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Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by taurath on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:13PM (#38108132)
The number of people I know in their 30s who can only just afford food and shelter is so high - these are people in the same economic class who'd have had kids 20 years ago. We do extremely little to make a society that encourages people having kids, or honestly just living a life doing much other than working. Daycare is expensive for the same reason that everything is expensive - money to investors and landlords. The workers are still being paid under a living wage. Keep in mind its mostly privileged people who can afford a single income that have the option to exit the workforce. Unless we can make cost of living more affordable for everyone we can't expect anything to get better. In 1985 a median wage worker would spend only 55% of their check on housing healthcare transportation and education, now its 105%.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by nonethewiser on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:17PM (#38108167)
> Daycare is expensive for the same reason that everything is expensive - money to investors and landlords.

Labor in the US is pretty expensive in the grand scheme of things. $15 is peanuts to make, but a lot for parents to cover.

Take this scenario. You have an infant room with 8 kids and have 2 teachers in a LCOL area. Tuition is 325/week. Total incoming weekly tuition is 2600. If you find 2 people who will work for $15/hr thats 1200/week in labor costs. Plus FICA, insurance, and anything else required to pay per employee. With no redundancy (so no sick/vacation days). Then you have to pay rent, utilities, maintenance, front office staff, and have enough left over for someone find it all worth it.

There is really no way around it - if you want people at the bottom to make a decent wage then customers will have to pay it. And $15 isn’t exactly decent even in LCOL so daycare costs would probably need to rise at least another 33% in this scenario which moves the low end price of daycare from 1300/month to 1729/month.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by toomuchtodo on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:26PM (#38108232)
Fundamentally, I believe the US either needs to subsidize childcare directly (either as guaranteed slots at childcare facilities or payments to families for a parent to stay home and provide care) or make peace that people will have less or no kids because they are unaffordable (unless you are of means and can afford children as if they are luxury goods) in the current socioeconomic macro.

Will this help? I'm unsure. Children are heavily subsidized in Scandinavian countries with pro natalist policies (in some circumstances, governments paying cash for children does not move the needle much and comes at a high cost), not subsidized much at all in China comparatively, and both cohorts continue to see a decline in total fertility rates. These are complex systems problems where the cost to modify inputs is high, and latency in feedback also high.

https://thehill.com/opinion/immigration/4141600-pro-natalist...

https://ifstudies.org/blog/pro-natal-policies-work-but-they-...

https://www.unfpa.org/sites/default/files/pub-pdf/Policy_res...

https://www.scmp.com/week-asia/economics/article/3136991/can...

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by huytersd on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:37PM (#38108316)
Alternatively conditions can be created where one parent, most likely the mother, can stay home and wages will automatically increase because of the reduced labor force.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Fire-Dragon-DoL on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:54PM (#38108434)
And then you have sexism though. I want to enjoy my children as much as my wife and we both want a career too
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by huytersd on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:57PM (#38108457)
Yeah can’t have it all. I’d be willing to put up with some sexism if it meant everyday wasn’t a low paid grind to the gravestone. I would bet a lot of women would given how dissatisfied the workforce is currently.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by toomuchtodo on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:01PM (#38108482)
No one wants to be told they can’t have it all. That is the reality. Life is about choices. Not gender specific.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by huytersd on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:06PM (#38108521)
The reality is also everyone can’t have it all. If a lot of people make choices that lead to a worse outcome for everyone then maybe we should prioritize other avenues of fixing the problem rather than continuing to optimize for complete freedom of choice.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Fire-Dragon-DoL on Thursday November 02, 2023 @12:54AM (#38109157)
I mean, dads have sacrificed dadhood for years (talking as a dad), without even a chiice. I've been in the privileged position of working from home, so I see my children every day, can take a minute or two to play together during the day, eat together, bring them to school, and of course when they were 0-1 years old they slept on me so many times (even while working. Computer did wonders!)

I don't know for a fact, but I suspect it is possible to have two parents working from home and an external person coming home a couple of hours during the day and have both career + children, but I'm not entirely sure (my wife is fully dedicated to children, although we are at the tail end).

That being said, the choice shouldn't be determined by sex. Breastfeeding is a thing, but with Canada's paternity/maternity leaves, the problem is heavily mitigated (1 year, although with very low compensation)

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:00AM (#38124722)
To be fair you have a choice: find an ambitious woman (or man) willing to be the "breadwinner" and appeal with your ability to care for children.

I'm not saying that choice is plentiful, but it exists. I'm sure there are other people willing to have kids but also wants to progress in their career.

>I suspect it is possible to have two parents working from home and an external person coming home a couple of hours during the day and have both career + children, but I'm not entirely sure

sure, we call those nannies or simply babysitters, depending on the amount of involvement. Not impossible but it is a large expense to consider. Alternatively, be fortunate enough to have trustworthy neighbors who has a stay at home parent who can keep an eye on things for a few hours.

I wouldn't mind a return of the latchkey kid. those stranger danger initiatives probably did more damage than good with regards to letting a kid properly engage with the world.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Fire-Dragon-DoL on Friday November 03, 2023 @02:09AM (#38125119)
What's a latchkey kid?

Also, to maximize health benefits for the children, breastfeeding is preferable (according to WHO, for 2 years), which partially takes away that choice (it's really hard to make a choice against child health if it's purely based on my interest).

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @02:39AM (#38125281)
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Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by fzeroracer on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:56PM (#38108447)
Wages are not 1:1 corresponded with reduction in labor force, because companies will often gladly squeeze individuals harder and harder rather than pay more to hire more. Look at all of the people who complained about 'people not wanting to work' when fast food and restaurant industries had a lack of workers.

Additionally this can tend to have bad effects on the rest of our systems, for example the nursing shortage isn't resulting in better pay for most individuals despite them being in high demand. It's resulting in a rise in traveling nurses which also impacts the salary of other nurses. Companies are incredibly resistant to paying people more, especially when they have monopolistic control over jobs in certain areas which allows them to forcibly depress wages.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by huytersd on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:00PM (#38108472)
I would bet there is only so much squeezing you can do and losing 40-50% of the workforce would mean that you cannot sustainably as one person to do the job of two for an extended period.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by fzeroracer on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:02PM (#38108491)
The key word is 'sustainably'. If companies cared about that, we wouldn't be in this spot. Companies will gladly coast with the bare minimum even if it means losing people can ruin entire systems or projects as long as the next quarter results look good.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:02AM (#38124730)
>as long as the next quarter results look good.

And companies always underestimate how much their burn and churn affects the next year at the cost of the quarter. I won't exactly sympathize with them as they degrade and a facility that doesn't drain blood from a rock rises.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by trealira on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:57PM (#38108458)
Feminism arose in the US during the 1950s in the first place because a significant amount of women were not satisfied with being stay-at-home mothers and wives. Even if the world were suddenly taken back to the 1950s, the same thing would happen again eventually.

Also, if half the working population stayed home, the economy would be half as productive. Wages won't automatically increase; business will just go to some country or region where comparable labor is more abundant, and the country's economy becomes less competitive.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by huytersd on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:02PM (#38108493)
You’re making it sound like feminism is the cause for our current dire situation and I’m not completely sure that’s true.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by trealira on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:08PM (#38108526)
Isn't feminism and the women's liberation movement what caused women to stop becoming stay-at-home mothers and enter the workforce instead?
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by defrost on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:17PM (#38108582)
Feminism and women's liberation resulted in the waterwheel and steam driven textile factories being majority staffed with women during the industrial revolution?
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by huytersd on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:11PM (#38108542)
I thought it was WW2 and the lack of men to do the jobs they usually would. Otherwise we land at “feminism ruined America”.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by trealira on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:20PM (#38108598)
I don't think feminism ruined America.

> I thought it was WW2 and the lack of men to do the jobs they usually would.

I thought it was common to teach that women's employment rose with second-wave feminism in the 1960s.

My background knowledge: after WW2 ended, women were fired and replaced with men. The average age of marriage dropped, and the portion of women attending college descreased. Housewives were increasingly dissatisfied, which drew them to the second-wave feminist movement. This is why the book The Feminine Mystique sold well.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Feminine_Mystique

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by matt009 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:35AM (#38113312)
> Betty Friedan was born Bettye Naomi Goldstein

It’s always a jew.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @12:47AM (#38124637)
>I thought it was common to teach that women's employment rose with second-wave feminism in the 1960s.

that would time well with being one generation removed from the one that lost 400k to war. the 60's would be when boomers would start entering the work force.

I'm sure some of the silent generation women also entered, but they wouldn't lead the bulk of the workforce shifting by the late 60's/70's.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by seneca on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:31PM (#38108663)
> I thought it was WW2 and the lack of men to do the jobs they usually would.

That doesn't track the reality of the timeline of women in the workforce. Women temporarily worked during WW2, and after the war things returned to the previous status quo. Women weren't common in the workforce until the 1960s. It wasn't until 1967 that women's labor force participation broke 40%[1] but then it pretty quickly hit 50% by 1978.

"Women's liberation" is what brought women into the labor force. That doesn't mean it "ruined America", it just means the approach had flaws that need to be iterated on.

1: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/LNS11300002

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by baseline-shift on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:17AM (#38110867)
Cottage industries from at least the time of Queen Elizabeth did have women working though. It was just that there were no factories until the industrial revolution, so that industrial activity remained in the home "the cottage", for both husbands and wives.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by thelastgallon on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:07AM (#38112989)
Invention of dish washer, washing machine, supermarkets (A&P) where you can do all your shopping in one place, they freed up the women labor force. Then WW2, men went to war, women started filling in some of the roles.

I don't think any progress in women can be attributed to feminism. They still don't have any ownership of their own bodies (abortion, sex work), their bodies are controlled by 80+ year old white males running the govt.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by seneca on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:23PM (#38108616)
> Feminism arose in the US during the 1950s in the first place because a significant amount of women were not satisfied with being stay-at-home mothers and wives. Even if the world were suddenly taken back to the 1950s, the same thing would happen again eventually.

I don't think anyone is advocating for returning to the 1950s status quo. We should, however, do away with the delusion that couples can have both two careers and raise children. Sheryl Sandberg sent this message to women quite a while ago at this point, she just tilted it toward "give up on the family and focus on the career".

We can create incentives that allow it to make sense for a family to have a single income, and a mother to raise her own children again, without telling women they're required to do that. Right now there's not much of a choice at all. Couples are forced to have two incomes because they can't make economic ends meet otherwise. Giving women real choice is a whole lot better than what we currently have and better than the 1950s. Women who wants careers can have them, and women who wants to be full-time mothers should be able to do that without it meaning being destitute.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by trealira on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:35AM (#38114067)
I agree that being able to have children on a single income without 1950s gender roles would be the most ideal outcome.

Like I said, though, I kind of wonder how a country could get there. If it became more common, the country would become less "productive" in the short term, because we don't count raising children towards the GDP, even though we should. So, in the short term, if voters and politicians keep chasing short term GDP growth, they'll never try to make the ideal outcome a reality. That would only start doing so when population goes down and immigration can't supplement population growth anymore, but by then it will be too late.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @12:55AM (#38124691)
> If it became more common, the country would become less "productive" in the short term

technology and education already solved this. We're not in the 50's anymore with a Ford-esque assembly worker chain dedicated to pushing one pencil each. One modern 2020's man can do the work of 10 minimum wage men back then. So why does he have less earning power than his grandfathers?

we're plenty productive, and the govt. shouldn't treat their people like a tech company does chasing "infinite growth". pay people a living wage, give them choices in lifestyle (part time, full time, contract, etc.), invest more in training and growth so each worker can do more, because to be frank we don't need a single cashier dedicated full time to checking items out anymore (as one example). If that training is valuable enough to poach, bring back proper bonuses and other retention incentives (but let's be real, most of that training these days is in college).

And come down the other way too. Stop letting housing rent for people who are actually living in a place get out of control. Same with food (and it'd be a nice bonus to subsidize more sustainable, healthy foods while we're at it).

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by bushbaba on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:43PM (#38108358)
Or leverage immigration and cheaper housing to solve the gap.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by ip26 on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:01PM (#38108488)
It isn’t really radical policy, when you consider public school funding works the same way.

A better term than subsidy might help. For example, we don’t describe property taxes that go to your school district as an “education subsidy”. It’s just a public service you pay for (that everyone benefits from at some point in their lives).

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Paul-Craft on Thursday November 02, 2023 @03:56AM (#38110233)
It is when half the people in one of the two major political parties think it is.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by _kb on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:02PM (#38108494)
Australian here. Subsidised childcare is great, and absolutely crucial for single parent households. It disproportionally benefits private interests though, not families.

For-profit childcare centres have absolutely mastered the art of simultaneously minimising operating costs (underpaying staff) while increasing pricing. These increases then create pressure to improve subsidies. With CCS at up to 90% for low income households this creates a flow of public funds directly to their shareholders while not actually improving anything for the people it should help.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by altacc on Thursday November 02, 2023 @03:18AM (#38109988)
In Norway at least, most childcare is provided by the state (via the local authority). There are some private nurseries but there are very strict rules on how they operate, to the point that the laws are hostile against their existence. What's interesting is that there are also private, not for profit, parent run nurseries, where the nursery is managed & budgeted by a board made up of the parents. There is an owner, making a reasonable salary like profit, but no shareholders. Nothing's perfect but works really well to optimise spending and minimise public money going to private profits.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by apwell23 on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:32PM (#38108668)
> make peace that people will have less or no kids because they are unaffordable

Yes this is the right choice. We have immigration to make up for the missing workers. This is not a social problem like you are portraying it.

Society gains nothing from people having kids when we have unlimited immigration potential. Society would just be subsidizing someones lifestyle choice which is not its job.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by ndriscoll on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:47PM (#38108777)
What is the purpose of society? In the US, the stated goals were to

> form a more perfect Union, establish Justice, insure domestic Tranquility, provide for the common defence, promote the general Welfare, and secure the Blessings of Liberty to ourselves and our Posterity

I don't see "increase economic output" in there. I do see an explicit line item about Liberty for our Posterity (i.e. the authors' children and descendants). One might infer that actually that entire list was meant for us and our children too, and not just the people of the time.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by dragonwriter on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:51PM (#38108798)
That wasn't the stated goal of society, it was the stated goal of the adoption of a particular framework of government (replacing an earlier one which, implicitly, fell short in those areas, but may have been adequate to other areas important to the goals the authors had for society.)
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by ndriscoll on Thursday November 02, 2023 @12:11AM (#38108901)
Ok in that case, it's to end the the war of all against all, but genocide is a rather strong reason to dissolve the truce. The people unable to have kids because of policy decisions that it's economically inefficient would owe no obligation to society, including the obligation to warn anyone ahead of time that the contract with them has ended.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by vinyl7 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @01:28AM (#38109330)
Crime and mental health would probably be cured if people were busy raising families instead of slaving away for someone else's yacht
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by carlosjobim on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:27AM (#38113969)
You are encouraging genocide. Quite literally, as what you purpose is one of the commonly accepted definitions of genocide, which is to impose economic hardships on a population that hinders them from having children as well as replacing them by mass moving other ethnicities into the lands that they once inhabited.

All because you believe it would benefit in some invisible deity of "society".

There are no missing workers and has never been. There are only missing wages.

Natives in America were historically the victims of genocide, because rulers and industry at the time decided it was too expensive to get them to labour effectively. The natives wanted to spend their time on other things, such as caring for their children. And European settlers were not reproducing quite fast enough for the hunger of the business rulers for young workers. So the natives were exterminated and replaced by cheap and effective labour brought in from Africa. How does history judge those actions?

And now hackers are here in 2023 using the same arguments again.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @12:42AM (#38124616)
>one of the commonly accepted definitions of genocide

I need to see your definition or consensus sample:

the United Nations Genocide Convention defined genocide as any of five "acts committed with intent to destroy, in whole or in part, a national, ethnical, racial or religious group". These five acts were:

- killing members of the group (nope)

- causing them serious bodily or mental harm (you can argue mental harm, but it's a huge stretch)

- imposing living conditions intended to destroy the group (living conditions are down, but it'd be disrespectul to compare my living to slavery or a concentration camp)

- preventing births (I guess this is your angle. But discouragement =/= prevention. My parents discouraging me from having a kid isn't genocide. Moreover, this is a decision mostly made on free will; you CAN still have a kid, but the costs of raising a kid are always present)

- forcibly transferring children out of the group (nope)

>Natives in America were historically the victims of genocide, because rulers and industry at the time decided it was too expensive to get them to labour effectively.

yeah, because they furfilled at least 3 of the 5 definitions. You can easily argue all 5. What's happening today is 2 very iffy arguments across a nation, with ways out of society in the worst cases.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by carlosjobim on Friday November 03, 2023 @09:01AM (#38128056)
I consider the definitions that have made this list to be commonly accepted, and if you read them, they make sense: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Genocide_definitions

Economic subjugation / destruction of economic life is mentioned in several of these definitions. For example that a young family is forced to go into life long debt in order to have their own home, or pay exorbitant rents.

Especially the first definition in the list is worth reading, because it dispels the myth that genocide needs to be immediate and brutal. It can also a long-term plan carried out by rulers to exterminate an ethnic group.

> yeah, because they furfilled at least 3 of the 5 definitions. You can easily argue all 5.

There is nobody today that would argue that natives in America weren't subjected to genocide.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by apwell23 on Friday November 03, 2023 @02:00AM (#38125078)
> commonly accepted definitions

uh no. I didn't read rest of your comment.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by wizerdrobe on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:17AM (#38110870)
> Fundamentally, I believe the US either needs to subsidize childcare directly

We do this in America, although it’s through the back door in the form of generous tax credits. With two children we receive a fat tax refund every year. For those on the dole, solid increases in benefit allotments come for those with children.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by loeg on Thursday November 02, 2023 @11:14AM (#38114664)
Child tax credits ($2000/yr below the income phaseout) are an order of magnitude smaller than childcare costs. GP is talking about fully subsidizing childcare costs. And, uh, the income phaseout impacts it too.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by taurath on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:55PM (#38108444)
> if you want people at the bottom to make a decent wage then customers will have to pay it

We could always consider it a public good. $35 billion a year is the rough estimated cost I've found to provide universal pre-k (ages 3-5), with people leaving the workforce costing $155billion elsewhere in the thread. We spend at minimum $880 billion on the military. Seems like a no brainer to me.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by bcrosby95 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @01:01AM (#38109199)
California is slowly moving that direction by expanding out DK. Our twins got to attend last year because of the new cutoff. And our local elementary school added a 2nd DK class this year due to the continued expansion (before they only had 1).

There definitely does seem to be a learning curve involved here. They try to teach DK to K standards because there are no other standards. Which is just unrealistic, especially as you start accepting nearly newly 4 year olds.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by satvikpendem on Thursday November 02, 2023 @04:09AM (#38110354)
What is DK? Please spell out your acronyms, especially if you are using them in a thread for the first time.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by metaphor on Thursday November 02, 2023 @04:31AM (#38110518)
Developmental Kindergarten. Google isn't obsolete yet.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by satvikpendem on Thursday November 02, 2023 @04:35AM (#38110535)
> Google isn't obsolete yet.

Doesn't matter, it's just good writing to spell out acronyms initially. At the very least, it also helps everyone else reading this to not waste their collective minutes googling uncommon acronyms when the commenter could simply spend an extra few seconds spelling them out initially.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by metaphor on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:05AM (#38110763)
Quite the entitled perspective.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by oasisaimlessly on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:25AM (#38110935)
Or, as I've taken to saying: QTEP
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by dvngnt_ on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:31AM (#38114011)
He's the leader of the bunch. you know him well
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by asielen on Thursday November 02, 2023 @11:32AM (#38114956)
DK is supposed to be TK.

Transitional kindergarten. Basically staying a year early around 4.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by closeparen on Thursday November 02, 2023 @02:36AM (#38109728)
If the childcare cost burden is only ~20% of the value of lost wages, what's everyone complaining about?

If on the other hand people are finding that childcare costs exceed their wages, then what reason is there to believe that the government will be able to buy childcare so cheaply?

There's an argument to be made that childcare should be provided for free even at a loss. But of all the public good the government could provision, "keep your shitty job even when it doesn't make economic sense to do so" is a weird one. It's LARPing productivity at that point.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by bradleyjg on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:51AM (#38111144)
The ratios go down at 3 and the caregivers don’t (generally) have to deal with diapers.

What about 0.5 - 3?

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by geraldhh on Saturday November 04, 2023 @09:14AM (#38140741)
children under age of 3 should definitely stay with their (grand-)parents
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by syntheweave on Thursday November 02, 2023 @12:29AM (#38109004)
The thing that creates the specific downward pressure in the US is also the thing that makes it very GDP-productive. When business raises their voice, they get to call the shots and define society in a way that creates economic rent: so, car dependency, approaches to childcare, approaches to healthcare, and so on. A lot of money from these businesses is "on the books" and easy to assess for taxation and investment purposes, and the government tends to be satisfied with this arrangement since it makes easy to know who's in charge. Meanwhile, everyone suffers from having sprawled cities with expensive homes, oversized trucks, bad healthcare, etc. All of that results in an expensive childcare number.

But this structure is also rather unrelated to the real productivity of the economy - the creatively destructive portion of American business always has something to say about it. If those companies want their labor to be cheaper and less frequently disrupted, they have to go cause grief for one of these rentier businesses, socialize some things and cut into some monopoly inaction or low standards. But they only reach that conclusion by letting the economy get into a highly unstable position first.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by wizerdrobe on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:14AM (#38110834)
> Take this scenario. You have an infant room with 8 kids and have 2 teachers in a LCOL area. Tuition is 325/week.

You’re pulling these numbers out of your ass, to be frank.

I live in a Low-Cost of Living Area (rural South Carolina, near Clemson) and we pay $160 per week for care for a good facility. Formerly, in a now High-Cost area (Charleston) we paid about $200 per week in 2020 with that rising to about $225 for an ok facility. If you wanted to pay $325 you’d have your pick of the litter of high-end facilities with nice add-ons like Spanish-immersion and music education.

For further context, my wife currently makes $15 per hour as a simple line cook in order to have a 9-5 style schedule, and covers daycare, vehicle expenses, and groceries on her paycheck. If we had a second child added we would be about break-even on her at that pay grade. For further context, her 9-5 prep-cook pay was $20 per hour at her Charleston employer and prior to was making 55k salaried with benefits and PTO as a sous chef.

The issue we faced as a family was lack of availability at most facilities. We spent a year on a waiting list to get accepted in. My wife couldn’t work even if she wanted to the first year. In the city, that might have stretched further.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by rfrey on Thursday November 02, 2023 @06:09AM (#38111266)
I believe you, but how do the sums work? In my jurisdiction - a notoriously right-wing part of Canada - the staff:kid ratio is 1:4 for little guys, 6 for toddlers, and 8 for 4 years +. Call it 6 average. A group of 6 kids will bring in $960/week. At a minimum wage of $15/hour, a week's wages is $600 - call it $800 for the employer after expenses. That leaves roughly $160 excess funds per cohort.

Say there are 5 cohorts in a daycare - 40 kids. $800 excess funds per week or ~$3500 per month. Out of that comes rent, insurance, supplies, cleaning, utilities, and probably property taxes and maintenance on a typical triple-net lease. Seems like a losing proposition.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by mberning on Thursday November 02, 2023 @07:11AM (#38111770)
I don’t think they are really out of line for their estimate. I live in a mid size city in the midwest and we have paid $50-$100 per day depending on the quality of the facility. I’m sure a weekly or monthly rate could knock that down a bit, but it’s still quite expensive.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by francisofascii on Thursday November 02, 2023 @07:54AM (#38112206)
In my limited experience, daycare tuition in high cost of living areas is insane. Not sure why. You basically have to find some mom by word of mouth, running a daycare out of her house, to pay anything reasonable.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by nonethewiser on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:17AM (#38113836)
> In my limited experience, daycare tuition in high cost of living areas is insane. Not sure why.

You know why. Because labor costs are "insane". Not insane from the perspective of the low-wage earner making 60k in NYC, but insane for the 4 families that are paying their salary. That's $15k per family per year. But that's not the final cost, they then have to cover a share of center overheard + some margin which easily hits 25 or 30k.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @12:31AM (#38124551)
that's not a very satisfying answer. The ones doing labor aren't benefitting, and a day care cares for more than 4 kids. so where's all the money going? Rent? So tiring hearing all these arguments in politics thinking of the kids, and meanwhile the kids' facilities are screwed over the worst.

and for a high CoL area, it's not even 1200 a month. It's more like 2500-3000. Literally a 2nd apartment's worth of rent. Unless things went down over the pandemic.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by D13Fd on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:21AM (#38113141)
Where I am in the US northeast, the cheapest licensed daycares are around $360/wk. If you want the nice daycare you are looking at more like $400+.

>For further context, my wife currently makes $15 per hour as a simple line cook in order to have a 9-5 style schedule, and covers daycare, vehicle expenses, and groceries on her paycheck. If we had a second child added we would be about break-even on her at that pay grade.

Do you pay no taxes? Because 35*15=$525/wk. After state, local, and federal taxes (not to mention property taxes) that should be about $367.50. Minus the $225 for daycare, that leaves $142. Assuming only a single car and around $92/wk in vehicle expenses ($400/mo -- including car payment, maintenance, and gas), that leaves $50/wk for groceries for three people. That seems extremely tight for a high cost of living area.

And I have no idea how you could break even with another $225/wk daycare payment. Even at a 0% tax rate, that would leave just $75 per week for all groceries and vehicle costs for three people.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by RexM on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:40AM (#38114124)
The post says they currently pay $160/wk, not $225 (that was before when they lived in Charleston.)
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by nonethewiser on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:00AM (#38113614)
> You’re pulling these numbers out of your ass, to be frank.

I am not. LCOL here and 325 is the low end. The ratio by law is 1:4. I'm using the wage ($15) that I've seen advertised for the job. I did the math on the rest. I think you're being unreasonably critical here.

We could instead look at averages but your anecdote isn't more valid than mine. Especially when you fail to mention the SC teacher:child ratio is 1:5 instead of 1:4, and that your kid is presumably not an infant since you've been paying for daycare since 2020 https://www.scchildcare.org/providers/licensing-requirements...

> Formerly, in a now High-Cost area (Charleston) we paid about $200 per week in 2020

SC having a higher ratio proves my point that labor is a major factor in price. Additionally, Charleston isnt HCOL (doesnt hold a candle to NYC, SF, etc) and a lot has changed in 3 years. Not just inflation, but the age of your child. You are comparing my scenario (infant) to yours (toddler) which have different costs.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Balgair on Thursday November 02, 2023 @12:31PM (#38116049)
We're in a medium COL area and at ~$400/wk per kid. Our daycare accepts state subsidies and kids as young as 6 weeks. The wait list was ~15 months long. It's very much the cheapest in the area.

Friends about an hour outside of Portland are at ~$500/wk, wait list of ~12 months

Friends in Knoxville are at ~800k/wk, wait list of ~2.5 years, and they have access to university daycare.

Friends in the Bay Area are at ~350/wk, wait list of ~12 months.

Daycare is super local, from what I can see. Still, it's crazy expensive even with state subsidies. And the wait lists are really long. I've not heard of one that was less than a normal human gestation period.

NPR had a good story on how daycare is a failed market : https://www.npr.org/2023/02/02/1153931108/day-care-market-ex...

TLDL: Anytime you have a wait list, you have screwed up your capitalism somehow. You should be raising prices instead. Daycare is unique as most families cannot possibly afford that 'true' market rate. Think lighthouses. This is why nearly every country on the planet, and some US states, step in to help. The US is the only country that has this problem, and it really is a big problem.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by jefftk on Thursday November 02, 2023 @07:02AM (#38111705)
> There is really no way around it

We could have a culture where it's typical for people who stay home with their kids to additionally be paid to watch the kids of another family.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by migf on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:12AM (#38113051)
I like this idea. This is not as safe as having your kids in a licensed daycare.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by jefftk on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:28AM (#38113238)
Are you sure? Lots of kids are watched by nannies and this doesn't seem to have worse outcomes than daycares (though confounded by richer people having nannies).
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by lm28469 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @08:44AM (#38112735)
> There is really no way around it - if you want people at the bottom to make a decent wage then customers will have to pay it.

There was a way from 1950 to ~1990s though, we could start looking here: https://assets.weforum.org/editor/HFNnYrqruqvI_-Skg2C7ZYjdcX...

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by paddim8 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @09:00AM (#38112889)
It's subsidized in sweden. Works fine.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by carlosjobim on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:00AM (#38113605)
> Plus FICA, insurance, and anything else required to pay per employee.

> Then you have to pay rent, utilities, maintenance, front office staff, and have enough left over for someone find it all worth it.

That means labour is not expensive, the tributes are expensive.

"Expensive labour" is an oxymoron. If something is not worth doing because it would be too expensive to pay anybody to do it, that means it's not worth doing. The whole meaning of having civilization is to make labour as "expensive" as possible, ie to see that the people doing the work receive as much as possible from their input. This includes making labourers as effective as possible by the help of education and having them operate more and more advanced machinery to increase production.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by grecy on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:16AM (#38113822)
> Labor in the US is pretty expensive in the grand scheme of things

Labor in the US is significantly cheaper than any other developed country.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by nonethewiser on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:31AM (#38114016)
> any other

This hyperbole makes your point very easy to disprove. All it takes is one example and your statement is factually incorrect. Italy, South Korea, etc. Many definitions of "developed" basically boil down to income so you would basically need the USA to be the least developed of developed countries. But I will try and be charitable and assume you mean USA labor costs are on the low end of developed countries.

What metrics are you looking at? Wages in general in the USA are higher (higher median income). The 15$/hr example I used is higher than most minimum wages in Europe. For example the minimum wage in Germany is about 1600 euros a month or $10/hr for full-time work.

Regardless, even if US labor costs are low relative to developed countries (which doesnt seem to be the case), it doesnt change that its a major factor in daycare costs and that increasing wages would just make very high prices even higher.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by grecy on Thursday November 02, 2023 @02:40PM (#38118104)
https://stats.oecd.org/index.aspx?DataSetCode=RMW

In 2022 the US had a lower minimum wage than every OECD country other than Romania, Croatia, Hungary and Czechia.

21 developed countries have more expensive labor than the US, and only 4 are less expensive.

Labor in the US is cheap among Developed countries.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by kbelder on Thursday November 02, 2023 @03:23PM (#38118695)
Kind of corresponds to unemployment. 10 OECD countries have lower rates, 30 have higher.

https://www.oecd.org/employment/unemployment-rates-oecd-upda....

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:13AM (#38124792)
This is hard to compare because federal minimum wage is just that. a floor. The vast majority of states have higher minimum wages on top of that.

California, for example, would be at the very top in 2022 ($15/hr). a mid CoL state like Illinois being $12/hr in 2022.

This is definitely the case with other countries too, but the US's (relatively) weak federal government is a consequence of this. They leave the states a lot of autonomy in these matters but set a bare basic floor to prevent obvious abuse. As a result, the federal minimum wage hasn't increased since 2009. Wheras states tend to increase every year or 2 (calidornia increased to $15.50 this year).

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by grecy on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:37AM (#38124950)
> California, for example, would be at the very top in 2022 ($15/hr). a mid CoL state like Illinois being $12/hr in 2022.

According to the OECD, the US was at $15.08 in 2022... which means almost rock bottom for the OECD. So your example of Illinois at $12 is the actual rock bottom, cheapest labor in the entire OECD.

Thanks for making it so clear.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:47AM (#38124993)
we must be reading different charts, or you misinterpreted my hourly salary for yearly: https://i.imgur.com/VMH2qi7.png

$15/hr is approximately $30k/year if you made the latter argument. US measures its minimum wage hourly so I used that site's own conversion function to save me some mental bandwidth. Which I unfortunately lost by having to reply to this. Oh well.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Kranar on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:36PM (#38108311)
This claim doesn't add up. The fertility rate actually increases the lower your income is, that is, the richer you are the less likely you are to have kids.

The issue is not that kids are expensive, it's that once you reach a certain level of income you don't want to give up your lifestyle in order to raise kids. People who are lower income don't have to give up on a lifestyle in order to have kids. They still have to work incredibly hard in order to raise kids, absolutely, but it's not like if they didn't raise kids they'd be able to go on vacations, enjoy eating out more often, attend more expensive social events with friends, etc...

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by taurath on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:49PM (#38108403)
The fertility rate also lowers for other factors. Declines do not match up with incomes - I think implying cost of living, which is what anecdotally almost everyone I know says, is a nonfactor may be premature. In the US the birthrate has been mostly the same since the early 70s. The difference between the top and bottom birthrates by income is all of 28% (45 per 1000 women for $200k or more, vs 63 per 1000 women for under $10k) - thats significant but certainly not the only factor.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Kranar on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:56PM (#38108452)
You argued that there are people in their 30s who can just afford food and shelter and implied that they are not having kids due to their economic situation, whereas 20 years ago (so in 2003) they would have had kids, presumably because their economic situation would have been better 20 years ago.

Yet the statistics show that:

1. Those with lower incomes have more kids than those with higher incomes.

2. This trend has existed for more than 20 years, closer to 50 years in fact.

Now that I've pointed this out you seem to want to argue that income is not the only factor that determines fertility rates. Certainly that is true, but given that it's true why did you seem to emphasize it so strongly in your post when it supported the conclusion you wanted to make, but when I point out the opposite only then do you decide to diminish the relationship between income and fertility?

If the relationship between income and fertility is not that significant when I point it out, then it's not that significant when you want to use it for your argument either in which case your entire point kind of falls apart.

Finally as an aside, there is no shortage of countries with either cheap or even free child care, mostly in wealthy countries such as Finland, Sweden, Norway. But guess what? Fertility rates in those countries are incredibly low.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by taurath on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:50PM (#38108792)
I don't think the two points are orthogonal, I think they're complimentary - please don't look for conflict here where I'm simply trying to reflect on multiple ideas. It could be that folks with higher incomes have a much higher expectation of quality of life, in terms of outcomes and activities for their children, it could be that people with higher incomes get greedy. In either case, an lesser cost of living might give more of them. Of people you know with higher incomes, why do they choose not to have kids? Again, its less than a 30% difference between the highest income and lowest income. The difference between the middle incomes and the lowest income is less than 15%. Simply saying that there are more factors at play, which I don't think is controversial.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by m_eiman on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:47AM (#38111108)
> Fertility rates in those countries are incredibly low.

Fertility in Sweden has been higher than the average EU rate for a long time (although I think it's been a bit lower recently), and that has been attributed to the generous family policies and access to cheap (and good) childcare.

480 days of tax-funded parental leave per child (caveat emptor, terms and conditions apply).

Tax-supported child care, max cost per month to parents at about $100 per child.

Parents are allowed by law to select to 75% during the child's first 7 years.

About $100 per month and child in tax-funded child benefit(?).

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by carlosjobim on Thursday November 02, 2023 @02:52PM (#38118292)
Fertility rates in Sweden are very low among the native Swedish population, and very high among the large immigrant population from the Middle East, where each woman will have 8+ children. That high birthrate is completely cultural and not affected by economic factors or anything else, as anybody following the development in Gaza has noticed.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by m_eiman on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:37PM (#38120558)
There is a difference, but it’s not that big: https://www.scb.se/hitta-statistik/statistik-efter-amne/befo...
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Paul-Craft on Thursday November 02, 2023 @04:06AM (#38110329)
You know, a 28% difference in a factor that gets applied exponentially is a huge difference.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Manuel_D on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:53PM (#38108433)
An alternate explanation is that high income people have high expectations of their children. An upper-class couple is probably going to want to send their kids to private school, do competitive sports, tutor them in an instrument, etc. Thus, the cost of children is higher for wealthier people.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by depletedgherkin on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:34PM (#38108300)
I feel like changes in culture are a bigger factor than economic reasons.

Around the world it's normally the poorer, not richer, countries that have more kids on average, so I don't think finances are the main story here. A lot of countries with excellent childcare policies like in the Nordics also have pretty low birth rates. (Not knocking those policies though, I'm sure the parents there do appreciate them)

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by api on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:38PM (#38108318)
Poorer places usually have lower costs for things like real estate and child care. Richer places tend to get “cost disease” especially in real estate.

This in turn means that people have to have higher level careers and usually two earners in a home to afford the cost of living.

Overall this all raises GDP but it results in an environment that is hostile to family formation.

It could be a feedback loop too. Fewer kids might coincide with more career oriented lifestyles which drive higher earnings but also bid up real estate and other costs, and so on.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by d3w4s9 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @07:37AM (#38111996)
In many parts of the world, it is common for grandparents to take care of the babies and even small kids. In other words, free daycare. Not so common in the US.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by Qem on Thursday November 02, 2023 @11:52AM (#38115282)
As people delay parenting, this option becomes less available. When people routinely had kids in their 20s, starting age of grandparents was about 40-50, when they were still had a lot of energy to help. In a world where people have kids in their 30s, the average grandparent has their first grandchild between 60-70. It means a sizeable fraction of them may be already too frail or even already dead, to contribute significantly in childrearing, needing assistance themselves. That compounds the problem, because then people have to raise small children at the same time their elderly parents start to need more assistance.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by csomar on Thursday November 02, 2023 @05:08AM (#38110794)
I wonder if we define rich/poor by real-estate affordability instead; will this change the stats? Many poor countries have extremely affordable housing even for their poor. Be careful of their homelessness stats, though. Because as a homeless in many of these countries you can go and build your "crib" with stuff you collect around. Many people live in these conditions but it's a legitimate home.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by jmye on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:51PM (#38108418)
This is nonsense. Daycare is expensive because no one provides it, and because no one wants Joey Bag of Donuts with no insurance or credentials watching their kids, whom they presumably love (although many people do just that because it’s their only option and few states do a sufficient job enforcing quality standards).

There are waitlists long enough that parents have to sign up before their child is born. That’s nothing, at all, to do with “landlords” or “investors”.

I’m so tired of faux-progressive outrage online that always only focuses on how one of roughly three things are to blame for everything, no matter how tenuous or invented the connection is.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by taurath on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:01PM (#38108489)
> Daycare is expensive because no one provides it

Why isn't the Free Market providing it then?

> I’m so tired of faux-progressive outrage online that always only focuses on how one of roughly three things are to blame for everything

I have roughly 20 straight married friends and 4 have kids (all are making top 5% income) and 10 want them but are waiting until they can better afford housing. Thats the basis of my argument, that cost of living is a common complaint. Cost of living sucks, its worse than its ever been in many areas. In areas with low cost of living, they have the problem that housing is relatively cheap but jobs aren't plentiful. I don't think that's controversial, but please let me know what I'm missing.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by krapht on Thursday November 02, 2023 @07:39AM (#38112020)
Somehow, I think it's just cultural. I spent many years outside of the US, and I think expectations for space are too inflated in America. There are many happy families in Europe raising two kids in a 500 sqft apartment.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by jmye on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:33PM (#38123711)
Most of the child care I’ve seen is single provider, restricted to a few kids. Most parents seem to want pre-pre-school. One of those costs a lot, the other costs less, but requires knowing someone who knows someone.

I also don’t think many people see it as a glamorous thing they want to get involved in, but the opportunity is clearly there. There’s probably a fortune to be made in figuring out how to “disrupt” the current industry.

To the other, I think if they’re top 5% in income, they’re looking for something very specific in some very specific neighborhood, and are completely unwilling to compromise.

I was in the top 10% in my relatively high (but not Seattle or SF) cost of living city, and had to move several miles outside of downtown. It was completely affordable with few sacrifices.

In short, I’m calling BS.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @05:38AM (#38126388)
>Why isn't the Free Market providing it then?

Like the above comment said, you don't just want anyone watching your very young kid. So minimum wage 18 year old who maybe changed one diaper won't suffice. But sadly, actual caretakers aren't much more well compensated.

But let's do the math on Meanswell Bob anyway. Someone working $10/hour full time will be paid $1600 raw. if they can take care of 3 kids and have some extra payment for overhead (not even profit), we're talking $600/family to pay out, before they even profit. raise it to $1000 and we get $1000 profit per month. Parents feel like they are paying way too much and the caretaker isn't making minimum wage in profit, while taking care of 3 kids they don't care about.

$1000/month is great as a side gig, but this is a) a full time job that b) can't be automated easily and c) requires a high level of trust (i.e. experience and initial capital). Bob here either needs to take care of even more kids (possibly illegally, since there are regulations for this) or charge the parents even more just to make ends meet.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by angmarsbane on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:05PM (#38108512)
We have special neighborhoods that are 55+ only, it would be a huge boon if we had subsidized housing for young married couples full of other families.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by voisin on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:13PM (#38108556)
Boomers would never allow it. Discrimination they’d say. Rules for thee, not for me.
Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by mlrtime on Thursday November 02, 2023 @06:34AM (#38111479)
Those special houses are not "subsidized". They are currated for people who don't want to live with younger folks and the "issues" that follow them.

You are conflating issues, there is nothing stopping a developer from creating a "35-" development (Except a market of course).

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by ajhurliman on Thursday November 02, 2023 @06:54AM (#38111648)
They may be subsidized (sort of) in that they pay lower taxes, on the theory that they’re not sending anyone to school at that age.

And age discrimination in housing is actually illegal, the 55+ and 65+ situations are special exclusions.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:56AM (#38125053)
>there is nothing stopping a developer from creating a "35-" development (Except a market of course).

I'd be down, that means young people can't actually own houses, unheard of for my generation.

But yes, it's no secret older folk either have better financial safeties that degraded by millenial/Gen Y (pension, social secrutity) and generally make more money. Great market to appeal to. Meanwhile, the 23- market takes out an un-bankruptable 100k over 4 years hoping to climb through the cracks.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by apwell23 on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:29PM (#38108654)
> Daycare is expensive for the same reason that everything is expensive - money to investors and landlords.

This is wrong. If this was the case there would investors lining up to make a killing.

Planet money did an episode on this

https://www.npr.org/2023/02/02/1153931108/day-care-market-ex...

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by johnnyanmac on Friday November 03, 2023 @01:49AM (#38125005)
I tracked down the transcript and I still don't understand the math here:

> GUO: In a month where they're bringing in, like, $40,000, $33,000 is going to payroll.

> ANDERSEN: Our salaries are 83% of our budget per month. That is absolutely insane.

> GUO: And this is pretty representative of the country. And for thinking, well, at least day care workers are getting paid well - right? - because most of the money is going to salaries. Well, they are not paid well. Kelsey pays 12 to $15 an hour.

>But Kelsey says she can't pay as much as those stores because she has more people to pay than they do. For Kelsey's 72 kids, she needs 25 people on staff

I guess this just shows my ignorance, but is a 1:3 kid-parent ratio the norm for day care? I know you can't automate child care like you can a cashier, but given that my grandparents raised 4-5 kids at any one time (they had like, 10 kids between one previous marriage each, but huge age gaps), and my uncle raised 3 himself (and sometimes My mom dropped me off with him. So 3.5), it seems very "inefficient" when considering this is only caring for a third of the time (as opposed to a 24/7 care as a stay at home parent).

>The safety of kids and the quality of care get a little more dicey if you have more than four infants to one teacher. So you just need a lot of grown-ups to take care of babies and even toddlers.

I guess a day care has a higher quality stay than my uncle since it mentions teaching. I guess it's tough to just throw your child at someone you don't trust who may do it for cheap, so there's pressures to not just be "my uncle's house" (not that he's a bad parent. But I was mostly there to play with my cousin and be fed lunch/dinner).

But when you remember the perspective of a school teacher teaching 20-40(!) kids at once for even less money, it makes you feel like something is off. Probably in the case of the teachers, but still.

>But we wouldn't leave 16-year-olds alone. In fact, we don't really leave anyone alone.

tangent but I'm really baffled by this sentiment. Like, I wouldn't leave the country for months with a 16YO, but by 16 I would feel they can operate for a few days without seeing a parent. Just make sure they have allowance to cover food. That's an age where they need to start operating independently anyway since they are potentially close to living alone in college, or moving out a few years into adulthood.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by apwell23 on Friday November 03, 2023 @02:01AM (#38125083)
> but is a 1:3 kid-parent ratio the norm for day care?

Depends on the state laws based on age of the child. Its not upto the daycare.

Re:As child care costs soar, more parents may have to exit t... by HumblyTossed on Thursday November 02, 2023 @12:35PM (#38116123)
> We do extremely little to make a society that encourages people having kids...

What do you mean? We've gotten rid of RvW and a lot of states are making abortion illegal.

We are politicing the HELL out of this problem.