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Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by emadabdulrahim on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:17PM (#33523723)
I'm not a veteran (though I went through 1.5 year of mandatory service back in my country) but I constantly have nightmares for as long as I could remember. There are nights where I don't want to go to sleep because the night before I had a particularly disturbing nightmare. Remarkably scary dreams.

I'm healthy, exercise nearly ever day. I avoid eating several hours before bedtime.

I was diagnosed with GAD (general anxiety disorder) but I don't take any meds. I'm slowly coming to the realization that my baseline anxiety level is way higher than of the average person. For no apparent reason.

It's frustrating but I'm trying my best to figure out a long term solution.

edit: grammar

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by schoen on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:26PM (#33523834)
There are lots of therapies available for anxiety disorders -- medication, CBT, talk therapy, biofeedback. Some of the psychedelic therapies that are getting official trials now also show promise for anxiety. I hope you'll find something that works well for you!
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:01PM (#33524236)
>medication, CBT, talk therapy, biofeedback

A list of (expensive) pseudo-science.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by skyyler on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:05PM (#33524287)
CBT is backed by clinical evidence. What makes you think it's pseudo-scientific?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:15PM (#33524409)
Clinical means nothing. I can open a chiropractic clinic create “clinical” evidence all day long. It’s still pseudo-science if the results aren’t replicable.

Studies surrounding CBT (and the field of psychology as a whole) are not replicable. They are, almost always, based on converting qualitative metrics (how you feel) and filtering them through a designed survey in order to convert these qualitative, subjective abstractions into something that resembles something quantitative and scientific. The result is a field has with a ~40% replicability rate in it’s most “prestigious” journals. So, yes, the “professionals” have PhDs and use the doctor salutation. They’re not scientists. They’re just pretending.

Want to know what you almost never see in the studies investigating the effectiveness of these “therapies”? Life outcome investigations. “Do patients doing CBT actually recover from their depression, as measured by educational attainment/employment/regaining employment?” Good luck finding a study indicating that any significant subset of “depressed” people got over their issues as a result of the CBT itself with a HARD LIFE OUTCOME as the point of investigation. It’s all subjective feelings filtered through qualitative 1 thru 10 surveys. Patients never improve. They stay on the $200/session revenue stream forever and get a lifetime prescription to go with it, often for a nebulous “condition” that is basically synonymous with descriptions of the normal human condition. “I feel anxious” gets you a script. Outside of panic attacks, it’s a normal feeling. “I have trouble focusing” gets you an amphetamine script. It’s a normal feeling. “I lack motivation and purpose” gets you an SSRI, with nary a blood test or a scan of the brain. Again, a perfectly normal part of being a human. Psychotropic intervention in this field is barbaric and pseudoscientific. If there is any justice in this world, it will be held in the same esteem as lobotomy in the future.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by skyyler on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:50PM (#33524786)
This could be interesting reading for you: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3584580/

I'm still not sure what is pseudoscientific about "People with psychological problems can learn ways of coping with the problems, thereby relieving their symptoms."

That's what CBT is...

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:14PM (#33525056)
The assessment of their psychological “problem” (often too broad to even be considered a condition) is pseudoscientific: a qualitative evaluation.

The assessment of the success of CBT is also pseudoscientific: a qualitative evaluation.

The result is a field with 40% replicability of journal results.

And you share a meta analysis of these pseudo-scientific “studies”. Add another layer of abstraction to the nonsense.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by skyyler on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:16PM (#33525079)
Ahhhhh, all psychology is pseudoscience to you. That makes sense now.

That's completely fair, and I don't want to interact with that at all.

Have a nice day!

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by ketzo on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @08:35PM (#33526637)
Why do you completely discount qualitative evaluations?

If I say I feel shitty all the time, and then I go to therapy, and I say that I feel less shitty all the time... why is that invalid data?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by anna_hope on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:24PM (#33525161)
"Want to know what you almost never see in the studies investigating the effectiveness of these “therapies”? Life outcome investigations. “Do patients doing CBT actually recover from their depression, as measured by educational attainment/employment/regaining employment?”

That's actually exactly how they measure the efficacy of many psychological and psychiatric interventions for chronic mental health conditions, to the point of it being almost laughable, like if you managed to get a job or get better grades, that must mean you are doing better, everything else be damned. But I suppose that's the most objective metric there is.

"They stay on the $200/session revenue stream forever and get a lifetime prescription to go with it"

This is anecdotal, but every psychiatrist I've been to has attempted to titrate down the dose or remove a medication from my regimen if I've been on it a while, and observe if the improvements from those can be maintained.

Similarly, most of the therapists I have worked with proactively suggested reducing the frequency of sessions once they've observed improvement.

"often for a nebulous “condition” that is basically synonymous with descriptions of the normal human condition. “I feel anxious” gets you a script. Outside of panic attacks, it’s a normal feeling. “I have trouble focusing” gets you an amphetamine script. It’s a normal feeling. “I lack motivation and purpose” gets you an SSRI, with nary a blood test or a scan of the brain. Again, a perfectly normal part of being a human."

It's attitudes like these that contributed to me failing to seek the proper mental health treatment until later in my life, until my very real, very observable, non-nebulous conditions reached a life-threatening degree.

Something that is "normal" for some people some of the time can be disabling or life-threatening if experienced by someone most of the time. Most people experience physical pain at some points in their lives, but if you are in serious pain nearly every day, you would be right to seek treatment — and no, we don't have perfect tests for all kinds of pain either.

The fields of psychiatry and psychology have many problems, but being a pseudoscience is not one of them.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:43PM (#33525323)
>being a pseudoscience is not one of them.

Replicability is the measure. You don't get to opinion your way out of this.

40% replicability = not science.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by riwsky on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @06:42PM (#33525779)
“40% replicability” of a field doesn’t distinguish between “4 100% replicable studies + 6 0% replicable studies” and “10 40% replicable studies”, full-stops notwithstanding.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Sporktacular on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @06:37PM (#33525748)
I see you include medication as a pseudoscience too. Or is replicability not actually the measure?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:20PM (#33526057)
Which medication(s)? SSRIs? Have you actually looked at the pre-marketing “studies” of the most common drugs prescribed by psychs? I have.

By no stretch of any imagination are those studies replicable. And the diagnosis process is even worse —- no quantitative blood test, no scans, no nothing. Just ask the patient for verbal self-assessment, and prescribe. It’s a massive joke from start to finish.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Eleison23 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:27PM (#33526915)
Many psychiatrists I've met are apt to make a diagnosis merely on the patient's affect and demeanor. Since I have White Coat Syndrome, my affect and demeanor are always adverse in clinical settings. Since I was abused by my mother, the majority-female psychiatric clinic being very paternalistic and patronizing does not help one iota.

In the hospital the other day, the nurse asked "how are you doing" which is an essay question. I didn't feel like answering essay questions, so I just stared at her awhile. Later that day, I was diagnosed with 'catatonic schizophrenia' and earned an increased dosage of Ativan because the doctor said I didn't answer the nurse satisfactorily.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Eleison23 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:32PM (#33526937)
When I was 16, I was sexually assaulted by a Pharmacy Technician who was 20 years old at the time. She knew exactly how to ply me with alcohol and contraceptives. Of course I was totally into it, but being unable to consent, it was rape (the statute of limitations ran out definitively 2 months ago.)

She was a class-A scammer. She cheated on everything. She took me to Disneyland and tried to reuse the tickets. I took her to the Prom and she tried to return the wrong dress to the rental store. Walking around town, she would walk me into lamp posts. She mocked me and ridiculed me and I kept coming back for more.

I'll never forget her profession as a Pharmacy Technician. There is no coincidence that her status as a legal drug dealer and scammer brought her into my life. Every day she dealt with leeches, IV bags, PRNs, and Scheduled drugs. Every night she handed me a wine cooler or two and put an art film on the VCR. Unfortunately my parents and teachers were powerless to intervene at that point.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by andsoitis on Thursday November 17, 2022 @09:43AM (#33639493)
I'm really curious about how I should reconcile these two things you said:

> I was sexually assaulted

and

> Of course I was totally into it

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Sporktacular on Friday November 11, 2022 @06:43PM (#33568312)
Pharmacology is not pseudoscience.

Not hard to see why your comments have been downvoted to death.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Eleison23 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:24PM (#33526899)
Yes, that is anecdotal.

The SOP for every psychiatrist I've ever seen (and that's probably nearing 100 or so by now, over 30 years, 3 states and a dozen clinics) is to medicate until the patient is responding well, and to never ever even suggest that the patient should slow down, reduce or stop any medication. Because if the patient did so it would represent a clear and present danger and obstacle to recovery. The patient is seriously mentally ill and must take medications w, x, y and z for the rest of his life. Unless one of them creates a lot of side effects and then we'll tinker endlessly with new and different medications until he stops complaining so much of side effects, and/or he's too doped up and sleepy to care anyway.

It is absolutely preposterous for any psychiatrist to suggest that a patient titrate off drugs "to see what happens" or "just in case they've recovered". That's antithetical to their treatment methods which specify that chronic psychiatric illnesses must be treated with daily doses of medications with vague primary effects that can never be stopped.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by imiric on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @06:01PM (#33525475)
> They’re not scientists. They’re just pretending.

That's harsh.

You seem to want quantitative studies to prove the efficacy of methods that treat _psychological_ problems. Depending on the disorder, researchers can often only rely on patient assessments. Whether or not someone attained education or employment would be difficult to correlate as a direct effect of any specific treatment. Methods like CBT serve to give the patient a set of tools to approach their problems, and in the real world are often combined with other treatments. They're not silver bullets, nor do they work as well for everyone, since they do require a conscious effort from the patient.

It's like with meditation; some people claim it has transformed their lives, while it has little effect on others. There's little quantitative evidence to prove its efficacy. Should we dismiss the practice entirely because of this?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:27PM (#33526106)
> That's harsh.

It’s meant to be harsh. They’re mass-prescribing poorly understood psychoactive drugs based on unscientific assessments. They’re giving young children amphetamines for normal behavior (disliking school). They are kooks, and I have as much regards for them as I do for those that performed lobotomies.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Eleison23 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:34PM (#33526949)
The drugs typically have inverse effects to what they're supposed to do. Antidepressants cause suicidal ideations, this is well known, but did you know that they also cause homicidal ideations? The kids at Columbine were really smart kids, but their parents started medicating them and they got a lot worse.

Charles Whitman, U Texas, 1966, was on psychoactive medications such as Dexedrine; it's no coincidence that he was compelled to murder lots of people from that tower, not because of mental defect but because of drugs he was on.

Nancy Reagan was right. "Just Say No." I listen to Nancy Reagan.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by imiric on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @12:35AM (#33527853)
It's pointless arguing with you, as you have no intention of considering alternative viewpoints.

I'll just say that I wouldn't dismiss an entire field of study based on wrong actions by some, or even a majority, of practitioners. Psychology and psychiatry do help many people, and it's the best we can do for many psychological issues. Can it be abused and wrongly applied? Sure. But it's not pseudoscience, and its practitioners aren't "kooks".

The mind is an abstract concept, and we don't yet have the knowledge of how it interacts with the brain, a physical entity. If we did, all psychological issues would be studied and treated by neuroscience instead. In the meantime, we need branches of research that are not as well defined as traditional "hard" sciences.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by n0tth3dro1ds on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @06:09AM (#33529826)
> It's pointless arguing with you, as you have no intention of considering alternative viewpoints.

If by “alternative viewpoints” you mean unrepeatable non-science, then you’re absolutely right! Repeat your results and I’ll take you seriously.

> it's the best we can do for many psychological issues

You can’t make this claim without repeatable results

> The mind is an abstract concept, and we don't yet have the knowledge of how it interacts with the brain, a physical entity

This attitude is exactly how the lobotomy came about. “Let’s just mess with the brain (which we don’t understand). It’s the best we can do!”

Kooks!

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by contravariant on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:54PM (#33525420)
They're dismissing 'medicine' as pseudo-science, I think we can ignore their claims.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:15PM (#33526021)
I think the OC you're replying too is far out of line and replying on emotion (personal opinion, I am too haha), but I do find frustration at CBT being used as a modality for everyone and anyone, where it actively exacerbates symptoms for a set of the population (complex trauma survivors) that looks like the target audience (mild/moderate anxiety/depression), which can create a watershed effect making the less struggling people better off and the more struggling people hurt and disillusioned with the system.

I wish there was enough coverage and recognition to have multiple pathways, or some kind of effective gated treatment going to something like CBT or over to something like Janina Fisher's empirical work practically extending IFS in a nearly universally palatable way (seriously, I'm very impressed with her work and it's among my favorites that I've ever read in the field. I keep coming away with stuff that blows my socks off. Clinically-discovered gold! :D)

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by gffrd on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:42PM (#33525306)
What other approaches do you propose?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by simplify on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:15PM (#33526847)
There is no science that helps stop someone from hating themselves. Worthless comment.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by bheadmaster on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @02:48AM (#33528541)
> There is no science that helps stop someone from hating themselves

If that were true, wouldn't that prove his point?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by simplify on Thursday November 10, 2022 @08:38AM (#33546191)
His point is worthless. Just because you can't scientifically measure something doesn't mean it doesn't improve people's lives. The underlying assumption here is "if it's not scientific, then it's not helpful", which is extremely stupid.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by bheadmaster on Thursday November 10, 2022 @01:00PM (#33550513)
I understood his point as "it isn't scientific, therefore we can't be sure it's helpful, therefore it shouldn't be the go-to advice for anyone suffering from mental issues". His phrasing is aggressive and generalizing, and he should've probably used a better choice of words.

But it's a point I somewhat agree with. I've personally tried different kinds of therapy for my issues, years at a time, and I can say with certainty that my time was wasted. I also personally know multiple people who've had similar experience.

One reply I can imagine is "but maybe you didn't put enough effort/spend enough time" - in which case I'd like to ask, in what way does that argument differ from the religious argument of "if God doesn't help you, you didn't pray enough"?

Another reply I can imagine is "it doesn't work deterministically, psychology/psychiatry is not an exact science" - in which case it would prove the original comment's point. It might as well all be bloody hogwash, and yet people recommend it all the time because it's "science".

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by Rimintil on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:12PM (#33524372)
Another therapy is a ganglion nerve block.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by intelVISA on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:34PM (#33524629)
I need this for dealing with undocumented Win32 APIs
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:10PM (#33525991)
I'm rather growing to dislike this therapy as it just separates two parts of the brain, effectively, which can provide temporary relief while allowing for the mutual information drift between them to grow, which further can exacerbate the internal fragmentation experienced in trauma survivors. DID already has this kind of soft separation as a coping mechanism, and much of therapy is oriented in stabilizing, then undoing the block.

I guess I'm biased but I very much lean towards methods that force interconnection while providing emotional pain numbing/relief (Ketamine), or more high-flying methods that force the brain to a higher temporary state of functional connectivity and by some of the consequences of massively increased entropy, chip away at the problem.

I guess the other part is that seems to be soft form of the conservation of energy when it comes to the information of grief and grief processing. Unprocessed grief has to go somewhere and oftentimes it's where you'll see people after a few decades completely break down from the overload (and in the years it takes to decompress and manually process the grief -- Pete Walker is one expert that I refer to who's pretty well-respected all around).

I guess it's up to one's belief as to whether the neuron group on the other side of the ganglion nerve block is conscious enough to suffer. I've had enough experience with DID persons to be extraordinarily uncomfortable with any kind of extended "walling off" strategy, no matter how small or seemingly insignificant on the surface that part of the brain may be.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by dimator on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:25PM (#33523822)
I have many friends that use marijuana in the evening, which helps them relax and sleep. Edibles are very effective these days.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by jakear on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:30PM (#33523879)
As relevant here, it blocks REM sleep and thus dreams. This can have downsides.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by yamazakiwi on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:29PM (#33524564)
That is only in high THC strains. Many people use cannabinoids before bed as a supplement to encourage REM sleep.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by eurasiantiger on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:46PM (#33524745)
It can also have significant upsides.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by gedy on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:45PM (#33524060)
Pot triggers panic attacks in some people though.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by TaylorAlexander on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:32PM (#33524605)
I quit marijuana, but I did use it daily for years. An under appreciated aspect of pot and anxiety is the strain consumed. Broadly speaking pot is put in to two categories: indica and sativa. More indica leaning strains will produce more of a body depressing feeling of relaxation and tiredness. Sativas are more associated with alertness, and as I used pot while doing other things I only consumed pure sativas. However some strains of pure sativa are particularly prone to increasing anxiety. When I encountered those strains I had to stop consuming them and look for something else. Dosage is also very important. I consumed only roughly a pea-sized amount of ground flour in a sitting. High doses of sativa are much more likely to highten anxiety. I think it’s common for people to take a big rip of pot and suffer negative side effects. Very small doses are under appreciated I believe.

That said I quit marijuana early this year. I think overall my anxiety has decreased. I believe I may have been masking emotional problems, and quitting marijuana made it easier for me to process them. However if someone is having nightmares, they may consider smoking indica before bed. It may always depend on the strain, but I believe indica is unlikely to trigger panic attacks.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by freedomben on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:26PM (#33524528)
Particularly if you take too high a dose. If it happens, I recommend reducing the intake.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by squeaky-clean on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:01PM (#33525918)
It happens to me with only the tiniest little green speck in a bowl. Regardless of strain. Sometimes it's because someone took to much, but some people really do just get panic attacks from it.

I used to be a daily smoker, then something in my body just flipped. I have a couple friends where the same thing happened in their early 30s.

I've gotten bad anxiety from smoking too much in the past, but these are different. Full blown panic attacks with heart-attack-like symptoms and crushing fear. (My cardiologist checked me out, it really is just panic attacks).

It did used to be great at preventing nightmares for me (and it was fun). Sure, sleep quality was worse than ideal but I almost never had an ideal night of sleep. But now I've tried too many times to find "the secret" to stop me from having panic attacks, nothing works and it's just made me become anxious at the sight/smell of weed.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by BaronVonSteuben on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @08:08PM (#33526396)
Interesting, thanks for sharing. If you haven't tried it, Alprazolam (Xanax) has been a miracle for panic attacks, although these days it's pretty difficult to get from doctors. Modern American society seems to have decided that any medication that can possibly be abused is evil and must not be used even if somebody could really benefit from it. If you get some though, do NOT take it all the time and build a physical dependence. Withdrawing from Benzos is worse than opioids. If you only take it occasionally though you won't have any issues.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by anonymouswacker on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:35PM (#33523943)
Have you tried seeing a psychoanalyst, or otherwise delving into the meaning of dreams/nightmares? "What you resist persists."
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by more_corn on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:31PM (#33523890)
You sound like the perfect candidate for nightware. You should check it out and report back. I’d like to believe the marketing, but it sounds too good to be true.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by lisper on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @03:50PM (#33524113)
You are not alone. My earliest memories (like from age 3-4) are of very specific nightmares, and they have continued to dog me my entire life. (Also in 1991 I surprised a burglar in my home who took a pot-shot at me with a .38 on his way out the window, and that didn't help.)

FWIW:

1. I think it's genetic. Anxiety seems to run in my family. We are descended from Holocaust survivors. I think it is plausible that that one event produced strong evolutionary selection pressure in favor of paranoia and anxiety.

2. It gets better as you get older (at least it has for me).

3. Anxiety is a self-fulfilling prophecy. If you're afraid of being anxious, that makes you more anxious. Meditation helps. Quiet and/or white noise too.

Good luck.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by shagie on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:05PM (#33524289)
> 1. I think it's genetic. Anxiety seems to run in my family. We are descended from Holocaust survivors. I think it is plausible that that one event produced strong evolutionary selection pressure in favor of paranoia and anxiety.

It's... interesting genetics.

https://www.theguardian.com/science/neurophilosophy/2011/sep...

> How might the traumatic experiences of a pregnant woman be transmitted to her unborn children? Research published over the past 10 years or so suggests that this probably occurs by epigenetic mechanisms. Epigenetics is the study of heritable changes in gene activity that are not due to changes in DNA sequence. Epigenetics reveals how genes interact with environmental factors, and has been implicated in many normal and abnormal brain functions.

> A key study in this emerging field, published in 2004, showed that the quality of a rat mother's care significantly affects how its offspring behave in adulthood. Michael Meaney of McGill University and his colleagues found that rat pups that had been repeatedly groomed and licked by their mothers during the first week of life were subsequently better at coping with stressful and fearful situations than pups who received little or no contact.

> They further showed that these effects are mediated by epigenetic mechanisms that alter expression of the glucocorticoid receptor, which plays a key role in the body's response to stress. Analysis of the pups' brains at one week old revealed differences in DNA methylation, a process by which DNA is chemically modified. Methylation involves the addition of small molecules called methyl groups, consisting of one carbon and three hydrogen atoms, to specific sites in the DNA sequence encoding a gene.

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Grandmaternal stress during pregnancy and DNA methylation of the third generation: an epigenome-wide association study - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC5611722/

> Stress during pregnancy may impact subsequent generations, which is demonstrated by an increased susceptibility to childhood and adulthood health problems in the children and grandchildren. Although the importance of the prenatal environment is well reported with regards to future physical and emotional outcomes, little is known about the molecular mechanisms that mediate the long-term consequences of early stress across generations. Recent studies have identified DNA methylation as a possible mediator of the impact of prenatal stress in the offspring. Whether psychosocial stress during pregnancy also affects DNA methylation of the grandchildren is still not known. In the present study we examined the multigenerational hypothesis, that is, grandmaternal exposure to psychosocial stress during pregnancy affecting DNA methylation of the grandchildren. We determined the genome-wide DNA methylation profile in 121 children (65 females and 56 males) and tested for associations with exposure to grandmaternal interpersonal violence during pregnancy. We observed methylation variations of five CpG sites significantly (FDR<0.05) associated with the grandmother’s report of exposure to violence while pregnant with the mothers of the children. The results revealed differential methylation of genes previously shown to be involved in circulatory system processes (FDR<0.05). This study provides support for DNA methylation as a biological mechanism involved in the transmission of stress across generations and motivates further investigations to examine prenatal-dependent DNA methylation as a potential biomarker for health problems.

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Intergenerational effects of maternal post-traumatic stress disorder on offspring epigenetic patterns and cortisol levels - https://www.futuremedicine.com/doi/10.2217/epi-2021-0015

> Aim: To investigate the association between maternal post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD) during pregnancy and offspring DNA methylation and cortisol levels. Materials & methods: Blood genome-wide DNA methylation and cortisol was measured in the youngest child of 117 women who experienced sexual violence/torture during the Kosovo war. Results: Seventy-two percent of women had PTSD symptoms during pregnancy. Their children had higher cortisol levels and differential methylation at candidate genes (NR3C1, HTR3A and BNDF). No methylation differences reached epigenome-wide corrected significance levels. Conclusion: Identifying the biological processes whereby the negative effects of trauma are passed across generations and defining groups at high risk is a key step to breaking the intergenerational transmission of the effects of mental disorders

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And specifically about Holocaust survivors - Study finds epigenetic changes in children of Holocaust survivors https://www.research.va.gov/currents/1016-3.cfm

> The researchers focused on FKBP5, a stress gene linked to PTSD, depression, and mood and anxiety disorders. The results suggest that Holocaust exposure had an effect on FKBP5 methylation—a mechanism that controls the gene's expression—that was observed in parents exposed to the horrors of the concentration camps, as well as their offspring, many of whom showed signs of depression and anxiety.

> ...

> She says the researchers pursued this study because offspring of Holocaust survivors "said to us in clinic, 'we are casualties of the Holocaust and need treatment.'" Her team tested blood samples of 32 Holocaust survivors and 22 of their adult children for methylation of intron 7, an area in the FKBP5 gene. For a control group, they analyzed Jewish parents who lived outside of Europe during World War II—most were U.S.- or Canadian-born—and their offspring.

> Interestingly, Holocaust survivors and their children showed epigenetic changes at the same site of FKBP5 intron 7 but in the opposite direction. Survivors had a 10 percent higher methylation than the control parents, while the Holocaust children had a 7.7 percent lower methylation than the control children.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by eurasiantiger on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:48PM (#33524772)
If only there was a way to demethylate our DNA!

Of course, more relevant is to keep from methylating new DNA, and there we can actually make choices that matter.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by shagie on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:36PM (#33525277)
Editing DNA Methylation in the Mammalian Genome - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/27662091/

And from there, the related cites and papers.

This is something that is active research as other diseases are also "turned on" by incorrect methylation. DNA methylation in human diseases - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC6147084/

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by givemeethekeys on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:05PM (#33524282)
I suffered for a couple of decades: anxiety, random panic. I was able to address them by following the following:

1. Have things to look forward to.

2. Pay attention to nutrition, health, rest, breathing, exercise.

3. Meditate. Socialize.

4. Occasionally when anxiety grows, breathe, visualize yourself performing a repetitive yet fun activity (like swimming laps, chopping vegetables.. whatever takes focus). Your heart rate will drop and things will calm down.

Sometimes when your heart is racing, it's possible you just have pent up energy and you need to crank out some pushups and squats at 3am. Such is life.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by sossles on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @06:45PM (#33525810)
4. is underrated and mysterious. I've dealt with periods of anxiety by playing an online competitive card game, something that "should" be stressful, but having played it hundreds of times before, the steady stream of familiar choices that ultimately don't matter, is soothing.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by girthbrooks on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:32PM (#33526935)
When I'm spun up I try to avoid additional physical exercise as I don't want to have a stroke or a heart attack or something. I'm physically fit and my resting heart rate is in the 48-51bpm region day to day.

Am I completely overthinking this?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by jwagenet on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:41PM (#33526979)
I’m not familiar with the medical evidence, but… why would exercise instigate a cardiac event when anxious? Perhaps if having a panic attack it would be unwise, but I feel like exercise can serve as a distraction or outlet to anxiety and be beneficial on the whole.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by anon400232 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:46PM (#33526999)
Please explain what you mean by spun up.

If we are talking about emotional stress coupled with a slight increase in heart rate, I would not be concerned about doing exercise. Quite the opposite -- I think a quick jog around the block can do wonders.

The key is to be able to do the exercise without bringing additional stress.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by rendx on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @05:37AM (#33529613)
The key element in my personal experience is to make peace with how things are in that moment. That something triggered this unpleasant emotional state/disturbance, that it is totally okay, and not to push it away but instead give it gentle, loving awareness. The trick that works for me is to think of someone who I love, or someone who loves me, imagine that we look each other in the eyes or gently touch the part of the body that feels unpleasant, feel the "warmth of love" developing in me, and then switch from using a third party to myself, so both the sender and recipient of love is me. Looking into the mirror helps. And then staying present with the sensations, realizing that I can have a clear and calm mind and the unpleasant sensations at the same time, give them the attention they deserve, passively listening to what kind of memories come up (if any), and just wait and give it time.

For example, I might suddenly get hit with a feeling of terrible loneliness, even though I am with my partner or among friends. Instead of telling myself "hey, listen, you are not alone, stop feeling lonely!", I tell myself "this is a memory of a moment where you really were left alone. poor me. thank you for reminding me of that past horrible moment, now that i am fully capable of giving it the loving attention that it deserved back them but didn't get".

This process takes some effort to learn, and accepting that you are still learning and not already perfect at it is a key part of the practice. But even small moments where it "works" in my experience finally actually resolve stored up emotions, so each time an unpleasant emotion comes up it hits me less and less. It is not important to understand exactly what triggered it, or what the past traumatic memory is. Do not ask yourself, just be, and open your heart.

There are many different descriptions of techniques. The one I like the most is "Feeding your demons" by Tsultrim Allione.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by rendx on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @09:49AM (#33532333)
Another helpful and calming thought that works for me is to "know" that "my system decided" to release that exact level of stored up emotions, because it is confident that I can deal with that amount right in that moment, and that self-regulation will take care not to overwhelm me but always only give me as much as I can handle.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by aantix on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:18PM (#33524438)
Have you ever had a hair tissue mineral analysis done?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by cm2012 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:20PM (#33524452)
My wife had horrible, hours long life-disrupting nightmares every day. Prazosin, a medicine your doctor can prescribe, solved them within a week, they are much less common and much less intense now. Highly recommend to try.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by eurasiantiger on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:34PM (#33524626)
Highly not recommended for men! Prazosin decreases luteinizing hormone (LH), follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) and ultimately testosterone levels.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by blacksmith_tb on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:54PM (#33524837)
Sleep deprivation also lowers testosterone levels[1], and Prazosin is commonly prescribed to men with benign prostate enlargement, so pick your battles?

1: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4445839/

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by eurasiantiger on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @06:47AM (#33530211)
The OP article actually mentions prazosin:

>“There is a medication that a lot of them are on called Prazosin, which is actually a blood pressure drug, but it doesn’t work for many patients, has a lot of side effects, and also decreases your athletic performance. And in the military, athletic performance is very, very important.”

>Robert Guithues knew Prazosin well — after he returned from Afghanistan, it was one of the 30 pills he was taking daily to help with the injuries he sustained while deployed, including PTSD and nightmares. But sleep was still elusive, and he knew there had to be a better solution than the drugs, which he feared were doing more harm to his body than good.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by heavyset_go on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:23PM (#33524497)
Prazosin is the one drug on the market approved for PTSD-related nightmares, I've heard that it works well, but it's a blood pressure medication, so it might not be well tolerated based on conditions or other medications taken.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by nonameiguess on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:24PM (#33524510)
For what it's worth, though you're clearly not eligible for American VA benefits if you served in a non-American military, the legal definition of a "veteran" in the US is anyone who performed any active-duty military service at all. You don't need to see combat to be considered a veteran. You're obviously less likely to end up with PTSD if you don't see combat, though you'd be surprised. Training can be rough and a fairly high number of people end up being assaulted and/or raped while in garrison, and of course several US military installations have also been the site of mass-shooting events.

Anyway, if this has happened your entire life, I wonder if there is really anything you can do about it. That seems distinct from trauma-induced. This seems to describe my sister. From as early as I can remember, so at least when she was as young as 3, she was waking up in cold sweats pretty regularly having dreams the entire family except her was murdered in the middle of the night. Myself, I can't remember ever having a single nightmare my entire life, and I served in the Army during Iraq and Afghanistan and even outside of the military had a few near-death encounters. Some people are just a lot more predisposed to worry than others. It's not necessarily a bad trait, either. I'm reasonably sure the high number of near-death experiences for me is because I'm way too prone to idiotic risks because I never believe anything bad will happen. And always surviving just reinforces that even though I know rationally I just got lucky. Humanity exists right now because my ancestors were mostly a lot more anxious than I am.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by dkiok21k on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:01PM (#33525919)
"The child survives the Trauma of Identity by giving up on his healthy identity, his autonomy, in order to have some connection with his mother, without whom he cannot survive. He is forced to identify with his mother's wants and needs, where his wants and needs are ignored, mis-interpreted or used as a means of persecution by the mother. This, then, brings the therapeutic question "Who am I?". And existentially this question is automatically followed by the question "What do I want?", because in order to know what I want I must have a reasonable sense of who I am.

The Trauma of Love happens when the connection that the child does manage to maintain with his mother after the Trauma of Identity is not in effect a clear, loving connection, but rather a connection that is painful, unfulfilling, manipulative and persecutory.

These traumas form the foundation of our life, our ability to grow up with a healthy, stable psyche, or not. All later experiences that constitute a trauma are always, also, a re-stimulation of these early, pre-verbal, pre-memory events."

https://www.vivianbroughton.com/about-iopt/

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by mtalantikite on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:34PM (#33524621)
I used to have night terrors as a kid and I can relate to that feeling of not wanting to go to bed. I'm not sure if they're genetic or not -- my father grew up during the Algerian revolution, so it's hard to tell if his nightmares are just an artifact of being terrorized by French colonists.

I also had a period of getting panic attacks in my early 20s. One thing that was/has been super helpful for my anxiety and general well being was starting a daily meditation practice. The Tibetan teacher Mingyur Rinpoche also had an anxiety disorder and had panic attacks as a child, and is a very clear teacher, if you're ever looking for someone to explore that with. I had had a lot of meditation experience before starting it, but I found his `Joy of Living` course to be very good (if a little basic at first). [1][2]

[1] https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m38SwUKZZJw

[2] https://joy.tergar.org/

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by rpastuszak on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:39PM (#33524665)
> [...] my father grew up during the Algerian revolution, so it's hard to tell if his nightmares are just an artifact of being terrorized by French colonists.

Epigenetics in the wild: https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/how-parents-rsquo...

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by wsc981 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @10:18PM (#33527176)
Gabor Maté [0] also discusses this topic often, particularly related to children. You can find quite a few interesting interviews with him online, for example with Joe Rogan [1] or Tim Feriss [2].

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[0]: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gabor_Maté

[1]: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fkAcJBjutiQ

[2]: https://youtu.be/H9B5mYfBPlY?t=3944

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by rpastuszak on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @07:46AM (#33530766)
Ha, interesting. I learned about Maté during my previous gig (generative music for psychedelic therapy). Will give it a read, cheers.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by mtalantikite on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @10:02AM (#33532533)
Thanks to both of you for the links. I've read some about epigenetics and trauma research, and Maté's research looks like something I'd be very interested in.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @12:08PM (#33534585)
I really appreciate Adyashanti's teachings, I've found that he is generally really practical, down to earth, and generally on-the-money (if seemingly nonsensical on some topics...at first. :) ) :)
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by blamazon on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:37PM (#33524645)
I can relate to the description. I don't wish to take meds on a regular basis, but I was prescribed a small dose of clonazepam to take occasionally to help dispel the worst panic attacks. I take perhaps 1-10 doses a month. Really helps for the I can't sleep nights. I find that just having that option available to me helps calm my baseline in general. Between this and therapy I feel much less anxious overall.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by irthomasthomas on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @04:39PM (#33524662)
Try sleeping on your side only, or try a snore alarm or breathing aids like nasal strips or decongestant. I find my nightmares and sleep paralysis are linked to snoring. When you snore you are not getting enough oxygen and your heart rate increases to compensate. Then for some weird reason your brain invents dream scenarios to match your racing heart.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by SXX on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:04PM (#33524947)
I'm not actual doctor and there can be better ways to threat your problem, but here are two things that helped me greatly with quality of sleep.

First of all buy yourself high-quality CO2 meter for ~$100 and make sure that CO2 not going over 1000 PPM while you sleeping. Every single time I sleep in closed room with bad ventilation where CO2 getting over 1200-1500 PPM I will wake up in terror. You can't imagine how many people I knew had terrible quality of sleep due to bad ventilaton and never realise it.

Second thing if nothing else works. Try strictly-scientific lucid dreaming practices: record as much of dreams is possible in a diary for several months, do deep breathing before sleep, etc. Looking at your hands every now and then is required and slightly weird, but it totally worth it. Once you get lucid in a dream once and preserve memory of it will become much easier to deal with nightmares.

Lucid dreaming cost nothing even though some REM sleep tracker like one in Apple Watch is useful. Though beware of bullshit.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by anon400232 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:52PM (#33527027)
I don't understand how ventilation could cause CO2 to get that imbalanced. Can you cite a source?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by SXX on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @01:17AM (#33528059)
ELI5?

- Your normal city air CO2 is 350-500 PPM.

- Humans exhale CO2.

- In closed unventilated bedroom CO2 have nowhere to go.

- Air isn't being mixed when you sleep too.

- In few hours PPM can grow to 2000 or higher.

- Cheap air conditioners either dont have fresh air ventilation at all or dont have sufficient efficiency to compensate for two humans breathing.

You can google actual numbers elsewhere. Solution usually consist to sleeping with open windows or getting proper fresh air ventination system.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by anon400232 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:53PM (#33527037)
> You can't imagine how many people I knew had terrible quality of sleep due to bad ventilaton and never realise it.

Try me. How many?

How many tried the intervention you recommended? How many saw a benefit? How many did not?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by SXX on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @01:36AM (#33528162)
Like 10 different people so far?

I've been living in both nothern country where people dont tend to open windows because it -10C outside. And I also lived in SEA where expats literally live with windows constantly closed and conditioner on all due to high temperature and humidity.

I guess in US owner of 150+ m2 / $500,000+ house will never have problems like bad ventilation, but people with worse living conditions and small appartments certainly can certainly have such issues.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by anon400232 on Saturday November 19, 2022 @12:39PM (#33672431)
I found some studies from OSHA (the United States gov't agency) about very high carbon dioxide levels in certain industry settings, such as where dry ice is used. Effects on cognition are significant at high levels.

But understanding the effects of CO2 in more every day situation seems more complicated. It is also hard to find good rules of thumb about guidelines about when to look more deeply and pay to get measurements.

But I haven't found high-quality studies that talk about residential settings. My Google results seem to be populated with companies trying to sell stuff. So based on maybe 30 minutes of research, I remain practically skeptical.

I'm interested in learning more, Starting with the chemistry and, ?, airflow properties of CO2 in air, and then working up to biology. Would you mind sharing high-quality resources you recommend?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by c4ptnjack on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @12:02AM (#33527682)
I would love a source for the theory on CO2 and poor sleep. Sounds interesting despite my skepticism after a Google search.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by SXX on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @01:04AM (#33527996)
Just google something like "Acceptable CO2 Levels in Commercial Buildings" or check out UK government website on hazards of CO2. [1]

I personally might be more sensetive than others, but real issues start when PPM going over 2000. Two sleeping people in small room with bad ventilation can easily bring it as high as 2500 in 3-4 hours.

Also if you're cooking on gas in small appartment and have bad ventilation you can easily bring it to 3000-4000 in much shorter period of time.

[1] https://www.hse.gov.uk/carboncapture/carbondioxide.htm

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by cbtacy on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:13PM (#33525048)
That sounds very frustrating and difficult. I'm really sorry. Do you have good professional care? Are you in a safe place?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by phyzix5761 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:28PM (#33525204)
Meditation definitely helps. A combination of Metta, Anapanasati, and Vipassana mediation really helped me.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by phyzix5761 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @11:04PM (#33527401)
Meditation*
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by lake_vincent on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:43PM (#33525322)
If I may suggest something unorthodox - have you tried psychedelic therapy? And I don't mean just taking a psychedelic, I mean working with a therapist to go on an intentional healing journey.

Might be worth a trip to Oregon :)

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by fudgefactorfive on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @05:49PM (#33525373)
I admit, although not medically prescribed or supervised, doing mushrooms has been one of the most rewarding experiences of my life.

Although I still have persistent nightmares it changed my understanding of other people and their perspectives to the point my anxiety in a lot of situations has vanished.

I don't think people should go nuts with them but I do think it's a good idea for some people with anxiety to find a clean pleasant care-free place to try them. Even if it just allows them to spend a few hours immersing themselves in completely different thought patterns and potentially gain something from them.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by dkiok21k on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @06:55PM (#33525881)
I recommend to try the free workshops by https://www.identitydevelopmentinstitute.com/ - please report back!
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:04PM (#33525943)
Complex PTSD can be a condition that involves significant to total amnesia of the events causing it, while seeming to appear as constant hypervigilance in the present day. Just a note, even parental emotional neglect (which we tend to develop a blind eye to purely for survival's sake) is enough to cause c-PTSD to form (as defined in the most recent ICD).

I'm not necessarily DX'ing but I wish someone had pointed me at some resources when I was just starting to ask the inkling of the same questions. I'm getting to do the work at a much younger age that I see not many people doing until the end of their lives, though it is sort of hell being young and all.

Pete Walker's book on Complex PTSD is an amazing read regardless for anyone in the community, I'd say without diagnosing that as a potential avenue -- take a read of a few snippets, see if they resonate with you (or trigger massive denial/distraction chains), and just work your way through the book slowly if so. The techniques in there can help anyone with even "just" an internal (or otherwise) critic. :)

Hope this helps, the brain is an interesting place and we've only gotten some really good resources for misc conditions that don't externally seem to fit a particular mold. I'm starting to believe that every trauma reaction variant is some exemplar mode of some superset of possible adaptive coping mechanisms, and that in reality the dx and treatment of these things can be much more on point than the diagnosis of "anxiety" or "depression", which I'm viewing more and more as exceptionally frivolous and misleading as a standalone diagnosis (instead of as a descriptor, or a modifier), and is oftentimes as effective as diagnosing someone with "a fever" or "chills and aches". Doing so would alienate the person (in my eyes) and would take a place in a/the diagnosis "slot" that could hold something more informative to their actual base condition (instead of being a rather shallow observation with practically zero actionable value.... And we wonder why a variety of treatments for depression, for example, have low-30's success ratings across multiple stages of trying different treatments! I can't remember the exact numbers but the 4-5 stage...STAR study, I think it is, was one of the biggest and rather disappointing. The future seems somewhat promising but still too far away.... ::( )

Knowing _why_ is the very extremely hard part. :))))

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by creakingstairs on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @08:16PM (#33526479)
> Complex PTSD can be a condition that involves significant to total amnesia of the events causing it

I have a high baseline anxiety and pretty much no memory of anything pre 8 (except for very small fragments). When I’ve come across amnesia part while reading “Body keeps scores”, it frankly frightened me (and still does) of what might be lurking in my past.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by nrjames on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:18PM (#33526861)
Selective childhood amnesia occurs in most people and is not necessarily an indication of any trauma: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Childhood_amnesia
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by creakingstairs on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @09:44PM (#33526991)
I also have other worrying symptoms I’d rather not disclose here but it’s more assuring to hear that it’s more common than I thought. Cheers.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by dkiok21k on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @02:18AM (#33528380)
After studying this topic intensely for my own sake, I'd say it is more common than you thought because childhood trauma is more common than you think.

It can even be minor, little things that can cause memory splits in children for survival sake. These splits set the ground for future splits.

https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/48655845-who-am-i-in-a-t...

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @04:18AM (#33529050)
I think it can be very strange that the people who are not broken stand out as weird (and maybe even aloof) in a very broken emotional society.

As I've been healing more and growing as a person, my extended and close family, which unfortunately are extremely dysfunctional, have pushed me away more and more. It seems like most people have a story like that, which is why I do have hopes that journeywork and related spiritualism, or at least some kind of vehicle, social or otherwise, with that kind of strong effect comes forward in the coming years.

Thanks for putting the book down too, now I'm really interested to read it. :D :))))

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @04:13AM (#33529015)
That is a really good book (if triggering for many trauma survivors due to being...rather explicit in specific examples of traumas similar to many readers! D: ). That said, I believe that it really was the seminal one that basically changed a lot of the applied complex trauma field that I see today. IIRC he's been responsible for trying to get cPTSD into the DSM for like... 30 years at this point? Legend. There's even a ton of hit pieces on him on Google when searching for trauma memories/false memories, I'm assuming from the fact that he was court witness over how trauma memories can be extremely accurate due to how the PTSD overspill works. People who have money, no morals, and are in the group that would do things to their children that no one should do... I don't have proof but that is quite interesting. Especially as many articles (even one that got published on the NIH website in connection to him negatively) have surprisingly little substance and such.

Anywho.

Don't rush the process please, of whatever it is. Your body and brain are probably right in some way. It's okay to practice breathing and what Pete Walker talks about in his book, or my go-to starter for anyone even near the topic -- Janina Fisher's "Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors". So good, very little triggering too which is excellente by me.

The main book people read on Polyvagal therapy that's really popular and well rated us good too, I think the author may have been a Susan? That's a good follow-up but more a rider-on/adjunct to me of a very specific "okay how do we get the body in a more continuous kind of safe state. :D :)"

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by hackerlight on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @12:48AM (#33527916)
What are the differences between Complex PTSD and GAD?
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by pc2g4d on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @03:10AM (#33528660)
Complex PTSD has more to do with a person's concept of self, ability to have intimate relationships, etc. But there's probably no fine line between them.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @04:01AM (#33528933)
There's a lot, I'd encourage you to pursue a few different definitions. I'd argue that anxiety is a symptom, effectively, and C-PTSD is a condition.

C-PTSD actually requires a lot of work to properly diagnose, whereas GAD tends to be "Anxiety: The Condition", which allows a clinician to diagnose in an insurance company and report friendly way. It can help a person start their journey but is a shallow diagnosis.

Generally C-PTSD is a plethora of things -- internal fragmentation (~1 in 12 or so people are diagnosably plural afaik from the studies I found [i.e. osdd, which no one seems to really know about, to did], though most plurals will never find out about their plurality as it is exceptionally stealthy. Also it's a spectrum meant to hide itself from the brain's "user", as it were, so the subtlety of spectrum disorders adds to the mix), difficulty in relationships (it is in the trifecta of "social stuff trouble conditions" of ADHD, autism, and, well, cPTSD), generally at least occasionally unstable emotional state (which can be entirely internal) which oftentimes is hypersensitive to environmental triggers, and a need for control of relationships and environment (not necessarily evil top hat villain manipulation, this can even be just using a fawn trauma response in constantly giving up self to an extraordinary amount to keep the peace, keep relationships, etc).

Everything seems to be on a co-spectrum, cPTSD is just a map marker for a family I'd contest. It has a ton of overlaps with BPD, for example. cPTSD is differentiated from DID in that the different parts of the brain in cPTSD are not considered especially distinct, but there's also some tricky DID business people's brains can play to stuff certain nearly independent parts of a person away so they'd look more like a low-level cPTSD kind of automatic trauma triggered/autonomic response, etc.

I'm not a clinician, etc, etc, hope that helps from a technical perspective some. Feel free to ask any questions you might have. :)

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by pc2g4d on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @03:14AM (#33528683)
Just finished Pete Walker's book, also recommend. One of the most helpful things I've come across for dealing with the neglect I and my siblings experienced growing up. It's hard to know what you don't know... until you know it!
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by tbalsam on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @04:07AM (#33528981)
I honestly would like to find effective avenues to raise awareness of this. I have a pretty interesting mental health history and story (in my judgement) along these lines that I think could help people. But at the baseline, just advocating for it is really good so far.

Really glad you liked Pete's book. Janina Fisher's "Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors" is my other greatest of all time book in the area that I recommend. It's my first go-to over "The Body Keeps the Score" just because somehow Dr. Fisher has a method that works palatably with someone from even "low-grade" trauma to even what I think would be some polyfragmented DID systems, in some kind of Jedi-mind trick set of tools that works really well while dodging most of the myriad of situational triggers that are unique to each trauma survivor. I highly recommend it if you're interested, it adds a flip side of compassion and self-team building that I think Walker's book can go a bit harshly on as it seems to be more centric on the part of the brain experiencing daily life as the reference for others to be compared to. Both books are fantastic and balance each other out, I just started my second read on Fisher's book and am trying to wrap up Walker's. Give that one a go if you're interested, the audiobook is the cheapest!

Happy to chat about the topic, I love and am passionate about this field as you can guess. :D :)

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by LeifCarrotson on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @07:53PM (#33526291)
FWIW, your baseline anxiety level is way higher than mine. My parents tell me stories of when I was a kid and would come to them with nightmares on a couple funny occasions, but it's been decades since I've had what I'd call a nightmare. I have rational concerns about elements of my future that look negative but over which I have limited control - economic, political, ecological, health, and other general concerns - but I don't fixate on them or dream about them. I relish going to sleep, and have either forgettable dreams or pleasant dreams. I enjoy quiet time with my thoughts, going for a jog or bike ride, or just relaxing in the backyard and daydreaming.

I see others here talking about high anxiety, and I hope that you're able to find a solution for your issues, but your baseline anxiety level sounds like it's orders of magnitude higher than mine. I'm not trying to brag, I just want to share in the hopes of getting some idea of "average person" - am I perhaps far less anxious than "normal"?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by dm03514 on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @08:05PM (#33526381)
I have a theory that people with anxiety (i.e. myself) have a strong mind -> body connection, but in a negative way.

My anxious thoughts lead directly to physiological changes, increased heart rate, shallow breathing, sweating etc. Based on the people in my life without anxiety, they can have similar thoughts as me, even "anxious" in nature, but they don't seem to have the physiological response that I do, as an anxious person. What do you all think?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by photochemsyn on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @08:53PM (#33526729)
Sleeping with headphones listening to a loop of ocean sounds, or wind in a forest, etc. can be helpful. Exceptionally vivid dreams can get disrupted this way, anecdotally speaking. It seems a little like what this Nightware app is supposed to do. I'd find vivid dreams getting literally washed away by ocean waves using this method, i.e. you might be having a nightmare, and then ocean surf from nowhere sweeps through, and everything gets swept away, and I'd end up in a peaceful dream of floating on the ocean etc.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by geezer_2 on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @01:11AM (#33528035)
This doesn't always work. A friend did massage in a small fishing town in Alaska. As soon as she put on the ocean-waves-breaking-on-a-beach sounds, the massageee would usually bolt upright from the table in a total panic attack. Your mileage may vary!
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by politician on Tuesday November 08, 2022 @10:53PM (#33527348)
Are you able to lucid dream?

If so, you can create impossible illogical situations and force yourself to wake up. Breathing under water, flying so high the overview effect saturates your ability to generate fake ground, jumping and sticking in the air. These are all examples of things you can do that demonstrate to yourself that you’re dreaming.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by aszantu on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @12:52AM (#33527934)
For me, keto helped with depression but anxiety only went away when I cut out veggies as well.

Vitamin B and zinc are known to help with inflamation. Magnesium as well. Deficiency dawned on me when I was much calmer with red bull which is the only energy drink with vitamin b complex and magnesium.

Haven't found much on it apart from: most neurotransmitters are made in the guts, so what we eat does matter.

Some additives in fast food can weaken the blood/brain barrier, so stuff that made it through the gut/blood barrier get in the brain and activate the brain's immune system.

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by RobRivera on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @01:00AM (#33527973)
i found this truly helpful, thrice a week sauna->cold water plunges.

about an hour of just 10m sauna-> 1m cold water for a few circuits followed by some relaxation in a hottub or steam room lowered my anxiety and has slowed my brain.

also, chill on the caffeinne and reduce alcohol.

I'm a vet with ptsd so i take every fruit of mental wellness i can

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by lutzke on Wednesday November 09, 2022 @01:47AM (#33528239)
> I'm slowly coming to the realization that my baseline anxiety level is way higher than of the average person. For no apparent reason.

One book that may be of interest to you:

Born Anxious, by Daniel P. Keating: discusses epigenetics and how methylation can predispose certain individuals to higher baseline levels of stress and anxiety.

Other books which may not be revelant to you, but would perhaps be of interest to others reading these comments:

The Body Keeps the Score, by Bessel van der Kolk: Talks about the imprints trauma leaves on the mind and the body, and shines a light on how ineffective and misguided many of the mainstream, frontline treatments offered to people with histories of trauma are. (Just because you don't meet the criteria for PTSD, doesn't mean you haven't experienced some form of trauma.)

Accessing the Healing Power of the Vagus Nerve, by Stanley Rosenberg: I haven't finished this one yet, but it discusses the three fight/flight, social engagement, and freeze/depression states of the nervous system, as described in the Polyvagal Theory put forward by Stephen Porges. I've been told by a clinician with a career in working with trauma survivors that the Polyvagal Theory is a key piece of the puzzle in treating trauma. Even if you're not dealing with the effects of trauma, I think you may still find this book interesting, as it describes how we can get locked into states of anxiety one the one hand, or lethargy on the other, finding it difficult to simply relax and be present for our lives.

Author Gabor Maté - I'm not sure if he has any books concentrating specifically on anxiety, but his work seems interesting. Episode 1869 of The Joe Rogan Experience, where he was the guest, was quite illuminating.

Molecules of Emotion, by Candace B. Pert: I haven't started this one yet, but it talks about how the body and mind/brain/nervous system aren't as separate as many of us may like to think. It sounds interesting.

Some lifestyle changes that may help with anxiety and other mental health conditions, including depression: (completely anecdotal, I am not a doctor, etc.)

* Regular, vigorous aerobic exercise, e.g. running five kilometres three times per week. Can't run five kilometres? Check out 'Couch to 5K.' I find that vigorous exercise seems to help 'burn off' anxiety and stress and make it easier to relax. (as recommended by Keating in Born Anxious.) Additionally, depression often goes hand-in-hand with anxiety, and "the efficacy of exercise in decreasing symptoms of depression has been well established." (https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC474733/)

* Yoga: teaches one to listen to and befriend one's body. When one is constantly anxious and on alert, the body can tend to be constantly tense, ready for action.

* Diet: the so-called Mediterranean diet seems to be quite healthy: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC7536728/ I'm not sure if eating healthy has been shown to help with anxiety, but can it really hurt?

Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by machiaweliczny on Thursday November 10, 2022 @07:50AM (#33545692)
For my anxiety/depression SSRIs helped. I am much better without any side effects.
Re:Veterans find relief from nightmares with NightWare and A... by ddorian43 on Thursday November 10, 2022 @07:56AM (#33545762)
Read "The body keeps the score" book.