This attitude would stop over 50% of disagreements.

and.. piss off another group who get their validation externally by evangelically putting down the technological choices of others.

Prejudice may not be in social areas but the same behaviour of prejudice is alive and well in justifying your own or denigrating someone else’s technology choices.

Same folks aren’t willing to be open to what is new to them in a new framework is still a 20 year old thing.

Being open to try new things is a rare state of mind and immediately disqualifies much of the population.

Having an open mind, and curious mind that seeks out new ways and experiences not something that happens randomly. You have to cultivate it in yourself and others.

I specifically said "to me"

You did, but you didn't lead with it.

Leading with it sets context before the fact.

I'm not sure what you expect out of this conversation