Congrats on getting married though! It’s why I’m trying to find a job haha.

And yeah! Honestly it took a while for me to propose because we were having financial difficulties at the time, too, and I wanted to do things right. But even with hindsight, if I had known I would've run out of money after the wedding, I wouldn't have done anything differently at all. It was an amazing day and worth it all. Do whatever you can to make that day exactly what you want, there is no other feeling like it. Best of luck to you