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Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by jedberg on Saturday September 19, 2020 @05:37PM (#24530473)
No matter how you live your youth, you will probably regret it when you are older. Unless you inherit so much money that you don't have to ever work in your life.

If you spend your youth having fun and enjoying your youth, then when you get to middle age you'll have wished you worked harder and saved more so you could be wealthy and comfortable.

If you work your butt off in your youth and have lots of money and successful career, you'll wish you spent more time relaxing and having fun in your youth.

The key is finding a good balance between working hard and playing hard. Your career won't suffer if you take a week long vacation. Your health will be fine if you sometimes volunteer to do a weekend shift. Do both and you can be successful and happy about how you spent your youth.

Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by car on Saturday September 19, 2020 @08:35PM (#24531197)
Your career won't suffer if you take a week long vacation.

Move to Europe, and you can take a month long vaction like everyone else.

Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by wait_a_minute on Wednesday September 23, 2020 @11:25PM (#24574944)
There's companies in America where you can take a month-long vacation while getting paid a lot more than you would in Europe. Lots of companies with flexible PTO out there in the states, and many of them even allow remote work now.
Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by tasuki on Sunday September 20, 2020 @02:19AM (#24532258)
Inheriting money doesn't change things so much: the people I've met who've inherited a lot of money generally felt a bit lost.

I'm not quite old yet (everyone would say that, right? I'm 35), and I don't regret my younger self at all: during the past 12 years I worked cumulatively 9 years and had 3 years off inbetween jobs. I managed to save up some money, as well as travel and have time for myself.

Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by toyg on Sunday September 20, 2020 @06:18AM (#24533083)
I sincerely disagree.

Ever since I had kids, being forced to work for a living has been a massive weight on my life. Inherited wealth would be a great help.

Luckily, the fact that I don’t expect to inherit much of anything gets me out of the moral implications of wishing anyone’s death (which is actually the second biggest worry, at the back of my mind).

Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by goatinaboat on Sunday September 20, 2020 @09:13AM (#24533820)
Ever since I had kids, being forced to work for a living has been a massive weight on my life. Inherited wealth would be a great help.

The problem with these kinds of hypotheticals is that had it been that way, you would not be the you that feels this way.

Aged as I am now, a windfall like an inheritance or a lottery win would probably be invested sensibly towards my retirement. But would a much younger me have blown it all on bitcoin speculation or something equally dumb that seemed like a good idea at the time?

Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by kilroy123 on Sunday September 20, 2020 @03:56AM (#24532585)
So very true. My girlfriends friend is like this, a woman in her mid 40s and she is so incredibly lost and all over the place.
Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by gaahrdner on Sunday September 20, 2020 @02:52AM (#24532348)
As an American, this is a very American answer, and I wish I could disagree.
Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by lewisjoe on Saturday September 19, 2020 @10:49PM (#24531615)
This is exactly what I’m afraid of. I feel I’ll regret my younger self no matter which path I take, even if I take a balanced path.

There will always be choices that I would have made that my future self will deem wrong.

How do I deal with this? Is the key to happiness when older is to just lose all memories?

Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by ZephyrBlu on Sunday September 20, 2020 @01:20AM (#24532056)
Why do you dwell on the past so much? Make decisions with conviction and then live with the consequences.
Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by Aeolun on Sunday September 20, 2020 @12:42AM (#24531942)
More like you just have to accept that two options are sometimes mutually exclusive. Like which starter pokemon you pick, except you’ll only get to play life once.
Re:Ask HN: What is it like to be old? What advice would you ... by amitoz_azad on Monday September 21, 2020 @04:35AM (#24541073)
That's dark