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Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by SoftTalker on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @10:50PM (#34076427)
I cannot imagine buying food at the dollar store even if you are poor.

Eggs, beans, rice, bread, potatoes, apples, bananas, are among the cheapest foods at any grocery store or supermarket.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by qbasic_forever on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:18PM (#34076572)
You clearly haven't bought eggs, beans, rice, etc. at the grocery store and been on a budget. In the last two years the price of eggs have easily doubled--a dozen large store brand eggs are over 3 bucks now vs maybe 99 cents pre-pandemic. Every single staple you mention has gone up in price significantly. Food inflation is astronomical and if you don't feel it then it's quite a privilege. If you were struggling to make ends meet two years ago, you are in deep deep trouble or probably completely forgotten by society and/or dead now.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by LAC-Tech on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:30PM (#34076664)
In the last two years the price of eggs have easily doubled--a dozen large store brand eggs are over 3 bucks now vs maybe 99 cents pre-pandemic.

Food in the US is insanely cheap. Wow.

$4.78 USD at the cheapest store here, and this is on special.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by aix1 on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:05AM (#34077254)
> $4.78 USD at the cheapest store here, and this is on special.

I was about to say that this is roughly what supermarket eggs cost here in Switzerland but then realised that your price was for a dozen and I was thinking a box of six.

Eggs here are often sold in units of one (you fill your own box with however many eggs you need) and cost about US$0.80 per egg.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by senectus1 on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:41PM (#34076735)
eggs are pretty much immune from shrinkflation as well.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by jraby3 on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:34PM (#34076692)
$0.25 per egg is still a great value in terms of health and satiety.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by qbasic_forever on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:43PM (#34076740)
No, it's not. Dried beans, rice and potatoes are a better value. Eggs are damn luxury now at 25 cents a pop.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by dikei on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:35AM (#34077063)
You need a balance diet: beans, rice and potatoes are good for carbs/energy, but lacking in lipid, protein and vitamin. For a cheap meal, the majority of it should be carbs, but adding 1-2 egg improve it a lot.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by oska on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @05:19AM (#34078823)
Many Asian cuisines (that have fed ppl who have been very poor) feature a dish that is a beaten raw egg mixed through rice (the hot rice then cooks the egg a little). Rice & beans etc are good staples but the experience of extremely poor people that is reflected in these cuisines is that it's good and worthwhile to add some extra good quality ingredients to these staples.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by mikeyouse on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:26PM (#34076629)
There are unfortunately a bunch of factors that added up to this.. e.g. for Eggs, there's just normal food inflation, but then there's a massive avian flu outbreak that resulted in ~50 million birds culled in the US alone. It doesn't help but either way, prices are indeed up ~100% since pre-pandemic (https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/APU0000708111).

https://www.vox.com/future-perfect/2022/11/22/23472207/bird-...

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by jldugger on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:45PM (#34076755)
> You clearly haven't bought eggs, beans, rice, etc. at the grocery store and been on a budget.

Food inflation is real but not experienced the same way by many Americans who consume mostly processed foods, which are less vulnerable to commodities shocks. So I can't be too surprised the HN crowd hasn't noticed. But eggs are apparently specially fucked[1] due to an avian flu outbreak, so you're kinda cherry picking. Cherries btw, have seemingly doubled in price, but pre-pandemic was the cheapest they'd ever been in the past 30 years.[2]

More importantly, I think you're missing the point the article and OP were making: dollar store supply chains for these goods suck compared to grocery stores that are optimized for this. Whatever inflation has done to raw goods is amplified at these small dollar stores.

[1]: https://www.cnbc.com/2022/11/11/why-egg-prices-are-surging-b... [2]: https://fred.stlouisfed.org/series/WPU01110203

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:17PM (#34076567)
I kind of hate that your being downvoted b/c your perspective here is a very common one.

It’s not just a matter of unit price, but also time, convenience, and cal/$. Fruit / veg in general is pretty expensive when looked at from a cal/$ perspective — you pay for a lot of water there. Potatoes, beans, rice are pretty slow cooking, and require dealing with dishes after.

So for my single mom, it was pretty hard to provide anything but

1) fast food (decent cal/$, extremely convenient)

2) microwaveable tv dinners (Meh cal per dollar, but long shelf life, extremely convenient)

3) PB / lunch meat sandwiches (basically god tier for poor chow)

For reference, my mom worked many jobs and got maybe 4-5 hrs sleep a night. Adding 30 minutes for a days worth of meals was a lot.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by prawn on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:38PM (#34076716)
Do Americans in that situation serve much pasta? Pasta is generally cheap, stores well and cooks quickly. You can serve it with pesto out of a jar, butter/oil/pepper, or various other tomato-based jar sauces if short of time.

I have children so can empathise with anyone short of time and trying to accommodate juvenile palates, but pasta with some sauce options is one of our fallbacks - the two youngest like pesto. Rice is another (trivial in a rice cooker).

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by CSSer on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:51PM (#34076809)
Yes. Tons of pasta and chili too. Hamburger is (or at least used to be) pretty much the cheapest beef you can get.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:56PM (#34076835)
Yep, ditto. You can sometimes score good deals on meat that’s turned brown from oxidization because it’s unsellable to most folks. Tastes fine, same nutritional value
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by thefounder on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:36PM (#34076706)
I know fast-food and microwaveable tv dinners are cheap and "worry free" but you pay the price with your health. You have to want to eat healthy and set the appropriate mindset. For example instead to order that fastfood crap just eat some simple raw, "spartan" food(bananas, boiled meat or even fried meat etc). I have some good experience with that working long hours on my own startup(s) without distractions.

I doubt you don't have 30 minutes to "prepare" your dinner. After all you don't really prepare much. Just boil or fry whatever raw food you have.

Of course convincing kids to eat not very tasty good may be a different story but it's doable.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:48PM (#34076785)
I can say with 100% certainty there was not 30 minutes to cook dinner alone.

At a certain point you’re balancing how much sleep you need to perform at work (4-5 hours) and the amount of time you’d spend commuting and working (~16 hours a day). When you throw in errands, cleaning, maintenance, and maybe 30 minutes in passing period leisure, there really isn’t time to cook.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by thefounder on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:59PM (#34076847)
Depends really how you trade speed for complexity. To be honest at the end of the meal I had no more than 2-3 items to wash. Of course this means your dinner will look and taste "poor" but it's way "better" than the microwave pizza/dinner.

If you have kids perhaps the solution is for each one to wash its own plate(s). My point is that you can be poor and eat healthy but you have to want that.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:15AM (#34076945)
We _definitely_ wanted it. Badly. It was not a case of “not wanting it.” It was a case of:

- a lack of time

— a lack of resources (just two folks, no expendable income)

- a lack of cognitive energy, probably stress induced from managing the above two.

I think this is a particularly rich western country thing though, the method of being poor you describe works great when you have an extended family who can pool resources. But for a single mom and young child, you can’t smart your way out of it. It’s like trying to optimize a triple a game to run on twenty year old hardware —- just ain’t the cycles, have to reduce the workload.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by thefounder on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:32AM (#34077387)
>> - a lack of cognitive energy, probably stress induced from managing the above two.

I think this is really the most important point. We know we should do better but we lack the cognitive energy. I can totally understand it.

Getting yourself on the right track is hard but at least you can develop a mental story you can control and stay "in the zone". I can't imagine how hard it is being poor and single with children, always being distracted by thousands of small issues.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:45AM (#34077452)
The cognitive energy is the least important point by a country mile. Again, you can’t optimize your way out of severe poverty. It is not a problem of mental fortitude, self induced or not. I feel like statements like the one I’m replying to miss the point entirely.

It’s a problem with not having enough time or money to eat well. That’s the take away. The cognitive stress is just a bonus.

Put another way, we totally could have eaten better if we had more time or money. It’s highly unlikely we could have eaten better if we had more mental fortitude.

To reinforce that point, my mom was a very fit person who prioritized eating well before becoming poor. Ran, mountain biked, ski-ed.

After I got money, pretty much all my disposable goes into health and food to fuel. Lift, cycle, surf, run. In high school, I wrestled explicitly because coach would buy me food. It wasn’t mental fortitude or will that was lacking.

It was just time and money.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:49PM (#34076795)
And yes, to your point, you will eventually rack up a ton up health problems with this lifestyle… to the articles point, being poor is expensive. It you have the option to not be poor, definitely take it!!
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by vpilcx on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @03:12AM (#34077977)
This is a really arrogant attitude that reeks of the 'pull yourself up by your bootstrap' bullshit.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @03:20AM (#34078038)
IDK if it’s arrogance — it can be interpreted that way, but I think a more generous interpretation is that it’s really hard for people who haven’t been poor and chronically food insecure to understand what it’s like and the situations that lead to it. Which makes it hard for the conversations to be productive.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by CSSer on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:49PM (#34076797)
I was also raised by a single Mom and can attest to a similar experience. Although I don’t remember a great deal of fast food. It was a kind of luxury thing we had a few times a month. I remember my Mom trying to avoid it. We were also on assistance and ate out of food pantries a lot. We had lots and lots of canned food e.g. soup and various kinds of vegetables, and they gave us ridiculous amounts of cheese. You basically take what you can get. My Mom used to trade excess cheese blocks with my grandmother for laundry detergent.

I’d have to ask her about time and sleep but I remember it being more hectic than it was strained. This may not have been as true without the assistance we were able to take advantage of. I remember being woken up very early (around 4-5 AM) to be taken to a baby sitter. I must’ve been 4 or 5 at the time. I would sleep in the car along the way.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by refurb on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:07AM (#34076888)
My experience was the opposite. We were dirt poor and had home cooked meals all the time, it was way cheaper than fast food or microwaveable meals.

Buy 10 kg of rice, a bag of beans and some frozen veggies for under $20, cook it all at once in a big pot. You've got 10 meals for under $20 and maybe an hours time.

Put it in the fridge/freezer and you've got healthy meals for a week that cost $0.50 each.

Not sure how a single $10 meal at fast food could be considered "a cheaper alternative".

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:28AM (#34077027)
True, maybe the fast food was a luxury we had cause my mom worked at McDonald’s for a minute. Fast food is sometime cheaper / free-er when you have someone on the inside.

And yeah, if you have the time, highly recommend the bean and rice / boiled dry staples route. Way better. But if you don’t have the time, can be hard to pull off.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by rurp on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:15AM (#34076941)
> Fruit / veg in general is pretty expensive when looked at from a cal/$ perspective — you pay for a lot of water there.

I agree with your post overall but would quibble with this point. Maximizing calories isn't a very good goal. Eating fewer calories but more fruits and vegetables would be an improvement for most people in the US, regardless of socioeconomic status.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:23AM (#34076991)
You’re right, I’ll be a bit more specific.

When you’re really poor, if you buy food naively or based on what is recommended nutritionally for financially secure people, it’s very easy to end up in a situation where you spent all your cash but are still hungry. If you keep doing this, you’ll lose too much weight, get sick, and won’t be able to work. So you have to keep in mind the amount of satiety you’re getting for your cash when you buy food. Fruit and veg have tend to have very low satieties for the $, despite being nutritionally very valuable when you do have sufficient calories.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by etchalon on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:10AM (#34077272)
As another child of an overworked single mom, allow me to cheer for your comment.

The amount of paternalistic "just make better choices!" nonsense in this thread is giving me a headache.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by pengaru on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @10:52PM (#34076436)
> I cannot imagine buying food at the dollar store even if you are poor.

If DOLLAR GENERAL qualifies, for many poor communities it's the only option in town.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by nanidin on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:01PM (#34076485)
Dollar General is not a dollar store. Traditionally a dollar store is a store where everything costs one dollar. Dollar General is a general store that has dollar in the name.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by UncleEntity on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @03:27AM (#34078090)
I used to go to the “99¢ Only” store and, let me tell you, everything doesn’t cost 99¢.

Frozen burritos did so I didn’t complain too much.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by ridgered4 on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @08:24AM (#34080386)
I once bought a pair of needle nose pliers at the dollar store (actually a dollar) back in the 90s. The first time I used them both the grips immediately bent under a small amount of force, which is actually so funny that I think I got my money's worth in the end.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by escapedmoose on Thursday December 22, 2022 @03:26PM (#34098194)
Regardless, it’s often the only option.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by neilv on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @10:58PM (#34076467)
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by bluedino on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:02PM (#34076488)
<insert food desert>

But you see people with SNAP pushing around carts full of things that aren't eggs and beans and potatoes... and why would they? The maximum monthly benefit for a family of 4 is $939/month, you can buy whatever you want with that.

<insert excuse that poor people can't cook or don't have time or ...>

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by KerrAvon on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:19PM (#34076575)
The most corrosive idea in our society is the notion that someone somewhere is getting slightly more than they deserve, just slightly more than you think they earned through their god-given talents, and that it’s therefore worth trying to correct at huge expense, because we certainly can’t have that tiny bit of unfairness in the universe.

And the correction, when applied, is always to the detriment of a huge number of other people who actually needed the help.

This is how we get means-testing, SALT caps, and bad immigration law. We have got to be more humane than this.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by ramesh31 on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:27PM (#34076639)
>The most corrosive idea in our society is the notion that someone somewhere is getting slightly more than they deserve, just slightly more than you think they earned through their god-given talents, and that it’s therefore worth trying to correct at huge expense, because we certainly can’t have that tiny bit of unfairness in the universe.

Maybe. But this is how America works. We wont let you starve to death. If you're truly physically disabled, we won't leave you to die. But beyond that it's up to you. And in exchange, what's "up to you" is limitless and celebrated and compensated endlessly. Other societies make this tradeoff in a different direction. But I'm happy there's at least one place on earth that doesn't.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:40PM (#34076731)
The last number I’d heard was that around 100/year starve to death in the US, but I suspect that number is higher when including deaths from folks who incur fatal health conditions from insufficient nutrition.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by bruce511 on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:47PM (#34076776)
>> But beyond that it's up to you

It's up to you, but please be aware that you will be playing a rigged game.

In this game, those with money will be competing with you. They will also make the rules. In most situations they will also be referee.

Therefore please make every effort to be born into at least some money. That is, by far, your best chance of success.

Of course we are not heartless. We let a tiny number of previously poor people rise up to serve as both inspiration, and example to the rest. This helps re-enforce the idea that you too can rise up if you just worked "a little bit harder."

Unfortunately we cannot raise the standard of living for everyone - since most of you simply don't deserve it. Plus your cheap labour is necessary for our current comfort levels.

But I sleep well at night since my life is completely deserved, clearly we all had the same opportunities, I just worked harder than you did.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by throwaway6734 on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:40AM (#34077427)
>Unfortunately we cannot raise the standard of living for everyone

The standard of living has been rising constantly throughout American history

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by bruce511 on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:56AM (#34077507)
Indeed, as it has been doing globally. There's no doubt that a pauper today lives like a king compared to just a couple centuries ago.

Perhaps by statement is better said as "we can't raise the standard at the same rate for everyone."

This isn't a universal rule though. Many countries have raised the standards of the poor in proportion to the rich. But you'll see fewer billionaire yachts or private jets in those places too.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by thebradbain on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @01:30AM (#34077378)
> We wont let you starve to death.

Yes you will

> If you're truly physically disabled, we won't leave you to die.

Yes you will

Do you really think that as a nation that lacks so much empathy for the poor, THAT’S where we suddenly realize someone’s humanity? No, in fact if someone is at this point, most Americans would probably not even notice (and some amount would likely celebrate) their passing. If the safety net lets someone fall this far, why would it catch them now?

Just think of the blind eye we turn to people experiencing homelessness— as if their neighbors aren’t already wishing them harm while sipping a bottle of wine with their family and friends during their holiday dinner.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by UncleEntity on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @03:56AM (#34078236)
You seriously have no clue how this stuff really works.

I used to live in downtown Phoenix and I’d have people trying to feed me when I was just riding my bike random places. Like, I’d be half a block away and they’d shout out “hey, man, you hungry?” And this is just people who would roam around looking for people to help not counting the permanent places that served food on a regular basis.

If you’re willing to accept help ‘merica has enough to go around but you have to show up to the shelters sober and have to at least put in the barest minimum of effort to maybe, just maybe, appear to be trying to improve your lot in life.

I spent nine years driving a cab and a big chunk of that job was hauling people to/from medical appointments because they didn’t have transportation (or couldn’t afford to drive) and the state was paying for their medical care. Once Uber/Lyft came to town that’s pretty much all I did and I kept pretty busy.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by vpilcx on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @03:14AM (#34078001)
> We wont let you starve to death. If you're truly physically disabled, we won't leave you to die.

Unless you're a diabetic, then fuck you. Die.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:19PM (#34076580)
I mean —- have you been poor? I can say when my mom and I were dirt poor, we literally didn’t have the time. My mom didn’t take benefits mainly due to pride, but all the foods you mention were way out of her time / price bucket
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by bluedino on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:26PM (#34076625)
What time/price bucket do bananas fall in?
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:34PM (#34076686)
Oh, bananas are god tier — I probably ate 2-3 a day for years. But you can’t live off them. 5+ Bananas a day really made me feel sick during some lean times. Nutritionally also pretty poor for sustenance, no fat or protein, and they digest very quickly.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by ramesh31 on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:32PM (#34076672)
> What time/price bucket do bananas fall in?

Somewhere well below frozen burritos and pizzas: https://efficiencyiseverything.com/calorie-per-dollar-list/

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by trentgreene on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:36PM (#34076704)
True, banana + frozen burritos / pizza for protein and fat are an excellent combo in this situation
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by HarryHirsch on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:21PM (#34076592)
Just saying - when you work 60 hours/week you really don't have time to cook. Cooking is not an option. Not cooking is not out of choice.
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by carrolldunham on Tuesday December 20, 2022 @11:42PM (#34076739)
pouring water and olive oil into some self-raising wholemeal flour and throwing it on a hot pan to make naans (90 seconds to cook) twice a day, comes in under $1/day and 30min/day with washup. for one person
Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by bruce511 on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:00AM (#34076851)
You are both right.

Cooking takes time. Working too many hours (for good reasons) robs you of that time. Cooking adds other time-consumers, shopping, washing up and so on.

Equally, once you have a skill set, cooking doesn't need to take a lot of time. If you are lucky you learned to cook growing up, or if you have the time you can learn to cook as an adult.

While your nan breads are perhaps not the best example of quick cooking (flour isn't necessarily the best starting point) it's true that stir-frying some veggies, or anything with eggs etc can be done in a couple minutes.

But cooking quickly takes skills, and practice, and acquiring those takes time.

As an anecdote we required our children to learn to cook young, and by 13 cook a regular meal for the family once a week. Ultimately some enjoyed the process more than others, but all are able to feed themselves quickly, and with little effort. If I have one bit of useful advice it us to encourage kids to learn how to cook for themselves, and for others. And yes, alas, I'm aware of the cost in money and time in doing that.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by malandrew on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:03AM (#34076870)
I work 60 hours a week and cook most days.

Where it gets hard is over 70 hours a week.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by fzeroracer on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @02:10AM (#34077583)
You're an engineer at Google working 60h weeks meaning either Google is scamming you or you're scamming yourself.

And more importantly, you and I as engineers are going to operate in drastically different mental spaces than someone that has to work 60h weeks solely to survive. Someone that needs to work between multiple jobs, or deal with physically intensive jobs or customer facing jobs are not going to able to turn off after work as easily.

My parents were fishermen and would spend way more than that out in the bay due to the necessities of the job. When you're done with that work, after hauling bait and working on the boat you have zero energy to do much else afterwards.

Re:The Cost of Being Poor: Why It Costs So Much to Be Poor i... by atom058 on Wednesday December 21, 2022 @12:20PM (#34083484)
I believe the focus on comparing 'hours worked' is very damaging to our culture. The effect is that employment becomes a competition, where 'they who works the most hours are the most valuable/noble'.

In reality people who work more than the standard working hours (40) are effectively undercutting everyone else in terms of price per hour worked. Working more hours for the same pay is not something to be proud about; it is an attack on you colleagues. The overwork behaviour causes increased competition, where everybody's expected work hours will silently increase ('why don't you work as hard as they are'). The employer will of course be happy, because they get a better deal. Giving away your time for free shouldn't be something honorable.

It's a bit different if you are getting compensated for the extra hours, e.g. if you are the founder of the company, or are getting good overtime pay. But I still think there needs to be moderation.

Emolyees should be working less than they are today, not more. 40 hours is already too much to have a balanced life. I think a more reasonable level would be somewhere around 4x7 = 28 hours per week. But instead of moving an inch towards that level, our societies have gone in the other direction, where unpaid overtime is the norm.

I hope we can see a attitude change about work / overwork in my lifetime. But I'm not very optimistic about that.