no good to say, e.g. "if you take a bath you'll get this nice gift" or "if you don't take a bath I will remove your video gaming time for the day."

More effective, according to the authors, are to give a choice, even if it is somewhat of a forced one: "I want you to take a bath. Do you want to bathe with your boat or your duck?"

This, then, would speak to the same desire to explore as the hidden option in the article. (Or, the way I view it having read Drive: this gives the child a hint of autonomy.)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by skinkestek on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:10AM (#24140124)
> More effective, according to the authors, are to give a choice, even if it is somewhat of a forced one: "I want you to take a bath. Do you want to bathe with your boat or your duck?"

This can be so surprisingly effective that it is almost scary. And while I'm at it: it works with many adults too.

Use with caution. Leadership is good and kids needs to go to bed at night, but manipulation isn't what you want to be remembered for.

Other nice-to-knows to be used with caution:

- as kids start to negotiate, add slack for negotiations.

- "catch them" when they do something right, reward it immediately (with encouraging words, a hug, increased trust - or even a piece of chocolate)

- look for the intentions - or anything that was right even if the intent wasn't there:

-- tried to do something right but failed? Good! (On the other side: there's few things as discouraging as gettig a scolding when you thought you did something good.)

-- used to slam the door but closed it carefully for some reason (hands full, in the phone, etc)? Good.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jay_kyburz on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:21AM (#24139902)
The question trick only works for so long. Pretty soon your kids realize there is always a third option that can be negotiated to. (Which is good)

About that time you need to explain why we have regular baths.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by touisteur on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:46AM (#24140294)
But it's great! They learn to pick-up when they're 'tricked' and they learn to chose.

Man, I remember when I started deciding things for myself... at 16-17! 'so you want to go to prep school, university, or eng. school?' WTF I don't even know what I want for dinner... I feel this is something that needs to be trained the soonest possible. See what you feel when asked to chose. Decide something. See how you feel when you've taken option A or B (or feel when you don't like any of the available options! And learn to think outside the box!). See what happens when you change your mind before you started A. Or after you've started B and think 'I should have done A'. With your parents, friends, teachers. It's amazing how teaching this to my little kids with a positive and caring attitude has shown me how hard and important it all is! And it's even harder for collective decisions!

Something amazing for twin children: they also have the opportunity (or the burden sometimes) to see how their choices affect others and how important negociating, defending, compromising is.

Those books that GP cited are gold. The whole Positive Education movement is, I think, a way to a better future, with balanced and reasonable members of the citizenry. And I ache for all the children with have parents that don't even have the tiniest bit of empathy and interest for their children.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by circlefavshape on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:59AM (#24141644)
"How to talk so kids will listen ..." is a fantastic book, and I constantly recommend it to pretty much everyone.

The fake choice thing, though, never EVER worked with my kids.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by agumonkey on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:39AM (#24143200)
I did teach a kid math and how subtle communication is when you're an adult.

sometimes they'll talk, then mutter to confusion then emit blips because they heard words coming from you, then all of a sudden they'll have a burst of excitement again.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by andrei_says_ on Wednesday August 12, 2020 @11:40PM (#24139746)
Also Alfie Kohn’s Punished by Rewards, a thick tome dedicated to the research and reasons of how and why punishment and rewards don’t teach what’s intended and don’t motivate as intended... and how extrinsic motivation kills intrinsic motivation.

Withdrawing rewards is punishment so both are really the same.

Human beings are not designed to be trained like rats and birds, regardless of what many believe.

If your kid is good at something and you want them to lose interest, encourage or reward them for doing the thing :)

Or force them to do it.

Just like school system does with learning.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Wednesday August 12, 2020 @11:46PM (#24139767)
Punished by Rewards is in my reading heap but rather far down. Maybe I should prioritise it slightly higher.

> Human beings are not designed to be trained like rats and birds, regardless of what many believe.

I'd just want to add that according to Drive, training humans like rats and birds work great... If blind obedience, conformity, and minimal quality is something you're looking for -- which many factory line type managers wanted, for a very long time (and in many cases probably still do, sadly.)

Damnit, if Punished by Rewards contradicts this, I have to read it now, don't I?

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by dpwm on Thursday August 13, 2020 @11:07AM (#24144087)
I'm currently reading Punished by Rewards. So far I would say that Punished by Rewards is broadly consistent with how you describe Drive.

Alfie Kohn acknowledges that where the work is low skill, very dull, requires little collaboration, rewards generally work for as long as the rewards continue.

But employee of the month? Stack ranking? Basically they're just going to destroy any intrinsic motivation, and lead to teams where people are reluctant to collaborate.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by andrei_says_ on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:39PM (#24145269)
They are consistent... controlling people with punishment and rewards works, as long as the incentive is present, at the cost of destroying intrinsic motivation. It also changes the relationship, positioning the “manager” as a prison guard of sorts and tying them to that role.

It teaches its subjects to do the thing but only if they get the reward and never otherwise. To comply, but only when watched, and to act in secret when fulfilling their true needs.

His book focuses on parenting and one can see how punishment and rewards impact this most important relationship and negatively impact intrinsic motivation in exchange for the illusion of control.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by tpxl on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:43AM (#24141542)
>If your kid is good at something and you want them to lose interest, encourage or reward them for doing the thing :)

Genuine question: What do you do if you want them to get better then?

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @08:03AM (#24142456)
Engage yourself in what they are doing. Describe what you see. Tell them what that makes you feel. Be objective, rather than judging of their performance.

"You have been trying to find that bug for hours. That's true perseverance!"

"I like the sound effects you added. They really draw me into the game even more."

"It sounds like you're using a technology you haven't before. Trying is the only way to learn new things."

"This runs so smoothly!"

Also, ask questions.

"How did you get the enemy to follow my character?"

"I feel like the game is unfair when I die here. Is there anything you can do to make this section not so difficult?"

"I understood what I was meant to do right away. Can you think of why that was?"

Note how you don't even have to be positive when you do it this way. Simply sharing the experience goes a long way. Encouraging critical thought and decision-making makes it even better.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by smhg on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:17AM (#24140768)
> The schooling system, with its grades, signed slips, and whatnot, is set up through extrinsic motivation to teach obedience, conformity, and smothering the intrinsic drive so necessary for the creative work we will expect from the children later in life.

I think your expectations of the schooling system are simply skewed. At least in the countries which I lived in (Europe) the 'customer' of the schooling system is first and foremost society as a whole.

The individual, the child, comes second. Not in a way that children are not important. It's just that the outcome of a well organised society is what matters. So, although not in extreme ways of course (there is no evil mastermind), conformity and the likes are important values.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by mhaberl on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:50AM (#24140954)
I agree with this.

We all love to say that we want creative free thinking individuals.. but come on now - currently the society is mostly composed of conformed (without this society probably would not function, at least as it does now) and in a lesser extent the obedient.

The creative and free thinking individuals push us all foward and we would not advance without them, but the majority is different.

Schooling system is not what it is by accident.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @05:35AM (#24141497)
Actual, socially beneficial conformity is produced just fine on its own with how humans generally are social group animals that want to fit in and not be embarrassed from doing weird, unfair, or harmful stuff.

Simply interacting with other people is what makes humans follow meaningful rules. That happens whether or not we're rewarded for being good dogs in the eyes of adults.

Conformity to arbitrary procedures and sets of rules is not helpful anywhere, and that's what school gives us.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by hrktb on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:58AM (#24140678)
Why such a dichotomy between intrinsic and extrinsic when any situation is a mix of both ?

We do our job to get money, but we won't do any job for that sole purpose.

Kids learn chemistry because they are forced to, but they'll find fun bits here and there, they'll ask teachers questions to better understand what they're taught. They won't give a crap about half of the curriculum, but the half they'll remember and will be formative is not guaranteed to be solely from the self-motivated part either.

Going further what motivates us to explore also depends on the environment, what is rewarded and what is not, etc.

I feel splitting things in two theoretical extremes is close to labelling actions good or bad, it's useful if we don't care about nuance, but has little use once we dive below the surface.

> I recommend reading Drive first if you think you disagree.

I remember getting that recommendation for "Getting Things Done" ... is Drive much better as a reading experience ? Is it readable for people who're not into self help books in general ?

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:24AM (#24140811)
Because there is some evidence that extrinsic motivation outcompetes intrinsic motivation. In other words, for some reason, they cannot coexist.

As soon as adults feel extrinsically motivated, they start to view the situation as an economic transaction, where they will only perform tricks for treats. Typical real-world example of this: if you start charging parents (punishment) for coming late to pick up their kids from daycare, parents will become more late. One can speculate that this might be because they start thinking of it as "paying for extra time" rather than "being a nice human being to the daycare staff."

The cases you mention where they do indeed apparently coexist, I suspect (but have no data to support) that the children successfully manage to ignore the extrinsic motivation because the intrinsic drive is so powerful in that instance. It's probably not a sustainable model to rely on that happening, though.

Drive is decidedly not a self-help book. It's a summary of the available evidence in support of and against the existence of intrinsic motivation and how it relates to the other types of motivation (extrinsic and physical and emotional needs.)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by hrktb on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:02PM (#24144802)
> In other words, for some reason, they cannot coexist.

I would be interested if you have some pointers. I've tried searching a bit but didn't hit anything.

Intuitively there is a lot of things that I want intrinsically to do, but I will do a calculation wether I'll have external motivations/rewards to do it and decide from there.

For instance I intrincically like programming. It still doesn't mean my intrinsic motivation to program disappeared because I get paid, nor that I won't be exploring thing that I am curious about and try to align external motivation to help me explore them.

> if you start charging parents (punishment) for coming late to pick up their kids from daycare, parents will become more late.

I know this case study, but as a parent I don't see this on a personal level. To put it on a different case, you get fined for parking on priority/handicaped places, but don't see rich people everywhere abusing priority parking. Some do, but most don't, so at least a majority of them don't see it as just an economic transaction. As usual, reality is more complicated.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by discordance on Wednesday August 12, 2020 @11:58PM (#24139825)
This describes 'work' life pretty well, with extrinsic motivation being a salary. If that spigot were shut off there certainly would be little desire to do the task for most.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kqr on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:06AM (#24139846)
True as that may be, I think the argument that resonated with me is that there is an even more primitive type of motivation than extrinsic: the drive to survive. (Or, more generally, physical and emotional needs.)

Under that hypothesis, the salary is there to take physical needs as a motivator off the table. If an employee has to worry about physical needs, there's no room at all for any other concern.

Once the salary is sufficient to no longer be a point of worry (will I afford my mortgage, can I support my spouse, etc) only then will additional money serve as extrinsic motivation.

(Which of course spells disaster for things like performance bonuses, which (a) are impossible to target at the right people (see Deming for more on that) and (b) literally designed to stop coming, reducing motivation overall.)

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by Swizec on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:10AM (#24139863)
I think for most people a salary is just the constant, like air. You get it and it’s the reason you show up everyday.

But your salary doesn’t change if you work hard or slack. It’s not a reward for performance.

Similar to how you’d die without breathing but you don’t feel rewarded for every breath. You wouldn’t breathe more than someone else to get more alive.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by yellowapple on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:28AM (#24140204)
> But your salary doesn’t change if you work hard or slack. It’s not a reward for performance.

Maybe not in an immediate sense, but working hard ostensibly makes it more likely to get promoted to a position with a higher salary, while slacking ostensibly makes it more likely to get demoted or fired.

Of course, I say "ostensibly" because the real world doesn't really work like that, with hard workers getting shafted and lazy pricks schmoozing and politicking their way into the very positions those hard workers should've gotten. It'd be disheartening, but it happens to be a decent treatment for my impostor syndrome: everyone else is an impostor, too, so might as well just play along.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by jariel on Thursday August 13, 2020 @01:47AM (#24140302)
This is all fine and good but it misses some much more fundamental drivers, not those that are narrowly instinctive.

If you want to play the violin beautifully, you have to practice for 10 years, there's no way around it.

If you want to do important things, you have to train in all sorts of capacities, and put in a lot of sweat.

One of the things that differentiates humans from beasts is that we have at least some sense of higher purpose and many of us derive considerable fulfilment from that.

For the most part, most of our education is necessary - and the ability to focus, to plan, to think beyond just a few steps, to control one's desires and emotions, to concentrate and balance one's life energies - this requires education and maturity.

Yes, it can be stifling in some ways, that's ok, we want our doctors and accountants (mostly) to be small-c conservatives. Others can write Operas.

But none of it comes without a formal journey at least in some capacity.

It's a neat experiment but I think it's hard to determine the results. The novelty of exploration in that context just might not be 'novelty' from the adults perspective. Try trading rewards for truly novel things, like, jumping out of planes, I wonder what the result would be.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by chrisdirkis on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:58AM (#24141005)
> If you want to play the violin beautifully, you have to practice for 10 years, there's no way around it. > > If you want to do important things, you have to train in all sorts of capacities, and put in a lot of sweat.

I don't know the source of this, but I remember reading that most people who become good at things, by practicing for 10 years or whatever, were intrinsically motivated to do so. It's not a process of "want to be good -> force self to practice -> become good", but more of "want to practice -> become good". Can't remember if this was just conjecture, and I'm not a citeable source myself, but it seems like a more likely story. I know I've heard stories of talented people who got where they are because they spent all day noodling on the guitar, or writing programs, but I've heard less stories about people who didn't really enjoy the practice but forced themselves into it via willpower.

Not to say that "just noodling" is all that the person needed, or that no willpower was required, but that the process might be more intrinsic for the people who are actually going to become great anyway.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by rajansaini on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:32AM (#24140552)
I want to respond to your point about violin-playing, because I think it will open up an interesting discussion. Anecdotally, I was always motivated to practice my instruments by the same exploratory drive discussed in the article. I was taught to ask, "what if I did XXX this way?", i.e., what happens to my sound if I play long tones, what techniques do I need to play piece Y, how do I use scale Z to improvise?

Growing up, I found that those who ran on pure extrinsic factors with all discipline and no enjoyment either stopped or were stunted by locally optimal decisions. On the other hand, those who went on to study in university and play professionally seemed to derive the same obsessive enjoyment from their craft as I would a video game.

Do you think these data points further prove your point about emotional maturity? Or is there something more universal, that true success requires a fierce passion?

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by dr_dshiv on Thursday August 13, 2020 @03:57AM (#24140995)
Try getting children to learn to play guitar or piano or math purely through intrinsic moyovation. They might be into it for a bit, but not enough for regular practice. But, when they have enough skill, they can then develop further intrinsic motivation to really get good.

Everything in moderation.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by circlefavshape on Thursday August 13, 2020 @06:03AM (#24141672)
+1

It takes at least 5 years of learning piano to get good enough to enjoy it. IMO this is why adults almost never take it up - we're just not prepared to invest in something that takes so much work with such a distant payoff

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by criddell on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:15AM (#24143533)
That might be due to the way music is taught.

Rocksmith is a guitar playing video game that can be fun from day one. I don't see why similar concepts couldn't be used to teach just about any musical instrument.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by aaron695 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:48AM (#24141236)
> The schooling system, with its grades, signed slips, and whatnot, is set up through extrinsic motivation to teach obedience, conformity, and smothering the intrinsic drive so necessary for the creative work we will expect from the children later in life.

We finish 50 million kids in school each year.

100's of millions have been through the US system alone over it's history.

If this was simply true then I feel like there'd be some evidence by now.

Yes we can do better schooling for some kids, and yes there are certainly improvements, but after 100's of year of doing it, it's not going to be a country wide system of let kids just have more freedom.

The best improvement we know of is cohorts matter. Which is a zero sum game.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by rubidium on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:56AM (#24143357)
I don’t think anyone is encouraging total unstructured freedom.

I went to a school without grades. It encourages cultivating a love of learning. There was concrete feedback on quality of work and assessments of knowledge (tests). But no public grading scale. It’s been awarded 3 blue ribbon awards and consistently outperformed its grading-based peers.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by aaron695 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:28PM (#24148441)
I know it's a lame answer because I can answer it to most new schooling concepts

Cohorts.

If all the students you schooled with could easily come from the other available systems and your school could only expel them at the same rates as the other schools I'd be happier.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by betterunix2 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @09:27AM (#24143094)
Actually the modern concept of a school was developed to train people for industrial jobs, where they would have to follow instructions and a schedule set by their superiors -- hence the strict scheduling, the rank-and-file arrangement of classrooms, and so forth. Prior to the industrial revolution most children did not go to a formal schools, and would receive their education from parents and tutors, or by some other ad-hoc arrangements. In some parts of the world it was common for traveling teachers to board with a family for some time and educate the children.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by agumonkey on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:17AM (#24141088)
This is how I survive usually. I turn whatever externally imposed duty is imposed into something that will tickle my inner curiosity / desire.

Extrinsic motivation, IMO, is akin to an exchange or bargain, you have to develop a sense or skill to know how to make them.

ps: more generally I'm very curious about the topic of 'pedagogics' and also the way to create harmonious, high level work environment between people (all motivated by few years of seeing nothing but drag, pain and waste in too many workplaces). If you know board, MLists or else, ping me.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by arminiusreturns on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:10AM (#24143491)
I think you might like this interview with the now deceased but brilliant contrarian educator John Taylor Gatto, in which he speaks about just that in the schooling system and the crazy changes he saw when he said he moved towards a more intrinsic motivation system, though he didn't use those terms:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YQiW_l848t8&list=PL463AA90FD...

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by narag on Thursday August 13, 2020 @04:57PM (#24149006)
Not a native speaker, I can understand but his speech gives me a hard time. Could you share a pointer to a relevant segment? The complete interview is five hours!
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by arminiusreturns on Friday August 14, 2020 @08:00AM (#24156747)
https://youtu.be/YQiW_l848t8?list=PL463AA90FD04EC7A2&t=1640 is a decent starting section, and I know he is hard to listen to, but very worth it and you get used to his speaking style over time. That said, here is a transcript: https://www.scribd.com/document/76968236/SOURCED-TRANSCRIPT-...
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by cameronbrown on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:36AM (#24143757)
> The schooling system, with its grades, signed slips, and whatnot, is set up through extrinsic motivation to teach obedience, conformity, and smothering the intrinsic drive so necessary for the creative work we will expect from the children later in life.

As a teen, I think I would've agreed with you on this, but looking back personally, I think boundaries inspired my creativity to break out of them.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by boundaries99 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @10:47AM (#24143864)
Boundaries are intrinsic for kids with no life experience.

Obedience to hierarchy around stuff collecting is extrinsic.

One must learn facts and emotional character to tell grandpa go away.

We’re far to servile to decades old delusions of grandeur.

Extreme ownership of social agency by one circular meme isn’t good enough.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by barrenko on Thursday August 13, 2020 @07:12AM (#24142072)
I've been meaning to read that for some time now.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by dmead on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:47AM (#24140017)
is mastery a new word that's come up in education? i can't help but (red) flag that word in the context of teaching children these days, maybe before the wrong people have said it.
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by ornornor on Thursday August 13, 2020 @12:56AM (#24140066)
What? Why?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by dmead on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:15AM (#24140461)
I was right.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Mastery_learning#General_conce...

The only person I've heard say "mastery" are Betsy devos (when she was getting grilled by warren at her senate confirmation) and some religious conservatives i know that homeschool their children.

My general impression is that it's a marketing gimmick by carter schools that want to show they're somehow innovating in education. This is probably all horse shit as the longer term outcomes in devos type schools are really bad (see: michigan).

anyway, it's a flag. probably a big red one.

I doubt it's taken seriously by regular school teachers whos models come from Columbia university.

Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by throwaway5792 on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:24AM (#24140514)
So what's wrong with it?
Re:Young children would rather explore than get rewards by kzzzznot on Thursday August 13, 2020 @02:52AM (#24140647)
First I’ve heard of this, just copied a section from the linked Wikipedia page:

> The Chicago Mastery Learning Reading program was criticized for a focus on testing. A concern is that children were taught to pass tests without a focus on enduring skills. The duration of the retention of skills was questioned.