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Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by jzellis on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:17AM (#35556782)
When I moved to SF in 1996, the murder count that year was 86. Last year it was 56. I haven't been back in a very long time, but I guarantee you it's a far safer city than it was back then. I lived on Market between 6th and 7th and had knives pulled on me, and watched a car get blown up across the street underneath Hollywood Billiards, which is long gone now - according to Google Maps, they're building new apartments there.

I loved the Tenderloin back then, even though it was terrifying. It was full of weirdos and loonies and junkies and poverty stricken artsy types like me, who had no power or desire in gentrification - we were just poor too. But we embraced where we were and didn't try to change it. The loin changed me far more than my presence changed it - for the better. It taught me compassion and empathy and how to avoid getting knifed by a junkie in the alleyway.

Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go, and you still complain when they dare to pop up where you are. I hope all that authenticity and exposed brick in your offices and apartments are worth it.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by bobobob420 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:22AM (#35556856)
“ Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go, and you still complain when they dare to pop up where you are.”

Nope. One of the wealthiest cities in the world fails to look after its inhabitants. A failure of government

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by JieJie on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:48AM (#35557271)
Y'all could both be a little bit right on this, you know.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by criddell on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:50AM (#35557306)
I think you're saying the same thing with different words.

The government isn't some distant third party. It's people from the community who are elected by their neighbors to run things in a certain way.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by platinumrad on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:39PM (#35558195)
People who moved to SF in 96 like GP are much more politically influential than the "colonizers" who arrived more recently. And yes, someone who arrived in the late 90s calling other people "colonizers" is hilarious.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by hinkley on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:57AM (#35557433)
Especially local government. It’s literally downtown.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by jjulius on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:05PM (#35557587)
>Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go...

>One of the wealthiest cities in the world fails to look after its inhabitants...

These are the same thing.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by geebee on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:05PM (#35558591)
I think you're using the term "inhabitants" loosely here. The US doesn't have much of a social safety net, which means that any city that attempts to build one may suddenly find that "its inhabitants" include the 330 million people living in other parts of the country who need help. Or who would just like some money and an opportunity to do meth and fentanyl and shoplift and commit property crime in a place with very little law enforcement. I personally would include that in the definition of "needing help." Any version of "help" that will help in SF will have to be coercive, which is another thing SF's political culture is having tremendous difficulty accepting.

But really, if you took Stockholm out of Sweden and plunked it down into the middle of the US, how long do you think the social safety net would last before it went bankrupt? And this is assuming you retain the european willingness to be coercive about mandatory rehab and confinement (something US based progressives are reluctant to note is a feature of the european social safety programs they otherwise praise).

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by ggambetta on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:56AM (#35557419)
Out of curiosity, how does one avoid getting knifed by a junkie in the alleyway?
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by narrator on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:16PM (#35557802)
I once was walking in downtown with a lady I was dating and a guy who looked homeless and was obviously very high snuck up on me and wrapped his arm around mine and started talking to me. I did not get scared, I just talked to him like he was my best friend. He said, your girlfriend is really pretty, and I said, "Yes, she is is!" and I asked whether he was having a nice day and wasn't the weather great and made small talk about various things. He released his grip on me eventually and walked away and my date didn't even realize, until I told her what happened later that there was any sort of danger. Street people are so used to people being utterly horrified of them that if you treat them like they are a normal human being, they'll be less likely to want to act violent toward you.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by didip on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:26PM (#35557969)
This is the street-smart way of handling this type of danger. Growing up in a dangerous neighborhood in Jakarta, I've used similar tactics many times.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by nicenewtemp84 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:51PM (#35558376)
I don't want to be contrarian for the sake of it, but the fact that by luck the guy physically stalking you and immobilizing you happened to back down isn't really convincing me of the safety of SF or alleys. If being street smart means "try to stay calm when possibly about to be stabbed and killed", I think I'll skip that lecture. I'd prefer if street smarts included how not to let a drugged up guy not get behind you and near you. And how to get out of a bear hug by a drugged up guy. Because "hoping he is nice" doesn't sound like a plan to me.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by lanstin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:01PM (#35558525)
Being calm and always treating people as humans give you a super power of being able to defuse situations and achieve tactical supremacy. Anger meets anger. True in actually scary east coast cities and true in the noble if slightly flawed gem of San Francisco.

But the article here is how this was some conflict between friends, so the city doesn’t really matter. All the fearful people should be reassured by this outcome. Manage your domestic life well for good safety outcomes.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by nicenewtemp84 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:20PM (#35558855)
If you've already got a drugged up person with their arms around you, I don't think "kind words" will help you unless you got lucky and met a kind stranger of ecstacy. By pure luck this worked. Most times, when you have a druggy grabbing you from the back, it won't go so nicely IMO.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by narrator on Thursday April 13, 2023 @02:29PM (#35559930)
The way things work in "ghetto logic" is a guy from the ghetto will kill you for "disrespecting." So instead you act friendly, unafraid, and respectful and that's good enough for them to want to go mug someone else.

If you want to get a good feel for San Francisco ghetto logic, or ghetto logic in general, I recommend the hard to get a hold of documentary, "Straight Outta Hunter's Point" (2003) in which an amateur film maker who was a resident of the Hunter's Point housing projects walked around the low-income housing projects in Hunter's Point and interviewed anyone who would talk to him.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by squokko on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:56PM (#35558449)
Jesus Christ, why would I want to have to do this to stay safe. Consider my approach: moving to a suburb where people like that don't come, and if they do, are harassed by police until they leave.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Klonoar on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:14PM (#35558770)
Then you live in the suburbs, warts and all.

Give me the risk any day.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by olalonde on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:04PM (#35558580)
Your approach may have been more cautious but out of principle, I probably would have asked him to release his grip, followed by shoving him away if necessary. Normalizing those kinds of intimidation tactics is not in the interest of anyone. If more individuals were to stand up for themselves, it's likely that the person in question would reconsider employing such tactics.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by btheshoe on Thursday April 13, 2023 @11:59AM (#35557471)
I've never felt unsafe in an alleyway in sf. but probably the same as any other city - don't be a dumbass, avoid the alleyways in shady parts of the city, esp at night.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by tedunangst on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:01PM (#35557505)
Don't know the junkie.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by bradlys on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:24PM (#35557942)
> Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go

I think part of this is not realizing that a lot of the locals (the previous colonizers) are part of the problem. I can guarantee that the colonizers would love for more housing to be built in SF because they don't want to pay $2m for a 2bd townhouse either.

A huge portion of the SF "colonizer" demographic can't even fucking vote. They're all on visas.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dmix on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:30PM (#35558031)
People love to invent boogiemen where they dehumaize groups of people as uncaring caricatures. It's much easier than confronting the hard problems and feels good.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by boringuser2 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:30PM (#35558027)
>Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go, and you still complain when they dare to pop up where you are. I hope all that authenticity and exposed brick in your offices and apartments are worth it.

I'm curious who you think you're referring to when you make a statement like this. (Hint: You're probably wrong).

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dehrmann on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:33PM (#35558088)
> The loin changed me far more than my presence changed it - for the better. It taught me compassion and empathy

I worked in the Warfield building from 2014 to 2017. It wasn't deep in the TL, but it still numbed me to things. Crossing police tape to get into the office? NBD. Coworkers getting assaulted? Happens every few months.

> Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go

If you said something like this about The Mission, I'd agree, but the TL wasn't even close to gentrifying. People tried to make it happen, but it never got to a point where people wanted to be there, and that was only at its periphery.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by JPKab on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:34PM (#35558099)
"Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go"

1.) I grew up in the rural South, and was literally harassed for most of my career for saying "y'all" and "folks" but glad to see it's trendy to speak that way amongst the exact kind of people who used to assume I was ignorant for speaking that way.

2.) Your statement could just as easily be, on a different day: "Y'all abandoned the city for the suburbs and deprived the city of a tax base to help the poor." Between "white flight" and "colonizer/gentrifier", you're damned if you do and damned if you don't. Same applies to livability: If you demand quality of life crimes be dealt with to make a city cleaner, you are guilty of not "embracing where we were and not trying to change it".

Your entire statement to me seems driven by emotion and nostalgia without thinking about the fact that there are low income children who have to grow up in these places. Maybe parents aren't thrilled with having their 10 year olds learn the valuable life lessons of "how to not get knifed by a junkie in an alleyway".

Sorry, but the whole comment reeks of luxury beliefs. I've personally (in DC) been mugged at gunpoint (they threw me onto the pavement in the process) and had a random guy jump out of his car to assault me because I walked in front of his car in heavy traffic (all cars stopped) to cross a street, and he viewed it as "disrespecting him".

Real, actual victims of violent crime don't think it's cute or have this nostalgia for squalor. Beliefs like that are luxuries for certain kinds of people who are insulated from the worst of it, one way or another. It's easy for a childless bohemian to have no problem with needles in parks, but for those of us raising future citizens, it's not fun.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by wpietri on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:43PM (#35558258)
> Between "white flight" and "colonizer/gentrifier", you're damned if you do and damned if you don't.

So you think that "flee the black people" and "drive the black people out" are the only two options here? There are more things, Horatio.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by ToDougie on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:28PM (#35559009)
Such as...?
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by pnathan on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:45PM (#35558278)
One major aspect I want to touch on that bother me in the perspective you criticize.

Poverty and crime are not married.

My wife and I both grew up poor and working class. Living in trailers are in our life stories. You can be dog poor and still not be a junkie, still not mug others, still not assault people. This was understood widely in our upbringing and those we dealt with. People _did_ misbehave, but it was not "just what happens".

Presumption that poor areas must mean getting to deal with junkies, means dealing with violence, well, that is a morally bankrupt view. People don't have to do that. That is their choice. Improvement is possible.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by brookst on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:55PM (#35558431)
> Presumption that poor areas must mean getting to deal with junkies, means dealing with violence, well, that is a morally bankrupt view.

Very disagree. It is not immoral or prejudicial to note the simple reality that, in aggregate, poverty and crime are correlated[0], and in part because poverty creates conditions where crime is more likely[1].

That doesn't mean that any particular person is doomed to crime because they're poor, or can't improve. Of course they can, and of course nobody should assume that a particular person is a criminal based on membership in a socioeconomic class (or any other class).

But it's just true that poverty and crime are correlated. There are confounding factors (police are more likely to arrest a poor person, and more likely to merely warn a rich person), but nothing suggests that crime is merely equally prevalent among poor and non-poor populations.

I applaud the compassion, and I agree that individuals bear the moral weight of doing the right thing, but let's not deny facts in service of those principles.

0. https://academic.oup.com/edited-volume/28019/chapter/2118222... 1. https://www.nature.com/articles/s41598-020-80897-8

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Arkhaine_kupo on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:05PM (#35558588)
> Poverty and crime are not married.

They 100% are.

The plural of anecdote is not data. Your story is nice, but the reality is poverty is heavily correlated with crime. And social nets address both at once.

letting poor people suffer because some poor people can improve their station in life through luck, hard work and a number of other extrenous factors is unethical.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @02:20PM (#35559793)
this is really not true. Poverty is correlated with crime, but the magnitude of this correlation is quite small. Portugal is very safe and very poor compared to most of the US
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Arkhaine_kupo on Thursday April 13, 2023 @05:27PM (#35562301)
> Portugal is very safe and very poor compared to most of the US

Portugal has lower gdp than the US but it isn't poor internally. People spend less % on housing food etc than in the US.

Also having no guns means a lot of crime is less violent, not that there is less of it.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @06:16PM (#35562870)
what does it mean "not poor internally"? I've been to Portugal, compared to US it's just poor. Source for "spend less % on housing, food" ? very much doubt this. Poor in the US get food stamps, etc.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Arkhaine_kupo on Friday April 14, 2023 @06:55AM (#35567963)
> what does it mean "not poor internally"?

It means you do not have homeless camps in hollywood boulevard next to million dollar penthouses. The income inequality is smaller therefore the variance in income levels is smaller and therefore all prices are down.

Let me give you an example.

Country A is rich. The poorest person has 10$ the richest has 100000$

Country B is poor the poorest person has 1$ the richest person has 5$.

In both country Nestle sells water bottles, they use a formula to maximise profit based on average earnings. On country A a water bottle is 20$ in country B is 0.2$.

Despite the proportional poverty, a poor person in country B can buy 5 water bottles while a poor person on country A can buy 0.

> Source for "spend less % on housing, food" ?

https://www.numbeo.com/cost-of-living/compare_cities.jsp?cou...

On the most expensive city in Portugal and the only thing cheaper in SF is gasoline, something most people in portugal don't use as much as they walk everywhere.

> Poor in the US get food stamps

Getting vouchers for milk and beans is not helping people. Portugal for example does not have millions of people in jail for minor drug offenses. Portugal does not have medical bankruptcy. Portugal does not have homeless camps in every mayor city.

Also food banks are common everywhere, the only difference is they are usually much broaders and healthier than food stamps and come on top of unemplyment payments, health benefits, and council housing.

> I've been to Portugal

I was born in Spain a few decades ago, I am gonna take my 18 years there over your weekend abroad.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Friday April 14, 2023 @10:02AM (#35569672)
these numbeo numbers are not % spend

you realize salaries in SF are astronomically higher than in Portugal, right?

the income inequality is indeed smaller in Portugal, but that is a different issue, absolute numbers wise Portugal is clearly a lot poorer than US

US doesn't have millions of people in jail for minor drug offenses, where did you get this nonsense from?

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Pils on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:48PM (#35558316)
> It's easy for a childless bohemian to have no problem with needles in parks, but for those of us raising future citizens, it's not fun.

> Your entire statement to me seems driven by emotion

> Sorry, but the whole comment reeks of luxury beliefs.

C'mon man. You don't know the person you are responding to and included multiple personal attacks in your response. There's a way to make your argument without making the person you are responding to your own personal hate-object.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by magicalist on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:48PM (#35558317)
> Your statement could just as easily be, on a different day: "Y'all abandoned the city for the suburbs and deprived the city of a tax base to help the poor."

That's a different situation from this one, so, sure, if that's something that happened and then you're complaining about the place you don't live anymore, sure, that's also a statement that could be made.

> Between "white flight" and "colonizer/gentrifier", you're damned if you do and damned if you don't

Not surprisingly, those aren't the only two options.

> Real, actual victims of violent crime don't think it's cute or have this nostalgia for squalor

I think you're confused if you think the GP's comment "It taught me compassion and empathy and how to avoid getting knifed by a junkie in the alleyway" was nostalgic for the getting knifed part.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by BurningFrog on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:56PM (#35558444)
> > Between "white flight" and "colonizer/gentrifier", you're damned if you do and damned if you don't

> Not surprisingly, those aren't the only two options.

"white flight" == moving out of the area

"colonizer/gentrifier" == moving in to the area

The only remaining option is to never move.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by clsec on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:38PM (#35559151)
Don't agree.

white flight = moving out of city because of fear, cost, crappy schools, etc. is flight. A white person moving to the boondocks because they want to homestead or live off grid is not "flight".

gentrifier = higher income person/family moving into a city or neighborhood, raising the housing costs by doing so, causing the long time residents to leave because of said costs and changing the culture of said area because the old families don't live there anymore.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by brigandish on Friday April 14, 2023 @06:49AM (#35567924)
White flight is a term used as slant, it isn’t some nuanced term for actually determining the different intentions of movers. If enough white people move for whatever reason then there’ll be someone waiting to paint it as racism.

Schelling’s segregation model comes to mind in these moments but I never see that mentioned, strangely. Oh, the inconvenience of maths that explains things better than divisive and ignorant rhetoric!

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by magicalist on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:21PM (#35558865)
Neighborhoods always change but if SF were to actually build housing then people could have a place where they could still live.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by ipaddr on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:03PM (#35558561)
The other option is to accept you have been deemed evil by mainstream media and ignore them and judge people who listen to them the problem
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by taeric on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:04PM (#35558581)
I also grew up in the south. Interestingly, I always got more harassment for that sort of phrasing from other southerners. Most folks just don't give a shit, oddly. And those that do are often holding themselves back by trying to hold down others.

Sadly, I think there is enough evidence that the game plan is to build classes of people that are constantly holding each other down. That is literally the point. :(

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by nostromo on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:35PM (#35558114)
Your comment borders on defending violent crime and murder. As if stabbings are part of San Francisco's quirky, artsy past, and the people that live here should think of violent crime as character-building.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by zamnos on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:01PM (#35558515)
I mean, if you want to go that route, the SFist has you covered, with this article on "The 10 Most Infamous San Francisco Murders Of The 20th Century"

https://sfist.com/2017/02/28/the_10_most_infamous_san_franci...

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by marco_yolo on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:35PM (#35558122)
pretty sure the mentally ill and "poorest folks",as you say, have "colonized" every part of the city. this logic is a two way street.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by mort96 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:59PM (#35558489)
You're saying mentally ill and poor people have been moving from somewhere else in to SF in large numbers? Where do you get that idea from?
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by firmnoodle on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:41PM (#35558227)
"The loin changed me far more than my presence changed it - for the better. It taught me compassion and empathy and how to avoid getting knifed by a junkie in the alleyway."

I 100% agree. I lived 5 blocks uphill from the Tenderloin and would walk though the loin to go to Bourbon & Branch or while coming back from the theater late at night. I learned all three of those lessons as well. It was rare that I was scared but I was always hyper alert.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by yadaeno on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:20PM (#35558851)
How safe you are mostly depends on your gender, size and frankly race. If you are a tall male your experience is simply not comparable to someone that is less able to fend off a physical confrontation.

Its great nothing traumatic happened to you, but I’ve seen how much more of a target for harassment some of my friends are and I don’t blame them for being afraid.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:41PM (#35558228)
I don't understand this mentality.

https://www.numbeo.com/crime/compare_cities.jsp?country1=Uni...

there is no reason that SF has to be a lot less safe than Zurich. Zurich is not populated by aliens, people live in both places

It's political choices that make it the way it is.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by wpietri on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:49PM (#35558338)
It is political choices, but it's not primarily on a city level, or a year-to-year level. The problems in San Francisco are generations in the making and often national in cause. You might read Loewen's "Sundown Towns" for a good look at a key factor to understanding American cities.

The "mentality" here is one appropriate for the person and the circumstance. As you say, his neighbors weren't aliens, they were people. Compassion and understanding were worthwhile efforts. And they remain so.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:12PM (#35558716)
I did not say this mentality is not appropriate for one person. And I didn't say that compassion is not a worthwhile effort, so I am not sure what you are responding to.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by xwkd on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:52PM (#35558390)
I agreed with the parent's sentiments initially. But then I saw your comment before the edit, where you had called this "uneducated loser mentality." I'm sad that you edited it, because you're also right.

>I loved the Tenderloin back then, even though it was terrifying. It was full of weirdos and loonies and junkies and poverty stricken artsy types like me, who had no power or desire in gentrification - we were just poor too. But we embraced where we were and didn't try to change it. The loin changed me far more than my presence changed it - for the better. It taught me compassion and empathy and how to avoid getting knifed by a junkie in the alleyway.

>But we embraced where we were and didn't try to change it.

Poor is fine. It's a hard life, but it's a state of being. Even being artsy and a little crazy; that's great. The rest of it though...? Why romanticize this? It's bad. We shouldn't romanticize bad. Learn your lessons, but let's want something better.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by JumpCrisscross on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:01PM (#35558509)
> we shouldn't romanticize bad

San Francisco’s old guard in a nutshell.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by cmh89 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:08PM (#35558648)
>Poor is fine. It's a hard life, but it's a state of being. Even being artsy and a little crazy; that's great. The rest of it though...? Why romanticize this? It's bad. We shouldn't romanticize bad. Learn your lessons, but let's want something better.

The OC has either survivor ship bias or a bad memory. I've never lived in SF but I've lived in Portland and work adjacent to mental health professionals and the stories that they have of people being victimized in the camps and shanty towns are tragic.

For everyone who learned to 'not get stabbed' (whatever that means), there are people who DO get stabbed, or sexually assaulted, or robbed of the little money they had.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by pavlov on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:52PM (#35558394)
For the past hundred years or so, a lot of people moved to SF because it was nothing like Zurich.

It’s not reasonable even for the nouveaux riches of tech to expect to flip a city’s character in a decade.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:10PM (#35558678)
this comment completely misses the point. I did not suggest San Francisco needs to be like Zurich. With respect, I think it is idiotic to suggest that the only option for the city to be as safe as Zurich is to become literally exactly like Zurich.

I also didn't say anything about flipping a city's character in a decade. Whether it takes 1 decade, 2, 3 or 4 -- there is no reason to accept the idea that city just has to be unsafe and nothing can be done about it

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Arkhaine_kupo on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:11PM (#35558690)
> there is no reason that SF has to be a lot less safe than Zurich.

Lack of Nazi gold to prop up a social net, which can later be defended tooth and nail with strong anti immigration policies while newer streams of illegal money such as mexican cartels are adquiered.

Maybe SF does not want money laundering for some of the worst people on the planet, to be its identity. But hey I guess the rolex watches and chocolate are pretty good.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:13PM (#35558736)
this comment makes no sense, what does Nazi gold have to do with safety? San Francisco is just as wealthy as Zurich if not more so.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by Arkhaine_kupo on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:19PM (#35558830)
> what does Nazi gold have to do with safety?

It provided the original funding for many fo Zurich's public services.

> San Francisco is just as wealthy as Zurich

Kinda, but in a very different way. It requieres way more people, so it imports way more people. This makes the city more dynamic but also makes it harder to do sensible long term urban planning for example.

Also many services grew organically and are disfunctional such as the healthcare system in the US. That alone could fix many of SF problems, related to drug abuse (which is a healthcare problem not a crime one), medical related poverty and homelessness and mental illeness. With that alone, ignoring other solutions you would see a massive improvement in QoL in SF.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by vasilipupkin on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:40PM (#35559177)
healthcare system in the US is dysfunctional everywhere but safety varies quite a bit across the country.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by welder on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:44PM (#35558263)
Here's a good explanation of why perceived crime increased at the same time as total crime decreased in SF with COVID. TLDR: the number of crimes decreased, but the total number of people out-and-about decreased even more. The result is if you went out-and-about you were more likely to experience a crime.

https://sfstandard.com/perspectives/perspective-why-your-cha...

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by nicenewtemp84 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:47PM (#35558295)
There is a difference in who is getting attacked these days vs past. In the past, the crime was more amongst the people taking part in obviously dangerous things.

Now it feels more like it can happen to anyone. I spent a few years in SF as a child 89-92. Have visited several times a year, every year, since 1992. It's definitely the most run down, dirty, and unpleasant it has ever been IMO. I have luckily never had anything stolen, but I for sure see more broken glass and more broken car windows too.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by simplotek on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:51PM (#35558367)
> Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go, and you still complain when they dare to pop up where you are.

What leads you to conflate poverty with criminal activity, and proceed to victim-blame those who dare complain about criminal activity?

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by PragmaticPulp on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:57PM (#35558467)
Equating poor people with criminals is indeed quite discriminatory. It’s ironic to see that used in a statement from someone who believes themselves to be taking the moral high ground.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by TheKarateKid on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:13PM (#35558738)
The equation he made isn't wrong, but it contradicts the fact that OP is criticizing people who agree with what they said themselves.

Data clearly shows a correlation between crime levels and average income in an area. Are we not mostly engineers used to working with data here? In fact, needing to "survive" is a common excuse used to justify the crimes committed in impoverished areas. Note that I said correlation, not causation. If someone has data that says otherwise, please provide it because I would be genuinely intrigued.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by simplotek on Thursday April 13, 2023 @03:03PM (#35560458)
> Data clearly shows a correlation between crime levels and average income in an area.

Isn't "correlation does not imply causality" already a household expression? If we are engineers why are we insisting in specious reasoning?

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by trollerator23 on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:57PM (#35558461)
Oh please. I'm sure they are totally unrelated.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by kragen on Thursday April 13, 2023 @12:57PM (#35558463)
so how do you avoid getting knifed by a junkie in the alleyway? this is important information to me
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by carapace on Thursday April 13, 2023 @02:35PM (#35560022)
I lived in the Tenderloin for a bit after high school.

First and foremost, avoid alleyways, avoid junkies. It seems like simple advice and it is.

What I learned as a nerdy white kid living in TL was that there is a largely non-verbal communication system, a kind of thieves' cant (although, as I mentioned, it's largely non-verbal, almost like a sign language but with subtle facial expressions and body postures rather than specific signs. (Actual gangs do use specific hand signs to recognize each other.))

If you "know the score" you can just tell someone, e.g. "Hey, don't mug me." using this communication system and they will leave you alone. This happened to me. I was walking through the 'loin when a dude comes up off the wall and starts to fall in behind me. I caught the motion out of the corner of my eye, and I gave him the slightest shake of my head, "nah", and that was it. He fell back and posted up on the wall again, and it was over.

Just being aware of what's going on differentiates you from the clueless "mark". That's the main thing: you're part of the "in-group". You have heard of "woke"? This level of awareness of the nature of life on the street is part of what one is woke to, or not, eh? This cant would seem like telepathy to an unaware outsider.

So, I was able to tell my would-be mugger that, although I look and walk like a clueless tech nerd, I'm actually a resident who knows what's up, so please mug someone else? And, as neighbors do, he kindly preferred to look for someone wandering in from the nicer parts of downtown. A tech worker or tourist, eh?

(I saw those interactions too: Three "gentlemen" corner a fellow up against a wall, one of them displays an empty 40oz bottle, and an agreement of sorts quickly emerges to the effect that it would be much preferable for the victim to give up his wallet rather than receive the bottle to the head. They even gave him his wallet back afterwards. The whole thing took thirty seconds.)

There's also an element of stotting involved in what I'm saying, "an honest signal to predators that the stotting animal would be difficult to catch" ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Stotting ) Since I "know the score" I'm not going to panic or freeze up if this guy tries to rob me. There's a way to say with your body language, "I'm not going to be easy to rob."

If you don't have that naturally, for whatever reason, there is something called "adrenaline re-imprinting" self-defense courses. Without going into a long tangent about it, the essence is to re-program your adrenaline response to be coherent and defensive. If you haven't seen it, it's hard to imagine the intensity of a controlled adrenaline response. Even small, weak people can be extremely dangerous under the influence of adrenaline. Adrenaline is a hellofa drug. (I mean, in the course I took the instructor at one point has on one of those bear-proof suits, and it still seems like he's gonna get hurt. And the other people in my class were small women! They were destroying this guy.) Basically, the attacker would have to be literally psychotic to continue trying to attack someone in the throes of a controlled adrenaline response. Trying to approach someone in that state... it's like a force-field. There's something deep within you that is like "nope" when confronted with such a fury, and the effect gets stronger as you try to approach. It literally feels like a force-field. I have only had to use the training once, Thank God, and it stopped three guys in their tracks, literally. They were running up behind me, and I stopped and the adrenaline triggered and I spun around and did the thing (there's a posture and you shout "back off!") and they stopped in their tracks. I started a conversation with them and they were scared of me. As in I made a gesture and one of them jumped back a little. Anyway, the thing to search for is "adrenaline re-imprinting".

I like you Kragen, I hope it's not too weird to say that, so I hope this was helpful or at least interesting. Cheers!

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by kragen on Thursday April 13, 2023 @06:07PM (#35562774)
thank you very much! it was very interesting indeed
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dang on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:07PM (#35558628)
Please don't take HN threads into ideological flamewar hell. Your comment was great until the last paragraph, which swerved dramatically for the worse and basically drove the subthread off a cliff.

Comments demonizing other people and/or other groups of people are the scourge of internet forums. If you make it "y'all", that's worse yet, as now the demonized group gets to select itself and feel personally attacked.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by tga_d on Thursday April 13, 2023 @03:56PM (#35561281)
I can't help but wonder why it's prudent to sweep in for a comment like that, but not any of the comments that have been associating homelessness with murder rates on an article apparently about a dispute between two tech workers. It's almost like the guidelines are catered not towards high-quality discussion so much as an aesthetic of high-quality discussion by protecting the emotions of a specific class of people who would get offended by that comment. Or should I be flagging comments that euphemistically mention the "homeless problem"?
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dang on Friday April 14, 2023 @12:37AM (#35565577)
We're not protecting any "specific class of people". Anyone with an insight to offer about homelessness, or any other question under discussion, is welcome to do it. We just ask people not to rage at and/or demonize each other, because that's the way that internet forums destroy themselves. Scorched earth isn't interesting to anybody: https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=false&qu....

People often think that if we moderate comment X, we must care less about or even be endorsing comment Y, but that's not the case. We just see a more-or-less random sample of the comments. If you see a post that ought to have been moderated but hasn't been, the likeliest explanation is that we didn't see it. You can help by flagging it or emailing us at [email protected].

https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=false&qu...

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by tga_d on Friday April 14, 2023 @01:29AM (#35565832)
Maybe I wasn't clear enough with my criticism: You are unambiguously making a value judgement that the feelings of people who get offended by comments like "Y'all colonized the poorest parts of the city and gave the poorest folks nowhere to go" are more important than the homeless who are being baselessly accused of being murderers. I don't think you honestly expect me to believe this discrepancy is simply because you "see a more-or-less random sample of the comments", but if that is the case, simply search for "homeless" in the relevant discussions and have at it -- if you still can't see the problem, then read the results again replacing "homeless" with "y'all" or "people like you" and see if you feel the same way about whether they could use commenting on. The only way you can possibly justify the way the guidelines has been handled is if it operates on the idea that people who are less represented here, such as the homeless, don't deserve the same courtesy.
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dang on Friday April 14, 2023 @09:11PM (#35576745)
I make no such judgement. I moderated plenty of those comments when I saw people breaking HN's rules, just as I moderated yours when I saw you breaking HN's rules. The assumption that I must be secretly siding against your view is wrong, let alone the implication that my values must be twisted and inhumane because I'm doing my job this way.

People always feel like the mods must be against them (and are depraved to boot) when their comments get moderated. It's a routine reaction and it's completely illusory. Comments that express this reaction are all pretty similar, no doubt because they have the same mechanism underlying them.

https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&que...

https://hn.algolia.com/?dateRange=all&page=0&prefix=true&que...

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by confidantlake on Thursday April 13, 2023 @05:32PM (#35562362)
The last thread was full of people advocating a violent police response to the homeless and this is the comment you choose to take a stand over?
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dang on Friday April 14, 2023 @12:30AM (#35565536)
It's more or less random which comments we "choose to take a stand over". If we see people breaking the rules, we ask them not to. There's no implication of a total ordering, or any hierarchy of abuse.

The idea that if comment X says one thing and Y says another and we reply to X but not Y, that means we're endorsing "violent police responses to the homeless", is... not valid. It's not possible for us to see everything, even in the same thread, let alone all threads.

If you see particularly egregious comments that haven't been moderated, you're welcome to point them out to us and we can take a look. [email protected] is the best way to do that.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by confidantlake on Friday April 14, 2023 @02:21PM (#35572898)
I never claimed or implied that you are endorsing anything. Tolerating and endorsing are different things.

The thread was full of people blaming the homeless for the murder before any facts were known and calling for a response. Not one or two comments, a thread full of them.

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by dang on Friday April 14, 2023 @09:08PM (#35576726)
Ok. I thought you were implying some sort of bias or incorrect priority in how we moderated that thread, and didn't think that was true or fair. I posted dozens of moderation comments there, and did plenty of scolding of the comments you're objecting to. In fact I spent my entire day doing that and related things; it wasn't possible to do more.

If that wasn't what you were saying, I'm sorry for misinterpreting you!

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by confidantlake on Monday April 17, 2023 @03:47PM (#35605611)
Sure no problem. Appreciate the work you do moderating!
Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by raldi on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:09PM (#35558663)
For decades, San Francisco hasn't been building enough new units to house even just the children of natives[1], to say nothing of those like you and I who were born elsewhere and dreamed of moving here.

The people who "gave the poorest folks nowhere to go" were the ones who voted to prohibit the construction of anything but single-family houses[2] in 76% of the city[3].

[1] https://www.sfdph.org/dph/files/MCHdocs/Epi/Birth-Data-Summa...

[2] https://sbuss.substack.com/p/when-did-things-go-wrong-in-san....

[3] https://sfzoning.deapthoughts.com/

Re:Arrest made in Bob Lee case. Alleged killer also worked i... by ipaddr on Thursday April 13, 2023 @01:16PM (#35558795)
Sounds like someone is trying to put themselves in a category and everyone else in another. You were part of a wave of colonizers, taking spaces from poorer people. You can't hide behind being artsy.. those tend to be the biggest colonizers