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Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by intheitmines on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:05AM (#46173036)
A UK doctor friend mentioned they believed a lot of people being prescribed anti-depressants were suffering from "shit life syndrome" rather than real depression. This wasn't to belittle the issues but rather to highlight the issues they maybe facing, which society doesn't deem valuable enough to fix and the GP is one of the only perceived options they have for help.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by only-one1701 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:08AM (#46173052)
This is correct. It’s amazing how easy it is to relax when you don’t feel economic precarity etc.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by carlmr on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:28AM (#46173210)
This is also why I kind of hate it when rich people say that money doesn't make you happy. It's true, it doesn't but if you don't know how to pay for your next meal or worse your kids next meal, or you're sick and can't afford good care, then money does make all the difference.

In mathematical terms money might not be sufficient to make you happy, but it's a necessary condition indeed.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by mettamage on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:42AM (#46173311)
Ah thanks for putting it into the necessary/sufficient vocab. Makes so much more sense to explain it that way.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by only-one1701 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:33AM (#46173243)
Yeah, and like, a nontrivial amount of it tbqh
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by nlawalker on Monday December 08, 2025 @01:03AM (#46188910)
“Having money isn’t everything, not having it is” - Kanye West
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by voisin on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:10AM (#46173070)
It’s almost like we are not optimizing society for human flourishing.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by candiddevmike on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:14AM (#46173102)
We are optimizing society for some human flourishing.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by TimorousBestie on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:20AM (#46173145)
It’s hard to believe that even the billionaires are flourishing.

Musk certainly doesn’t seem to be a poster child for eudaimonia, being allegedly addicted to drugs.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by gtowey on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:25AM (#46173183)
Anyone who makes like 100 million dollars and thinks to themselves "this isn't enough money to stop working and just enjoy life" has something seriously wrong with them. The billionaire class will never be happy, and it's time for society to stop letting these loonies ruin society to satisfy their insanity.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by voisin on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:29AM (#46173214)
I think it is far to keep working if you love what you are doing. To filter, there should be an absolute cap on wealth at a few hundred million dollars. This would eliminate the incentive to manipulate politics in favour of yourself, but if you want to keep working you should be doing it for society via charity or taxes on anything additional that is earned.

Have a nice ceremony and present a medal for winning capitalism.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by krapp on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:35AM (#46173260)
>To filter, there should be an absolute cap on wealth at a few hundred million dollars.

One million dollars and not a penny more. Enough for most people to live comfortably, but not enough to buy governments, or for the upper classes to never need to work again to maintain their lifestyle and privilege.

No human being needs or deserves a hundred million dollars.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by tyami94 on Sunday December 07, 2025 @04:22AM (#46180352)
I agree with you in principle here, but to play devils advocate, $1,000,000 isn't a whole lot of money. A worker will make around that much at $25,000 a year over 40 years. If we have to keep money/capitalism, the limit should probably be around 10-15 million. That's still pretty high, but not egregious. Give or take ~40yrs on a high FAANG salary ($375k/yr). Still firmly upper middle class IMO.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by krapp on Sunday December 07, 2025 @04:56AM (#46180528)
I don't mean earnings over a lifetime or career, but currently. A worker making $25,000 a year will still probably never see a million dollars regardless of the limit. Maybe everything above that is taxed 100%. I don't know.

But the point is kind of to eliminate the upper classes and scale the economy back into the reach of most people. So there would be no FAANG salaries. The cost of everything (healthcare, education, housing) would go down. It would place a hard limit on political influence that isn't too far out of reach of current Congressional salaries and would probably limit pork barrel politics and insider trading as well. It would end inherited wealth and maybe even limit the length of copyright.

That's an admittedly naive and utopian view and I'll admit there are bound to be complexities and externalities I'm not taking into account because I'm not an economist. But it's either that or we seize the means of production and put the rich to the guillotines until the sewers choke on their blood. And then something something luxury space communism.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by whynotmaybe on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:34AM (#46173255)
I know a guy who has a few millions that he earned while being an executive of a startup that was bought.

Some of his friends are disappointed in him because he works as a dev in a huge company and now "sits on his millions".

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by InsideOutSanta on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:33AM (#46173242)
That's the crazy part. The people at the top seem to think they're better off if they can get another billion in the bank, regardless of the impact on the rest of society. But they, too, live in that same society that they are destroying.

They seem to think it's better to be a king in the Middle Ages than just a regular rich person in modern society. They forget that the lives of kings in the Middle Ages were absolutely terrible.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by daymanstep on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:23AM (#46173164)
He can retire whenever he wants.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by Workaccount2 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:29AM (#46173216)
Billionaires are a convenient distraction for the upper middle class.

The wealthiest group of people (on the whole) is the 70-95th percentile.

If we were to have the toppling of "the rich" that brought about meaningful change to the "poor", it would necessarily include the toppling of the ~$200k income households.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by TimorousBestie on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:45AM (#46173323)
Did you perhaps respond to the wrong comment? I didn’t say anything about toppling the rich or whatever.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by hackable_sand on Saturday December 06, 2025 @10:40AM (#46174151)
Not even casually?
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by krapp on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:24AM (#46173171)
The purpose of capitalism is the flourishing of the capitalist classes.

The labor classes only need to be maintained like machines or draft animals, kept just alive and well enough to afford the rent on their lives so they can continue to create value.

The collective reactions to this aren't mental illness, they're trauma responses. Capitalism is accelerating towards its final form and the shock is giving people PTSD.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by vixen99 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:23AM (#46173165)
I'd dispute the 'almost'.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by Workaccount2 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:27AM (#46173203)
There is a persistent and perhaps fundamental problem of balancing self optimization and social optimization.

A group of people are trudging through the desert with limited water arduously pumped from scattered wells. Do you ration water such that everyone gets equal amounts or such that those sweating the most get the most.

Solve this dilemma accounting for the fractal parameters that go into it, and you'll have a utopia.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by r0ckarong on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:39AM (#46173286)
More like most people are dragging a cruise ship through a desert while being baited with the possible opportunity to belong to those enjoying the endless buffets and on-board water park.

This whole "should we ration so everybody gets some" is complete BS. There is an abundance of resources that are concentrated to a few and the rest made to suffer. We don't have to ration, we have to prevent the greedy from hogging it all. It's quite the opposite.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by lo_zamoyski on Saturday December 06, 2025 @09:22AM (#46173567)
> balancing self optimization and social optimization

A person in a society has a right to the minimum of essential ordinary resources (food, shelter, clothing) to function as a general matter. (We have a right to pursue other goods, and in some cases a right to them once had, but we cannot say we have a right to them per se and before the fact. We have to be careful to distinguish between the two, as undisciplined and entitled people consumed by appetite tend to be unprincipled and like to inflate the list of “essentials” in self-serving ways. There’s certainly a pathology of envy at work as well, and we should in no way naturalize envy.)

In a situation of scarcity where there isn’t enough for everyone (which does not apply to the developed world), there is no solution that could satisfy that right universally. There is therefore no injustice committed when such basic resources are not distributed accordingly. Whoever gets their share gets it; whoever doesn’t simply doesn’t. You would expect competition here. Now, you could be charitable and self-sacrificial and give up your own share for another, but you have no such obligation to do so, and thus no one has the right to your share. Such charity would be an extraordinary act that transcends mere justice. It is entirely voluntary, even if heroic.

> and you'll have a utopia

Well no, you wouldn’t. This is the fallacy of consumerism and homo economicus. Even if everyone were rich, you would still have plenty of misery. The idea that human well-being is rooted in mere consumption - full stop - is at the root of so many ills. There is no well-being without virtue.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by ath3nd on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:30AM (#46173226)
> Solve this dilemma accounting for the fractal parameters that go into it, and you'll have a utopia.

Progressive tax on income

Progressive wealth tax

Universal basic income

Universal healthcare

Housing as a human right

Done

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by Workaccount2 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @10:06AM (#46173868)
Then who pumps the well?
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by voisin on Monday December 08, 2025 @07:13AM (#46191359)
Progressive taxes just mean that at the highest levels more income is going to redistribution. At all other levels there is still incentive to work.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by rixed on Monday December 08, 2025 @11:58AM (#46194667)
Funny how the choice of an analogy can set bounds to the set of accepted solutions.

Instead of trudging through the desert, or escaping a sinking ship, or surviving in a dog eat dog jungle, I prefer to compare modern society with a large boarding house, where every one has to cooperate a bit to make it work reasonably well.

A poltical philosopher from the XXth century once wrote: "At the end of the day, all we are trying to achieve is a basic level of decency, for which all that's required from citizens is the simple politeness commonly found in any boarding house."

Maybe it's not an optimization problem?

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by gtowey on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:21AM (#46173150)
Life is so insane right now that mental illness is the only rational response.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by InsideOutSanta on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:30AM (#46173225)
Yeah, I think it's very easy to say that "life being stressful is not an illness." In reality, life is often stressful in ways that can very much lead to mental illness, particularly in a society that drastically values corporate success over human well-being.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by lostmsu on Saturday December 06, 2025 @10:58AM (#46174297)
Do you have any data to back that up?
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by Esophagus4 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @03:45PM (#46176463)
This seems like a bad faith comment.

If you truly wanted data, you could so easily Google (as I did), and find the below sources that back up the comment you're responding to. There are myriad papers and sources.

But I think your comment doesn't seek insight so much as it seeks to discredit and dismiss... in, frankly, a pretty lazy attempt. If you're going to be dismissive, put some effort in, man! ;)

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC10710064/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5976254/

https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC5137920/

https://news.berkeley.edu/2014/02/11/chronic-stress-predispo...

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by lostmsu on Saturday December 06, 2025 @03:59PM (#46176551)
Discredit and dismiss is a valid insight. For instance, your first link does not provide any data either. I didn't check the others, because from that it is obvious you had no reliable source in mind when you made your claim. You also didn't bother to check if the ones you linked actually supported it.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by Esophagus4 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @04:09PM (#46176609)
I only regret that I have but one downvote to give.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by chneu on Saturday December 06, 2025 @10:10AM (#46173896)
Hard disagree. I think we're convinced life is way harder than it is.

Life is fucking easy. One push ordering for almost anything. Cushy houses with hvac.

We make life hard by buying into the narrative that it's hard and we're all helpless. This cheats us out of our development and ability to handle real conflict.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by gtowey on Saturday December 06, 2025 @02:27PM (#46175940)
Have you asked your DoorDash or Uber driver how they feel about their future? How about the Amazon warehouse workers and UPS drivers who deliver a mountain of cheap imported goods to your door. Or maybe ask the Walmart cashier if thier current and future projects in life give them a warm fuzzy feeling.

This easy life you describe requires mountains of people to support it, who themselves are mostly being crushed by it.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by alchemist1e9 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @02:45PM (#46176062)
I haven’t come across those profiles of people talking about being miserable but somehow I have heard many entitled upper middle class white women claiming those people are miserable. Actually the blue collar males I know are mostly happy people! And the delivery workers I interact with often smile quiet a bit.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by array_key_first on Saturday December 06, 2025 @11:46PM (#46179211)
I mean, you can be happy and then not be able to retire.

Also a lot of low-paying jobs are customer service in some way. Smiling is sort of a prerequisite for getting paid.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by wenc on Saturday December 06, 2025 @03:14PM (#46176274)
Not Doordash, but I often ask my Lyft drivers.

Like for anything in life, it depends on the market you're in, and where you are situated on the acumen distribution (low acumen drivers don't make a lot, while high acumen ones do). Narrative thinking likes cherry picking the worst cases and then representing those stories as normal. But reality is always a bit more complicated.

Many Lyft drivers are immigrants, either between jobs, or are doing it full time. I don't directly ask them how much they make, but I tell them in my homeland of Canada, if you're on welfare and disability, you make CAD$x and it's good enough money for a single person. Most Lyft drivers are like: "that's way, way less than what I make doing this." (some tell me they make US$3-4k/month, working 6 day weeks. This might sound like too little, but realize that not all COL is the same, and for an immigrant, this is a great gig with optionality -- you can always turn off the app).

Then you might say, oh, they're blind to the depreciation hit their cars are taking. But good, high acumen, Lyft drivers often drive second-hand Priuses which depreciate slowly and have great mileage, and they track expenses like a hawk. If you go to the Lyft subreddit, good drivers know all the tricks -- optimize for high yield windows, avoid dead miles, avoid blind quests, and the cap hours deliberately. It's the ones with less acumen that drive a new car with low MPG on financing, and don't optimize.

So don't generalize and catastrophize (catastrophizing amplifies depression -- in cognitive behavioral therapy, they teach you to guard against that). Just stop it. Everything in life is a distribution.

I'm not saying driving a Lyft is aspirational, but for some immigrants who are doing it to support their family, it's a less-bad option than many others.

I even had a few drivers pushing me to get married (I'm single) because they said, once they get home from a day of driving, they get to go back to family. "It's less lonely," they tell me. In some ways they're happier than I am, even though I make nominally more than them.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by gtowey on Monday December 08, 2025 @04:01PM (#46197610)
> Just stop it.

Has this approach of ordering people to feel or think a certain way ever actually worked for you? Do you think this is a good way to have a respectful discussion with someone?

> some tell me they make US$3-4k/month

So let's run with that number, say 3.5k/month average. That's $42,000/year: They're independent contractors, so they have independent employment tax which is about 2x of standard w-2 taxes. A quick online calculator tells me that would amount to 8,370.90 in my state. The lions share is federal medicare and social security tax though; state tax on this is practically nothing here.

* They must have a car. Quick search says a 2024 prius is around $25k. Monthly payments at 9.6% (prime rate for a used car, all new immigrants start out with perfect credit, right?) at 60 months is around $550. Let's say insurance is $100. Ignore fuel and maintenance for now.

* So now we have 2800/month after taxes and 650/month just to work. The remaining 2150 needs to cover everything else. Food, housing, utilities.

* This doesn't even consider health insurance. Let's hope they qualify for a subsidized plan, because they sure can't cover it on this income. I guess they have the "don't get sick" plan that's so popular these days.

Oh and all this for working 6 days a week. Which if that's the case they're not clocking 8 hours days. Even conservatively you should assume that's 10 hours a day.

And on top of all that you said they're supporting a family?! So 3 or 4 people on 2150/month?

All that so they can work 60 hour weeks, barely see their wife and kids, and be one accident or medical emergency away from total financial ruin.

But you're right, they're rich in spirit and after all, isn't that what really matters? They really do have it so much better than you.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by bradlys on Saturday December 06, 2025 @03:58PM (#46176548)
I make $400k/yr at faang, I don’t have a cushy house with hvac. My house doesn’t even have insulation. I can’t even park on the street in the city I’m residing in because it’s illegal.

Imagine how much worse it is for people who don’t make as much as I do.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by alchemist1e9 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:51AM (#46173361)
Global poverty at 100-year lows, US murder rate half the 90s, you’re more likely to die from obesity than starvation or violence. Objectively the cushiest moment in human history.

Yet “mental illness is the only rational response.”

Happiness = Reality − Expectations

Most of material Reality is fine. The part of Reality that’s broken is spiritual/emotional. The expectations causing unhappiness aren’t for more money or stuff, they’re subconscious, millions of years deep, baked into the species of tribe, offspring, transcendence, cosmic order.

Leftism spent half a century screaming that those instincts are bigotry, that family is oppression, that religion is a mental illness, that wanting roots or rituals or a legacy is fascism.

You can’t propagandize the human soul out of its own operating system. The subconscious still demands what it demanded in 200,000 BC. We just demolished every institution that used to answer the call and replaced them with therapy, porn, and corporate pride slogans.

That’s the real insanity. Not climate change or late-stage capitalism. The soul shows up for duty and the building’s condemned.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by baubino on Saturday December 06, 2025 @09:07AM (#46173471)
> Global poverty at 100-year lows, US murder rate half the 90s, you’re more likely to die from obesity than starvation or violence. Objectively the cushiest moment in human history.

Averages are just that - averages. They say nothing about any given individual’s experience. And probabilities aren’t assurances of a particular outcome. Just because the average person is more likely to face obesity than starvation doesn’t mean that there aren’t millions of people facing starvation in the world. Your argument is based on an incorrect use of statistics.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by alchemist1e9 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @11:20AM (#46174471)
We can use deciles and the story is the same. I was just keeping it simple and my use of statistics for my point is fine.

The bottom decile in all western countries has a objectively better material conditions yet I don’t dispute they may feel less “Happiness” which the formula explains and if you drill into the components of Reality which are causing the unhappiness and it’s absolutely non-material as I explained.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by baal80spam on Saturday December 06, 2025 @10:25AM (#46174022)
Very well said, thank you for this. I would add though, that money (or lack thereof) causes unhapiness as well, because people want to live how "they" live on Instagram, and they can't.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by alchemist1e9 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @11:21AM (#46174484)
Instagram moved expectations up significantly for a large portion of global populations so yes what you say is absolutely true but isn’t the Reality part but the Expectations part of the Happiness formula.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by heddelt on Saturday December 06, 2025 @09:05AM (#46173459)
Very well said. It's little wonder that nationalism and fascism are on the rise. Nature is healing.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by mvdtnz on Saturday December 06, 2025 @01:43PM (#46175574)
We live in perhaps the most peaceful and prosperous moment in all of human history. You most likely live in one of the top 5 wealthiest nations in the world (probably the top one).
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by throwaway-11-1 on Saturday December 06, 2025 @05:31PM (#46177171)
I keep hearing this from people who love charts but in the US I see the rate of homelessness rapidly increasing, more people ending up in medical debt, and groups of poorly trained militarized thugs storming neighborhoods to disappear people without trial. So yeah, Bezos and Zuckerberg are putting up great numbers but it's kind of crazy to paint prosperity and peace with such a large brush. It my travels it seems that a lot of less wealthy nations have a better quality of life despite the numbers
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by mvdtnz on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:39PM (#46178435)
The poverty rate in USA is consistently in decline for several decades. Also, when I say "we" I don't mean America. I mean all of us.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by tyami94 on Sunday December 07, 2025 @04:14AM (#46180318)
That's because the data is inherently flawed. The poverty line this year is $15,650 for an individual. That's not poverty, that's destitution. From personal experience, living in WV, you cannot survive on that amount of money without either sleeping under a bridge/in a car or dumpster-diving/shoplifting all of your meals.

Folks say just get on food stamps or medicaid, but it's not that simple. At that level of destitution you may not have a phone, an address, basic ID/documentation, or even a means of getting to the office to apply. Means-testing makes the process so drawn-out and convoluted, that many folks (including myself) don't even bother, because there are more immediate things to worry about (once again speaking from experience).

After years of destitution, I finally managed to make a bit more than twice the FPL and I was still struggling (but significantly better off). Just recently I lost that job for reasons outside my control and after my unemployment runs out I'm back where I started. Everyone I know has a similar story. Any data that says that poverty is decreasing in the US is detached from reality.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by gtowey on Monday December 08, 2025 @03:32PM (#46197257)
Thanks for your story and I'm sorry it's been such a struggle to stay on your feet. I agree that too many people never make it outside of their social and economic bubble and never bother to see what reality is like for most Americans.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by echelon_musk on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:37AM (#46173273)
It's just common sense that things would not be geared toward the patient's best outcome.

It's easier (read: cheaper) for the broken NHS and cash strapped government to shovel pills than it is to get someone to revamp their life.

Imagine the alternative cost of talking therapies for the NHS. There are three year waiting lists for them already.

Depression usually occurs for a causal reason, it just may not have been found for the individual yet. It could be poor diet, lack of exercise, excessive escapism as a response to unprocessed trauma etc. Ultimately though these causes require the patient to exert effort toward improving their life, and so they have to have willpower and motivation.

Thankfully exercise can now be prescribed by doctors in the UK!

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by robocat on Saturday December 06, 2025 @07:36PM (#46178104)
> exercise can now be prescribed by doctors in the UK

https://www.theguardian.com/society/2022/aug/22/gps-to-presc...

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by techblueberry on Saturday December 06, 2025 @08:39AM (#46173285)
I feel like there’s a balance between —- a thing that really helped me in life was seeing a therapist in my early twenties who really validated a lot of my struggles and take them seriously. But also, kept me from going to far in the other direction of wallowing or being driven by a label.

Part of the problem is the medical system doesn’t have great language around this, I think in America in order for insurance to pay for therapy there has to be diagnosis. My therapists solution to that was to provide a diagnosis but we didn’t really lean into it, he just explained that’s the process.

But the language around diagnosis unfortunately has implicitly power. We probably should talk about mental illness much less that way.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by lostmsu on Saturday December 06, 2025 @11:04AM (#46174337)
You've probably wasted money that could have went to cancer research. And borderline admitted fraud as well.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by cocainemonster on Saturday December 06, 2025 @11:30AM (#46174550)
won't someone think of the insurance companies?
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by array_key_first on Saturday December 06, 2025 @11:48PM (#46179222)
The sheer level of aggressive bootlicking I occasionally run into on hackernews is mind-boggling.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by lostmsu on Monday December 08, 2025 @07:45AM (#46191588)
Do you understand the consequences of insurance companies or government paying for something that does not need medical intervention en masse? Where do you think they get money to do that?
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by techblueberry on Saturday December 06, 2025 @12:47PM (#46175156)
Where’s the fraud? I had the listed condition, but even physical diagnosis don’t have to define you.

I’m plenty capable of policing my own moral failings thank you very much.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by dwaltrip on Sunday December 07, 2025 @11:06PM (#46188181)
Holy shit man. Get your gears check, they are grinding hard.
Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by dang on Sunday December 07, 2025 @11:12PM (#46188214)
You've broken the site guidelines repeatedly in this thread and others lately. Crossing into personal attack is particularly unwelcome.

We ban accounts that post like this, and we've asked you more than once before, so that's not good. If you'd please review https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html and stick to the rules, we'd be grateful.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by lostmsu on Monday December 08, 2025 @09:35AM (#46192678)
I agree, that I post a lot of snarky replies and that is generally against the rules. But in this case what was the rule I broken?

The parent says that they themselves had reservations about having a diagnosis associated with whatever problem they had. I merely pointed out the negative side of the coin ("wasted money") if over diagnosis is the case here (which considering the recent threads on the topic and author's own previous doubt seemed probable to me). I mentioned the author ("you") as the responsible party, because that's what needs to be considered. Otherwise it is easy to defer blame to "the system" and absolve oneselfs from personal responsibility.

Re:'Life being stressful is not an illness' – GPs on mental ... by dang on Monday December 08, 2025 @04:49PM (#46198120)
There are a bunch of guidelines you broke there. If you want an example, how about ""Have curious conversation; don't cross-examine."" or this one: "Please respond to the strongest plausible interpretation of what someone says, not a weaker one that's easier to criticize. Assume good faith."

More importantly, though, is a spirit-of-the-law place, not a letter-of-the-law place, so if you're asking for specific rule citations about a comment which obviously was not in the intended spirit of the site, we're already off track a bit.