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Re:America has a drinking problem by Barrin92 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @04:51PM (#27361110)
Article mirrors my experience. For context I'm German, my wife's French and we've got family in Croatia who own a vineyard so I'm used to being around alcohol and people drinking. My first impression when I spent time was in the US was indeed how bipolar drinking is compared to Europe.

We probably drink a hell of a lot more in raw terms than the average American does.Two glasses of wine for dinner, another one in the evening, maybe some cognac to wind down, and so on. But it's for the most part not about getting drunk or coping with stress. I've got no illusions about the physical effects but speaking about addiction or being dysfunctional I've seen very little of it despite some people I know drinking enough to stun a mule probably.

The things that I noted were different in the US is how solitary everyone is, overworked and how little time people take for preparing food and just sitting at a table having a drink over conversation. People seem to drink to cope more, use it as a medicine rather than for pleasure or to enhance meals, and I think that turns very badly very quick.

That said I don't think solitary drinking is necessarily as bad as the article makes it out to be all the time, but it takes a certain personality. When you take drugs alone, not just alcohol, you need to be more mindful about why you do it.

Re:America has a drinking problem by qeternity on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @04:59PM (#27361214)
Where in Germany? I find this surprising. As an American expat who has spent a lot of time in Germany, I’d agree that the German relationship with alcohol is less taboo, but Germany/UK have pretty big binging cultures. The Mediterraneans definitely do it more responsibly though.
Re:America has a drinking problem by galaxyLogic on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:15PM (#27362696)
Yes. Think about Octoberfest. It's all about drinking
Re:America has a drinking problem by 9dev on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:41PM (#27362886)
Yet, the Oktoberfest is such a small and insignificant detail of our culture. It’s a big party, mostly for tourists. After those two weeks, many people I know take a monthlong abstinence, and life carries on. Binge drinking happens, but it’s definitely nothing regular.
Re:America has a drinking problem by cm2012 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:10PM (#27362656)
For what its worth it I looked up the data to disprove you but it actually backs you up. The data says that Germans drink more than Americans but have lower rates of alcoholism and liver disease.

German data: https://www.who.int/substance_abuse/publications/global_alco...

US data: https://www.who.int/substance_abuse/publications/global_alco...

Re:America has a drinking problem by bnralt on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @11:19PM (#27364438)
When factoring in the alcohol-attributable fractions, it looks like German males have slightly higher rates of liver failure because of alcohol than American males, while German females have slightly less than American females. An this is with the U.S. population demographically being much more susceptible to alcohol liver disease than Germany[1].

Looking at the numbers, I think there's a real possibility that Germans and other Europeans have a problem with alcohol that's just as bad if not worse, but are possibly less willing to admit it. Just like how 70 years ago few in America would be willing to admit America's problems with alcohol and tobacco.

[1] https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2015/02/150220190741.h...

Re:America has a drinking problem by np- on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:13PM (#27362683)
I'm surprised this is the top comment, what's the deal with Europeans tending to talk like they're the authoritative source on American culture based on a few people they've met and a few websites they've read? This seems like an absurd reductionist view of both European and American cultures. It honestly seems like the type of anecdotal content I would expect from a Reddit thread.
Re:America has a drinking problem by handrous on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:27PM (#27364088)
It's not just Europeans. Getting a taste of less than 1% of a country and becoming a total boor of a know-it-all any time the topic comes up is universal, AFAIK.
Re:America has a drinking problem by ashtonkem on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:36PM (#27362355)
> That said I don't think solitary drinking is necessarily as bad as the article makes it out to be all the time

One of my great bugaboos is these cultural definitions of alcoholism that are independent from the actual amount of alcohol consumed. You know “you’re only an alcoholic if you drink alone” or “you’re only an alcoholic if you pour your own drinks” (apparently this is a meme in Japan?). Every culture that consumes alcohol seems to have these, and they’re all laughably naive and easily gamed. Alcoholics can and do drink heavily together, and they can pour each other drinks if that’s what it takes to sidestep some silly taboo. The only definition of this that’s meaningful is how much alcohol you drink and how often, nothing else.

Re:America has a drinking problem by TacticalCoder on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:09PM (#27362643)
> "you’re only an alcoholic if you pour your own drinks” (apparently this is a meme in Japan?)

(source: I've got family in Japan). It's polite in Japan to serve others and then let someone serve you. Otherwise it's "tejaku" (pooring oneself's drink). In, say, France/Belgium it's different: the one who serves from the bottle serves everybody and ends up serving himself.

Now, obviously, when you're drinking alone there's nobody to serve you...

Re:America has a drinking problem by ashtonkem on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:50PM (#27362970)
Just to be extra precise; I’m not trying to imply that there’s anything wrong with customs around how a good friend or polite host serves other people. I’m just railing against the “you’re only an alcoholic if you <behavior unrelated to amount consumed>“ tropes.

I’ve never been to Japan, but I’d heard that “you’re only an alcoholic if you pour your own drinks” is a trope there. The question mark in my original post was to underscore my uncertainty.

Re:America has a drinking problem by dantondwa on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @01:34AM (#27365220)
I think it is necessary to distinguish between generations, at least in Italy, but I’ve seen similar patterns in other countries I’ve lived.

My generation in Italy (millennials) tends to drink a lot more and with the precise purpose of getting drunk. The way they/we do it resembles much more the American way than the way our parents used to drink.

Of course, this is based on personal experience, but I’ve seen this pattern across different social classes and it seems to be mainly linked to age, more than education or economic condition.

Re:America has a drinking problem by throwaway0a5e on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:51PM (#27362476)
This trope needs to die. Europe doesn't have drinking "problems" because it mostly draws the line for "problems" in what would solidly be "functional alcoholic" territory in the US.
Re:America has a drinking problem by tomnipotent on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:31PM (#27362802)
Wait, what?

From the WHO:

https://www.euro.who.int/en/health-topics/disease-prevention...

"The WHO European Region has the highest proportion in the world of total ill health and premature death due to alcohol."

Re:America has a drinking problem by throwaway0a5e on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:49PM (#27362961)
Exactly. The numbers don't back up the narrative unless you do mental gymnastics to redefine Europe. HN often seems to forget that Europe extends south beyond the Alps and east beyond the Oder.
Re:America has a drinking problem by pedrosorio on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:10PM (#27363138)
> HN often seems to forget that Europe extends south beyond the Alps

Unclear what this is supposed to mean. Italy[0], Portugal[1] and Spain[2] all have lower prevalence of heavy episodic drinking than the EU average.

Both Portugal ("south of the Alps") and France[3] ("north of the Alps") have higher alcohol consumption per capita than the EU average, which is largely due to a culture of moderate wine drinking with meals that has nothing to do with "functional alcoholism".

[0] https://www.euro.who.int/__data/assets/pdf_file/0016/402190/... [1] https://www.euro.who.int/__data/assets/pdf_file/0006/402198/... [2] https://www.euro.who.int/__data/assets/pdf_file/0010/402202/... [3] https://www.euro.who.int/__data/assets/pdf_file/0020/402185/...

Re:America has a drinking problem by plandis on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:53PM (#27363494)
I’ve lived in the US for 30-some years and could really only tell you the drinking habits of myself, my wife, and a few close friends with any kind of accuracy.

Do you do research on drinking habits? How can you assume to know so much about the US’ drinking habits in general terms?

Re:America has a drinking problem by verst on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @12:49AM (#27364955)
I agree with you. It's not that Germans don't drink a lot - but it's just not as much in a single session and generally not for the purpose of getting drunk.

Most people don't understand the concept of standard drink sizes (for medical purposes or blood alcohol calculation). Firstly the standard drink size in the US is larger than in the US, but even so it's still smaller than the typical size drink people actually receive. If there were more awareness around standard drink sizes we might discover that Americans drink more than statistics capture by a lot (though probably not more than Germans)! In Germany most of my friends in the US would be considered alcoholics.

- shots are typically much larger in the US - about 2x-3x

- the standard beer size (for beer on tap) is usually a pint in the US. In Germany it's about a half pint! (That's why Germans can have a lunch beer)

- Canned wine is fairly popular in the US, but nobody realizes that this is essentially half of bottle of wine.

On a related note: most people definitely drive under the influence (legally drunk) in the US! :(

I grew up in Germany in the restaurant business (family business) and was a bar tender from a young age (albeit in a fancy restaurant with a few locals who'd sit at the bar). The most shots I've ever seen someone drink in an evening was 9 shots - my staff and I thought that person was a crazy alcoholic. Those shots are 2cl. When you compare that to the typical tequila shots in US bars it's basically ~3 shots (a little more), which people in their 20s and 30s tend to drink like it's no big deal.

I have lived several places in the Midwest, in SF, Chicago and of course traveled lots of places in the US for business and vacation.

Disclaimer: German in the US for 15+ years.

I'm writing this right now whilst drinking my German Import Pilsener to wind down from work :D

Re:America has a drinking problem by vmception on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @05:18PM (#27361439)
What I got out of this was that you were around well-adjusted people in Europe and were around less well-adjusted people in the US.

How do you even know about solitary drinking in the US? Why are you unaware of solitary drinking in France/Germany/Croatia?

I have no way of quantifying any of your observations.

I am aware of people with drinking problems in France, Germany and Croatia. It is easy for alcohol to periodically become a problem in people's lives.

I'm not trying to defend American culture at all. These observations read kind of comically though.

Re:America has a drinking problem by orange_joe on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @01:09AM (#27365073)
I don’t think France has a particularly healthy drinking culture. It’s worth pointing out that France has a far higher rate of alcohol deaths than the US, France has around 41K/year and the US 95K/year, which is shocking given the 5x population difference. Even if we assume there are accounting differences, France has a way higher rate of abuse at the extreme end (and thus likely indicates a higher rate of abuse more broadly)
Re:America has a drinking problem by jorblumesea on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:12PM (#27363174)
Spain would disagree. Many parts of Europe absolutely have binge drinking problems on par with the US or UK. Let's not even get started on Eastern Europe. You don't need to go far from Germany to find these problems.

I would probably say that Germany isn't indicative of the Eurozone at all.

Re:America has a drinking problem by flemhans on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @02:21AM (#27365521)
In Eastern Europe it's lowly and indecent to get drunk, whereas in the "Binge Belt" it's a goal for the night for some.

I'd sat the Binge Belt is US, UK, AU, DK, NO, IS, JP, KR

Re:America has a drinking problem by k__ on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:16PM (#27362153)
I'm German, and I'd consider drinking 2-3 glasses of wine plus a glass cognac a day quite much.

But I'd consider drinking daily or even weekly much.

Re:America has a drinking problem by maya24 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:06PM (#27362046)
Alcohol is a harmful drug much worse than some of the other banned drugs on the market.
Re:America has a drinking problem by jmcdl on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:32PM (#27362331)
This is a common refrain but at the same time it seems to be the one substance commonly used across most of the world since ancient times. None of the other supposedly less harmful, banned drugs are so ubiquitous. Perhaps there's a good reason for this (besides varying availability of other substances)?
Re:America has a drinking problem by samatman on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:11PM (#27362668)
Nope, I'm quite convinced it's the varying availability of the other substances.

Coffee, tea, and tobacco, became at least as widespread once global trade made that possible. Coca was late to the party because it doesn't grow well outside of its native region.

Cannabis is an odd one, in that it was extremely widespread and making solid inroads in Europe and North America, when it became a weapon for United States racial policy, and a jobs program for federal police after the repeal of Prohibition. Coca and cocaine got caught up in the same dragnet.

Opium and its derivatives are genuinely pernicious and attempts to normalize their use outside of medicine have been resisted repeatedly throughout history.

Which leaves psychedelics, which are... weird, and also were largely unknown until some anthropologists in the 40s and 50s drew attention to them.

The history of 'modern' drug prohibition owes more to politics than the inherent properties of the substances in question.

Re:America has a drinking problem by fomine3 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:12PM (#27363182)
Alcohol can be easily brewed from many foods without global trade, unlike other drugs
Re:America has a drinking problem by spodek on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:34PM (#27363351)
You left out refined sugar in its many forms. In total deaths and disease as well as cost to society dwarfs everything. The combination of being legal, advertised, and by some measures as addictive as any others is tough to beat.
Re:America has a drinking problem by bart_spoon on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:02PM (#27362586)
One good reason is because alcoholic beverages could be stored for long periods of time and be safe for drinking. Water can become contaminated over time if bacteria is allowed to grow while it’s being stored, so it has to be relatively fresh to drink. Other options like milk would spoil quickly. Alcohol generally didn’t have these issues, giving it some utility that outweighed its advantages.

In an age where other beverages are as easily accessible for people living in the modern world, it’s utility isn’t there any more and you are left with all the downsides.

Re:America has a drinking problem by throwawaycuriou on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:11PM (#27363157)
is it plausible humans initially hated the taste of alcohol and suffered worse hangovers, but in a manner of a few thousand years descend from ancestors who selected for high euphoria and strong livers.... all because alcohol was healthier than water?
Re:America has a drinking problem by _jal on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:55PM (#27364263)
> None of the other supposedly less harmful, banned drugs are so ubiquitous

You get alcohol when fruit spoils. Our experience with it is quite literally as old as foraging. This doesn't tell us anything about how harmful or not harmful alcohol is.

As far as ubiquity, plant-based substances had to follow migration or trade routes to gain use outside of their native habitats. Alcohol was coextensive with any food .

Re:America has a drinking problem by jmcdl on Saturday June 05, 2021 @12:37PM (#27406482)
The fact that alcohol has been a part of human existence for so long might support my hypothesis, if you believe that humans physiology is at least partly shaped by human dietary habits over many thousands of years.
Re:America has a drinking problem by bnralt on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:47PM (#27364209)
Fermentation is a great way to store excess food, which is why there's a ton of fermented foods across cultures. For civilizations centered around cereal crops, it makes sense that you'd see a lot of fermented cereal crops such as beer.

You can definitely see the benefit for an ancient civilization, since you're able to store many more calories which allows you to grow a much larger population base. But like many things associated with the move to agrarian civilizations, being good for the civilization doesn't necessarilly correlate with being good for the individual.

Re:America has a drinking problem by gilbetron on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:56PM (#27362525)
It's a really interesting question. Maybe the benefits of having something to drink that has alcohol to kill of pathogens outweigh the negatives?
Re:America has a drinking problem by chitowneats on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @04:46PM (#27373818)
I'm sorry, which pathogens are killed by imbibing alcohol? I've never heard of such a thing, even historically.

Edit: Next time I'll do a cursory googling before commenting. This is apparently an existing hypothesis for common types of bacteria such as e coli, salmonella, etc in the drink itself, not in the body.

Re:America has a drinking problem by detaro on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @04:54PM (#27373903)
Pathogens have a harder time living in alcoholic beverages, making the drink itself safer.
Re:America has a drinking problem by JoeAltmaier on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @04:53PM (#27373891)
I wonder if they meant killing pathogens in the drink, before you drank it. Clean water is a modern thing.
Re:America has a drinking problem by chitowneats on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @04:54PM (#27373904)
Bingo. Edited my comment above.
Re:America has a drinking problem by lazyasciiart on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:09PM (#27362651)
Delivery method is an important factor. Nothing that works through injection had a chance to become popular until quite recently, for instance.
Re:America has a drinking problem by LocalH on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @09:24PM (#27363699)
What are you talking about? Cannabis, psilocybin, and mescaline consumption have a very old history as well.
Re:America has a drinking problem by quickthrowman on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:36PM (#27362361)
Alcohol is more dangerous than all other drugs, in my experience (been addicted to alcohol and heroin in the past, and have abused every common drug) and in my opinion.

The addiction rate for cocaine/heroin/meth may be higher, but the negative effects of those drugs mostly stem from the high cost (theft) and insane profit margins (murder). If a heroin addict could get their supply for $5/day (and have it be pure heroin w no fentanyl) then nearly all of the negatives would disappear.

Re:America has a drinking problem by galaxyLogic on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:19PM (#27362731)
Isn't meth just plain destructive, what it does to your body, and brain?
Re:America has a drinking problem by nick__m on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:37PM (#27362842)
It's somewhat more subtle, pure medical grade methamphetamine (desoxyn) taken orally is theoretically the best ADD medicine available but it's almost never prescribed for political reasons.

Meth has lot less sympathetic side effects than dextroamphetamine per unit of dopaminergic stimulation, this simple difference enables abuser to consume ridiculously large dose and those high doses are destructive.

https://astralcodexten.substack.com/p/know-your-amphetamines

Re:America has a drinking problem by nszceta on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:17PM (#27363228)
Amphetamine-like drugs are used as pills or capsules, powder, or fluid, and can be ingested orally, smoked, insufflated, or injected intravenously. They cause euphoria but tolerance develops rapidly. Clinically evident effects of the two drugs are nearly indistinguishable, but methamphetamine appears to be a more potent stimulant. Amphetamine and methamphetamine induce euphoria, increased energy, alertness and libido, agitation and anxiety, increased locomotor activity and stereotypical movements, as well as hyperthermia, increased heart rate and blood pressure, vasoconstriction, bronchodilatation, hyperglycemia, and suppress appetite. Psychosis, hyperkinesia, seizures, and coma have been described in emergency patients. Chronic users may develop behavioral disorders, impulsivity, punding (non-goal directed repetitive activities), hallucinations, tremor, choreoathetosis, dystonias, ataxia, and gait disturbances (41–43). Stereotyped involuntary choreoathetotic hyperkinesias are characteristic in arms, neck and head, and usually disappear during sleep, while teeth grinding (bruxism) may occur during day and night. Movement disorders may develop during abuse or abstinence, and though they a usually resolve within few days, they may remain for a long time in some cases, even after the abuse of amphetamines is stopped. Treatment with benzodiazepines or neuroleptics may be of benefit (43–45). Choreiform movements have developed as an adverse effect in the therapeutic setting of amphetamine used in the treatment of ADHD in adult and pediatric patients (46, 47).

[41] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/23688691/

[43] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/3355623/

[45] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/7299411/

[46] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/22883290/

[47] https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/15254949/

Re:America has a drinking problem by nick__m on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:13PM (#27364010)
Yes, the dose makes the poison and yes medicl amphetamines are sometimes abused but the literature you cited¹ isn't really about the medical use of amphetamines. Those papers are about the abuse of amphetamines.

From my experience with Vyvanse I find that amphetamines have a dose response function with linear and exponential steps. 15mg is barely perceptible, 30mg is like a coffee without the anxiety but it last 8 hours. 45mg is like 30mg but a little longer. 60mg in 2 doses (first pill at 7am and next one at 9am) is a perfect treatment against my ADD. Once I tried 90mg and it was terrible, I experienced bruxism, anxiety and hyperacidity for 18 hours. I am sure that I would develop the problems you listed if I were to take 90mg a day but 90mg of Vyvanse is supratherapeutic...

1: Link 41 is about abuse (supratherapeutic and frequent doses). Link 43 I can't comment as I don't have acces but it's an old paper from 1988... Link 45 is about abuse again. Link 46 is about accidental ingestion by a baby. (a therapeutic dose for a teenager is clearly supratherapeutic in a 8months infant) Link 47 is probably about abuse (the abstract talk of reversible consequences of dose escalation) but I don't have acces to the paper.

Re:America has a drinking problem by nszceta on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @12:22PM (#27370569)
You can't avoid capillary vasoconstriction at any dose and that's what makes your teeth rot and gums go bad. Nothing you can do about that. I've used Adderall and Vyvanse many many years ago for "ADHD" as well. Bad breath and increased gum issues made me stop well before any damage occurred.
Re:America has a drinking problem by fnord77 on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @02:02AM (#27365402)
I was prescribed desoxyn for adhd - didn't seem particularly hard to get...
Re:America has a drinking problem by rkk3 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @09:24PM (#27363693)
I remember seeing a study a few years ago that showed a lot of the negatives from Meth weren't inherent in the drug but from behaviors it encourages; like not sleeping.
Re:America has a drinking problem by galaxyLogic on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @02:30AM (#27365578)
I don't think I would say it "encourages" not sleeping. Rather it makes sleeping impossible. And that has bad effects. Drug causes something which causes something else, so you could say it is not the drug but its effects, but I would say that means it is the drug that causes it all. Don't take it if you don't want those "side-effects".
Re:America has a drinking problem by lordnacho on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @02:17AM (#27365496)
One thing that comes to mind is the 21 year age restriction on the US, which seems to actually be enforced. Where I grew up in Europe there was an 18 year limit officially but not really, and you could get all the booze you wanted as an teenager. Cannabis too.

I went to an international school, so we'd get American kids coming in and realising that they could drink before graduating into a dry university. At least one of my friends got his stomach pumped after a massive binge.

I wonder whether the culture in the US encourages people to guzzle it all down at once to minimise the risk of getting caught.

I noticed something similar in the UK, where they do seem to somewhat enforce the drinking age of 18, and so when I got to uni here my new friends would act like they'd just discovered alcohol and get incredibly drunk.

Now it's not like kids in Europe never get drunk, but it's always available so not really seen as an alluring thing. On much of the continent it's also the kind of thing you might consume with your parents around, which is the ultimate excitement killer.

Re:America has a drinking problem by vmception on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @03:31AM (#27365943)
I do see Americans as having stunted growth regarding some vices

The night life hours being so few exacerbate that too

Re:America has a drinking problem by brandonmenc on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:10PM (#27363988)
> My first impression when I spent time was in the US was indeed how bipolar drinking is compared to Europe.

There are two possible relationships a person can have with alcohol - it is either primarily a food, or primarily a drug.

Americans have a hard time treating it as food, although thankfully that seems to be changing.

Re:America has a drinking problem by gadf on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @11:33PM (#27364530)
Ah, the European's old trope of knowing how to Enjoy Life more than the Americans.

Funny, whenever I visit W Europe I find it pretty sad and people look pretty grumbling. America is a lot more lively.

I think of this Eurostory as a EU coping mechanism.

Re:America has a drinking problem by stjohnswarts on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @12:49AM (#27364958)
I've been to Europe many times. It's no better there than here. In the USA it's a bit of a regional thing as well, some states are much worse than others, but I don't think Europeans should feel like they have "superior drinking practices", they're just as bad.
Re:America has a drinking problem by gwbas1c on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @11:18PM (#27364428)
As an American, I find that most people drink much less than that. The alcoholics are often around people who drink so much that they aren't aware that drinking multiple drinks a day is uncommon.

I honestly get sick when I drink more than three drinks within three hours.

Re:America has a drinking problem by rorykoehler on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:35PM (#27364137)
Why do we perpetuate these myths about European drinkers? If you’re not drinking to get intoxicated why are you drinking? I’ve seen addiction papered over with this nonsense on more occasions than not.
Re:America has a drinking problem by JamesBarney on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @10:50PM (#27364232)
It's my understanding the U.S. drinking culture is more similar to Iceland/Scandinavia/Japan/Korea/China.

It seems that continental Europe is the outlier.

Re:America has a drinking problem by myrandomcomment on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @09:23PM (#27363683)
I am an American. I drink 2 glasses at wine at dinner, maybe a cocktail before, and a whiskey or the like after. Dinner is an event for the family. We talk about the day. We take time to cook it for the most part. The other day we had the new neighbors over, cheese, meat and fish board, and lots of wine. Eating and drinking with friends and family is joy and happiness.
Re:America has a drinking problem by User23 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:34PM (#27363355)
Re:America has a drinking problem by lhorie on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @05:10PM (#27361349)
> to enhance meals

Can you clarify what you mean here? I was under the impression european habits of alcohol pairing takes much more space under this umbrella than, say, whether an american associates junk foods (pizza, wings) with beer.

Re:America has a drinking problem by ridethebike on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @02:36AM (#27365618)
I for one drink two bottles of wine while playing some slowly paced video game every Sunday night in anticipation of great new week in my hellscape of a project.
Re:America has a drinking problem by baby on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @12:30AM (#27364858)
When I moved to Canada, what really shocked me if that people would drink alone, or be the only one drinking at a table. Alcohol is something social in France.
Re:America has a drinking problem by fantod on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @04:58PM (#27361207)
Noticed this when I was in Germany/Austria as well. In America, if you go out drinking then that's the primary activity. It's what you're doing. But in central Europe socializing and seeing friends is the activity and you just happen to drink because that's what you do when you see your friends.
Re:America has a drinking problem by vdnkh on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @05:12PM (#27361368)
This makes no sense. Do you think that Americans go out drinking to get drunk arounds friends, but not to socialize with them?
Re:America has a drinking problem by sidlls on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @05:18PM (#27361440)
I’ve noticed that any bad habits or behaviors Americans have tend to be misunderstood when they aren’t being misrepresented or exaggerated in order to pile on.
Re:America has a drinking problem by CapricornNoble on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @11:27PM (#27364494)
Anecdote: we've had curfews/restrictions that prevented the American military from drinking alcohol at establishments in the local community, sometimes for over a year. Almost all of my peers at the time would rather sit at the Officers' Clubs on base and get drunk, as if it was their only option for socializing.

My take (granted, I had quit drinking years prior): I know you guys can't drink off-base, but....that's where all the WOMEN are (the military officer ranks in our Service is ~94% males). I would expect your desire to get laid to exceed your desire to hide inside your alcohol-infused comfort zone....

My peers: Nah....if I can't drink alcohol I don't wanna go out to meet anyone.

The people I hang out with (even to this day) go out to get laid, and if they get DRUNK that's just a side-effect. Most guys I know go out to get drunk, and if they get LAID, that's just a side-effect.

Re:America has a drinking problem by watwut on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @03:08AM (#27365828)
> I would expect your desire to get laid to exceed your desire to hide inside your alcohol-infused comfort zone....

Honest question: what is his realistic chance to get laid with non-prostitute? How much money would it cost to pay sex worker? I also suspect that going around bars while not drinking looking for girl to have sex with might involve a lot of rejection and a lot of effort.

> The people I hang out with (even to this day) go out to get laid,

I honestly never socialized with people like that. I had always stable relationships and most my friends tended to form those too. Not everyone is for quick hookups.

Re:America has a drinking problem by CapricornNoble on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @07:41AM (#27367498)
>>>Honest question: what is his realistic chance to get laid with non-prostitute?

At the time, pretty high. The clubs and bars were very active, and "gaijin-hunter" Japanese women are notoriously easy. If you are halfway-attractive and at least a LITTLE charismatic, you should be able to snag a one-night stand or two, and then a girlfriend in.....6 weeks? That's assuming going out Friday/Saturday every weekend. If you aren't drinking alcohol, it's not that expensive either. If you end up with a relationship that lasts a few months or more, I consider that a pretty good ROI.

>>>How much money would it cost to pay sex worker?

Depending on service (incall/outcall) and location...$100-$300+.

>>>I also suspect that going around bars while not drinking looking for girl to have sex with might involve a lot of rejection and a lot of effort.

It does put you "not on the wavelength" of people when they are drunk, doubly so if they are kinda dumb too. You can overcome these hurdles by being attractive, and knowing the right conversational hooks to say in their native language to build rapport quickly and lazily. Building that skillset does take time, and brings other risks (PUA's call it "calibration"....in my experience, "calibrating" for Japanese women can over-fit your social skills for a small dataset, and then your Game suffers when you engage with women from different cultures).

>>>I honestly never socialized with people like that. I had always stable relationships and most my friends tended to form those too. Not everyone is for quick hookups.

90% of my wingmen have been in stable relationships. That's never stopped any of us from adding to our harems. If you have a wife, get a mistress. If you have a mistress, get a side-chick. If you have a side-chick, get a fuck-buddy. If you have all four of those, bang all of them during the week, so on the weekend you can get some head in your car in the parking lot from a new girl, who might be a suitable replacement for any of the last 3 of your regulars (I don't recommend replacing your wife with a club-rat...).

I had a roommate that kept his accountant side-chick for over 5 years, even after his wife found out. She paid his $20,000 bail when he was getting kicked out of the country, no questions asked. That said....those kind of reliable women are rarely found in bars/clubs, but if you never venture outside of your fortified American enclave because you can't consume alcohol in town, how would a guy ever find out either way?

Re:America has a drinking problem by watwut on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @03:57PM (#27373308)
Thanks for answer. The prostitution sounds more expensive then I assumed (but I guess it factors in risk and periods without customers).

To the ending, your friends are kind of guys I really dont want to meet. I kind of assumed it was all about single guys having causual fun, now I feel sorry for their wifes. I honestly think better about guys that are not getting laid at the base.

Re:America has a drinking problem by elliekelly on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:21PM (#27362200)
It definitely depends on the type of bar/club you’re at but a lot of them have music so loud it’s impossible to hold a conversation.
Re:America has a drinking problem by ipaddr on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:57PM (#27362534)
We went out to get drunk and socializing happened. Without the going out to get drunk part the socializing doesn't happen.

Getting beer was always the event.

Like going to a weekly bowling game. Socializing happens but you go there for bowling.

Re:America has a drinking problem by C19is20 on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @05:19PM (#27361465)
From my (not op) experiences, oh yes. Just last night I was talking to a potential bar investor and one of the huuuuge talking points was " how do we cater for the americans?"
Re:America has a drinking problem by TameAntelope on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @05:58PM (#27361940)
I think Americans just aren't used to saying we're out to socialize. It's what's happening, but we're bad at it and we're not used to being explicit about it.

As a member of this target demographic, I would say that catering to American drinkers would be to provide a pretext to be at your establishment. You don't have to actually provide all that much, but if you provide a reason for being there that isn't, "Socialize with others" I bet you'd attract more Americans. In America we do "brewery tours" for example, but it doesn't even have to be related to alcohol itself ("good" music, board games, axe throwing, bumper cars, pub quiz, karaoke, etc.). What matters is that you're plausibly not there to "socialize", even though that's actually why you're there.

Re:America has a drinking problem by refurb on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @08:05PM (#27363090)
By that statement these are Americans outside America? Seems like an unrepresentative slice of the country?
Re:America has a drinking problem by OminousWeapons on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:23PM (#27362223)
I disagree with this. Americans go out drinking with friends because alcohol helps you cut through the bullshit small talk and get to the real talk that everyone is afraid to initiate but eager to take part in. If we could all have perfectly candid conversations surrounding sensitive topics without alcohol, there would be no need for most bars to exist.
Re:America has a drinking problem by bitexploder on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @06:38PM (#27362379)
It’s kind of amusing when you think about it like a philosopher. I’m a bit older than the average HNer, probably, at 41 this year. It’s all the same fears and doubts. The human condition. Finding love, acceptance, belonging. Not facing down the human condition alone. That is what “big talk” is about to me.
Re:America has a drinking problem by galaxyLogic on Tuesday June 01, 2021 @07:21PM (#27362743)
I don't drink but I agree it's the social drug. It makes you want to interact with others. Drinking alone makes you want to go out and tell people what's on your mind.

I used to drink with friends and in that country there was a custom that bars close at a given time at night, and then we would go to someone's apartment to drink more. I remember on one occasion we were sitting around in someone's kitchen maybe 8 people. And at one point I realize everyone was talking at the same time. Everyone was talking so no-one was listening. Everyone wanted to get their point across.

Re:America has a drinking problem by mensetmanusman on Wednesday June 02, 2021 @07:15AM (#27367310)
There are lots of philosophical debates about this. “Is your drunk self closer to the ‘real you’ than your sober self?”

People defend both sides of this thesis often.