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Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by haswell on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:33PM (#26929613)
I'd like to give them the benefit of the doubt, but this is written like an apology they know they must write. It does not come across as apologetic. It comes across as rationalization veiled as an apology, and it doesn't sit well with me.

I hope I'm just being overly sensitive here.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by justinjlynn on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:39PM (#26929636)
Indeed. This letter is an attempt to justify and rationalise their actions. Essentially, it amounts to saying "we're sorry you were offended and felt hurt by our legitimate work but we had no choice but to lie to you and unethically experiment on you without your consent or we wouldn't have been able to do it". Their statement is not an actual apology, even if it is phrased in the language of apology, and it is an excellent example of what not to write if you are seeking forgiveness.

The core issue here is that the system under which they were working, and the researchers themselves, did not consider this work to amount to unethical human experimentation - even though the work directly involved infiltrating and exploiting humans and human social systems. There is no mention of this nor of any substantial desire to understand or address this systemic failing and, until there is an unconditional acceptance of responsibility for the harm caused and a real actionable change for the better with accountability, I don't see how we can consider this matter to have been apologised for.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by bluenose69 on Sunday April 25, 2021 @05:37AM (#26931479)
Agreed. This is like a psychologist apologizing for traumatizing children by testing a hypothesis that telling them scary stories before bedtime would give them bad dreams. "Oh, but it's important to learn what scares kids, for the greater good" just doesn't cut it.

Software is complex. Wasting maintainer's time is harmful to the maintainers and to those who use the software. If the goal is to explain what sort of exploits to be on the look-out for, just write the paper without doing the exploits.

As for the letter, their goal is to recover their reputations, not to apologize. I suppose a lawyer helped them in spots, but there is still a certain truth that shines through: they want to continue on doing this sort of thing, because they are oh-so-clever and their work is oh-so-valuable. Nice try, but the academic community may be better off without these folks doing this sort of research and influencing students to follow their methods.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by rajup on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:44PM (#26929662)
Just curious, and I'm genuinely asking as someone who thought the letter seemed well-intentioned: what should they have put in the apology letter?
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by justinjlynn on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:53PM (#26929711)
> We are sorry for the harm we've caused by our unethical experimentation involving members of the Linux community. In accordance with community standards and a desire to avoid benefiting from our ethical failure, we have requested the immediate retraction of the papers and other published work resulting from this unethical experimentation. We are also working together with our institutional leadership to address the systemic and individual failings which permitted this unethical research to take place. As a result of this, we will publicly prepare a report regarding the actions taken and potential systemic changes which will ensure these actions do not reoccur and further harm is not caused. Out of an abundance of caution and because experience has shown our judgement, as is, to be questionable, no further research similar in nature to the research in question will be undertaken by this institution or these researchers until proper community consultation has taken place regarding the report and proposed changes to systemic review are implemented. Once again, we take full responsibility for any harm we have caused and we will work to ensure that such harm never occurs again. We hope that, at some point, we may regain your trust and confidence and, if you'll permit us, to work alongside you.

[signed personally, by every involved researcher, professor, IRB member, and all of the relevant university leadership including the board]

Something like that would do nicely, in my opinion. Then they'd have to absolutely follow through on it. Ideally, they'd also ask involved members of the community so harmed, among other experts, to independently review and watch the process to ensure no further harm is being done, progress is made, and public accountability is kept.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by tkgally on Saturday April 24, 2021 @11:11PM (#26930068)
Good suggestion, especially getting the IRB involved. The board failed to recognize that the target of the research was not inanimate software but human beings.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by justinjlynn on Saturday April 24, 2021 @11:45PM (#26930203)
Thank you and my point precisely. This was both an individual and systemic failure and must be treated and rectified as such with all due seriousness.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by denton-scratch on Sunday April 25, 2021 @05:02AM (#26931354)
I'd consider that a pretty good apology, if that were the one they had made. I'd like to see it expressed by the university ethics board, not just by the researchers.

I wouldn't trust those researchers again, not for anything. Free software depends heavily on trust. It's astonishing that it works so well; but if you break trust, it's very hard to repair the fractures.

The legal arrangements around free software are fairly fluid, because there hasn't been much case-law, because there's not much money sloshing around for Free Software developers to pay lawyers. Banning pull-requests from that college is much cheaper than sueing.

I hope the whole uni stays banned until the ethics board issues their own apology.

Then let it go, I say. People make mistakes. We shouldn't blame everyone for the mistakes of a few.

But we have to protect the Linux kernel; billions of people depend on it's correctness.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by rajup on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:59PM (#26929739)
That makes sense, thanks!
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by spectralblu on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:47PM (#26929682)
> we did that because we knew we could not ask the maintainers of Linux for permission, or they would be on the lookout for the hypocrite patches.

This bit just reads like "sorry you're upset".

I would have expected something along the lines of "sorry, we should have asked the maintainers and we understand why it was wrong not to", instead of "sorry, we didn't ask the maintainers, but this is why we didn't".

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by wang_li on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:15PM (#26929819)
"It's just a prank dude!"

Legitimately these folks have some kind of personality defect. They observed something that everyone already knew and then decided to act on it and pretend they were doing something interesting and new rather than just being twats. They should be treated exactly as should be based on their actions, regardless of their claims of being researchers. This would be a perfect cover for being on the take from a government agency. They should be investigated to ensure they aren't actual malicious actors.

It takes almost no imagination to think of hundreds of "security vulnerabilities" in the world, yet the vast majority of people realize that it's dumb to act on those observations.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by motohagiography on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:23PM (#26929852)
I am not a stakeholder in this, and my comment is about apologies, even though as a lifelong linux user and technologist responsible for deploying it, I still think there should be a real investigation.

While I had a bunch of notes about what makes the sentiment behing an apology meaningful, it's really separate from the issue that this should have been done privately. A public apology is just another thing about them and their message. They're performing and trying to draw in sympathetic members of an imaginary audience. There is no humility in public displays. I would be surprised if anybody asked for it, and doing it without asking is just more of the same type of behavior. There is no such thing as a public apology.

That said, I have no doubt they have suffered personally over this, and have some compassion for that suffering itself, but not sympathy for this performance. There is no gesture that restores trust. When their contributions and acomplishments become more remarkable than this issue, they will have restored it, but like most things, there is no "back" to go to. Maybe that static analyzer will be the ultimate bug finder, as succeeding at that is probably their only out.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by lolinder on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:02PM (#26929758)
It's not so much a question of what they should have put in but what they should have left out. There was an awful lot in there justifying what they did, and relatively little that acknowledged that it was wrong.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by R0b0t1 on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:50PM (#26929699)
They should have addressed why the kernel maintainers felt the way they do. As it is now they are trying to rationalize their actions instead of showing they have made an attempt to understand why their research was questionable.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by blondin on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:48PM (#26929685)
maybe i am being very naive here but that letter read like a sincere apology to me as well.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by hn8788 on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:12PM (#26929805)
I think if it were a sincere apology, they would have apologized for what they did, not just that there were undesirable side effects of their research. The letter is a typical "I'm sorry you got mad" apology that people make when they're forced to, but don't think they did anything wrong.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by astrange on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:06PM (#26929772)
People love to analyze apologies after the fact, but it seems totally unfair to me. Once someone has said an apology you can take the text of it and turn it into anything you want and say it proves they were lying.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by shkkmo on Sunday April 25, 2021 @02:51AM (#26930824)
An good apology needs to demonstrate an understanding of why what was done was wrong and ideally includes concrete steps that will prevent anything similar from happening again.

You seem to be implying that one apology is as good as another and that is absolutely not true. To me is is absolutely unfair to expect that people will treat a zero effort "sorry your feelings were hurt" apology the same as a deeply heartfelt apology by someone who feels deep remorse.

By it's nature, an apology should be an act of making amends to a person your have wronged. If the words of your apology don't do that, you have failed, even if you had good intentions.

If the author of the apology isn't a native speaker of english, this seems like a document of sufficient significance to merit asking a friend or colleague for a proofread. (Which you should do in a case like this even if English is your first language.)

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by deagle50 on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:10PM (#26929792)
Yep, it's called accountability. Would you prefer people acted without regard for others knowing that magic words can be spoken after the damage is done?
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by astrange on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:19PM (#26929836)
I would prefer you not go around saying someone is "apologizing wrong" because you've found the magic formula to turn all apology text into "I'm sorry you feel bad". There's no point in making a statement like that the original person can't respond to, anyway.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by deagle50 on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:49PM (#26929967)
I get what you're saying and I don't want that that either. But I also don't think a simple apology that doesn't attempt to justify one's actions can be so easily flipped.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by denton-scratch on Sunday April 25, 2021 @05:06AM (#26931367)
The researchers can no longer be trusted at all. The apology should have come from the University ethics board.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by tlb on Saturday April 24, 2021 @11:08PM (#26930045)
I agree. There are weasel-words throughout, starting with apologizing for "any harm". When you've been told what the harm was, don't apologize for "any harm" you might have caused. You should start an apology by demonstrating that you have listened and understood exactly what harm you caused.

Listing the harm you caused is also an important part of the public record, so that anyone else considering a similar scheme in the future can see what consequences were agreed to have happened the last time.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by tmotwu on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:49PM (#26929689)
Yeah, it's not a great apology. I would say as far as justifications go, I think it's a certain level of depth expected from academics, you shouldn't overthink it.

As far as giving benefit of the doubt, it's likely not done out of malice in the first place. Just a combination of poor reasoning and doesn't exactly clear up if they even considered alternatives to control their variables. Unfortunately, it seems like they were already given the benefit of the doubt from their first offense, but did not take any lessons away from that, so it would be understandable if the maintainers kept their ban.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by sombragris on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:02PM (#26929754)
I don't think they had malice, but the breach of elemental ethics is just appalling. They show no remorse for being trusted and abusing that trust and good faith. They show no remorse for using human beings as involuntary guinea pigs.

In sum, they show not remorse for doing wrong.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by tmotwu on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:23PM (#26929853)
For me, it's not learning the lesson the first time around.

I completely agree their experiment is unethical. However, it's not actually clear cut to most researchers the ethical bounds of their work, especially for study papers that's never really been explored before. Ethics in of itself is largely a active subtopic for many areas in CS, not only security research. AI is one area where qualifying potential harm to human beings remains largely controversial. Ask any ML scientist, and they'll tell you that determining the ethics of a project is not their responsibility.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by shkkmo on Sunday April 25, 2021 @03:00AM (#26930864)
I could not disagree more.

The ethics around research that involves deception have been pretty well established and are are several good comments here explaining them.

Every scientist is personally respsible for the ethics of the research they conducts. Full Stop, no caveats allowed.

If your research is in an area where the ethics are controversial or grey, that means your need to spend MORE time considering the ethics of your research, not that you get a free pass from being responsible.

If a any scientist espouses the opinion that determining the ethics of their projects is not their responsibility, they should be permanently barred from recieving grant money.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by tmotwu on Sunday April 25, 2021 @08:28AM (#26932213)
> The ethics around research that involves deception have been pretty well established and are are several good comments here explaining them.

Ethics in computing research remains an active research area. This incident will be used as a case study in the future, but it's not that well established. Many people have been using anecdotals, which honestly don't fit the scenario because so many variables and parameters distinguish other types of pentesting from this. And disappointingly, not a single post has actually produced the documents that establish this.

Arguably the first set of guidelines for ethics in computer security research [1] was published in 2012 and not yet widely taught in Ethics lectures (I only know about it because I learned Computer Security from one of the authors).

On identifying harms:

> "Challenges identifying harms in ICTR environments stem from the scale and rapidity at which risk can manifest, the difficulty of attributing research risks to specific individuals and/or organizations, and our limited understanding of the causal dynamics between the physical and virtual worlds. As with all exploratory research, it can be challenging to articulate benefits such that subjects can make informed decisions. In ICTR our ability to qualitatively and quantitatively foresee the probable benefits is particularly immature."

On this type of research:

> "Research of criminal activity often involves deception or clandestine research activity, so requests for waivers of both informed consent and post hoc notification and debriefing may be relatively common as compared with research studies of non-criminal activity."

This isn't a huge change from 30 years ago since Moor [2] wrote his thesis on Computer Ethics, see:

> "A typical problem in computer ethics arises because there is a policy vacuum about how computer technology should be used. Computers provide us with new capabilities and these in turn give us new choices for action. Often, either no policies for conduct in these situations exist or existing policies seem inadequate. A central task of computer ethics is to determine what we should do in such cases, i.e., to formulate policies to guide our actions."

Researchers themselves are far from educated on this topic; you won't ever explore this in depth unless you're in this particular sub-field. IRB/REB boards are considered the most qualified but are possibly too outdated to navigate around this. It's a whole mess, there is currently a lot of questionable research in many areas of computing, but the clock moves forward.

[1] https://www.dhs.gov/sites/default/files/publications/CSD-Men...

[2] https://web.cs.ucdavis.edu/~rogaway/classes/188/spring06/pap...

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by sombragris on Saturday April 24, 2021 @11:34PM (#26930151)
Great insight. But as for the ML scientists you mention, ethics _is_ their responsibility. We all are ethical beings.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by spfzero on Sunday April 25, 2021 @01:52AM (#26930587)
How is malice different from a breach of elemental ethics? How is malice different from abusing trust and showing no remorse from doing wrong?

These guys are malicious clowns, who came up with an idea that would hurt Linux, but advance their careers, and they went all in on it.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by jf on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:05PM (#26929769)
I don't think you're being overly sensitive.

To me, it's always a distinct sign that an apology isn't sincere when it hedges apologizing for "any harm" that they might have caused. In my mind, a sincere apology clearly acknowledges harm that has been caused and apologizes for that.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by roenxi on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:01PM (#26929746)
The kernel community isn't a spurned lover or anything; the apology just has to admit fault, promise not to do that again and be truthful about it.

There is no need for the researchers to be in any specific state of mind or even apologetic as long as they don't try to submit bad faith patches again.

Really the only reason there is even a need for a public apology is to signal how much pressure they are under so other people think twice before doing the same silly thing. Otherwise they could just apologise to the maintainers directly.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by johnklos on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:39PM (#26929637)
I agree, but let's give them a little extra benefit of the doubt. I thought as I was reading it that it seemed stilted and forced, then I wondered if the author(s) don't speak / write English as a primary language.

I'll be interested to see how they react to feedback / responses.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by jimsug on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:46PM (#26929670)
> We just want you to know that we would never intentionally hurt the Linux kernel community and never introduce security vulnerabilities. Our work was conducted with the best of intentions and is all about finding and fixing security vulnerabilities.

Either this is a bald-faced lie or they didn't think through the implications of their research, neither of which bode well for their trustworthiness in future. However, if it's the latter, then they possibly deserve additional leeway.

On the other hand, I wonder whether this letter would have eventuated without the ban - if not, then they've likely been forced to write it, in which case any remorse is either selfish (i.e. they've been professionally reprimanded and feel bad about getting caught, or making such an egregious error in judgement), or hollow.

> I agree, but let's give them a little extra benefit of the doubt. I thought as I was reading it that it seemed stilted and forced, then I wondered if the author(s) don't speak / write English as a primary language.

https://www-users.cs.umn.edu/~kjlu/

It looks like you might be right about this, but I think that reading it as stilted and forced is still accurate.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by lolinder on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:08PM (#26929786)
The wording is definitely stilted and forced, but the content is also wrong for an apology. They spend a lot of time justifying their actions, and close with "this has been painful for us too". This may also be cultural, but it's overly self-centered for an apology.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by CharlesW on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:41PM (#26929648)
I was just about to post: "This is a great apology."

Context is everything, of course. I think you're right that it's tainted by the fact that they absolutely did not have a choice, and coming from people who've deceived the same tribes they're now trying to apologize to.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by haswell on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:48PM (#26929686)
I think they could have really helped themselves by being humble and truly apologetic. Simple things like:

- "We are sorry for the harm we caused" instead of "We're sorry for any harm we caused"

- Not trying to explain their actions in the first paragraph of the apology! I think most folks are aware of their intent by now, and leading with yet another explanation just makes the whole thing feel disingenuous

- Avoid saying things like "this has been painful for us as well"

Unfortunately, it has so many hallmarks of a non-apology, and it's hard to look past those given the context.

As others have mentioned, they can clear this up with their actions going forward, but it will take time to rebuild trust.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by Igelau on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:21PM (#26929845)
> hallmarks of a non-apology

Is that a thing? Like there's some non-apology Bingo card you can fill out? I don't see a connection between the criteria you listed and genuine-vs-false contrition.

You may perceive these things one way, but ultimately you can't know the minds of others well enough to tell if they are sincere or not about anything. You don't get to just declare yourself the arbiter of their feelings because they used "any" instead of "the".

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by taormina on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:27AM (#26930350)
There literally are bingo cards, yes!

https://www.google.com/search?q=non+apology+bingo

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by Igelau on Sunday April 25, 2021 @01:13PM (#26934416)
Thanks, I hate it :]
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by ddingus on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:35AM (#26930372)
Does the difficulty of knowing others not put something like this in the court of opinion?

I would expect it to be there and would minimize attempts to marginalize my apology with direct, precise, and inclusive language.

For every word created or omitted to those ends, the number of negative comments will be reduced.

Fact is people take it how they take it and feel what they feel.

There really is no "can't" in any of that.

...which is why the consistent feedback to those ends is here in the discussion.

How else is this to be done and be meaningful, not easily gamed?

Serious question.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by Igelau on Monday April 26, 2021 @08:29PM (#26950157)
I wish I knew.

I tend to have pretty dry affect at certain hours of the day, which has caused considerable frustration for myself and others when I know I'm sincere but they don't. Nor does it make much sense to me for that sort of mind-reading to take place democratically. What do we then gain from it?

At best, you get an apology for a misunderstanding over the previous apology, plus a second draft that the masses might like better. Then you still get that lingering contingent that says "you just did that to placate people! Now we really know you don't mean it!"

The cultural apparatus for "Saving Face" is completely broken on a build failure for missing dependencies.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by Covzire on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:44PM (#26929664)
And what of the merits? If the previous 190 patches were indeed legitimate it strikes me as overly vengeful to pull them in a "punish the son for the sins of the father and the father for the sins of the son" kind of way.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by foerbert on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:02PM (#26929757)
I don't think it's particularly vengeful. I think it's a pretty natural result of the broken trust.

Yeah, the authors are claiming those past 190 patches are fine... but they also essentially did the same thing when they submitted the intentionally bad patches too.

So the question is, how much do you trust them right now? And given they just submitted intentionally bad patches, I don't think it's very surprising they don't have a whole lot of trust.

And if you don't trust them, then you've got 190 patches active from an untrusted source with a history of submitting bad patches. That's not a particularly good situation. Why wouldn't you revert them?

The specifics of the situation make the whole thing substantially murkier, in my (entirely unrelated) opinion. But take a broad enough view, and this is pretty much the default path. However the specifics make this a bit of an oddly exceptional situation, all things considered.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by andreareina on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:52PM (#26929708)
Or it's not in vengeance, but caution after the researchers have demonstrated that they put their needs above the community's. When the presumption of innocence is lost, it's appropriate to revert the patches until they are known to be good.

ETA: GKH on reverting the patches[1]

> This patchset has the "easy" reverts, there are 68 remaining ones that need to be manually reviewed. Some of them are not able to be reverted as they already have been reverted, or fixed up with follow-on patches as they were determined to be invalid. Proof that these submissions were almost universally wrong.

[1] https://lore.kernel.org/lkml/20210421130105.1226686-1-gregkh...

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by x3__ on Sunday April 25, 2021 @03:35AM (#26931010)
counterpoint: The LF Technical Advisory Board is taking a look at the history of UMN's contributions and their associated research projects. At present, it seems the vast majority of patches have been in good faith, but we're continuing to review the work. Several public conversations have already started around our expectations of contributors.

https://lwn.net/Articles/854064/

What the authors did is wrong, so did GKH actions. Let's be honest in calling BS out.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by jimsug on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:48PM (#26929688)
Agree that it could be seen as excessive, but this was not just in response to these commits, but also to the university's failure to act once they were informed of them.

They university, and indeed, the researchers, only acted once the ban was imposed - i.e. they were getting away with it without reputational damage, and only once it was stained did they actually do anything.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by jraph on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:03PM (#26929759)
The patches are pulled so they can be reviewed carefully before being re-applied, not as a punishment.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by Covzire on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:28PM (#26929878)
Ah that makes more sense, thanks.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by grey-area on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:08AM (#26930294)
Why would you trust anyone who pulls this kind of stunt? IMO pulling all commits pending review and banning future commits is a reasonable precaution, particularly given this disingenuous apology and the failings of the University oversight board.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by denton-scratch on Sunday April 25, 2021 @05:24AM (#26931429)
Problem is, hardly anyone is spending money on lawyers to defend Free Software. So the cheapest way to defend Free Software is to ban submissions from people who have a record of submitting crap.

Blocking an entire University seems extreme; but just think of it as a sanction on the University's ethics board. I think a (short, and very explicit) apology from the ethics board ought to suffice, to get the Uni off the hook.

And I think those researchers should not be allowed near Free Software again, unless their pushes are going to be rigourously scrutinised.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by ddingus on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:36AM (#26930378)
The developers likely see a systemic problem, not just this group. That very significantly expands their scope of action.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by Igelau on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:11PM (#26929801)
Social media insanity has greatly reduced our capacity to accept public apologies at face value. There is always a seething mob that is ready to question the sincerity of the apology once there are no more demands left to be made.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by ddingus on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:38AM (#26930385)
Not really.

Well constructed apologies are hard to seethe over.

This one could be better.

Many, myself included, believe it should have been.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by spfzero on Sunday April 25, 2021 @01:16AM (#26930493)
You're not. It does not come off as apologetic at all. It is clearly someone writing as if they wanted to go back in time and act like they legitimately were caring, thoughtful people who made a mistake. In fact, they thought this was worth trying and got caught.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by sullyj3 on Saturday April 24, 2021 @11:21PM (#26930107)
There's no apology they could have written that would not result in some people saying it was insincere.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by csours on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:45PM (#26929668)
As of now, it's just words on a page. Let's see how their actions back up those words.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by slothtrop on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:49PM (#26929695)
> It does not come across as apologetic.

The words are there. It's not up to us to decide if they're "genuine". No one's a mindreader.

The tendency to view apologies as fake seems more often to reflect how harshly we view the one making it.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by haswell on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:54PM (#26929718)
Their opening statement has the most classic of all non-apology tactics: "We're sorry for any harm we caused". Maybe this wasn't their intent, but this is one of the oldest "say the words without having to mean anything" tactics in the book.

It's like telling your partner "I'm sorry if I hurt you". No, you hurt them. Apologize for hurting them.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by cgriswald on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:27PM (#26929869)
An apology should be for actions taken, not for how the other party felt about it. Acknowledging those feelings is important, but taking credit for those feelings takes agency away from the other person.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by foldr on Sunday April 25, 2021 @07:00AM (#26931832)
I don’t think that really makes sense. Often in a personal relationship the “action taken” will be innocuous considered in itself. But you may have done it knowing full well that it would hurt the other person’s feelings. In a case where the person’s feelings are totally irrational and you had a strong independent justification for taking the action, it does get more complicated. In general, though, I think it’s a huge mistake to assume that you should never apologize for hurting someone’s feelings.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by cgriswald on Sunday April 25, 2021 @03:53PM (#26936028)
I don't think you can take the action outside of the context in which it is performed. If you take action knowing another person is likely to feel hurt, are you... not sorry you took that action?

Regardless, you can't genuinely apologize for things that aren't in your control. (You can and should empathize and sympathize with their feelings about it.) It may be a convenient fiction at times, but there are many downsides to this type of boundary blurring. I think you do the recipient a disservice by implying they have no agency—especially if they believe you. You also face the danger that your apology seems insincere or you misjudged their feelings, which could actually make matters worse.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by foldr on Sunday April 25, 2021 @06:30PM (#26937339)
I don’t really buy the idea that other people’s feelings are entirely within their own control and not at all within my control.

If we really had complete agency over our feelings then I guess we’d all just choose to feel great all the time. Doesn’t seem to work that way.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by cgriswald on Sunday April 25, 2021 @07:24PM (#26937692)
Suppose my sibling and I call each other 'ugly' as a greeting and we normally enjoy this behavior. If one day I feel hurt, is my sibling responsible for that feeling? If yes, is my sibling responsible for the depth of that feeling? Even if, on this particular day, I feel more hurt by the comment because I had just broken up with a partner? Is my sibling responsible for the duration of the feeling? Even if my response to the experience is to repeat the comment over and over in my head even after my sibling apologizes? Is my sibling responsible for all the decisions in my life (including encouraging that behavior) that have lead me to be sensitive to the comment in that moment? Am I powerless to change (whether in the near term or long term) how I respond to that comment, whether through meditation, therapy, confidence training or whatever? Am I also powerless to remove my sibling from my life?

In my view, the extent to which we can influence the emotions of another is the extent to which the recipient themselves has given implicit permission to do so; which is to say, they have agency. I don't think that simplifies into being able to choose to feel great any old time we like. I also don't think it at all excuses bad behavior or justifies a lack of empathy. But I will say that I feel a lot more good moments and less frequent and intense bad moments since I adopted this view and took responsibility for my own emotions.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by haswell on Monday April 26, 2021 @03:22PM (#26946812)
This highlights the importance of apologizing for the impact something has, vs. just apologizing for the act itself.

There is no universal rule that can be applied to determine when one vs. the other is appropriate, but seemingly innocuous actions can have negative impact, and apologizing for the innocuous thing may not always make sense.

To be clear, this is not universally true. There are situations where apologizing for the action makes sense, and situations where the action that led to a negative outcome are either inconsequential on their own, or there might be a myriad of factors leading to the need for an apology.

Apologizing for the action can also come across as disingenuous or passive aggressive in the wrong context. This is especially true when the action is well-intentioned, but has the wrong effect. Taken to an extreme, this sounds like "I'm sorry I tried helping".

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by foldr on Monday April 26, 2021 @04:22AM (#26940441)
I think your sibling should apologize for hurting your feelings by calling you ugly.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by ddingus on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:39AM (#26930390)
That loss is accountability in action.

Agency returns as trust does.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by slothtrop on Sunday April 25, 2021 @04:12PM (#26936212)
"We're sorry for" =/= "We're sorry if..."

The phrasing is such that it acknowledges harm was done. It's an apology, full-stop.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by lolinder on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:10PM (#26929796)
You don't have to be a mind reader to see that this apology isn't an apology. They spend as much time justifying their actions as they do apologizing for the unintended outcomes, and they close by complaining that they've also been hurt.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by slothtrop on Sunday April 25, 2021 @04:14PM (#26936230)
Explaining intent isn't the same as justifying. That's projection.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by denton-scratch on Sunday April 25, 2021 @05:37AM (#26931482)
Apologies are really difficult to do.

You have to acknowledge (in full) what it is that you are apologising for. That's the most important thing. Promises are meaningless.

It's not possible to "be genuine"; especially in a public post, nothing is genuine, everything is PR and smoke. Both the researchers and their ethics board need to grovel. If they did that, this tornado-in-a-teacup could be over in a month or two.

But keep those researchers banned.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by slothtrop on Sunday April 25, 2021 @04:14PM (#26936234)
No one should have to "grovel" for an apology to be effective.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by denton-scratch on Sunday April 25, 2021 @07:50PM (#26937863)
The ethics board were asleep on the job. Grovelling is probably less painful than falling on your sword.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by sneak on Saturday April 24, 2021 @09:45PM (#26929669)
They didn’t have to write it.

The first two sentences seem sincere. This reads as a real apology.

Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by pseudalopex on Sunday April 25, 2021 @12:31AM (#26930363)
They didn't have to write it if they wanted the whole university to stay banned.
Re:Open letter from researchers involved in the “hypocrite c... by tartoran on Saturday April 24, 2021 @10:07PM (#26929776)
Exculpatory apology