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Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by sidcool on Thursday September 08, 2022 @01:52AM (#32761687)
It's a habit of the internet diaspora to label a person either good or bad; binary, with no wiggle room to model the complexity of psychology.

Steve, like any other human, is a shade of grey. He did some awful things and some great ones. That's that. It neither makes him a monster nor a saint. It makes him a... Human.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by avg_dev on Thursday September 08, 2022 @05:57AM (#32763444)
I read a quote recently that I keep coming back to.

“Of human beings, none are good but all are sacred.”

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by frederikvs on Thursday September 08, 2022 @04:10AM (#32762744)
I doubt this is specific to the internet. Seems to me that people have always had a tendency to separate everyone else into "good people" and "bad people".
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by nirui on Thursday September 08, 2022 @11:08AM (#32766696)
As I see it, people put label on things/others as a form of self-protection.

In layman's logic, someone who's already committed something bad in the past are likely to commit it again. Based on that logic, it's not completely unreasonable to use a critical point of someone's history to define that individual.

Of course it might be unfair, but the cost of error testing can be high, and your empathy might be exploited. Plus, if someone indeed did something wrong in their past, maybe they're the one who should put in the effort to redeem themselves.

That said, while I think it's not fair to judge someone based on few decisions they've made, I also don't blame labelers when they have good reasons.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by ambientenv on Thursday September 08, 2022 @08:18AM (#32764426)
I believe this is mostly true. When we - the broad-brush, general "we" - try so hard to vilify others, I find myself questioning the motives for doing so and it often appears to be self-serving. Looking carefully at the crises unfolding in our world, one can see that we - humans - are not the grand, omnipotent domain -rulers we believe we are. I think the bigger question for Mr Jobs and the rest of us is, what do we truly value and how do we honour and stay true to those values?
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by hindsightbias on Thursday September 08, 2022 @11:35AM (#32767130)
A couple decades back, Jobs was the hero and Gates was the monster. There is no hyperbole in that statement.

Younger folks don’t remember that world. I wonder who of their heroes today will be the monsters of tomorrow.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by hnfong on Thursday September 08, 2022 @12:58PM (#32768332)
I shudder to think that Zuckerberg could be the hero of tomorrow :D
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by revskill on Thursday September 08, 2022 @09:18AM (#32765073)
The issue with not binary, is you never know which's good, which's bad.

That's why binary is a good thing.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by dspillett on Thursday September 08, 2022 @05:56AM (#32763425)
> Steve, like any other human, is a shade of grey.

Not the lightest of shades though, to many people?

I'm sure there is good in Alex Jones. It is very well buried if so, but it probably does exist. I still feel justified in never wanting to interact with him and wishing the rest of the world didn't have to either.

While we shouldn't be completely dogmatic and only consider someone's bad points¹, and I wouldn't say that Jobs was at all actively evil², the fact that someone isn't the blackest-of-black pantomime evil, or the gaudiest-of-gaudy moustache-twirling pantomime evil, doesn't mean we can't discuss their bad points. It might actually help other arseholes who don't realise that they are being a problem, if they see the discussion and think “hang on, I do that, maybe I'm upsetting people too, perhaps I should try a different tack”.

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[1] or conversely only their good points: Churchill was undoubtably what we needed as a prime minister during and in the run up to war, a good family man by most accounts, supported some good social reforms, ete., but he also had some questionable views on race (less so by the standards of the time than now, but still), supported the use of chemical weapons, and so forth,

[2] just a bit of an arsehole by many accounts, and presided over a company that at the time³ benefited from what we now call modern slavery

[3] and to this day doesn't have a clean record on that count

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by froggertoaster on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:17AM (#32763956)
Congrats, you just compared Steve Jobs to Alex Jones and proved the original commentor's point.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by dspillett on Thursday September 08, 2022 @10:30AM (#32766089)
Also to Churchill. Are you saying it is fine to talk about good things, but not bad things, in a person's make up & history? Do you feel that is particularly just/balanced/other? Balance comes from truth and acknowledging nuance, not cherry-picking either way.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by 11101010001100 on Thursday September 08, 2022 @08:28AM (#32764519)
They are both humans after all.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by quitit on Thursday September 08, 2022 @06:53AM (#32763815)
Hating Steve Jobs fits tidily in the Anti-Apple rhetoric: which started precisely when they were pulled into the smartphone wars.

When I look at the criticisms of Steve Jobs or Apple, I look at it in context of the life of people and other businesses, and it takes a lot of double standards to make the argument land one way “he’s satan” or the other “he’s god’s gift”.

It's why when I hear Steve Jobs/Apple is evil, I hold it with the same credibility as people that say Steve Jobs/Apple are the greatest. I.E. With no credibility whatsoever.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by elliekelly on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:04AM (#32763878)
This is really ridiculous. I am definitely someone who would fall into the category of “zealous Apple fan” but Steve Jobs was clearly an asshole of the highest order. Read the Walter Isaacson biography or his daughter’s memoir, Small Fry. Lisa Brennan Jobs has no reason to peddle “anti-Apple rhetoric”. She has a vested interest in the opposite! But her book tells her story about growing up with a massive asshole for a father.
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Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by elliekelly on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:22AM (#32763991)
> If you can’t put everything into a tidy little black or white box, your mind explodes.

You might do well to exercise your self-awareness muscles a bit more.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by quitit on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:36AM (#32764093)
The problem here is that I’ve brought up a scenario: people who frame Jobs as 100% one way or another (just like some people frame Apple as one way or another.)

So what do you do? Frame him as one way - in this case in a bad light. Exactly as I stated some people do.

And what? You’re upset that I don’t value your opinion on the matter because you can’t process inconvenient shades of grey.

Sure quote Lisa, I could come back and quote J Ive - because different people have had different experiences with him. It merely proves that shades of grey exist.

Still you seem incapable of seeing that people have different views of him. That perhaps he was good in some ways, awful in others.

Hence why I will never pay any credit to people who can’t look at, and pay appropriate credit to all of the information. Everything exists in a shade of grey.

Anything else is ridiculous.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by notacoward on Thursday September 08, 2022 @09:12AM (#32764989)
> because different people have had different experiences with him

This is true, but also highlights an important asymmetry. Somebody who is an asshole only to some people is really an asshole all the time. They're just a smart asshole, aware of the need to secure others' cooperation or more generally manage others' opinion of them. By contrast, a nice person is no worse than neutral to (within epsilon of) everyone. They don't need to manipulate others into being allies.

> Everything exists in a shade of grey.

Both sides, eh? Even grey has different shades. Yes, we should consider all the information and reach nuanced conclusions, but there's nothing wrong with recognizing that someone's "default setting" was to treat others poorly and that others should not try to emulate them. The "brilliant asshole" archetype, of which Jobs was very much an exemplar, has done immeasurable harm to our industry, and a few stealth-PR "revelations" don't change that.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by quitit on Monday September 12, 2022 @08:21PM (#32819187)
I'll say it once more: I don't hold value to opinions which need to place people/things into these absurd good/bad columns. It's naive, especially when one can trivially find opposing examples.

So do what works for you though, I really don't care - that's my point. I care about people who can hold a nuanced view, they're the ones who are going to inform me without some adopted bias coming into play. Deliberately filtering the available information to create a convenient strawman is cherrypicking.

Being able to have a backbone and say a person did good and bad things and articulate clearly what those things are takes courage. Especially when the bandwagon has decided on one way or another.

In this case we're talking about Steve Jobs, so I'll also restate it: People who act like this man was god's gift are similarly holding a view I don't value. I actually said that in my original comment, so you can clearly see my view here. Whether you're choosing to make him out to be all good, or all bad is creating a false image, a lie.

Now perhaps you might be asking? What's so bad about a little lie, why shouldn't a person just round off these people into good or bad boxes and call it a day, isn't that easier.

No, because such behaviours are a slippery slope. Perhaps your own personal life is what someone else would classify as deeply and morally wrong. Then perhaps you'd be the one to hope that others don't throw you into the trash based on the one-line assessment of a stranger.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by junon on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:19AM (#32763971)
This isn't how dialog on Hacker News works.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by quitit on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:43AM (#32764159)
I see you write this a lot. You also spend a lot of time throwing stones from your glasshouse.

Change comes from within.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by junon on Thursday September 08, 2022 @01:20PM (#32768637)
I've said it exactly twice over the entire lifetime of my account. Try harder.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by quitit on Monday September 12, 2022 @08:27PM (#32819234)
You'll get precisely the amount of effort hypocrisy deserves, which is zero.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by daniel-cussen on Thursday September 08, 2022 @08:49AM (#32764736)
There's no gray in chess. It's all blackwhite.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by xtiansimon on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:40AM (#32764131)
Did you read the same tweet I did in the op?
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by spoonjim on Thursday September 08, 2022 @05:05AM (#32763107)
And honestly does it even really matter. So he neglected his kids. Big fuckin' deal, I'm sure they'll survive.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by pizza234 on Thursday September 08, 2022 @04:30AM (#32762877)
> Steve, like any other human, is a shade of grey. He did some awful things and some great ones. That's that. It neither makes him a monster nor a saint. It makes him a... Human.

This statement is a truism; it's valid for every person, and it doesn't contain any information.

Based on the information publicly available, my assessment is that he had a narcissistic personality disorder. People with such illness are certainly not in the ballpark of mass murders, but they're definitely very damaging to other people, and they are generally labelled as "bad people". What saves Steve Jobs in the eyes of the public is that he had, without any doubt, exceptional talents.

Since he's dead (and he hasn't been diagnosed by a specialist), there will never be certainty, however.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by xani_ on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:25AM (#32764010)
It might be truism for you but it evidently isn't for many people that defend their saints and condemn their devils.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by dbxkcichhdfufu on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:00AM (#32761745)
Hitler, mao and stalin can all go jump as far as I'm concerned.

I'm sure they weren't pure evil either but sometimes people deserve the label.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by DonHopkins on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:37AM (#32764096)
Admittedly one of the most horrible things about Steve Jobs was that he was good friends with Larry Ellison.

...But at least he wasn't Larry Ellison.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by LewisVerstappen on Thursday September 08, 2022 @03:04AM (#32762227)
In what universe is Steve Jobs in the same category as dictators who killed tens of millions of people?
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by jasonlotito on Thursday September 08, 2022 @09:16AM (#32765043)
From the grandparent comment, "Steve, like any other human, is a shade of grey."

The category being human.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by JasserInicide on Thursday September 08, 2022 @09:06AM (#32764915)
In a universe with too many terminally online doomscrollers who make politics their personality
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by jacooper on Thursday September 08, 2022 @06:47AM (#32763775)
Cursed user name lol
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by LewisVerstappen on Thursday September 08, 2022 @08:36AM (#32764612)
Better than TotoHorner
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by AshamedCaptain on Thursday September 08, 2022 @07:41AM (#32764135)
In NO way anyone is making a comparison of Steve Jobs to a dictator. The original post was claiming:

> It's a habit of the internet diaspora to label a person either good or bad

> Steve, like any other human, is a shade of grey.

i.e. the completely correct but also completely useless claim that there is no person who is absolutely evil or absolutely good . What the analogy is trying to do here is to say "OK, so you don't think Hitler is absolutely evil?", not "OK, so you don't think Steve Jobs is Hitler?".

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by neals on Thursday September 08, 2022 @03:37AM (#32762471)
something something modern slavery
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by teddyh on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:19AM (#32761874)
Since they’re long dead, little is lost by labeling them evil. But the closer they are to our present time, the more we must sacrifice by declaring someone an anathema. Worst of all is living people, of course.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by sidcool on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:18AM (#32761870)
Those are extreme exceptions. Steve Jobs and the others you mentioned are not even in close leagues. That was my point, we try to judge everyone with the same yardstick and divide them in strict binary buckets. By that logic, Steve Jobs would either belong to same category as either Hitler or Gandhi.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by cdelsolar on Thursday September 08, 2022 @08:21AM (#32764448)
Gandhi was a horrible racist.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by dbxkcichhdfufu on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:47AM (#32762082)
Are they exceptions? I'm sure they had normal families and lives prior to their murderous transitions.

My point is be careful how much you choose to let people get away with a "they're just human" pass. Some people deserve the labels. For anyone that worked with Steve I'm willing to bet they think he deserves the arsehole label they give him.

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Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by YesWeWill on Thursday September 08, 2022 @04:09AM (#32762738)
Links? Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence. I hope you're not going to link Russian fascist propaganda, though.
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Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by ptato on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:31AM (#32761946)
There's something to be said about the system that allowed that to happen, and the people who made that system possible. I can't expect a person who is fearing for their life to make the most rational and compassionate decisions.
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by bloppe on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:27AM (#32761921)
I'm sure I have a lower opinion of him than most but come on this is just slander
Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by markdown on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:55AM (#32762138)
Slander? It's factual that he used his money to get to the front of the line for an organ donation. It's possible someone in Tennessee died because a foreigner took the liver he deserved.

> Jobs couldn't pay for an organ. Nor could he pay to cut the queue. But what someone with Jobs' resources could do, according to liver transplant surgeons and ethicists, is to use money and mobility to improve the odds either by going to an area of the country where there are more organ donors, or by signing up at multiple transplant centers.

> "It's not for anybody but the rich. It's called multiple-listing, a practice some would say is unethical," said Arthur Caplan, co-chair of the United Nations Task Force on organ trafficking and chair of the department of medical ethics at University of Pennsylvania.

https://abcnews.go.com/Health/Economy/story?id=7902416&page=...

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by jychang on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:38AM (#32762001)
Do you think human nature is good or bad?

And do you think if you every other human being and put them in his position at that time, do you think they would behave better or worse? Be honest with your answer.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by ekianjo on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:32AM (#32761954)
> There's no grey there... the guy was a monster.

you mean he was selfish? I'm pretty sure this is widespread trait among humans. Let's say if people were in the same situation as him with FU money and the ability to do that, I'm pretty sure most would do exactly what he did.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by isatty on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:57AM (#32762165)
If you had the money and desperately needed a liver transplant, you’d do the same. Or try to.

Disclaimer: I don’t know if the statement you made is factual or otherwise, but if the system let him do it, then I don’t see the point in expecting him to be altruistic.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by iso1631 on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:30AM (#32761939)
The American healthcare system, and capitalism in general, tells us that richer people have more right to healthcare than poorer people. Even when supply is fixed (say land), we distribute it based on the ability and willingness of someone to pay, not on need.

Why should organ transplants be any different?

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by ekianjo on Thursday September 08, 2022 @02:33AM (#32761963)
> Why should organ transplants be any different?

the organ collection does not follow any capitalist principle. You can't sell your own organs even if you wanted to. So thats a pretty bad point to make.

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by markdown on Thursday September 08, 2022 @03:38AM (#32762485)
> Jobs couldn't pay for an organ. Nor could he pay to cut the queue. But what someone with Jobs' resources could do, according to liver transplant surgeons and ethicists, is to use money and mobility to improve the odds either by going to an area of the country where there are more organ donors, or by signing up at multiple transplant centers.

> "It's not for anybody but the rich. It's called multiple-listing, a practice some would say is unethical," said Arthur Caplan, co-chair of the United Nations Task Force on organ trafficking and chair of the department of medical ethics at University of Pennsylvania.

https://abcnews.go.com/Health/Economy/story?id=7902416

Re:Steve Jobs emails himself (2010) by iso1631 on Thursday September 08, 2022 @03:01AM (#32762201)
That's on the supply side. Many items with a limited/fixed supply (land for example) are operated under capitalist principles.

So why do we not allow people to sell their own organs? Or eggs and sperm? Or rent out our womb, or sell our hair?

Do we not have sovereignty over our own bodies?