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Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lusus_naturae on Sunday July 09, 2023 @08:18PM (#36660501)
Why though? Early internet nerds may feel like they have a hegemony over this domain, but it belongs to the public at large, made up of all types of people with varying levels of risk and criteria for what they deem is acceptable public discourse.

Not to mention the fact that one person's grimy is another's milquetoast, so what do you do about that? Moderation is the organic balance that resulted from years of trial and error.

I miss the old internet as well, but I know the internet is not just for the weirdos and nerds (anymore). Every road in the world does not need to be the Autobahn.

What would really be saying something is if people stopped using platforms they don't like. But that's like taking a drug user away from his dealer--they both need each other in a perverse, symbiotic relationship. It's not that hard to leave platforms anyways, teens have already mostly stopped using FB.

The most uncharitable bone in my body thinks that people who don't migrate off Twitter etc. like being the "cool" guy who doesn't like that stuff and having others around to read that. But I suppose that's just my opinion.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by 2h on Sunday July 09, 2023 @08:30PM (#36660563)
> Every road in the world does not need to be the Autobahn.

the point is, currently NO ROAD is the Autobahn. thats not a balance, thats censorship.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Loocid on Sunday July 09, 2023 @08:38PM (#36660615)
>the point is, currently NO ROAD is the Autobahn. thats not a balance, thats censorship.

If you think this is true, you're not looking very hard.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lukevp on Sunday July 09, 2023 @08:35PM (#36660599)
Reddit has tons of NSFW stuff. There are plenty of less-moderated platforms available if you choose to engage with them.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by catiopatio on Sunday July 09, 2023 @10:10PM (#36661217)
Reddit has porn, but that’s not a convincing argument —- porn isn’t inimical to their ideological strictures.

Meanwhile, they absolutely forbid expressing common, mainstream political viewpoints that are inimical to their ideology.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by bigfudge on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:44AM (#36662874)
Can you give an example of a mainstream view that is banned? I’m genuinely curious. I wonder if we will have different definitions of mainstream? It seems like a global audience of 5,000 might be mainstream and warrant a home according to some of the accounts here, whereas I would argue that this is still incredibly niche and these people might not expect to find anywhere in real life that would tolerate their speech either.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by catiopatio on Monday July 10, 2023 @11:24AM (#36667779)
https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2022/06/28/america...

For example, “Six-in-ten U.S. adults say that whether a person is a man or a woman is determined by their sex assigned at birth.”

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lmm on Sunday July 09, 2023 @11:40PM (#36661783)
Reddit is heavily moderated. The likes of Gab get banned from app stores and hosting providers; KiwiFarms shows that even if you self-host (at a level beyond most regular people's ability and resources), if you offend the wrong people then you'll be cut off the internet.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by defrost on Sunday July 09, 2023 @11:50PM (#36661847)
The KiwiFarms issue is less what was said online in a club like forum context and more what was done in the real world by members and coordinated from KiwiFarms.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lmm on Sunday July 09, 2023 @11:55PM (#36661882)
As far as I can see that was a smear campaign if not an outright false flag. The specific post that was mentioned as grounds for cutting it off was removed by moderators in less than 15 minutes, and was posted by an account that hadn't posted anything else.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by defrost on Monday July 10, 2023 @12:02AM (#36661919)
You're talking about a final straw after being moved on from one "we'll host anyone" provider to another.

If I can paraphrase Ian Fleming;

* Once is happenstance,

* Twice is circumstance,

* Nth time is a sign of deeply nested anti social malcontents that seek to inflict life theatening scenarios upon others for the Lulz.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lmm on Monday July 10, 2023 @12:18AM (#36662034)
There's no need to paraphrase; "enemy action" is a very plausible and adequate explanation.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by hanselot on Monday July 10, 2023 @04:00AM (#36663326)
But once you reach 109 times it rolls back to being coincidental right?

Those qui know, know.

In any case, lets not be deemed offensive for harboring thoughts of rebellion against the overlords lest we be yeested from the platform for attempting to pique the curiosity of those not entirely lobotomized by the oppression machine yet. Such fallacious behaviours shall be left without scrutiny while we all dance together under a rainbow of landmines, minimum wage and proxy wars funded by alphabet companies ever-seeking to exercise greater and greater control of the human mind at scale.

Yes, let's strive not to offend others, for that way we will surely make the most progress, ignoring all prior knowledge and our very evolutionary mechanisms so we don't make lines on a page that induce rage in the untrained mind.

Those that can't hold a thought without judgment, can't think critically, yet they are the ones we decide to put in charge of our social narrative?

I wonder WHO decided that was a good idea.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Red_Leaves_Flyy on Monday July 10, 2023 @12:22AM (#36662057)
>if you offend the wrong people then you'll be cut off the internet.

Disingenuous hot take. People tolerate the offensive. I’m tolerating you right now.

https://knowyourmeme.com/memes/sites/kiwi-farms

Kiwi farms was a haven for degenerate anti social wanna be mass murderer. No sane business wants that association. No one is silencing these people, they are being lawfully discriminated against (refused service) for their reprehensible behavior. That’s freedom of association in action. The laws prohibiting the government from acting against someone for their words do not apply to the individual. In other words, tolerance only extends insofar as the infringers intolerance can be tolerated without relinquishing inalienable rights.

Off topic, but kiwi farms is a weird hill to plant a flag in on this topic.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lmm on Monday July 10, 2023 @12:53AM (#36662258)
> No one is silencing these people, they are being lawfully discriminated against (refused service) for their reprehensible behavior.

They're not just being refused service by hosting companies or the like, ISPs are not routing to them. That's new, and that's what I think is worth "planting a flag" about; it's not a newspaper refusing to print your articles, it's the post office refusing to ship your newspaper. If that's not being silenced then I don't know what is.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by tourmalinetaco on Monday July 10, 2023 @01:11AM (#36662376)
Additionally, for a time the SSL Certificate Authority in Greece was threatening to remove their https:// certificate for “unspecified violations of some clause.”

Said clause being, “specifically”, clause 3.1 of HARICA Subscriber Agreement. Which can be read here: https://repo.harica.gr/documents/SA-ToU_EN.pdf

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Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Red_Leaves_Flyy on Monday July 10, 2023 @04:56PM (#36672848)
>institutions who defend the free internet should be opposing the censorship of kiwifarms

This argument is unsupported by your comment. What value does kf create? Far as I can tell it only destroys value with their trail of suicides and bigoted behavior.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by lmm on Monday July 10, 2023 @06:25PM (#36673856)
> What value does kf create? Far as I can tell it only destroys value with their trail of suicides and bigoted behavior.

Even if that were true (and I don't think it is), freedom only for those who "create value" is no freedom at all.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Red_Leaves_Flyy on Monday July 10, 2023 @08:29PM (#36674998)
You obviously didn’t read the article I cited substantiating this fact.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Red_Leaves_Flyy on Monday July 10, 2023 @04:53PM (#36672808)
>ISPs are not routing to them

Distinction without a material difference. This is only slightly to mail delivery services refusing delivery to homes with aggressive animals. In this case it’s telecom operators not enabling violent criminals that could create liability if left unaddressed.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by tourmalinetaco on Monday July 10, 2023 @01:03AM (#36662325)
> Kiwi farms was a haven for degenerate anti social wanna be mass murderer.

No it wasn’t. Both in life and in death William Atchison was made fun of by the members of multiple communities, gaining the posthumous nickname “Couch Cuck”. A “haven” for murderers would not obsessively archive information relating to murderers, such as social medias (which consistently delete the information to avoid being associated), prior convictions, etc with the intent to study and publicly shame them. One can argue of the efficacy of this, but it is no different than what MSM does. In fact, KiwiFarms can be attributed to the destruction of a CP/animal torture ring and multiple arrests, due to their archival efforts and Internet sleuthing.

Additionally, on the topic of “reprehensible behavior”, companies like CloudFlare happily accept money from animal abuse websites. And under every metric KiwiFarms is legal under US law. So while companies are legally allowed to disassociate for almost any reason, we have to ask why illegal websites remain while legal ones are disassociated. And considering CloudFlare initially sided with KiwiFarms, it truly is not as clear cut as “they found the content disagreeable”.

On topic to your off topic, I was definitely not expecting KiwiFarms to mentioned either.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Red_Leaves_Flyy on Monday July 10, 2023 @08:39PM (#36675060)
I don’t think you are aware of the depth of depravity users of kf engaged in, regularly. I said wanna be murderers, you know, the weird kids with poor social skills that probably have shit home lives and get bullied/ostracized harshly. When they find community on these boards they also find recruiters for all sorts of awful communities from neo nazis to pedophiles to whatever.

>A “haven” for murderers would not obsessively archive information relating to murderers, such as social medias (which consistently delete the information to avoid being associated), prior convictions, etc with the intent to study and publicly shame them.

This is not logical. Many murderers study infamous murder cases to learn how to be better murderers. For some it may merely be a morbid curiosity, for others, it’s research. You cannot discern the intentions from the comments, but rather the outcomes, which speaks voluminously; if you’d bother to look for the reports on this.

>KiwiFarms can be attributed to the destruction of a CP/animal torture ring and multiple arrests, due to their archival efforts and Internet sleuthing.

And 4chan got a terrorist training camp bombed. And Reddit got an innocent killed during the hunt for the Boston bomber. These are not examples of uniformly good character, even the worst criminals have soft spots. Nazis made some wondrous technology, should we forgive their attempted genocides and eugenics?

Re cloud flare, I support shaming them for this support of bad actors and hurting their bottom line but that is off topic goal post moving.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by tourmalinetaco on Tuesday July 11, 2023 @01:10AM (#36676632)
> I don’t think you are aware of the depth of depravity users of kf engaged in, regularly.

Alright, can you prove they funnel others into such depraved communities?

> This is not logical.

By your own “logic” anyone who studies crime is practicing to be a mass murderer, which is objectively not true. If they were truly some murderous training ground, why is their so little as a result?

> Nazis made some wondrous technology, should we forgive their attempted genocides and eugenics?

Well the USA, Europe, and many others certainly did when harvesting their best minds. However that is besides the point, as KiwiFarms has done nothing comparable. They say mean things and archive actions taken by others in public. Making fun of others is seen as rude, however it is not illegal. If it was false and caused damages it could be slander/libel, however that has yet to be the case to my knowledge.

> I support shaming them for this support of bad actors

The problem is that there is inconsistency here. You and many others do not campaign CloudFlare to remove illegal websites, or even websites in a similar vein to KF, yet you urge them to remove a single legal (albeit unsavory) gossip forum? If this stance was uniform I could understand it better. As it stands it simply comes off as intellectually dishonest.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by jstarfish on Monday July 10, 2023 @03:28AM (#36663115)
I don't know anything about harboring mass murderers, but none of the "victims" of that site are shining paragons of ethics, virtue or innocence. Quite a few of the victims are convicted criminals.

Take Chloe Sagal, who fraudulently crowdfunded money to pay for a sex change. Not misappropriated-- defrauded. Prior to her demise, she made a speech in a public park about homelessness or something and self-immolated to raise attention to it. One would think she'd have named her abuser and drawn attention to that were they responsible for her death...

...like Byuu tried to do, when he faked his own death and blamed KF in a forged "suicide" note. Surprise, KF "victim" commits fraud.

Chris-chan was another of their victims. Poor guy (or girl? I can't keep up). This tortured soul was recently released from prison for raping his own 80 year old mother.

Your link complains about Onision being harassed by Kiwi Farms. Poor Onision. He's been deplatformed since that article was written. I'm sure the entire subsection of his Wikipedia article addressing "allegations of abuse, child grooming and rape" are all fake news.

There's Keffals-- SWATed by KF, we are told...around the same time KF was asking questions about $100K misappropriated from a fundraiser for Trans Lifeline. So, more fraud. Prior to that, there were detailed discussions about Keffals' involvement with the Catboy Ranch child-grooming Discord channel and their conspiring with another party to sell back-channel hormones to children without parental knowledge or consent. The media lapped up the persecuted victim narrative though. Keffals fled to Ireland after the raid, for no credible reason. This is the most egregious example I saw.

Exposure of sexual impropriety involving children and/or crowdfunding fraud are disturbingly common stories involving most of Kiwi Farms' "victims." These are very damning public accusations, yet despite this, nobody I'm aware of has bothered to sue the owner for defamation. Instead, the social media campaign against them relies entirely on histrionics, extralegal abuses like sustained DDoS attacks, smear campaigns and falsifying abuse claims to upstream providers. For as terrible as they supposedly are, the truth alone should do the job, but the story is that they're just so full of hate they must be banned from the entire internet. This narrative is brought to us by the very people the site identified as fraudsters.

It's only fitting that when you call out public figures engaging in abuse and fraud, people with an interest in getting away with either will leverage both in their efforts to silence opposition.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by watwut on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:03AM (#36662663)
The underplaying of what KiwiFarms are is ridiculous. Issue is not they offended someone, issue is that they seek intentional real world harm.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by MrStonedOne on Sunday July 09, 2023 @08:43PM (#36660647)
More and more of the digital world, from the internet to what applications our devices allow us to install, is about filing off the edges and rounding all corners to make the world safer for the common denominator and i don't have to like it.

And as the digital world increasingly invades and influences our realities and experiences the importance of not only serving the common denominator gets more important, not less.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by gary_0 on Sunday July 09, 2023 @09:01PM (#36660775)
That sounds a lot like "telling a man he can't have a steak just because a baby can't chew it," to paraphrase Mark Twain.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by bigger_cheese on Sunday July 09, 2023 @10:58PM (#36661528)
> is about filing off the edges and rounding all corners to make the world safer for the common denominator and i don't have to like it.

In my opinion it is about making the online world safer for advertisers. The advertisers are the real customers of the internet - users are just the product.

The evolution of the internet is being increasingly driven by profit seeking and most common way people try to monetize the internet is through advertising. That is primarily what drives censorship and moderation - a need to protect the advertiser's brands.

The old internet that so many people are pining for in this thread comes from a time before big ad-tech. All the old schools forums, newsgroups etc didn't care about making a buck - heck most of them probably ran at a loss. All of that was eaten by social media, there was a transition away from internet communities, to for profit businesses instead.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by georgeplusplus on Sunday July 09, 2023 @11:42PM (#36661795)
Strangely enough, the more you regulate the internet, the more you empower the advertisers and the more users become just the product.

If you are a parent weary of an internet riddled with porn, traffickers, drugs, or other dangerous things. I believe it is on the parent to filter whats acceptable content for their kid to watch and not the website administrators to moderate whats acceptable. Its baffling to me that people see it the other way around. The latter is certainly easier and the parent can come up with all sorts of excuse why they cant find the time to do that given how hard life is and how it gets in the way, but at the end of the day. Who knows what's best for you or your family than yourself?

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by bigfudge on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:48AM (#36662902)
I’m absolutely sick of this trite argument being wheeled out by non parents. Try having a teenager and (in a practical way) regulating what they can see on the internet. These comments seem to imply that parents watch over their children by the minute regulating their media diet. This is not only impossible, it would be really weird.

IRL we outsource some roles of the parent to the community. I send children out into parts of the real world confident that they won’t have shown magazines of animal torture or have abuse screamed at them because they are female or gay. The internet is an important part of our cultural space and it’s not ok for children not to be able to use it.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by georgeplusplus on Monday July 10, 2023 @03:30AM (#36663136)
My main point of the parent must play an ACTIVE role. No one said be a helicopter parent or do not outsource. The fact you knee jerk to thinking this and immediately reaching for the downvote button is really weird.

I know plenty of parents who give a smart phone with complete control to the teen on what app or content they can see, and are shocked to find out to where on the internet they find their kid. Parents need to take some accountability for what their kids do. Shocking right?

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by tsimionescu on Monday July 10, 2023 @03:53AM (#36663291)
So how do you protect your kid on the internet if popular social media sites don't flag or moderate away pornography or animal torture or the like? The only possible option I see is to become a helicopter parent.

I should note on the other hand that I don't understand why pornography is such a proeminent issue in these discussions. As a teenager, I definitely consumed porn (as I suspect the vast majority have) and no damage has come to me.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by georgeplusplus on Tuesday July 11, 2023 @07:51PM (#36688716)
>>> I should note on the other hand that I don't understand why pornography is such a proeminent issue in these discussions. As a teenager, I definitely consumed porn (as I suspect the vast majority have) and no damage has come to me.

There are reddit groups above 1 million members who feel porn has interrupted their life and incubated as an addiction because of early and excessive teenage use. The field is not studied well but there are certainly many many others that feel different than what you wrote, me included.

>>> The only possible option I see is to become a helicopter parent.

I dunno I think the main issue is you see this as a black and white issue. No good discussion can come when you always see the different side as the most extreme option.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by r3trohack3r on Sunday July 09, 2023 @09:17PM (#36660875)
> Moderation is the organic balance

To me, it seems very inorganic outside of specific platform niches that allow for self moderation of subsets of the network (Reddit somewhat, IRC, discord, Mastadon, etc.). A single globally shared moderation policy with local deviances to accommodate local customs and laws does not seem “organic” as much as forced.

Compare this to the real world.

If I go to my local business networking group, there is one set of moderation policies that is strictly enforced.

If I go to my local pub, there is a very different set of moderation policies that is loosely enforced.

If I went to my business networking group and behaved as if I was under the moderation policies of my local pub the contrast in behavior would be stark.

Church has one set, school another, the local swingers club another, the gentleman’s club another, etc.

Compare this to many social media platforms where it seems like the moderation policies attempt to moderate a baseline of behavior consistently across all communities regardless of whether they are pubs, business groups, or otherwise.

I suspect (maybe hope?) we are going to start seeing organic social start happening as groups start trying to increasingly assert their own identities and moderation policies that are incompatible with a global standard.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by antigonemerlin on Sunday July 09, 2023 @09:38PM (#36661003)
You're absolutely right. I think the problem is that connecting everyone to everyone is a mistake. As John Oliver (I think, I can't find the source of the original quote now), puts it, "Facebook is the Walmart of social media." Yes, everyone and your mom is on there... but that means every post is going to be seen by your mother. That is frankly, terrifying.

Building on your analogy, it'd be like if in the real world your local pub mates and your business friends met. These are two different communities that most certainly cannot be welded into a single forum.

>I suspect (maybe hope?) we are going to start seeing organic social start happening as groups start trying to increasingly assert their own identities and moderation policies that are incompatible with a global standard.

I think this is exactly what you're seeing. Of all the different social media models, personally, it's reddit and discord that won out for me, along with a smattering of more niche like Hacker News and the discussions page on Github.

You can't and shouldn't build a community that satisfies everybody.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by virtuous_sloth on Sunday July 09, 2023 @10:20PM (#36661274)
Google circles FTW
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by smazga on Monday July 10, 2023 @11:47AM (#36668099)
Everybody likes to laugh at google+, but circles were the most intuitive and useful abstract for sorting social groups that I have ever used.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by charcircuit on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:10AM (#36662710)
>but that means every post is going to be seen by your mother

This is solved by people just make another profile to keep it separate. It is okay not to add your mother on your hobby account.

>These are two different communities that most certainly cannot be welded into a single forum.

But sites like Facebook are not just a single forum. Each group can be it's own community. People can keep two discussions separate.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by tsimionescu on Monday July 10, 2023 @03:43AM (#36663214)
> This is solved by people just make another profile to keep it separate. It is okay not to add your mother on your hobby account.

Note that Facebook and many other social media sites go out of their way to prevent the same person having two accounts. It is against their terms of service, and they do try to enforce it in various ways.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by charcircuit on Monday July 10, 2023 @12:10PM (#36668392)
Okay? Facebook lets you create multiple profiles using the same account.

In your example the problem was that someone's mom was reading all of their posts and not that they wanted to use different login information for each profile.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by tsimionescu on Monday July 10, 2023 @12:33PM (#36668781)
For one thing, I wasn't aware of the Profiles feature (and couldn't figure out how pt create another one even after reading it exists, though I'm sure I just wasn't careful enough reading the settings in-app).

Still, the comment above used both profile and account to refer to the same thing ("create a new profile", "your hobby account") so I'm not even sure which they were suggesting.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by Dah00n on Monday July 10, 2023 @03:51AM (#36663277)
I doubt you could even get English and American communities to agree let alone Chinese and Swedes. A lot of what we see is steered by extremely Americanised morality and laws. As a Dane it feels off and I'm sure for people from China, India, and other places very different than here it must feel even more so.

A "baseline" where, as mentioned above, misogynistic, racist behaviour isn't allowed sounds easy. But is it though? You take what Nazis and racists have said for ages and put "Russian" instead of their victim of choice and suddenly most Americans will agree that's fine behaviour "because Ukraine".

How about age limits, alcohol, sex? Hell, even Americans couldn't agree on a baseline in those.

I don't know if you're American but as I said I'm not and the internet has teached me how to behave as one online to not be caught in strange Americanised moderation rules. That's not agreement but enforcement that's caused this and if asked I would vote No to those rules.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by JohnFen on Monday July 10, 2023 @05:44PM (#36673370)
> I doubt you could even get English and American communities to agree

I doubt you could get just American communities to agree.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by mattgreenrocks on Monday July 10, 2023 @08:58AM (#36665712)
> I don't think this is impossible. It is hard to scale a community to billions of people, but large social media sites are an existence proof that it is possible.

Large social media sites are a pale shadow of an actual community. These sites love to throw that word around to get you to sign up, then act like properly moderating their sites to actually feel like a community is impossible.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by bigfudge on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:36AM (#36662834)
I’m not sure those places are as different as you say, at least in terms of a baseline for acceptable behaviour that is common to all. Overtly, individualised racist or mysogybist abuse isn’t really acceptable in any of those places, and social media companies have t even managed to enforce that as a standard across much of their networks.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by j45 on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:34AM (#36662829)
> Early internet nerds may feel like they have a hegemony over this domain, but it belongs to the public at large, made up of all types of people with varying levels of risk and criteria for what they deem is acceptable public discourse.

Today will feel early too in 100 years.

It’s less about a hegemony, and more about a shared experience.

There’s a lot of firsts still to be shared together.

Still, the first time trying cable/adsl, or wifi when there was none was a seminal moment that that group didn’t see coming or pick, but it is theirs.

It might not be what you meant but this comment comes across on its own as a bit of sour grapes.

Similar to how we’re all soaking in LLMs together.

When something like the web was underground, counter filter and mainstream it’s a different formation period. Tech wasn’t cool and certainly didn’t impress many. Still it was chosen. The promises to be around a keyboard were limited and it took going to great lengths for many. It’s really good it’s not as hard anymore.

Facebook was the first thing the broadest group of people did on a computer or the web. It really lived off mainstream technology adoption. That is Fb’s greatest contribution, but if we felt like where a platform is going, the next curve of connecting awaits for you to make something you and others want.

Stopping people from using a platform they don’t like might be harder than just building the next thing.

The internet will get more personal.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by JohnFen on Monday July 10, 2023 @05:53PM (#36673472)
I think what you're hearing is people mourning a loss of something they had and valued.

I think feeling that loss, and expressing it, is valid.

> Todays web is much better and more accessible.

Whether or not it's better depends on what you found valuable about it. It is worse for some, and better for others. Disclaimer: it's much, much worse for me. But I acknowledge that it's better for others. Such is life.

> The internet will get more personal. And that’s good.

Whether that's good or not depends on what you mean by "get more personal". If what you mean is "more personalized", then I think that's the opposite of good.

But, again, that's just me and I'm mourning that the web is most of the way toward becoming a thing that no longer meets my needs or desires. That it meets the needs and desires of others is fine, and I don't want to deny others from being able to derive value from it. But, nonetheless, the loss to me, personally, is real and I don't see why I shouldn't be able to talk about that.

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by ta8903 on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:34AM (#36662830)
Because what a lot of people think of as the deep, dark, grimy internet is how people talk in real life. The phenomena of the internet being a clean place where you don't say slurs only happened as a result of advertising on social media platforms. The argument about what way should we let the internet "be" is completely orthogonal to the matter, no one is suggesting people to go out of their way to be dirty, just let people have conversations the way they do outside the internet.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by taccicardia on Monday July 10, 2023 @08:24AM (#36665325)
this is interesting to me. more than ever people are socializing on the internet, and not just in sequestered areas like discord servers. there still are ostensibly "public" places like twitter. to me this is similar to in real life as you describe it. and in real life i don't use slurs. none of my friends do either. in fact, i'd wager if you ever used a slur against against the wrong person in real life you'd quickly regret it. it's just very, very interesting to me to see a comment like this which supposes everyone is just as eager as you are to use slurs in any context.
Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by sublinear on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:42AM (#36662864)
> Every road in the world does not need to be the Autobahn.

Great quote

Re:Let the Internet Be Grimy by stubybubs on Monday July 10, 2023 @02:47AM (#36662898)
> I miss the old internet as well, but I know the internet is not just for the weirdos and nerds (anymore).

This is what I found bizarre about Jack Dorsey pining for the old days of the internet (usenet, irc) and the lack of discovery, and blaming centralization for it. There are still decentralized places that exist, and anyone is free to set up their own host, and they would get mountains more traffic than was even possible in the 90s or early 2000s. The problem is that that isn't good enough anymore. It has to make a mark on the internet or something. Not satisfied with 10,000 people viewing your page or your post, gotta be 10M+.

The other thing is that "old internet" was largely about the type of people on it. Mostly university students, most of those engineers, most of those male and from the same socioeconomic background. Fast forward to now when everybody is online, and the callout culture and seeming animosity towards viewpoints favored by early internet people is because opposing viewpoints exist.