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Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @03:34AM (#41877129)
I don’t find their argument that you can “reject having a narrative” very convincing. Human beings exist embedded in society, and to handwave that away in favor of “perspectives” just results in you adopting a different narrative, the “I reject narratives” one. Which is ultimately why existentialism never really went anywhere.

Instead I think the problem is actually the exact opposite: people don’t embrace stories enough. Modernity is accurately described as a place without any coherent sort of arch-story for society and local-story for individuals and places. To use the concept by Deleuze, everything has been too “deterritorialized.” We’d all probably be happier with a solid narrative underlying our senses of self and society.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by corimaith on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:07AM (#41877307)
Humans desire narratives to understand the world, but the world is too complex to be captured into reality.

Those arch-theories already exist in the theories like Dialectical Materialism, or worse, Fascism, and with terrible consequences once they confronted reality.

The circumstantial perspective of (Liberal Western) Modernism & Postmodernism may have it's flaws, but it has offered more practical results in policymaking than not.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:15AM (#41877344)
I’d describe those things (along with most traditional worldviews) as failed attempts to encapsulate reality into an over simplified story. But just because they failed and had bad consequences doesn’t mean that the attempt itself is misguided or impossible. Otherwise, the alternative seems to be an endlessly growing malaise, which isn’t much of a solution either.

In fact, I think the lack of such an attempt to make a coherent story is what draws people to the over simplified ones in the first place.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by MichaelZuo on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:27AM (#41877392)
How do you know they weren’t ‘attempts to make a coherent story’ that turned destructive?
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:30AM (#41877409)
I don’t, but what is your alternative suggestion? What important things don’t also have the potential to end badly?

Unless your position is a kind of Daoist quietism, I’m not sure what you are suggesting instead.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by MichaelZuo on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:35AM (#41877427)
Why do you believe such alternative suggestions exist?

Maybe there aren’t any such that are risk free. So you have to evaluate both the potential upsides and downsides to see if it’s a net positive and worthwhile risk to take.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:41AM (#41877460)
Then I'm really not sure what exactly you are arguing for or against. The act of making a story that attempts to give meaning to human life and society? How would you evaluate that for potential upsides and downsides, and what are you comparing it against?
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by lupire on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:09AM (#41877602)
Why is "story", which is known to be an accurate model, the preferred model? Why not non-linear dynamical system, epigram, clerihew, or haiku?
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:17AM (#41877643)
Probably because most of those don't line up with how humans experience the world. Storytelling has a long history in the human experience, while haiku or epigrams aren't really the sort of thing one can "wrap" a life around.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by nvegater on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:58AM (#41877821)
Humans experience the world as a story, but that is not necessarily the most human way to wrap a life around as you are implying. In some cases there are more powerful frameworks. For example Hitler is wrapped (by most of the world at least) around the damage and pain he caused not around his story. Stories are mostly fine, but thinking that we should strive for that to being the main perspective is limiting.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by piva00 on Friday October 18, 2024 @07:29AM (#41878376)
> For example Hitler is wrapped (by most of the world at least) around the damage and pain he caused not around his story.

Isn't this exactly part of Hitler's story though? I think I'm misunderstanding what your concept of "story" means.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by MichaelZuo on Friday October 18, 2024 @06:00AM (#41877826)
I never said anyone had good prospects to complete such an evaluation in a single lifetime… in fact it’s very unlikely to happen.

But without that it’s hard to see how such proposals have any merit at all, considering the historical track record.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by tristor on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:00PM (#41883445)
> Then I'm really not sure what exactly you are arguing for or against.

If it helps, neither do they. Given that they are already suggesting Postmodernism provides a valuable philosophical and analytic view to understand the world, it's pretty clear that they've given up on any concept of defining a pathway, outcome, or objective.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by watwut on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:39AM (#41877451)
Both communism and nazism provided simplified narrative stories.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:42AM (#41877470)
Yes, that's why I called them "failed attempts to encapsulate reality into an over simplified story."
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by professor_x on Friday October 18, 2024 @07:35AM (#41878412)
This sounds like a non true scotsman. If large societies buying into a story doesn’t qualify it as a success, what does? M
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @09:02AM (#41879053)
Why would that be the qualification for success? I didn’t write that “everyone believing it” was the marker of success, so I don’t know why that would be relevant.

In another comment thread, I wrote that a story is needed which combines accurate scientific information with a human purpose in the world. Those examples quite obviously didn’t have scientific views of the world.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by watwut on Saturday October 19, 2024 @03:37AM (#41886286)
By that standard, successful societies are the ones without a story. While the ones with story are autocratic and dictatorships.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by goatlover on Friday October 18, 2024 @03:45PM (#41882819)
Those societies not being failures as a result. They both fail to properly understand politics and economics. Also sociology.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by bossyTeacher on Saturday October 19, 2024 @03:41PM (#41890175)
By that token, every attempt to encapsulate reality into a simplified story is successful until it fails. Not a very useful thing to bring to the table
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by anthk on Saturday October 19, 2024 @03:52AM (#41886349)
Any movement. Communism, nazism, capitalism and religions.

Any extremist political '-ism' has thousands of murders in his belt.

The best goverments are the centered ones, the ones which gave both individual and social rights.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by Nasrudith on Saturday October 19, 2024 @10:13PM (#41892384)
Narratives are unfortunately intrinsically very good tools for sociopaths to manipulate people. That makes them an attractive nuisance for sociopaths to gain at very best, just like how large piles of uninvested money serves as an attractive nuisance for thieves. Judged more harshly, narratives are a tool whose purpose is the promotion of delusion.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by ximm on Saturday October 19, 2024 @01:44AM (#41885879)
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Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by hshshshshsh on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:03AM (#41877289)
> We’d all probably be happier with a solid narrative underlying our senses of self and society.

Sure. You would also be much happier taking drugs all day.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by nuancebydefault on Friday October 18, 2024 @03:46PM (#41882827)
Indeed, a solid narrative is dangerous. Consider a 'solid' narrative that seems fine at first sight: you tell yourself constantly that you are happy to just be able to be here, and that you are whole with the world. It would somehow feel very liberating to you, but at the same time having the danger of not trying one's best, of not taking care of self and others. Exactly the effect of drugs.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by hshshshshsh on Saturday October 19, 2024 @05:29AM (#41886713)
Agree with blindly following narrative idea

But I think the example is bad. If you actually experientially know you are whole with the world, I think it would push your limits and take care of others even better.

People don't tend to take care of others because of the idea of separation between you and me. It's the cause of all wars. People tend to do things good for themselves or who look like themselves.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by nuancebydefault on Saturday October 19, 2024 @01:09PM (#41889016)
True.

I was more thinking about an exaggerated example, people who simply convince themselfs that they are happy (LSD-like happy), it will not advance others and also not themselves in the long run.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by watwut on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:15AM (#41877348)
This is how autocracies are appealing, initially. You replace reality by one narrative and it all feels good, at least if you are among those favored by the choose narrative.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by madaxe_again on Friday October 18, 2024 @03:45AM (#41877179)
You touch on something interesting there - a lack of a solid, consistent narrative, such as the Cold War, leaves a vacuum into which incoherent and disparate tales grow, as people seek a new bulk narrative to explain their world. Instead of a largely coherent narrative across societies, one ends up with numerous, usually conflicting, narratives.

Maybe we just need to accept that our narrative is more James Joyce and Marcel Proust than it is Michael Crichton.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @03:55AM (#41877235)
I actually think that it's much deeper of a problem than the lack of a geopolitical situation like the Cold War, and instead goes all the way back to Copernicus and Darwin. While these discoveries (that humans aren't the center of the universe and weren't created in a supreme being's image, but are evolved from animals) were good from a scientific truth perspective, I think they had a negative malaise effect on human psychology – if only because the previous narratives were thrown out without a sufficiently meaningful one to replace it. And so yeah, you just get a variety of localized, incoherent narratives arising in this vacuum of meaning.

The answer that is really needed IMO is a way of squaring contemporary scientific knowledge with a story that still centers humanity in the universe and offers a better worldview than "you're a primate lost in space."

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by psychoslave on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:39AM (#41877450)
You can find sarcastic discourses about whoever think anthropocentric is a sane point of view that go back as far as we have any philosophical account. Take Xenophane’s Satire for example

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Xenophanes#Satires

Copernicus and Darwin didn’t change much things on that side.

I wholly disagree with your later point though. Knowing that we are only primate lost in space, that civilizations and even our whole species could totally disappear tomorrow without any deity to help, save, rescue, blame or give congrats is actually a far more appealing scenario in term of being challenged to excel. Compare that with "you are full first class member of that special species that the most perfect imaginable being ever created and whatever you do you’ll be granted salvation and experiment an eternal existence in paradise".

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:48AM (#41877505)
"you are full first class member of that special species that the most perfect imaginable being ever created and whatever you do you’ll be granted salvation and experiment an eternal existence in paradise".

That's really not an accurate description of the role religion has played in human psychology, and is only accurate for a very specific subset of beliefs in a specific time and place.

My argument was more that humans thought of themselves as inhabiting a world designed for them, but then learned that this was (likely) not true, and that for many people this is a pessimistic, nihilistic conclusion.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by RandomLensman on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:08AM (#41877597)
Not all religions/belief systems have/had the world (just) designed for humans. People can "cope" with other views.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:12AM (#41877621)
Definitely true, but:

- I'm talking primarily about the Western world and its legacy of Christianity. The situation is different in India, China, etc.

- Even then, in practice, most successful religions tend to have a human-like personal figure in an important place, even if the religion itself is technically non-personal.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by soco on Friday October 18, 2024 @07:12AM (#41878296)
If the point is about "humanity" and how the world cannot have non-human goals, then rejecting the inconvenient religions (oriental, animistic, whatever) is definitely not a convincing argument. Those are just as humans, and don't explain the world in the convenient western way. So yes, we can very well live in a world not designed for humans.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @09:01AM (#41879041)
The point is about Western society and its progression, not “humans” in general. So yes, one route may to be create a belief system more similar to animist or other religions. But that is itself a tall order.

A lot of this has to do with the Enlightenment project and disenchantment so it’s already largely focused on the Western world to begin with. Other places have less a history with this.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by FearNotDaniel on Saturday October 19, 2024 @08:06AM (#41887351)
All I can suggest is, if you really want to take a scientific approach to all this, you may want to start by finding out what Christianity actually teaches, rather than the garbled third-hand nonsense you've quoted above, which bears no resemblance to anything taught by a mainstream Christian denomination at least since the Council of Nicaea. I'll admit it's not easy to figure out, especially when some churches like to continue arguing with others about some of the details, and also when "just read the Bible" really doesn't help because it's hard to make sense of on its own (sorry, Luther, but sola scriptura never really stood up, otherwise all the preachers would be out of a job). It takes time and patience to really understand what claims Christianity makes on your life and on the world. Welcome to theology, it's not science, but it still requires critical thinking, intelligence and a sensitivity to nuance.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Friday October 18, 2024 @01:51PM (#41881802)
mankind has been created to carry forward an ever advancing civilization

that's what i go by. the goal is for each individual and for humanity as a whole to better themselves during their life on earth and how they will experience their eternal existence depends on how well they do on earth. plenty of motivation for me, and better than the idea that after i die there is nothing and therefore what i do in my life doesn't really matter.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by nuancebydefault on Friday October 18, 2024 @03:58PM (#41882926)
> mankind has been created to...

That's a narrative from a certain perspective. Let's advocate for different perspectives, like the article does.

I'm perfectly fine with the Darwinistic idea that mankind has evolved from something very primitive rather than created for a purpose.

The declaration of basic human rights is a narrative that humans deem good. But they are still human inventions, no superior creator needs to be involved to have something deemed good for everyone.

We are here, that is a fact. Why or how is a mystery. You can build narratives around that but in fact they are not necessary. I would say, let's just make the best of our existence by trying to not make other beings miserable.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Friday October 18, 2024 @06:33PM (#41884091)
You can build narratives around that but in fact they are not necessary

well, that is the question. that narrative may not be necessary for you, but it is for me and for many others.

what do you think will be more successful/sustainable? convincing everyone that we don't need a narrative or adopt a narrative that is beneficial for all?

your idea of making the best of our existence by trying to not make other beings miserable is a good one. and it is compatible with advancing civilization. so why don't we focus on working together to achieve those goals (and other related goals like peace, elimination of poverty, justice, clean environment, etc) instead of arguing whether we need a narrative or not?

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by psychoslave on Saturday October 19, 2024 @02:40AM (#41886083)
> well, that is the question. that narrative may not be necessary for you, but it is for me and for many others.

Being convinced that we need something is not the same as something being necessary for us. There are all sort of human endeavor out there whose main goal is to convince us we need something, be it some consumer commodity, some skill, or some divinity. Most often than not, people who conduct these propaganda campaigns are themselves convince that it's relevant to do it for some of their aspiration to become a reality, be it something they expose in what they communicate openly or some more or less hidden agenda.

The topic is not that much about are narratives a necessity, but what they lead to. If they lead to people wanting to give only love and respect to other as much as for themselves, that sounds great, and who would complain, really? If they lead to "we the camp of the good vs the heretics evil others that must be destroyed whatever the means", that's an entirely different concern.

When we think "advancing civilization", we are actually stashing the real issue that is that there is not "a single narrative about a single civilization".

It makes as much sense to ask whether we need narratives as to ask whether we need tools. Stories can glorify the gun holder or the people who learnt how and when to use first aid kits.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Saturday October 19, 2024 @06:03AM (#41886864)
Being convinced that we need something is not the same as something being necessary for us

of course it isn't. all i am saying is that arguing about that difference is not helpful.

whose main goal is to convince us we need something

which is no different than trying to convince us that we don't need a narrative.

this is the problem i have with dominant religions today. to much focus on the narrative itself. not enough focus on using the narrative to solve actual problems. narratives are being treated as if they are the solutions in themselves, as if only believing the narrative will solve our problems automatically.

instead of pushing a narrative, what we really need is to adress the problems humanity is facing today. i'll use a narrative for those that need it, if it helps them to understand why certain problems need to be solved, but for those that don't need a narrative to do that, i won't. i don't care about people believing the narrative, i care about them solving problems.

The topic is not that much about are narratives a necessity, but what they lead to

true. the actual narrative needs to be carefully chosen. not all narratives are good, and bad narratives do need to be replaced. but again, it is easier to come up with a better narrative than to convince someone that the narrative is not needed.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by nuancebydefault on Saturday October 19, 2024 @01:04PM (#41888985)
After reading all above, i am convinced that the three of us are saying the same. The only difference is our definition of 'narrative', a term pksitioned somewhere on the long gray area between religion and a suggestion.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Sunday October 20, 2024 @07:35PM (#41899428)
ones personal suggestion could be someone else's religious mandate. that's part of the thing with stories. everyone is free to take them as serious as they like. for good and for bad. we all know the cases where someone takes a particular story to serious and goes overboard trying to live by it.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by 1propionyl on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:43AM (#41877475)
> a story that still centers humanity in the universe and offers a better worldview than "you're a primate lost in space."

The fact of being a self-aware meta-cognitive primate lost in space isn't enough of a miracle to justify feeling centered in the universe?

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:49AM (#41877510)
It might be, but I don't think culture at large finds this story very inspirational.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by hshshshshsh on Friday October 18, 2024 @07:47AM (#41878486)
Culture is the problem. Remove the dead beliefs. Replace it with something alive. Live from awareness.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by yldedly on Friday October 18, 2024 @11:52PM (#41885521)
Why do you think that is? Is this narrative too complicated, or too different from the sort of myths that we naturally tend to create?

I wonder whether it'd be possible to make the story more inspirational by telling it in more accessible ways.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Saturday October 19, 2024 @01:22AM (#41885817)
Hard to say. It might be simply a supply problem- most movies, books etc. don’t really promote this vision of humanity’s place in the world, so it indeed might be a question of accessibility. Historically, belief systems definitely had a wide range of “content” aimed at different levels of society.

But there also seems to be a real interest in “spiritual” needs, whatever that might mean in particular. And so a purely scientific approach may not be enough in the first place.

Personally I think it may be too much of a past-focused narrative to be very compelling. Most successful religions have a vision of the future, not merely the past.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by yldedly on Saturday October 19, 2024 @11:02AM (#41888177)
Do have some proposal for a narrative that could work?
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Monday October 21, 2024 @11:15AM (#41905086)
Big question, and one worthy of a book-length treatment.

One starting point might be what I wrote in a comment here:

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41358528

So a proposal might be: construct a narrative that defeats these two biases in a convincing way:

But there are two very human biases on display here: the idea that occupying large amounts of physical space is indicative of "importance"; and that things which exist for long durations of time are inherently more valuable. These are human biases and there any many examples in nature of the exact opposite being true.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Monday October 21, 2024 @05:46PM (#41908852)
why do these biases need to be defeated?

are they getting in the way of finding a middle ground between being lost in space and being the center of the universe? do we need to find a middle ground?

in my opinion a compelling narrative primarily needs to address the problems humanity is facing today: poverty and wealth, climate change, gender equality, war and conflict, disagreement of religion, racism and prejudice, injustice...

i think to address these, it doesn't matter much whether we are lost in space or the center of the universe

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by madaxe_again on Saturday October 19, 2024 @06:47AM (#41887058)
It isn’t a comforting story. It doesn’t give meaning or explanation. People imagine themselves as a tiny ape on a giant rock hurtling through the void and shiver at the nihilistic vision.

Now, being made by a magic man who will welcome you to his magic wonderful home after this short, nasty, brutish life? There’s a comforting story.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by yldedly on Saturday October 19, 2024 @08:18AM (#41887379)
It's not a comforting story, but I think it can provide meaning. It does for me at least. While we are not gods, we are different from all other animals - we are where "the fallen angel meets the rising ape" as Terry Pratchett wrote.

While we might not have free will in an absolute, metaphysical sense, we can self-reflect, practice self-control, shape our environment, and even change our nature. What will we do with this power?

There is no eternal afterlife to go to, but we now understand what actual life is - and it's no longer so nasty and brutish. Perhaps soon it won't be so short either. We are certainly capable of extending it in principle, we just need to get our shit together.

Comforting stories are cozy, but we are growing up. We've become smart enough to cause a whole lot of trouble for ourselves, and are not yet wise enough to fix it. We're confused, can't make sense of things and constantly whine about it. But that's how growth works. Humanity might just be in its awkward emo teenage phase.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Friday October 18, 2024 @01:42PM (#41881732)
The answer that is really needed IMO is a way of squaring contemporary scientific knowledge with a story that still centers humanity in the universe

i agree. science and religion need to be in harmony and not contradict each other. if there is an apparent contradiction we need to open to the possibility that we are either misinterpreting the religious claim or that the scientific findings need further research or even both.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by vlz on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:40AM (#41877455)
The author answers the inability to escape all narratives with the ability to constantly change perspectives. From the article:

> We might never fully escape the narratives that surround us, but we can learn to change the perspectives behind them. And so, we are never bound by stories, only by our ability to understand how our beliefs and values shape the way we perceive and engage with the world. We don’t need better narratives; we need to expand and refine our perspectives.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by Dalewyn on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:27AM (#41877683)
>We’d all probably be happier with a solid narrative underlying our senses of self and society.

Religion, at its most fundamental core, is about providing a set of guidelines and contexts with which to make sense of life and the world around us so we can spend less time bickering and worrying about things that we ultimately can't do anything about.

I feel the mad rush to reject and remove religion from society in the 20th century onwards has caused significant damage that we should address. It's not like religion is gone either, we've simply found impromptu replacements that are inferior and repeat a lot of problems religion dealt with already (eg: politics, "science", fanboyism, etc.).

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Friday October 18, 2024 @01:16PM (#41881452)
religion needs to evolve and grow with the development of humanity. the currently dominating religions are no longer capable of addressing all the needs of our global society, which is why they are losing ground. but instead of finding a viable alternative we get distracted, as you say, by inferior replacements.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by BeFlatXIII on Saturday October 19, 2024 @09:27AM (#41887647)
Religion as a binding factor falls apart in a society where it's trivial to encounter multiple someones with a different holy book than yours, each who claims theirs is the only correct one.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by em-bee on Saturday October 19, 2024 @10:16AM (#41887880)
only if that religion claims exclusivity in exclusion to others. in order to address todays problems a religion must not do that but it must be inclusive and open to all. technically, at least to a degree the abrahamic religions do that in that they do claim that their predecessors are genuine and their followers are considered people of the book. the fact that many members today reject them is a misinterpretation of their respective holy words.

a modern religion must be inclusive to all others, not just the abrahamic religions. at least all those who expect a return of their prophet which is the case not only for all abrahamic religions but at least also for buddhism, hinduism, zoroastrianism, and even native american religions. (there may be others, but i am not familiar with those)

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by Barrin92 on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:33AM (#41877713)
>and to handwave that away in favor of “perspectives” just results in you adopting a different narrative

The point isn't to hand-wave anything. Freeing yourself from narratives is a lot of work. The person who probably took this idea most seriously was Stirner, often pointing out that people who leave religious faith just sacralize human nature. ("leaving Man with a capital M intact"), making the oppression even worse.

To be free when rejecting narrative is also to be on the lookout to not chase freedom in a naive way, but it is an achievable process, and it is exactly that. You're obviously never done if you take the idea seriously.

But it is probably the most single liberating thing a human being can do. Personally speaking I come from a blue collar household, I had drilled into me that I must learn a vocation. I didn't, I went to uni and got a CS degree because I loved computers. Some choice as simple as this many people don't make because of how strong the narrative is that their parents tell them about who they are supposed to be. And there's millions of decisions like this. A lot of people think they must buy a house in the suburbs, just because everyone else says so. They actually despair if they don't. The extent to which people imitate desires of others in societies that are supposed to be free is incredible.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by nuancebydefault on Friday October 18, 2024 @04:07PM (#41882995)
> A lot of people think they must buy a house in the suburbs, just because everyone else says so. They actually despair if they don't. The extent to which people imitate desires of others in societies that are supposed to be free is incredible.

Indeed, and I am quite amazed by that seeing that behavior in others. Although maybe/probably I am biased by other narratives in similar ways while not being aware. I feel it would be liberating to understand those narratives and see them for the mere stories they are.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by Der_Einzige on Saturday October 19, 2024 @09:36AM (#41887689)
As the resident stirner shill of this website, Thank you.

The unique and its property is and will always be my favorite book. There really isn’t any other proper defense of radical individualism philosophically.

Stirners worldview is so unique and fresh. It’s sad to see how little impact it’s had on the world, except within anarchism of all places.

I think stirners thought is 100% compatible with liberalism (I’m liberal because it’s in my interests to be liberal). We still have about zero stirnerist liberal scholars. John Rawls sucked the air out of the room far too early!

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by aaplok on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:34AM (#41877717)
> just results in you adopting a different narrative, the “I reject narratives” one.

This is like saying that atheism is just another religion because it's the belief in nothing. In a a hairsplitting way it may arguably be true but atheism does not provide a consistent(-ish) narrative about the world like religions do and therefore is fundamentally different.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:43AM (#41877763)
In the typical Western sense of the word Atheism (that is, not just as a label defining the lack of belief, but the specific instance of ideas/people) is not another "religion," but it's absolutely another "belief system" that often comes with the same set of beliefs about various things.

It's largely an intellectual distinction, because in practice everyone still acts and exists in the world. Identity itself is probably impossible without having some sort of story about who you are.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by orwin on Friday October 18, 2024 @08:22AM (#41878738)
To be clear, Atheists have different belief systems. They all have in common that they believe in one less god than monotheists, and a handfull less gods than polytheists (that, they share with monotheists), but overall you can have different belief systems that do not involve the existence of one (or multiple) god(s).

I know someone who does not believe in gods because he think aliens are playing with us (fake flags etc. Basically the Stargate mythos, except he never saw the show). Less anecdotal, Chalmers is definitely Atheist, but i sure don't have his belief system, and i'm sure no functionalist does.

Also, in general, philosophy of mind is imho the best way to test you belief systems. Or maybe it's the philosophy field i'm the most comfortable in and thus the one where i pushed my beliefs the furthest :/

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by keiferski on Friday October 18, 2024 @09:06AM (#41879079)
I don’t really want to repeat what I already wrote, but just to sum this up again: yes, the mere label of atheist doesn’t imply a specific belief system. But in actual practice, in the real world and not merely in definitions, it tends to indicate certain groupings of beliefs.

In other words, the definitional concept of atheist doesn’t imply a specific belief set (except in the choice of using such a word to define oneself), but the sociological definition definitely does. If we looked at various communities calling themselves atheists, they certainly have beliefs in common.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by pessimizer on Friday October 18, 2024 @05:03PM (#41883471)
> the sociological definition definitely does.

It definitely does not.

> If we looked at various communities calling themselves atheists, they certainly have beliefs in common.

The lack of belief in gods. There are types of Hinduism that have always been atheistic.

Believing in god is like having blue eyes. There's nothing necessarily shared amongst people who don't have blue eyes other than a lack of blue eyes.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by mr_toad on Friday October 18, 2024 @08:38AM (#41878855)
> To use the concept by Deleuze, everything has been too “deterritorialized.” We’d all probably be happier with a solid narrative underlying our senses of self and society.

That’s a narrative in and of itself. The Opium of the masses.

And judging by the length of the comment thread, it’s really difficult to change someone’s mind once they have settled on a narrative, like trying to kick a habit.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by ItCouldBeWorse on Friday October 18, 2024 @12:38PM (#41881049)
There are problematic narratives though. The robin hood one, were you are always the underdog against a evil universe out to get you. The everything is people and societal norms narrative, that completely blends out the physical universe as a sort of "defeated" final boss and thus is blind for dangers like global warming. Many more come to mind.
Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by Der_Einzige on Saturday October 19, 2024 @09:29AM (#41887654)
Deleuze being uncritically mentioned is evidence that everything you’ve said here is intellectual bankrupt.

Deleuze and Guattari, Jacques Lacan, Derrida, Foucault, Freud, Jung, and most of their disciples are at best fashionable nonsense, always charlatans, and there’s even evidence that some of the success of post-structuralism was a psyop from your local spymasters to keep Ivy League intellectuals from doing subversive shit in the USA like May of 68/situationalist internationale.

For all the problems that existentialism, Sartre, Camus, De Bouiver, and the other existentialists had, they tended to write (more) coherently and they descend (slightly less) into the pit of academic wankery.

Seriously, Deleuze and Guattari destroyed continental philosophy. Anti-oedipus is full of shit. Freud is full of shit. The oedipus and Electra complex and mirror stage and object petit an are all psudo science. Reject their work in every instance or continue the further debasement of academic philosophy.

Re:Life is not a story: why narrative thinking holds you back by bossyTeacher on Saturday October 19, 2024 @03:38PM (#41890152)
> We’d all probably be happier with a solid narrative underlying our senses of self and society.

I disagree. Religion has fulfilled that role for millennia and all it gets you is people being abused. Fascism has also fulfilled that role with the same results. Look at communism in Cuba, China and the Soviet Union. Everyone blindly sharing the same narrative is dangerous