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Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by perfmode on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:35AM (#18794890)
Don’t discount the weight of emotional trauma and the self-sabotaging habits it has the potential to engender.

Most people are slaves to their limbic systems.

Most people don’t have self-education or resources to seek the help they need to fix these underlying problems.

Society does them no favors. Media and advertising are designed to promote consumption. And not even healthy consumption.

The idea that we are black boxes with private worlds and perfect agency is being eroded by the empirical evidence that, at scale, we are ultimately manipulable.

I know because I wrestle with this constantly. My higher self knows what’s right and how I should spend my time and money. On a daily and minutely basis, my lower self vyes for control and often succeeds in taking the wheel. And I have to catch myself and recognize when my long term efforts are being subverted automatically and mechanistically.

I know that, over the years, my unaddressed early childhood traumas have compounded into deeply-ingrained habits of self-medicating.

It’s a constant struggle.

I am not surprised that there are huge numbers of people who struggle similarly and are not as successful as I am at managing this internal conflict.

edit: why is this article now flagged? :(

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by leoedin on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:48AM (#18794991)
I think the very fact that people in wildly different circumstances are living paycheck to paycheck is a huge flag that this isn't as simple a problem as "they don't get paid enough".

Income and expenses are intricately linked by psychology. It's almost irrelevant what your paycheck is, if you're prone to this problem then somehow expenses will always rise to meet it.

If expenses weren't actually determined by paycheck, the number of people living paycheck to paycheck would be a really small number. Everyone else would either be building a surplus each month or going further into debt.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by jchw on Monday December 31, 2018 @05:35PM (#18797474)
I think a lot of people misunderstand. Before I had a nice tech job, I literally could not afford to do my dental work or take care of my car. So later on, when I started, it costed a lot more. And I spent it, because it's important.

Same can be said about many expenses. When you don't have the money, you make it work even if you can't. When you do, you gotta balance it out again. Saving your money isn't as important as saving your life. Saving your automobile might be cheaper than having to buy another later. Etc, etc.

So, just because this problem exists among a wide range of paychecks doesn't mean shit really, because paychecks scale with rent and people are suffering to make the rent as it is. I would argue for most people, the trouble isn't their attitude. It's that wages ultimately grow far, far slower than living expenses and inflation, and cuts have been made to essential expenses at the cost of degraded quality of life.

A lot of people harp on others for buying frivolously but frankly an iPhone every year would be a drop in the bucket compared to my medical expenses, maintenance and gas for my car, etc. My monthly rent is more than three iPhone XS Maxes and it's literally within a couple hundred of the cheapest thing I could find in a 20 mile radius. Don't get me wrong, it's great and I'm not complaining, but it still puts things into perspective.

Maybe I'm crazy, but I think everything that needs to be said is already covered by graphing minimum wage vs inflation. That's a lot of folks real realities today.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by pixl97 on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @08:15AM (#18800053)
Asset inflation is busy destroying society.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by jondubois on Monday December 31, 2018 @12:53PM (#18795816)
That's because all the surplus goes into rents. If your job depends on you living in a big city, then you need to pay a fortune to get a tiny fraction of the quality of life that your parents had and that you had as a child growing up.

A lot of corporate jobs these days force people to live like rats in big cities.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by jseliger on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:11PM (#18796682)
A lot of corporate jobs these days force people to live like rats in big cities.

This is a problem with zoning: https://www.amazon.com/Rent-Too-Damn-High-Matters-ebook/dp/B..., not with "corporate jobs." If we fix zoning, costs will go down. Los Angeles is instructive. In 1960, it was zoned for 10 million people: https://la.curbed.com/2015/4/8/9972362/everything-wrong-with.... Today, it is zoned for 4.3 million. Has our technology gotten worse since 1960? Have we forgotten how to build multi-story structures?

No: we've just made it illegal to build enough housing.

Seattle is also instructive. About two-thirds of the city is zoned for single-family housing only: https://www.theurbanist.org/2017/10/23/the-path-to-eliminate.... Allow missing middle housing, and prices will stabilize: http://missingmiddlehousing.com.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by enlyth on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @02:12AM (#18799323)
I'm curious, do you know if this would this be the same case for London?

I recently started working in central London and need to move closer soon; when I check the rent prices every time they just make me want to cry even though I've got a decent tech salary.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by robterrin on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:57PM (#18796226)
+1 Very good comment. You may like to read some Henry George: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Henry_George
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by jondubois on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @09:32AM (#18800305)
I'm already familiar with Georgism. I think it's more relevant now than it ever was.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by IAmGraydon on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:01AM (#18795081)
This is exactly the problem. It all comes down to what is more rewarding to you - buying or financial security. Much of the buying in today’s world seems to be driven by the desire to portray status and success to peers. What’s particularly unfortunate about those who fall into this trap is the fact that they’re essentially giving what little real wealth they possess to people who actually have real wealth (business owners) in exchange for an image of wealth. They’re trading the real thing for an illusion.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by GreeniFi on Monday December 31, 2018 @08:13PM (#18798261)
I suspect a lot of people feel that part of their conspicuous consumption is part of the effort to earn more. You have to wear the right clothes, look the right way, have the right tech - or at a higher income bracket, be part of the right clubs, in order to socialise with the people who will pay you. So the two are sort of linked I suspect.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by lsc on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:45PM (#18798983)
I'm pretty sure that this is actually a thing; Like once you step outside of the technical field; most everyone else really needs to "dress for the job they want" in the form of, for example, having a class-appropriate car.

I think this is one of the biggest bonuses you get as a technical person; you can live with roommates and drive a beater car, if you want, and it's not a problem when getting quarter-million dollar a year jobs.

A long time ago, I had a roommate who was trying to make it as a realtor. He though his (actually quite nice) not exactly new honda accord was a big handicap for him. I mean, I don't know if it was or not; I know little about the selling side of real-estate, but I can tell you that most people who do sales or management feel that their symbols of wealth are really important to their job and their income.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by GreeniFi on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @08:20AM (#18800068)
I can believe this. Realtors, on a %-based fee, have to show their clients how much they’re making (for other clients). If a realtor turns up in a Mercedes, they’re basically saying: “I’m a good salesman/woman”.

Devs in SF display status in other ways. HN karma? Exits? Economists call those “hard to fake” status displays.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by lsc on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @08:52AM (#18800167)
lol. I'm pretty sure that on the scale of status displays... hn carma rates pretty low.

No, developers display status more directly, by pointing at a thing and saying "I did that" - or on a lower level, simply displaying intelligence and domain specific problem solving ability.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by gamma-male on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:05AM (#18795111)
Better: not being paid enough is a sufficient condition, but it is not required.

Of course rich people can have such problem, but if you think low wages and the lack of universal health care and free education is not the main issue you are lying to yourself.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wutbrodo on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:06PM (#18795907)
I'm not sure lack of healthcare and low wages _is_ the main issue[1]. As the parent comment points out, it seems like that would lead to a pretty different pattern of this phenomenon. It seems to me that there's a couple broad categories that can lead to paycheck-to-paycheck living:

1) Poverty, at the level where spending on a reasonable floor of basics (food, shelter, education, leisure) leaves little for savings. This is a resource constraint, and even a perfectly optimally-run household would end up living paycheck-to-paycheck.

2) Severe exogenous financial shocks that exceed whatever buffer you were able to build, and an inability to adjust consumption downwards due to sticky commitments or psychological reasons. For lower-middle and middle-class households, this is possible simply due to bad luck; one thing the US economy is pretty bad at is providing a solid way to derisk tail risks, the obvious example being healthcare. This is naturally less common the more severe the shock, and irresponsible financial management can be a contributor in some of these cases (ie not saving an emergency fund, etc).

3) Consumption rising to meet one's income. The resource constraint is irrelevant here, as above the poverty level, this is primarily about hedonism and jockeying for status. The big caveat here is that people tend to short-circuit cost-benefit analyses when it comes to their kids: neighborhood safety and public school quality can lead to people substantially (and understandably) overextending themselves wrt housing costs. I'd caution against leaning too blindly on this mitigating factor though, as there are lots of differences between living modestly in a good school district and living generally beyond your means.

There's a degree of freedom around consumption that's likely a lot more significant than your comment assumes; this seems to follow directly from the fact that someone living beyond their means at percentile X would substantially improve their financial security if they spent as much as percentile X-10 (or whatever). For all but the lowest percentiles, this is completely feasible, and yet these low-savings studies consistently find a much larger swathe of people in these categories.

The model that makes the most sense to me is that, excluding the lowest quintile, the habit of clamping consumption to income is one of the biggest factors in our low savings. As mentioned above, the US systemically tends to put a lot more risk on the individual than a lot of societies do; you can be better off if you manage this responsibly (and aren't in the lowest income brackets), but financial illiteracy is IME rampant, even among generally well-educated people.

[1] Lack of access to quality education likely is, but through the mechanism of low numeracy/personal finance skills/critical thinking skills.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by myself248 on Monday December 31, 2018 @08:22PM (#18798300)
> at percentile X would substantially improve their financial security if they spent as much as percentile X-10

This is spot-on.

It's worked for me -- I didn't have a solid handle on my finances when I moved out of my parents' place, so I lowballed and found a place I knew I could afford even with a pretty pessimistic view of financial discipline.

Nine years later I'm living in the same place, and I've gotten a raise every year, so I'm making quite a bit more than I was back then. Driving an even more economical car. Eating better -- buying groceries instead of eating out all the time.

I could fritter it away, let my ISP bleed me dry with a $162 cable+internet+whatever+modem plan when the $30 plan works just fine and I bought my own modem. I could shovel $95/mo to Verizon, but I'm on Ting and I use wifi whenever possible, and my bill averages $26 and I own the phone.

I could send $8/mo to Hulu and $15/mo to HBO and $11/mo to Netflix and $13/mo to Amazon and $10/mo to Spotify and $10/mo to Pandora and.... how many more are there?! But I don't feel like my life would be improved by having all those. (I do Spotify, but none of the others. In the event that I feel like rubbing my nose in a pile of TV, there's this thing called broadcast.)

I feel like there's a never-ending stream of these things, with their pundits on the morning show and Weekend Edition making you feel like you're missing out on life if you don't watch at least one show on every such service. And Disney+ is coming...

To me, it's that incremental monthly spending that inexorably, insidiously, increasingly, gobbles up every spare dollar the middle class can scrape together. I've been literally counseling my friends on how to talk their cable providers into a lower rate.

Many of them didn't know that was possible.

Cancel your shit, people.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by zaroth on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @12:29AM (#18799076)
I read this sanctimonious nonsense in every thread on spending and saving.

The only point you missed was saying that you only spend $5 a day on food.

Tell me this dear sir or madam...

1) How many kids do you have?

2) How much did you spend on healthcare in the last 5 years?

Financial shocks exceeding savings coupled with a system which requires drawing on high APY credit in order to absorb those shocks I think is a more likely culprit.

Just one event like that can have a family struggling to stay afloat and carrying thousands per year in interest payments on top of everything else.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by amf12 on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @01:00AM (#18799168)
> Financial shocks exceeding savings

The point that person is making is, if a person who makes more than the minimum wage is to reduce spending to 90% of the current spending they would be better able to absorb these unforeseen financial shocks.

> How many kids do you have?

This is another thing I notice (outside and in the article too). A lot of people who live paycheck to paycheck have 3 or more kids. Naturally more kids increase costs. Now I am by no means saying people shouldn't have more kids, but that number should depend on their financial situation too.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by notSupplied on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @01:11PM (#18808450)
All of those corners you've so frugally cut can be drowned out by the difference between a 3% raise in rent and a 10-15% in rent, or a uncovered medical expense, or a child you're not prepared to have, so I really doubt too many Netflix-esque subscriptions is really the reason why so many seemly middle class income people are living paycheck to paycheck.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by gamma-male on Monday December 31, 2018 @09:42PM (#18798583)
Mmm... I'm subscribed to Netflix, to kurzgesagt on Patreon and to duchinese and wordswing on the app store just because I support them. It's 50$/month and I think that's a fine amount to spend if you have the money in order to encourage more of these things.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by thelasthuman on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:02PM (#18797968)
"2) Severe exogenous financial shocks "

Like huge medical bills?

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wutbrodo on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:55PM (#18799007)
Yup, that's the exact example I use a sentence or two later, and I'd imagine one of the more common shocks.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by perfmode on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:20AM (#18795217)
Totally. Health care and education can be preventative.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kurthr on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:24AM (#18795247)
Yes, just as we can subsidize human and societal needs with the tax code, we can do it directly. Food, healthcare, post highschool education...
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by nunez on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:22PM (#18796732)
> I think the very fact that people in wildly different circumstances are living paycheck to paycheck is a huge flag that this isn't as simple a problem as "they don't get paid enough".

This was a big reason that drove our move out of NYC. No matter how much you made, unless you were a billionaire (good luck with that), you were on a treadmill. Nothing you had would be enough. You could spend yourself broke trying to fit in, even if you make a lot of money.

Dallas, where we currently live, has this too, but it's a much bigger city, so you have to want to find those hotspots.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by geff82 on Monday December 31, 2018 @05:09PM (#18797360)
Dallas, while the wages are quite high, also has a lot lower cost of living. And the average person is nicer, too.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by lsc on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:49PM (#18798993)
> I think the very fact that people in wildly different circumstances are living paycheck to paycheck is a huge flag that this isn't as simple a problem as "they don't get paid enough".

so, certainly, that's not all of it. we all have the wealthy friend who lives paycheque to paycheque.

But... let me tell you, saving money is a whole lot easier when you make 10x the minimum to support yourself in the area than it is when you make 1x the minimum to support yourself in the area.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by moorhosj on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:57AM (#18795061)
Huge difference between living paycheck to paycheck because you struggle to afford basic necessities and living paycheck to paycheck because you took out too large of a mortgage. In one case you have an asset to sell if needed.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by astura on Monday December 31, 2018 @12:55PM (#18795834)
The majority of people who are living paycheck to paycheck don't have enough assets to cover debts.

Furthermore, paycheck to paycheck living outside of poverty and disability is rarely the result of a one time mistake, it's usually due to an inability to budget and save day-to-day. Which is the reason they end up with more debts than assets.

Not to mention people who can't afford their house can often not afford to take care of their house, which reduces its value.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by milesvp on Monday December 31, 2018 @04:43PM (#18797228)
Upkeep’s a killer. I kept having people tell me to buy in my 20’s, and I couldn’t fathom their logic. I could rent a 4 bedroom house for less than a mortgaged, let alone alone a mortgage plus upkeep. I kept doig the math, and I’d have to tie up a huge chunk of capital, and hope the house appreciated faster than upkeep costs, and that I didn’t piss away all gains again in realtor fees when I next needed to move. But really it’s the upkeep everyone kept ignoring in these conversations. $300/mo in my region is pretty standard, and no one would acknowledge how big this cost really was.

Rents finally started to skyrocket where I live, so buying finally made sense for us to try to lock in our housing exoense. But even then, the upkeep occassionally makes me wonder if I did the math right. Like can I put off buying a new roof another year? Or will that eat up my maintanence budget for the next couple years?

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dawnerd on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:24PM (#18798729)
I know it’s a terrible answer but buy a newly constructed house. That’s all I’ve bought and the maintenance on them is close to nothing. Plus the house will be a lot more energy efficient and save even more money. Just stay away from an hoa or condo.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by astura on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @01:02AM (#18804483)
The premium on new construction is around 20% vs existing structures, so you arent saving any money, just paying up front (and financing it to boot).

Plus many people want to live in an already established neighborhood.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dawnerd on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @03:52AM (#18805012)
I’m not so sure about that. My brand new house in the Portland metro was cheaper than comparable older houses. I do get screwed a bit on taxes but they’re still lower than they were at my house in California for the same price. Overall I’m saving money. Going on three years and the only expense I’ve had in upkeep is air filters.

Also both new homes I’ve bought were in existing neighborhoods. Not all new homes are in new developments. I’m fact, I would avoid those like the plague. HOA hell + possible mello roos if in California.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by astura on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @08:32AM (#18806019)
You can be as "not sure" as you want, data doesn't lie

https://www.trulia.com/research/new-home-smell/

Portland happens to be among the metros with the smallest new house premium at 14%. Thats still $28,000 premium on a 200,0000 house.

Sure "not all new homes" are in new developments, but the vast majority of them are. Most neighborhoods simply don't have empty lots to build on, they don't exist, any new homes are teardowns.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dawnerd on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @11:52AM (#18807573)
I’m guessing trulia is looking as asking price because that’s definitely off based on actual experience shopping around. Because of property tax being much lower, older homes can ask a lot more. Sure new developments here are asking 600k+ for a tiny condo but they’ve all been reducing prices. In my part of town my house was more than 50k lower than an almost identical copy of my house down the street that’s been here for 10 years.

Besides, I never said all new homes were cheaper so I’m not sure why you’re even trying to argue it. Shop around and you’ll find a deal.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wonderwonder on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:07AM (#18795124)
Agree in theory, but quite often that asset is not sellable as its underwater. End result is a foreclosure and/or bankruptcy. If the underlying behavior is not changed then people can spiral into further debt that they cant get out of as they already spent their once every seven year BK ticket. If people don't know how to budget you get trapped.

But yes I do fully agree, I would much rather be broke with a large income than a low one.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kurthr on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:18AM (#18795195)
Often that debt is spread out on 5 different credit cards and there is no asset to sell other than shoes (a favorite of both genders) or lifestyle "influence".
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by HarryHirsch on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:03PM (#18796623)
The trouble is, in America the bigger mortgage often comes with a better school district.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dragonwriter on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:10PM (#18796672)
> The trouble is, in America the bigger mortgage often comes with a better school district.

That's because our metric for school and school district quality largely is a measure of effects of socioeconomic status of the students, not anything the schools actually produce. So, yes, the schools in areas that have a higher buy-in cost have better marks, because they have on-average students better set-up for success.

That doesn't mean the students in that district, if individually moved to a different district, would do worse, it just means that the students who would do worse independent of district are lesd likely to have parents that can afford to live in the “better” district.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by danieltillett on Monday December 31, 2018 @04:30PM (#18797163)
It is actually more due to the students who are not there. Yes it is true that the actual teaching is little better between districts, but the number of disruptive students that prevent any learning is vastly less in the expensive districts.

If you have the ability to kick out any student who is disruptive you can turn any school in any area into a high quality school.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wonderwonder on Monday December 31, 2018 @05:18PM (#18797405)
This is then compounded by giving more money to the successful schools and less to the failing schools. This seems paradoxical as most students are zoned for a school and don't get to elect to transfer to a better one. So they are stuck in a bad school that is going to get worse due to reduced funding for failing. So kids who's parents can afford to send them to a good school district are rewarded driving home that generally where you start socio-economically is where you end up.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dragonwriter on Monday December 31, 2018 @06:14PM (#18797698)
> the number of disruptive students that prevent any learning is vastly less.

The evidence doesn't really support that, though; students in a “bad” district don't have worse performance than students with similar background in a “better” district (whether because of distraction or any other reason), “better” districts just have more students with backgrounds which are correlated with educational success, of which the strongest factor is parental education.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by HarryHirsch on Monday December 31, 2018 @06:53PM (#18797916)
The OECD report (this one: http://www.oecd.org/education/school/programmeforinternation...) would like you to believe that student background does not determine student performance. They do find a correlation, but it varies substantially between countries, suggesting that other factors are at play.

According to that report the important factors are student and teacher discipline and school atmosphere, and on can easily understand why all of these might be better in an affluent suburb.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by pkaye on Monday December 31, 2018 @08:16PM (#18798275)
In my city, there are 5 high schools in different parts of the city. There is a huge difference between the rankings of 2 schools compared to the remaining three. Funding and teacher pool are pretty much the same source. The main difference is the students and their families. The parents in those areas are well educated and have high income. If anything the best performing schools looks like a dump compared to the 3 lower performing ones. I'd say student background plays a huge part on their performance.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dragonwriter on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @02:33AM (#18799362)
> They do find a correlation, but it varies substantially between countries, suggesting that other factors are at play.

Sure, but we’re talking about what explains variation between school districts in the same state in the US, not variation among OECD countries. I'm not saying that education policy and practice can't have a difference and doesn't globally, I'm saying there is virtually no evidence that the difference within districts that people in the US might be choosing between is driven by much of anything beyond background.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by danieltillett on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @06:38AM (#18799801)
I believe nothing when it come to data on educational outcomes as it has all been totally corrupted by politics.

Do you think smart people would bother to spend a fortune on education (either directly via private schooling or indirectly by housing) if the school didn't matter? Follow the money, not the rhetoric.

More directly I have spent sometime helping out in different schools and I have seen with my own eyes the consequences of a single disruptive child on the learning environment - all the teachers time is sucked out dealing with this one student. I can't imagine trying to teach in a classroom with 3 or 4 disruptive students.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dragonwriter on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @10:58AM (#18800631)
> Do you think smart people would bother to spend a fortune on education (either directly via private schooling or indirectly by housing) if the school didn't matter?

Yes, because smart and well informed are not the same thing, and even smart people who have access to systematic information are not immune to dismissing that information due to cognitive biases, particularly confirmation bias.

Quality of school district is also a well worn socially acceptable cover for avoiding proximity to those disliked for reasons of race or class, and smart people can still be racist and/or classist, and are more, not less, likely to seek socially acceptable cover for that.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by moorhosj on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @12:31PM (#18801144)
I don’t seen anyone mentioning all the learning that takes place at the home. Rich parents likely have more time to spend helping their kids do homework or the money to hire a tutor.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by moorhosj on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @01:41PM (#18808747)
Maybe more people should rent.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by vram22 on Monday December 31, 2018 @02:25PM (#18796379)
>and living paycheck to paycheck because you took out too large of a mortgage. In one case you have an asset to sell if needed.

Did a lot of people wrongly (as it turned out) think that in the 2008 Great Recession?

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by thelasthuman on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:08PM (#18798006)
A lot of people were manipulated and lied to by professionals with a profit motive.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by thelasthuman on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:07PM (#18797995)
The average person is not a mortgage/real estate expert. They trusted professionals who misled them because of the profit motive. (For an example look into the reasons for the 2008 housing crash)
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by refurb on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:42PM (#18798145)
The average person might not be an expert, but they should know what their monthly payment is versus their take home pay.

Even knowing this plenty of people put themselves in precarious financial situations when buying a home.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by colechristensen on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @03:29AM (#18799450)
I assume it's just rent seeking, services which are allowed by governments to increase regardless of utility because that's what people will pay.

People will pay more for the basic needs until they can't any more. Mostly with housing.

I don't know how to fix it, but I guess it would be enormous taxes on land owned but used by somebody else and selling land to someone else. Basically making real estate and finance only viable as charitable institutions (or something at least significantly in that direction). More or less impossible, but that's life.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kurthr on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:12AM (#18795162)
Which is why without tight controls on lending/debt Universal Basic Income will just lead to similarly desperate outcomes subsidized by the state.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dv_dt on Monday December 31, 2018 @12:58PM (#18795858)
I think you misunderstand the "Basic" term in UBI. But if you truly think markets can't provide affordable basic living accommodations to everyone, then we should we not be discussing some non-market solutions for distribution of resources?
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kurthr on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:53PM (#18796207)
It's not that there isn't a way to provide housing to homeless and working poor, it's just that it requires regulation. When a parking space costs more than a person can afford in rent... it's unlikely that housing will either.. they'll have to find another location.

The market based solution is already present in city streets today with mentally ill, drug addicted, and others (under employed) living in tents and cardboard (or their illegally parked vehicles).

Once their UBI payday loans are properly directly deposited to a bank to repay last week's debt, they can once again return there. The idea that the most downtrodden will be better with their finances than 80% of the rest of the population is laughable.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kenmicklas on Monday December 31, 2018 @12:58PM (#18795859)
I think the bigger issue than lending is that if it's not funded with a land value tax then all the increase in income will be eaten up in rent.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by zozbot123 on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:13PM (#18795964)
The opposite is the case. High rent is a localized problem (mostly found in relatively dense cities) and UBI would go a lot farther in a low-cost-of-living area where rents are low as well. So, people who have no use for living in the city (not hyper-productive or anything) would gradually opt to spread out and rents would fall.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by pbhjpbhj on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:02PM (#18796609)
High rent is localised? The whole of the UK has high rent AFAICT, our very poor city has high rent.

Rental means paying the costs of property plus paying profit to someone who is already well off enough to front some capital (or at least to get a mortgage) plus paying profits for the bank ... how could renting ever be reasonable priced in a system that requires those without capital to pay those with capital just because those with money already have enough money.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by isostatic on Monday December 31, 2018 @08:02PM (#18798216)
After the price crash in 2008 we lost 40% on our 1 bed flat. Couldn’t afford to sell after a relocation (£60k negative equity after 1 year) so had to rent it out while we rented in a different city.

We just about made a profit on the flat - about £10 a week, but we didn’t have any times of no tenant, or any unexpected major bills.

Eventually price recovered enough that we could afford to sell (below what we paid, even ignoring inflation).

Not all landlords are raking it in.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by leetcrew on Monday December 31, 2018 @04:20PM (#18797111)
> how could renting ever be reasonable priced in a system that requires those without capital to pay those with capital just because those with money already have enough money.

landlords aren't guaranteed to make money. it's true that monthly rent is almost always higher than the monthly mortgage payment on that property, but the landlord can only profit if, in the long run, the difference between the rent and the mortgage is greater than the overall cost of maintenance and possible devaluation of the property.

personally, I could afford to put a down payment on a mortgage if I really wanted a house where I live, but for now I am happy to pay extra for the ability to relocate at the end of the lease and to avoid the risk of actually owning a house.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by zozbot123 on Monday December 31, 2018 @06:28PM (#18797773)
Economically, the "cost of property" is a kind of rent (okay, mostly rent - you can subtract the actual cost of physically building the structure. But most of what you're paying is the pure rent of land.) It is this rent that decreases when the demand for being in a particular place falls.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kurthr on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:56PM (#18796223)
Yes, but then you have to regulate the spending of UBI on basic needs rather than debt service for payday cash.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kenmicklas on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:19PM (#18796715)
That's exactly the problem. It would encourage unsustainable sprawl to a massive degree.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by zozbot123 on Monday December 31, 2018 @04:22PM (#18797120)
Unsustainable sprawl is a side-effect of high rents. When rent is low, people tend to cluster naturally in order to minimize their costs (and hence, the burden they exert on the surrounding environment) because they can afford to - you see this happening even (perhaps especially) in tiny rural villages and towns, not just in the wealthiest cities.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by kenmicklas on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @03:18PM (#18809778)
Yes that is exactly what I am saying. UBI would raise rents and therefore encourage sprawl.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by crankylinuxuser on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:49AM (#18795387)
UBI was only a small-ish step to a moneyless post-scarcity economy.

When rent is taken care of (cause there isn't rent), along with food, water, electricity, communication and more, what is there to 'buy'?

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by pdimitar on Monday December 31, 2018 @12:56PM (#18795841)
There definitely are a huge number of things that will arise to be on the top 50 desired list. However, if everybody has a respectable existence -- rent/mortgage, food, utilities being covered -- then these other things will be truly and for the first time optional and non-crucial. Which I think will be a big win for the mental health of the population.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by sokoloff on Monday December 31, 2018 @12:47PM (#18795777)
I wager that a limitless supply of "other things to buy" will spring up, just as it already has today.

Clothes, cars, boats, planes, watches, electronics, vacations, fancy meals, you name it...

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wtracy on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:01PM (#18796606)
There are people who spend thousands of dollars on Candy Crush. There will always be something more.

Also, I have to point out, if you had made that list a hundred years ago, electricity wouldn't have been on it. Luxuries have a way of becoming necessities.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by max76 on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:48PM (#18796915)
If there wasn't a need to buy rent, food, transportation, electrity, and communication I wonder if Candy Crush would have micro transactions.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wtracy on Monday December 31, 2018 @04:02PM (#18797007)
I would say yes, because the developers would find something equally inane to spend money on.

Perhaps a more relevant example: Look at the bottled water industry. Even if all our creature comforts are provided for free, someone will pay for a "premium" version.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by thelasthuman on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:24PM (#18798071)
UBI is an attempt to save capitalism from itself. That's why you see 1%ers like Elon musk advocate for it.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by Aloha on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @12:29AM (#18799075)
Capitalism has always needed protection from eating itself, market economies suck, but there are few better workable options. UBI is just the next logical extension of the welfare state.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by ken on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @01:45PM (#18801550)
> If expenses weren't actually determined by paycheck, the number of people living paycheck to paycheck would be a really small number. Everyone else would either be building a surplus each month or going further into debt.

These people are going further into debt. It's just that this debt is usually not in the form of cash.

Need an oil change? Well, I can put that off for a while. Need to go to the doctor? Well, I can put that off for a while. Need to renew my license? Well, I probably won't get pulled over for it this month. It's amazing what necessities you can postpone, if you're willing to take on personal technical debt, in the form of risk.

This is how people at the lower end live "paycheck to paycheck". It's not just that they're dumb and spend every penny as soon as they get it. It's that they bend as many of the rules as they can, in order to maximize the cash they have on hand for the rules that can't be bent.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by JoeAltmaier on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:51AM (#18795019)
Except when it is. Generalities aren't helpful to the single parent working retail. Expenses aren't always optional.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by sharemywin on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:58AM (#18795062)
Don't forget the guilt when kids are involved.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by imustbeevil on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:10AM (#18795151)
In the vast majority of cases having a child is optional.

This perfectly illustrates the problem the GP brings up. People have no concept of what agency is.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by JoeAltmaier on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:20AM (#18795215)
Oh for God's sake. Have a child, get dumped/divorced, now you're a single parent. Parents are supposed to be omniscient? God already has a job (and parenting didn't work out so good then either)
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by eyko on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:09PM (#18795934)
Or your partner has a fatal disease or accident.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by astura on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:25PM (#18796034)
Ideally this case would be insured; you'd also be eligible for Social Security survivors benefits.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by greedo on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:29PM (#18798096)
Survivor benefits cap out at 75% of the worker's benefits. That itself caps out to $2675. So a spouse with kids would get at most $2006/month. Not horrible, but a parent with two kids would just be over the poverty level. And realistically, most people at that age would have small accrued benefits.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by refurb on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:42PM (#18798968)
$2000/month is more than a lot of people in the US make working full time.

I would argue $2000/month is a very significant benefit to a survivor. It’s also inflation adjusted.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by greedo on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @03:27PM (#18802126)
For a single person, sure. A single parent with 2 kids? Very scary.
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Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by Aeolun on Monday December 31, 2018 @06:48PM (#18797890)
Everyone should breed. That’s evolution.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by WalterSear on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:39PM (#18798131)
That's an asinine statement.

We aren't bacteria. We don't have to behave like bacteria, irregardless of one's relationship to authoritarianism or social conformity.

And we should not forgive, let alone celebrate, people who do behave like bacteria.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by randallsquared on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @12:12AM (#18799041)
It's not a nuanced statement, but it certainly isn't asinine. It's just the minimum positive effect you can have on the future -- the lowest bar, if you will.

You could, with similar effect, make the same statements about bacteria in response to "People should live" or "People should thrive".

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by WalterSear on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @03:00PM (#18801949)
In the context more than 75% of black children, and more than half of hispanic children being born out of wedlock, and comparable statistics for all poverty stricken population groups, calling it "the minimum positive effect you can have on the future" is a really an asinine statement. It's not a positive effect.

https://cis.org/Camarota/Births-Unmarried-Mothers-Nativity-a...

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by randallsquared on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @07:27PM (#18803326)
If you could tell someone with a single parent that they, for that reason, cannot have a positive effect on the future, then I don't think there is any basis for agreement between us on the topic.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by travisoneill1 on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:02PM (#18797965)
That would actually be the opposite of evolution
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by perfmode on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:54AM (#18795415)
There are powerful and influential institutions in the United States which limit access to birth control, sex education, and access to abortion.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by mAEStro-paNDa on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:03AM (#18795098)
This is an extremely important point.

Everyone deals with these kinds of intrapersonal conflicts and issues on a different breadth and scale, one way or another. It's this coupled with economic distress or anxiety, in addition to a massive income and wealth inequality, that produces the kind of conditions and struggle that people and families go through, like those described in this short article.

Sure, there are varying degrees of this issue. You have costs of living which vary depending on location, wages and salaries which vary by location as well as the occupation itself.

Despite this, it's still a grave mistake to simply pass many of this off as "they should get a better-paying job" or "they are living beyond their means" as some of the comments on the WaPo article itself suggests.

For the former, anyone who uses such an argument has in some form or fashion accepted the belief that some jobs should not pay a livable wage. It does not make any sense that anyone working a wage job full-time is still financially in poverty. This has nothing to do with the individual, but instead has everything to do with economic policy. That is not to say that, for example, fast food workers should not make as much as teachers. OK, then pay the teachers more. The bottom line is that no one who works a full-time job should be in poverty.

For the latter argument, this is mostly part of an ongoing cultural trend of laying all responsibility on the individual, regardless of systemic variables. The idea that in such an unequal society, where people exist who literally make more in a single day than others in an entire lifetime, we should instead scrutinize the people struggling economically, is just plain disingenuous.

The economy is broken and getting worse. More and more people are realizing it.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by pdimitar on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:05PM (#18795898)
Many people are very easily falling for the schadenfreude approach to others. It's not helping at all when a teacher who works two jobs gets bashed by their neighbours for not working hard enough.

Somehow, along the way, many people lost all compassion. I am really not sure what do they have to gain from being a-holes to genuinely struggling people. (Not everybody wants to change profession at 40-50 and they should not be forced to.)

As you said, nobody who is working full-time should be below the poverty line. Nobody.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by thelasthuman on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:18PM (#18798051)
While I appreciate where you are coming from, I disagree. No one should live in poverty, job or not.

But it does show how far we are from getting there when people can't even agree that people with jobs shouldn't be living in poverty.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by mAEStro-paNDa on Wednesday January 02, 2019 @08:22AM (#18805966)
To clarify, I do agree with this as well. My word choice was just to keep within the context of the thread here, although it might have been a good idea to explicitly state this also.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by zozbot123 on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:25PM (#18796752)
> For the former, anyone who uses such an argument has in some form or fashion accepted the belief that some jobs should not pay a livable wage...

What's a "livable wage"? The whole point of assessing whether people are "living beyond their means" is precisely to figure out if they're keeping their expenses within that 'livable wage' threshold. I think you'll find that most people with money-related issues ("poverty" in this context should be reserved for actual, true deprivation, which is vanishingly rare in the US! Social exclusion/marginalization is real, but it's a very different problem, with different ways of addressing it) are in fact not doing enough to keep their expenses in check.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by Aeolun on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:40PM (#18798136)
Vanishingly rare... 12.3%?

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Poverty_in_the_United_States

If 12% of your people are living in poverty as defined by your government then there may be something systematically wrong.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by spidey1 on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:43AM (#18794955)
How do you manage this conflict?

I think a lot of us suffer from this at different scales. I've always found it difficult to work on things that will pay off in the future, even if I plan something I just don't seem to be able to carry through a long term project to the end unless I'm in an environment where there's accountability such as deadlines on projects at work.

I'm very prone to instant gratification, which is why I can easily lose most of my spare time in video games, netflix, youtube etc.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by nunez on Monday December 31, 2018 @03:32PM (#18796806)
The way I "managed" it long-term was by creating a spreadsheet of all of the things I really want (like, spent years wanting) and their costs, adding them up, buffering it a little and saying "that's my target number, and I'm sticking to it." Last time I did this, I calculated that $5M is my number. This would generate about $200k/year with 4% return and withdrawal rate. Everything I do in my career is centered around getting to this number before I'm 45, so that I can decide whether I want to retire or not then. (I probably won't, but life isn't static.)

The way I manage it in the short-term is the two-week test. If I want a thing, and that thing is >10% of my remaining disposable income (which I budget every two weeks), I tell myself "if I still want this in two weeks, I will buy it or start saving for it then."

Example: I really wanted the custom truly-wireless IEMs that Bragi makes. However, they are $599; not a cheap purchase at about 50% my two-week disposable. Instead of buying them outright (I could, but that would affect disposable income for going out and stuff), I sat on it for several months while I tried other headphones. The urge to get them didn't go away, so I got them. What would have been an impulse purchase became a planned and extremely-worthwhile purchase.

My self-control isn't bulletproof, however. Our five-year old vacuum stopped working the other day. I tried repairing it several times, all to no avail. I got tired of having dirty carpet (our apartment is all carpet except for wet areas), so I went to Best Buy and got a new one. While I was there, I saw a Bissell Carpet Cleaner that looked really useful, as our carpets haven't been cleaned since we moved in three years ago. Both combined were about $500, but I impulse-bought it because dirty flooring drives me nuts. While I'm really happy with this purchase (there are few things more satisfying than seeing all of the gunk in your carpet vacuumed up), it was definitely impulsive, and my more responsible self should have waited on it.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by sokoloff on Monday December 31, 2018 @04:35PM (#18797182)
Aren’t those carpet cleaner rentals only $30 for 24-hours and at most home centers and grocers? I get wanting to have clean carpets, but I’d much rather rent and not have to deal with storing the thing, let alone buying it.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by nunez on Monday December 31, 2018 @05:07PM (#18797347)
This machine works better than carpet cleaner rentals, can be used whenever I want (I used it this morning to quickly pick up cat vomit residue :( ) and I can install a tool that allows it to work on bare floors
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by Yen on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:51PM (#18798179)
I haven't solved this for video games, youtube, etc. I'd be interested in a solution!

For disposable income purchases, we budgeted out income, necessary expenses, savings, travel, etc., everything that requires long-term planning. The surplus (a fairly small portion) we then divided out into a per-person, per-day allowance.

I use a simple Google Form to record discretionary purchases, tracking the results in a Sheet, to account for whether this discretionary budget has a positive balance.

This has the nice effect of translating dollar values into time values, and giving a reference point for trading off the relative hedonic value of small frequent purchases vs. large infrequent purchases.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by throwaway914472 on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:01AM (#18795082)
You may want to look into how to use hardware to implement a sort of Ulysses pact - depending on the nature of the behavior(s) that you want to control, a time-locking safe can work wonders.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by dv_dt on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:04PM (#18795893)
While there are many people who do make non-optimal choices, the increasing rate of this, IMHO points to systemic economic fairness issues much more than systemic self-sabotage.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by sjg007 on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:57AM (#18795060)
It is an interesting argument to blame people for their own problems that are largely structural and as the article indicates, effect a large swath of society. It's the same argument for blaming the homeless who say own an iPhone.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by sharemywin on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:59AM (#18795071)
The problem is it's both structural and personal decisions though.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by Aeolun on Monday December 31, 2018 @07:47PM (#18798163)
If you’ve recently become homeless, it’s very likely you still have an iPhone (and you better hold onto it).
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by scarejunba on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @06:16AM (#18799751)
The efficient decision would be to swap out into an Android phone of similar vintage and sell the iPhone. You’ll come out positive because iPhones hold value better.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by pixl97 on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @08:31AM (#18800096)
Um, no. iPhones hold value for multiple reasons. One of which is they last longer.

>This was the Captain Samuel Vimes 'Boots' theory of socioeconomic unfairness

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by zozbot123 on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @09:58AM (#18800407)
iPhones last five years until they go out of support and can no longer install or update most apps. An Android phone will last at least as much on OTA upgrades and OS support alone, and many of them can be made to last far longer once the OTA upgrades are up, by taking the time to unlock them and install the latest Android version they will run.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by jimmyspice on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @03:49PM (#18802263)
Maybe, but a homeless person may not have time for all that fiddling around
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by scarejunba on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @04:26PM (#18802489)
A homeless person has more time for that. Their time value is lower and so the gain they get from the difference in price between the Android and the iPhone is huge.

They don't care about security updates and all that shit. They don't care about new features. Just not an efficient use of money.

I have an iPad Pro and a MacBook Pro. I only just switched from an iPhone this year. I'm not anti-Apple. But the idea that low-wealth individuals should buy anything but an older Android is ridiculous. I can still use a Nexus 4. It still works.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by sjg007 on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @09:24AM (#18800275)
Yep.. buying the iPhone is the better economic decision if you need a smart phone.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by lukas099 on Tuesday January 01, 2019 @09:28AM (#18800288)
Why had you better hold onto it? Why not sell it and purchase a less-expensive phone and use the profit to improve your situation?
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by perfmode on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:44PM (#18796147)
In my case, the systemic root cause was a lack of opportunity stemming from immigration status.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by wildmusings on Monday December 31, 2018 @05:59PM (#18797609)
Both perspectives need to coexist. Yes, human beings are partially products of their environment. But that environment includes the moral disapproval of others, and people do respond to internalized moral sentiments. Those moral sentiments can be undermined by too many excuses accepted or made on their behalf.

Some people are naturally more conscientious than others. Their moral burden is lighter. Life is unfair like that, but the answer isn’t to exonerate the rest of us from moral responsibility for managing our own affairs. On the contrary, those moral sentiments are most important for those who struggle with self-discipline.

Which is not to say that it’s wrong to try to organize society to give people a better chance at succeeding in their moral struggles. But at the end of it all, every man must carry his own cross.

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by Balgair on Monday December 31, 2018 @11:28AM (#18795264)
This is very similar to the Allegory of the Chariot [0] from Plato's Phaedrus (370 BC) [1]. The Greeks were sometimes a keen bunch and Plato was one of the few of them that survived to the modern day. In this allegory, the person (really only males back then) had a soul divided into 3 parts: The charioteer, a base and somewhat evil pegasus, and a noble and good pegasus, with each of the pegasuses harnessed to the chariot. In life, the goal was to rise above the clouds to view heaven (more strictly, the 'forms' of Beauty, Reason, etc). The charioteer had to guide the base and the noble pegasuses and keep them from attacking each other, rioting, and generally distracting from the goal of reaching heaven.

In the allegory, the charioteer is the reasoning part of a person, the base pegasus was the 'appetites'/greed/hedonistic and the more 'limbic' parts of the person, the noble pegasus was the thumos of the person. Thumos is a very different mental model for us moderns, but was common for the ancient greeks. Think of it as 'spiritedness', but the word as used by Plato had elements of victory/political/hotheadedness/manliness baked into it [2]. The pegasuses weren't just 'good vs. evil', as even the thumos pegasus could get out of hand for the 'reasoning' charioteer, and the base pegasus was needed to tell the person to eat, to have intercourse, to react to danger, etc.

I point this out to give the parent commentor another mental model to help process things in life. We're MUCH more than just the 'higher' and 'lower' parts of ourselves. Plato thought of himself as a tripartite soul, and in typical Plato fashion, totally forgets about things like humor that can't be included in his Chariot Allegory. I'd encourage others to look into other traditions and philosophies to see of any other mental models work for them. 'Eudamonia'[3] is something we all should reach for; not every mental tool is one-size-fits-all.

[0] https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/what-is-a-man-the-al...

[1] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Phaedrus_(dialogue)

[2] https://www.artofmanliness.com/articles/got-thumos/

[3] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Eudaimonia

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by eli_gottlieb on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:01PM (#18795872)
>Most people are slaves to their limbic systems.

Excuse me, but would you mind not repeating this meme in the future? The "limbic system" is actually at the core of human consciousness and cognition, and at the core of what "reasoning" really is. The story of the brain as having a "rational human part" and an "emotional animal part" is a myth and a canard.

If you could rephrase or reconsider, you'd have the thanks of everyone in the neuroscience lab where I work ;-).

Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by throwaway_98554 on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:26PM (#18796040)
We all understood what he meant. But if you can provide a superior alternative conveying the same meaning succinctly, please do.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by whatshisface on Monday December 31, 2018 @01:37PM (#18796112)
It would be more accurate to describe it with words less scientifically specific than "limbic system," because what everyone is talking about is a partition of motivations, not a partition of individual nerve cells. You could just call it the "flesh" and the "spirit," those are the Bible's terms. People have known that there is a tension between what they want to do and what they actually do for a long time.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by bfuller on Monday December 31, 2018 @06:05PM (#18797646)
Wow thank you for this deeply personal comment
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by damnhungry on Monday December 31, 2018 @10:47AM (#18794983)
That really echoes with me. Great that you are making improvement.
Re:Living paycheck to paycheck is disturbingly common by usgroup on Monday December 31, 2018 @05:14PM (#18797392)
Thanks for sharing these thoughts. I appreciate you.