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Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it was immoral?

“A man has not everything to do, but something; and because he cannot do everything, it is not necessary that he should do something wrong.” [0]

Not only is there no reward, nor can you ever expect a reward, for doing the right thing, it also often comes at a personal cost.

[0] https://en.wikiquote.org/wiki/Civil_Disobedience_%28Thoreau%29

( 48 comments | 14 points | on HN )
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by PlunderBunny on Thursday June 12, 2025 @10:36PM (#44265267)
A recruiter once asked me, before talking about anything else, if there were any software development jobs I wouldn't consider doing. I said something along the lines of "nothing involving gambling or the military" and I think that was as far as I got before he politely ended the call.

I guess it's better for both parties to be clear at the outset. We should all think about where we draw the line.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by MattPalmer1086 on Friday June 13, 2025 @04:58AM (#44266911)
Those are pretty much the criteria I specify. Although I don't so much mind working on defensive tech, just not offensive. Also no tobacco companies.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by archagon on Friday June 13, 2025 @03:57PM (#44271721)
As it so happens, there is no "offense sector." Any defense tech can and will be used for offense.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by whatevertrevor on Friday June 13, 2025 @07:11PM (#44273088)
Ultimately if you're working on weapons tech you don't get any say in how the technology will be used, there are very very few things that can only be deployed defensively. Because defending an open line in a war theatre can totally be an offensive action. On the flip side plenty of military offensives have been justified as preemptive defense. Not only the lines are blurry, they're not under your control unless you're actually in the chain of command.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by MattPalmer1086 on Saturday June 14, 2025 @09:33AM (#44276353)
Sure, if you work on weapons tech itself, but there are other technologies used in the defence sector.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by whatevertrevor on Saturday June 14, 2025 @06:13PM (#44279189)
I'd need specific examples, because without those I don't see how other deeper supply chain techs are different in any way.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by duxup on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:18PM (#44264851)
I didn't refuse a job. I just didn't do the bad part ...

Only time this happened to me was one of my first jobs. I worked phone tech support for a consumer PC manufacturer in the mid to late 1990s.

The company decided their 3 year hardware warranty was suddenly now 1 year. They decided this retroactively... I thought it was wrong. I spoke up to my boss, they agreed and passed our thoughts up the chain, but after that it was all yes men so we never heard back.

I was just some on and off again college kid and figured, whatever, so despite the new rule change if I thought they should get hardware (I had access to their original warranty data), they got hardware. I mentioned it to other coworkers and they did the same.

Few years later the company relented after they were sued. Nothing ever came of my actions as far as anyone noticing, or at least not enough to care, pretty sure my boss knew.

Otherwise all my jobs are pretty run of the mill legal activity.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by neilv on Thursday June 12, 2025 @10:07PM (#44265143)
"Not Accepted" -- If you know anything about industry or the world, you can't go through a listing of ten tech jobs, without immediately rejecting some jobs from consideration, because they're morally/ethically icky.

(Just yesterday, I paused, and then sent a recruiter notes on why I wasn't interested in a couple companies they'd selected for me. Not to be That Person, but because I wanted to help them find what's interesting to me, and also to invite them to push back if my initial assessment of a company was off.)

"Left a Job" -- This is much harder than not accepting/considering, but it also happens. A couple variations:

* I'm guessing the most common way might not be deciding that you have to leave because of something immoral, but you're forced out before then, because you don't play along with the immoral or whatever is leading up to it. (This reason could be coming across as goodie-two-shoes risk, or refusing to so some immoral thing, or actively working to reverse/prevent some immoral thing.)

* Something immoral might be going on, but there are additional reasons to leave. Such as (predictably) people behaving immorally wrt customers or society might also behave immorally wrt employees/colleagues. So you might leave because the work environment is hazardous, your coworkers are backstabby, or you were cheated out of a bonus... even before you decide that the business of kicking puppies is wrong.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by irvingprime on Friday June 13, 2025 @12:02AM (#44265631)
I once cut off an interview as soon as the interviewer told me the job was building and maintaining a porn site. Never made it to an actual job offer.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by andersco on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:39PM (#44264967)
Yes, after working as a dba for a law firm and discovering that I was the administrator for thousands of lawsuits against tobacco companies. In many cases the victim had already died of lung cancer and the suit was being brought by family members. Many of the families’ income was near poverty level. At the same time, the law firm was in a plush nyc office building. I spent day after day feeling like I wanted to throw up and finally quit.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by barbarr on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:45PM (#44265008)
Wait, what about it made you want to throw up? Was it that the proceeds from lawsuits were being garnished by the law firm rather than going towards the families?
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by jjj123 on Thursday June 12, 2025 @10:04PM (#44265118)
Is it not assumed that they were defending the tobacco companies?
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by barbarr on Friday June 13, 2025 @01:43AM (#44265995)
ohhh, yea I terribly misread that
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by tailspin2019 on Saturday June 14, 2025 @05:42PM (#44279035)
Fwiw I read it the same way as you!
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by andersco on Friday June 13, 2025 @03:53AM (#44266600)
Yes, thanks for the clarification. One of this law firm’s main clients was one of the big tobacco companies. Also this was in the mid 90s before the big tobacco settlements.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by sshine on Thursday June 12, 2025 @11:19PM (#44265445)
Image recognition for cameras on tanks and ships using Nvidia Jetson. Job ad wasn’t very informative, and didn’t even mention they were military contractors. In the interview they kept using kittens as the example of something you wouldn’t shoot. And that I shouldn’t worry, because they only sell these systems to the good countries. Had me sit and read the employee manual for 30 minutes at the first interview. They had a strict “no porn at work” policy. Fortunately the other place I interviewed offered +15% on salary.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by atlgator on Thursday June 12, 2025 @11:32PM (#44265502)
Out of curiosity, is the porn at work policy less strict at the job you accepted?
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by sshine on Friday June 13, 2025 @12:01AM (#44265627)
I’ve never worked anywhere with a “no porn at work” policy. In my country we let people figure out for themselves how to spend a restroom break.

Felt like these guys had had an incident, and now every candidate then has to promise to sleep with their hands above the blanket.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by BobaFloutist on Friday June 13, 2025 @07:14PM (#44273102)
Even if you agree with not watching porn at work on principle, it's weird to have it as an explicit policy. It's like if the employee manual has a "No stealing the office supplies" or a "No office fight-clubs" policy.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by dragonwriter on Friday June 13, 2025 @07:21PM (#44273134)
> Even if you agree with not watching porn at work on principle, it's weird to have it as an explicit policy. It's like if the employee manual has a "No stealing the office supplies" or a "No office fight-clubs" policy.

No personal use (with incidental use exceptions for some items, and often exhaustive examples of what is and isn't incidental) of company property and zero tolerance for workplace violence of any kind policies are pretty common, IME.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by sshine on Saturday June 14, 2025 @02:28AM (#44274624)
They’re common expectations, not common policies. Whenever there’s a policy, it means someone did something, and they had to make a rule.

No sunbathing on the roof.

No eating the office supplies.

I’m certainly going to create a

  No office fight clubs
           - Management
and hang it in the next office I visit.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by BobaFloutist on Saturday June 14, 2025 @12:25PM (#44277259)
Sure, and if there was a policy of no sexual harassment including openly watching porn, wearing sexually explicit apparel, or discussing your active sex life and a policy of no using your employer's internet for personal matters other than direct communication with family and friends, especially calling out watching porn, pirating digital media, or playing videogames as examples, that would be one thing.

It's having an explicit, naked, unadorned policy specifically stating "Don't watch porn on company time" not in the context of an umbrella policy that's strange. Much like having an aside "Also don't start a fight club please" or "By the way, don't stuff your bag full of office supplies" would be weird.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by neilv on Thursday June 12, 2025 @11:16PM (#44265429)
This post seems to have been unlinked somehow. It's not marked flagged, but I can't find it within 20 pages from front page (where I first saw it), nor in either of the 2 "ask" pages.

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Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by nelsonfigueroa on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:54PM (#44265058)
Not exactly rejected a job since I didn't have a hard offer, but every time Facebook/Meta recruiters want to talk to me about job opportunities I turn them down.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by captain_coffee on Saturday June 14, 2025 @01:55PM (#44277734)
Meta is pretty much the only big tech company that I actively boycott. Nuked all of my account years ago and I have never looked back. Amazon is the other big tech that I refuse to work for, regardless of role / department / location.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by zevon on Thursday June 12, 2025 @10:30PM (#44265244)
Yes, I have left a job because there was immoral and violent behavior going on against vulnerable co-workers and due to long-established power structures, change wasn't really possible.

On a broader level, I've made a choice long ago to try and not work in domains I consider morally questionable.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by darklake on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:23PM (#44264875)
Yes, my wife left a school because it was being run by a drunk woman; I did not accept a job at a _defense_ contractor (Lockheed)because they could not assure me my work would only be for defensive efforts
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by joegibbs on Thursday June 12, 2025 @11:17PM (#44265435)
Isn't defence just a euphemism for war? I don't think many people assume they actually mean strict defensive efforts when countries talk about Defence Forces etc.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by lordkrandel on Friday June 13, 2025 @03:40AM (#44266544)
Sometimes, war happens to you even if you don't want it. Having no defenses doesn't mean you and your family are safe.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by readthenotes1 on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:56PM (#44265065)
That's kind of weird. Everyone knows the best defense is a good offense...
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by sshine on Thursday June 12, 2025 @11:08PM (#44265400)
Ender’s Game
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by berbec on Friday June 13, 2025 @01:19AM (#44265911)
The enemy portal is down
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by protocolture on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:48PM (#44265030)
Left the NFP space because of the waste and graft.

Left another job because it basically required me to lie to customers.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by senectus1 on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:50PM (#44265042)
I once got fired in retail for refusing to oversell a pensioner that didnt need what the sales manager demanded we sell her.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by afpx on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:49PM (#44265039)
Does being fired count?
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by overu589 on Thursday June 12, 2025 @09:04PM (#44264782)
So true.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by DougN7 on Friday June 13, 2025 @12:52AM (#44265785)
Yes, I left a job after it turned out that the company was basically a massive email address harvester, personal information data broker, and spam company. Bunch of very slimy people for the most part.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by l0b0 on Friday June 13, 2025 @01:44AM (#44265997)
Absolutely, although it never got as far as an actual job offer before the rejection. A couple of minutes of online searches should be enough to highlight any horrible behaviour before even applying.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by l0b0 on Friday June 13, 2025 @01:45AM (#44266002)
"Not only is there no reward, nor can you ever expect a reward, for doing the right thing, it also often comes at a personal cost."

That's too cynical. I take personal satisfaction in not taking such jobs, and that's no small award.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by masteruvpuppetz on Friday June 13, 2025 @02:04AM (#44266077)
I turned down a website development offer when I learnt it was for pay-day loans (interest is haram).
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by BrandoElFollito on Friday June 13, 2025 @06:56AM (#44267411)
Well, an Islamic, Sharia-compliant bank will make money on you by purchasing the good and loaning it to you at a higher price.

This is a hidden riba (interest)

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by lordkrandel on Friday June 13, 2025 @03:39AM (#44266535)
Left a job where the made me change a SQL stored procedure that changed the emergency number phone routing by hand in production, with no test setup. Main reason to leave the job was ethical. Then, they also paid me half what I deserved
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by Daviey on Friday June 13, 2025 @04:48AM (#44266855)
A tobacco company offered me quite lucrative work, but I didn't want to support it. And I was a smoker at the time.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by chrsgrrtt on Friday June 13, 2025 @06:39AM (#44267320)
We had a high 6 figure brief from a tobacco company (looking to break into vapes) a few years ago. Was easily ruled out within 20 minutes of discussion.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by AndrewDucker on Friday June 13, 2025 @07:50AM (#44267674)
Company I worked for was taken over, and they treated the old owner very badly. So I left at the point of the handover. Never regretted it.
Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by RickJWagner on Friday June 13, 2025 @08:31AM (#44267931)
No, but I did have a bit of a conundrum once.

I was politically opposed to ACA/Obamacare in the early stages. When it launched, the website had big problems and crashed constantly. It was a huge embarrassment for the administration. I was working in a support/diagnostic role and was invited to participate in a multi-company tiger team that was on the problem. ( The only time my work efforts were covered in the nightly news! )

I dug into the task as well as I could and made a small contribution. I gave it my very best effort.

The fact that I opposed it at the time, but gave it my best effort is one of the proudest moments of my career.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by incomingpain on Friday June 13, 2025 @08:45AM (#44268015)
Long story short... I'm at a temp job I basically just started and the foreman, business owner, and I are standing on the sidewalk.

A huge black dude, who probably can deadlift 500lbs, comes up to us and asks if he could have a job. This place desperately needed workers...

The owner with no hesitation, "we dont hire ni..." and it didnt stop there. He listed a number of other slurs as well.

I walked off the job and quit without even telling them. 80% because i dont want to beaten up by a very fit black dude. 20% for 'doing the right thing.

Here's the weird thing... this is Windsor Ontario, Canada next to detroit(80% black). The Slave 'underground railroad's destination was mostly here. There's loads of black people and being a nazi or whatever is extremely rare and bizarre.

Re:Ask HN: Have you not accepted or left a job because it wa... by dtagames on Friday June 13, 2025 @09:16AM (#44268243)
My game studio with a 10 year history pivoted to NFTs (a decision from the founder) and went out of business 2 years later because of it, laying off 37 people. Most swore we would never work in crypto again and many stayed unemployed rather than interview with crypto companies that recruited us.

Three folks did get hired fairly quickly. The took a job in another NFT game startup. Ugh.