The parent said the chances of a single bit flipping are too high without it, they are, which is why it’s in the spec :) These densities wouldn’t be possible without it.
ECC memory modules are better because they can fix and report errors, the base DDR5 DIMM will hand you a piece of memory with multi-bit corruptions that it couldn't fix. The ECC DIMM will fix larger errors and tell you about each detected corruption.
But there are ECC DIMMs with even better ECC. DDR5 moved the DIMMs from one 64-bit channel to two 32-bit channels. ECC DDR4 you'd protect 8 memory dies with 1 memory die holding the ECC, your computer will identify it as 72-bit memory. ECC DDR5 you protect the 4 memory dies in the half channel with a dedicated 5th die on each channel. Some ECC DDR5 will have 80-bit ECC, some will have 72-bit ECC. You want the 80-bit ECC because it stores 8 more bits of ECC for your memory controller to correct errors.
Micron isn't known for making 80-bit DIMMs.
It's really simple: just demand SECDED.
That's all you need to know, one acronym, SECDED.
https://cr.yp.to/hardware/ecc.html
Single Error Correction, Double Error Detection.
BTW, this sort of ECC fraud has been going on since the 1990's at least. It isn't going to just go away. Learn what SECDED is and demand it.
Where a non-ECC DIMM is usually 8 DRAM chips (64 bits) and in DDR4 or earlier and an ECC DIMM would be 9 DRAM chips (72 bits), now with DDR5 can have either 9 DRAM chips or 10 DRAM chips (80 bits).
> the complexities of having ECC protection only on the link
That's not SECDED, since it can't correct a bitflip that occurs somewhere other than on the link, nor can it detect a double bitflip in those situations.
SECDED. Just ask for SECDED.
Even the Linux kernel knows about this:
# cat /sys/devices/system/edac/mc/mc1/csrow3/edac_mode
SECDED
SECDED. Just ask for SECDED.You're just making up arbitrary rules. The term SECDED does not incorporate any guarantees about which part of a system it applies to. It's just a mathematical statement about the strength of the ECC in use plus the implication that detectable but uncorrectable errors are reported.
What you're looking for requires more words to fully specify, probably including the term "end to end".