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Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by 303uru on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @11:16AM (#38086109)
Sure, that's one model. The underlying problem is the completely unregulated nature. Similarly, there is household in my neighborhood that home schools. The kids (all 8 of them) never leave the house. They have a 8ft. fence and 1 acre yard where I assume they get some outside time. No one visits. Only dad is allowed to talk to anyone and when he does it's extraordinarily weird.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by brodouevencode on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @11:20AM (#38086184)
For this anecdote I can provide you with about 20 anecdotes that are the complete opposite in nature. There is no regulation, but does there need to be? Homeschoolers take the same standardized tests as everyone else - that's about as regulatory as it needs to be (and even that's questionable).
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by rjbwork on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @11:57AM (#38086863)
This is just not the case. In many states it's nearly completely unregulated, and the home school lobby is working diligently to strip even those regulations.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by colpabar on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @12:25PM (#38087323)
You didn't answer his question - why are regulations on teaching your own children in your own home so necessary?
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by 303uru on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @01:32PM (#38088418)
Stripping myself of my morals and ethics, sure. Maybe I don’t need to give a shit whether someone else’s kid has any future. I’d rather care.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by brodouevencode on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @01:44PM (#38088592)
This assumes government schools has everyone's morals and ethics in mind.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by whatshisface on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:02PM (#38088873)
What we see in the education debate is a consistent lack of care for the kids who get ahead (why'd they get ahead of my kids?) and a consistent care for the kids being left behind, and that produces a trend to regulation and centralization that extinguishes anything good. The same forces that take children away from highly dedicated parents and put them into underfunded districts take advanced course tracks and the creativity of teachers away from them when they get there.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by eduction on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:30PM (#38089297)
This is an insightful way of framing things. It had not occurred to me to look at it this way. It describes my own issues with school growing up and my own interest in homeschooling — the chance to provide individualized instruction and to tap into play and creativity. Schools can provide a baseline but for bright, motivated students they can be like a straightjacket. It's interesting and I suppose logical that the arguments against homeschooling focus on the idea that the practice dangerously removes that baseline. (I don't find those arguments particularly convincing because I had troubled peers who I went to public school with, and the school system helped precisely none of them substantially improve their lives.)
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by whatshisface on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:12PM (#38089933)
On top of that there is an element of "liability control" where putting troubled kids in the same unsuccessful system as the other troubled kids makes the kids the problem, while putting them in a different unsuccessful system, which counts as an action in the non-utilitarian trolley problem ethics of our culture, and leads to some fraction of blame falling on the individual who tried to change the outcome.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by CryptoBanker on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:16PM (#38089087)
Because one day those children are going to grow up, leave the home, and interact with other members of society. At that point it becomes a public interest.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by lcnPylGDnU4H9OF on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:50PM (#38089566)
> At that point it becomes a public interest.

This doesn't seem to be so self-evident. Why do I care about the education of those around me?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by illirik on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:19PM (#38090027)
A well-educated population is generally considered to be a good thing. That’s why schooling is compulsory in almost every country in the world.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by lcnPylGDnU4H9OF on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @09:19PM (#38093498)
This seems to be the conclusion. I’m not sure how people arrive here.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by alistairSH on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:02PM (#38089777)
An educated populace...

...generates more economic activity

...understands basic civics and government

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by bigstrat2003 on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @06:00PM (#38092006)
> ...understands basic civics and government

The public school system isn't doing that for our fellow citizens already. I fail to see why it would be worse if the failure happens at home rather than in a government building.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by alistairSH on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @08:33AM (#38097372)
My comment was a direct response to the question "why should I care if my neighbors are educated?"

And that's a fair criticism of some public schools. And some home-schoolers. And probably some private schools.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by AnimalMuppet on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:18PM (#38090020)
Because they're going to be your neighbors, your co-workers, and your fellow voters.

That's also why you care about the state of the public school system, even if you have no kids (or they don't attend public school).

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by colpabar on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:05PM (#38089822)
Sure. I just don’t think this argument that any child who is homeschooled is going to grow up and be a complete idiot and never contribute to society is a good one, especially since all of the comments in this thread making that argument are using anecdotes as evidence. I recently found out the band director at my high school was fucking kids. Can I use that to argue against all public schools? Of course not, so others should not be able to say “well I knew a kid who was homeschooled by a religious weirdo so all homeschooling is bad.”

It’s just odd that so many people here seem to be so in favor of the “sit down and shut up” style of schooling. Isn’t it pretty widely agreed upon that US public schools suck? Don’t you think there are some parents who are homeschooling their children explicitly because they feel their public school would not prepare them to be good members of society?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by daddylongstroke on Friday November 03, 2023 @08:10PM (#38136672)
Yes, absolutely it is pretty widely agreed that US public schools suck. We have cities and states with no math and english competency attainment requirements. Let that sink in!
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by brodouevencode on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:20PM (#38090046)
You're assuming that these existing regulations (assuming the ones in public education) produce a net good. Based on what I'm seeing from here that's not so much the case.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by rjbwork on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:50PM (#38090487)
Because one of the biggest ways that child abuse is detected and abated is by interaction between students and children. Isolating children in insular communities is a really great way to abuse them and hide the evidence of it.

Regular interaction with non-custodial adults provides more opportunities for child abuse to be uncovered and stopped. You can go on youtube and hear myriad testimonials from former homeschooled kids that were abused for years on end. And nobody knew. Nobody even had a chance to know.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by dragonwriter on Friday November 03, 2023 @09:38PM (#38137237)
Because children aren’t parental property and their education is a obligation parents have to them, not a service for the benefit of the parent. Standards for education of children in the home are needed for the same reason as other standards for care, conditions, and treatment of children in the home are.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by watwut on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @04:14PM (#38090708)
Homeschooling famillies do not do the same tests. And especially families whose kids are less likely to ace those tests will avoid them when they are voluntary.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by daddylongstroke on Friday November 03, 2023 @08:13PM (#38136702)
In most states, they absolutely do the same tests. We are, most often, required to by the state. The tests are provided (mostly) by the same two companies that provide the testing materials for the majority of end of year public school testing.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by dragonwriter on Friday November 03, 2023 @09:35PM (#38137226)
> Homeschoolers take the same standardized tests as everyone else

Varies a lot by states. Some states have no assessment requirement for honeschooled students at all, some have a requirement to keep a portfolio which may or may not be reviewed, some have an standardized testing requirement with more flexibility and lower frequency than public schools, and some have homeschool students take the same standardized tests as everyone else.

https://education.uslegal.com/homeschooling/homeschooling-la...

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by edgyquant on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @11:26AM (#38086288)
> underlying problem is the completely unregulated nature

No that’s literally the main benefit. People actually get to teach their own kids without state indoctrination (either left or right.)

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by spacephysics on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:33PM (#38089334)
Fully agree, this is the primary benefit.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by alistairSH on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:59PM (#38089712)
I love that when a parent tells a kid that Jesus rode a velociraptor it's "teaching" but when a school tells a kid the universe probably started with a big bang, it's "indoctrination".
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by dheerajvs on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @01:08AM (#38094788)
India is facing a different kind of indoctrination by state education — masquerading mythology as science:

https://www.deccanherald.com/india/scientists-flag-ncerts-mi...

I definitely wouldn't want this kind of "regulated" education for children.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by alistairSH on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @06:17AM (#38096480)
Not sure worse… that, or Florida’s “slavery was good for blacks” crap.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by BurningFrog on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @11:29AM (#38086350)
Public schools are highly regulated, and are on average horrible.

I'd bet a lot on parents caring more about their kids welfare than regulators.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by onlyrealcuzzo on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:03PM (#38088888)
There are many bad public schools - but it seems a bit hyperbolic to say the average public school is "horrible".
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by giantg2 on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:47PM (#38089523)
I guess it depends on how you measure it. If we go by percent of kids meeting the standards and a passing grade being 70%, you could justifiable say the schools are horrible on average.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by BurningFrog on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:04PM (#38089804)
Agreed. I could have phrased that better.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by ndriscoll on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:37PM (#38090301)
40% of American adults can't do basic arithmetic[0], which seems like a disaster to me. 88% are apparently incapable of doing things like reading a simple table or comparing two documents and identifying sentences that express the same ideas between them[1][2]. Over 50% apparently can't scroll through a list of information about books and identify the author of a specific book they're told to find.

[0] https://phys.org/news/2018-03-high-adults-unable-basic-mathe...

[1] https://nces.ed.gov/pubs2019/2019179/index.asp

[2] https://nces.ed.gov/surveys/piaac/measure.asp?section=1&sub_...

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by selimthegrim on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @02:25AM (#38095164)
Please tell me, at least the animals were just donkeys and elephants
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by akira2501 on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:09PM (#38088967)
> The underlying problem is the completely unregulated nature.

I didn't need your permission to give birth to my children, why do I need your permission when deciding how I educate them?

> Only dad is allowed to talk to anyone and when he does it's extraordinarily weird.

If you feel these children are legitimately being abused in some way, I'm guessing there are plenty of state resources to address that challenge.

Do you actually feel there's abuse happening? Or, is it that you just find them unusual?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by vharuck on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:34PM (#38089349)
>I didn't need your permission to give birth to my children, why do I need your permission when deciding how I educate them?

One legal theory that may be relevant was brought up long ago for a case on banned books in school: you have the right to raise your kid according to your beliefs, but many states guarantee children the right to education. So the state could regulate homeschooling to ensure all children have access to an actual education.

>If you feel these children are legitimately being abused in some way, I'm guessing there are plenty of state resources to address that challenge.

A lot of those resources rely on processes that come after reports from teachers and caregivers. If nobody outside the home ever sees or talks to the kids, there's not much the state can do to even start an investigation. Children who go to daycare or public school are seen by professionals trained to spot abuse.

We allow anyone to have children, because otherwise we're on a very slippery and short slope towards eugenics. But those children are entitled to the same rights and protections as their parents. It's hard to strike a good balance between a family's freedom and a child's freedom.

Edited out some unnecessary detours in my ramblings

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by jononomo on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:47PM (#38089515)
People just assume that other people must be abusing their kids. Sheesh. The commenter is describing a two-parent household with 8 children and a massive backyard -- the odds are that they're extremely happy and our commenter is just a grouch.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by akira2501 on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:05PM (#38089815)
> but many states guarantee children the right to education

They guarantee the right to /access/ education. This is not at all the same as guaranteeing that all children "must be educated at a state approved school."

> If nobody outside the home ever sees or talks to the kids, there's not much the state can do to even start an investigation.

I read an incredible number of police reports. There's a lot of abuse that gets detected outside of daycare and schools. Unless the children are literally locked into a basement, I doubt that the parents can continually exercise enough total control to keep whatever other abuse their committing hidden.

To the extent that if it is happening, it's an exceptionally rare case, and I doubt that simply forcing all parents to send their children to a third party for education is going to have any impact on these particularly pernicious cases.

I understand the instinct, but I think the solution is wrong, and it's an inappropriate case to use to defend schooling in general.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by FireBeyond on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:43PM (#38090392)
> They guarantee the right to /access/ education. This is not at all the same as guaranteeing that all children "must be educated at a state approved school."

That's oversimplifying. You're right about the "at a state approved school", but the right is to access education to a set standard that will equip them for life.

You can't just say "well, they have access to -my- education, so we're good". There should be caveats around quality and deliverability of education.

Because if you (the generic 'you', not singling you out individually) have low/zero value educational material, and no desire to provide it for your children, then that is /not/ them accessing education in any meaninful sense of the concept.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by throwaway2203 on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:24PM (#38089206)
This is my thing, like what right does a public school have to regulate when I can and won't send my kids to school? If I decide to take a trip abroad for a month, that's on me... why do i have to worry about truancy court and CPS breathing down my neck?
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by 303uru on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:55PM (#38091949)
Your kid has a right to education, you don't get to deny them that right. It's funny how rugged individualism seems to end with self and extend to happily stomping on others.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by throwaway2203 on Thursday November 02, 2023 @04:43PM (#38119870)
Sure, and it's my responsibility to provide it without the state nanny'ing over me.

The homeschoolers get a free pass to do literally whatever... don't you see a dichotomy with what you're preaching?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by RoyalHenOil on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @05:05PM (#38105229)
Why should you have to feed your kid when they're hungry? Why should you have to make a space on your home for them to sleep and be warm? Why should you have to get them medical care when they are sick?

Why can't you just do anything you want, regardless of the effect it has on your dependents?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by throwaway2203 on Tuesday November 07, 2023 @09:56AM (#38177456)
First of all those are primal needs and independent of schooling. Schooling is a far more personal choice.

Second, I do all those things because it's my responsibility, not because the state will come after me if I don't.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by cycomanic on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:44PM (#38089472)
> > The underlying problem is the completely unregulated nature.

> I didn't need your permission to give birth to my children, why do I need your permission when deciding how I educate them?

Because your children are not your property, they are your responsibility and we as society have decided that we want to make sure that the education is to a certain standard.

As a side note I find it fascinating how people who feel strongly about individual freedom, believe they should have ultimate authority (sometimes it feels more like ownership) over their children. Why do you believe that the freedoms do not apply to children?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by akira2501 on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:09PM (#38089882)
> Because your children are not your property, they are your responsibility

I am their _guardian_.

> and we as society have decided that we want to make sure that the education is to a certain standard.

And what is that standard? Passing standardized tests? How do you account for the poor performance of American schools in general? How do you account for the differential performance across the country, let alone, wild performance differences across a single city? If a child goes to school but fails to become educated, can the sue the school district? Does the school owe them continued education until they meet the standard?

> believe they should have ultimate authority (sometimes it feels more like ownership) over their children.

If something happens to my children and I'm even just negligent then I will pay the ultimate price. You cannot ensconce in me this responsibility and then deny my authority to exercise control over them to maintain it.

> Why do you believe that the freedoms do not apply to children?

Why do you think children can't sign contracts or buy alcohol? They have _limited_ freedom, under my _guardianship_. This is more important than the States imputed idealism with respect to "education."

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by watwut on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @04:12PM (#38090688)
> How do you account for the poor performance of American schools in general

Actually, American schools do not do badly in international comparisons. They are the number one, sure, but they are still pretty good.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by XorNot on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @06:34PM (#38092315)
Also there aren't "American" schools. There are "American state" schools - 50 different versions.

There's also some very unsurprising outcomes based on state policy there.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by orangepurple on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @09:26AM (#38097877)
Baltimore City Schools received 29 federal Covid grants totaling $799M to fight learning loss. Yet, in 2023, just 9.1% of all 3rd-8th graders tested proficient in math. MEANING, taxpayers gave an additional $799M and 91% of Baltimore students are NOT math proficient.

New test scores, known as MCAP (Maryland Comprehensive Assessment Program), obtained by Project Baltimore, revealed that 23 schools, including elementary, middle, and high schools, had not one student that could do math at grade level.

Calverton school (https://www.niche.com/k12/calverton-elementary-middle-school...)

  A Calverton educator, who reached out to Fox45, claims to have received that text. “[It instructed me to] go into my grade book, make sure no students are failing, and essentially change the grade if they are failing so they will pass with a 60 percent,” said the teacher, whose identity we are concealing upon request.

  “I was frustrated as a teacher. We’re public servants. And when we see things like grade changing, that’s self-serving. That’s not helping the kids.”

  After watching Fox45’s recent investigations into allegations of grade changing at Calverton, the City Schools employee contacted Project Baltimore to say a couple things. First, according to the teacher, grade changing at Calverton is “very common.”

  Second, the educator told Fox45, changing grades is the easiest and fastest way to pass more students, which makes the school and its administrators look better. But, it does a huge disservice to not just the kids, but our entire community.

  “Teaching a whole generation of kids that they don’t have to be accountable for their actions, or that hard work isn’t valued or valuable when they are in school, is so discouraging and damaging.”
Adding insult to injury, the same teacher said that he even passed kids who had been on his roster all year but didn’t bother to show up for a single day of class. But this teacher says grade changing at Calverton goes much further than just taking a failing grade and making it a 60. Some students who pass, according to this educator, don’t even have grades because they’ve never showed up to class.

  “There were students on my roster all year that I had never met, had never seen. On paper they passed my class and passed onto the next year.”

  “I love my job and I love my students,” concluded the teacher. “I want to see the students at Calverton and other schools across the city, get a fresh start. And it’s going to be hard because the students are used to this now. But the students deserve better and our city deserve better.”
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by userinanother on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @06:19PM (#38106157)
In other places we would call that fraud
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by orangepurple on Thursday November 02, 2023 @10:22AM (#38113890)
It's unfortunately business as usual in Maryland.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by FireBeyond on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:25PM (#38091594)
> If something happens to my children and I'm even just negligent then I will pay the ultimate price. You cannot ensconce in me this responsibility and then deny my authority to exercise control over them to maintain it.

That's demonstrably false.

You can do plenty of neglectful or negligent things to your children and face zero consequences.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by s1artibartfast on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:13PM (#38091450)
I think I can explain the confusution.

The state dictating and setting the rules is no more free than the parents setting the rules.

This basically comes down to an argument not of freedom, but if the children are property of the state or parents.

When you look at it this way, it makes perfect sense that libertairian minded folks would support homeschooling.

After all, the state isnt offering the freedom of choice and action to children, it is making legal requirements and demands.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by smcg on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:01AM (#38099111)
Children are no one's property. Their guardians have a responsibility to them, they do not own them.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by s1artibartfast on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @12:16PM (#38100436)
Obviously not. The question remains of who gets to shape and control their identity and future.

Is the purpose of their lives to serve the interests of the state, or society at large? Or should they be live their lives based on their own interests and priorities.

the libertarian perspective is that if you grant the state and society the authority to control the child, it will use that authority to advance the interests of the state or society.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by dahfizz on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:07AM (#38098358)
> Why do you believe that the freedoms do not apply to children?

As if public schools provide kids any sort of freedom or autonomy? What is your point here?

Someone has to be in charge of a kid. Either the parent acts as the authority over their child, or the state does.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by cooper_ganglia on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @11:01AM (#38099095)
> Because your children are not your property, they are your responsibility

I couldn’t possibly agree more! They are MY responsibility. Not yours. Not the state’s. Not society’s. I will educate them the way that I see fit. It’s not my responsibility to educate your kids, and it’s not your responsibility to educate mine, no matter how righteous and justified it may feel.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by bratbag on Thursday November 02, 2023 @01:27PM (#38117043)
Within limits.

If you are teaching your children to murder all Jews and that red traffic lights mean go, then you are clearly not capable of being responsible for another human being.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by cooper_ganglia on Thursday November 02, 2023 @04:02PM (#38119242)
But surely you can recognize the difference between simply teaching your child an evidence-dry religious worldview, and teaching them to actively hate and murder people or break laws that would endanger others?

I agree, within reason is always necessary, and if those things were being taught then it's time for a visit from CPS, for sure. But it still feels like a potential slippery slope of "You're abusing this child by teaching them things that aren't approved by the state" in the extreme case. I know that may sound silly, but with as polarized as the country has been recently, and with authoritarianism on the rise worldwide (I saw a man get arrested in the UK yesterday because he criticized some protests on Facebook!), I don't see it being an entirely foreign idea.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by sastaha on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @01:46PM (#38101983)
"Because your children are not your property, they are your responsibility"

I bet there's a correlation between this viewpoint and not having any children.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by 303uru on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:56PM (#38091959)
>why do I need your permission when deciding how I educate them

Your kid has a right to education, you don't get to deny them that right. It's funny how these arguments are all "don't tread on my right to tread on my kid."

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by RavingGoat on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @10:34AM (#38098709)
I would contend that sheltering your children from the outside world and not letting them have friends is child abuse.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by j-krieger on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @05:19PM (#38105434)
> I didn't need your permission to give birth to my children, why do I need your permission when deciding how I educate them?

Because quite frankly, they didn‘t have a say in the matter and rely upon you entirely to provide an adequate education

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by whatshisface on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @02:15PM (#38089080)
I have got bad news about that, the majority of abusive households send the kids to school and scare them into silence. Regulations against abusive households do exist but enforcing them completely would require a degree of inescapable surveillance that cannot exist.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by ARandumGuy on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @03:10PM (#38089907)
That may be true, but way more kids get sent to school then are home schooled, so that doesn't mean much on its own.

The issue is that when a kid's at school, there are many people who may notice something's wrong. From teachers, school nurses, school administrators, and even other kids. This is by no means perfect, and many, many cases of abuse slip through the cracks. But it is something, which is more then many home schooled kids have.

While I'd wager most home schooled kids aren't abused, the fact of the matter is it's much easier for an abusive parent to cover up their abuse if their child is home schooled. You may still feel home schooling is a net positive, but this aspect is very hard to deny.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by whatshisface on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:00PM (#38091301)
Homeschooling requires some degree of investment in the child, even just to keep them occupied or tolerate their presence. School provides free childcare for long periods of time. I don't think the majority of abusive parents will ever homeschool their children, because most are not believers in teaching an abusive ideology but rather have simple personality disorders. "Homeschool makes it easier to hide abuse" presupposes that abusive parents are planning or organizing abuse which is plainly not true in the majority of cases.

Like the Satanism panics of the 1990s demonstrate, elaborate imaginings of complex sadistic rituals that are necessarily rare[0] bordering on nonexistent, tend to capture the public mind and suck oxygen away from treating the totally unattractive (not even in the capacity of making for a true crime special) real problems.

If you want to see this on TV, the last season of The Wire was about it.

[0] There were actually a spare of ritual killings in Liberia through the 1970s, proving humanity capable at least and making the issue to be one of reasonableness.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by escapedmoose on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:20PM (#38091530)
Unfortunately, of the 4 people I know personally who were homeschooled, it was a vehicle for abuse for 3 of them.

One friend’s mom wouldn’t teach him the curriculum for months, and then when she knew a test was coming up she would make him study with her for 14 hours a day to try to cram it in. Then when he naturally performed poorly on state exams he was punished (often physically) for not trying hard enough. She regularly woke him up for classes when she wanted to be awake at 2 or 3 am, then later after her afternoon nap at 6 or 8pm. He grew up constantly tired, without a regular schedule of meals, and never made it to the group outings because he felt sick all the time.

Another friend’s mom just couldn’t be bothered to teach and just took her out on “learning” hikes with other homeschooling moms, never taught her anything, and wound up sending her back to public school with severely (I mean severely) underdeveloped skills after being held back for several years.

Neither of these parents I’m sure “planned” to abuse their children in this way. They just weren’t up for the task of teaching in the way that a child requires, and their own personal issues turned that into a larger problem. But my friends suffered for it.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by whatshisface on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @05:43PM (#38091816)
I don't think it's ever going to be possible to separate the outcomes of homeschooling from the selection of parents who desire to homeschool, but this overall neutral study (I'm not really arguing that homeschooling is a great thing just that it is okay) doesn't find evidence of the three out of four thing that you encountered extending to the whole population. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC8580227/

My honest sympathies to your friends.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by escapedmoose on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @08:15AM (#38097240)
From your link, homeschooling is…

> negatively associated with college degree attainment (RR = 0.77, 95% CI: 0.67, 0.88) and possibly with greater risk of posttraumatic stress disorder.

I’m sure I’m just unlucky and that the 3/4 abuse ratio doesn’t hold for the broader population. Higher rate of PTSD is suspect though.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by yeck on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @08:41AM (#38097437)
I've seen this sentiment mentioned many times. That at school "abuse is more likely to be noticed". But how much more likely? How likely is noticed abuse to be resolved in a meaningful way?

As an anecdote I have close family member that teaches younger elementary school grades. They have told me about signs of possible abuse they've seen but no available recourse.

I'm also aware that school is a also an environment where abuse occurs. How can we say that we are not exposing public school children to more abuse per capita than homeschooled? There is a school in my neighbourhood that often has the police called in. Lockdowns over students bringing in knives and attacking each other.

It would be good to know these things if making an argument that pivots on abuse.

One last anecdote. All the experiences I can remember having that I'd consider abuse occurred in either: school, work or public transit. Some were bad interactions with strangers in passing, other were more chronic (generally at school).

While it is true terrible things can happen to kids at home, you need stats to compare this with the alternative before a stance should be taken.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by vharuck on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @09:38AM (#38098014)
>As an anecdote I have close family member that teaches younger elementary school grades. They have told me about signs of possible abuse they've seen but no available recourse.

It's natural to want to stay out of things, especially if one doesn't know the procedure and worries about messing up a family's lives. But it's better for the people in charge of investigating cops abuse to decide the appropriate course.

As for how reporting happens, it depends on the state. In mine (Pennsylvania), all school employees are made well aware they're considered "Mandated Reporters." They are legally required to report any suspicions of child abuse, either through the state's website, phone line, local police, or the county agency responsible for child abuse cases. The suspected abuse victim doesn't need to say they're being abused or anything at all, the reporter doesn't even have to guess who the abuser is. If the reporter thinks there may have been abuse because they saw or learned about physical (e.g. bruises) or behavioral (e.g. afraid to go home) signs, they have to report it. Not reporting can led to misdemeanor or felony charges for the Mandated Reporter. Somebody who reported their suspicion is immune from civil or criminal liability, and protected from retaliation from the institution they work at, for the report (unless it can be shown they're using reports maliciously). They're also tested as confidential informants in any investigation.

The law also encourages "Permissive Reporters" to report suspected child abuse, but without threatening charges for not reporting. These reporters can do so anonymously.

All this info comes from my wife, who was a daycare teacher, and DuckDuckGo-ing "Pennsylvania mandated reporters."

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by mcpackieh on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @03:15PM (#38103440)
Those same Pennsylvanian school teachers turn a blind eye to the abuse that happens right in front of them in their own classrooms. The law may require them to report abuse but it can't actually force them to; the teachers just pretend they didn't see anything and there is no penalty for this because how can you prove the teacher recognized something? It's a farce.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by vharuck on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @09:30PM (#38107817)
Do you have data to back your dismissal? Because when I looked, over 10,000 Pennsylvanian school employees reported suspected child abuse to the state in 2022 alone: https://www.dhs.pa.gov/docs/OCYF/Documents/2022-PA-CHILD-PRO...

The number of substantiated (court ruling, protective order, etc) child abuse cases in 2022: around 5,000.

No other group, including doctors, police officers, and Child Protective Services themselves, made more reports. Only around 6% of the school employees' reports were substantiated, making their reports least likely to be substantiated. This leads me to believe school employees have a lower threshold for reporting a suspicion compared to other groups.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by mcpackieh on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @09:52PM (#38108000)
> over 10,000 Pennsylvanian school employees reported suspected child abuse to the state in 2022 alone

And they overlook 100x more students beating the shit out of each other. No, I won't cite it. I lived it, and I have relatives working in that system who say nothing has changed.

BTW there are more than 100k school teachers in Pennsylvania. 10k reports a year represents about 1 in 10 teachers making a single report a year. I retract my 100x remark, it's far worse than that.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by jbjohns on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @12:59PM (#38101200)
When I read these kinds of comments, I can't help but wonder: did you attend a US public school? I went to probably an above average number of public schools growing up since my parents moved around a lot. There were differences between the big city and small town ones but there was one constant: violence and abuse. How should I expect teachers to notice a child being abused by parents when they turn the other way to abuse by other children happening, daily, right in front of them (sometimes even egged on by the teachers themselves).

If you adjust for scale, I would be utterly flabbergasted if home schooling had a higher per capita rate of abuse than actual public schools unless public schools have changed to the point of being utterly unrecognisable from the 80-90's when it was inflicted on me.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by daddylongstroke on Friday November 03, 2023 @08:07PM (#38136653)
Thank you for stating the truth. No, if anything, the schools have gotten only worse from the statements we hear and behavior we see of our kids' public-schooled friends. I'm amazed at how normalized social abuse is in public schools in the US. When I talk to other parents about my amazement, they just stare, blink, and respond with "I don't think it is a big deal. This is how we all talk and treat each other.". :-O My wife and I have home schooled our kids from their educational beginnings because of how bat-shit crazy and anti-social public schools were and continue to be.
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by NoMoreNicksLeft on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @03:34PM (#38103675)
Your opinion is anti-American and anti-human-rights. You get that, don't you?

The 4th amendment of the Constitution protects all of us from warrantless searches. If you turn public schools into a method of warrantless searches to ferret out criminal activity, then public schools become unconstitutional.

The strange thing is that you can probably turn public schools into a method of warrantless searches without actually codifying that in statute, without making any major changes to school policy. All you have to do is assert that this is one of the major benefits of public education, and get some large fraction of other Americans to believe the same thing.

> You may still feel home schooling is a net positive,

It's a net positive to undermine fundamental human rights?

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by sastaha on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @01:55PM (#38102138)
Most abusive households are not going to homeschool because they're people who couldn't care less about their kids' education and wouldn't turn away the chance for free daycare.

A lot of people seem to be implying that religious indoctrination is abuse, when it isn't legally, even if you think it should be. I'm personally in between a rock and a hard place here, since I don't want my kids exposed to either religion or LGBT stuff.

Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by xtat on Tuesday October 31, 2023 @08:28PM (#38093174)
I find the word unregulated a bit loaded in this context- analogous to "unfreedom"
Re:Home schooling's rise from fringe to fastest-growing form... by m463 on Wednesday November 01, 2023 @01:09AM (#38094789)
> completely unregulated nature.

From what I can tell, homeschooled kids are given a curriculum with books/workbooks for both the student and the teacher. They are also tested by the state and must meet certain criteria.

so there seems to be guidance and verification.