Then go to read some r/tinder advice and it makes sense. The Advice tends to boil down to creating your profile formulaic, attempting to be different or add much personality docks you points.
On another note if someone could please let me know how all these people are constantly affording retreats to all sorts of countries, please let me know ;)
It’s the distribution of sex, not the amount.
Technology has enabled the upper echelons of desirable men to sleep with many desirable women, and those down the pecking order are content with porn/toys, instead of settling for anyone other than the prized upper echelon.
It’s not just the technology but the social change that resulted from technology
Speaking in terms of distributions is the best way to handle this discussion, because people are more able to focus on the facts.
Having re-read my comment I tried to make it gender neutral because I think the phenomenon effects all genders, it was only the third paragraph that I used gendered language.
I’m concerned that you jumped on that, but not surprised.
This is statistically accurate analysis from dating sites and also the above article. It's not really something that's an opinion.
Much like how Americans are Obese due to readily available junk food, women have become less interested in the less attractive men.
Humans are more primitive than you would like to think.
Leading to headlines like http://whisper.sh/stories/09e9086b-03de-4087-ad5b-7f003ce2c3... "Plus-Sized Women Admit They Aren't Attracted To Overweight Men"
The falling alcohol consumption seems much more plausible in my opinion.
Humans are not rational.
How though. Wouldn't you learn pretty fast that it isn't the case.
Many people don't learn.
Those that do learn would be dissuaded from trying alternatives for anticipation (fear?) of a repeat experience.