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Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by WaitWaitWha on Monday February 06, 2023 @08:56AM (#34677312)
DOI https://www.jneurosci.org/content/42/20/4164 A Neurodevelopmental Shift in Reward Circuitry from Mother's to Nonfamilial Voices in Adolescence
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by 0xbadc0de5 on Monday February 06, 2023 @10:35AM (#34678883)
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Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by tgv on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:01AM (#34679340)
And the conclusion was drawn from an experiment that doesn't exclude other explanations. At all. Another example of click-bait under the guise of science journalism.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by blitzar on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:27AM (#34679788)
I would love to send this, with comments, to friends who are absolutely certain the opposite is true ... for their little darlings.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by ChuckNorris89 on Monday February 06, 2023 @10:56AM (#34679231)
What about the dad's voice?
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by bell-cot on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:05AM (#34679415)
Back in the day, that could mostly depend on the teen's near-future need to get allowance money, car keys, etc. from dad.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by meepmorp on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:03AM (#34679384)
Someone else linked to the study:

https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34677312

From the abstract, it looks like they used fMRI to look at the neural response to maternal voice vs non-family voices. I guess no data on dada.

Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by glitchc on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:19AM (#34679655)
(As a dad) Transforms into a grating, low-frequency whine, kind of like a bad back-beat that you can't get rid off.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by amelius on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:19AM (#34679645)
That's kept for the next research grant.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by fatnoah on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:42AM (#34680046)
I have a 15 year old and have directly observed the "tuning out mom" phenomenon. For whatever reason, my own dad voice still seems to bear weight. It's not clear to mom or I why that is, but I think the general consensus is that I'm less likely to weigh in on smaller things (state of hair, shirt tucking, etc), so that it's generally more "serious" when I'm involved, regardless of whether it's actually something actually more or less serious. Style-wise, I'm much more to coax than to nag or demand. (i.e. Not demand "do this now" but ask "when will this be done" and ensure a definite time is given as an answer and hold them to it)
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by number6 on Monday February 06, 2023 @12:49PM (#34681198)
I hope I remember this in 13 years. Sounds like a good approach w
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by ARandomerDude on Monday February 06, 2023 @10:58AM (#34679282)
Have kids, can confirm
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by Tycho on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:30AM (#34679842)
Does anyone ever have an audio hallucination of their name being called out? (probably by a familiar voice)

Like you can just about tell it's in your head and not a real sound, but at the same time, it seemed to come out of nowhere, not from a stream of related thoughts.

I can't recall it happening anytime recently but more when I was younger.

Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by lampshades on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:41AM (#34680036)
My name is a common word in English and I hear it all the time. Maybe some of them are hallucinations, I have no idea.

Slight tangent: are you “the” Tycho?

Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by Tycho on Monday February 06, 2023 @12:31PM (#34680876)
No, I am not.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by cgjohn on Monday February 06, 2023 @11:48AM (#34680167)
There's a Justin Timberlake song which contains a subtle sound that sounds exactly like my mom calling me from downstairs, but in a way I can't quite tell whether it's true or imagined.

Decades later I know it is just part of the song, but hearing it still leaves me stopped in my tracks wondering whether I was just called.

Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by qingdao99 on Monday February 06, 2023 @02:26PM (#34682789)
Yep, I have the same thing in a song. Every time I hear it, I think it's a specific person calling for me.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by stumblindrunk on Monday February 06, 2023 @01:06PM (#34681489)
Yes, I have had it happen very clearly a few times. It’s always my father’s voice. I’ve also heard a snare drum once and a shopping cart crash once; both were so clear, and so clearly hallucinations, that they’ve stuck with me for decades.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by veqz on Monday February 06, 2023 @02:42PM (#34683085)
My mother calls for me every time during the guitar solo of Guns N' Roses' Sweet Child O' Mine.

Reminds me of my childhood memories playing video games in the basement, and always makes me smile. Love that song :)

Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by throwawayvoz on Monday February 06, 2023 @04:28PM (#34684645)
I have auditory hallucinations. I need silence with earplugs and noise cancelling headphones. I can have subvocal thoughts back and forth with the voices. Sometimes they say my name. Usually it's to get my attention.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by x86_64Ubuntu on Monday February 06, 2023 @04:57PM (#34685025)
For a few years, I would hear my mom call my name the second before I drifted off to sleep.
Re:As kids become teens, mom's voice matters less to their b... by jemmyw on Tuesday February 07, 2023 @02:56AM (#34689986)
Yes, very loudly and clearly sometimes. It has been pretty scary in the past, it had always been on the edge of sounding real. Once or twice a week.