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Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:09PM (#19022461)
I'm only in my 50s, but this is very relateable. Did a couple dozen interviews a year or two ago before finally getting a bite. Somewhat amazingly, even passed the hiring committee at a FANG, only to get swatted down by a rare strike from the executive level.

In one interview, was asked to produce a class that could serialize and deserialize a list of numbers, to/from a string of chars. Sure, it's not that hard. Took maybe ten minutes? A few tests, it worked fine. They declined--"your skills seem rusty". Huh?

I'm in good health and much better financial situation than the guy in the story. But without being too grim, I've accepted that someday I might run completely out of money. If I can't get hired in tech, I'll give McDonald's a shot--it's honest work. Failing that, I'll make my graceful exit.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by crispyambulance on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:25PM (#19022568)
I find it disturbing he can't find work as a project manager. If anything, that's one role where the practitioners typically know fuck-all about nothing and where good ones are worth their weight in gold.

I LOVE to work with ADULT project managers who have a clue about how projects actually unfold and how things actually get done with a wide variety of personalities in the mix. Instead, more often than not, you get 20-30-something "management fast-track" wannabe's who could not solve a problem to save their lives.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by perryh2 on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:39PM (#19022641)
In today's world of agile development, I haven't met any project managers worthy of anything. I feel that strong product managers are capable of managing development as well. I can't believe there are actual people getting paid to move JIRA tickets around full-time.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Justsignedup on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:56PM (#19022727)
Good project management is invisible. They just make projects happen. They make sure everyone is talking. They make sure decisions are made. Everyone knows what to do when to do it. Etc.

I seen good project management. It is magical. Then the manager left. Everything slowed down to a crawl.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by bfdm on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:16AM (#19023957)
Yep, it's the thankless job that when done well nobody notices.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by JMTQp8lwXL on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @02:10AM (#19024407)
Invisible makes it sound intangible. If you can't quantify the value you're adding to an organization, are you adding any at all?

Making sure "the right people are talking", "decisions are made", etc. do sound like things that can be tracked to confirm if a PM is indeed adding value.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by kamaal on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @02:40AM (#19024535)
>>If you can't quantify the value you're adding to an organization, are you adding any at all?

At some point in time recurring wins can look like a perpetual machine. The problem is when you get there, people think like, Now that we got what we want why do we need this person?

It's only after the person goes and a few months down the lane you begin to see things falling apart. Of course by then things just become the new normal.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by crispyambulance on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @08:58AM (#19026281)

    > If you can't quantify the value you're adding to an organization, are you adding any at all?
The problem with that line of thought is that it's not at all easy (or even possible) to quantifiably measure performance on an individual basis. This is especially true for roles like PM's whose job is to enable the labor and talent of others.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by JMTQp8lwXL on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @01:32PM (#19028712)
Many roles are difficult to quantifiably measure. The same is true for software engineers-- suppose two developers are shipping code, but one writes 2x as many lines of code. Do we say they're twice as productive, or delivering twice as much business value? Not necessarily.

But there should be something that can be measured, even if it's imprecise, to at least show that something's being done. How do you measure the success criteria for the role of a PM? It's challenging. But it should be done.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by crispyambulance on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @02:38PM (#19029201)
Measure and "quantifiably measure" are two different things. I agree that performance can and should be evaluated, however, for many jobs that is an intrinsically subjective task.

There's nothing wrong with that. It's just the nature of such roles.

You still evaluate, you just don't boil it down to one "score".

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by zaarn on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @10:28AM (#19035792)
On a similar thought the IT department of organizations in the past was neglected. After all, they don't add any value, they are only needed to shuffle around dead hardware for new hardware.

Similarly a good manager provides auxiliary value; it doesn't directly add value to the organization but if it's not there then the overall value decreases.

Not everything in an organization is immediate positive effect.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by TStowe on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @09:14AM (#19026386)
Oftentimes I've seen PMs used to talk directly to clients about projects, and groups of execs. Hired because they're great "window dressing".
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by zamalek on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:02PM (#19022758)
I worked under one in South Africa and he was genuinely passionate about project management: he was constantly in courses, constantly researching and constantly asking for feedback.

One of the teams I oversee now in NA also has a brilliant project manager. Of all my 12 years in the industry I haven't once seen someone pull a team into productivity nirvana like she does. She deeply understands the concept of agile and every sprint she is trying a new idea with her team (process is a feature!).

They do exist, but they are rare.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by panda888888 on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @12:12AM (#19032869)
Disagree completely. A good project manager sees themselves as a peer to devs, with a goal of shielding their team from dumb administrative stuff (like requests from upper management that are clearly out of touch with how the product actually works).

To do so, they must see themselves as a peer. Anyone with an ego who wants to boss people around will be a terrible PM. A good PM enables their team and is altruistically driven.

Once you work with someone like this, you'll understand how amazing PMs can be.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Aloha on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:08PM (#19022788)
Not everyone lives in an agile world.

Besides, there are still politics to shield from, budgets to maintain, stakeholders to brief, paperwork to do - all stuff that putting an engineer on - would be an utter waste.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by democracy on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:50PM (#19023297)
Exactly, for some reason we got rid of PMs, then architects, then "devops" (as they understand it) replaced system administrators, and now as a software engineer you have to do much more, actually leaving less time for your actual are of competence.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by siruncledrew on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @03:05AM (#19033475)
It’s easy to be bad and hard to be good. There’s PMs I know that casually joke about how about most of their week is time spent dicking around on the internet while having a few meetings and watching some tasks get done. They are more like project secretaries where they DGAF about being involved. Then there are PMs that go the extra mile to keep stakeholders involved, triage bugs and tasks, and willfully volunteer to fill in as needed. They are the ones that can actually add substantial value to a project.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by mikekchar on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:35PM (#19023229)
It's unfortunate. Especially in agile, a good project (err.. product...) manager is worth their weight in gold. I have to be honest, I've had my hand slapped here on HN for conflating project managers with product managers. I admit that I do this because from an agile software development perspective you need a variety of skills.

One of the biggest problems I've seen on agile projects is a lack of analysis. Often "agile" development processes are chosen because people want to avoid analysis. I think the thinking is that if you remove all the documentation and discussion around what you are building, the developers will just "do the right thing" and you'll save a whack of time.

In fact, on the XP teams I've run, I tend to have 2-3 month backlogs of stories. You want to think through what you are building and what the implications are. There are 2 main differences between this and a more analysis-up-front approach. First, your stories are changeable and prone to re-ordering. Second, you defer some decisions until later. There is no phase when the requirements are carved into stone. However, if you get to the beginning of the sprint and you don't know what the acceptance criteria for all of the stories in the sprint are, then you are in big trouble.

Also, I come from the ancient days. I've personally written a 1300 page requirements document. That took 6 months to write. That was largely ignored. When I tell people that I want a couple of months out of "this is what we're doing if nothing changes", these days people think I've got all top heavy on them. Times change...

This is where a good project/product manager comes in handy. You need someone who owns the overall vision of what you are building and has time to think through the implications. You need someone who is constantly grooming the backlog and updating the cards as the vision changes. You need someone who understands the business priorities and knows when and how to reprioritise the backlog. You need someone who is constantly asking the question, "It's fine to do X, but what does that mean for Y", or "What makes you think that this is the solution we need" or "Who is going to be affected when we do X".

Often product/project managers think, "Oh I don't have to know how the product works in detail". This is a huge red flag for me. They often think "Oh the programmers can decide what to do here". Yes, the programmers can, but they already have their plate full with how to do what needs to get done. If you ask them to think through all the details of what and why then they will have less time for how. Similarly, if you have a team of 6-8 developers, then you will have 6-8 opinions about what the best thing to do is. The vision will potentially be weakened and you will often find that the programmers spend half their time arguing about who has the best idea. At best you'll have 1 developer doing the product/project manager's job and the rest will be doing programming jobs.

I could go on forever here. I haven't even touched on dealing with internal politics, reporting, ensuring visibility of problems, coordination with other groups, gathering data, etc, etc, etc. If you don't have someone doing these things then they are often not getting done at all (often to your detriment) or you are wasting your precious programming horse power dealing with the realities of business.

As you can imagine, I over the years I've regularly butted heads with "I don't really want to do anything at all" product/project managers. But if I get someone willing and able, I will absolutely load them down with work that has the potential to make a massive difference to everyone.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ido on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @07:44AM (#19025842)
what is the difference between a project and a product manager? a lot of what your describing sounds like an engineering manager or ever lead developer to me.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by mikekchar on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @07:09PM (#19031256)
Of course, none of this is set in stone. Different organisations do things differently. I can tell you my reasoning for categorising things the way I do, but I don't think there is any meaning to having a canonical system.

First lead developer. To me a lead developer is the person on a team that leads the technical direction of the team. Programming is all about judgement calls and long term success on the technical side depends on getting those judgement calls right more often than wrong. Some lead developers like to make all technical decisions, but this can create a bottle neck and also piss off the rest of the team. For those reasons, I don't like that approach and prefer to have the lead developer act as a technical coach, leading by example. The lead developer should have the final say on technical decisions and should be aware of all of the decisions being made on the team, but they should avoid making decisions if they can. On political matters, they should refrain from being too active, but rather defer to the development/engineering manager if there are any problems. Lead developers should also write a lot of code IMHO.

The sound clip is, though, the lead developer should be a 10x developer by virtue of doubling everybody else's productivity. However they do that is fine.

I tend to use the term "development manager" rather than "engineering manager" for arbitrary reasons, but they mean the same to me. A development manager ideally should make no technical decisions. That should be left to the lead developer. In some organisations, the team is not deep enough to have an effective lead developer, so sometimes the development manager has to take on that role too. In other organisations, there is no development manager and so the lead developer has to take on that role. It's not optimal, but it really depends on the size and depth of the organisation.

A development manager's responsibility is political in nature. First they must evaluate and track the progress of the members of the team (usually working closely with the lead developer to get insight). They will ideally decide on the head count of the team, choose the members of the team, organise hiring if necessary and arranging for movement out of the team (whether that is a transfer or dismissal) if necessary. The development manager is responsible for the conduct of the team. If there are behavior problems, the development manager must find a solution (usually working with the lead developer) to those problems. The development manager is responsible for tracking performance of developers, negotiating raises, managing career progression, finding appropriate training, allocating resources (for example computers, desks, chairs, internet), etc. They are also responsible for ensuring that outside problems are dealt with effectively. A big part of that is making decisions about how to deal with external requests for development, allocating people to deal with problems, etc, etc. They must work with the project manager(s) to track performance and ensure that there are adequate people available to do the work that is necessary. The must work together to track work completion and adjust expectations for delivery dates, etc.

Where the lead developer is looking at the tactical view about how to best accomplish a series of tasks, the development manager is looking at the strategic view of plotting the current location and direction of the team (as well as dealing with the people problems and political fall out from that).

I wrote earlier about what I see the project/product manager doing, so I won't get into it too much, however I'll talk a little bit more about the communication/politics role the product/project manager needs to do. Unless the company is small, there are usually a lot of other departments, many of which dwarf the IT group. These groups include (but are not limited to) marketing, sales, documentation, customer service, etc. In some organisation you even have a separate IT group from development usually called "services" that does custom development for large customers. The project manager has to coordinate all of these groups. This is a big job. They need to listen to all of these groups to gather requirements. They need to coordinate with marketing and sales to keep them synchronised for timing. They have to constantly update everybody as business needs and requirements change. They need to make sure that marketing aren't putting together a campaign for something that you aren't building. They need to stop sales from selling things that you don't have. They need to coordinate the development of documentation. In some industries they need to arrange for and plan certification. I could literally type for pages on this kind of thing. You need at least one person dedicated to this job for each project in most large companies.

The main difference between a project/product manager and a development manager is that one if focused on the project/product and one is focused on the performance of the team. You can merge these roles in a small company, but there are desirable separations of concerns in these roles. Especially (and it's a bit hard to say this politely), there is plenty of latitude for abuse if both of these roles is performed by the same person.

You will notice that I haven't answered your first question. I don't make a distinction between project and product managers. However, many people do. I think the best way to look at the situation, though, is that you almost always need someone who is responsible for the artefact that you are building. They "own" the requirements for that thing. I will say that just like the lead developer position, I prefer a technique where as "owner" you don't actually make all the decisions. Instead you are aware of all the decisions and you make the final decision when there are problems. It's the ownership of the responsibility, really, rather than the ownership of each individual choice. Otherwise you get into the same position of becoming a bottle neck, or pissing off the rest of the team who has to pay for your mistakes, even though they have no say in the matter. It's a hard job, though, because you really have to travel around talking to people all day and make sure that you understand every decision being made.

On the other hand, just like there is a separation of tactical and strategic goals in development, you can do the same in the project management side. So you can have a project/product "owner" and a project/project manager, who may be responsible for the strategic view of how all these tings are fitting together. In a very large company, you almost certainly need this role. Most of my career has been spent in organisations with less than 200 developers and in those organisations, I've never really seen the need. YMMV.

Edited to fit into a reply (apparently I typed too much).

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by sh87 on Monday January 28, 2019 @11:34PM (#19023798)
I have observed a few over the past years. Their work revolves around starting up the standup call, sending meeting invites, moving tickets/stories/defects and yeah thats about it. Seems depressing and frustrating as a dev. But they seem to be as happy as a fish in a bowl. I don't get it.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by gnarbarian on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:58PM (#19022740)
Even programmers who migrate to project management can lose touch insanely fast. I've seen it happen multiple times. I'm doing both PM work and programming on a project right now and the temptation is always there to just pass off what I'm working on to one of the contractors instead of doing it myself.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by kamaal on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @01:40AM (#19024306)
Question: >>I find it disturbing he can't find work as a project manager.

Answer: >>If anything, that's one role where the practitioners typically know -all about nothing and where good ones are worth their weight in gold. >>Instead, more often than not, you get 20-30-something "management fast-track" wannabe's who could not solve a problem to save their lives.

You answered your own question. Nobody (wants to)hires people better than them and end up creating impossible-to-defeat competition at work. This is regardless of whatever people might claim about wanting to hire the best.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Aloha on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:06PM (#19022777)
Some of the best PM's that I've worked with are well into retirement age.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by fleur-de-lotus on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @03:04AM (#19033470)
With all due respect, this says more about your age than it says about good PM's.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by TStowe on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @09:12AM (#19026379)
The project managers and admin staff hired at one of the medium sized companies I worked at were the dating pool for two of the three owners. Stripper hot. Every single one. Underqualified. Every single one. It's gone from secretary pools to middle management pools in the guise of gender equality. One of the owners offered to hook me up with one in exchange for helping him out.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by burtonator on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:51PM (#19022699)
Link to your resume and I'll take a look.

All this bullshit about inclusivity.

What we SHOULD be doing is blinding the candidate and interviewer.

No name. Just the last 2 years of job history. That's it.

You don't know their gender. Don't know their age. Don't know their race.

Just complete meritocracy.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snotrockets on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:19PM (#19022845)
It won't be, because different groups answer questions differently. One famous result (http://web.pdx.edu/~mev/pdf/PS471_Readings_2012/Lizotte_Sidm...) is that woman hold themselves to a higher threshold of certainty before claiming to know something.

An interesting solution would be to score differently based on known biases; but that would be a can of worms in itself.

Meritocracy is a lie used by the privileged. There is no such thing in the real world.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by deathanatos on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:04PM (#19023049)
> It won't be, because different groups answer questions differently.

And the common currently practices don't control for that any better. The parent's idea (blind or double-blind screening of candidates) seems like it would, to me, be inherently better if we can figure out how to deal with the logistical complexities it adds. (E.g., how does on-site work? Are there on-sites?) If anything, it would be interesting to weigh against current practices of a few phones screens and a on-site.

(It doesn't seem worse that the world I'm living in, where I'm at the bottom rung doing my damndest to make sure I'm not part of the problem by treating people equally, while at the same time I see some employers offering hiring bonuses for "diversity hires".)

The query in the paper allows the candidate to say "they don't know"; if you force their hand in answering by removing that option, they should be again on equal footing, no?

Additionally, I've also read about mathematical means of recording uncertainty in answers and weighting score with that. (That is, correct answer to which you were more certain net more points, incorrect answers to which you were uncertain lose less points than incorrect answers to which you were more certain.) The end result you're trying to get at is which person is giving better answers and certainties.

> Meritocracy is a lie used by the privileged.

Sure, people can twist things into something they're not, but that doesn't inherently make the original thing wrong or evil.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by elmepo on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:47AM (#19024072)
The issue is that developing a Meritocracy requires that you first solve bigotry. It's arguably fine in theory, but it presupposes what is (at least in my mind) impossible.

It's literally where we get the name "Meritocracy" from. The book "The rise of the Meritocracy" was a satire, not a manual.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snotrockets on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @07:02PM (#19031210)
> I'm not part of the problem by treating people equally,

If you (think) treat people equally, you are part of the problem. When one group is more vocal than the other, you have to amplify the other group. If not, you're just keeping the current bias in place.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ericb on Monday January 28, 2019 @10:37PM (#19023522)
> Meritocracy is a lie used by the privileged.

I don't understand this point of view. It sounds like, by calling it a lie, your real complaint is the ways attempts at meritocracy have fallen short of being an actual meritocracy. That being the case, isn't meritocracy still the correct ideal that we should be doing a better job of striving for?

If this is not how you feel, what is the word for the appropriate assignment strategy that we should be strive to use to decide who gets jobs and promotions?

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by hn_throwaway_99 on Monday January 28, 2019 @11:54PM (#19023880)
> That being the case, isn't meritocracy still the correct ideal that we should be doing a better job of striving for?

I would actually say no, at least when it comes to when arguments for a meritocracy are used as arguments against redistribution of wealth from the more "meritocratic" to the less.

Consider, as a thought experiment, if instead of features like intelligence, communication skills, self-confidence, etc., that our economic system instead only valued basketball skills as the means for distributing wealth. That system would be a meritocracy: great basketball players with tons of talent and effort would be really wealthy and successful, while talentless or lazy basketball players would be poor.

I think this is a good thought experiment because of some of the things it highlights. Perhaps most importantly, all short people are pretty much destined to be forever poor in this meritocratic system. If you are short, what value would you see in abiding by this system at all if tall, great basketball players took all the gains? What about if instead great basketball players could be wealthy and successful, but they still had to pay a very large amount of taxes to ensure that short people didn't starve (or revolt).

While a (true) meritocracy may be ideal for how jobs are to be distributed, if it is also how wealth is distributed it means that it is also, by and large, a lottery of DNA. How is that any more "fair" than an aristocracy?

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ericb on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @08:25AM (#19026053)
I'm not sure that "fairness" is exactly the right ideal if our goal is the most health and wealth for the most people? I want my doctor to be really great--to be in that job because he is the best at it. I don't want someone placed there by a truly random lottery, and I do want the guy who won the intelligence DNA drawing to be the one I talk to. I also want wealth to motivate people to get into that job, as it is so tough to gain that knowledge, I don't know if there will be enough people without a financial reward.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snotrockets on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @06:56PM (#19031168)
Fairness in opportunities, which you just disqualified by assuming the best Dr need to be a MALE and GENTICALY PREDETERMINED SMART.

My (short) experience working in health care suggest both are very bad qualifications for a health professional.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ericb on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @09:15PM (#19032013)
So, first off, fair point for calling out that I said "guy." I tried to edit it once I saw my mistake, but the post was locked.

I'm curious, though, why you would not want someone who was genetically smart? Why would you want a "dumb" healthcare professional treating you? Do you not believe intelligence to be related to genetics?

Also, how does being male make one a worse healthcare professional?

If you are saying you want fairness in opportunities, then isn't discriminating on the basis of someone being male the opposite of fairness?

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by burfog on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @02:55AM (#19033430)
To be coldly rational, you want to pick from the group that is the most discriminated against for entry into medical school. Right now in the USA, that would be Asian males.

An exception is if you may need the doctor to insert a hand into your body. In this case, note that Asian female doctors generally have the smallest hands.

An exception is if you are very heavy and might require feats of strength for your care. In this case, young non-Asian males are most likely to have the needed strength.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by thefringthing on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @10:25AM (#19035758)
It's pretty telling then you went for male pronouns to describe your hypothetical doctor.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ericb on Tuesday February 12, 2019 @04:39PM (#19147812)
Maybe? My primary care doctor is female, so whatever bias using a gendered pronoun might show, at the end of the day, I picked who I thought was best. On merit.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by krageon on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @03:01AM (#19024610)
This argument for meritocracy is what a real communist will tell you about communism now. It works basically for anything that we don't have good working examples for right this second. Given that there are no good working examples and/or haven't been any so far, how would we fix the problems that we have seen and can foresee?

Given those concerns, I think it is not reasonable to just say "we need to try again and try harder" because it does a disservice to those times it was tried in the past. Maybe there is a fundamental problem there that still has to be solved?

For a meritocracy, this isn't super complicated. Who decides what has merit? How will you measure this? Are the things that you measure the right things? Given that there is a possibility for side-channel information (for example, certain groups of people having terms they "look for" and that you only know about being part of this group), how will we solve this?

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by danieltillett on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @04:05AM (#19024890)
I feel like misquoting Churchill here and saying meritocracy is the the worst system except for all the alternatives.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snotrockets on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @06:58PM (#19031180)
You'd also be doing injustice to his saying. A (liberal) democracy gives every one the same opportunity. This isn't the case with so called meritocracy.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by danieltillett on Thursday January 31, 2019 @04:16AM (#19043530)
Well isn't giving everyone the same opportunity the definintion of a meritocracy? Of course no society is a meritocracy, but it is hard to think of a better system.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snotrockets on Friday February 01, 2019 @06:32PM (#19059817)
No; Meritocracy is judging by the results. If we're both in a dancing competition, but you have dance shoes and I wear a workman's steel toed both, giving you the win is meritocratic, even though the opportunity isn't equal.

If you judging system by it's ideal implementation, then you should argue for Communism (we all know how that turns out, and to what a douchy sausage fest so called "meritocracies" ends as)

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ericb on Tuesday February 12, 2019 @04:48PM (#19147904)
> Meritocracy is judging by the results.

Say you need brain surgery. Are you telling me you will choose based on some criteria other than results?

I will pick a 9 headed purple alien if it will do the best job. And I won't care that it had the advantage of 7 parents who were rich doctors and harvard alumni. The place to fix inequality is upstream.

The cure for those advantages is to level the playing field.

> If you judging system by it's ideal implementation, then you should argue for Communism

Straw man. Like visiting a junkyard and concluding all cars don't move. That line of reasoning lets you conclude anything with a failed example can never work.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by normal_man on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @10:53AM (#19027299)
It is not possible to have an "actual" meritocracy. There's simply no way to account for all personal biases and all the historical context that you'd need to to get a truly "objective" decision made.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Gibbon1 on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:42PM (#19023264)
> Meritocracy is a lie used by the privileged. There is no such thing in the real world.

I remember an essay by a black female engineer. She said what helped her were three things, her dad had a union job, disability payments from the uncle who came home from Korea with no legs. These meant they could fake a middle class lifestyle. And her mother teaching her how to dress and talk like a white person.

Seriously a lot of 'Meritocracy' is nothing more than soft affinity fraud.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Affinity_fraud

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ValleyOfTheMtns on Monday January 28, 2019 @11:10PM (#19023692)
Seems like that's conflating actual meritocracy with an exploited/fake form of meritocracy.

Actual meritocracies are rare, but that doesn't mean we should redefine "meritocracy" to be the the distorted (and more common) version of it.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by AstralStorm on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @04:36AM (#19025036)
Please provide an example of an actual meritocracy so we can educate you that it does not exist.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snotrockets on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @08:05PM (#19041304)
Just like every example of a communist regime wasn't true communist, and hence failed!
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by burtonator on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:41PM (#19022951)
> Meritocracy is a lie used by the privileged. There is no such thing in the real world.

That's absolutely untrue.. you really discredit yourself when you say provably false things like this.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by RobLach on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:22PM (#19023138)
I assume you’ve read the essay the term comes from

https://www.worldcat.org/title/rise-of-the-meritocracy/oclc/...

If not; it’s pretty fun.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by zorpner on Monday January 28, 2019 @11:49PM (#19023861)
...you really discredit yourself when you say provably false things like this.

Likewise. And look, I've offered just as much proof as you did.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by SolaceQuantum on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:55PM (#19022719)
Will this work for on-site, particularly because "do I think I could get along with this candidate/does this candidate seem like a team player/can this candidate communicate effectively" is a significant part of the hiring process? I think many teams may struggle to have completely anonymous hiring due to the desire to meet their potential teammate and assess based on the teammate's easyness to get along with.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by codetrotter on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:06PM (#19022778)
It’d be interesting if a proper study was done. It could turn out to be better. We won’t know till we try.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:22PM (#19028064)
Thank you--I appreciate it. I should have clarified that I did eventually get a job. Pay's quite low, but it's otherwise fine. And all things considered, I'm loathe to attempt another job hunt any time soon.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by eps on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @02:03AM (#19024390)
You must evaluate personal traits too. This is a given when hiring into a team.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by slg on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:28PM (#19022880)
Blind hiring doesn't do anything to prevent or correct for bias outside the interview process for this specific position. Assembling a team this way would likely result in one that looks just like the rest of the industry. Meanwhile the hiring manager gets to pat themselves on the back for "doing their part" without actually accomplishing anything to address the problem.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by csa on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:32PM (#19022599)
Check out jobs with the federal government and/or with government contractors. The work might not be as sexy or as lucrative (although sometimes it is), but the pay is stable (lolol... shutdowns notwithstanding) at a middle-class level.

The government is desperate for people who can code.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Novashi on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:37PM (#19023238)
>The government is desperate for people who can code.

Not desperate enough to teach people to code who want to learn though.

But I bet half the need is from mountains of shit code anyway. The contracting and procurement processes are fucked (source: friend who works in gov't IT contracts -- stay far away from any dev positions involving Dept. of VA).

Demand for good devs is going to be won by companies. We clearly can't even fill private sector roles even at these salary levels. I'm not sure how anyone can look at our really picky labor market with the government's lack of salary and perk offerings and think "yeah we can fill these if we just try a bit harder".

Government really needs a different approach to solve their staffing needs in this regard. They aren't competitive.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by csa on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @11:42AM (#19027707)
I agree with many parts of your reply.

That said, the context was about older and experienced devs who, for some reason, can’t find a job in the private labor market.

The federal government is a much safer bet for these people. As bad as it can be, it’s better than unemployed. Some of the jobs are actually good.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by WalterBright on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @01:51AM (#19024352)
> Not desperate enough to teach people to code who want to learn though.

There's endless free material online for those who actually want to learn.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by AstralStorm on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @04:39AM (#19025050)
Those people end up in companies if they're any good at it, presuming they can somehow pass the filtering.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by a3n on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:08PM (#19023066)
The last month should demonstrate that the government is a terrible steward of jobs. Shutdowns and dysfunction are on a bad trend. Half the board (Congress) won't talk to the other half, and the CEO (President) is a narcissist at best.

I don't think anyone who relies on a paycheck should work for the government, unless God himself touched their heart with his finger and made that their calling. Although the man in the article is probably desperate enough to give that a shot.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Wowfunhappy on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:23PM (#19023148)
I don’t think the shutdowns are quite that bad yet (unless you’re a contractor). Everyone—except contractors—got back pay when the government re-opened.

A vouple months delayed pay can absolutely be devistating to someone at a certain income level, and I don’t want to discount the hardship the recent shutdown has caused. But, I imagine most people well-off enough to have a programming job wouldn’t have too many cash flow issues, given proper financial planning.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by johnny22 on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:27PM (#19023182)
most governments in the world don't have shutdowns like the US though. The US doesn't need to have them either.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by dragonwriter on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @01:55AM (#19024363)
> The government is desperate for people who can code.

If it was desperate, the pay would be better.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:23PM (#19028073)
I did end up getting an offer at something like this. Low pay, worthy and mostly interesting work. So no real complaints.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by sephoric on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:52PM (#19022704)
We're at that point too. My solution is a combination of downsizing our life and making my own app business. So far the only app I released (Autumn) was a bust because I stupidly released it on New Year's Eve so practically nobody knew about it, also it's too niche. But everyone loves the quality, so I figure I'll just keep writing more apps. I've got a lot of ideas and a lot of energy. I may have to work at Walmart or something, but I can keep doing this in my spare time. As long as there's at least some food on the table, even if ramen noodles, my family can keep going.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by DenisM on Monday January 28, 2019 @11:10PM (#19023689)
This is going to be harsh but it’s for your own good.

You have no idea what you’re doing and you are blindly digging yourself deeper into the hole by writing more apps. I wrote a couple of quality apps and I had seen some success financial success with them, you are not moving in the right direction.

You can’t write an app and think up a marketing plan afterwards as an extension, it’s the other way around - you find an audience with a need you can satisfy and a loudspeaker to reach them about it, only then you add an app as an extension to that.

If you want to write quality apps as a hobby then go for it, but don’t expect financial stability from that or you will face emotional ruin on the heals of financial struggle. Just don’t.

If you’re looking to make a living then go be a consultant to small-medium businesses. Fire bad clients asap, make unexpected treats for good clients. Repeat business accumulated over a few years will set you up for life.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by i_am_nomad on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @11:25AM (#19027574)
Your app advice reminds me of something I read on HN: “Fall in love with the problem, not the solution.“
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by rgbrenner on Monday January 28, 2019 @10:09PM (#19023395)
"So far the only app I released (Autumn) was a bust because I stupidly released it on New Year's Eve so practically nobody knew about it"

Virtually no businesses work like this. Maybe NY Eve wasn't the best date, and it's great if you get a boost from the announcement, but you need to follow up with marketing, continue talking to customers, sales, calling people, etc. Most users will not hear about your business from the initial announcement.

A lot of times when you see a business take off after an announcement, it's because they worked for months prior to build an audience. Sometimes that's the developers audience (if you have a lot of twitter/blog/etc followers), or it can be because you preannounced it, collected emails, and kept them engaged as it was being developed. You still need a game plan for after the announcement though.

Good luck... try not to get discouraged if it's not an immediate success. (Your other point, about it being too niche, can be a problem if that niche isn't valuable enough.)

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by jammygit on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @09:17PM (#19041698)
I don't have any first hand experience with app stores, but I read that 0.01% of android apps make enough money to recoup their development costs. I still find the figure stunning
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by shams93 on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:17PM (#19023115)
"I'll make my graceful exit" is an option far too many people are taking out there. Our industry is in the top 10 industries where workers commit suicide. There is no discussion in this country about how our economy forces many working people to actually commit suicide because we have prematurely aged them out. Often to be replaced by a kid who doesn't even have 1% of the skills and knowledge of the person judged "too old" but still too young to qualify for social security.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by snorkel on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:11PM (#19023078)
One of FANGs I interviewed at, I couldn’t help noticing they totally avoid asking practical questions that require field experience to understand and instead just focus the entire interview on CompSci college homework problems that recent grads can easily relate to. I wonder why. Hmmmmm ...
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by fnrslvr on Monday January 28, 2019 @11:26PM (#19023754)
To be fair, recent grads also have an enormous amount of trouble breaking into the industry. The prisoner's dilemma of training up the graduate at a negative return for 2 years before watching them get poached is an issue that's been thoroughly canvassed around here. I think it's beneficial to the health of the industry that tech giants are at least somewhat willing to calibrate their hiring processes towards that class of applicant and take on that risk, and I hope they don't move away from that just to even further pad the career prospects of people with 5-10 years' experience.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by lsc on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:37AM (#19024035)
Yeah, but... CompSci college homework... really isn't that hard? I mean, with some coaching and effort, I can study enough get most of those questions even though my math abilities top out somewhere around high school trig.

I mean, they are gating some incredibly high-paying jobs. Sure, you gotta jump through some hoops to get it, but I'd argue that the coding tests are... well, they certainly aren't the hoops I find difficult.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by EADGBE on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @10:11AM (#19035623)
> Yeah, but... CompSci college homework... really isn't that hard?

Don't know. To me, college CompSci material might as well be greek. But I somehow get by programming...

Now - if we want to talk about contrapuntal music composition techniques - I'm your guy.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by agumonkey on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:34PM (#19022611)
Serving food is more than honest IMO, but still a bit of a waste.. Also it seems a lot of capable coders are struggling with harsh if not inhuman business structures. Maybe regroup and form a nice company of nice people.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by brobdingnagians on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:51PM (#19023307)
I like this comment; seems like you could make a pretty good company from the older talent that isn't picked up by the young companies. In terms of pure competition, you could give them all a run for their money with the lifelong knowledge bit.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ilovetux on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @07:28AM (#19025758)
I've seen something similar where a company made a spot for themselves hiring aging cobol programmers and making pretty good money contracting with other companies. I will try to find a link to the article I read.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ilovetux on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @10:14AM (#19026919)
I found the link. The company is called COBOL Cowboys.

https://www.reuters.com/article/us-usa-banks-cobol/banks-scr...

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by brobdingnagians on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:17PM (#19028011)
Thank you, that's cool
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by jammygit on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @09:21PM (#19041722)
The company I worked for last year was about 1/4 older gentlemen in engineering roles. I'm disappointed that other companies are not as keen to hire them, but they had so freaking much experience and it was a pleasure to work with them
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by scarface74 on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:50PM (#19022695)
So did you try finding a job just in Silicon Valley on the West Coast at a FANG or did you expand your search? It’s hard to believe as hungry as people are for developers that no one in the entire US including remote work, contracting, or consulting would hire you assuming you had marketable skills.

I’m in my mid 40s, was just looking for a job last year and it took me two weeks and from the time I started looking until I had an offer.

That’s been about the speed for the last 10 years across 5 jobs.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by quicklyfrozen on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:50PM (#19022996)
In my experience, there's a pretty big difference between mid 40s and over 50. Companies may be hungry, but they've also become more selective.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by scarface74 on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:56PM (#19023021)
How will they tell the difference between if I am 45 and 50 before they make an offer? I haven’t put my date of college graduation on my resume since I was 35 and now I only put the last ten years worth of work experience.

Let’s say I’m back in the job market when I am 50 in 2024 and I just keep my experience from 2008 or 2012 depending on the company I am interviewing for.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by kamaal on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @01:47AM (#19024339)
>>How will they tell the difference between if I am 45 and 50 before they make an offer?

They have eyes, and age shows. Wrinkles, greying hair etc.

Its not that hard to spot old people.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by scarface74 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @05:12AM (#19025181)
I’m not saying that it is hard to spot old people but the difference between 45 and 50 isn’t that great.

It wouldn’t have mattered either in my last two jobs or my current one since my managers were all older than I am. But, I don’t take any chances. I go to all my interviews clean shaven - bald head, and no facial hair specifically because of the ageism boogeyman. No one thinks twice about a Black guy with a bald head.

No I’m not saying that’s the answer for anyone else.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by ido on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @08:41AM (#19026152)
That was my plan if and when this becomes an issue for me. I'm 35 so I haven't yet (to my knowledge) experienced agism but if I'll live long enough I'm pretty sure I will still need to work for another 30+ years.

Anyway dying/shaving your hair etc will help you mask 50 vs 45, but when you're 60...

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by giancarlostoro on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:19PM (#19023128)
Heck one of friends only puts the last 3 jobs he had on his resume, keeps it approachable.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by scarface74 on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:21PM (#19023137)
Given a choice, I’ll go straight W2 contracting or work for a consulting company after I leave my current job whenever that is.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:26PM (#19028099)
Searched in four or five major cities. (Not SV, which is financially untenable for me.)

I'm sure there are numerically plenty of places that would hire me, but finding them is pretty arduous, esp since many of my declines were after all-day travel interviews to the opposite coast.

It's a big change from the past, when jobs would invariably just fall in my lap.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by scarface74 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:55PM (#19028348)
I never understood the purpose of in person interviews at most companies for out of town candidates. It seems like it would make more sense for all involved just to do a video conference.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by goalieca on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:17PM (#19022512)
i'm not really understanding the tech sector. There's often the criticism that we keep reinventing solutions to old problems. And here you are, with presumably 30 years of experience, and no one wants to take a chance?
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by eecsninja on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:37PM (#19023237)
Maybe the people complaining and the ones doing the hiring aren't the same.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by jolmg on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:36PM (#19022627)
You could also look to start your own business to not require the approval of any hiring committee. Customers are not going to care, and you can probably get them to buy into your product/service without them even knowing much about you, let alone your age.

The difference between being hired into a business and working on your own is that you'll have to create stability on your own, but the benefits seem worth it.

Making a change like that probably takes time to adapt, but fuck me if I ever fail to make use of the skills I've honed throughout my whole life and that I know are useful for people. One just has to bridge the gap between what one can provide and what people need. If someone gets in the way of that because of their own misjudgments, sidestep them and prove them wrong!

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by sjg007 on Monday January 28, 2019 @08:36PM (#19022930)
It’s not easy to start your own company. Sometimes you have no choice but it’s not for everyone.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by smnplk on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:44PM (#19022664)
By graceful exit, do you mean Smith and Wesson retirement plan ? I think it's still better to become a street beggar.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:29PM (#19028120)
Yes, but however you feel about suicide, I would never recommend that method. Way too unreliable for me. That's like two nines and you want ten or twenty nines. Failure is not an option.

(For the forseeable future, I have lots to live for. Promises to keep, and miles to go before I sleep.)

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by warent on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:28PM (#19022585)
I sincerely hope you were just being facetious in the last line. There's a ton someone with your experience could do such as write books, consultation, coaching, etc.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by olalonde on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:44PM (#19022663)
Remote work too. Your employer doesn't need to know your age.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by jolmg on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:50PM (#19022691)
Do you say that from experience? I've always wondered how the legal stuff works in remote work, including, for example, international workers. I mean, how anonymous can one be in one of those jobs?
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:30PM (#19028128)
Not exactly, but it's not an eventuality I expect to come to pass any year soon.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by i_am_nomad on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @11:08AM (#19027443)
Many great men and women didn’t embark upon their greatness until their fifties. And quite frankly, if you are leading a life of dignity, principles, and continual learning, you are living up to the true potential of what humans are meant to be (yet so few humans attain). Your life will be a victory whether you’re flipping burgers, houses or companies.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:24PM (#19028085)
Yes. One good thing about getting older is having better perspective on stuff like this.
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by siruncledrew on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @03:17AM (#19033509)
This is observational, but I notice older hiring managers are more ok with hiring older applicants. Maybe there’s some kind of relatability or something, but the older hires actually turned out to be cool, insightful people. It’s even pretty funny when they joke about age in a self-deprecating sense.

Consequently, I’ve seen that younger people are more wary of hiring people too far removed from their own demographic like there’s a forethought a 40+ dev is going to be some burdensome fart from an AARP commercial.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by badpun on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @10:52AM (#19036035)
> Consequently, I’ve seen that younger people are more wary of hiring people too far removed from their own demographic like there’s a forethought a 40+ dev is going to be some burdensome fart from an AARP commercial.

Younger people often find it awkward and uncomfortable to manage someone who's closer to their dad than to them. I suspect in such cases they just filter them out if they have other candidates.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by TomMckenny on Monday January 28, 2019 @10:09PM (#19023394)
>swatted down by a rare strike from the executive level

Was this someone you spoke to in anyway? Or was there any rationale hinted at?

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:32PM (#19028152)
It's what I heard from my internal recruiter (who had little reason to mislead on that).

Through a back channel, I heard something that sounded like a euphemism for "too old" or "too family oriented". I take that with a grain of salt, though. Most likely just the operation of pure chance.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by Kinnard on Monday January 28, 2019 @07:52PM (#19022703)
Have you ever tried creating your own community? Like through meetup?
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by segmondy on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:46PM (#19023279)
This defeatist attitude is what's going to make this come true for you. McDonald? really? How about consulting? Starting your own shit? Perhaps looking outside of the West Coast and other places you might be appreciated? How about the govt, schools, hospitals, banks, big ol boring enterprises? How about other countries? Seriously, you have option and everyone does. If you are smart enough to pass the hiring committee at FANG, you are obviously smart enough to accomplish anytime you put your mind to. I often see these stories and it's often, "poor old me, woe unto me..." and you know what? Yeah, woe unto them indeed.

If you believe you can, you can, if you believe you can't, you can't.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by peterwwillis on Monday January 28, 2019 @10:05PM (#19023373)
This unrealistic anti-pep-talk isn't helping anyone but yourself.

When you're actually painted into a corner in life, and really are facing a bad situation with no support whatsoever, you get defeatist. It happens. Human beings have feelings, and no amount of vapid self-actualization bullshit is going to make you stop feeling those feelings.

And sometimes there really aren't any other options. If you have no money, and nobody is hiring you, and you have bills to pay, and you have no money, you will have to accept a "lesser" job. This isn't "defeatist", it's real life. You can't wish yourself out of a bad situation. People often have to work hard, from the bottom, until they get a foothold, and then slowly, slowly work back up.

But it's still massively more difficult to do any of this when you're older, because nobody wants anything to do with you. You're the awkward old guy at networking events, in job interviews, virtually anywhere anyone can see or hear you. Nobody - govt, schools, hospitals, banks, enterprises - nobody wants to hire an old person.

Also - "starting your own shit" ? "other countries" ? How is somebody with no money, no contacts, and no collateral, supposed to pull those off? Just wander into a bank and bullshit your way into a loan? Corner some VCs at a cafe in the valley and win $50K off an elevator pitch?

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by WalterBright on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @01:56AM (#19024367)
> How is somebody with no money, no contacts, and no collateral, supposed to pull those off?

The ones I know who did it started by contributing to open source projects and developing a reputation. Employers often canvas open source projects looking to hire the better contributors.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:34PM (#19028172)
I used to assume this was a path. The two luminaries I know (more famous than you even) did not seem to have luck with it.

My advice would be to do personal projects for the pure enjoyment of it, and for learning. I wouldn't expect great career payback, though.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by WalterBright on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @08:01PM (#19031580)
It would need to be a fairly high profile open source project, one that would attract the attention of recruiters. Of course, you'd be compared against the other high profile contributors to it, but what better way to show you can do it?

There are other ways to raise one's profile. One could join the C++ Standard committee and actively participate in it. The top C++ companies will notice you. Or the standards committee of your favorite language.

One can submit papers to relevant conferences. Companies often attend conferences for the specific purpose of recruiting.

Even better, you can do the above without needing to relocate, and with minimal investment of funds.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by jammygit on Wednesday January 30, 2019 @09:29PM (#19041775)
Interesting thoughts, thanks for sharing
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by towaway1138 on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @12:36PM (#19028190)
There's something to this. Certainly you have to limit the duration of feeling sorry for yourself.

But you also need to be a hard-nosed realist. Play the cards you actually have--not the ones you wish you had--as well as you can.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by lsc on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @02:16AM (#19024435)
>If you believe you can, you can, if you believe you can't, you can't.

As a technical individual contributor, what matters is what you can do, not how you feel.

Edit: Yes, yes, all absolute statements are wrong; Attitude does matter some for technical jobs. But what you can do is overwhelmingly more important than your attitude in tech jobs, just like your attitude is overwhelmingly more important in management and sales.

Yes, at interviews, you must act engaged, and you must display what you can do, and that is kind of sales, but it's really easy mode sales.

Sure, I mean, it depends on job role. In sales? yeah, that attitude is required.

(To be clear, even in sales, that attitude is not sufficient. While it is absolutely necessary to project that sort of confidence, that unshakable self-belief, it is not sufficient. You still need to sell. Attitude is sometimes required; it is never enough.)

More specifically to the person you are responding to? when it comes to individual contributor technical roles? As long as you are engaged and interested in the technical questions? It's cool. Having a ridiculous Tony Robins kind of attitude can actually hurt you there; Most technical people don't want to work with a person who's true calling was sales. When I'm interviewing someone like that, every instinct I have is telling me to get them out of the office. I mean, I do my best to overcome my prejudices, and I will still evaluate them on technical merit, but man, it's not easy.

I think that outside of sales and management (note, that's a big part of running a business) defeatist talk and feeling are kinda normal, and unless they are overwhelming for too long, not really a problem.

This is the difference with technical work. What matters is not how you feel or what you project, but what you can do

While getting out from under my business I was super depressed and engaged in a lot of "negative self-talk" in public. And yeah, it probably hurt me on selling that business (I mean, I think I still got a fair deal for what the business was at the time.) but just because I wrote like I was depressed online, as long as I kept going for interviews (and acting engaged during those interviews) I don't think it hurt my prospects as a technical individual contributor much.

I mean, sales is... a different world from technical work. And yeah, I am going to have to come up with a new attitude if I want to go into management ever again But as a technical individual contributor? Ability is key, not attitude.

Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by democracy on Monday January 28, 2019 @09:52PM (#19023315)
It is a good motivational speech however things can be much more complex at some stage...
Re:64 and unemployed: One man's struggle to be taken serious... by normal_man on Tuesday January 29, 2019 @09:40AM (#19026626)
>If you believe you can, you can, if you believe you can't, you can't.

This is what you tell a child, not a middle aged professional. You should really rethink how you talk to people.