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Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:57AM (#10791488)
I shudder when I think about the strain that will be placed on millenials when we inevitably become our parents' safety net. It's a perfect storm: a housing bubble that will pop when everyone tries to sell their house at the same time, unreliable pensions, non-existant retirement savings, high levels of undischargable student debt, and dwindling job prospects for young people.

It's not going to be pretty.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by devonkim on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:31AM (#10791570)
The children will likely end up moving into their parents' homes and paying off their parents' medical bills with reverse mortgages leaving the once young at mid-life or later with nothing to inherit and no job prospects in these areas typically away from major metro (and increasingly, employment-availability) areas. This will leave most Americans in the positions before WW2 about given there will be few assets in the hands of most Americans again.

I'm seeing housing prices in suburbs, exurbs, and rural areas dropping as lack of viable jobs in these areas combined with crushing commutes to cities makes these locations terrible for those still needing to work. There's an alarming number of people I've heard of commuting from West Virginia into DC and from Richmond into DC enduring 3+ hour commutes as cities that used to be self-sustained economies now become suburbs of the largest cities, and the trend is going to continue with a few deviants that buck the trend like remote workers or homesteaders.

Where I live, the local economy is driven by two demographics - tourists and local retirees sprinkled with some of the wealthiest households in the US living here part time to avoid paying state income taxes. Much of the US is eerily similar to this pattern and it's extremely depressing to think of a way out of the spiral where almost all of our money will go into paying outrageous mortgages / rent with lower-paying jobs and the few in the middle class are in finance, tech, or healthcare.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by losteric on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:42PM (#10791737)
Whats even more fun is there other major problems approaching on roughly the same timeline...

- Less developed nations will be transitioning to a population crunch (WSJ 2050) with huge ramifications on global economics/politics

- fossil fuels (especially oil) reaching depletion or becoming too expensive to extract

- climate change impact in full swing, serious disruption to even domestic agriculture

- Ubiquitous AI, and all the associated social unrest of a deprecated generation of workers

Ultimately there's just too many people. Society doesn't need 8 billion humans anymore, the US doesn't even need 300 million... Arguably what youre describing is an emergent solution to that problem. Now we've reached the point where the next generation will need to support their parent's slow death instead of raising the next generation of children... That's going to wreck society's ownership of the future in a big way.

(Mobile, excuse the poor formating)

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by jsprogrammer on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:26PM (#10792697)
>Society doesn't need 8 billion humans anymore

This is self-contradictory. Society is exactly the humans that exist.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by kyllo on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:41PM (#10792719)
It think it's more like, human society is collectively deciding that optimum human population size is less than current size, and adjusting reproductive behavior accordingly.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by jsprogrammer on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:21PM (#10793147)
Isn't the human population increasing?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by kyllo on Saturday December 26, 2015 @03:28AM (#10793662)
It is still increasing, but the slope of the curve is decreasing. It will peak in the next few decades and then start to decrease if current reproductive trends continue.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by jczhang on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:29PM (#10792079)
Right, the issue of overpopulation is huge. It's going to need a different kind of society with very different values than the ones we have today. Capitalism can't grow like it has been once we realize the issue of overpop and work to reduce it. We have a crazy new world coming. And the transition has be fast.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by cmdkeen on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:59PM (#10792175)
Or alternatively human ingenuity adapts and overcomes - Malthusians have been consistently proved wrong in their constant cries of overpopulation. There is still plenty of land, plenty of ability to grow food to feed us and plenty of advances being made in areas which will allow that to increase. We've already seen a vast decrease in the number of people living on less than $1 a day across the world enabling many countries to start reaping a demographic dividend.

If the pessimists can quote fossil fuel depletion then surely I can optimistically promote fusion, carbon capture etc. Capitalism has been one of the greatest success stories of humanity.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by Spooky23 on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:09PM (#10792207)
I never understood how one could embrace prophecies of doom in this day and age. We live in a near golden age of plenty, and the train hasn't slowed down yet.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by timr on Friday December 25, 2015 @04:24PM (#10792399)
"We live in a near golden age of plenty, and the train hasn't slowed down yet."

If by "we", you mean "citizens in the most prosperous cities of the world", then yes.

If you mean "people in most of the USA", then I have some news for you: the train's wheels are locked, and sparks are flying while everything skids to a stop. It's absolutely shocking how much of the country has declined in prosperity in my lifetime. The smaller cities near where I grew up -- places that were thriving small towns as recently as the 1980s -- are nearly all trapped in downward spirals of poverty, debt and addiction.

If you mean "the citizens of this planet", well...for most people, the train never left the station. Even in modern "success stories" like China, you don't have to try very hard to find appalling levels of poverty and despair. A few have become incredibly wealthy, but mostly, people are struggling to keep up. In the third-world? Forget it. Yeah, people can pay for cellphones now, while they're dying of preventable diseases due to filthy water.

Optimism is one thing, but it takes a Silicon Valley (aka Leibnitzian) view of the world to claim that this is a "golden age". Mostly, a select group of people are getting richer, while everyone else stagnates (or just barely inches forward).

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by drob on Friday December 25, 2015 @04:51PM (#10792464)
> Mostly, a select group of people are getting richer, while everyone else stagnates.

Actually this isn't true. Middle classes in the developed world are doing poorly relative to the richest in the developed world, but global poverty is on a steep decline.

Throughout the developing world, economic development is pulling hundreds of millions of people out of poverty at breakneck speed. Check out some of the data here, for starters: http://ourworldindata.org/data/growth-and-distribution-of-pr...

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by timr on Friday December 25, 2015 @05:41PM (#10792594)
"Middle classes in the developed world are doing poorly relative to the richest in the developed world"

This, I believe. Part of the driving force of the trends in global poverty is globalization. And despite what I said earlier about middle-class America, I don't necessarily cry for the loss of overall wealth in this country, if it means greater equity for the rest of the world (I just wish the richest people in the world were paying a greater share).

"global poverty is on a steep decline."

This is highly debatable. The data you linked to seems to be mostly based on the World Bank data -- a single, rarely modified, global metric of $1.25 (now $1.90) a day, using self-reported statistics. Meanwhile, regional context is critical -- for example, sub-saharan Africa has actually seen increases in poverty. In India and China, there's good reason to believe that wealth inequality is increasing [1]:

"the benefits of economic growth in many developing countries often accrue to the rich. In India and China, inequality has been increasing in recent years. From 1981 to 2010, the average poor person in sub-Saharan Africa saw no increase in their income even as economies expanded. Because there is no household data since 2012, it is impossible to know if these trends towards greater inequality have since changed."

Meanwhile, the metric itself is questionable (ibid):

"Someone living today at the new poverty line does not necessarily enjoy the same standard of living as someone at the old line did in the past, however....Looking at national price indices rather than PPPs, half of the world’s population live in countries in which $1.90 buys you less now than $1.25 did back in 2005, according to a paper released this week by Sanjay Reddy of the New School for Social Research in New York."

Even the World Bank itself acknowledges that poverty is on the increase in sub-saharan Africa (a region, which, by the way, has over a billion people, or 1/7th of the world's current population) [2]:

"However, despite its falling poverty rates, Sub-Saharan Africa is the only region in the world for which the number of poor individuals has risen steadily and dramatically between 1981 and 2010. There are more than twice as many extremely poor people living in SSA today (414 million) than there were three decades ago (205 million). As a result, while the extreme poor in SSA represented only 11 percent of the world’s total in 1981, they now account for more than a third of the world’s extreme poor. India contributes another third (up from 22 percent in 1981) and China comes next, contributing 13 percent (down from 43 percent in 1981)."

In other words: it's great that more people are self-reporting as living on more than this bottom-of-the-barrel income metric, but it isn't really a counter-argument to my point, except to say that we've made the absolute poorest of the poor a bit less poor. Maybe. And mostly in China.

[1] http://www.economist.com/news/finance-economics/21673530-num...

[2] http://www.worldbank.org/en/news/press-release/2013/04/17/re...

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by cmdkeen on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:04PM (#10792651)
We've made over a billion of the poorest of the poor less poor - that is a massive achievement. The crucial thing about that being less poor is that they are then not in subsistence mode and able to consider things like educating their children, engaging in capitalism, i.e. economic activity which can increase their wealth further rather than merely trying to stay alive.

Your quotes highlighting the problems of SSA move quickly into using percentages of an overall number that has decreased - it acknowledges that in all other regions in the world poverty has fallen dramatically, especially in China where their middle class is now around 340 million.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by timr on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:10PM (#10792666)
"We've made over a billion of the poorest of the poor less poor - that is a massive achievement."

That's a pretty meaningless claim. Again, the data you're leaning on to say that is using an exceptionally low bar, and it doesn't really take into account regional economic differences. The whole reason the World Bank had to raise it to $1.90 a day from $1.25 a day was because in many parts of the developing world, $1.90 a day buys you less than $1.25 did at the start of the measurements!

More importantly, $1.91 a day still makes for a pretty miserable life anywhere in the world. You're not magically on a trajectory to the middle class. You may be dying of waterborne illnesses and malnutrition, but you're not absolutely poor by World Bank standards!

The claim that there are far fewer poor people from 1820 to present is more reasonable, but the problem there is that the gains mostly came from things like "industrialization", which were big, one-time gains that, again, accrued mainly to the winners.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by MaysonL on Friday December 25, 2015 @05:35PM (#10792580)
Bucky Fuller outlined the problems facing us in his book Critical Path.

To quote Abebooks's description: "Critical Path is Fuller's master work--the summing up of a lifetime's thought and concern--as urgent and relevant as it was upon its first publication in 1981. Critical Path details how humanity found itself in its current situation--at the limits of the planet's natural resources and facing political, economic, environmental, and ethical crises.

The crowning achievement of an extraordinary career, Critical Path offers the reader the excitement of understanding the essential dilemmas of our time and how responsible citizens can rise to meet this ultimate challenge to our future."

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by cmdkeen on Friday December 25, 2015 @05:57PM (#10792640)
In 1981 since when we've moved on from the Cold War (political crisis), massively decreased world poverty (economic crisis) and moved from an era of 14% inflation in the West being considered something economics couldn't address. On all of those measures we're doing much better than in 1981 - surely that demonstrates our capacity to improve and overcome problems.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by subsection1h on Friday December 25, 2015 @04:32PM (#10792415)
In the US, the median retirement age keeps rising, and it's rising far faster than median life expectancy. My idea of a Golden Age of Plenty isn't one in which people punch a time card until they drop dead.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sixQuarks on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:57PM (#10792334)
You know that famous YC question "What is something you feel most people are wrong about?"

Kevin Kelly, founder of Wired Magazine, believes the answer is overpopulation. He says it would be a disaster to stop population growth. Read more here:

https://edge.org/response-detail/23722

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by losteric on Friday December 25, 2015 @05:35PM (#10792578)
The WSJ 2050 series of articles supports that. However population is shrinking in many parts of the world, despite government attempts to force growth... This is going to have a tremendous impact on the global economy and political unrest.

On the other hand, thats a good way to reduce humanity's contribution to climate change

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by gotchange on Friday December 25, 2015 @07:00PM (#10792763)
> This is going to have a tremendous impact on the global economy and political unrest.

Why do you associate the decline in population numbers with political unrest? Are you referring implicitly to the phenomenon of immigration to make up for the falling numbers and the typical and usual problems that come along with this development?

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by losteric on Saturday December 26, 2015 @02:29AM (#10793571)
I wasn't referring to the US with that line. We'll suffer but we're just along for the ride.

What do you think is going to happen when China finds itself with > 1 senior for every working age citizen, with a male-skewed population? Worse yet, what happens when China's heavy investments in AI/automation pay off? A dictatorship of 1 billion that has it's jobs permanently filled by machines while it's citizens struggle to raise their parents, working in overcrowded cities, with little hope for their own future? A country that's already rapidly depleting their agricultural resources through poor management, with dire projections ~20-50 years out?

That alone isn't a pretty picture.. But then remember that India's next door with similar problems, and the two aren't exactly buddy-buddy. Inevitably both countries will have to lean on regional allies to power through, but that might bring in the US (via S.K./Japan, today). And then we've got Russia upstairs, their future is a bit harder to see but today they're the nuclear-armed wildcard oligopoly... one that's not on friendly terms with the US's sphere of allies.

Then there's the middle east. If you think today's bad, wait until their oil money starts running out as climate change keeps turning up the oven. That's just adding fuel to the fires, millions of culturally alien people flooding relatively homogeneous societies already under pressure from their own needs.

And then Africa... yet another wild card. Today the various countries are in various states of development with mixed weak alliances to the East/West, but there's a massive population boom coming. No one is really certain where that's headed. Maybe it becomes the next China (selling environmental degredation and cheap labor), or maybe we'll end up with an under-developed continent of high unemployment/desertification. I'm really curious to see how the various countries land on that spectrum.

Taken alone, the Americas don't have a particularly risky looking future. South American drugs, guns, immigration, revolutions, old news for the US... though mass deforestation/desertification will be a tragedy with serious climate impact. Europe might build some walls but they're not going to war with each other again either. Australia probably won't play a big role unless it gets invaded. But the other big continents? I can't see the future, but today there are many red flags of something much worse.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by javajosh on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:17PM (#10791673)
Or the kids will say, "I'm sorry, but I'm moving where the jobs are, and I'm going to have a life of my own. I'll come visit you once a year, but I'm not giving up my life for yours."

The good parents will say, "Good! Don't sacrifice your chance for happiness for me. I'll make it through."

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by icebraining on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:36PM (#10791904)
And where are the jobs?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by khuey on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:36PM (#10792283)
The coastal urban areas and Texas, not the rural south or midwest or rust belt cities.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by devonkim on Friday December 25, 2015 @08:26PM (#10792916)
This is a terrible comment in hindsight given I made it on Christmas but spending the holidays in rural Appalachia for years makes me ponder how oblivious people in tech are to the realities of their countries. Enjoy the holidays, folks and go talk to everyone - get out of your comfort zones and experience something completely crazy perhaps. We have the best living standards worldwide in the history of the planet but we have a long way to go before we can achieve the humanist dream of providing the opportunity for each person to work hard for their dreams and realize them. I hope that during the holidays as a time of reflection we look for our common struggles and work towards creating human consensus rather than the every day popular rhetoric of creating division and controversy out of their own desperation to put food on the table.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:43AM (#10791598)
You pretty much hit the nail on the head here. It really is alarming to think that we have not started to plan for this almost inevitable scenario in ~20 years time. We need to begin re-thinking our role as humans in an economy which increasingly does not require us.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by partisan on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:42PM (#10791735)
How do you plan for the collapse of the economy?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by losteric on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:55PM (#10791780)
Start by having level-headed discussions about the value of life.

I know a lot of families taking on massive debt to help pay for their parent's old age. Five-Six figures here and there to extend their parent's lives by a decade or two, saddling themselves with debt and leaving the next generation with no assets... Likely after moving the entire family to a decaying suburban city. All so the previous generation can stick around with a much poorer quality of life.

Health care has a far larger impact than the number on the bill. We need to openly talk about life and accept the inevitableness of death.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by mhurron on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:13PM (#10791840)
I wonder if you'll be so ready to give up your life right around retirement age instead of trying to have it extended 'by a decade or two.'

It's so incredibly easy to say when you're simply throwing others lives away, rarely do people do it with their own.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by losteric on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:28PM (#10792072)
I'll fight tooth and nail for every minute of my own independent life... But I would never dream of crippling my children's future just to exist in an "assisted-living" retirement home. Personally, that's an undignified life that's not worth living... modern day vampires.

Again, this is just my personal position regarding my life's value vs my descendants. I'm advocating the questions, not my answer.

This is a hard problem, which means the questions are hard to ask and the answers are difficult to accept... Death has never been easy. However it's a conversation that families and society at large need to have.

Culturally, we are lagging behind what science can do... We can do so much but never stepped back to ask if we should. Society needs to make conscious decisions instead of blindly following our biological instincts.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:54PM (#10791768)
The first step is to invest, as communities, into producing as much food as possible locally in order to lessen our dependence on the global economic system. We have the technology to turn all those shuttered Targets and malls into indoor farms powered largely by renewable sources. An ironic side effect would be the creation of jobs and a reduction in the net cost of feeding a city.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by hueving on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:18PM (#10792236)
Locally grown food is an unsustainable luxury that doesn't work for large portions of the US because there is not year round farm worthy land close enough by to sustain the population.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by douche on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:02PM (#10793118)
You could do what people always did, and grow crops that keep through the winter. You're not going to be eating fresh kale and tomatoes in January, you'll be eating your turnips and beets and potatoes and apples out of cold-storage, and making bread with your oats and corn and wheat that you harvested in the fall.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:31PM (#10792265)
Did you read my comment? I propose using currently-available technology to grow food indoors.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by grogenaut on Friday December 25, 2015 @07:14PM (#10792786)
What's the difference in energy cost from farming indoors in an area that can't support it normally and growing things in season in areas that can and transporting it? Got any studies to link? I'm curious. Heat is incredibly energy costly so I'd be interested in seeing a calculation.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by devonkim on Friday December 25, 2015 @08:59PM (#10792980)
The crop yields from climate controlled agriculture can be inferred a bit from the results that are coming in from Japan. This is not economical in rural regions like much of the US only (IMO) because locals make so little capital. But if we treat it a lot like subsistence farming and communities pool together capital to start indoor farms, this could help.

My skepticism is mostly around not the economics but the sheer accumulation of desperation in these small communities creating high corruption and theft rates ruining the efficacy of the concept.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @07:41PM (#10792828)
I don't have any links to studies - I'm relying on the idea that renewable sources can contribute significantly to the overall energy requirements.

When you take into account the amount of energy required to grow food, refrigerate it, ship it halfway around the world, and distribute it to stores, surely the amount of energy required to grow food locally is inconsequential.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by grogenaut on Sunday December 27, 2015 @02:59PM (#10798551)
I'm just thinking about all of that aluminum/steel and glass you have to get to build the green houses, which you then have to heat, and wonder with the payoff term is for it.

You're still going to have to refrigerate and ship the stuff locally; Train and ship shipping are relatively cheap compared to the last mile shipping.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by icebraining on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:35PM (#10791899)
Why not just move somewhere with arable land?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:32PM (#10792275)
That's what most people will do. This current refugee "crisis" is nothing compared to the vast migrations that climate change will instigate.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by nine_k on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:11PM (#10792021)
How about job availability?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by icebraining on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:10PM (#10792210)
Oh, I assumed we were talking about a post-jobs era. The idea that growing food to sustain a community can be done as a after-hours hobby sounds a little naive.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by cryoshon on Friday December 25, 2015 @09:40PM (#10793080)
Yep, not to mention these people who are struggling to take care of their parents are dealing with medical bills and debt slavery of their own. They can forget about owning a home or car. They can forget about having children, as the money is needed to care for the old. They can forget about retiring, as they have no savings. Wages have been stagnant since their parents' careers were at their start.

The banks will be extracting wealth from the fading boomers until their last breaths, leaving their children with no inheritances and a large debt of their own.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by branchless on Friday December 25, 2015 @05:49PM (#10792615)
I hear this "inherit housing riches" a lot and I'm glad to see you aren't fooled by it. Housing isn't wealth. The value of land represents the ability to make use of it.

If the support ratio slips (ratio of working to non-working) then if we are to maintain the living standards of the non-working we either have to have a big productivity leap or lower living standards for those in work.

Reverse mortgages aren't going to cut it. And as you say, what then when the millenials have to hand over the keys to their parents' house?

Land isn't a thing of value in and of itself if we can't work it.

The only use ramping land value has is as an inflationary tax by private banks on workers.

My $0.02 on this is we give the boomers+ a massive haircut right now. Just pull the rug right out from under them, their politicians and their banks.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by nugget on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:46AM (#10791607)
Wyoming?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by paulddraper on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:51PM (#10791760)
Florida, I assume.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by phyllostachys on Tuesday December 29, 2015 @11:37PM (#10810730)
I would have guessed Las Vegas.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by devonkim on Tuesday January 05, 2016 @10:57AM (#10843864)
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/North_Carolina_locations_by_pe... 2. Biltmore Forest, North Carolina $85,044

Buncombe county rank in state and per capita income: 19 Buncombe $25,665

The Vanderbilt family, descendants, and close associates have strong ties to Asheville and its economy, where the Biltmore estate is located.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by cmarschner on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:11AM (#10791515)
your statement implies a conflict-ladden connection with your parents. Family can also mean: safety net, love, time. My wife's family comes from a mid-sized town where grandmothers, aunts and cousins live in vicinity. This means houses where built without any loan from a bank and parents could go to work with their children being watched and cared for when they were sick. On Christmas eve family gathers at a large table and there is more food than anyone can eat. We are the only ones who live abroad and need to spend a good chunk of money to buy the services we would get from a family for free. Sometimes I think we should de-economize our lives.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:38AM (#10791587)
I agree with your conclusion, but disagree with your suggestion that you have any insight into my relationship with my parents. I also advocate a shift back to "family-orienting" living, and live my life accordingly. I'm just looking at big picture trends and simple demographics.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by hkmurakami on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:21PM (#10791681)
Look no further than Japan to see exactly what you describe in action.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by jmspring on Friday December 25, 2015 @03:23PM (#10792249)
I am still forming my opinion on this as a Gen-Xer, but I hear a lot of people concerned about when millennials become the majority/the responsible ones and have a greater impact than the baby boomers on this country (the US). On the other side, I also hear people talk about how entitled and shallow the baby boom generation has been and the enormous burden this group will bring upon the social net (social security, etc) because they didn't plan (in general), don't have the savings to survive major health issues, etc.

I hate labels, but as someone from Gen-X, I've already got obligations supporting family, pretty much plan on making sure my immediate family is not dependent upon others, etc.

For saving up, moving to Europe isn't really an option (in another thread, someone indicated the huge difference in upper end engineering salaries between Europe and the US); however having an EU national spouse, we are definitely looking at retiring in Europe down the road.

It is going to be interesting to see how it plays out over time.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by tw04 on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:24AM (#10791550)
That seems like a pretty gross overgeneralization. An entire generation that hasn't saved any money for retirement? Seriously? I guess I can count almost every one of my family members as "unique" then. I can think of only 1 of them I would expect to be in financial trouble post retirement.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by atom-morgan on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:28AM (#10791557)
I would say your family is unique in this case based on this article I read earlier this year.

"Approximately 62% of Americans have no emergency savings for things such as a $1,000 emergency room visit or a $500 car repair, according to a new survey of 1,000 adults by personal finance website Bankrate.com. Faced with an emergency, they say they would raise the money by reducing spending elsewhere (26%), borrowing from family and/or friends (16%) or using credit cards (12%)."

http://www.marketwatch.com/story/most-americans-are-one-payc...

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by tw04 on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:51PM (#10791754)
That says nothing about whether or not they have a retirement fund. When I was fresh out of college for the first few years that described me to a T, but I still had money going into a 401k every month.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by superuser2 on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:34PM (#10792097)
Nope. Retirement savings are typically in 401k and IRA accounts, which are untouchable (without enormous penalty) until age 59.5. It's entirely possible (though irrational) to have six or seven figures in retirement savings but no emergency fund.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by nommm-nommm on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:59PM (#10792173)
People who go broke if they had a $1000 emergency are not the same people maxing out their 401(k)... plus about half of Americans have no retirement accounts at all.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by superuser2 on Saturday December 26, 2015 @09:19PM (#10796127)
Not maxing it out, but many people have an automatic 5-15% payroll deduction that may even be on by default. That money is already out of sight and out of mind, same as tax withholding. Whereas not draining the checking account requires more deliberate discipline.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by tbrownaw on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:26PM (#10791700)
GP's family being in a 38% "minority" hardly makes them unique.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by kiiski on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:53PM (#10791766)
That 62 % was "people with no emergency savings", not "people without enough savings to retire". The latter number would be somewhere above 62 %.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by sholanozie on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:34AM (#10791580)
I could argue that making the opposite claim is a pretty gross overgeneralization. It's good that your family is prepared for retirement, but most people aren't.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by Kinnard on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:34PM (#10791896)
I think this is terribly, painfully ironic. It's arguing that Americans are living closer to home in order to support their aging elders.

18 Miles is not close!!! That's a commute. You have to commute to see your mother, or for her to see her grandchildren. I haven't traveled far and wide. But based on the few places I have been this is bizarre and unhealthy. In West Africa, parents either live with you or a few doors down. A few miles away at most, always within walking distance. I think this is the broad case across the planet and in human history. I also think it's way healthier.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by brobinson on Friday December 25, 2015 @05:59PM (#10792641)
18 miles is nothing in American driving culture. 18 miles is very close if most of that is highway.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by douche on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:07PM (#10793124)
A lot of people in the US commute two or three times that far every day for work.

18 miles could just be living in the next town over from your parents.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by bkjelden on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:03AM (#10791503)
This is surprising to me. I would guess that close to 50% of my friends and acquaintances are in the top 5%, and the overwhelming majority are 70-75% percentile or higher.

I guess that just goes to show you how skewed from the averages the set of people you know and interact with can be.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by cm2012 on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:49PM (#10791748)
On this note, some stats for perspective:

1) 30% of Americans have a college degree of any kind (inc. associates, etc.) 2) Median household income is $50k yearly nationwide. It's $50k in NYC and $70k in SF. 3) Median single person income is $32k nationwide.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by Scoundreller on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:46PM (#10792140)
The NYT appropriately used median instead of mean to discount the effects of the outliers. I'm sure the average would be a lot higher (because of people moving between coasts).
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by stygiansonic on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:19PM (#10791853)
I guess this should not be too surprising.

People of the same socioeconomic group tend to associate with each other, because of work, similar interests, etc. This is basically a clustering effect.

In terms of living distance from parents, if you live in an area where people tend to flock to (because that's where the jobs are, or other reasons), then it's further likely your friends will be in the same boat as you.

More reasons why anecdotes don't necessarily match the overall population statistics.

* Note: Massive generalizations in my above statements.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by jczhang on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:37PM (#10792109)
And of course it's not surprising among people who post on Hacker News that they would be among the top 5%. It's just that having friends only in your socioeconomic level will put you in a bubble regardless of how much reading you do about the poverty of others. The level of empathy for others can really only exist if you have personal connections.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by bkjelden on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:16PM (#10792675)
Yea, when I think about it some more, it makes sense. But it is interesting how much of a bubble you can live in without really realizing it.

Although the 25 miles in the Great Plains states shown in the article is still surprising to me. As anyone who's lived in those states will attest, 25 miles is nothing.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by NDizzle on Friday December 25, 2015 @09:56AM (#10791357)
I'm 2000 miles from my Mom, yet here I am with my three kids & wife for Christmas.

Happy holidays everyone!

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by vowelless on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:14AM (#10791528)
Merry Christmas to you and your family.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by JustSomeNobody on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:43AM (#10791596)
It's really sad that it is such a stigma in this country for the family to stick together. One can be successful AND BE PART of a loving, nurturing, close family.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by mikeash on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:23PM (#10791687)
I've not seen any stigma for being close to family. I've seen a lot of stigma for staying in some crappy place with poor opportunities, which looks like "being close to family" if you grew up there, but it's not the same thing.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by Jtsummers on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:52AM (#10791615)
The problem is not being near family. It's being near family and working in the fields that we want, or for pay that can support our own families the way we want to. I couldn't get a job paying better than $60k a year in the town my parents live in as a programmer. And there are so few I'd be lucky to get even that.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by furfish on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:06PM (#10791645)
It was the same for me. Where I'm from I'd have been very lucky to have made the equivalent of 20k USD per year as a programmer and there were/are very few positions available.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by thescriptkiddie on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:14PM (#10791663)
There isn't exactly a stigma regarding living in close proximity to your family. The thing is that previous generations fled the cities for the suburbs (partly because of racism), and since then we've realized suburbs are awful places and people are starting to move back. Most people's parents live in the suburbs, so if you want to live in a city you can't live nearby.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by douche on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:40PM (#10791728)
Manufacturing also died, so the lower-middle class jobs that were in industry on the outskirts of the cities (that became the suburbs) are gone or going.

I'd love to go back to the rural area I grew up in - it's a much better quality of life, stuff is half or one-quarter of the price they are in an urban area, and there's 1/100th of the population. But there's almost literally no employment opportunities. The one major paper mill in the area is folding, and there's going to be an exodus as the hundreds of people people that work there, and the thousands in the supporting industries, get laid off (not to mention further downstream effects, like school teachers or healthcare workers that become redundant as population crashes). There's nothing that's going to fill that void.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by DGAP on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:50PM (#10791753)
Why are suburbs awful places? I'd much rather live in a small city or large town with suburban-like neighborhoods than the over-priced and tiny apartments of a large city. 80K here is like 120K in a metro area, and I don't have to pay for parking or take public transportation.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by superuser2 on Friday December 25, 2015 @02:50PM (#10792153)
In the end it's a matter of taste, but several reasons:

- Affordable suburbs usually carry lengthy commutes of unpleasant stop-and-go driving. City dwellers can walk to work or read on a train. Lower commute time is strongly associated with overall happiness. I share your preference for driving over public transit, but not in commuter traffic.

- Children have essentially no independent mobility until age 16, and then only if they have their own cars. In the suburb I grew up in, I'd estimate that mothers spend ~30% of their waking hours driving their children around.

- Though there may be good restaurants, art, theater, museums, etc. in the city, going to such things becomes a special occasion. Life instead centers around malls and multiplexes.

- Many find sleepy streets dull, uninspiring, even suffocating. For some, proximity to centers of human activity is a great deal more valuable than space.

- If you live in a city, you can go out drinking without committing DUI or spending $40 on a taxi.

- Many find the maintenance of a house, tons of unnecessary rooms, a lawn, etc. to be an unbearable and outrageously expensive bore that provides no value. I can think of many things I'd rather do on a weekend than put new siding on my garage, and many things I'd rather do with 5 figures than fix my roof. My home is a place to eat and sleep; I'd much rather invest time and energy and pride into other things.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by philwelch on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:39PM (#10791913)
And city dwellers don't have to pay for a car.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by ghaff on Friday December 25, 2015 @04:19PM (#10792380)
In most cities, they probably do or have fairly restricted ability to get around. NYC or even SF aren't typical of the US as a whole.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by philwelch on Friday December 25, 2015 @09:07PM (#10792997)
Zipcar, Car2Go, and Uber have done a lot to alleviate that. Car ownership is definitely not needed in Seattle, Portland, NYC, SF, and probably many other cities. In the rest of the US, most exceptions are because the US doesn't do cities well, largely due to the perception in the mid-to-late 20th century that white people had abandoned the cities and left them to black people, and America doesn't care about black people.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by kansface on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:21PM (#10792685)
Something like 50% of all trips are by car in SF! I'm guessing NYC is better.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by kansface on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:24PM (#10792695)
Where do you live? Most US cities aren't really urban - they were designed for cars, not people. Do you feel the same way about SF or NYC?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by thedufer on Saturday December 26, 2015 @11:24AM (#10794436)
For young people in industries that pay CoL increases in cities (most of the hn crowd, I expect), high cost of living is a plus. Typically your entire salary scales with cost of living, so you can save more in expensive cities and then move somewhere cheaper later in life.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by salmonet on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:17PM (#10791672)
This isn't very surprising to me. 18 miles away on average is probably significantly farther away than the rest of the world
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by almost_usual on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:11AM (#10791391)
This thought consumes me a lot. Being an only child who has a mother that is 3,000 miles away and a father that is 2,000 miles away.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by theomega on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:18AM (#10791406)
Does anyone have comparable numbers for other countries?
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by theomega on Friday December 25, 2015 @10:41AM (#10791451)
German study on european countries: http://www.comparativepopulationstudies.de/index.php/CPoS/ar...

No need to understand German: Scroll to page 14 (of PDF). For Germany about 42% of the adult children live either at their parents ("Koresidenz") or within 5km of their parents. European average is 45%.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by chestnut-tree on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:37PM (#10791721)
Related, but not quite the same thing:

Europe's young adults living with parents - a country by country breakdown (2011)

http://www.theguardian.com/news/datablog/2014/mar/24/young-a...

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by jtheory on Friday December 25, 2015 @11:19AM (#10791540)
I married my college gf, whose parents live more than 9K miles from mine. This does indeed complicate life now that we have children, and as both sets of parents age.
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by altern8 on Friday December 25, 2015 @06:15PM (#10792672)
A tipical Italian lives in the other room :-/
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by rokhayakebe on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:55PM (#10791778)
I would like to see data on living close to your entire family and longevity, depression, "happiness."
Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by Shivetya on Friday December 25, 2015 @01:30PM (#10791881)
I guess I am typical now, I used to be a state or two away but I am within that limit expressed in the article now. My siblings are on the other side of the country.

What I find more interesting is how many people don't move far from where they are born and even more who never travel outside of their state.

Re:The Typical American Lives Only 18 Miles from Mom by desireco42 on Friday December 25, 2015 @12:49PM (#10791747)
Not that much different from Serbians :) who would have thought.