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Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by superb-owl on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @03:09PM (#41249460)
A Life of One's Own is incredible, and is one of two books I credit with changing my life.

I reviewed it partially here: https://superbowl.substack.com/p/how-to-enjoy-things

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @03:57PM (#41249889)
don't know if additional vocabulary might help you turn up anything more useful, but the "narrow attention"/"wide attention" dichotomy you point out is something I've mostly heard talked about in metaphorical terms: a "hard eyes"/"soft eyes" dichotomy.
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by superb-owl on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @04:51PM (#41250385)
Neat! I've never heard that one, will definitely add it to my vocab
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by dang on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @05:23PM (#41250657)
If you guys want to go down an unusually interesting rabbit hole, the book Open-Focus Brain by Les Fehmi and (especially) the associated audio exercises, is all about this.

The exercises are something like guided meditations, but unique in my experience, and I never do exercises like that. It's a pity that his work isn't better known*. He died a couple years ago.

* Edit: although HN does not disappoint!

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=12712532 (Oct 2016)

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=8721704 (Dec 2014)

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=8718142 (Dec 2014)

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Thursday August 15, 2024 @02:27PM (#41258982)
Interesting: it sounds like we do something similar with animals (training them not to close down their focus and fixate on things that might well, in a state of nature, be alarming, but don't really matter when living with people in a 21st century environment) but it's kind of hard to say while the Fehmi exercises are still in copyright...

EDIT: the pain relief part seems completely orthogonal to what I was talking about above, but the perception of attention and especially gaps in attention is something that one finds in japanese martial zen...

(for instance, the "3 pwns": the lowest level is to "pwn the sword", where you physically react quickly enough to counter an opponent's action; the intermediate level is to "pwn the technique", where by recognising the start of a technique one can predict where it will end, thus gaining time to counter; the advanced level is to "pwn the spirit", where by recognising where an opponent's attention lies one can predict what techniques they will attempt, thus gaining even more time...)

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by dang on Friday August 23, 2024 @02:00AM (#41326491)
Belated reply here - I don't fully understand what you're saying but I did hear that Les Fehmi was an accomplished Zen practitioner and used to hang out with Leonard Cohen at Mount Baldy.
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by zee_kristoffer on Wednesday August 21, 2024 @04:28PM (#41313931)
Are you still practicing them?
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by dang on Friday August 23, 2024 @01:52AM (#41326474)
Yes—they're quite remarkable and I've not encountered anything else like them. But I wouldn't use the word "practice"—I'm more of a dilettante.

I listen to one of them (the 'head and hands' one) whenever I have trouble sleeping. Inevitably one of two things happens: either (1) I fall asleep, or (2) I end up in an expanded state—and either option is fine with me.

I have the impression that Fehmi was disappointed that he didn't win over more people to become serious practitioners. People would resort to his stuff when they were in a difficult place but they wouldn't necessarily practice it every day.

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Friday August 23, 2024 @07:03AM (#41327922)
> ...listen to one of them (the 'head and hands' one) whenever I have trouble sleeping

My father taught me an "instasleep" system that may(?) be related: basically you start distally and work proximally, becoming aware of any tension in body parts and allowing them to relax. When I do it I feel "myself" kind of "diffusing" to meet my environment, like fresh and salt water meeting to form a brackish zone, sometimes with a rocking sensation, and I usually fall asleep well before getting to core muscles. (when I was younger, people used to ask "how can you fall asleep on rocks?" to which I replied "you have to choose the comfortable ones", but it was likely more this technique)

The oddest thing about this technique is the source: although it sounds very Baba Cool, he'd been taught it in Uncle Sam's service.

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by gradschoolfail on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @08:52PM (#41252208)
I hadn’t heard of this particular duality, and it seems to throw up some very instructive blogposts in sportscoaching.

Expertise through peripheral vision is a pet obsession of mine, this is an almost academic article from that rabbit-hole (pdf; maybe they could have expanded on the dichotomy, though :)

Dreyfus & Dreyfus, 2005 Peripheral Vision: Expertise in Real World Contexts https://www.wellesu.com/10.1177/0170840605053102

Also would like to point out (maybe tangentially I’m afraid,) that in another HN thread, user mjburgess has a dichotomy of his own, the narcissistic/borderline[0]. It seems to be a refinement of Field’s masculine/feminine dichotomy in TFA! (as a bonus, “rhymes” with Aristotelian vice, “geometrically”) That whole thread imho relevant— psychiatry is finally moving on from psychoanalysis. Nevertheless, eye-opening to see ideas as they birth, in the basement of the (also, now “collective”) mind!

[0] https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41246273

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Thursday August 15, 2024 @02:29PM (#41258994)
on a tangent to the tangent, the NPD-leader BPD-follower model reminded me (even in one or two details) of Bob Altemeyer's studies of "authoritarian followers".

EDIT: regarding Dreyfus & Dreyfus, it's interesting to think of expertise in terms of Minsky's Society of Mind: what if there's just as much deliberative choice going on for the expert, but it's no longer perceived at a conscious level? [go far enough along these lines of course, and you arrive at Jayne's ... Breakdown of the Bicameral Mind (1976), which is probably a bit too far]

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by gradschoolfail on Thursday August 15, 2024 @07:56PM (#41261758)
By deliberative, do you mean something more sophisticated than “deterministic” ( to mean, e.g., that regarding a process that integrates internal & external inputs in a way that cannot be Kolmogorov-decompressed :)?

More concretely, can a coach note the differences — why world champions need coaches, not necessarily coaches who were themselves world champions.

>[haha]

mjburgess thread commenter came back with anxiety-depression axis, which seems personally more salient, as I seem to wander into latent conflicts with depressives who seem depressed at the same level that i am anxious (in a particular situation).

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41254674

Tangent to the tangent to the tangent (maybe this is the right moment to call it “peripheral”, if not “bounding”):

Meditating on this rare moment of anger (because of the vitious still in myself) https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=41225388

That said, any pointers from Altemeyer I should watch out for before I go into a deepdive mapping the NB axis to the DA axis?

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Sunday August 18, 2024 @06:25AM (#41281449)
Yes, by deliberative I was taking seriously the notion (from Society of Mind and Man who Mistook his Wife for a Hat) that our qualia of consciousness may be a quasifictional single-threaded experience which we tell ourselves to explain actions which we've actually arrived at in a far less totally-ordered manner.

On coaching and anxiety as overthinking the future: a big part of dealing with horses is to notice when they're overthinking [the danger in] a situation, and focus their concentration upon activity in the here-and-now, one after the other*, but staying with what needs to be done and not leaving space for anxiety about what might happen. This is difficult for them at first, but gets easier and easier with practice. (one of the aims of both european and "western" training is to get a horse to a point where it can go into the equine equivalent of an on guard position, ready for any movement, not because it is excited but because it is relaxed)

[I certainly couldn't arrange all the muscle firings for four legs and a neck to carry both myself and a rider through even a halfway complicated movement, but acting as coach I can help a horse to improve how they do so.]

I've also used this focus on myself: one of the better moments of my fencing career was a bout in which I was down 0-9, and said to myself "I'm obviously choking here; time to change something", and so by concentrating solely on winning precisely each current point ("no past no future") eventually won 15-12.

* compare https://www.rand.org/content/dam/rand/pubs/research_memorand... which argues that if you have a small mind coping with a wide world, a next-state automaton is both necessary and (insofar as it's the best you can do given the size mismatch) sufficient.

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by calstad on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @09:03PM (#41252243)
What’s the other one?
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by superb-owl on Wednesday August 21, 2024 @04:18PM (#41313834)
Glad you asked! _Facing the Dragon_ by Robert Moore

https://superbowl.substack.com/p/book-review-facing-the-drag...

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by gradschoolfail on Thursday August 22, 2024 @07:24PM (#41325125)
Thank you! This does look like it could provide a much needed perspective to some Nietzsche-adjacent issues (relating to his own “cosmodicy”) that I have been wrestling with others about.. especially as I recently, off-handedly, in anger, in grandiosity even, accused somebodies of being well-intentioned bullies.. Also relevant to organizational/selves herding, of course ;)

EDIT: if i may, your review makes me imagine that one socially virtuous mantra (or vitious countermand?) to meditate upon in mitigation of narcissism could be “loyalty to the Other”

Tangential EDIT: it could also be worth meditating on the wide spread opinions that Ayn Rand (mentioned above) and Nietzsche are both young people’s (mostly young men’s) writers

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Saturday August 24, 2024 @05:27AM (#41336815)
> DEUS FACTUS SUM

as opposed to Vespasian, who on his deathbed, is said to have said:

> Vae, puto deus fio.

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by gradschoolfail on Sunday August 25, 2024 @07:57AM (#41346658)
Dude apparently didnt get to consult, e.g. his personal astrolger Seleucus (pro Weirdo? Oriental? Wojack? AOTA?)

Or he’d have said instead

< Deus, vae, felix fio

(Did i get that right?)

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Monday August 26, 2024 @01:38AM (#41354311)
Most felicitous, for tomorrow he could be sure of being free from meeting with people (for surely if there were such a century later, they'd already been there in Vespasian's time) who are meddling, ungrateful, aggressive, treacherous, malicious, unsocial.
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by gradschoolfail on Monday August 26, 2024 @09:13PM (#41363762)
I hope this isnt directed at me but i was glad to see some HN comments getting unflagged yesterday. Cant expect curmudgeons to become real estate salesmen* overnight..

* et tu, Livy? https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/curmudgeon

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by 082349872349872 on Tuesday August 27, 2024 @01:30AM (#41364796)
Not directed at you; it was recalling how MAA noted that the reward for being at the very top of a hierarchy is getting to spend your waking hours in the company of the sorts of people who get near the top of hierarchies: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=38930334
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by aidenn0 on Wednesday August 14, 2024 @10:57PM (#41252780)
Very off-topic, but has anyone ever read a book that someone else credited with changing their life and felt like their own life was changed?

Anecdotally I haven't despite having read at least a dozen such books. Assuming I'm not an outlier, I think it's a bit like the "monad tutorial fallacy[1]" where the book crystalizes things that have already been bouncing around in one's head, rather than being the original source of the change.

1: https://byorgey.wordpress.com/2009/01/12/abstraction-intuiti...

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by fragmede on Thursday August 15, 2024 @12:39AM (#41253126)
The Alchemist came recommend that way to me, and it's certainly shaped how I think about certain things.
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by andrepd on Thursday August 15, 2024 @01:51AM (#41253431)
Good example, because I thought it was a terrible book, utterly pedestrian and pseudo-deep.
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by phoe-krk on Thursday August 15, 2024 @04:36AM (#41254088)
One man's pedestrian book is another man's lifechanging literature. Everything depends on whether the words that one is reading are what, when, and how they need to read.

That's why reading a ton of books, and re-reading old ones, are both decent ideas. Something is gonna stick, even if purely via application of statistics.

Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by aidenn0 on Thursday August 15, 2024 @10:53AM (#41256840)
I was guessing that would come up. If it's not the most recommended book to me as a "will change your life" book, it's near the top.
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by mikestew on Thursday August 15, 2024 @10:39AM (#41256696)
My experience has been that a book gets recommended, but I’ve already read it (and I read a fair bit, but I’m not a bookworm). It is rare that I’ve had a recommendation that wasn’t already on the “usual suspects” list. On those rare occasions, yeah, it wasn’t all that (usually some pop self-help book).
Re:Hilary Mantel Reviews “A Life of One's Own/An Experiment ... by BoingBoomTschak on Friday August 16, 2024 @05:53AM (#41264857)
"Might is Right" (https://ia803202.us.archive.org/0/items/might-is-right-by-ra...). Not as a way to form a personal philosophy, it's obviously not a book to build but to tear down. And in that regard it does it better and simpler than Nietzsche and with much less stupidity than Stirner, in my opinion.

I also find the writing style pretty attractive, same way that Magma's music can be "attractive".

I guess that Kaczynski's short manifesto could also change some lives, as it is pretty good (not without faults, though).