I wouldn't be running an explicitly racist apartheid ethnostate. I wouldn't be engaging in constant ethnic cleansings for the last 75 years.
The answer for both sides is that both sides have historical claim to the land, and there is no better neighborhood to live in for either of the sides anyway.
But Gazans can’t leave (the borders have been closed for years now), while Israelis can emigrate whenever they like. So on an individual basis, every Israeli has made a choice to accept living in the bad neighborhood, whereas the Gazans have no choice but to make the best of the bad situation.
As for the Jews, there is no place safer than this "bad neighborhood".
This is an argument that Hamas is bad not why buildings need to be destroyed
Many of the dead children pinned on Israel are the result of the bobby trapped buildings. This actually makes sense in Muslim media, where culturally those killed by either side are considered martyrs and afforded the gifts of heaven. But it makes no sense in Western media where human life is supposedly valued.
a.k.a. please don't feed the trolls
As soon as Hamas returns the hostages, we could then progress to the day after and who will rule the strip.
And look at Israel vs Hezbollah--Hezbollah makes little use of human shield tactics, casualties run in the ballpark of 90% combatant. Same force, same type of opponent, what's the difference in Gaza? Hamas makes very heavy use of human shield tactics and worse. We see 30-50% combatants. That implies that the majority of the deaths are because of Hamas.
Why would the military in countries hostile to Israel provide Israel with advice or plans on defeating their enemies?