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Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by nailer on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:27AM (#9470628)
Single sentence extract:

> He goes to the counselling centre but instead of offering any help, they call my mom to come down and then at 5 p.m. that day, hold a meeting with a dean and five other staff where they promptly dismiss my brother from William and Mary and ban him from College grounds.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by kosma on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:48AM (#9470689)
How is this even legal? I can't even imagine this happening in Europe; you can't dismiss someone from school without legal basis. Is it different in America?
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by Thriptic on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:09AM (#9471340)
Assuming that his contact was only with a mental health professional, his dismissal strikes me as illegal and unethical. It is absolutely illegal in the United States for a physician to release medical records to anyone without the patient's consent, and mental health records are generally treated as especially sacred. If that is indeed what happened, the college would be exposing themselves to a lot of risk.

I would highly encourage anyone feeling depressed to seek counseling, and for the most part school mental health services are a safe and welcoming place to find help. With that being said, DO NOT share information about your mental health status with non-medical staff at school, as they are not bound by the same rules as physicians and can act on that information. My (unsubstantiated and hopeful) guess is that this is likely what actually led to this student's dismissal.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by cjbprime on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:32AM (#9471550)
selimthegrin is correct below -- HIPAA does not apply to on-campus mental health services, and there are many ways for therapy records to be shared with the campus administration via FERPA, even against the consent of the therapist.

It's a terrible loophole that needs to be closed. In the meantime, it seems we can't in good conscience encourage people to use their on-campus counselors for mental health crises. (And the off-campus counselors are going to be more expensive, such that people you warn off the on-campus ones might just get no help at all.) :/

Here's an example of a college administration obtaining therapist records to use in their legal defense, under FERPA after the student sued them: http://www.npr.org/blogs/health/2015/03/09/391876192/college...

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by Thriptic on Friday May 01, 2015 @11:10AM (#9471900)
Holy shit, I retract my statement. How has this not been addressed yet? I will write my congressman this weekend about this issue.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by selimthegrim on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:19AM (#9471433)
Unfortunately, HIPAA and FERPA overlap and cancel out in some weird ways when it's the university running the counseling service.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by PopeOfNope on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:20PM (#9475329)
> I would highly encourage anyone feeling depressed to seek counseling, and for the most part school mental health services are a safe and welcoming place to find help.

In this day and age, I would be very, very careful about who you talk to about any kind of mental health issues. Get a reference from somebody you know and trust who has received direct care from the professional in question. Preferably more than one and never from a school. Make sure it's someone you pay directly, NOT a school counsellor. I appreciate you wanting depressed people to seek help, but sometimes dealing with it yourself is better than dealing with the system.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by tsotha on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:54PM (#9475247)
I think this goes back to the VA-Tech shooting, where some nutter chained the doors shut and shot everyone inside one of the buildings. After that there was a great hue and cry because his therapists knew he was dangerous but it was illegal to tell anyone.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by PopeOfNope on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:14PM (#9475305)
Nice theory, but this isn't a new phenomenon. I had a friend of a friend get dismissed in a similar manner back in 2001. The official reason is the therapist decided college would put undue stress on an already fragile mind. The unofficial reason is they didn't want the liability. If somebody harms themselves or others on campus, the college is liable.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by k-mcgrady on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:51AM (#9470704)
Isn't this how employment there works too?
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by lawl on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:58AM (#9470733)
Apart from there not beeing a single law for Europe...

In theory yes, in practice it's easy to make something up, here it's mostly "company internal reasons", which they don't have to justify.

The formal reason will never be that someone sucked at their job.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by celticninja on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:56AM (#9470942)
well that is somewhat inaccurate, there are EU wide laws and regulations.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by digi_owl on Friday May 01, 2015 @01:46PM (#9473196)
Iirc, EU issue directives. But it is up the individual member nations to turn those into national laws and regulations.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by kw71 on Friday May 01, 2015 @06:04PM (#9474812)
I'm not surprised if it's legal. W&M staff have a lot of control over the legal system in Virginia - they practically set Supreme Court policy, which controls lower courts too; they control the Virginia State Bar; they have a lot of influence on the state legislature which set the laws of the state.

Virginia is no hero for mentally ill people. Some people are homeless and without income because of mental illness, and until this year, the only "medicaid" available for those people (who did not care for children) were sterilization services (see "Plan First" at VA DMAS.) This means that the eugenics program against mentally ill people that Virginia is known for is still ongoing - it's merely only optional now. Virginia has closed the majority of their state mental institutions and leave these cases to be dealt with by the criminal justice system: basically the theory is to let them devolve into criminal activity then send them to prison.

I think that some mental illness is the result of child abuse. Although child abuse and neglect have been statutorily defined as criminal acts, they are not meaningfully prosecuted in practice. Since the mid-1970's, it has been the law that a wide classification of government employees, from school employees to police officers, are bound by law to report any suspicions of child abuse, but in practice none of them do that, and until several years ago, these employees were liable to no criminal penalties for ignoring that law. I have tried to find cases of people prosecuted for violating this, and have found none.

I think that WMU's influence over the state government is ridiculous and the results of it are disgusting. The school does not deserve its stellar reputation. I would not feel the least bit of sorrow if it were dissolved.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by hammock on Friday May 01, 2015 @01:40PM (#9473147)
It's called involuntary withdrawal and this is not the first time it's happened in a US college

http://www.splc.org/blog/splc/2013/04/transparency-tuesday-c...

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by madamepsychosis on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:57AM (#9471257)
I live in Europe and something similar happened to one of my friends. Abuses of power are everywhere.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by mox1 on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:26AM (#9471095)
Are you saying that in Europe colleges cannot dismiss anyone without a "legal basis" (ie they have committed a crime?)

If so that is crazy..Cheating on a test is not "illegal." There are a whole host of things that are "against school policy" but not illegal.

I find this very hard to believe....

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by pluma on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:25AM (#9471495)
School policy still has to follow the actual laws. Dismissing people for irrelevant mental issues can not legally be school policy (in the EU) as it's blatant discrimination.

It's a blatant breach of privacy and medical confidentiality. Comparing it to "cheating" is actually fairly despicable. We're not talking about malicious or manipulative behaviour, we're talking about someone suffering from an illness who took action to find treatment.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by defective on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:48AM (#9471701)
I think you can go ahead and relax. mox1 was making an argument about whether colleges could not dismiss anyone without a legal basis. mox1 was certainly not equating cheating with mental illness.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by praptak on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:42AM (#9471176)
"Against school policy" is legal basis. "We suddenly decided we don't want the likes of you" is not. I'm not saying this case must have been the latter.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by eli on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:24AM (#9471481)
I'm sure the school has a policy against students who are at threat of harming themselves or others.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by pjc50 on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:23AM (#9471078)
There have been a couple of cases of whistleblowers being fired on bogus mental health grounds from the EU itself. Although I can't remember names at the moment.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by andrey-p on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:30AM (#9470641)
That was the bit that really stood out for me. Even if one could argue that they sent him off in order to take a break and recover before continuing his studies, this

> and ban him from College grounds

is ridiculous.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by eep_opp on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:51AM (#9470710)
I don't understand that part either. I wonder if the councilor saw a potential to not only harm himself but others and that's why it was included. I can understand the school not wanting to be the next stage for another tragedy similar to Virginia Tech.

And had they not dismissed him and he continued on and something to that effect were to happen would we not see stories about friends and families of victims asking about why they would have allowed an obviously deeply disturbed person to remain on campus?

Maybe the counselor thought (erroneously?) this particular problem was too big to handle?

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by derrida on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:01AM (#9470745)
> I can understand the school not wanting to be the next stage for another tragedy similar to Virginia Tech.

How can you understand this that way? I can't.

I can't understand it because I know lots of people with depression, and I've experienced it once myself, never once did anybody I know or myself or for that matter, a reported case, ever think "I know, lets go and kill a bunch of people."

I don't understand it...

The number of dehumanizing things that have been done in the name of "health and safety" is staggering. Life begins with birth and ends with death, use compassionate reasoning in between, there's always a rule or formalism to hide behind.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by kaybe on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:08AM (#9470998)
Well, there was that one co-pilot in March this year that intentially crashed the plane (giving us more deaths by counter-terrorims measures than by terrorism in recent European history). Of course, it is hard to say looking back what was really the cause, but the link has been made.

http://www.independent.co.uk/voices/germanwings-crash-i-have...

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by DanBC on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:49AM (#9471210)
Vs all the other pilots with mental health problems who don't kill all their passengers.

It's really weird seeing such obviously fallacious thinking on HN but it happens everytime mental illness and violence comes up.

When you want to predict if a person poses a risk of violence to other people knowing whether that person has a mental illness or not gives you very little predictive power. Knowing if that person is addicted to alcohol, or has had a previous episode of violence, gives you much more predictive power. And if you combine those, or either or both of them with mental illness you get a better predictor. But mental illness itself is not a predictor.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by kaybe on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:46AM (#9471686)
Yes, of course, and it's being extensively discussed in the link. However, it is still relevant to know that some people draw this conclusion, IMHO, since it increases the quality of my model of them.

(Or, lets say, it is another parameter to watch for when discussing with new people, to help understand their point of view and ponder all the arguments, even the ones with more than sufficient counter arguments to outright dismiss them; this excercise might have to be shown to some discussion partners as well so they can see where I am coming from.)

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by derrida on Saturday May 02, 2015 @04:50AM (#9476370)
Further to what DanBC said, the fallacy is this:

    The guy who plunged his plane into a mountain had depression.
    The Unabomber was a mathematician.
    Hitler was an artist.
Artists are evil!
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by pluma on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:39AM (#9471610)
Sure, yes, if his activity would have involved taking over responsibility for people he could easily take with him if he decided to end his life, then it'd have been perfectly understandable why they would want to prevent that.

But we're talking about a college student. Sure, maybe he shouldn't be allowed in the chemistry lab or given roof access, but what does banning him from college grounds prevent that he can't do outside of it?

Besides, if he was so dangerous to warrant banning him from college grounds just so he couldn't get a chance to harm or kill others (e.g. strap bombs to himself and blow people up), he was probably too dangerous to rely on him to respect the ban. This is the point where you involve the police instead of risking to provoke him further -- and then this isn't just a mental issue, it's a direct threat. But as it seems, this wasn't what happened, even remotely.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by shiggerino on Friday May 01, 2015 @11:02AM (#9471829)
They already banned intentionally flying planes into mountains, so I don't see how banning someone from a campus prevents them from going there anyway and shooting up the place.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by eep_opp on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:16AM (#9470791)
Well let's deconstruct my comment:

1: I don't get why they would bar him from campus.

   -Unless the councilor thought that he was also a danger to others.
2: If that was there view then I can understand why they would want to remove him.

I’m saying that I agree but that maybe they (erroneously) saw something more than depression or something different from your situation. Given that what exactly is the issue?

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by derrida on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:23AM (#9470810)
I mean, I can understand it, in the sense of, someone has a limited picture / a busy day / not the time & emotional resources for which to be able to also think compassionately about someone else in need. Or sometimes responsibility is diluted in institutions so an institution can act in a way that's devoid of compassion, where an individual acting face to face could not.

(I hope you did not read me as objecting to your comment, just "expanding the picture")

To understand how someone could exclude someone from campus with depression, I'd have to start positing the existence of events / information we don't have. Usually if a health care professional decides they are a danger to others, that is when people get sectioned. This is common place stuff. Virginia Tech is not common place stuff.

Maybe the people at Virginia Tech were depressed or something, I don't know. But, so what?

Hitler was an artist.

There's always the "historical psycho" exception to every rule.

Mathematics causes Unabombers?

These events are in the popular imagination, but it's a reaction coming from fear. In cases like depression it's particularly important for people around a person to act from compassion, open-ness etc. Just "being there" is enough.

Saying "I'm here..." is enough, you have no idea how a small thing like that can make a world of difference without you feeling like it's even a thing you had to give.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by CWuestefeld on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:02AM (#9471285)
The picture all this paints for me is one of risk management.

From the time they first identify the risk, all further actions seem to focus on washing their hands and distancing themselves from that risk. Rather than helping him themselves, they rush him out the door to a dedicated facility; they forbid him from being on campus, thus ensuring that if things go wrong it'll be on somebody else's watch; and they drag their feet about letting him back into the system.

Just my opinion, but the appearance is that their primary concern was to stay out of liability's way; the actual danger to a student was secondary at best.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by pluma on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:40AM (#9471624)
Ironically, in a working legal system this would actually incriminate them for negligence: they knew he was at risk and instead of making sure he has help, they locked him out so they wouldn't have to deal with him.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by smrtinsert on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:42AM (#9471645)
I read that and my jaw dropped. They should investigate legal options. I can't understand how they don't understand how that might push a student even closer to suicide - college is your world when you are in it.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by Red_Tarsius on Friday May 01, 2015 @07:34AM (#9470653)
My thoughts as well.

The final response of the school to Cassie is also saddening and revealing of a culture devoid of any empathy.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by erroneousfunk on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:44AM (#9471191)
I think that was perhaps the best William and Mary could do without commenting on that particular student's case at all, or revealing any personal information, which they wouldn't be allowed to do.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by MrZongle2 on Friday May 01, 2015 @11:28AM (#9472049)
Agreed. It read as if written by legal robots, far more interested in avoiding words that could possibly imply any sort of responsibility.
Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by mcguire on Friday May 01, 2015 @11:08AM (#9471880)
On the one hand, it's possible the counsellor concluded that he was a threat to others at the College---an immediate threat, which would require an immediate response.

On the other hand, assuming he went to the counselling center first thing in the morning, that's roughly nine hours minus travel time, scheduling, and all the other steps involved in this kind of decision. I find it difficult to believe that a counsellor met with him for more than an hour.

Further: "My brother is then taken home and the next day starts at our local mental health facility. He voluntarily enters a residential program, which is very hard ordeal for both him and my parents. However, he does well and is released to out-patient status on Monday, March 30, 2010." The residential program released him after less than two weeks. I suspect they would not do so if they believed him to be a threat.

So, why did the College initially deny him re-admittance?

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by Lawtonfogle on Friday May 01, 2015 @03:49PM (#9474059)
>On the one hand, it's possible the counsellor concluded that he was a threat to others at the College---an immediate threat, which would require an immediate response.

And they may have protected the other students at the cost of selling out the integrity of therapy in general. Think of a judge, given the smoking gun needed to convict a murderer that was obtained by unconstitutional means. He must let the murderer go because, while releasing the murder introduces risks to the public, the risk of not upholding the Constitution is even greater.

As it stands, I would no more advise someone to see a therapist than I would advise them to tell everything to a defense lawyer in a country where the defense lawyer tells everything to the prosecutor and it is all admissible in court.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by justonepost on Friday May 01, 2015 @09:07AM (#9470992)
Couple of more sentences: Almost 40% of the students who access our services at the Counseling Center report having had suicidal thoughts. The vast majority of those students continue to be seen at the Counseling Center and remain in school.

Likely there was something extremely dramatic about this case that made the college believe he was a clear threat to himself and/or others if he stayed at the college.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by pluma on Friday May 01, 2015 @10:33AM (#9471555)
He was speaking to the Counseling Center, not the college administration.

In what world is banning someone from college the right approach to handle someone with obvious mental issues disclosing his problems in a counseling center?

If his situation was "more extreme", the first course of action should be to escalate the situation to more qualified, not the college administration (who are neither qualified nor relevant). You can still kick someone out after they're in professional treatment.

It's extreme irresponsible to not just refuse treatment but actually measurably make their situation worse. You might as well hand them a razor and tell them "yes, you're right, take this and go kill yourself" while you're at it.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by Lawtonfogle on Friday May 01, 2015 @03:54PM (#9474081)
>In what world is banning someone from college the right approach to handle someone with obvious mental issues disclosing his problems in a counseling center?

Any potential threat of negative repercussions only serves to destroy trust between a potential client and any therapist.

Imagine what would happen if people with AIDs had their info put into a public database (especially back when fear of the disease was much higher)? It would have destroyed not only the trust of those with or who might have AIDs, but of many people with other health concerns as well.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by snowy on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:22AM (#9470805)
Why was he dismissed and banned? Surly not for having suicidal thoughts. Did something else go on here that is been omitted? Did they see him as a threat to other students?

If so you can't really blame them.

Re:On a brother’s suicide: ‘I wish I had never told him to g... by baldfat on Friday May 01, 2015 @08:32AM (#9470842)
I worked in Student Life as a Resident Director. The power of Lawyer is extremely strong and the fear of litigation is very high.

Our college handled this differently and perhaps it was due to my strong advocate since my brother took his own life when I was a kid. We required hospitalization for the hospital to evaluate and than we would work one on one to make sure they were following doctor's orders in terms of counseling and medications. This all had to be done secretly so that students privacy wasn't stolen and that students would know it was a safe place.

As a Resident Director we would directly contact the professors and arrange a way for the student to make up their work and to complete the classes. usually the students would have a lot of abstinence and this would cause an issue, but we would always try our best and set up things in place for the next semester if need be and with financial assistance (AKA not charge them for the class credits a second time).