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Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by rayiner on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:12PM (#12485400)
Learning how to do this is an essential skill. Most people are not idiots. If they disagree with you, it's probably not because they are being irrational, but because they're starting from a different premise, making different assumptions, or assigning different values to different aspects of the problem. Only when you understand their argument well enough to articulate it in your own words can you effectively present a counter-argument that has a chance of being persuasive.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by johngalt on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:29PM (#12485447)
Someone could also disagree with me because they are correct and I am in error. They may have knowledge or perspective that I lack.

My first step is to try and find something they know that I don't before crafting persuasive arguments. Maximize for total knowledge not winning arguments.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by zouhair on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:21AM (#12487456)
What I really dislike is when I calmly convince them that I am correct to just check later and find out that I was completely wrong.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by apathy on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:15AM (#12488977)
If you are interacting with the right people, a review of events will reveal that they gently led you to discover this.

I'm kind of pissed that I guy I disagreed with seems to have been banned here, for example. I was curious where he was coming from and whether my foundation was as shaky as his appeared to me. (I think it was a guy, but I'll never know)

The best teachers I've ever had simply laid out all the evidence they deemed relevant and had us make up our own minds. The conclusion was never really in doubt by the teachers, but the process of arriving at it independently was more important than the destination.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by chillacy on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @02:43AM (#12494680)
Unfortunately laying out the evidence is pretty powerful too. You have so many choices, from omission/overplaying of evidence to mislead the availability heuristic, to picking and choosing what sources are good and bad.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by apathy on Monday September 19, 2016 @02:22PM (#12533500)
this is also why critical thinking is more important than specific technical skills. The former allows you to generalize the latter, making them more powerful.

I started out as a chemist (undergrad), became a statistician (grad), and finally realized that I had to design, run, analyze and fund my own experiments if I wanted something resembling "the truth", 9 times out of 10.

But my undergrad English teacher made me realize that it's more powerful to plant the seed of an idea and water it with evidence (selectively presented or not) than to try and outright convince people, when you have the luxury of time. I hope that my students are smarter for it; I let them sink or swim by their own wits and I expect them to ask for help if they find they're out of their depth. It's how the real world tends to work anyways.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by collinmanderson on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @08:51AM (#12496310)
That's happened to me a few times. Kind of annoying. :)
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by skhnpnb on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:34AM (#12489164)
Yeah, that's the worst.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by afarrell on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:39AM (#12486248)
"So my current understanding (or perception) is..." Is one way that I like to open disagreements. It isn't ambiguous about the fact that we disagree, but it indicates that I am the open to changing my understanding based on new information.

EDIT: verb tense agreement

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by marklgr on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:31AM (#12486214)
The problem is that many people arguing think they are doing just that, going for total knowledge and not seeking to win arguments. It just happens that they believe they have better understood the point being discussed, and it is their duty to convince the other party, for the sake of knowledge.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by guscost on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:43PM (#12485493)
This is a great policy, but notice that the GP didn't mention correctness at all ;)
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by mcguire on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:33AM (#12488566)
As an aside, this approach fails badly when responding to an attack on a paper presentation at an academic conference.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by tomjen3 on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:13PM (#12489623)
The problem with that is sometimes you are arguing about a solution to a problem and eventually some solution must be chosen.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by xapata on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:50AM (#12488178)
That's an unexpected sentiment for the username John Galt. I was all set to write a rebuttal, but now I'm not sure what to say beyond expressing my surprise.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by jobu on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:23PM (#12485427)
Usually I try to resolve disagreements by asking questions. Either they end up poking holes in their own arguments or I learn where I made a mistake.

Telling someone they're wrong is useless. After that they can only think of reasons why they're correct.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by chris_va on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:30PM (#12485451)
I am not sure where I read the psych study (citation anyone?), but I remember reading that a really effective method for getting someone to change their mind was actually to get the other person to frame their argument as a question.

E.g., "What questions would you ask me to convince me that you are correct?" It opens up the argument so they are less defensive, since they started with a question instead of an argument.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Retra on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:56PM (#12485536)
I've learned plenty (and changed my mind many times) from having people simply tell me that I'm wrong.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by ehnto on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:18AM (#12485601)
I have found programmers to be far more receptive to blunt criticism than my other non-programmer friends. I think it's just a frame of mind to accept that will be wrong a lot and that is fine.

It would take a whole lot of cognitive dissonance to get through a decent sized software project and imagine it is all flawless or couldn't be even slightly better in some way.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by sergiosgc on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:07AM (#12486971)
I have also found a "reverse" effect. Engineers in general (not just software guys), tend to not assign blame to errors, especially in panic situations. People declare errors as a matter of fact ("the database load is beyond the roof"), not as a result of wrongful actions ("your commit thrashed the database").

Both ends of behavior are the result of being confronted often with error, be it caused by wrongful action or caused by externalities. When a circuit goes up in smoke, its just physics being a harsh mistress; getting angry about it is useless, so we just skip the blame/anger part.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by mcguire on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:47AM (#12488710)
I'm afraid I have to disagree, partially. In any given situation, you're right.

But it's often necessary to get programmers to change their behavior, since what they are doing is causing the problems, and programmers are no better than anyone else at changing behavior in response to criticism.

Design and code reviews are particular hot spots, which is why most I have seen had become just check offs.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by hcarvalhoalves on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:21AM (#12486176)
> I have found programmers to be far more receptive to blunt criticism than my other non-programmer friends.

The work of a programmer is to sit in front of a soulless machine that has no inhibition in telling the programmer made a mistake on his code at regular intervals.

You need to be pain intolerant to be a programmer, while in other roles pain avoidance is the norm.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by namaemuta on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:06AM (#12486734)
Actually, a machine never accuses you of being the responsible of that error. It usually says "there's an error in the line..." but never addresses it towards the programmer even though they know that they are the responsible ones of that mistake.

And in fact, that is one of the techniques of conflict management between partners, addressing the problem instead of finding the responsible of it.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by shostack on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:13AM (#12487004)
Sounds like an opportunity for a more opinionated error logging tool...

"@Dave, you seem to have made yet another type error on line 56. @jon recently committed code that didn't fail any integration tests. Why can't you be more like @jon?"

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by namaemuta on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:20AM (#12487444)
Hmm... I wonder what would be the implications of one with positive reinforcement:

"Wow @Dave! that's the smartest code I've ever seen! just one thing, there's a probably-not-that-important error on line 56"

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by RodgerTheGreat on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:42AM (#12489273)
Positive reinforcement which is perceived as insincere will at best have no effect and at worst be seriously insulting. I can't imagine how an automated system which says vaguely positive things about code that it cannot understand would be seen as anything but insincere.

If you build a system which successfully encourages actual humans to say nice things about one another's code _and mean it_ while incorporating constructive feedback, it would work beautifully, but that is a markedly more challenging problem...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by thisone on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:18AM (#12485968)
If you think you are wrong, and someone tells you that you are wrong, you are being proved right.

It's not much different to my mind, and I fall into that camp of people who always think they're wrong.

Try to tell me I'm completely right, I'll argue with you why I'm not

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by emodendroket on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:17AM (#12487891)
Yes, but even then, they are often even more receptive to criticism that goes beyond calling them and their work stupid.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dredmorbius on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:23AM (#12485988)
I employ that tactic as well, though even it fails to proceed with distressing frequency.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by andrepd on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:19AM (#12487043)
>Most people are not idiots. If they disagree with you, it's probably not because they are being irrational, but because they're starting from a different premise, making different assumptions, or assigning different values to different aspects of the problem.

This is probably one of the most insightful things you can ever read. Internalise this and your whole way of approaching others will be changed. This is valid for arguments and discussions, but really for interpersonal relationships in general.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by cristianpascu on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:40AM (#12487136)
I too agree wholeheartedly. It took me many years (35yo now) to learn this, the very hard way, on internet and specially in life. A MD in Philosophy helped a lot, or it's been actually essential for my life path.

Interesting, given that I'm a 'creationist idiot' (I won't go into details), I never actually debate this with anyone that doesn't have the theological (and hermeneutical skills) necessary to understand WHY on this old Earth someone would think it's young. It's a complex problem, touching on many areas and, yes, very stupid arguments can be brought up in favor and against specific flavors of creationism.

BUT, regarding ID (which is often breathlessly conflated with creationism), when I talk with people that have the philosophical expertise to understand it (but not agree with it), I have only met respectful attitudes. This is not to say that it convinces me I'm right in what I believe. I'm still the kind of skeptics that gives plausibility percentages to his beliefs.

Regarding life in general, no amount of patience will harm you.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dalke on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:12AM (#12487849)
> "ID (which is often breathlessly conflated with creationism),"

I think you do a misfavor by using the phrase "breathlessly conflated" in a comment which supports being aware that others may be "starting from a different premise", etc.

It doesn't help that the authors of a "Of Pandas and People", an ID textbook, effectively did a search and replace in early drafts of "creationism" with "intelligent design", and "intelligent creator" to "intelligent agency", after Edwards v. Aguillard settled that teaching creationism in public schools was not constitutional. One of the famous examples is how "creationalist" became "cdesign proponentsists". https://ncse.com/creationism/legal/cdesign-proponentsists .

Quoting the judge in Kitzmiller v. Dover:

> By comparing the pre and post Edwards drafts of Pandas, three astonishing points emerge: (1) the definition for creation science in early drafts is identical to the definition of ID; (2) cognates of the word creation (creationism and creationist), which appeared approximately 150 times, were deliberately and systematically replaced with the phrase ID; and (3) the changes occurred shortly after the Supreme Court held that creation science is religious and cannot be taught in public school science classes in Edwards. This word substitution is telling, significant, and reveals that a purposeful change of words was effected without any corresponding change in content ....

While certainly ID is different from creationism (it can allow extraterrestrials as the intelligent designer, and not just a deity), it "cannot uncouple itself from its creationist, and thus religious, antecedents." (Quoting Dover.)

Those starting from a different premise from you, that is, that ID is a smokescreen for creationism which uses the language of science to get around constitutional restrictions of what can be taught in schools, would not consider this as a real distinction but rather a deliberately introduced confusion. For them, it would not be a breathless conflation, but an indicator that the social and religious basis of ID as a creationist movement is more relevant than the details of its doctrine, which they also believe to be a incorrect interpretation of the evidence.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by DigitalJack on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:39AM (#12488073)
There are no constitutional restrictions on what can be taught in schools.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by annnnd on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:04AM (#12488304)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Edwards_v._Aguillard

"Edwards v. Aguillard, 482 U.S. 578 (1987) was a U.S. Supreme Court case concerning the constitutionality of teaching creationism. The Court ruled that a Louisiana law requiring that creation science be taught in public schools, along with evolution, violated the Establishment Clause of the First Amendment because the law was specifically intended to advance a particular religion."

In the spirit of the OP's article, let me say that I wholeheartedly agree with you, but you might want to look at this from another perspective... ;-D

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by tomjen3 on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:23PM (#12489738)
Brown vs Board of education overturned Plessy vs Fergusson. The court eventually overturned itself agreed that US citizens have the right to write pamflets arguing against a draft was not shouting fire in a crowded theater (rather than outlaw that, one would think it would be better to make them safe from fire, but that is an aside).

Point being SCOTUS can even agree with itself. It has the power of the gun, which means we may care about its position, but hardly that it is right.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by DigitalJack on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:48AM (#12488722)
The constitution has meaning apart from whatever a given Supreme Court says. They try to decipher it, but they don't create its meaning.

We may be bound legally by their ruling, but that is simply a matter of law and tradition. The Supreme Court does not itself have a constitutional mandate to decide on the meaning of the constitution and the constitutionality of laws. It started when a chief justice decided that is what the court was going to do in 1803, and everyone went along with it.

The concepts of case law and judicial review are simply traditions of our legal system.

The constitutional clause in question says that "Congress shall make no law respecting an establishment of religion, or prohibiting the free exercise thereof..." That to me seems to say the government shouldn't be screwing with it one way or the other.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dalke on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:57PM (#12490114)
While we could have an engaging conversation on judicial review in the US, including the implied powers derived from Article III and Article VI, the Federalist papers, the state ratification debates, and English common law, I prefer to point to https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judicial_review_in_the_United_... .

I do disagree with your statement that Chief Justice Marshall 'decided that is what the court was going to do', as the everyone in the ratification debate, including the Anti-Federalists, believed that federal courts could find a statue to be unconstitutional. Marbury v. Madison was the first to exercise that power. The 1796 case of Hylton v. United States, under Chief Justice Ellsworth, shows that judicial review for constitutionality was not new to Marshall.

My earlier comment was "after Edwards v. Aguillard settled that teaching creationism in public schools was not constitutional". I believe this is clearly in the context of the post-Marbury v. Madison tradition of the last 200 years.

Your followup comment was "There are no constitutional restrictions on what can be taught in schools." As you are coming from a different tradition, and a distinctly minority and non-influential one, I think you would have been more clear had you written "The Constitution doesn't say the Supreme Court has the right to decide what can be taught in schools."

Otherwise, we were under the incorrect belief that summarizing Edwards v. Aguillard would be enough to show that your statement was incorrect.

Under the US legal tradition since the early 1960s, schools are not part of a free exercise of religion. See Engel v. Vitale, Abington School District v. Schempp, and related cases dealing with prayer in school for the logic.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by emodendroket on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:26PM (#12489765)
It seems a little unreasonable to insist on a way of thinking about Constitutional law that has been moribund since John Jay's term and this role of the Court's fits fairly well into the common-law framework we've inherited from England.

It also doesn't seem clear to me how setting up a curriculum (a legal act, after all) can't be covered by that text, unless you want to go back and argue it is only concerned with preventing a church becoming literally "established" like the Anglican Church is in England.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dragonwriter on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:38PM (#12489911)
> The Supreme Court does not itself have a constitutional mandate to decide on the meaning of the constitution and the constitutionality of laws.

I disagree. The judicial branch, within which the Supreme Court is established as the paramount actor, has the Constitutional role of resolving all cases and controversies arising under the Constitution and laws of the United States, which cases and controversies often, in their resolution, require determining the meaning of the Constitution and laws of the United States.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dragonwriter on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:41PM (#12489949)
> There are no constitutional restrictions on what can be taught in schools.

There are Constitutional restrictions on both what government can cause to be taught in public schools and the techniques which government can direct be used to teach those things, arising through the various provisions of the Constitution that constrain the powers of States, particularly the 14th Amendment.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by emodendroket on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:15AM (#12487878)
I'm curious what your position is. Young-Earth creationism plus evolution? Or something different? I can't quite discern it from your post.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by jandrese on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:18PM (#12490883)
It's probably best not to go any further down this discussion tree in this thread. This issue has a tendency to dominate the discussion whenever it appears, derailing the original conversation entirely.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by woodandsteel on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:30PM (#12493096)
Perhaps you could post a link to some place that expresses a view similar to yours.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by BatFastard on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:07AM (#12488911)
>Regarding life in general, no amount of patience will harm you.

It depends on what you consider "harm", while you may not physical be harmed, you can sure waste a lot of your life trying to explain concepts that people are not willing to hear.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by alsetmusic on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:58AM (#12485734)
> Only when you understand their argument...

I couldn't agree more.

As a lifelong believer in science, raised in the Midwest among creationists, I have come into many conversations with intelligent people who somehow place faith in front of evidence. It's demoralizing to realize the frequency that this phenomenon occurs. I've recently scheduled a trip to the Creation Museum to observe the message at its core (half for a laugh, half to better understand my opponents in future debates).

Of course, a visit to the Natural History Museum, NY, is on the same itinerary for balance.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by vintermann on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:22AM (#12486179)
Imagine that there's a meteor heading towards earth. All evidence suggests that it will hit in three days, and wipe out all multicellular life - it's a big one.

What do you do? How do you live your life your last three days?

One school of thought says, disregard the evidence. Assert, against it all, that the meteor is going to miss. Or if that's hard, decide to trust someone who asserts it (this is usually easier).

This is arguably rational. If you're wrong, it won't matter, and you'll probably feel less awful your last three days.

I think creationist's thinking is something like this:

1. If evolution is true, then God is not. 2 Without a creator's purpose, existence is meaningless. 3. If existence is meaningless, you might as well assume it has a meaning, (because that's no less meaningless than anything else!).

To argue against a creationist, it's probably best - or at least, most efficient - to argue against the first stage in that chain of reasoning. If you want to argue against all theists, you can argue against the second.

If you want to argue against all non-nihilists, I guess you can argue against the third, but that is ... literally pointless either way.

So the third point is a good thing to concede in arguments with creationists (and theists, if you insist).

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by gambiting on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:31AM (#12486442)
"I think creationist's thinking is something like this: 1. If evolution is true, then God is not."

Serious question - is this US-specific line of thinking? Because I was raised in Poland, which is ultra-religious and if you aren't a catholic you will be ostracized from your community, and yet evolution was NEVER questioned in my education, and I went to private catholic schools. It's widely accepted by everyone, I think even the pope supports it. Obviously, it's accepted in the line of "evolution is real, but God probably helped a bit along the way", but still, I don't know anyone crazy enough to say evolution is not real. And yet the assumption I always hear on HN and reddit is that if you are religious you don't believe in evolution - how come?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:22AM (#12486596)
This is mostly a US affliction, but spreading. Not catholic though - about two popes ago the pope issued a paper saying evolution was god's method and that the science was revealing the glory of God's work.

The problem in parts of the US is that some religious leaders decided, quite explicitly, to use evolution to drive a wedge between modern, 'materialist', scientific thinking and their followers. I think this is because they could forsee their congregations falling as more people became better informed and drifted away from religion. So they found a way to make it "us or them" and forge a new sort of unity through opposition. Unfortunately it took hold quite well and has been spread outside the US by US influenced churches and pastors.

Edit - this is part of it - https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wedge_strategy

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by bonoboTP on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:22AM (#12487051)
In Europe, even religious people don't take their religion seriously. It's rather a personal, cultural thing, something that makes one's soul feel good, something that creates communities, gives hope and consolation etc. It's put in a totally different sphere than worldly matters, like science, physics, biology etc. Religious talks even at ceremonies is always about how humans feel (and of course endlessly repeating the story of Jesus). But they don't usually touch topics that "smell" scientific and fact-like.

But this is quite a new development. It's hard for us to appreciate it, but there are other conceptions of religion's role in life. In the US, many religious people believe that things in the Bible literally describe how stuff is, it's not just an allegory or metaphor to help people in their lives. (Or similarly in Islam, the religion is not separate from all other aspects of life, but an inseparable part, without which nothing else makes sense).

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dagw on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:28AM (#12487079)
is this US-specific line of thinking?

Indirectly. Creationism is really only a thing within certain subsets of baptist and evangelical branches of Christianity, and these branches haven't take a large hold in Europe, whereas in the US they've flourished. Catholics have never really gone for it, even in the US, as far as I'm aware.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dragonwriter on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:59PM (#12493246)
> Catholics have never really gone for it, even in the US, as far as I'm aware.

Catholics haven't gone for it the way certain branches of Protestantism have because adhering to Young Earth creationism in the face of empirical evidence to the contrary is largely, in those branches of Protestantism, a defense of a particular extreme form of a sola scriptura (a Protestant doctrine which directly contrasts with Catholicisms dual role for scripture and tradition) with Biblical literalism (which is likewise not a Catholic doctrine.)

There are Young Earth Creationists in the Catholic Church, but its a matter of personal belief that is far removed from the core doctrine and identity of the Church.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by astine on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:37PM (#12491054)
I was raised Catholic. There is a subset who have definitely gone for creationism. They know that they are not obliged by the Church to believe in the literal story of genesis, but they still prefer it for various reasons.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by woodandsteel on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:36PM (#12493128)
I have read that there are Muslims, at least in other countries, who are young-earth creationists and anti-darwinists.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by pif on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:29AM (#12486826)
> I was raised in Poland, which is ultra-religious

I grew up in Italy. No comment needed, I suppose :-)

Still science is science, and religion is religion. They manage to live together in (enough) harmony. But idiot thesis like creationism are never given any more credit than a promise by a politician in the last days before an election.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by bonoboTP on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:50AM (#12486294)
It's one of the usual arguments for ignoring the "simulation argument".

I think there's a bigger problem with the religious version that you presented. Namely, for any religion/concept of God, you can imagine another one that wants you to do opposite things. How do you know which God's existence to assume? You're back to trying to find evidence for one God against another God. In practice, this would probably also provide evidence against the claim that "no Gods exist". It's hard to think of evidence of the form "If there's a God, it probably wants X as opposed to not X." that really needs that pre-condition.

So the religious person may just as well go back to trying to gather evidence for God against no-God, because they need to gather evidence for God against the God-that-desires-opposite-things anyway.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:20AM (#12486588)
>Namely, for any religion/concept of God, you can imagine another one that wants you to do opposite things. How do you know which God's existence to assume?

In some religions, the relation with God is a tangible and personal one. God "speaks to you" so to speak.

So you just "know" -- you're not starting from evaluating random entities against each other as if they're all equal.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by bonoboTP on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:09AM (#12486976)
Exactly. But then this is already "evidence" to them about the existence of God. Such people have no need to ponder that "If evolution is true then there's no meaning in life so that case is uninteresting, so therefore let's believe in God since then life is meaningful".

If God "speaks to you", you already "know" he exists. This was precisely what I tried to point out in my previous comment. If you have a method to pick out a particular God out of all possible Gods, then this method (or something related) can also be used to reject atheism directly. There's no need for the elaborate argument that I responded to.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by pif on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:35AM (#12486850)
> If evolution is true, then God is not.

By the way, this is disputable. I'm not denying that idiots/creationists use this argument; I question the argument itself.

If evolution is true, a literary interpretation of the Bible is not. Still, evolution can be seen as a wonderful present from a "superior intelligence".

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by nathan_long on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @11:05AM (#12497642)
I'm a Christian who finds evidence for evolution pretty strong. http://biologos.org/ is an organization promoting this general view.

I also find the evidence for Christ's resurrection quite strong. "The Case for Christ" by Lee Strobel is a book that lays it out well (though I'm not a huge fan of the literary approach).

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by lazyant on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:30AM (#12488532)
Catholic Church is OK with evolution if you make humans a special case; as long as you believe God gave ("created") humans a spiritual soul.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by biofox on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:56AM (#12486312)
This is one of the simplest, and most useful, explanations for religious belief I've seen. Thank you!

There's a tendency to write off creationists and theists as completely irrational and stupid, without giving any thought to their motivations.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by GFischer on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:59PM (#12491692)
It sounds like a variant of Pascal's Wager - and Pascal himself is widely regarded as extremely intelligent, as the article states :)

http://plato.stanford.edu/entries/pascal-wager/

http://www.iep.utm.edu/pasc-wag/

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pascal%27s_Wager

edit: I missed jahnu's post inmediately below, with a similar theme "That's the essence of Pascal's Wager"

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12486377

edit2: and mcguire

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12488731

So I guess I should say "me too"

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by vintermann on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @02:25AM (#12494618)
I assume you speak about the third step, that if you suspect existence may meaningless, you might as well assume it has a meaning, because if you were correct it doesn't matter that you are wrong anyway (by definition).

I don't think it's like Pascal's wager, because there's no need for probability here, and you're not trying to avoid any bad outcome. I think it's more like how Pascal rejected the concern that he might be insane (if you ask yourself "how do I know I'm not crazy?" you're basically already assuming you're not crazy).

But, I haven't actually read all of Pascal's Pensees. What extracts I have read of it suggests to me that he's heavily straw-manned both by later philosophers and people writing about it today, so for all I know the "wager" was more like this, too.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by humanrebar on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:41AM (#12486872)
It's interesting that they haven't been well-presented here, so we shouldn't get too self-congratulatory.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by jahnu on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:13AM (#12486377)
That's the essence of Pascal's Wager.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pascal%27s_Wager

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by antihero on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:58AM (#12488831)
Isn't using Pascal's wager to support faith kind of broken due to the idea that for any possibility that there's a God who rewards you with a happy life for belief in them, there's an equal possibility that there's an evil God, who punishes you for belief in them?
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by jandrese on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:21PM (#12490904)
Pascal's wager also supposes that faith is "free". It doesn't factor in the cost like having to dismiss all modern notions of Biology in certain cases. You have to weigh the chance of eternal damnation against the possibility of wasting your only life (no afterlife) laboring under false pretenses.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by vintermann on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:54AM (#12486926)
I'm all too used to my argument being put in a box and dismissed with a standard argument for that box. But please don't do that, OK?

Hell is nowhere in this chain of argument. God arguably is, but that's in step 2. It's step 3 which may kinda, sorta remind you of Pascal's Wager, but it's only an argument against nihilism, not even for theism.

Yes, conceding step 3 leaves wide open the question of what to believe in instead of nihilism. Even conceding step 2 leaves open the question of "what sort of god are we talking about". But this is precisely the point. That means you can argue these things separately, while still acknowledging your opponent's ultimate concern.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by jahnu on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:37AM (#12487573)
I'm not dismissing anything. Just pointing people to a relevant interesting page. Try not to be too hasty to read arguments into comments where there are none :)
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by mayank10j on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:49AM (#12486497)
The point of article is if you start any discussion with outright declaring someone wrong, there is no chance of you changing their thoughts. So you are right we have to start by conceding some points. Like in any negotiation you win by little bit of give and take.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by scardine on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:53AM (#12487713)
Existence IS meaningless, this is the very beauty of it: you can give it any meaning you want.

You can even give your superego a face and think there is a big guy in the sky that loves you and cares about what you do.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by nathan_long on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @11:14AM (#12497751)
> Existence IS meaningless, this is the very beauty of it: you can give it any meaning you want.

Although you have to concede quite a lot. When you feel awe at the stars, or the exhilaration of love, or burning anger at injustice, you must tell yourself, "this feeling is just an adaptive delusion; there's nothing good about caring or wrong about rape and murder per se, I just happen not to like them because I'm That Sort of Mammal".

If you say "existence is meaningless, morality doesn't exist" and in the next breath say anything about what people should or shouldn't do, including whether they should believe in God, I respectfully submit that it's inconsistent to do so. (Not that you should mind inconsistency.) This is my beef with people like Dawkins: if he's right, everything he says is utterly pointless.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by scardine on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @10:49PM (#12502976)
That is why I never talk about what people should or should not do - I talk only about some mind tricks that work for me.

That said, I can concede a lot without pretending the universe somehow cares for me. I eat good food, and drink good wine, and just enjoy everything I have.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by donutz on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:12AM (#12488951)
If you have no meaning, how can you have any to give?
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by scardine on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @10:31PM (#12502907)
You just make up some meaning from thin air. All meaning is made up. Meaning is a human construct, as any other concept.

Even if you disagree with me, you may concede that for all practical means the universe is infinite and the human mind is finite. Since something finite can't contain the infinite, how foolish would I be if I pretend to understand the universe?

Not that I agree with the creationists, I would love to believe that I'm special because some big guy in the sky gave me life. It is a comforting idea, but in order to accept the concept of an anthropomorphic god you have to believe that humans are somehow special, and this is very pretentious. I'm living in this tiny little rock floating in space which existence is barely a drop in the ocean of time. I'm not special except in the minds of the few people that manage to like me.

But I will not pretend my own version of god is less made-up: the Tao we talk about is not the real Tao.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by mcguire on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:49AM (#12488731)
Hey! That's Pascal's wager.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:18AM (#12486581)
>I have come into many conversations with intelligent people who somehow place faith in front of evidence.

Which can be a very intelligent and rational thing to do. It all depends on the end goal ("discover how the world actually works" vs "calm your soul through belief in a higher power", etc.).

People can do very stupid things (dangerous to them, to the detriment of their health, social relations, etc) in pursuit of evidence. And very smart things based on faith.

Again, it depends on the end goal.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by AstralStorm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:50PM (#12490041)
If the goal is irrational, the method to achieve it does not matter.

Ex falso quod libet.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Wednesday September 14, 2016 @09:14AM (#12496498)
>If the goal is irrational, the method to achieve it does not matter.

That's actually patently false. I might have an irrational goal of driving a Ferrari while pouring ketchup on my head, but not all methods are equally capable of realising it.

And of course, if I break into a bank and steal money as the method to get the Ferrari I could be put to jail (either before or after realizing my dream) -- so the method absolutely does matter.

>Ex falso quod libet

That is about logical statements -- it says nothing about methods of realising a goal, except if your goal is to build correct logical propositions.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dilemma on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:02AM (#12487312)
Your worldview informed by contemporary scientific theories is faith-based. What we believe in today will eventually be proven fundamentally flawed and we'll look no better than the average church goer.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by alanwatts on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:34AM (#12488026)
"Modern science is based on the principle: ‘Give us one free miracle, and we’ll explain the rest.’ The one free miracle is the appearance of all the mass and energy in the universe and all the laws that govern it in a single instant from nothing"
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:18AM (#12489002)
That's nonsense.

Modern science is based on gathering information and forming ideas and hypotheses around it. The origins of matter and energy are an active area of investigation, not a guilty secret.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Karunamon on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:37AM (#12489217)

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And yet, that information is not forthcoming, and those hypotheses effectively infinite.

"Guilty secret" is an uncharitable reading of the parent post, I'd say more out of the realm of scientific inquiry and more the philosophical. It's like asking "what was there before time existed?" - the scientific answer is null because that's a nonsense question - "before" implies the existence of a "time" to count it.

And yet, if the universe suddenly exists at T+0:00, it'll be impossible for science to understand the conditions at T-0:01 because that information does not exist given consensus understanding of time.

Still, we can comprehend the concept of "before time existed" on some abstract level, but the sciences cannot, absent some external source of information that a scientist must necessarily reject until it appears.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:28PM (#12489809)
It rather depends. There are branches of physics (m-branes, multi-universe, some offshoots of string theory) that could possibly have answers to this, should they figure out ways to test and measure such things. They are somewhere in the realm of philosophy or mathematical conjecture until that point though.

And potentially that pushes the question back further - so where did all that come from?

I took issue with the initial post because it sounded conspiratorial, and it also sounded like there was a huge cop-out at the centrw of everything that people were trying to ignore. On the contrary - it's very interesting and it's no shame or revelation to say "we don't know yet, and we don't know if we ever will"

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by alanwatts on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:46PM (#12491114)
>sounded like there was a huge cop-out at the centrw of everything that people were trying to ignore.

Yes, like that of the post which I was directing my response towards:

>As a lifelong believer in science...

Science is fundamentally hypothetical, not something to be sure of.

Believe: to accept (something) as true; feel sure the truth of.

"Believing in science" or "believing in creationism" are both opposed to your statement (which I agree with), because they do not leave room for doubt:

>we don't know yet, and we don't know if we ever will

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Artoemius on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:18AM (#12485788)
Sorry, most people are indeed not idiots, but that doesn't apply to creationists.

It's one thing to go to a church (there even might be purely social reasons), and it's another thing to discard overwhelming scientific evidence and believe something based on the principle of not needing any evidence at all. I become especially sad when I think of the confused minds of the poor children of these people.

On the topic, I've found The God Delusion by Richard Dawkins a very enlightening read if one wishes to understand the arguments of religious people.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by donw on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:39AM (#12486039)
The point is not that creationism is an obvious case of twisting the facts to fit theories.

It is that, if you want to have any hope of bringing a creationist over to your side, you need to be able to understand and articulate both their arguments, and their point of view.

If you can establish that you understand them, they are going to be a lot more receptive to you asking the hard questions about their beliefs (this is best done by asking them to convince you to be a creationist, and then asking those hard questions).

Calling those people idiots does nothing other than give them a legitimate reason to dislike both you, and by extension, other people that "believe in evolution".

Somewhat related to that, creationists tend to be deeply religious, so books like The God Delusion -- which I very much enjoyed, by the way -- are almost guaranteed to turn off a creationist. It would be better to recommend books that explain evolution through a Christian world-view, as they will have a much easier time relating to the material.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by 72deluxe on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:31AM (#12486445)
If we replace "creationists" with "Apple users" in the first sentence, is this still acceptable comment here on HN?

Personally I think the God Delusion by Dawkins is as far from my perspective as could be possible, so I would not recommend it as a book for people to understand "religious people" (as if you could pigeon hole people like that!). Blanket stereotyping forgets about individuals.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:22AM (#12486595)
>Sorry, most people are indeed not idiots, but that doesn't apply to creationists.

You'd be surprised.

You can easily find creationists with higher IQ than you, that can out-solve problems in your field faster than you.

And the same for most categories one can dismiss as "idiots", except people with verifiable cognitive impairment.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:34AM (#12486638)
I think the post you reply to is saying that the fact that someone believes fervently in creation over evolution actually makes them an idiot, regardless of IQ.

This would be because it is a firm rejection of scientific evidence in favour of belief. Not all forms of faith and belief require you to reject evidence, mind, but this one most certainly does.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dagw on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:38AM (#12487128)
I knew a very smart and successful scientist doing biochemistry research at a pharma company who fell squarely in the Intelligent Design camp. Rather than seeing it as a wholesale abandonment of science they simply felt that the evidence of the prevailing scientific view was not that strong, and that ID offered firmer theory for the beginning/evolution of life than any other theory.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:45AM (#12487170)
In which case they were wrong, and most likely trying to reconcile their religious leanings with their self-image.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dagw on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:53AM (#12487240)
Well sure, but that doesn't make him an idiot.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:05AM (#12487332)
Depends on your definition. People called me an idiot (well, my partner did) when I hit myself in the hand with a hammer, really hard, while fossil hunting. So hard I had to go to hospital...

But in other respects I'm at least a reasonably intelligent software engineer!

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:34AM (#12486846)
>I think the post you reply to is saying that the fact that someone believes fervently in creation over evolution actually makes them an idiot, regardless of IQ.

That stretches the definition of an idiot considerably.

>This would be because it is a firm rejection of scientific evidence in favour of belief.

That could be beneficial for one's emotional health (belief in higher power and all that) and thus the smart thing to do in some cases.

Who said "identifying reality correctly" is the smarter thing to do? Sometimes, not being too logical can have great benefits.

Here's an old argument for this:

>Origin of the Logical. — Where has logic originated in men's heads? Undoubtedly out of the illogical, the domain of which must originally lave been immense. But numberless beings who reasoned otherwise than we do at present, perished; albeit that they may have come nearer to truth than we! Whoever, for example, could not discern the "like" often enough with regard to food, and with regard to animals dangerous to him, whoever, therefore, deduced too slowly, or was too circumspect in his deductions, had smaller probability of survival than he who in all similar cases immediately divined the equality. The preponderating inclination, however, to deal with the similar as the equal — an illogical inclination, for there is nothing [100%] equal to another — created the whole basis of logic. It was just so (in order that the conception of [a shared] substance should originate, this being indispensable to logic, although in the strictest sense nothing actual corresponds to it) that for a long period the changing process in things had to be overlooked, and remain unperceived. The beings not seeing correctly [and saw similar things as "same" and static] had an advantage over those who saw everything "in flux". In itself every high degree of circumspection in conclusions, every sceptical inclination, is a great danger to life. No living being might have been preserved unless the contrary inclination — to affirm rather than suspend judgment, to mistake and fabricate rather than wait, to assent rather than deny, to decide rather than be in the right — had been cultivated with extraordinary assiduity. The course of logical thought and reasoning in our modern brain corresponds to a process and struggle of impulses, which singly and in themselves are all very illogical and unjust ; we experience usually only the result of the struggle, so rapidly and secretly does this primitive mechanism now operate in us.

(Friedrich Nietzsche, Gaya Scienza -- with small edits in [] to make the excerpt clearer)

And here's a newer one:

>Hoffman: Right. The classic argument is that those of our ancestors who saw more accurately had a competitive advantage over those who saw less accurately and thus were more likely to pass on their genes that coded for those more accurate perceptions, so after thousands of generations we can be quite confident that we’re the offspring of those who saw accurately, and so we see accurately. That sounds very plausible. But I think it is utterly false. It misunderstands the fundamental fact about evolution, which is that it’s about fitness functions—mathematical functions that describe how well a given strategy achieves the goals of survival and reproduction. The mathematical physicist Chetan Prakash proved a theorem that I devised that says: According to evolution by natural selection, an organism that sees reality as it is will never be more fit than an organism of equal complexity that sees none of reality but is just tuned to fitness. Never.

http://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2016/04/the-illus...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:48AM (#12486896)
The specific problem with creationism and "ID" is that they claim to have objective facts but are actually faith. They do not embrace the irrational as you seem to be encouraging. Quite the opposite - they dress up in the clothes of scientific argument whilst actually rejecting the method, yet claim to have objective truth.

And personally, yeah, I think anyone that can't cope with reality as it is, that needs comforting fictions of higher powers, is de-facto weaker and worse off.

The scientific method has advanced our society immeasurably. Evolutionarily speaking our rationality and logical thought has given us such amazing success it's hard to see how that is supportable at all. It's also not clear what they mean by "tuned to fitness" there. He seems to consider that abstractions and shortcuts are the same as unreality, which appears orthogonal to this debate.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:20AM (#12487448)
You might want to remember that while scientific method is pretty useful, it does has a weakness. It has all the bases covered except for the hypothesis.

Where do hypothesis come from?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:46AM (#12487648)
From hunches, partial observations, suggestions from prior research, various other sources of questions about what may or may not be correct that warrants further investigation.

I'm not sure how that's a weakness?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:15AM (#12488406)
My point is to make you think about bootstrapping the hypothesis issue.

Yes, an intelligent agent will do exactly what you suggested. And by the way, what you said was exactly a hypothesis. What exactly did you do to generate it? Where did that text/ideas come from?

When you come to the bottom of it you'll probably find something that you can't explain. You'll have to think about something and that will lead to something else and so on.

The scientific method is just a means of communicating ideas to other people. But, can you use scientific method on itself? That is, can you communicate a scientific method to generate scientific methods (basically only the hypothesis) for a particular subject? What about "hunches"? Can I have them?

If you can, you hit jackpot. But if you don't, then you might want to think more about discarding the unexplainable.

Go beyond that and try to imagine an 4d or 5d space. Then extrapolate and do a bijection from that to understanding what God is. Why do you think that you can do that? What does this prove about all this thing?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:40AM (#12488636)
I'm sorry I don't know what you're talking about any more.

You seem to be trying to say that the use of hunches and soft knowledge to form the basis of inquiry and test somehow contradicts or weakens the idea that the world around us can be best understood by the scientific method.

"Hypothesis" is not knowledge, nor are such generated by magic, and they only become knowledge when tested (or contradicted).

As for the last bit, sorry you've degenerated into talking nonsense.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:48AM (#12488726)
Let's go from "hypothesis" are not being generated by magic.

I'm asking: how can I generate hypothesis? Are you in possession of a scientific method for generating hypothesis? Can you share it?

Scientific method can do so much but I guess you have made up your mind already.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:54AM (#12488783)
And I'm asking you why that's important?

Hypothesis is not knowledge until tested.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:10AM (#12488933)
Without hypothesis you don't have scientific method on a particular subject. This is the weakness I was talking about.

Since you can't use scientific method to bootstrap itself - as far as anyone can tell - this is enough to question scientific method's ability to resolve _all_ issues and declare any result on things not applicable to it.

Is this important? You tell me. You may find it useful not to apply unsuitable methods to all situations.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:22AM (#12489044)
Why does a hypothesis need to be defined by the scientific method? I can pull an idea out of my butt (all grasshoppers are blue!), state it formally as a hypothesis and then apply scientific investigation to it. I don't see this bootstrap problem you're talking about.

Scientific method likely cannot resolve all possible categories of question, no. Empiricism is a fundamental assumption, that things are repeatable and hold true under investigation.

However this is a very different sort of assumption to the rejection of evidence based on faith that is implicit to creationism. One is our best effort to understand the world around us, the other is wilful ignorance.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Karunamon on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:45AM (#12489300)
Why does a hypothesis need to be defined by the scientific method?

Because a thing which you believe and yet is not defined by the scientific method (or rather, empiricism) is known as "faith", a concept which you and the rest of this thread has spent a good deal of energy attacking.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:47AM (#12489332)
A hypothesis is not something that you believe though, it is something subject to test.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Karunamon on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:50AM (#12489361)
And yet before you test it (if you get around to testing it, and you have the ability and resource to do so), it's just another thing you believe might be the cause of some effect.

In other words, it has no empirical base. It's an idea. A thought, held in the belief that some future action by you or others may prove it correct.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:55AM (#12489422)
Sure, it's an idea, it's not something you believe anything about though, that's a fundamental misunderstanding of the concept. A hypothesis is a statement of a possibility to be investigated and either upheld or invalidated. It is in no way equivalent to a belief.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Karunamon on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:58AM (#12489464)
I'm not seeing the substantial difference between those two things, aside from the unrelated-to-my-point variable of how much the idea-holder wants it to be upheld.

That variable certainly exists - it's why we have blind-controlled trials as the gold standard of research.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:00PM (#12489489)
Surely that's the whole point of a belief - here is something I know to be true.

As compared to a hypothesis - here is an idea that should be tested by investigation, I make no prior judgement to its truth

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Karunamon on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:06PM (#12489554)
(oops!)

I don't think a true null hypothesis exists as long as humans are involved in concocting them, the person could want, consciously or subconsciously, any output from any experiment.

Maybe one outcome leads to more research that's a major paint to secure funding for and one is much easier? Maybe the outfit funding the study clearly wants one particular result?

Which goes right back to what I'm saying: humans are not purely logical, true null hypotheses don't exist, and the only difference between a "hypothesis" and a "belief" by what you just described is the degree to which the person with the idea wants a specific outcome - a variable which is completely unrelated to the eventual truthiness or falsity of the output.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:11PM (#12489601)
The fundamental difference is that a hypothesis is not (or should not be, different argument) accepted as fact by the scientific establishment before it is tested and shown true or false with empirical evidence.

As such it doesn't matter where it comes from so long as it is tested before acceptance. Which is why I struggle to understand the bootstrapping problem that the other poster talks about.

--edit-- To put it as simply as I can muster - why does the origin of the idea to test matter, when it is the testing that's the important part?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:05PM (#12491270)
Hypothesis origin does not matter.

But not all things can be tested - think about dual slit experiment. You can't reproduce the experiment in the sense that you'll know which slit will be taken.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:24PM (#12492754)
But you can reproduce the probability distribution aspect of it quite reliably. If you think the dual slit experiment presents a problem to the scientific method or empiricism you're quite wrong.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:04PM (#12489542)
--edit-- I can't help feeling we've wandered off-piste here.

The point I was trying to make is that the origin of a hypothesis is not really important, just that before it is accepted as true or false it is tested.

--edit-- this wasn't actually an edit so much as a reply. Oops!

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:05PM (#12490199)
Yes, the origin of hypothesis is irrelevant. I was using hypothesis origin only as a means to prove that scientific method does not apply to all things.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:56PM (#12490103)
The underlying issue is that having faith in Empiricism(1) is reasonable but having faith in God is ignorance.

Quoting Hamming: "A man was fishing with a net in the sea. He concluded that there is no smaller fish in the sea than what he caught". (s/fishing net/scientific method)

(1)Empiricism modulo quantum effects - and here we go again.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:16AM (#12487023)
The other thing that strikes me as a conundrum here is that, if one is aware of deliberately choosing unreality over reality, are you really choosing unreality?

I.E. how is it possible to choose fiction as fact in the knowledge it is fiction?

I don't really understand the mindset...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:36AM (#12487116)
>I.E. how is it possible to choose fiction as fact in the knowledge it is fiction?

That's just the moment of choice though. Given enough conditioning and getting used to it yourself, it can become as convincing (to your own self) as any reality.

Besides, don't people chose convenient truths over reality all the time, creationists or not?

Even the belief in science, which usually is a belief in fiction (an ideal of how it should be conducted) as opposed to how it's practiced and what interests and motivations are in play (from corporate tampering to "I'll review this peer reviewed paper favourably, because that guy is a friend of a friend, or they might help with my grants, etc." -- which can even function at a subconscious level, e.g. instinctively being more positively predisposed to papers by people you know or can help your career).

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:44AM (#12487159)
But you would still know that you had a moment of choosing unreality.

Don't people choose convenient fictions? Not people worth knowing, IMHO, no. People that choose inquiry over ignorance are the ones thay actually make stridea out of the darkness and got us where we are today.

"Belief" in science is the wrong way to think about it. Understanding that the scientific method has flaws but is still far superior as a tool to discover what is, rather than proclaim it without evidence or shy away into comforting fictions, seems the best way to approach knowledge.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:50AM (#12488175)
>Don't people choose convenient fictions? Not people worth knowing, IMHO, no.

That's a convenient fiction to believe, but I haven't found it to be true in anybody.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:57AM (#12488242)
That would be an opinion of mine, not a belief, that people worth knowing try not to hold on to fictions.

Whether they end up doing so is less important, they choose not to whenever the choice is apparent.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by coldtea on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:43AM (#12488664)
Not so sure about those "people worth knowing".

I've known wonderful artists and creative persons who absolutely could not give a flying duck for the "reality".

Was the person here: http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0319061/ worth knowing?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Nursie on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:50AM (#12488737)
A fun story, but not making pretensions to objective reality, which creationism certainly does.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:09AM (#12486563)
There is a particular video of Feynman about scientific method where he describes the dual slit experiment. He notes that the "scientific method" should have been able to reproduce exactly where the electrons will go, in different experiments. The experiments are not reproducible in that sense, but only "statistically" which is a completely different thing. Feynman beliefs are irrelevant.

There is also the argument that if you yourself do not accept evidence that creationists do, that does not mean that evidence is not there.

You might also want to read/see Hamming about science and how mathematics is not exactly free from presuppositions.

And there is also the Goldbach conjecture where you find that a system generates facts about itself that can be demonstrated only by going outside the system - ad infinitum.

I did not read the paper you mentioned but God does not exactly work like people regularly assume, that is "you pray and God will do you good".

The idiot argument is convenient but weak. It just gives a quick way to dismiss counter arguments

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by crististm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @08:34AM (#12487554)
Too late to edit...

That would be The Incompleteness Theorem of Gödel - not Goldbach

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by reitanqild on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:18AM (#12485966)
Creationist, son of creationists here :-)

Although I guess there are creationists and there are creationists:

If you ask me about science I will answer with science. I did well in school, including biology and introduction to astrophysics.

If you hold a gun to my head and ask if I still belive this nonsense about the world being created I'd guess I'd say yes (if I can't get around to disarming you, I don't like armed people with strong ideological beliefs going around trying to convince people :-/ )

On a more serious note: For me, the distinction between belief and science disappear somewhere around "all models are wrong, some are useful". For me, both models have been very useful.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Swizec on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:07AM (#12486352)
My favorite explanation has been: science answers What/How, religion answers Why. It's when we start asking one a question for the other that we get into trouble.

Which is what I don't like about [some] creationism. It tries to use a Why tool to answer a How question.

And as long as you take Biblical stories to be metaphors and/or best-effort explanations from before we had the data that we have now, they're perfectly fine stories that make plenty of sense as an explanation.

Adam&Eve for instance. If all you know is that it takes a man and a woman to produce a baby, it stands to reason that at some point there had to have been the first pair.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by nitrogen on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:18AM (#12486402)
The NOMA (non-overlapping magisteria argument/How vs. Why) position is useful to try to coexist peacefully while establishing a more solid rapport, but is not itself universally accepted[0]. For example, philosophy is also capable of answering "Why" questions with or without the help of religion, and neuroscience, anthropology, and evolutionary psychology can explain a lot of the "How" that actually drives what we perceive as "Why".

[0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-overlapping_magisteria#Rec...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Swizec on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:24AM (#12486429)
To display my ignorance: I'm not sure philosophy is that different from religion. At least much of philosophy that hasn't spun off into harder sciences.

Could religion not be considered a philosophical framework?

Thanks for showing me there's a name for why vs how. I had no idea.

I think the atrength of this distinction also varies between people. I know many religious atheists who believe in the value of religion, in its teachings and traditions, even in some hybrid concept of heaven and hell, possibly god, but who do not believe God exists as a factual entity or that anything from any religious text is fact rather than metaphor.

But I also come from a country that is 68% christian but only 32% of the population says they believe in there being some sort of god.

¯\_(ツ)_/¯

Edit: Apparently "Catholic Atheism" is a thing that exists: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Christian_atheism

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by marklgr on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:45AM (#12486278)
No snark, but I guess white supremacists also find their model pretty useful. The obvious question is, does anything go, provided it makes some people feel good somehow?
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by reitanqild on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:48AM (#12488721)
I'm obviously biased but I feel the comparison is a bit weird.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by flukus on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:39AM (#12486250)
> On a more serious note: For me, the distinction between belief and science disappear somewhere around "all models are wrong, some are useful". For me, both models have been very useful.

What useful model does creationism put forward?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by reitanqild on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:03AM (#12486338)
Mostly not creationism specifically but my religion.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by andrepd on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:09AM (#12486749)
Useful perhaps, in that it makes you feel good. But like another poster pointed out, nazi ideology made its followers feel pretty good.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by reitanqild on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:21AM (#12488460)
More useful though in that it made me stop hating and get control over my impulsiveness.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by NhanH on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:51AM (#12486085)
One of the arguments for evolution involves some very non-trivial calculation on probability of whether it could result in the world we're in right now (not the maths itself, but the sequence of reasoning). It has been a while since I read Dawkin's books, but I don't think the books cover those kind of arguments. I think there are quite a bit of writing on lesswrong on the topic.

I've met creationists that believed in micro evolution: microbe can evolve to get certain resistance. But not the macro one, that is natural selection can result in human as we are right now. I was absolutely not able to justify the probability that it can happen.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Scarblac on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:34AM (#12486225)
If you shake a bucket of all kinds of different marbles for five minutes and then record the exact configuration they end up in, you'll find it was extremely unlikely that they'd end up in exactly that configuration.

Is that an argument for the current state of the marbles being created from nothing?

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by combatentropy on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @05:14AM (#12486574)
No, but what if you shook a bucket of marbles and out came the Statue of David?
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by AstralStorm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:29AM (#12486203)
The probabilities cannot be calculated as we do not have interstellar travel required to inspect worlds that evolve separately from our own. So, that is no argument, just speculation. Same problem as with Drake's equitation and aliens.

A stronger argument is that we have managed to create building blocks of life from basic physics and chemistry. No superpowers required for that.

At least we can see how the stars begin, change and die.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by humanrebar on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:51AM (#12486912)
> A stronger argument is that we have managed to create building blocks of life from basic physics and chemistry. No superpowers required for that.

No. Just some creators.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by AstralStorm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:38PM (#12489916)
No, just a few known laws of physics and chemistry. The conditions required are expected to happen spontaneously during planet formation.

We just don't have a handle on how common those conditions are. And many other subsequent conditions, for cellular life, for multicellular, for tissues and organs. Finally, for intelligence and sapience.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by humanrebar on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:07PM (#12492671)
The point is that we cannot prove there is no creator by creating life. There is still a creator involved.

The 'best result' (assuming we're itching to disprove God) would be to show an origin of life is plausible. But even that doesn't prove where life on Earth actually came from.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by flukus on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:38AM (#12486239)
> I've met creationists that believed in micro evolution: microbe can evolve to get certain resistance. But not the macro one, that is natural selection can result in human as we are right now. I was absolutely not able to justify the probability that it can happen.

At that point they aren't arguing against evolution so much as they are cosmology, geology, physics etc. The only difference between micro/macro evolution is the timescales involved and the timescale is what they don't accept.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by emodendroket on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:20AM (#12487917)
If you want to understand the arguments of religious people you should probably listen to them and not a polemicist against them, but it's a mistake to equate "religious people" (or even Christians) with "creationists" in the first place.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by humanrebar on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @06:48AM (#12486901)
Since creationism is fundamentally a metaphysical premise, attacking deism through induction and observation is inconclusive but maybe a fun thought experiment.

Succinctly, if miracles exist, they violate natural laws. Claiming that natural laws and observations (carbon dating, say) do not allow for miracles is begging the question.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by civilian on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:57AM (#12485908)
You're right that creationists are pretty deep into idiot territory.

But alsetmusic's fact-finding mission could still be useful! Right now he doesn't even know where to start on how to construct an argument, because he doesn't know what creationists have been told.

There are probably many pieces of evidence in the creationist museum that are valid "holes" in science, that we're still looking to fill. He'd be able to acknowledge certain fossil gaps and irregularities, while describing how they still fit into the great scientific theory.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by flukus on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:08AM (#12485946)
> There are probably many pieces of evidence in the creationist museum that are valid "holes" in science

From what I've seen the arguments aren't that sophisticated, they start with an outright rejection of most branches of science. Amusingly, evolution is the one they criticize the least.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Trill-I-Am on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:41AM (#12486051)
The creation museum posits that dinosaurs and humans existed at the same time before the great flood a few thousand years ago. They also say that dragons were real.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by enraged_camel on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:58AM (#12486316)
Exactly. It's pure fantasy. Looking for shreds of intelligence in it is foolish. To
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Scarblac on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:36AM (#12486232)
If a new fossil is found that fills one of those gaps, the museum will then proudly claim there are now TWO gaps there!
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by geowwy on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:47PM (#12485506)
>> If they disagree with you, it's probably not because they are being irrational...

It's interesting to compare this POV with the Scott Adams'. In his school of thought all people are mostly irrational, even if they think otherwise: http://blog.dilbert.com/post/147595892021/how-persuaders-see...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by donw on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:22AM (#12485619)
Oddly enough, I think that both of these viewpoints work together very nicely.

Human beings are, generally speaking, irrational. We have a sort of flashlight'o'rationality that we can shine on specific things for periods of time, but most of how we behave is guided by a mixture of instinct, culture, emotion, and our life experiences.

It is pretty well-established that even highly rational people tend to choose a position and then build chains of logic to support it. As a very strong case in point, look at how the world of mathematicians worked to "correct" Marilyn vos Savant's solution to the Monty Hall problem.

And while we can work to change our habits, to instill more rational behaviors, we are still operating from within a system that is mostly irrational and emotional. And more importantly, we have to either want to change, or be made to want to change.

This is rarely accomplished by telling somebody that they are wrong.

Personally, I tend to think of human beings as being rational-at-the-core, but with that rational core being surrounded and filtered by a wall of culture, emotion, and experience.

So when people disagree with me, it is because their chain of logic is based on a different cultural-emotional-experience state than mine.

And if I can not understand where they are coming from -- listening is a superpower here -- I can not hope to either learn the thing that they know and I don't, and nor can I hope to change their minds.

Now, when it comes to arguing for a viewpoint, it is our natural instinct to defend ourselves -- a verbal challenge to what we believe is still very much an "attack".

The simplest way to bypass this reflex, is to start from a position where you are on the "same team". To agree with where they are right, and to validate the parts of their position that you share.

From there, you can then work in small steps and gentle pressure to engage both their rational core, as well as their culture-emotion-experience filter.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by AstralStorm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:05PM (#12490201)
Heh, but unconscious instincts can be quite rational, just in non-obvious ways.

In other words, they are responses to internal and external states, which means there is a reason for them. To find the actual source, we have to delve into many branches of philosophy and science.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by GarvielLoken on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @03:38AM (#12486242)
It is generally better to live your life irrational and do decisions irrational, because this usually indicates decisions based on values, humanism and real human empathy. Rationality in it self is autistic and schizophrenic, a closed system that is doomed by Gödel to always try, but never achieving completeness and consistency. A never ending lie that we can know it all rationally.

I actually think that humans work the other way around. At our core is a giant GPU parallel computing system that deals in emotions and our culture. Slapped on to the system is a slow weak single core trying desperately to control everything. I can recommend the book "The Master and His Emissary" by Iain McGilchrist.

Notice especially in the Schizophrenic Paranoia in the link in the GP. Most people are dumb, but there are the evil "Persuaders" who are out to get you. And you are the enlightened one who has figured out the "truth". Classic delusion.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by piyush_soni on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:09AM (#12485575)
I think the whole reason "first tell them how they are right, then how they are wrong" works is that most people are irrational.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by AstralStorm on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:08PM (#12490224)
Wrong, they rationally prefer hedonic feeling.

How did you feel about this post? ;-)

Valid logic, different premises.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by piyush_soni on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:29PM (#12490427)
Good point! What you say looks logical. In my opinion though, the fact that they find first telling them how they're right as a prerequisite to be told how they're wrong hedonic, is irrational :).

(So tell me, have I mastered it now? ;) )

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by conistonwater on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:30PM (#12485452)
Is that actually true? The entire literature on cultural cognition, and the myside bias, and all the other failures of rationality seems to point to it being pretty common for people to disagree irrationally. The advice given here is rather one-sided: one must assume the other person disagrees rationally. That's a huge assumption that is sometimes, maybe often, not justified, yet it's not mentioned. Furthermore, the second part of your comment about articulating their own argument is not related to the first, it's independent of the rationality and quality of their argument.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by xupybd on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:18AM (#12485602)
Often people are not as irrational as you'd think. It's just they only connect the dots one or two at a time. So, much of the knowledge they already have is not questioned. More often than not people appear to be irrational because they have learned something that is either false or perhaps true but very different to a false belief you hold. They appear irrational when assessing the same situation as you but arriving at different conclusions, because they are holding to a very different set of assumptions. People (my self included) are not very good at being aware of our underlying assumptions.

I guess that is being irrational given that you are not taking all the assumptions into account, but it's the level of rationality that most people operate at.

However if your talking about an emotionally charged situation, yeah rationality be damned emotions are running that show.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by RangerScience on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:39PM (#12485482)
They may disagree irrationally, but they still disagree with causation. This is basically saying; figure out what causes them to believe what they believe, acknowledge the validity of that causal chain, and then introduce new information.

The new information could be about being less wrong (updating the rules of their causality) or it could be a new situation on which to apply their existing ways of thinking.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by wamatt on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:10AM (#12485577)
Also very rarely do beliefs exist in isolation. They're usually a part of a framework or ideology. Seeing that greater context, I would imagine, helps to empathize with the other party's POV.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by teen on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:18PM (#12485416)
i would argue that most people are in fact idiots
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by Artoemius on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @01:22AM (#12485799)
That depends on how you define an idiot.

It's true that one half of people literally has less-than-average intelligence...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dredmorbius on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:27AM (#12486001)
If defined traditionally (from the Greek), it's the literal truth.

http://www.etymonline.com/index.php?term=idiot&allowed_in_fr...

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by regularfry on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:06AM (#12485939)
Depends on the distribution. And which average.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by umanwizard on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @02:48AM (#12486077)
IQ is distributed normally.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by regularfry on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:36AM (#12489196)
That's begging the question.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by umanwizard on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:09PM (#12489590)
what do you mean?
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by regularfry on Sunday September 18, 2016 @06:24AM (#12524738)
The definition of IQ says that it assumes a normal distribution, with half either side of the mean. To use the definition of IQ as a justification for the statement "half of all people have less than average intelligence" assumes that the distribution of intelligence matches the distribution of IQ.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by pavanky on Monday September 12, 2016 @11:31PM (#12485453)
I would argue that most people simple love to argue.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by dogles on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:04AM (#12485555)
Well I would argue that I'm rubber, and you're glue.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by jamesrcole on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @10:15AM (#12488407)
> Most people are not idiots. If they disagree with you, it's probably not because they are being irrational, but because they're starting from a different premise, making different assumptions, or assigning different values to different aspects of the problem

I agree with the spirit of what you're saying, but I think you're conflating two orthogonal dimensions.

There is someone's level of intelligence, and there is the degree to which they have different starting assumptions to you on the topic.

Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by pron on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @04:11AM (#12486368)
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by triplesec on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @11:39AM (#12489236)
Indeed, and since nobody has posted it yet, and while it's not perfect, this is so far the best-written readily acessible simple guide for anybody about the tactics of practical modern discussion: http://paulgraham.com/disagree.html
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by emodendroket on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @09:13AM (#12487860)
I couldn't agree more. How tiresome it is to watch two people completely talk past each other.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by whybroke on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @12:54AM (#12485715)
And also one might be wrong in the first place and one's opponent in fact be correct.
Re:To tell someone they're wrong, first tell them how they'r... by soneca on Tuesday September 13, 2016 @07:31AM (#12487096)
Or change your own mind.