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Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by nkrisc on Monday April 06, 2026 @11:32AM (#47662241)
> But today, the very first touchpoint with "the internet" for younger folks is a smartphone display. The even do homework on this small screens!

I saw a tweet recently that perfectly encapsulates this: for most people over 30, certain things are "big screen tasks". I use my phone for a lot, but for some things I put the phone down and use my computer instead. I am most comfortable using a large screen and a keyboard for anything that requires writing more than a few words or using any interface for more than a few clicks.

For example, I read your comment on my phone and went to my computer to type this reply.

I personally find the idea of doing homework on my phone horrifying but I suppose kids today are either used to it and comfortable with it, or they've simply never used a computer and don't know what they're missing. Though I'd wager they probably aren't comfortable typing on a keyboard.

Honestly I think Apple perfectly captured it with their "what's a computer?" ad for the iPad. I seem to remember them getting some flak online for it but I think they were right on the money with regards to the younger generations.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by kaladin-jasnah on Monday April 06, 2026 @11:48AM (#47662465)
> I personally find the idea of doing homework on my phone horrifying but I suppose kids today are either used to it and comfortable with it, or they've simply never used a computer and don't know what they're missing. Though I'd wager they probably aren't comfortable typing on a keyboard.

For college aged kids, most people are definitely not doing their homework on their phone. Many are still using paper and pencil. The one person I know who did do their homework on their phone tried to evangelize it to their friends and got ridiculed for it.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by technothrasher on Monday April 06, 2026 @12:01PM (#47662668)
I just asked my college aged kid. He said pretty much everyone does their written homework on their laptop, but many will use their phones to do the reading.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Groxx on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:05PM (#47664568)
Aside from being a bit small and having to be held close, phones are good proportions for reading. Computers screens have gotten wider and wider, and UIs bigger and bigger, and it eats into reading space pretty heavily. Especially if you don't have a high-density screen.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by AlBugdy on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:39PM (#47665875)
> Computers screens have gotten wider and wider, and UIs bigger and bigger

Sadly, most websites forcefully limit the width of the text. It's like they pretend our monitors are oriented to be tall rather than wide. Even HN has unnecessarily big margins. So unless I try to cram another window in my FHD monitor, I have ~50% or more completely wasted space. Margins should be 2-3 pixels wide, not 20-30% of the screen.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by bobthepanda on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:44PM (#47665942)
There are actual user studies to show that wider text is harder to read. https://baymard.com/blog/line-length-readability

The major difference is that in the era of print, it was pretty logical where a multicolumn wide layout could go like on a newspaper, but in an desktop experience the browser markup is theoretically endless.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by AlBugdy on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:18PM (#47666453)
I can resize my window easily if I wanted shorter text. Or used ctrl-shift-m on Firefox. But I can't easily make the text longer without userscripts or addons.

> actual user studies to show that wider text is harder to read

That may apply to most people, but not to everyone.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Groxx on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:23PM (#47666526)
afaict it applies to literally everyone. there's a variable "sweet spot" of course, but once you get out to "extremely wide" it's reliably worse for everyone, and there are LOADS of computer monitors that qualify for that label.

margins to control the width of large blocks of text have a ton of research in their favor, it's not just "more whitespace = more gooder" UI design madness. there's some of that of course, but there's a sane core underneath it all.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by direwolf20 on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:11PM (#47666374)
Solution: rotate your monitor 90 degrees, and inform your OS that you have done so. Now your monitor is 1080x1920. You'll actually be amazed how much more of a document fits on screen without sacrificing readability.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by bavell on Monday April 06, 2026 @07:31PM (#47668793)
Preach. I have 4 monitors and one is a vertical 1440x2560. Massive productivity boost - terminals running claude code, reading docs, IDE panes, anything with lots of scrolling. Highly recommend it!
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by hadlock on Monday April 06, 2026 @10:55PM (#47670224)
The studies go back way earlier than that; there's a reason why they call them "newspaper columns"
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by t-3 on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:35PM (#47664980)
In addition to more space, having only one foreground application really reduces distractions and visual clutter. Also, for some reason I am comfortable using larger fonts on phones and tablets, which makes doing lots of reading easier than on my laptop.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by sebastiennight on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:19PM (#47665570)
> reduces distractions

Have you looked over the shoulder of somebody trying to "do" something on their phone recently?

If so you might have noticed the constant pings and notifications from dating apps, news sites, random games and cool-apps-that-you've-long-forgotten-but-still-have-location-and-background-services-turned-on.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Groxx on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:17PM (#47666429)
I mean, some, sure. but it's a choice, and not all choose to do that. and I've watched quite a few (of all ages) escape it when they realize how much it's harming their ability to do what they need to do.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by qubitcoder on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:32PM (#47665788)
That's where Reduce Interruptions on the iPhone (or Do Not Disturb) comes in handy.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by TeMPOraL on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:41PM (#47665895)
That's not just interruptions. It's the notifications bar itself.

I noticed this only recently - I switched the default phone launcher to a scifi theme built on Total Launcher (there's legit personal research project reasons behind that, it's not just to look cool!) and after few days (and a bunch of missed messages), I realized my life seems suspiciously light in interruptions and random events. It took me a few more moments to pin-point the reason: the theme hid the notification bar entirely. It was still there, ready to pull down and expand with a gesture or a button tap - but that top line with icons was not visible (and through the stroke of luck, I misconfigured something in another experiment and had no notification indicators on the lock screen, either).

Not having notification indicators visible on any surface is really all it took - and conversely, this means that just having them there created the majority of the burden for me. I thought I successfully solved the distraction problem by silencing or eliminating ads and useless notifications, but now I know that even the important ones aren't really that important for the burden their very existence creates.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Zak on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:45PM (#47666824)
Android modes provide control over notification display.

Modes control which people and apps can trigger a sound/vibration, but also offer the option to hide the silenced notifications from the status bar, pull-down shade, and dots on app icons. I hide them from the status bar, but not the pull-down shade so that I can manually check if I want to, but don't see them at a glance.

I'm not a heavy user of this feature though; I mostly don't install apps that have spammy notifications.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by TeMPOraL on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:50PM (#47666882)
Right. I'm saying that living for a week without any notification bar at all made me realize that even my usual well-curated notification bar is impacting me much more than I realized.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Zak on Monday April 06, 2026 @05:02PM (#47667055)
I imagine usage patterns vary greatly. For me, most of the time, I have it set to only allow messages from contacts, and I usually handle those immediately.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by encom on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:26PM (#47665695)
This is the first time I've heard someone say a smartphone reduces distractions.

As a millennial boomer, I prefer my triple monitor setup and mechanical keyboard, not to mention network- and client-level content blockers, whenever I have to input more than a sentence.

I was at a conference last week, and I took notes in a fullscreened GNU Nano. Distractions, ADHD, etc. Did get some odd looks, but I couldn't imagine taking notes without an actual keyboard. I'm not an ultra fast typer, but I'm decent - I'd challenge any thumb typer on MonkeyType.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by t-3 on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:25PM (#47666551)
I don't have any social apps or games on my phone. Other than the web browser there's nothing to distract me. I find it so easy to get caught up in checking the news or email or the episode of that show I was watching on my laptop, but I don't do any of those things habitually on my phone or tablet or reader so that's my "distraction free" device.

That's only for reading though! For taking notes I go with a real keyboard or pencil and paper whenever I have the choice.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Groxx on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:38PM (#47666712)
similar here, I'm gradually removing more and more things from my phone. at this point it's mostly just a couple actually-important apps, a web browser, and messaging apps (because it's clearly superior to whipping out a laptop for brief things). "social" outside messaging is in the web browser or not on the phone at all. if I want to focus I just turn on Do Not Disturb for an hour.

browsing is slowly reducing as time goes on too, as while it's convenient on my phone, it's rarely efficient. it doesn't take long at all before I'd rather pull out a laptop and finish more quickly.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Hoodedcrow on Sunday April 12, 2026 @02:50AM (#47736796)
For me, a phone is mostly less distracting because it's not very comfortable to use compared to a laptop. It's much less likely to get sucked into doing unrelated things when the experience is actively not that pleasant (especially when it comes to anything with typing).
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Hoodedcrow on Sunday April 12, 2026 @02:48AM (#47736783)
I don't feel comfortable reading from my laptop or phone in general. If a text isn't very short, I prefer saving it as .html or .pdf onto my e-reader, and that's such a MASSIVE improvement. That includes long comment sections too.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by halJordan on Monday April 06, 2026 @01:24PM (#47663987)
Kinda stretching the definition of kid there, a little past the breaking point imo.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by dasil003 on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:01PM (#47664493)
What do you mean? A kid is anyone younger than the speaker. My step dad used to refer to Bill Clinton as a kid because he was the first president younger than him.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by sebastiennight on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:22PM (#47665633)
Fun fact: dail003's stepdad wouldn't have been able to call any president a "kid" for over a decade now.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by NERD_ALERT on Monday April 06, 2026 @01:54PM (#47664416)
I started college 10 years ago and all of my homework was computer based, including Calculus and Linear Algebra. Of course for those higher level math classes I had to use paper and pencil to get to the answer but absolutely everything was submitted through an online portal. For any other classes the work was purely done on the computer.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by fho on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:21PM (#47664800)
Can't confirm. We had students at university (18-20-ish) that had not used a mouse prior to our courses. That was at least 3-4 years ago now and not a single case.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Hoodedcrow on Sunday April 12, 2026 @02:46AM (#47736776)
The only situation I can think of is when you're in public transport and settling down with a laptop or paper is not really feasible. But if that came up frequently, I'd rather buy a tablet. Some students in my class also use tablets in class instead of laptops.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by KellyCriterion on Monday April 06, 2026 @11:45AM (#47662418)
> For example, I read your comment on my phone and went to my computer to type this reply.

Thanks for the honor! :)

Sometimes I even copy links from here and send them by mail to myself so I can reply later - maybe Im getting tooo old? :-D (on the iPhone I would store it in a simple textnote)

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by ghaff on Monday April 06, 2026 @12:33PM (#47663162)
I was somewhat shocked a while back when a coworker told me that they offered their kid a laptop for school work and the kid apparently said : Thanks but I’ll stick with my phone.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by throwawaytea on Monday April 06, 2026 @07:08PM (#47668581)
Whenever I read this I think "why are they even asking? You tell the kid hw and projects are done on the computer and that's it."

When I had trouble concentrating and learning 7x8 and random ones around there, my dad made me stand facing a wall so I would concentrate lol. Not in a forceful way, but it was his tool to make sure I concentrated til I got it.

I can't imagine him watching me make a major life mistake like trying to learn and practice my work on a phone instead of sitting down at a desk.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by m463 on Monday April 06, 2026 @12:51PM (#47663462)
> or they've simply never used a computer and don't know what they're missing. Though I'd wager they probably aren't comfortable typing on a keyboard.

On the other hand, I've noticed lots of people use voice on their phone instead of a keyboard.

Many friends of mine send occasional nonsense in the middle of a text message, and it becomes obvious they're using voice to text.

As a young kid, why would I laboriously type a homework paper when I could dictate it from the couch or some other better location than a desk?

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by TeMPOraL on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:49PM (#47666009)
> Many friends of mine send occasional nonsense in the middle of a text message, and it becomes obvious they're using voice to text.

I do that, but only sometimes, because of those dictation mistakes. If not for that, I'd use it a lot, because it's super convenient way to communicate or operate the phone on the go, while pushing a stroller, holding your other kid's hand in your other hand, holding an umbrella in the third hand, and a bag of groceries in fourth.

What I don't do, and hate with burning passion, is voice messages. I get the appeal for the sender, but excepting kids/teenagers, it's about the most annoying thing you can do for the recipient. There's hardly a moment in a busy adult's life where you can listen to someone's rambling without disrupting people around you and/or discomforting yourself and/or having to expend 100x the focus that reading takes.

For me, voice messages over 5 seconds long go straight to "Share" -> save to file [Ghost Commander] -> attach to a prompt saying "transcribe that for me" [any LLM app] - and I'm working on automating this away completely.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by mathgeek on Monday April 06, 2026 @12:55PM (#47663512)
For many kids, they have one device and it’s a phone or tablet. They may have access to a computer, but not on demand. Much like when many of us were growing up and had one computer.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by pnexk on Monday April 06, 2026 @01:01PM (#47663611)
It is also the case that PCs are still more expensive than phones. Had a work colleague in one of my first customer facing service jobs who relied almost completely on an android phone to get everything done from mortgage applications to entertainment before I gifted them one of my lesser used laptops.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by kelvinjps10 on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:29PM (#47666599)
high end phones are 1k, you can buy a used thinkpad for 200$ or a chromebook for 500$ or now the macbook neo for 600$. Well it's also that the phone you need it so the laptop/pc it's an aditional cost
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Hoodedcrow on Sunday April 12, 2026 @03:00AM (#47736845)
If we're talking about people having a hard time affording a phone - why tf are you bringing up high-end phones at all? I'm in no way poor and my $300 phone was already a pretty painful expense. In those cases, we'd be talking about a <$200 Chinaphone. Also yeah, indeed, there are affordable laptop options given how much of a necessity it feels like. That tends to be more value per dollar in a laptop too. Personally not comfortable buying secondhand though because I can't risk money on that scale, and there are much less guarantees on the state of the hardware, although would like to eventually learn how to do it as safely as buying new.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by anjel on Monday April 06, 2026 @01:14PM (#47663828)
To this day, using soft keyboards + autocorrect boils my blood. Q: Are we not men?
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by dfxm12 on Monday April 06, 2026 @01:56PM (#47664447)
This isn't phone vs desktop. It's app vs browser. To wit, there's no official HN app. I'm presuming you did both of these tasks in a browser.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Markoff on Tuesday April 07, 2026 @02:47AM (#47671547)
TBH it's pretty much synonyms nowadays web app/website=desktop, app=smartphone
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by kstrauser on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:18PM (#47664755)
This resonates. There are certain tasks, like dealing with any government or healthcare-related web page, that I won't even bother attempting on my phone. In my case, it's because I just know in my heart of hearts that the crummy mobile website won't be feature-complete enough for me to complete my goal.

My wife is the opposite. It doesn't occur to her that the problem may be with the janky website, not with her. She'll ask me for help with a thing out of frustration and my first troubleshooting step is to reach for my laptop. This is almost inevitably followed by "hey, wait, how come you're able to press the Submit button but I wasn't able to?" "Because the dev never tested this on a phone and it's broken." "So it's not just me being incompetent to use this website?" "Nope, never was."

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by seba_dos1 on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:32PM (#47664927)
I was probably one of the first people doing some of these "big screen tasks" on my phone nearly two decades ago when I was a teenager who spent his first earned money to get an Openmoko Neo Freerunner - I learned a lot by programming the phone on the phone itself - but what was exciting about it was that I could do all these things even when I did not have a big screen and a keyboard in front of me. When I do, it's just so much more comfortable to do it there, especially these days when touch screens are capacitive and not very accurate anymore!
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by TeMPOraL on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:47PM (#47665134)
> I saw a tweet recently that perfectly encapsulates this: for most people over 30, certain things are "big screen tasks". I use my phone for a lot, but for some things I put the phone down and use my computer instead. I am most comfortable using a large screen and a keyboard for anything that requires writing more than a few words or using any interface for more than a few clicks.

Yup. From the frontier of mobile tech, I can say that a foldable phone (Galaxy Z Fold 7) is the first mobile device that successfully ate into this category, and bit a rather substantial chunks out of it. It's only been ~6 months into this experience, but the "big tasks" for me now are the ones that benefit from substantial use of keyboard and/or mouse. If it's only about screen space or doing things in 2-3 apps at the time, chances are my phone is now good enough for its mobility to beat inconvenience - though chances are also good that at least one of the programs will be a browser, because mobile apps still suck.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by satvikpendem on Monday April 06, 2026 @02:56PM (#47665244)
It's because of limited RAM that this distinction started.

On especially older phones if I were to write a long comment and move to a different tab or app before submitting, I can all but guarantee the OS would kill and try reloading the tab and lose all my text. What's even worse is this could happen mid online purchase which can have even greater consequences (double booking or purchasing especially but things like flight tickets). People who grew up with older phones saw this happen all too often and moved to a desktop or laptop computer where that literally never happens, at least by default.

This, I'd bet, is the primary reason for big vs small screen activities, although of course there are many secondary ones, such as the phone being many kids' primary interface

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by sunaookami on Monday April 06, 2026 @05:12PM (#47667202)
This still happens on Android phones with enough RAM, it drives me insane and Firefox is especially bad for this since it will literally always reload the current tab when moving back to it. Phone software is just horrible all around. Multi-tasking simply does not work on phones.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by ghaff on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:03PM (#47665315)
I’ve been trying a bit of an experiment on my current trip and I’m still skeptical about iPad plus Magic Keyboard. Better than alternatives but still so-so. I think I’ll go back to my 10+ year old MacBook Pro but unless something really changes I’ll just pick up an Air for traveling at some point.
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by armadyl on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:57PM (#47666137)
I switched to using my iPad Pro M5 + Magic Keyboard nearly full time. I use it for literally everything and also have it connected to an external monitor.

The only asterisk is that I also own a Mac Mini but I keep it attached running headlessly to my router and access it from the iPad via Jump Desktop and only use it exclusively for dev work (I only use a single external monitor anyway even with a normal Mac) or if I really need Chrome occasionally. But macOS used in that way feels almost native to the iPad.

Prior to this I was looking at an MBP and selling the iPad but this has convinced me to stay with it for the time being and maybe just upgrade the mac mini to a studio instead and continue to use it remotely.

People hate on it but so far I've been using it this way and it really feels next gen to the point that using a Macbook with macOS vs. the iPP + iPadOS feels genuinely archaic. With the latest iPadOS beta too things have gotten better on the Safari from as well and tabs no longer refresh as aggressively (though it's not perfect still).

Not to mention the significantly higher amount of security with iPadOS and AppleCare benefits (specifically theft protection) that comes with this setup.

If Android desktop mode improves a bit more and the Motorola devices for GOS next year look good then it wouldn't be inconceivable that I could drop my devices from 3 to 2 and not need a proper PC or Mac at all.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by ghaff on Tuesday April 07, 2026 @03:26AM (#47671811)
Certainly the Magic Keyboard is way better than any alternatives I’ve seen. Have tried to give it a good shot but maybe just haven’t tried hard enough and default back to what I’m used to.

When I get home need to ponder a bit more because some gear is very old or was declared to be unsalvageable after smoke damage from a kitchen fire.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by AlBugdy on Monday April 06, 2026 @03:36PM (#47665830)
> I personally find the idea of doing homework on my phone horrifying but I suppose kids today are either used to it and comfortable with it, or they've simply never used a computer and don't know what they're missing. Though I'd wager they probably aren't comfortable typing on a keyboard.

First hand from a couple of ~16 year olds I know. Definitely not a representative sample. Some know how to type at an acceptable speed. They're awful at shortcuts (alt-tab, many of the browser shortcuts that also present in many other programs (ctrl-w,-t,-s,-q) and most text-selection and movement shortcuts (ctrl-a,-x,-c,-v and (ctrl-)shift-left,-right)) so they navigate clumsily compared to us. They feel awkward when performing simple tasks but they do it faster than on a smartphone. They don't understand some of the terms and abstractions, likely because the smartphones keep that away from them.

Seeing them navigate things like homework or spreadsheets or multiple tabs in a browser from a smartphone is like watching a caveman trying to use a piece of brittle rock as a hammer. It will work in the end, but it's slow. I haven't looked at them closely enough, but I doubt they can comfortably keep more than 10 tabs open and navigate between them with the same speed as on a laptop or a desktop. I assume their browsing habits are qualitatively different than ours because of that. You can't really do adequate research on a smartphone.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by chrneu on Monday April 06, 2026 @06:43PM (#47668331)
My partner is a therapist and so I wind up in a lot of therapist groups and support groups for therapists. Many of them are youth therapists. I also coach kids and help coordinate youth athletics. My best friend is also a middle school teacher, along with his partner. So I think I have a decent grasp on where kids are at nowadays. At least in my area.

Most people I know who work with kids agree that the majority of children nowadays lack basic skills that will really handicap them in life. From a lack of basic reading/writing/typing/math skills to an ability to handle any kind of confrontation. The anti-social stuff is really, really bad and it compounds as life goes on, where kids never learn skills as they need to. Avoidance is really prevalent in people nowadays and this leads to never learning or atrophying basic skill sets. Then it also leads to not learning how to learn, or asking for help, etc.

Kids also lack the basic ability to put a series of tasks together to accomplish a larger goal. Critical thinking is severely lacking. Kids have grown up being able to ask a search engine a question or have an AI do tasks for them. The ability to understand how things work, then manipulate those things to meet a goal is just not there for a large amount of kids. I think we really need to bring back things like shop class, home ec, etc to get kids using their hands more. Kids need to be able to have an idea and then implement it in the real world. This is a skill I rarely see in kids nowadays. Way too often kids are told to avoid making mistakes and to get someone/something else to do things for them. The agency is just not there.

I really feel terrible for a lot of kids nowadays. Luckily, since I work with athletics and STEM kids, most of my tribe are eager to learn and move about. This is definitely not the norm nowadays though. My teacher friends are really struggling to feel like they're making a difference or benefitting these kids. It's sad because the problems are mostly related to their parents, not really the school system.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by robocat on Tuesday April 07, 2026 @12:18AM (#47670703)
> skills to an ability to handle any kind of confrontation. > Avoidance is really prevalent in people nowadays

I see both of those in plenty of middle aged people (my age). Conflict is a hard skill to learn, and avoidance often works.

When dealing with someone who maximally escalates, avoidance can be the alternative to violence.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by Markoff on Tuesday April 07, 2026 @02:38AM (#47671493)
> [Conflict] Avoidance is really prevalent in people nowadays

Nowadays? Fight Club was joking about it quarter century ago. Relevant clip:

https://youtu.be/WWNrPCakd2I?si=tOaYgRd3g0Zarbzl&t=8

Western society is made of the weaklings (I think the term nowadays is snowflakes) who will do anything to avoid fight/conflict, I realized it when I returned back after few years in China and saw everywhere these weak people. In China you have to be rude/fast to survive, ignoring other people's interests.

Same experience when I was kid before serving in military vs after serving in military, you really grow up fast over there from teenager.

They should be teaching assertiveness in the schools, western people will nowadays just complain on internet (internet heroes) or find excuse "oh it's just a dollar" to avoid conflict instead of complaining directly where it's suitable.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by asddubs on Tuesday April 07, 2026 @06:24AM (#47672995)
It kind of sound to me like you're surrounded by a lot of people who will tell you stories about kids, but only the ones who are having problems. Either because there's a selection that happened before they even encountered the kids (being a therapist), or because there's just no reason to talk about the ones that are doing fine (teacher)
Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by mlrtime on Tuesday April 07, 2026 @07:06AM (#47673346)
Interesting (I read this all) and wonder if it is a local issue vs a larger issue? Meaning are you seeing the influence of your local social economy class and how they parent?

I'm guessing this is a urban city area of upper middle class? I could be completely off.

Re:I Won't Download Your App. The Web Version Is A-OK by InexSquirrel on Monday April 06, 2026 @04:51PM (#47666890)
I think it's easier for kids to get hold of a phone at a younger age and become accustomed to it, and don't realise the jank / frustration it introduces when doing certain tasks.

I become unreasonably frustrated when having to search for things on the phone. Buying stuff online is a 'big screen task' not because of the security aspect, but because of needing to compare multiple products, which involve jumping between tabs. I can do that via shift/ctrl-tab, clicking, alt-tab etc - basically a single click. On the phone it's at least 3, and a genuinely grating experience saying nothing of having to copy and paste text for searching.

That said I've come across people that don't know basic copy and paste shortcuts / basic PC literacy, so for those I can see how the phone would feel no less efficient.

I think as kids get older, and their tasks require more digital complexity to complete, they'll slowly migrate towards laptops and larger screen devices (maybe including tablets, maybe not). Basic surfing etc is fine, but there is no way I want to be using even a spreadsheet on a phone - it's a miserable experience - saying nothing of something with genuine complexity like Blender.