It's reassuring to know that I'm not alone (so presumably it's not just because I'm a terrible developer), but disheartening at the same time because who knows when things will improve?
I'm in an ok situation financially (no mortgage, earning a little bit doing AI training) so have the freedom to develop a couple apps of my own. This is something I've wanted to do for ages, but they're a long way from making any kind of money. I can't complain but I'd really rather have a stable income at this stage.
It sucks but now but it won't be forever
Congrats on getting married though! It’s why I’m trying to find a job haha.
And yeah! Honestly it took a while for me to propose because we were having financial difficulties at the time, too, and I wanted to do things right. But even with hindsight, if I had known I would've run out of money after the wedding, I wouldn't have done anything differently at all. It was an amazing day and worth it all. Do whatever you can to make that day exactly what you want, there is no other feeling like it. Best of luck to you
I am starting a new job in April with a company that contacted me via LinkedIn in December.
I've added a note near the top of my post clarifying that the "early-career" of the title is only because I'm speaking from my own experience.
I’ve got 20 years in tech: web, mobile, cloud and early in my career I won a NASA medal for software innovation - worked in dozens of industries and led teams of 40 people for MM$$ flagship applications
Tried my network but nothing so far and its been really frustrating