Re:Be nice to nerds
by sakopov on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:05PM
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After living in the US for nearly 2 decades I am still amazed at the fact that Americans belittle and make fun of people who are experts in certain fields and go as far as calling them names. When I was a kid in USSR I participated in a club called "Юный радиолюбитель" (similar to amateur radio hobbyist) where kids from 9 to 16 made electronic gadgets, radios, games and etc from publicly available schematics. I remember how fascinated everyone in my class was when I talked about the stuff I worked on. When I came to the US, still as a teenager, I was mocked as a geek or nerd. It is the oddest thing and still makes no sense to me.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by asimuvPR on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:19PM
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Culturally there are two main groups:
1. Popular or "cool" people. Anyone who is not "book smart".
2. Nerds, geeks, etc. People considered to be smart.
There are people who somehow manage to belong to both sides. But its very clear cut. Everything you do is defined by that. I don't know how it came about, but have noticed that it came to be during the early 20th century. If you look back at media from around after WW2 ended (late 40s and 50s) it starts to become used in movies and television. Popular people are into sports, cars, etc. Nerds are science types.
I experienced both sides in high school. In my experience, the popular side was more concerned in having a good time than anything. They wanted the attention. The nerds were generally better people all around. Nicer when you got to know them. I was a nerd who did sports and somehow ended up in between. But then decided to go full "nerd". The right choice because those friendships have lasted.
> 1. Popular or "cool" people. Anyone who is not "book smart".
Except lots of people in this group are book smart, and even recognized as such by their peers in this group. It just isn't seen as dominating who they are.
> 2. Nerds, geeks, etc. People considered to be smart.
I would say that nerds, geeks, etc. as distinct from "popular" are defined more by perceived (from the "popular" perspective) overattachment to niche intellectual pursuits.
There is a very loose correlation with perceived smarts here, but its quite possible to be perceived as geeky/nerdy without being perceived as smart, and vice versa.
Also, you leave out (3) the very wide group of people who are neither particularly popular nor perceived as geeks/nerds.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by pcmaffey on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:21PM
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It all comes down to our culture of hero worship.
American heroes are defined by Hollywood. The #1 trait being - they get the girl. This Darwinistic prerogative of American Individualism has been the defining factor of our hero worship. If you don't fit the description, you are lesser.
Tech is introducing "the ability to change the world" as a competing concept to biological evolution. Thus, we are seeing nerdy entrepreneurs slowly added to the lexicon of hero worship.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by cafard on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @05:29PM
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American?
Ford Madox Ford quotes a saying from the north of England: When land is gone and money spent/Then learning is most excellent.
The Prince of Hanover who just caused a shakeup in the Gottingen faculty said "Professors, dancing girls, and whores: you can hire them for money anywhere." (Except, as it turned out, when the professors have names like Grimm and Humboldt, maybe you can't.)
No doubt one could multiply the examples. If America is at all a special case, it is probably because things traditionally changed faster here, and yesterday's learning might not apply to today's situation.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by Veratyr on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @02:30PM
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Although I'm very much Australian, my wife is Russian and her mother is a teacher. During a visit to my wife's small city, we attended some kind of summer show at her mother's school, which had students from elementary to high school levels.
There were some great dances performed by both girls and boys, of all ages. Some of the dances were rather "feminine" by the standards I was used to (I'd say ballroom maybe?) and I asked my wife and her mother whether the boys had issues with teasing or bullying. They actually seemed genuinely confused about why dancing would lead to teasing/bullying (their answer of course was no, there was no harassment).
In my rural Australian high school there were a few boys who danced (and numerous girls) and the prevailing attitude seemed to be that "masculine" dancing like break dancing was cool and totally okay while "feminine" dancing like ballet would have you treated like an outcast, teased and bullied.
I'm not sure whether the attitude I encountered in Russia is particular to my wife's region (North Caucasus) or all of Russia but it was quite interesting to see just how different things were.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by clifanatic on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @03:02PM
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Not only that, but as somebody who was actually a nerd before it was popular, I'm terrified of the "coolification" of geekiness. As an actual awkward social misfit, I'm pretty sure that if nerdiness actually becomes trendy, I'll be uninvited from the "club". It used to be that, at the very least, there was a place for me because I could read hexadecimal and recite the TCP header format. If computer programming becomes any "hipper", I won't even have a place here.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by az0xff on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:14PM
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Anecdotally, I feel that it's mostly because of stereotypes that nerds are socially awkward. In American culture, there's a lot of emphasis on being popular.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by collyw on Monday July 25, 2016 @02:57AM
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Yes, just looking at the replies here, it seems that everyone wants to shoehorn themselves and other into categories. I am a nerd in many ways, but I am also plenty of other things.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by vijayr on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @06:35PM
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Here is another thing that still amazes me in the U.S - making fun of old people just because they are old (and not for any other reason). This isn't as common elsewhere as it is here, at least in my experience.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by tacon on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:34PM
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Does anyone know where to find those IBM commercials from the dotcom boom that made fun of nerdy IT people? One had someone run in saying "Server's down! It doesn't scale!" and the other guy goes to his keyboard and says "Lock. The. Door." The other one had a web designer asking a puzzled businessman "You can have a spinning logo, or a burning logo."
Re:Be nice to nerds
by biot on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:03PM
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> Techies in San Francisco don not only hoodies but
> also T-shirts with “G∑∑K” emblazoned on the front.
Really, a geek would actually wear a t-shirt like that? It sounds a bit like someone who is a computer neophyte wearing (non-ironically) a t-shirt that says:
Re:Be nice to nerds
by bradleyjg on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @12:34PM
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I don't care if it is supposed to have been reclaimed. To me 'nerd' is a nasty, derogatory word that I don't use myself and I take offense when other people use.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by Waterluvian on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @12:55PM
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Very interesting to hear that. The opposite is true for me and I never would have thought people are still offended by that word. Very good to know that a word that's fun and light hearted to me might still offend others.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by msandford on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:10PM
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It's very common for a word to be OK for in-groups to use and not OK for out-groups to use. When someone in the in-group uses it, it's acceptable because they identify with it and it's a term of endearment. When the out-group uses it it's a label and a slur.
I'm not going to list any of these because I'm not in most of the in-groups (other than nerd) but if you think about it I'm sure you'll be able to come up with some examples.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by mordocai on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @12:45PM
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I'm am perfectly happy to be called nerd/geek but call me a bro-grammer and you will definitely piss me off. (and I'll hate myself a little for inspiring someone to call me a bro-grammer)
Well, back in the day, "nerd" meant "social misfit". Which a lot of us were (me included), because we were too busy trying to be smart to be worried about learning how to play the social game. (Paul Graham wrote an essay about this, "Why Nerds are Unpopular".) But in the real world, it turns out that social skills also matter, and I should have realized it earlier.
But these days, "nerd" means more "socially awkward but really smart", which is neutral to positive from our perspective.
"Brogrammer", on the other hand, to me at least means "male who thinks he's really smart (even if he isn't) and therefore that he can be an offensive jerk to others, especially females". It would bug me a lot if someone thought that was true of me.
Do you have a less inflammatory definition? (I would claim that my definition is true to the current connotation of the word, even if not the current denotation.)
Re:Be nice to nerds
by iak8god on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:48PM
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I've never seen/heard a non-derogatory use of "brogrammer" -- maybe gkilmain will enlighten us with some use I'm not aware of (has it already been reclaimed by brogrammers making in-group use of the term?), but the connotations are overwhelmingly negative: http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=brogrammer
Re:Be nice to nerds
by khedoros on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:56PM
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That doesn't capture what I think of when someone says "brogrammer". At the very least, I think it also denotes a strong sense of machismo, with a connotation of disrespect for others and boorishness. It's not a positive term, generally speaking.
> “Be nice to nerds. Chances are you may end up working for them,” wrote Charles Sykes, author of the book “50 Rules Kids Won’t Learn in School”, first published in 2007.
I'm not sure why this guy is getting credit for a saying that was a common teacher's refrain when I was still in middle school in the early 90's.
Regardless, nerd (still hate the word, but I'll use it here for the sake of brevity) triumphalism isn't going to help it happen. It feeds a superiority complex and an underdog mentality at the same time...the product of which can be quite cringy at times [0].
Nerds are becoming increasingly important as technology and science become more prevalent in our daily lives, but at the end of the day nerds still can't do it all by themselves. Even companies that are led by nerds still have people who aren't nerds that work for them and keep them alive: PR people, HR managers, financial analysts and accountants, etc. I would argue that the 99th percentile of financial and organizational managers are 1000x more valuable than the 99th percentile 10x engineer. Even the nerdiest of nerd-led ycombinator unicorns would consider themselves extremely lucky to be bought out by Bain Capital or Goldman Saks private equity, or to have 20% of their IPO value swindled from them by an investment bank. These organizations don't give a shit about how the world works, just about how well it makes them money.
Middle managers that shit on nerds are never successful, but nerds that shit on middle managers aren't successful either. If you can't see your position as symbiotic, you are doomed to failure.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by Aelinsaar on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:07PM
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Honestly, the amount of energy that a person can waste on something other than being mutually supportive is staggering. It's generally much better to consider people in more human terms, than "Nerd" or "Manager" in any case.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by s_dev on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @12:45PM
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I agreed with everything in the article and thats why I think it's a poor article.
Hall mark of a good read is being doubtful of the posited headline premise but afterwards being utterly convinced of a new thought or stance.
You could have written this 20 years ago and it would feel just as accurate. I mean the premise is that nerds are trendsetters. The article contains lots of a fun anecdotes but nothing convincing or more importantly new. Exactly what does this article say thats new?
Since Jobs/Gates/Zuckerberg emerged people have looked to nerds to be good candidates for captains of industry.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by serge2k on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @06:08PM
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> presents the “brogrammer” startup culture in all its grit and glory
Not one of the main characters could be described as a Brogrammer.
> Each month at least 70m people play “League of Legends”, a complex multiplayer online game; that is more than play baseball, softball or tennis worldwide.
... soccer?
> The “sharing economy”, exemplified by Lyft and Airbnb, also was originally a nerd thing: they prefer renting to buying stuff.
or we prefer cheap/better. Uber and Lyft are cheaper than a taxi and better. AirBnB means I can rent an apartment instead of a sketchy motel. If anything Zipcar would be a better example, pay to rent a car short term so you don't need to buy one. The whole point seems odd though.
> Brands like Mountain Dew and Doritos have sponsored video-game competitions
and are mocked for it... Drink verification can.
as a nerd I don't really like being lumped in with Dew chugging CoD players or anything to do with LoL. kinda /s
> that feels as awkward to watch as an engineer trying to do stand-up comedy for the first time
Re:Be nice to nerds
by gourou on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @12:23PM
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> As the success of Pokémon Go, an augmented-reality game, shows (see article), there can be big profits in the avant-garde areas where nerds like to experiment
The article doesn't point to the correct page but to a story about Theranos, strange.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by Kluny on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:06PM
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I checked the date on this article assuming it was written in 1998. Nope, July 16, 2016. O-kay. Thought we had moved on, but I guess the Economist hasn't.
> Andreessen Horowitz has invested in various gadgets and products that early adopters have embraced, including a nutrient-rich drinkable meal for engineers too busy to take a break from coding, called Soylent.
What? Does nobody else think that is... messed up?
Re:Be nice to nerds
by mordocai on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @12:47PM
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Soylent? I mean, it isn't really for "engineers too busy to take a break from coding". That's just the way the journalist chose to phrase it (and I found it hilarious as a soylent consumer).
Its basically the same idea as the other "liquid meal replacements" out there. Cheaper than a real meal and nutrient rich with little to no preparation.
I have it for lunch often just because I don't want to bother with making/buying lunch.
Re:Be nice to nerds
by mfoy_ on Wednesday July 20, 2016 @01:04PM
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I assume he means the name... it's basically a reference to Soylent Green and cannibalism. "Soylent" is a portmanteau of "soy" and "lentil", but "Soylent" specifically is most commonly associated with the movie about a similar meal replacement where the secret ingredient was other humans.
Because of that, I literally thought the "Soylent" thing was a joke, I didn't think someone would ACTUALLY try to sell a meal replacement called "Soylent"... it's just... a bit macabre.
To be fair, the name seems to be based on the book Make Room! Make Room!, not the movie (extremely loosely based on the book) Soylent Green. Soylent in the book (also, the forms of soylent other than soylent green in the movie) was not made from people.
On the other hand, the movie probably has more cultural currency than the novel, so its still probably fairly poor branding.
1. Popular or "cool" people. Anyone who is not "book smart".
2. Nerds, geeks, etc. People considered to be smart.
There are people who somehow manage to belong to both sides. But its very clear cut. Everything you do is defined by that. I don't know how it came about, but have noticed that it came to be during the early 20th century. If you look back at media from around after WW2 ended (late 40s and 50s) it starts to become used in movies and television. Popular people are into sports, cars, etc. Nerds are science types.
I experienced both sides in high school. In my experience, the popular side was more concerned in having a good time than anything. They wanted the attention. The nerds were generally better people all around. Nicer when you got to know them. I was a nerd who did sports and somehow ended up in between. But then decided to go full "nerd". The right choice because those friendships have lasted.
Except, really, no.
> 1. Popular or "cool" people. Anyone who is not "book smart".
Except lots of people in this group are book smart, and even recognized as such by their peers in this group. It just isn't seen as dominating who they are.
> 2. Nerds, geeks, etc. People considered to be smart.
I would say that nerds, geeks, etc. as distinct from "popular" are defined more by perceived (from the "popular" perspective) overattachment to niche intellectual pursuits.
There is a very loose correlation with perceived smarts here, but its quite possible to be perceived as geeky/nerdy without being perceived as smart, and vice versa.
Also, you leave out (3) the very wide group of people who are neither particularly popular nor perceived as geeks/nerds.
Except you've missed the word "main".
Also, you leave out (3) the very wide group of people who are neither particularly popular nor perceived as geeks/nerds.
If you live in a sitcom maybe.
American heroes are defined by Hollywood. The #1 trait being - they get the girl. This Darwinistic prerogative of American Individualism has been the defining factor of our hero worship. If you don't fit the description, you are lesser.
Tech is introducing "the ability to change the world" as a competing concept to biological evolution. Thus, we are seeing nerdy entrepreneurs slowly added to the lexicon of hero worship.
Ford Madox Ford quotes a saying from the north of England: When land is gone and money spent/Then learning is most excellent.
The Prince of Hanover who just caused a shakeup in the Gottingen faculty said "Professors, dancing girls, and whores: you can hire them for money anywhere." (Except, as it turned out, when the professors have names like Grimm and Humboldt, maybe you can't.)
No doubt one could multiply the examples. If America is at all a special case, it is probably because things traditionally changed faster here, and yesterday's learning might not apply to today's situation.
There were some great dances performed by both girls and boys, of all ages. Some of the dances were rather "feminine" by the standards I was used to (I'd say ballroom maybe?) and I asked my wife and her mother whether the boys had issues with teasing or bullying. They actually seemed genuinely confused about why dancing would lead to teasing/bullying (their answer of course was no, there was no harassment).
In my rural Australian high school there were a few boys who danced (and numerous girls) and the prevailing attitude seemed to be that "masculine" dancing like break dancing was cool and totally okay while "feminine" dancing like ballet would have you treated like an outcast, teased and bullied.
I'm not sure whether the attitude I encountered in Russia is particular to my wife's region (North Caucasus) or all of Russia but it was quite interesting to see just how different things were.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3xGoBlI_fdg
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OvfU1NpCJQQ
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OpDIEJrog3s
> Really, a geek would actually wear a t-shirt like that?
A techie might. A geek would have something more like "ΓΙΚ".
I'm not going to list any of these because I'm not in most of the in-groups (other than nerd) but if you think about it I'm sure you'll be able to come up with some examples.
But these days, "nerd" means more "socially awkward but really smart", which is neutral to positive from our perspective.
"Brogrammer", on the other hand, to me at least means "male who thinks he's really smart (even if he isn't) and therefore that he can be an offensive jerk to others, especially females". It would bug me a lot if someone thought that was true of me.
Do you have a less inflammatory definition? (I would claim that my definition is true to the current connotation of the word, even if not the current denotation.)
You know, living to party, acting up in boorish ways.
Uhhh, no, chances are you're gonna be working for some MBA or other, alongside the other nerds.
I'm not sure why this guy is getting credit for a saying that was a common teacher's refrain when I was still in middle school in the early 90's.
Regardless, nerd (still hate the word, but I'll use it here for the sake of brevity) triumphalism isn't going to help it happen. It feeds a superiority complex and an underdog mentality at the same time...the product of which can be quite cringy at times [0].
Nerds are becoming increasingly important as technology and science become more prevalent in our daily lives, but at the end of the day nerds still can't do it all by themselves. Even companies that are led by nerds still have people who aren't nerds that work for them and keep them alive: PR people, HR managers, financial analysts and accountants, etc. I would argue that the 99th percentile of financial and organizational managers are 1000x more valuable than the 99th percentile 10x engineer. Even the nerdiest of nerd-led ycombinator unicorns would consider themselves extremely lucky to be bought out by Bain Capital or Goldman Saks private equity, or to have 20% of their IPO value swindled from them by an investment bank. These organizations don't give a shit about how the world works, just about how well it makes them money.
Middle managers that shit on nerds are never successful, but nerds that shit on middle managers aren't successful either. If you can't see your position as symbiotic, you are doomed to failure.
[0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=10238132
Hall mark of a good read is being doubtful of the posited headline premise but afterwards being utterly convinced of a new thought or stance.
You could have written this 20 years ago and it would feel just as accurate. I mean the premise is that nerds are trendsetters. The article contains lots of a fun anecdotes but nothing convincing or more importantly new. Exactly what does this article say thats new?
Since Jobs/Gates/Zuckerberg emerged people have looked to nerds to be good candidates for captains of industry.
Jeez, I'm in the wrong business...
> as awkward to watch as an engineer trying to do stand-up comedy for the first time
See above. I thank you :-D
Not one of the main characters could be described as a Brogrammer.
> Each month at least 70m people play “League of Legends”, a complex multiplayer online game; that is more than play baseball, softball or tennis worldwide.
... soccer?
> The “sharing economy”, exemplified by Lyft and Airbnb, also was originally a nerd thing: they prefer renting to buying stuff.
or we prefer cheap/better. Uber and Lyft are cheaper than a taxi and better. AirBnB means I can rent an apartment instead of a sketchy motel. If anything Zipcar would be a better example, pay to rent a car short term so you don't need to buy one. The whole point seems odd though.
> Brands like Mountain Dew and Doritos have sponsored video-game competitions
and are mocked for it... Drink verification can.
as a nerd I don't really like being lumped in with Dew chugging CoD players or anything to do with LoL. kinda /s
> that feels as awkward to watch as an engineer trying to do stand-up comedy for the first time
because engineers aren't funny right.
The article doesn't point to the correct page but to a story about Theranos, strange.
http://www.economist.com/news/business/21702208-theranoss-fo...
Is this at all true?
What? Does nobody else think that is... messed up?
Its basically the same idea as the other "liquid meal replacements" out there. Cheaper than a real meal and nutrient rich with little to no preparation.
I have it for lunch often just because I don't want to bother with making/buying lunch.
Because of that, I literally thought the "Soylent" thing was a joke, I didn't think someone would ACTUALLY try to sell a meal replacement called "Soylent"... it's just... a bit macabre.
On the other hand, the movie probably has more cultural currency than the novel, so its still probably fairly poor branding.