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Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by kortilla on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:24AM (#32780345)
I love cats but some of them absolutely do decimate local bird populations in the local neighborhood when they are left out unsupervised.

My grandparents’ cat was like this. Very friendly to all people but when left outside would usually have a bird killed within a half hour.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by poulsbohemian on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:14PM (#32781062)
>I love cats but some of them absolutely do decimate local bird populations in the local neighborhood when they are left out unsupervised.

Not disagreeing per se, but every time this comes up on HN or in other public discourse, I ask for sources. Specifically, there is a statement that I see used regularly (including from the Audubon Society) that makes claims on the order of "billions" of birds killed every year by domestic cats.

The question isn't whether cats will hunt a bird or rodent, but to my thinking whether their impact is any greater than say the risk of birds running into windows, etc. Feels a bit like when we blame the cow for burping (IE: doing what it does naturally) as the cause of global warming while we continue to drive around in our carbon-belching cars.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:26PM (#32781269)
https://blogs.umass.edu/natsci397a-eross/the-environmental-a...

We've had 3 birds hit our windows in the 12 years I've owned this home. To combat that, I made sure all the windows had blinds. It hasn't happened since.

My one neighbor's cat kills more than 3 birds per month in the warm seasons. I haven't been able to combat that unfortunately.

But I did build a dry stack retaining wall that has allowed the chipmunk population to have a bit of refuge. They are slowly growing in numbers. We had scores of them until the neighbors moved in next door. Within months they dwindled to less than a dozen. My wife and I used to love to sit at our breakfast table and watch them scurry around the yard and patio. Our neighbor's cat ruined that for us.

I shouldn't have to spend $5k+ to prevent cats from killing chipmunks, but I'm always willing to do whatever I can to improve something rather than just complaining about it.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by culi on Friday September 09, 2022 @06:15PM (#32785539)
> We estimate that free-ranging domestic cats kill 1.3–4.0 billion birds and 6.3–22.3 billion mammals annually. Un-owned cats, as opposed to owned pets, cause the majority of this mortality. Our findings suggest that free-ranging cats cause substantially greater wildlife mortality than previously thought and are likely the single greatest source of anthropogenic mortality for US birds and mammals.

https://www.nature.com/articles/ncomms2380

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by GVIrish on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:55PM (#32783392)
The thing I always wonder is, in habitats where birds would normally have to deal with feline predators, how is the domestic cat worse than that? Any birds in environments that have feline predators would already be adapted to avoidng cats, unlike say, small Australian fauna.

I can understand the damage inflicted by cats in environments that never had a very efficient bird predator like cats (e.g. New Zealand and other islands). But in North America there's the Bobcat, Lynx, Ocelot, Margay, and Jaguarundi. Even without the domestic cat, birds would still get eaten in sizable numbers by cats. Sure there are a lot more domestic cats out there, but without civilization there would be a lot more wildcats out there eating birds.

Maybe the impact is simply that outside house cats exist in numbers that are not supportable for a normal wild predator due to the fact that house cats have meals provided by humans to sustain them. So house cat numbers don't reach an equilibrium with their prey the way a wild cat could. Either way I suspect that the impact on bird populations by domestic cats is often overstated.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by dTal on Friday September 09, 2022 @03:46PM (#32783997)
>Maybe the impact is simply that outside house cats exist in numbers that are not supportable for a normal wild predator due to the fact that house cats have meals provided by humans to sustain them. So house cat numbers don't reach an equilibrium with their prey the way a wild cat could.

That's exactly it. The density of house cats is orders of magnitude larger than the density of wildcats would be.

> Either way I suspect that the impact on bird populations by domestic cats is often overstated.

Why?

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by brigandish on Friday September 09, 2022 @08:41PM (#32786553)
Last time I looked, which was a while ago, there were over 9 million cats in the UK. I suspect a similar number for the US, proportionally, so I can't see any way that the wildcat population could ever rise that high. Domestication brings safety and an ever increasing population, not just for humans.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by imustbeevil on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:28PM (#32781320)
The first result on Google for "how many birds are killed by domesticated cats" is a scientific article from the Smithsonian Conservation Biology Institute and the U.S. Fish and Wildlife Service.

https://www.nature.com/articles/ncomms2380

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by pvaldes on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:11PM (#32782866)
An article is as good as the data that supports the research.

We have to keep in mind that this is an article based in google search and bibliography and is just a very raw estimate. Bibliography studies mostly the worse and special cases. There is a risk into taking the worse cases as a sample of the global situation.

Is a guess, much better than having none, but still a guess. Don't overthink it

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by xkcd-sucks on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:48PM (#32781639)
Probably depends on the individual's tendencies. My cat's kill stats for year to date, not too many birds:

    Total          106
    --------------------
    Bird           3
    Red Squirrel   1
    Chipmunk       9
    Rabbit         11
    Vole           59
    Deer Mouse     23
My garden and house really appreciate the vole/mouse/chipmunk control
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by 411111111111111 on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:18PM (#32782142)
How did you produce these numbers?

You sound way too confident in it's validity unless you've put a camera on the cat and check the full recording every day...

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by _eht on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:12PM (#32782879)
My educated guess would be that the gato presents them with these offerings.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by user5678 on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:20PM (#32782988)
So these numbers are lower bounds.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by xkcd-sucks on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:43PM (#32783272)
Lower bound but pretty confident in accuracy - Have eyes on all catflap traffic, some accelerometer/position data (a cat collar tracker, not a cat tracker!), and observation thus far supports the conclusion that he stages all kills in his "abattoir" area unfortunately underneath the couch regardless of their eventual disposition - pretty common behavior
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by eitland on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:45PM (#32783298)
The last rabbit we had at home ran around on its own.

I developed a friendship with our horse, but did not seem to be on friendly terms with the neighbors cat. One time I saw them running across the driveway: the cat first, panicking, the rabbit a meter or two behind chasing it.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by type0 on Saturday September 10, 2022 @07:57AM (#32789854)
Our neighbors had bunnies escaping because they developed a friendship with wild hares. Seems similar when a dog develops a friendship with a coyote and start misbehaving going on the hunts with them.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by ceejayoz on Friday September 09, 2022 @10:06PM (#32787005)
At one point, we had a cat, a dog, and a rabbit. The rabbit and the dog bonded over eating the cat's food.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by t-3 on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:05PM (#32782780)
My cat only very rarely manages to get chipmunks and mice, but he doesn't usually kill them, generally alternating between cuddles and grooming and beating them savagely to make them jump and run. He's scared of birds after being mobbed by robins and crows.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by brigandish on Friday September 09, 2022 @08:47PM (#32786583)
Is he interrupted in his cuddles and beatings? Cats are much like the kind of psychopaths you'll find in the intelligence services, as portrayed in movies. They'll torture their captive, play with them to train themselves (and possibly for fun, who knows?), and it seems your cat likes to play good cop too. At the end, if the captive's heart hasn't already given out, they'll kill it.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:35PM (#32782370)
Goodness. How big are the rabbits in your area? The ones here are so large that I imagine that A) a cat could not catch them and B) the rabbit would disembowel the cat with its rear feet. I've seen rabbits do impressive things to small dogs and snakes. I wouldn't want one near my cats.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by dageshi on Friday September 09, 2022 @03:36PM (#32783872)
Living on a farm, I've seen some fairly impressive semi feral tom cats. When they're young and they hunt a lot they develop muscle on every inch of their body, once had one who was quite tame, his back muscles felt like a bag of marbles, they were that well developed.

I'd have no doubt he could've taken a rabbit especially given the ambush nature of their hunting.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by brigandish on Friday September 09, 2022 @08:59PM (#32786648)
I watched a documentary many years ago on cats (in the UK). It featured a study looking to measure the number of animals killed by house cats (or just "cats" in British English, strays are incredibly rare, "house cats" are those that never leave the house). One house cat, in Devon if I remember correctly, had the most kills in the study - an order of magnitude above or something like that - and so the cameras paid his owner a visit.

They introduced the cat with a shot of him on what looked like a hill with a ledge and him looking over it, and a town out of focus below in the distance. One moment he was there, next moment he just dropped over the ledge, no jump, just dropped. Cut to the owner talking about his cat.

Next shot, the cat is back on the ledge holding a giant rabbit (or perhaps hare) in its jaws, that was comparable to the size of the cat, if not bigger. It was like watching a big cat kill. I'll never forget it, so striking.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by dboreham on Friday September 09, 2022 @03:22PM (#32783704)
Smaller cats will catch the baby rabbits, but a larger cat has no trouble catching and eating adult rabbits in my experience. The largest thing I've seen a cat catch was a grouse. Turkeys are too large. Weasel like things seem to be too fierce.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @04:10PM (#32784262)
They don’t want to catch a turkey. We’ve had turkeys kill medium sized dogs and they’ve put holes in the side of the feed man’s truck with their claws.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by mhuffman on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:32PM (#32783138)
My grandfather used to keep a couple of rabbits in the barn to run off the rats! He swore that rabbits naturally hated rats and would fuck them up if they could get near them.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:54PM (#32783377)
Rabbits can be fierce. They aren’t as intimidating as wild turkeys or the boars around here, but I wouldn’t want to try to handle a wild rabbit.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by gpderetta on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:12PM (#32782885)
I have seen cats catch rabbits as big as themselves.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @03:00PM (#32783462)
That’s impressive. On my mothers farm, the turkeys run the show followed by the geese. But neither one of them will ever bother the rabbits. It’s interesting watching the hierarchy.

She has numerous 150lb+ dogs and they all defer to the turkey and geese. Even the donkeys don’t go near the turkeys and geese The geese can’t really hurt you, but I’d rather fight a 150lb dog than a 60lb turkey.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by UncleOxidant on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:08PM (#32782841)
> absolutely do decimate local bird populations

Which is why it's best to keep them indoors or perhaps have a catio so they can experience the outdoors without impacting the local wildlife. It's also better for the cats as indoor cats tend to live longer.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by nathan_f77 on Friday September 09, 2022 @07:07PM (#32785959)
We adopted two kittens late last year, and thought it would be nice to let them outside to run around and explore nature. We used to have an indoor cat that lived in apartments his whole life, and I always felt a bit guilty since he wasn't very happy and would always try to get outside.

Our kittens learned to hunt very quickly and would bring animals into the house. Lots of lizards, mice, and birds. We got tired of burying dead animals and vacuuming up feathers. Then one of our cats got into a fight and got bitten. The vets think that the bite must have punctured a vein or artery in their shoulder, which caused a huge hematoma that swelled up their chest. They had severe anemia and almost died from internal bleeding, so they had to give them a blood transfusion. They didn't have any cat blood available, so they used dog blood instead. (Apparently that's quite common!) He's almost fully recovered now, but still has a limp that is slowly getting better. The vet bills ended up being over $6,000. Fortunately we had pet insurance, so we only had to pay $1,300.

So we don't let them outside anymore. We were surprised to see that they don't seem to mind too much. They're not begging to go outside and they still seem perfectly happy. We've put a little bit of grass on an internal balcony, and we might try to build a catio enclosure so they can still have a little area to go outside. Maybe some netting like this: https://catnets.co.nz

EDIT: Cat tax: https://imgur.com/a/umQpcvK

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by djur on Friday September 09, 2022 @08:29PM (#32786499)
I think people tend to overestimate the desire of most cats to spend time outdoors, because as humans we ascribe human motivations to cat behaviors. So we see the cat repeatedly try to go through the door, and we think of this as persistent behavior that reflects a high degree of motivation to go "outside". But "outside" is not a concept that a cat really understands. They understand doors well enough, and they might be frustrated and upset by not being allowed to go through them. But, as you mentioned, there's actually a lot more for them to be frustrated, upset, scared, and injured by outside than there is inside.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by lukas099 on Saturday September 10, 2022 @09:48AM (#32790607)
> "outside" is not a concept that a cat really understands.

This seems like unfounded speculation. Why would they understand doors but not inside/outside?

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hombre_fatal on Friday September 09, 2022 @07:23PM (#32786080)
Just put a jingle bell on their collar. Seems too cruel to force them indoors.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by melagonster on Saturday September 10, 2022 @04:24AM (#32788866)
difference of live length can reach ten years, this is half life of cat.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by njacobs5074 on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:09PM (#32781989)
This behavior always reminds me of book "The World Without Us"[0] in which the author points out that, of all our domesticated animals, cats would definitely survive due to their excellent hunting skills in a world without humans. — [0] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_World_Without_Us
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by formerkrogemp on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:09PM (#32782848)
>cats would definitely survive due to their excellent hunting skills in a world without humans.

I don't know about yours, but my cats would not adjust well.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by cat_plus_plus on Friday September 09, 2022 @10:20PM (#32787104)
So why shouldn't felus catus be part of general ecosystem? Species have emerged for any number of reasons, including symbiotic relationship with other species. And sometimes new species hunt birds.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by lukas099 on Saturday September 10, 2022 @09:50AM (#32790622)
Generally we try to avoid bringing invasive species into an environment.
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Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by pvaldes on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:58AM (#32780837)
A cat must live the life of a cat, not the life of a doll. And yes, life sometimes is risky, and there is death in life, and there is dirt and half mice. We better learn to deal with it instead to keep running towards an hyperpuritan, hypersensitive society, unable to stand the minimum amount of frustration or to make anybody happy.

To help birds, we plant trees and dense shrubs and wild hedges full of biodiversity and fruits and insects. We build nestboxes. We build ponds and birdbaths. We stop pruning like obsessed. We put seeds in winter. We know that birds and hedgehogs trive in areas full of cats. If they find any minimum refuge, this is unavoidable.

If there are none of that things around, is not cat's fault. Build it. Children need to be exposed to free animals to turn into healthy people.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:04PM (#32780925)
The dead cats don't bother me as much as the dead birds. Introducing just one cat can completely change an entire ecosystem. Outdoor cats are a threat to global biodiversity.

I know it makes you feel better to allow your cats outdoors but please recognize that it affects the ecosystem on a larger scale.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by pvaldes on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:32PM (#32781380)
The danger depends a lot on the area and month. There are more factors involved

Some ecosystems are resilient. Some wipe actively any cat. Some should ban entirely cats while in other places removing cats could in fact harm the birds by the rodent population explosion. It changes also if the bird is migrating or not, if is young or not...

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by rufus_foreman on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:19PM (#32782163)
It's my yard. It's not an ecosystem. It's my cat's one job to threaten my yard's biodiversity.

Birds are noisy. At 4:30 in the morning. Anything that wakes me up at 4:30 in the morning is a problem that needs to be dealt with immediately with whatever level of violence is necessary to stop the squawking.

You get all chirpy in my yard, you deal with Mr. Tiddlesworth. Same with the squirrels that get on the roof. Die!

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by detaro on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:21PM (#32782181)
I wonder if you'd approve of a neighbor dealing with Mr. Tiddlesworth in a similar fashion if it were to annoy them in their yard.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by rufus_foreman on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:22PM (#32782198)
Mr. Tiddlesworth's pronouns are he/him/his.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:37PM (#32782409)
They couldn't reasonably become upset if someone were to kill Mr. Tiddlesworth for venturing into their yard. Their logic would not allow it.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by pvaldes on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:22PM (#32783002)
Just get better windows
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @02:55PM (#32783393)
Yeah I was scratching my head about that one too. We can’t hear much outside our windows.

Triple pane is the way to go.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by gsich on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:26PM (#32781259)
Larger scale? More like local scale. Also sources.
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Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:26PM (#32781279)
Are there any other fallacies you'd like to share with us this morning?
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by jelliclesfarm on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:26PM (#32782258)
Harvard biologist E. O. Wilson estimates that 30,000 species per year (or three species per hour) are being driven to extinction. Compare this to the natural background rate of one extinction per million species per year, and you can see why scientists refer to it as a crisis unparalleled in human history.[..]

https://www.biologicaldiversity.org/programs/population_and_...

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by Gordonjcp on Saturday September 10, 2022 @03:15AM (#32788571)
Are domestic cats responsible for more of these, or is unsustainable farming practices responsible for more of this?
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by jelliclesfarm on Saturday September 10, 2022 @01:23PM (#32792633)
I think my link speaks of a larger scale and humans are the super apex predator.

But in a smaller setting, there is a certain hierarchy of prey and predator. Cats are predator to birds. It is natural. Humans are not predators of soil or eco systems. Synthetic fertilizers are not even part of the natural eco system and are artificially introduced to destabilize the natural order.

I often think of Mao’s sparrows. Human were the destabilizers. Beyond a certain point, excess of vegetation caused more birds and rodents. Their population explosion was artificial because birds migrate and go in search of food sources. The demise of the sparrows was also due to an artificially induced agent, humans.

Think GMO mosquitoes. What could go wrong? Except mosquitoes are food source for amphibians..who are eaten by reptiles..enjoyed by raptors etc.

Humans are not part of this eco system but we have stylised ourself to be the super apex predator. As human population explodes, we are wiping out entire species at a much faster rate and replacing them with more of us. This is when trouble sets in…this is where we are..

We need insects and birds and fish and other mammals to know their place in the food chain and thrive so we can eat the end product as we can’t synthesize food ourselves.

All creatures need good soil, water and sunlight for survival because only plants can synthesize their own energy. None of us can eat soil or water or sunlight or any of the natural resources. It needs to be converted into calories by plant life through the magic of photosynthesis.

So without a balanced eco system, we are all toast. It is like cutting the trunk of a tree while sitting on the topmost branch. We will fall. And the tree dies. A cat eating a bird is doing its part by staying within the confines of the role it is meant to play. Humans disrupt the balance. We are not meant to replace all the small order species beneath us.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by Gordonjcp on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:02PM (#32781895)
Are you saying that you don't eat, or use oil in any way, or any sort of technology?
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by idiotsecant on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:24PM (#32782217)
Your neighborhood didn't get a cat, you did. Your neighbors shouldn't be expected to take responsibility for limiting the damage your cat does.

The solution is not to make the world fit cats, the solution is for you to take personal responsibility for the animal you decide to host at your house. If you can't keep that animal at your house, then don't get an animal. It's simple.

Nobody would suggest if I buy a hyena that eats dogs that people should start putting their dogs in hyena proof armor so as to accommodate the preferences of the hyena owner and the inclinations of the hyena.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by spicybright on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:14PM (#32781076)
Why shouldn't the answer be don't own an animal that can't live happily while co-existing with the ecosystem around it? And if that's the case and you want a cat anyways, why shouldn't we require people to build/fund infrastructure to offset the effect it will have?
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by xkcd-sucks on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:40PM (#32781498)
I mean yeah, it's irresponsible to let people go outside, drive cars, play sports, consume media by personal choice, engage in romantic relationships, climb stairs and ladders, drink alcohol etc. Yet we still generally feel the quality of life improvements outweigh the quantity of life decreases.

Consider also that humans confined to an indoor environment have much more environmental enrichment available in books, television, internet, games etc. The only environmental enrichment available to cats indoors are really terrible simulacra of nature (strings, balls, furniture) and many of these are only available when people are available to play.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by djur on Friday September 09, 2022 @08:34PM (#32786522)
We're talking about a species that spends 2/3rds of its time napping. I've watched outdoor cats and their behavior (when not hunting, which not all cats do) is very similar to indoor cats. They nap, they wander around, they find another napping spot, and so on. They probably spend less time interacting with humans or other animals than indoor cats do.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by philote on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:14PM (#32781058)
I recently got a new kitten and we decided it'll be an indoor cat (though I'm harness training her so she can go out on walks). I've had several cats over the years die because they were allowed outside (one got hit by a car and one I think got locked in my neighbor's crawlspace/basement though we never found her). I personally haven't had many of my outdoor cats bring me birds, but where I live now we have bird feeders and don't want the birds preyed on.

Edit: I forgot about the outdoor cat I had that I left at home when I went off to college. It got run over by my neighbor because it was sleeping under his wheel and he didn't notice.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by BoxOfRain on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:50AM (#32780715)
Is this an American thing or something? Almost all the cats I've ever known were outdoor cats in the UK.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by nobody9999 on Friday September 09, 2022 @03:12PM (#32783592)
>Is this an American thing or something? Almost all the cats I've ever known were outdoor cats in the UK.

I can't speak for anyone else, but I'd never allow my cats outside.

Not for ecological reasons, but because I live in a flat on the fourth (that'd be the third floor in the UK) floor of an apartment building in NYC.

If my cats got out of my apartment, they'd have to go down three flights of stairs and then wait for someone to open two separate doors in order to get out into the street.

Once on the street, there are many hazards for cats, not least of which are automobiles.

Having been to London, I imagine that there's a similar dynamic there as well.

As such, I'd say that it's more about urban/suburban/rural settings than different countries.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by not2b on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:39AM (#32780566)
Yes, our cats have always been indoors; our next door neighbor's cats have been outdoors. One of them was killed by a coyote and left on our front lawn for my daughter to find.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by cityofdelusion on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:49AM (#32780694)
I’ve had a cat hit by a car and a cat lost forever. They were both indoor cats that were completely unprepared for what was outside. They escaped.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by kerblang on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:12PM (#32782042)
This was at worst a mildly controversial comment until you got to the point declaring that all police officers are spouse-beating adulterers.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by lIl-IIIl on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:53AM (#32780755)
I have never heard of this. Why wouldn't you be surprised if your police officer spouse hits you or commits adultery?
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:01PM (#32780878)
Police officer's commit domestic violence and adultery at a rate far higher than other non-LEO civilians. Some of us who have experienced it first hand may talk about it in jest to help alleviate the anxiety and other problems it has caused.

My aim wasn't to offend anyone. Well unless you're a cop that commits domestic violence. They should probably be offended.

It was a tactless analogy, but a strong analogy nonetheless.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by lIl-IIIl on Friday September 09, 2022 @12:38PM (#32781469)
There were a few things that bothered me in that statement.

"what did you expect to happen" blames the victim.

"Police officer is as likely to engage in domestic violence as a cat is to kill a bird outside" is not a strong analogy. I think almost all young cats would kill birds outside. It's a far cry form "a far higher rate".

As a rhetorical device, it falls flat because it argues for something obvious by comparing it to something obscure. It would work better the other way - if you were on a thread talking about domestic violence and comparing it to cats killing birds.

Men commit violence at a far higher rate than women. But it's still lower than the "what did you expect" threshold.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by spywaregorilla on Friday September 09, 2022 @01:30PM (#32782316)
A quick search can't find anything to validate the claim of police officers committing adultery more than other roles. Ironically tech and entrepreneurs rank highest among men in most polls, along with trade workers
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by edgyquant on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:37AM (#32780527)
It’s ridiculous the lengths people go to inject their politics into their every post. Also sometimes cats just get out and run away, not everyone is letting them outside. In fact I’d wager that’s almost never the case.
Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by hollywood_court on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:42AM (#32780608)
You’d wager that people rarely allow their cats outside intentionally?

I imagine you’d lose that bet.

Indoor/outdoor cats have been common everywhere I have lived.

My next door neighbor’s cat, Mr. Freckles, almost completely wiped out our chipmunk colony and I still find dead birds he has killed every few weeks.

I live in a small neighborhood of 43 homes and there are 6 cats that I know of that spend the majority of their time outside.

I wish I lived where you live where it was less common.

Re:Purring is a love language no human can speak by isthrowawaybul on Friday September 09, 2022 @11:53AM (#32780746)
>It is incredibly irresponsible to let cats outdoors.

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