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Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by scaryclam on Monday July 17, 2017 @04:37AM (#14786646)
I imagine this is good advice in some places, but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

In a lot of places, having a talk with your manager about your salary before going off and actively looking for other offers is going to go down a lot better. Most line managers worth working for, value their teams and will fight for them if they are unhappy, without the threats.

And TBH, if your company has to make cutbacks in the future and you've shown you're willing to up and leave at the drop of a hat, you're name's likely to get further up the redundancy list than you'd probably like.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by djslakor on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:10AM (#14788130)
> but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

"Pull this on you"? You sound like a real joy to work for.

This is expressly why I choose gigs where I'm working directly for an owner if at all possible. If you've created value, owners know how important you are and will take your request seriously as long as it's reasonable.

In my career, I have received 100% of the raises I've requested ... at least a half dozen times. I've never once received a no or even negative push back. Owners were eager to retain me.

Even if your intention as a "line manager" is to not give the raise, the right move is to at least feign consideration for a few days and show the employee his request at least matters enough to think about.

Letting everyone know they'll immediately be shown the door if they dare request an increase would create a terrible culture. Clueless management.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by _wwz4 on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:54AM (#14788489)
Letting everyone know they'll immediately be shown the door if they dare request an increase would create a terrible culture

The person to whom you're responding explicitly drew a distinction between discussing a raise with your boss vs going to your boss with another offer that you have secured.

I can see the importance of that distinction. To put the relationship in a different context: Imagine the difference between a girlfriend who says, "Hey, we need to discuss the amount of time you spend playing video games. I'd like you to pay more attention to me." vs "Hey, I don't like the amount of time you spend playing video games, so I've been talking to this new guy about being my boyfriend. Your move."

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by coldtea on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:00AM (#14789090)
>The person to whom you're responding explicitly drew a distinction between discussing a raise with your boss vs going to your boss with another offer that you have secured.

Because it's only OK to ask for a raise when the boss has the upper hand?

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by crusso on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:05AM (#14789172)
Has the boss brought someone in to replace you and said, "Okay, Coldtea, we found someone to replace you at your job. He's as good as you and he'll take a 10% cut in salary over what we pay you. Do you want to take a pay cut so you can stay?"

That would be the upper hand.

Before that, it's just a discussion.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by sidlls on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:39AM (#14789531)
That's the default situation, even in software, although more often it's in this form: "Okay, Jon Employee, our company had a bad quarter, we're going to have to ask employees to make some sacrifices." Then Jon Employee is laid off and subsequently has his position filled by somebody much more junior at far more than a 10% discount.

This industry doesn't value engineering experience. It values breadth over depth. There are some exceptions. But the data are what they are.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by logfromblammo on Monday July 17, 2017 @12:20PM (#14789919)
It happens every time a company has more than one person who is technically capable of doing the same job. Companies have to do this once they grow large enough, so that the company will survive if any one person in it is hit by a bus (or leaves for greener pastures).

Every day I go to work, the implied threat is that my company could assign all my work to someone cheaper--generally speaking, give 1/Nth of my work to each of my N co-workers, then advertise an open position if that puts the team over capacity--and abruptly end our work-for-pay relationship. Or maybe they allow a tester to jump up into development, and give them tester+1 pay instead of developer pay. If I meet with my manager with competing offer in hand, that may invert the status quo of the power balance for all of 15 minutes. How unnerving for them.

You always need the company more than the company needs you. That's a corollary to the whole point of having a company, which is to produce an entity separate from and greater than its constituent parts.

Personally, I'd just keep silent about the amount of the competing offer and ask for a raise. They can do their own calculations about how much they can afford to give, and if they can't match the competing offer without knowing what it is, I'd take it. Telling them what that offer is makes as much sense as divulging your salary history when seeking out competing offers, which is to say it does not make sense. Let companies do their own calculation regarding how much you are worth to them, instead of copying the answers off of each other.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by coldtea on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:48PM (#14790792)
The bosses do that all the time. And if it wasn't for training delays and costs, they'd do it in a heartbeat.

Besides, that's exactly how they gauge what kind of wages to offer when they hire you -- from what others would accept in your place.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by sudhirj on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:10AM (#14788614)
I like the analogy, but other offers help establish market value - in a free market anything, including labour, is as valuable as the highest available bidder. If this were a relationship another way of putting it would be "hmmm {person_x_whos_better_than_you_in_some_relevant_way} keeps trying to get in touch with me, I wonder why."
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by lordCarbonFiber on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:03AM (#14789144)
The issue with your example is the matter of context. A relationship, in the normal case, isn't a business arrangement. In the 21st century companies (and that's all companies small start up to large mega corp) have no loyalty to you as an employee and you sure as hell shouldn't have any loyalty to them.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by JCharante on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:59AM (#14788526)
I know it doesn't add anything of value to the thread, but that's a really good analogy.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by ohyes on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:09AM (#14788604)
It's a terrible analogy. A better analogy is you're a prostitute and you tell your client that you looked around and the going rate for this type of work is more than he's been paying you, so you're gonna go fuck other guys for money.

You don't fire your girlfriend in tough times, but your boss will fire you if he had to. It's a stricylty pay to play relationship.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by marvelous on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:46AM (#14788916)
We use the prostitute analogy a lot with my techie friends. Just don't tell my parents that I write software. I pretend to work at Starbucks.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by TallGuyShort on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:15AM (#14789290)
This is why customers can never give you specific requirements for a project. Deep down they know you write software, but they can't say, "write this specific software for this much money". They have to use vague, hand-wavy terms so that they can always step back and claim it was just collaboration between consenting adults. They were just paying you for your time.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by corobo on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:03AM (#14788564)
Not really. Business is business and personal is personal. If you look at them both the same you'll end up stuck in a job you hate for 8 years thinking you're being super loyal and that raise is just around the corner.

Spouses are loyal back, businesses are not.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by pm90 on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:29AM (#14788770)
This. Its so important for workers to realize just what predicament they're in. So while it was possible for lifelong jobs to be possible in the past, its not so much the case today. No job is really secure, and one does have to stay on ones toes.

Not saying that you should be concerned about getting fired everyday. But if you don't create demonstrable value to your company over a longer period of time (a couple of years perhaps) don't expect to keep the job. Things are moving wayy too fast today.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gorkonsine on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:55AM (#14789005)
Generating value is only a small part of it. You can get fired or laid off for any reason in most places in the US. You can be doing great work personally, but if upper management screws up, or the business environment is just bad (despite management's best efforts), you'll get laid off as soon as it makes financial sense for the company to do so. You can also get canned or at least mistreated to the point of misery because of interpersonal problems having nothing to do with your performance, a terrible manager, etc.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by crusso on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:02AM (#14789133)
That's not true at all in my experience. Both as a manager to others, I've always tried to be loyal to employees who invested in the employer/employee relationship - and as an employee who benefitted from having an employer/managers look out for me when inevitable bumps in the road occurred in my personal life.

Outside of my own direct experience, I can also recall many other co-workers' experiences where the companies I've worked for went above and beyond in their commitment to their employees. One time that meant making many extraordinary allowances for an employee suffering from a mental breakdown. At times it has meant extending the employment of someone who was looking for a life/career change, but the company kept on paying a salary until the employee found somewhere new to land - way beyond where the employment had any real benefit to the company. There are many others.

By all means, takes some precautions. By all means, stand up for yourself. By all means, make sure that you're being fairly compensated... but if you go into every relationship, personal or business, with your shields raised and phasers set to kill - you will reap what you sow.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by _xhok on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:57AM (#14789703)
Loyalty on a large scale requires threat-backed enforcement. Mafia members were loyal to each other not just because family was sacred but because they'd be killed otherwise. Big megacorps of the 20th century basically worked by vesting your payout over your lifetime; leave halfway, and you'd miss out. No such threat exists in America today, so while it's possible for individual managers and employees to choose to behave in the loyal manner you described, when giving general advice, it's wise to treat business as business.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by crusso on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:11AM (#14789249)
I see a lot of employer hostility on HN. While it's good to watch your back, the constant call to go in with guns blazing doesn't seem helpful to me.

I know that personal relationships aren't exactly the same as business relationships, but to pretend that they aren't somewhat analogous doesn't line up with my own experiences. I've had a lot of personal relationships in business. Almost every boss I've ever had has been my friend on some level and the same goes with a lot of people who've worked for me.

When you treat people with respect, consideration, and friendship in your work life - you'll be surprised at how often you get the same from them in return.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by boomboomsubban on Monday July 17, 2017 @12:46PM (#14790208)
>the constant call to go in with guns blazing doesn't seem helpful to me.

Getting independent information of your value isn't "guns blazing."

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by crusso on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:43PM (#14790751)
Getting independent information consists of going on GlassCeiling or Dice to look at industry salary surveys, googling, etc.... maybe even talking with some recruiters about going rates.

Going out and getting a job offer is a step beyond that.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by lovich on Monday July 17, 2017 @03:17PM (#14791506)
It's not like getting a job offer in tech is free to the employee and can just be used as a casual "fuck you" to the boss. Even with the current tech market the way that interviews are currently done will use up a lot of your PTO to get through. If an employee is at the point where they are effectively spending money to get this information why isn't it viewed as a the employer's fault for making the employee feel it was necessary? I know I don't want to switch jobs frequently but when the company posts record profits but my quality of life is decreasing due to cost of living increases, what would you expect me to do?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by boomboomsubban on Monday July 17, 2017 @02:17PM (#14791021)
OK, then the boss isn't able to get any specific reports on my performance, they can only ask me directly how well I'm performing or look at standards of performance. Going out and tracking my individual performance takes too much work and shows they don't trust me. Seems fair.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by ryandrake on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:41PM (#14792510)
But "coming to the boss with another offer you have secured" is the expected next logical step after you've unsuccessfully discussed a raise, no?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gorkonsine on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:52AM (#14788976)
It's a very interesting analogy, and shows the terrible and wrong mentality that managers like 'scaryclam' have.

Work is NOT like having a girlfriend. Like the other poster said, a better analogy is your relationship with a prostitute. But it's good you brought up this incorrect analogy, because I think it really shows the horribly wrong mentality that bosses have, because they believe this to be a good analogy even though it isn't.

I'm not showing up to work every day because I have any warm and fuzzy personal feelings for the people there (especially the management). I go to work because they give me a paycheck. That's it. It's no different than prostitution, except not quite as icky. If my girlfriend tells me she needs to spend less time with me for a little while because she's going to spend some time with her family for some family problem, or she's working on her own start-up business and needs to spend extra time on it to make it successful, etc., then sure. If, however, employer tells me they need to cut my pay in half because they're having money problems, I'm immediately going to look for a new job. I don't have any personal feelings for my employer, and I don't expect to grow old and retire with them either, and I also know that if they don't need me any more, I'll be out the door with a pink slip that day.

I think this analogy really shows how many employers think (wrongly) that employees should have some kind of loyalty to them, even though the employers rarely have any loyalty back to the employees.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mdpopescu on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:22PM (#14790571)
I just wanted to say that I've learned a LOT from the back-and-forth on this thread. My thanks to all that were involved.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by usrusr on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:08AM (#14789205)
> Letting everyone know they'll immediately be shown the door if they dare request an increase would create a terrible culture.

On the other hand, sending every other employee the clear message that the only way to get a raise is by showing up with a better offer isn't the path to the best of cultures either.

Those that imitate the tactic are not the ones to be concerned about, the others are, those who have nonmonetary reasons to stay. Employment isn't equally fungible to all employees. The less mobile will feel screwed and their motivation and productivity will suffer. Getting paid less than market rate is much easier to not mind about than getting paid less than the guy across the table. Secrecy could be a solution, but before you embrace it all too enthusiastically ask yourself twice about the gossip level in the organization.

In the end, the ratio of "will imitate" employees to "will grudgingly accept" employees determines the better answer. The former will hate "aggressive bargaining will not be tolerated", the latter will hate "only aggressive bargaining will be rewarded".

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by rdlecler1 on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:07AM (#14788585)
People don't like to feel like they're being exhorted. This has a high likelihood of backfiring. If you want a raise talk to your manager first. Don't come with threats to leave.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by tormeh on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:46AM (#14788912)
The "threat", because it's just a bidding round for your time, really, has to be real. If it's real and your employer declines to participate, that just means the other company won and you now have a new employer. There shouldn't be any hard feelings unless you have a personal relationship with your boss.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by softawre on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:44AM (#14788898)
He is just saying ask for a raise before you go solicit offers from other companies.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by logfromblammo on Monday July 17, 2017 @12:31PM (#14790036)
Why should I have to ask for a raise from my existing manager before asking for a raise from every other manager in town?

If my manager wanted that, it would have been in the contract [that I have never had as an "at will" employee], and they would have had to pay something to me as compensation.

If I have no contract, I owe my employer nothing. The loyalty I give them is equal to the loyalty they promised me: zero. They explicitly told me I could be fired at any time for any reason from an enumerated list ten pages long, or for no reason at all, if the whim merely struck them one day.

As an employee, that is a big "fuck you" to me from the management, and they should be happy that I even let them know I might quit if they don't do something soon to prevent that, instead of just calling my manager up to say I won't be working there today, as another company offered me a better deal.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by rhodysurf on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:03AM (#14789156)
Fine but then how to you back up your claims that you actually are worth a higher salary?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by RonanTheGrey on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:58AM (#14789713)
I suppose it primes the discussion with "does my employer even see me as valuable? Perhaps more valuable than I am being paid for?"

If the answer to that is no, no amount of backup will convince them otherwise. Then you get into the question of "why am I working here" and it forces you to leave anyway.

Somehow, all paths lead to leaving. And I think this is what the original article is getting at - if you want more money, your best bet is to leave.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by jacquesm on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:20AM (#14787794)
> but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

As your potential employee I'd be more than happy to shake your hand and leave. Very rarely does a company deserve employee loyalty, and you as a linemanager should at least try to earn your employee's loyalty by paying them what they are worth, rather than what you can get away with.

Remember, you too have a boss, treat your subordinates like you would like to be treated.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by justadeveloper2 on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:03AM (#14788071)
That effectively never happens, or hasn't happened for me. My relationships with managers have always been cordial but we both know the truth. As a developer, it is very hard to ever become anything but a developer. Companies say they have career paths for developers to follow that are non-management tracks, but they effectively don't. You...just...move...on. Any salary increases I have gotten were at the forefront of being hired on and my skill at negotiating was all make or break for me and I have screwed it up in the past.

I did just recently have a good turn where the recruiter who helped me land my current job helped negotiate a bit higher pay and a week of vacation. I wasn't going to push that hard because I needed to be working and not sitting on my ass, but he did this for me without my asking and it worked. I was pretty thrilled that after so many years, someone else gave a damn about me. First time.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gorkonsine on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:00AM (#14789084)
The recruiter gives a damn about you because the higher compensation he negotiates for you, the more he gets paid (usually). It's in the recruiter's interest to get you the best deal possible, if he's acting as your agent. (It's the opposite if the recruiter works for the employer.) Of course, the recruiter has to walk a fine line because he doesn't want to be too aggressive and lose the deal, but they generally will work for you to a point. However, the flip side to this is that, working through a recruiter, you might not get paid as much because, to the employer, the total compensation is higher since they have to pay the recruiter's fee which is very large. It's kinda like selling something through consignment: they want the best price possible, since they get a bigger cut, but because they get a cut, you might be getting less in the end. But recruiters can get you access to jobs you might not easily have access to otherwise (because the company didn't post it yet, won't post it, didn't post it where you'll see it, etc.), so there's that factor too.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gnopgnip on Monday July 17, 2017 @02:04PM (#14790913)
The reality of it is the recruiter is working for the employer. The recruiter just wants to fill the vacancy as fast as possible and get their paycheck. They don't care about what salary they place you at because they get much more money by finding good candidates quickly, and they are unlikely to ever work with you again. But they will probably work with the same businesses over and over. The recruiter getting paid more because you get a higher salary only aligns your interests weakly. It can still make sense to work with recruiters for all the parties involved, but you need to make sure you are negotiating on your own behalf and plan that the recruiter will negotiate more strongly for the employer.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by awshepard on Monday July 17, 2017 @03:36PM (#14791668)
Yep, this is akin to the Freakonomics "why don't real estate agents always push for the highest sales price" question. The gist being, it's a numbers game for them. The extra 5-10k they negotiate when selling your house makes a small difference in their commission, and usually comes at a disproportionate cost - either risk of the deal falling through, or time spent in negotiations that could have been better spent moving on to the next deal. It wouldn't surprise me if recruiters face a similar calculus (time spent negotiating on your behalf, risk of damaging their relationship with the company, etc.), and would definitely agree that at the end of it, you have to be responsible for your own outcomes, because no one else will be.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by remline on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:43AM (#14787935)
Employees have an inherent need for loyalty to work and face considerable risk just for following their true worth to new companies and situations.

This makes it impossible to adequately take employers up to your real market worth as a long term employee. Too many of your coworkers will accept 50% of their worth rather than risk stress and a crises if a change falls apart. So as long as the employer only needs a kernel of long-term employees only a union has the necessary leverage.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by spacelizard on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:13AM (#14788165)
They also face considerable risk for sticking around when an employer has expressed interest in underpaying and overworking them or just outright firing them. If you're hiring people at 50% of their desired pay, then you're generally only going to get 50% of their skill. This is a double-edged sword. Employees also have an inherent need to accomplish things, and if you're not using them to their full capacity, that's also a risk of them leaving, or being completely checked out at work.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by sidlls on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:48AM (#14789622)
I think the value of unions and professional organizations in these discussions is something that gets too little attention.

One of the most important reasons software development is not like actual engineering is because the practices associated with actual engineering aren't valued in the world of software, even though the political components of employment (e.g. loyalty, longevity at a company) are considered signals of high(er) quality.

The vast majority of developers simply don't have quality employment options for most of them to consider long-term (> 3-4 years) employment with a single company to be a good economic or career decision.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by abawany on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:27PM (#14793891)
I fully agree with you re. 'shake your hand' but I have to defend the line manager at large companies: too often, they have their hands tied with yearly performance evaluation processes and bonuses and will likely be unable to fetch the employee the necessary raise outside of working within aforesaid processes (i.e. getting the employee a promotion in a higher pay band, etc.), which takes time. I say this not to defend anyone but to try to present a more balanced picture.

In a smaller company, I would be worried about 'revealing my hand' to a potentially vengeful manager asking for a raise and I would rather just leave than try to get them to counter offer. That is, if I ask for a raise and s/he denies it, I would feel that I would probably be the first one to get cut when the time comes so I might as well leave. In a larger company, I might try to work with the manager on a 'career plan' assuming the manager in question is not toxic; the toxic ones will pretty much ensure that one gets a 'needs-improvement' type rating, which pretty much limits any movement for the unfortunate employee from that point on.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by boomboomsubban on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:28AM (#14786853)
>In a lot of places, having a talk with your manager about your salary before going off and actively looking for other offers is going to go down a lot better. Most line managers worth working for, value their teams and will fight for them if they are unhappy, without the threats.

This doesn't agree with the research here, and your first statement doesn't agree with your second. If you value your team, they shouldn't end up unhappy with their salary, and they shouldn't be thrown under the bus for exploring what they're worth outside the company. The tamest threat to fire them reinforces the point.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:14AM (#14787759)
The research I am aware of says if someone comes into your office with a competing offer they are likely to be gone in 6 months.

https://hbr.org/2016/07/setting-the-record-straight-using-an...

Outside offers to get a raise are a risky business at best. If someone is unhappy enough to do this it isn't just compensation most of the time.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by PeterisP on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:02AM (#14789126)
I mean, there's a strong confounding factor - if you're paying market rate and treating your employees well, it would be very rare that someone comes into your office with a competing offer; and if you're not, then people are likely to leave you even if they don't ask for that counteroffer.

It all depends on how you are managing the compensation growth appropriate for people who are growing in their careers - if you're doing it properly and proactively, then people won't be repeatedly coming to your office with solid evidence that the actual market rate is much higher than whatever you're paying; and if you're giving appropriate raises only when pushed to, then doing that seems to be the only way how your existing employees can continue to get paid market rate.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by justadeveloper2 on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:05AM (#14788088)
So you get six more months out of a skilled employee. Most managers I know would take that deal. They would see it as an opportunity to have six more months to retain that person or at least kick the can down the road a bit longer.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by supercanuck on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:05AM (#14789177)
This is the difference, in my opinion, where they let their pride get in the way of good decision making.

The probability of someone leaving didn't change because of the new offer, the manager perceives a power differential and is responding to that.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:02AM (#14788548)
It can be the right strategy, but you have to be prepared for them to leave. It can be a shock to some businesses to have someone leave when they are managing important responsibilities. It is just a matter of being completely informed. And if you expect them to leave within a 6-12 months you are looking for their replacement. It creates an uncomfortable situation.

It isn't the wrong call to keep someone on and counter, it is just a tricky situation.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by 33W on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:45AM (#14789583)
This is an interesting problem. Let's say I think I'm underpaid and speak with my manager about it.

If I go in with broad market data, the argument could be made that my specific circumstances make the general market data invalid.

If I go in with specific job offers, then I present myself as a risk to leaving, and the conversation may be more adversarial than I intend.

So could there be a service that sits in between? my-market-rate.example.com. Employees submit resumes, and we abstract the companies, roles, etc. Submit those resumes to companies to get an expected salary for that position and indicate interest to hire.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @12:30PM (#14790026)
Market rate is tricky. Especially for jobs that require less common skills. Some employers, small shops mostly, actively can't or don't bother to compete with the big tech shops on salary even though they recruit from the same pool of employees. They compete on life style, company culture, and other intangibles. If this is done openly and employees know what they are getting into it is a good situation as long as that open relationship is maintained. The employer and employee need to have a little trust and finances need to be open at least a little bit so the employees can see where the dollars are flowing.

It is a difficult position to be in, but I think the solution is relatively obvious. If you think you are being underpaid and you don't have an open line of communication to your employer about your compensation that is the crux of the problem. If you can't comfortably discuss compensation at any time with your manager in a no judgment zone where the employer immediately assumes you are leaving then you and the employer lose. At that point you may feel the only option is a competing offer and the employer may counter, but they will be counting the days until you are gone.

A middle service could help keep things fair, but any employer you would feel comfortable using something like a `my-market-rate.example.com` service report with you probably already can just have an open discussion about compensation without any concern. I could see it being useful in some places where the organization / manager really does just lack information about fair compensation but... that strikes me as pretty uncommon. Managers tend to know far better than employees their value in the wider market and to the organization specifically.

Ultimately, you just have to do your research and if you know you are underpaid you should be able to find employment somewhere else. If you fear a comp discussion would trigger your employer firing you, time to look for another job. If you think it won't change much, time to look for another job. If you think you are close and have a good relationship with your manager, just talk about it. In my experience employees, especially in high tech, are very worried about discussing compensation and how that might be perceived by their manager. In reality many folks that generally like their place of employment and end up where they come in with a counter offer could go back in time 6 months and have a direct conversation with their manager and get a raise (or not, signalling it might be time to move on). If it takes that competitive offer to budge your employer it means they know you are worth more but they weren't willing to give it to you fairly.

Anyhow, that is my brain dump on how these things play out.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by 33W on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:38PM (#14790698)
Thanks for the brain dump, I'm always learning more about these types of things. Personally, I think I'm fairly paid at the moment, but this is something to consider if that changes in the future.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by eof on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:24AM (#14787816)
there doesn't appear to be any research in that article, just opinions? it doesn't surprise if that's true that you are likely to be gone; especially if you count the times that you aren't given a competitive counter offer.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:08AM (#14788600)
Ahh, sorry.

https://hbr.org/2016/09/why-people-quit-their-jobs

At the end, a research and analysis firm in this space says 50% leave within one year. I could not find the papers. I actually researched this a lot when put in a situation that we had to make a counter offer and there are some better papers and such out there, but I don't have it handy.

You have to go case by case and really understand what is motivating the individual. There is a very high chance the relationship is beyond salvaging. But there is also a good chance you can fix the problem. It is much better to never be in that situation to begin with (preventative maintenance). Regardless when you get to the point of making a counter offer anecdotal experience and research indicates it is about like flipping a coin. Maybe you can gain some insight via discussions and back story that make it better than flipping a coin, but the basic idea is you are in a relatively unpredictable situation at that point, no matter what.

Whereas, having constant and open communications with employees, discussing comp and making sure all issues stay little issues prevents these situations. Eventually someone may leave, but in my experience you can almost always remove the chance they come to you with a competitive offer. They will know where they stand with the business and be getting a fair wage or they will know it is time to move on. It is a much better relationship than an employee feeling they have no recourse but to drop a bomb on your organization.

That said, it is understandable how this happens with "line managers". e.g. middle managers. Individuals not empowered by corporate structure to do the right thing. But in orgs of less than 100 people this should never be happening.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by statictype on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:59AM (#14787010)
You can value your team and still be running on fumes and not be able to currently pay them what you think they should get.

There's no contradiction in that.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by Mtinie on Monday July 17, 2017 @07:31AM (#14787517)
In that case you can be disappointed that your business can't do right by the employees you lose while at the same time being happy for those people for finding new places of employment that can pay them what they are worth.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:16AM (#14787773)
A good business would have a line of communication open to employees about it's financial state anyway. They would not come to you with a competing offer, there would be no need.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by statictype on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:34AM (#14788324)
Yes, of course.

I was only pointing out that underpaying staff does not equate to not respecting them.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by humanrebar on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:11AM (#14787056)
You can also value your employer and expect your compensation to grow at a certain rate.

Most line employees don't have enough influence over the business plan to point out that, say, it only works if the company can live with a high turnover rate or with keeping salaries low.

None of this is personal. It's actually a big ask for someone to get paid under market rate or work on horrible legacy systems for years. Managers shouldn't take it personally if they ask for something big and don't get a yes.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by Retric on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:49AM (#14787966)
The basic idea of capitalism is some ventures / companies will fail. Trying to hang on by underpaying people is generally just forestalling the inevitable and closing up shop early is generally better for all involved.

That said, if your growing etc and just have a cash crunch then stock is generally an option.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by osrec on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:46AM (#14787229)
Your advice seems a little unusual; perhaps you've had caring line managers in the past, but in my experience, the less they know about your grievances the better. If you suggest you are unhappy, your manager is likely to assume you are looking around anyway. Thus you end up giving your manager the upper hand in negotiations. If you don't have a back up offer in place, you are simply hoping that your manager is a nice person who deals with your issues fairly - but there is always a very significant chance your boss reacts badly to your dissatisfaction. Then where do you go without a backup?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by wyclif on Monday July 17, 2017 @07:12AM (#14787386)
without the threats

I wouldn't dispute that seeking offers before a request for raise might not go over well (depending on the specific business), but I think calling it a "threat" is needlessly weaponizing salary negotiation in a market where everyone acknowledges salaries have been flat for a long time.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by repomies6999 on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:27AM (#14787834)
I believe the flatnessof salaries applies to jobs overall. I would guess most people at HN work in IT where salaries haven't been that flat.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by TheCowboy on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:57AM (#14788024)
Depends on which way you cut the data, looking at occupations, time period, and geographic location. I've looked and have found data and reports suggesting they're flat (keeping up with inflation) or slightly outpacing inflation. Some specific sectors and skills have seen significant growth.

The number of people employed in IT services as a whole as increased which has likely helped keep wages more stable. It's still a good career as far as salaries go.

One thing I've found that makes digging deeper challenging is the preponderance of titles and roles. Title inflation could disguise wage growth to some degree.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mdpopescu on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:43PM (#14790747)
You're in the West, probably the US; you already started high. Being from Eastern Europe, my current (net) salary is 100 times higher than 20 years ago and 2.5 times higher than 5 years ago. I expect things have stabilized for me too though :)
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by baruch on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:57AM (#14787000)
To counter that, as a former line manager if an employee just came to me and said he wanted a raise I could only give him so much consideration (big company). If he wanted to get more he'd need to have leverage like a competing offer so that I can go in to the HR team and be able to push them to give me approval to give him more and they would need to go their own managers to get that approval.

Of course, said employee better be good at his job to get this treatment. If you are obnoxious or merely just barely good enough it will be an easier way to get rid of you than go through the hassle of big company firing procedure.

Though I have to admit I never was in this situation as a manager, I did give fair share raises out of the pocket money I got to distribute as raises between my employees.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by ugh123 on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:37AM (#14787178)
I think you typify the type of manager that cares more about the bottom line than the value you get out of good employees. Maybe it wasn't spelled out as clear in the article, but much of the point is that the employee is more valuable to retain than to simply re-cycle for someone lessor or equal pay.

Wouldn't care to work for you at all.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:19AM (#14787792)
The cost to replace a good employee is shockingly high. Organizations that don't fight to keep their good people are chasing short term gains at the expense of their medium and long term. It is why many businesses can't figure out why they can't grow and think they are a great place to work because they offer bottom of their industry pay (which can be enticing for folks looking to break in, get experience, etc.)
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by infinite8s on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:51AM (#14787980)
For a lone manager, chasing short term gains at the expense of longer term might be the most rational strategy for their own careers.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by bitexploder on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:11AM (#14788623)
Agreed. I would then want to understand the overall organizational structure that puts "line managers" in these situations. It is almost always some sort of organizational defect or lack of managerial skill that causes an employee to "save up" all their grievances to the point where they feel the only way to get what they want is through essentially dropping a bomb on their manager.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by abalashov on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:40AM (#14787201)
Managers are paid to look after the bottom line. The good ones do their best to balance that with treating their people well and fostering loyalty, but no balancing act ever goes entirely smoothly -- yet that's the one they're paid to perform. Businesses aren't charities or good-will missions.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by coolaliasbro on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:54AM (#14787998)
You're right that businesses presently are not charities or good-will missions, but perhaps they should be. The way most businesses are currently run (ie, as profit mills chasing growth at any cost) is detrimental to the environment, society, and the economy itself. Business for its own sake is stupid AF.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by abalashov on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:16PM (#14792327)
I would not necessarily dispute any of that, but it does contravene the assumptions from which the owners of most businesses are proceeding, not to mention their investors, shareholders and board members. :-)
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by ruleabidinguser on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:18AM (#14788197)
Why not go and start your ideal business then?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by Sharlin on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:38AM (#14788352)
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by ugh123 on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:14AM (#14789284)
I understand, and as a development manager who needs to hire and retain technical employees i'd rather make the case to pay an extra 10-20k a year for a well-performing employee rather both risk losing someone for an intermittent or extended amount of time (clear value lost) and than spend time retraining someone (more value lost). All of which lowers productivity and hits the bottom line. Also takes a hit on team morale.

It could also be an opportunity to add valuable responsibilities to the employees role to justify the increase in wages, if thats applicable to the situation. Win-win for everyone.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by watwut on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:47AM (#14786946)
> I imagine this is good advice in some places, but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job. In a lot of places, having a talk with your manager about your salary before going off and actively looking for other offers is going to go down a lot better. Most line managers worth working for, value their teams and will fight for them if they are unhappy, without the threats.

That is not my experience at all. Saying that I am leaving brings salary pay raise offer immediately, asking for pay raise brings vague promise for pay raise if this or that, yadda yadda. I cant recall manager raising salary proactively to anyone, ever.

It is not that they would not value their teams, but they do see world in a business negotiation way and see it as their job to manage expenses too.

The threat of disloyalty being punished if there are cutbacks does not seem like all that much threat to me. There are so many factors in the decision, including who likes who and who drinks with who, that this is just a tiny drop in the bucket. Nevertheless, when there are cutbacks, having recent experience with job search and idea about how much money you can get elsewhere helps way more then theoretical sympathy - it reduces stress even if you are one of those who stay.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by jcadam on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:43AM (#14789565)
> In a lot of places, having a talk with your manager about your salary before going off and actively looking for other offers is going to go down a lot better.

This has got to be some of the worst career advice I've ever heard. I made this mistake once, at my first software job. My employer's response was to say "NO" and then proceed to make my life hell in an attempt to make me quit. With a wife, kids, and a mortgage, that wasn't an option for me. I was eventually fired (for poor performance, a mere 2 months after receiving an 'outstanding' yearly appraisal) and spent 2 months unemployed before landing my next job. On the plus side, the offer I received was higher than the raise I had requested from my former employer.

So, my advice: Trusting your manager to be a reasonable human being is not worth the risk. You are absolutely satisfied with all aspects of your job, including your salary... right up until the moment you hand your boss a letter of resignation.

Now if you have a large amount of savings (say 6 months - 1 year of living expenses), feel free to take stupid risks. Otherwise, have another job lined up when you ask for a raise... you don't have to actually tell your boss about it, after all.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by softawre on Monday July 17, 2017 @02:09PM (#14790952)
> You are absolutely satisfied with all aspects of your job, including your salary... right up until the moment you hand your boss a letter of resignation.

Would you give this advice in reverse too? Ignoring lawsuits for a minute, as a manager - should you always tell your employees that they are doing fine, even if they aren't, right up until the moment you fire them for poor performance?

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by lovich on Monday July 17, 2017 @03:42PM (#14791721)
Probably not, but that's pretty common. But the point OP is making is that bringing up salary discussions with bosses can be a big risk. Employees only have one employer but employers have multiple employees. If you don't another job lined up and your boss decides to take punitive action against you for daring to try and get a better deal from them, then you are kinda fucked. It'd be nice if you could start the discussion with employers without having to worry about problems but our current economic/social system doesn't allow for that
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by thomascgalvin on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:44AM (#14788397)
> Most line managers worth working for, value their teams and will fight for them if they are unhappy, without the threats.

Agreed. I've already gotten my team the best raise/promotion that I could. If they can find better at a different company, I wish them well.

And that's not sarcastic. I genuinely wish them well. It hurts to let a good employee go, and finding/training a replacement sucks, but we're all kind of stuck in this shitty US corporate culture together, and we have to look out for ourselves.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by naasking on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:41PM (#14790730)
> Agreed. I've already gotten my team the best raise/promotion that I could.

Then again, this employee has just presented you with evidence that maybe your compensation isn't competitive, which is something you can bring to the higher ups to increase your budget. If you're not competitive, you'll have retention problems and business will ultimately suffer.

So you got the best rate you could at the time with the information available, but competing offers could change that equation.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by michaelt on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:26AM (#14787123)

  if your company has to make cutbacks [...] you're name's
  likely to get further up the redundancy list than you'd
  probably like.
If the company's going down the pan, what does it matter if I'm made redundant in the first tranche or the last?

I'm going to need a new job anyway, just in the latter case I've put in a few extra months where there was no money to give me a raise no matter how well I performed.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by lostboys67 on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:33AM (#14787158)
First batch might get better terms than waiting till the company goes bust owing you pay
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gvb on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:15AM (#14787768)
Even if the company doesn't go bust, the severance pay gets stingier and stingier on every round of reductions.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by softawre on Monday July 17, 2017 @02:18PM (#14791026)
Are you making the argument for being a shitty employee allaround?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by lr4444lr on Monday July 17, 2017 @07:40AM (#14787560)
I hear you, but the lost wages when the change comes too suddenly can be worse for a lot of people. Being among the later to be let go gives you some time to prepare.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by conanbatt on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:36AM (#14788337)
What I would add is that as well as there is an "internal knowledge fee" there is also a "good employee/risk fee".

An employee ready to jump ship quicker than his peers means that his value is reduced to the organization, precisely because the long term value of the "internal knowledge fee" is reduced!

I agree with the OP's tactical move, but strategically I'm not so sure the mindset is the correct one. Maybe I was lucky, but I always had managers that stuck their necks for me. Full-time employment is not a consulting job that is fire & forget.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by lovich on Monday July 17, 2017 @03:54PM (#14791818)
If it wasn't the right mindset, then why are the numbers showing that employees who stay at jobs more than 2 years earn less?
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by conanbatt on Wednesday July 19, 2017 @12:33AM (#14801999)
I didnt look at the source of the data, nor I am an expert in the field, but I can see many reasons what that can be ill-portrayed.

There could be a selection bias: does it show how many people switched to a job that turned out to be worse (pay/benefits/quality of work), or people that got fired because they had a much lower tenure than other employees, etc, or the cost of retraining personally for a different position.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mac01021 on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:00AM (#14788541)
> Most line managers value their team and will fight for them if they are unhappy

1) It's not a matter of being happy or unhappy. Just about everyone wants to earn as much as possible, the goal being to get as quickly as possible to the point where one no longer requires employment.

2) It's not possible to know how much the market values you without seeking other offers and seeing how much they'll offer you.

3) If one of your employees comes to you and says "I would like a raise" with no additional context, I can't imagine you're likely to offer them much. If they say "I need a raise or else I'm going to start looking at other jobs", I doubt you'll treat that much different from coming to you with an offer already in hand.

As an employee with a manager like you, it seems like my best best is to get an offer first, and then come to you saying "I'm really happy here, but you're not paying me market rate, and I think I would also be happy at this other company that will pay me more."

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by softawre on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:50AM (#14788945)
> the goal being to get as quickly as possible to the point where one no longer requires employment.

Most people don't have this goal. I personally have it (FI/RE), but most don't, even most software engineers. This is pretty evident by the cars that they drive and the other money that they can be seen "wasting".

Some happy medium is really what people want.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by richardknop on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:16AM (#14787081)
you're name's likely to get further up the redundancy list than you'd probably like.

Playing the devil's advocate, here's employee response which makes sense from his/her perspective:

But I have job offer paying 30% more. I could actually get multiple offers like that from several companies. So I am not afraid of your threat of "getting further up the redundancy list".

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by conanbatt on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:08AM (#14787725)
Then it's in both parties interest for the employee to leave.. everyone is happy at the end, provided the employer can replace the worker, and the former can get a better option.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by richardknop on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:20AM (#14787799)
Yes. Hence why it's the best way to get a big raise to keep your salary in sync with the market and not stagnate. I was just trying to push against the idea that somehow it's wrong to accept a job offer which offers substantially bigger salary. Nothing wrong with that.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by robert_foss on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:11AM (#14786778)
I can empathize with a response from a line manager like that. But from the point of view of an employee, if you go into a salary discussion with no recourse to getting a flat no, you're not doing much more than voicing the fact that you are discontent.

It seems to me that you, scarylam, would be a good line manager to work for.

But the reality is that most would not fight for you. Especially not when the two options being weighed are spending more money or having a somewhat dissatisfied employee, and maybe losing them later.

If the employee has some form of recourse the decision is very different. Spending more money or losing a part of your team now.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by corobo on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:59AM (#14788529)
> pull this on me

make you do your job as a manager?

> having a talk with your manager about your salary before going off and actively looking for other offers is going to go down a lot better

because then the employee doesn't know the market rate and the manager can get away with giving a garbage raise. Of course that's going to go down better, it's less work for the manager to dig it out of the budget or their boss

Edit: Made it a little less personal, my grudges are not with you.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by FussyZeus on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:31AM (#14787864)
> I imagine this is good advice in some places, but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

A serious question for scaryclam (or anyone who agrees with him): Why is this? Excluding a few people with dream jobs, I didn't get hired at Company X because I love what they do or I feel they add to the world in a meaningful way: you guys needed code written or systems maintained or whatever it might be, I needed money. That is the extent of our relationship. Even if we've worked together for a long while and developed a bit of a friendship, it seems like the whole stigma surrounding bringing job offers into a workplace is based on a few things that when said aloud sound insane:

1) That I would be willing to subvert my own potential success for the good of Company X, which seems at best like a weird trade-off and at worst like some sort of cult;

2) That Company X doesn't want other people in my department to see what they could be making elsewhere, in which case see #1 for each of them and add to it a line of disingenuity to it too;

3) That Company X already knows that there are better competing jobs in the area (or close enough to threaten them anyway) and are taking internal action to prevent those threats from costing them employees in mass by trying to prevent employees from knowing about them, instead of raising pay/benefits to be more competitive

In any situation where a company is attempting to hide information of any kind, you can usually find a solid financial motive for doing so. I'm not saying that a company should always be paying everyone as much as they possibly can; obviously, each side of this table has their side to fight for. But if one of the sides is being dishonest about the facts then that side has already lost points going to that table; you say you'd fire me if I came to you with a job offer? Odds are that's known and I'm already on my way out, and whether you want to call it good or bad, that means you've lost me, and you're probably winding up to lose a few more.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by southphillyman on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:35AM (#14788812)
Yea this has been my experience. I usually don't mention that I have an offer but just ask for a meeting and explicitly ask for more money. I never get it and just hand in my 2 weeks about a week after the meeting. Maybe if I revealed that I had an offer I may have gotten a raise but I don't want to work somewhere where I need to "have leverage" to get what I deserve and what's fair.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gaius on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:53AM (#14787992)
you're name's likely to get further up the redundancy list than you'd probably like.

But you don't make PEOPLE redundant, only POSITIONS.

If you are using redundancies as cover to target individuals that have annoyed you, then you will be shortly staring at the business end of a tribunal.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by scaryclam on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:03AM (#14789147)
Sorry, I think you may have misunderstood me.

If a company has 10 developers and needs to cut down to 7, then the folks who have actively been interviewing in the near past are going to be considered more of a risk, especially by HR, who are likely to be making the list.

Hiring is an expensive endeavor, so if HR sees someone as a risk and they need to cut positions, you can bet that they're going to see it as a better thing to let employees who have a risk factor to them go than others who don't (on paper that is, no-one can know what's going to happen tomorrow).

They definitely don't want to cut the staff down and then have to go into a hiring stage soon after, because someone who was getting itchy feet decided to walk with another offer anyway.

This isn't about targeting people just because they want more money/fairer pay/more holiday/bonuses. It's just about how companies behave.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by Chris2048 on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:22AM (#14786831)
> I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

Sounds like it's still good advice if you won't fight for your employees to stay. The alternative to being upfront with your manager is just leaving when you think you can do better - many managers would prefer not to have the surprise.

> you're name's likely to get further up the redundancy list

Not my experience. In some cases, the employees able to leave easily are the better, or underpaid ones.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by pimmen on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:49AM (#14787971)
Don't see it as a threat, see it as me finding out what the market value is of my labor and then informing you about it. I'm going to do due diligence before asking for a raise, if our company was launching a product and I found out what the market value of it was you would presumably be thrilled. I work as hard for myself as I do for the company, just like I know that the company works as hard for our customers as we do for our shareholders.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by werber on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:32AM (#14786876)
I agree with telling your manager and hr you want to discuss your salary before dropping other offers on the table, but have the offers.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by alain94040 on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:18AM (#14788675)
There is a way to do this right [1] -- true story. Do not actively look to quit, instead, inform your manager that you are getting inbound requests with specific numbers and that you'd rather stay, but the numbers are what they are.

[1] https://medium.com/@alain94040/how-to-negotiate-a-raise-9166...

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by unethical_ban on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:23AM (#14788718)
As someone else put it well, it's a free market. The best way to know MY value in the market is to talk to other companies about openings and salary. So by coming to you, the manager, without doing that is to let you determine my market value without any other input. That's like the Ford dealer getting mad at me for going to other lots to find the best deal on a truck.

Relationships are important, sure, but you have to understand: management is not typically the friend of the worker, nor is HR.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by jaypaulynice on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:00AM (#14788043)
>In a lot of places, having a talk with your manager about your salary before going off and actively looking for other offers is going to go down a lot better

Business is business. If they find someone to replace you at a fraction of your salary they will do it at a drop of a hat. Your manager pbly gets a bonus for reducing spending...

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by TACIXAT on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:13AM (#14788163)
I'd much rather have an offer in hand in case I bring salary up and they shake my hand and wish me good luck.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by crdoconnor on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:39AM (#14787190)
>And TBH, if your company has to make cutbacks in the future and you've shown you're willing to up and leave at the drop of a hat, you're name's likely to get further up the redundancy list than you'd probably like.

Wouldn't that be a good thing if you actually can get a job at the drop of a hat? If the company is doing badly then staying is probably bad for your career, plus you often get a redundancy payout.

If anything, it's probably worse to be at the bottom of the list - that often means that you're viewed as a bargain - i.e. you're being grossly underpaid.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by naasking on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:32PM (#14790649)
> Most line managers worth working for, value their teams and will fight for them if they are unhappy, without the threats.

Demonstrating that you're undervalued is not a threat, it's feedback on how the market values your employees. You give feedback on how well your employees are serving the business right? Why shouldn't it work the other way around?

Your work is not your family, this isn't personal judgment or criticism, this is just business.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by threatofrain on Monday July 17, 2017 @05:45PM (#14792531)
From my perspective, management often doesn't have the information or tools to be an ally or intermediate to his or her subordinates, and trying to curate that relationship is a one-man effort, unless you have great influence at company leadership.

Some of the tools for a quid pro quo relationship that extends beyond mere money include being able to tell people about big moves so that their lives aren't caught off guard. Coworkers help each other out in this regard. But should management?

People make their plans around timing, geography, and revenue from employment, and when management doesn't reveal big layoffs, big real estate changes, or other big restructurings, people have to up-end their lives. Management knows this, but values some things more, such as the company health. In doing so they set the tone of the relationship.

Management isn't in the position to establish a rich and sincere relationship with employees. There's always an element of insincerity because management isn't telling you things that your coworker friend would, the coworker friend who calls you from another company after the layoffs, recommending you to hop ship to their company. Would management ever tell you to hop ship to Apple?

One might argue that management ought never be in a position to establish such rich and sincere relations. One gossiping manager and you might trigger an early exodus. Or a wave of salary conversation. So managers ought not even know the very information which would help their employees stabilize their life against the uncertainty.

Also, if leadership doesn't want a union, and plenty of world-class places don't like unions, what is management's position to play then? Obviously squash the union talk.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by coldtea on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:59AM (#14789075)
>I imagine this is good advice in some places, but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

Well, glad that people know that, so that they can wish the company good luck in getting second rate talent.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by fullstackhuman on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:47AM (#14788925)
> Most line managers worth working for, value their teams and will fight for them if they are unhappy, without the threats.

Most good line managers will recognise their employees contributions to the company and suggest a raise/additional compensation without needing to be prompted.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by scaryclam on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:14AM (#14789285)
Which is what the sentence you quoted means. Line managers aren't mind readers though so sometimes you'll need to talk to them about things.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by varelse on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:38AM (#14789527)
I would get the data first before approaching you and then lie about whether I had already done so. It's the sort of white lie that protects both parties. If your dog died that day, you might just fire me on the spot. Or if I'm making close to market rate, I should STFU and stop trying to microoptimize.

But if I have uncovered a huge pay discrepancy, you have already failed me. Both you and your HR department in fact. Sadly, I suspect that across many individuals, this is a winning strategy because most people don't actively manage their careers (to their detriment).

If the company has cutbacks, everyone's head is on the guillotine and it's time to jump ship anyway before the signal hits the employment market.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by _pmf_ on Monday July 17, 2017 @07:07AM (#14787358)
> I imagine this is good advice in some places, but as a line manager, if you pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in your new job.

A fool and his employees are soon parted.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by gutnor on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:02AM (#14787016)
> you're name's likely to get further up the redundancy list than you'd probably like.

Sure but at the same time, that's only going to be one of the many elements that influence your position on the list. Actually, as far as redundancies go, being treated as an individual instead of being handled in bulk with specific project/team means that you are already rather higher up or a key employee for some reason meaning either your are a political animal or with a very good negotiation position.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mcguire on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:47AM (#14788919)
I'm not sure about most places since I've been a contract employee for most of my career, but at my last employer, a large government contractor, extortion of this sort was literally the only way to get more than the nominal raise.

And TBH, if the company is making cutbacks, all of the competent people will be scurrying away first; you might as well be one of them.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by johnward on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:47AM (#14789602)
In my experience managers tend to have their hands tied as to what they can offer. You may get 3% if you ask for a raise. Companies tend to give managers more options when they are trying to keep an employee from jumping ship. This is all from my time with megacorps though.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by TurboHaskal on Monday July 17, 2017 @06:16AM (#14787082)

  > I imagine this is good advice in some places, but as a line manager, if you
  > pull this on me I'm more than likely to shake your hand and wish you luck in
  > your new job.
Fortunately for us not all line managers have such inflated egos and don't take such requests down to a personal level.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mamon on Monday July 17, 2017 @08:46AM (#14787960)
It's not ego, it's just "do not negotiate with terrorists" approach adapted to the workplace.

If you make such concession for one employee, the next day you'll have 5 others with similar demands.

EDIT: One more thing: the reason why it is often easier to get a raise by changing jobs instead of negotiating it in your current workplace is information asymmetry.

Your current employer knows you all too well, so it is hard to convince them to pay you more. Potential new employer does not know that much about you, plus they are in need of new employee so they are more likely to give you more money.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by pc86 on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:12AM (#14788146)
Well if you're paying half a dozen people below market, that's sort of to be expected, isn't it?

Management knows the market rate for a given role. Let's say a good-not-great senior developer (as in give them a code base and a quiet room and you've got substantive code on day 1 or 2) commands $100k cash comp to make the math easy. You take the job for 10% below market for whatever those reasons happen to be. Maybe your last job was only $95k but this one has a much better vacation/retirement package.

If you go to your boss after 6-12 months of being a good senior dev and a good employee (meaning all the admin nonsense that comes along with being an employee - meetings, timely communication, generally not being an asshole, etc) and say that market rate is $100k, you're getting paid $90k, and you'd like $100-105k, they know that's a fair ask. Whether they are willing and/or able to actually pay you that ask is another thing.

My point being that there's nothing "terroristic" about asking for what you're worth. You can do it without a competing offer, but often times a competing offer is the easiest way to get something close to a market rate number.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mamon on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:24AM (#14788246)
Who said anything about paying below market?

Illusory superiority[1] is a real issue - about 70% of people think they are above average, so they keep demanding above-market salaries.

Plus, as I mentioned in my previous post, other employers have harder time evaluating person's skills through interviews than a company that currently employs them. So they offer above-average salary to your average employees and by the time they realize that they overpaid for their skills it usually is too late, so they keep them on payroll anyway - that's basically how IT salary bubble works, most of the time :) (at least that's how it works in Poland, I don't know a thing about US job market)

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Illusory_superiority

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by UK-AL on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:32AM (#14788307)
It's not a illusion if they can get it.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by kazagistar on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:48AM (#14788932)
So what you are saying is that they can get and retain a higher salary elsewhere, but that isn't what they are worth? Sounds like the market is disagreeing with your price evaluation, and the market is more right then you are.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by matwood on Monday July 17, 2017 @11:51AM (#14789646)
The whole point of showing up with an offer is so that the market is known, and to avoid any delusions of grandeur.
Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by mamon on Monday July 17, 2017 @01:36PM (#14790675)
I honestly don't know what's the point of mentioning an offer to your current employer. If you have a better offer - take it, don't let me hold your career back, good luck, no hard feelings on my side.

From my experience the reason why employees who have another offer even bother to mention it to their current boss, asking for counter, is because that other offer has some serious downside that prevents them from just accepting it right away.

Anyway, I can probably replace you with someone that will gladly take your current salary. And if I can't and end up paying your replacement the money you demanded (or more) at least I'll be paying that to the guy who is happy to work for me, not to someone who is already actively looking for other jobs.

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by joncrocks on Monday July 17, 2017 @09:34AM (#14788319)
Following this argument to this logical conclusion, all your employees will leave, and you won't be able to hire anyone new.

If you're not offering similar compensation to other organisations, then anyone interviewing and getting offers from multiple places will likely not pick your organisation, unless you can compete on some other metric.

> the reason why it is often easier to get a raise by changing jobs instead of negotiating it in your current workplace is information asymmetry.

Yes, probably. Because without interviewing at other places you don't know what your skills might be worth, and your employer is probably not going to tell you how much your colleagues are getting paid and your 'boss' probably tells you "you're getting above industry average."

Re:Employees Who Stay in Companies Longer Than Two Years Get... by infinite8s on Monday July 17, 2017 @10:11AM (#14788625)
If your entire team is able to get competing offers higher than you are currently paying them, you have bigger problems (ie your entire team is likely underpaid compared to market rate)