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Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by walrus01 on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:17PM (#30507217)
I agree with this 100% but you should also see the confusion among non-technical people when my spouse gives them her [email protected] email address (a totally valid inbox on a server that I run, I run our own authoritative DNS and choose where to set the MX, etc).

She works in a non-technical field and some percentage of people simply can't grasp the concept that an ordinary person owns their family name as a domain name.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by kgwxd on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:36PM (#30507428)
The second letter in my first name is an 'a', the last 3 letters of my last name are 'ski'. When the .ski domain finally became available for general use, I jumped to register [last 3 of first name][first 7 of last name].ski so I could have [1st]@(for the 'a')[middle part].ski. It looked cool as hell to me but confusing as hell to anyone else and it was impossible to verbally communicate.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by deepspace on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:19PM (#30507881)
My first name ends in 'in'. So, I registered <2-(n-2) letters of first name>.in, giving me an email address of the form [email protected]. If you remove the '@' and the '.', you just get my first name.

I thought I was being clever at the time, but nobody gets it. Sigh.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by im_dario on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @03:16PM (#30519387)
I have my own with an 'hn' domain, with the @ replacing the 'a' in my first name. Usually non-technical people gets it and they find it amusing.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by bkav on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @03:26PM (#30519520)
Something like [email protected]?
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by e-clinton on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @07:53AM (#30513491)
I did something similar but used the @ as an A in my name
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by bestouff on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @03:09PM (#30519321)
I have my own one: *.tel (my name is *tel). My email is *@*.tel; lots of people get it. Life is good.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by TMWNN on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:43PM (#30508129)
Did you have delivery issues to Western email addresses, given the .in origin of your mail?
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by thfuran on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @09:14AM (#30514357)
I also use a .in in the US and the only delivery issues I have is when trying to give someone my email address over the phone.

That said, I probably receive >>100x as many emails as I send so I'm not sure I can really say I've tested sending emails particularly thoroughly.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by davchana on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @10:50AM (#30515598)
Not OP, but Discover bank Zelle signup refused to believe that an email can end in .in. It accepted happily an email ending in .us.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by deepspace on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @11:14PM (#30523617)
I have not observed any delivery issues yet, but I seldom use the .in address.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by saghm on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:32PM (#30508006)
For a brief amount of time, I did a similar thing and hosted my personal website on the domain that spelled my full name using the .si TLD after finding a registrar that let me buy one (turns out that `.si` is the country prefix for Slovenia, and I guess they let people from outside the country buy their domains). It was a bit more expensive than a .com domain, but still reasonable (I think in the $20-25 range), but I didn't end up renewing it after even many of my classmates in the computer science program at my college seemed to be confused by it.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by jareklupinski on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:47PM (#30507548)
same, it's better than a business card, especially among tech circles

"just email me at 'my name at my last name but dot ski'"

super memorable and shows you know your way around the stack :)

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by igetspam on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:20PM (#30507887)
I have a gmail account that I grabbed when I worked at Google that reads very fake. It might as well be spam@ (it's not). Geeks love it. Normal people think I'm lying. (Geeks think I'm lying too but I can prove it, so they quickly more to the loving it phase.) I often get replies from support teams quickly because they want to see if it's fake.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by cvwright on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:25PM (#30507931)
Let me guess: root?
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by walrus01 on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:25PM (#30507935)
postmaster? admin?
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by jareklupinski on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:51PM (#30508206)
email@gmail?
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by mro_name on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @05:09AM (#30512153)
I had exactly the same experience with a .name domain two decades ago. You'll explain every single time you mention it.

And I thought short domains are cool and abbreviated the name to 3 letters. Today I only communicate the full <first>@<last>.name.

I learned a lot about slooowly migrating names along the way.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by aluminum96 on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:50PM (#30507587)
Do you have issues with spam filters blocking your emails? I've heard that any non `.com` email is a mess from a deliverability perspective.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by SOLAR_FIELDS on Monday February 28, 2022 @10:38PM (#30509126)
I use @pm.me (Protonmail’s domain) and I’ve had a couple of instances where emails I send bounce or email systems of certain corps won’t deliver to me. It’s pretty rare but it happens maybe once a year or so. Notably the web server of the government of the city I live in (Austin, TX) won’t accept emails from that domain so I have to use my Gmail to communicate with them.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by technion on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:41PM (#30508094)
I think the biggest issue is signing up to websites. I support a .org.au domain and get occasional complaints people can't use online services that declare it to not be a valid tld.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by mgcross on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:47PM (#30507549)
I initially set up my email on my domain as [email protected]. I don't really remember why, but it was a really stupid idea as it's so hard to explain to people. "It's me at mydomainname.com. Well, no, not my first name, it's emmm eee at..."
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by saghm on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:34PM (#30508034)
I generally use `mail@` for whenever I want something generic, and otherwise use some suitable prefix for whatever service I'm using. I've been surprised and pleased that whenever I have to end up talking to a human on the phone for something, telling them my email is <their service name>@<my domain> doesn't seem to faze them.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by marssaxman on Wednesday March 02, 2022 @02:45PM (#30531952)
I use the same system! So far so good; I have had a couple of occasions where someone seemed to be momentarily taken aback, but it's never been a real problem.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by mynameisvlad on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:10PM (#30507783)
Same. I have now switched to "hey" and it works much better. The part that trips a lot of people (and some really bad email validators out there) up is that my TLD is .gg which is still pretty uncommon. Most of the times I get asked if I'm sure I didn't mean "[email protected]" or "[email protected]".
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by perilunar on Monday February 28, 2022 @09:06PM (#30508354)
Just tell them firstname@... and redirect it. I own my domain and apart from my partner and kids emails I get everything else redirected to my personal address. A surprising amount of spam is emailed to sales@... and admin@...
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by technothrasher on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:43PM (#30508115)
I seemed to do ok in that respect with [email protected], except that both my first and last names are often enough misspelled that I gave up and give out one of my other domains for email now.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by dottedmag on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:43PM (#30507509)
Even worse if you use this domain as a way to track (and block) incoming e-mails. People at <FOO LTD> often have a hard time accepting that e-mail might actually be <foo>@<my name>.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by austhrow743 on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:24PM (#30507930)
Tried this in person once when signing up to the companies club or a discount. Once.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by mindslight on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:33PM (#30508017)
I do this all the time, albeit with a qmail x-foo@ alias, and just straight up own it - "I sort my email so I can tell who sells my address". I've never really had a problem.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by superleo2020 on Wednesday March 02, 2022 @03:10PM (#30532343)
Once tried to explain to Rapid7 (a security company no less) they had leaked/sold my email address, as per the system you describe.

Couldn't get through to anyone that understood.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by aaronharnly on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:50PM (#30508194)
Ha yes, I get some inquisitive looks. I usually preface by saying, “This will sound strange, but I use a different email address with every company I interact with. So, it will be <foo>@…”
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by davchana on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @10:48AM (#30515577)
A hotel chain manager was adamant that my [email protected] was missing gmail.com or yahoo.com or hotmail.com. I pointed out that his official email his [email protected] has no .com or gmail yahoo. He said, oh its corporate, its allowed. Not allowed for persons. I was speechless.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by marssaxman on Wednesday March 02, 2022 @02:49PM (#30532018)
I would take some private delight in messing with such a person by instructing them to use <[email protected]>.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by TheFreim on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:25PM (#30507305)
I made the mistake of having a domain hack with my last name for my personal address, really hard to explain to people and it'd be too annoying to move away from now.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by codazoda on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:44PM (#30508140)
For the opposite of a lot of these, I use [email protected] and nobody has any trouble with that. I usually get a little sideways glance since I didn’t say a work place or gmail, but they rarely ask me to clarify.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by slowhand09 on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @10:34AM (#30515387)
My friend named Dot wanted [email protected]. Couldn't get that...
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by mro_name on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @03:25AM (#30511197)
My mother made all her calls from a public phone box (Rural Bavaria in the 80s).

Having your own phone number was as unusual then as a domain might be for some today.

Spread the word and show it!

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by ftio on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:30PM (#30507357)
I feel you. I have a two letter domain and constantly have to explain that “Yes, that’s it.” when they want to add an extra .com on the end.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by walrus01 on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:32PM (#30507378)
if you own a two letter .com or .net or something, and not some new gTLD, you should probably sell it for a fat stack of cash... unless you have a very compelling use for it.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by JadoJodo on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:44PM (#30508131)
I suspect they meant the .<gg|in|co> part is two letter.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by davchana on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @10:56AM (#30515667)
People have emailed me at [email protected] (& I got it), & saw the other addresses, which was [email protected]
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by twobitshifter on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:45PM (#30507525)
Are you saying you own your own tld?
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by walrus01 on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:57PM (#30507663)
I think they're saying they own a two letter domain , which if it's a .com is probably worth enough money to sell, put into a S&P 500 index fund, and retire.

https://dofo.com/blog/two-letter-com-domain-names/

If it's a two letter domain at some new esoteric recently created gTLD, quite a lot less.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by twobitshifter on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @12:24PM (#30516972)
Since they said they drop the .com after, the only thing I could think of is that they gave a top level domain and can just mail directly to it. For example alex@arpa

See: https://serverfault.com/questions/721927/can-you-have-an-ema...

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by Jarwain on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @03:59PM (#30519926)
My last name is "to" and my first name has a non-standard spelling, so I managed to get [email protected]

Communication of it isn't too bad. I usually say "the word me at {first name}.to, spelled the same way as my name" (since oftentimes they ask for my name first). Other times I literally just spell it out.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by batiudrami on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:23PM (#30507280)
I have run into this issue too. My Gmail account was challenging to say over the phone/in person and I wanted a platform agnostic email address so I grabbed firstlast.co but it often takes some reassurance that yes, that is my real email address.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by walrus01 on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:28PM (#30507333)
part of your problem might be with the .co , since outside of tech industry circles or people who are actually Colombian, it's rare and weird. I bet you'd halve the problem or more if it was a .net or similar.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by batiudrami on Monday February 28, 2022 @07:47PM (#30507555)
.co is actually fine usually as people in Australia are familiar with .co.uk and .co.nz (even though the “co” means different things in those contexts)

I share a name with a US Governor which is great for keeping my teenage internet activity buried in search results but made it tricky to find a suitable domain name.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by matt_heimer on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:02PM (#30507704)
I own osdev.(com|net|org) and I've experimented with using different email addresses over many years. The .net and .org TLDs still cause a lot of confusion. I'd guess that .edu is questioned the least after .com. But even .com addresses from non-common domains cause people to question them.

[email protected] - no problem. [email protected] - I'm sorry, can you repeat that for the forth time?

I've experimented with other domains using common English words and its no better.

I still like to use a personal domain to register with most sites but if I have to give someone an email address over the phone its going to be a common email hosting service that forwards to my real email.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by dustintrex on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:36PM (#30508059)
My email is [email protected]. The ".name" domain is oddly underused and often throws people for a loop.
Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by walrus01 on Monday February 28, 2022 @08:39PM (#30508081)
I think the vast majority of people don't recognize 98% of the new/novel gTLDs when they see them.

Using an arbitrarily chosen noun:

If I have a taco truck and I put in giant font on the side

BURRITO.NET

or

BURRITO.COM

People will immediately get that it's a website.

If I put BURRITO.NAME on it, very few will.

Re:The importance of having a personal domain name by francisofascii on Tuesday March 01, 2022 @04:37PM (#30520359)
Do you use a service to handle spam and a GUI interface?