Personally, I use LLMs for writing assistance as well, but I never ask it to generate text. I only ask it to:
1. Do basic copy editing. I give it a version of my document with prefixed line numbers, and ask it to find any typos, grammatical errors, or "hard to parse" sentences, and then generate a table of lines with issues. I make all of the fixes myself.
2. Do style and sentiment analysis. I previously worked as a tech writer (design docs, test reports, policies, etc...), so my natural style has become incredibly dry. Too dry for what I try to write these days. So I ask the LLMs for feedback on readability, voice, descriptiveness, emotion, etc... Yes, I know they're not actually "performing" reviews, but there must be enough literary and language analysis embedded within the models that they can take my text and return an appropriate response. They provide basically the same feedback that I've received from actual human readers (mostly that my writing is too dry...), but they're obviously a lot faster. I specifically ask it not to provide suggestions for changes to the actual text.
The simple act of forcing a roundtrip through your brain and muscles might seem like a small barrier, but I think it's actually a big step in terms of forcing you to interact with the text and take ownership. It's also not practical to do for large blocks of text, and likely will find you putting your stamp on and slightly rewriting even medium-length passages. Both of which are features of the definition.
Opus 5.5 will make broad changes in meaning and scope, but subtly. A human copy editor would at least pause before making claims unsupported by evidence (unless they're marketing); an LLM will happily fill in the gaps. Adversarial checks are helpful but have limits.
Unfortunately, I believe most people's command of written language is simply limited (including their native tongue), so they genuinely don't notice or care.
Using a copy editor in the way you describe is sensible, but I suspect many people will just do one pass and blindly apply every suggestion.
These things are literally the chess engines of rules lawyering, the only effective move to limit them is to precommit to an unreasonable bright line.
But if you paste any output from the LLM into your document, or just wholesale roundtrip it through the LLM chat window, that's (at least partly) LLM-generated.
I usually follow this procedure for formal emails. I write an initial draft and ask an LLM for a review. I iterate several times as I frequently feel that the LLM has changed a subtle meaning or makes a specious argument that isn't in line with what I want to communicate.
If I could afford a full-time copy editor, Iād use one for the same reason. I am just trying to convey my meaning accurately and I believe that I get more precise results with an LLM helper.