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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by altdataseller on Sunday January 29, 2023 @06:49PM (#34574068)
Dont show this to the nofap community
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by girvo on Sunday January 29, 2023 @06:58PM (#34574127)
Most of that community appears to be based on woo and bad analysis of science/biology, so I imagine they'd likely dismiss this study out of hand regardless.

But also, we shouldn't forget this:

> The studies from the United States and Australia do little to answer these critical questions — but they do open a new avenue for research

This isn't a fully understood area of research yet.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by heavyset_go on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:35PM (#34574385)
Nofap is just secular Puritanism with its canon replaced with biotruths, poor interpretations of evolutionary biology and the ramblings of people driven insane by celibacy.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by lucb1e on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:45PM (#34574458)
I haven't been there in a while so unless something recently changed, I don't know where you're getting this from. Care to link any such material being posted and supported by others in the community?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by heavyset_go on Sunday January 29, 2023 @09:06PM (#34575030)
I don't have a desire to go through that community again. I'm basing this off of what I saw ~5 years ago and on the people in my life who were part of that community. Your experience could be different.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by shrimp_emoji on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:03PM (#34574617)
"I do not avoid women, Mandrake, but I do deny them my essence."

(1:30) https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=0he-LZNzVg0

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by shagie on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:07PM (#34574187)
How a New Meme Exposes the Far-Right Roots of #NoNutNovember - https://www.rollingstone.com/culture/culture-features/coomer...

> Yet it would be naive to ignore that there’s significant overlap between the general ideology behind NoFap — and, to a degree, No Nut November — and that of the far right, which has increasingly coopted the principles of masturbation abstinence. Because the challenge is associated with abstaining from porn, some people associated with the movement have taken the extra step of harassing adult performers on social media, giving it an additional layer of troubling implications. “In the past [No Nut November] has always been like, ‘Oh, look at this ridiculous thing some people are participating in,'” says adult performer and director Casey Calvert. “This year, people [in the industry] are talking about, ‘Oh, actually this is connected to the far right and maybe we shouldn’t just be saying hahaha, No Nut November.'”

Was UK Mass Murderer Radicalized in Anti-Porn Groups? - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/2021...

> Like the incel groups, online discussions of ways to stop masturbating or cease watching pornography have also been identified as groups filled with hatred towards women, homophobia, antisemitism, and threats of violence. In 2019, I appeared on The Daily Show, describing how these groups radicalize young men by teaching them to fear masturbation.

> Since that appearance, I've regularly received threats, death threats, and intimidating emails, including troubling messages from Gavin McInnes, founder of The Proud Boys. Recent research examining the discussions in these anti-porn and anti-masturbation groups has repeatedly documented that they thrive on the rejection of science and embrace extremely conservative, highly religious themes. These groups promote abstinence from pornography and masturbation as ways for men to become more masculine and successfully attract mates. As you might imagine, there is a significant overlap between the incel and these anti-porn/anti-masturbation groups.

That episode is https://www.cc.com/video/bgws7v/the-daily-show-with-trevor-n...

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by lucb1e on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:54PM (#34574535)
> the Far-Right Roots of #NoNutNovember

...and oil companies were among the first to predict global warming and might have coined CO2 budgets. Who came up with something doesn't really matter for the thing's merit, especially when it lives a life of its own. People fill in nonutnovember as they want, not per whatever extremist views. I don't really see the point of sidetracking the conversation into a political corner.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by UniverseHacker on Monday January 30, 2023 @01:01AM (#34576308)
I don’t need research to listen to my own body and notice that I have a lot more energy, confidence, and enthusiasm for life with nofap. The difference is night and day. I noticed this on my own before ever hearing about nofap, and so have numerous cultures and religions. The dismissive attitude you have is one I have seen a lot, and only makes sense to me if your body works differently from mine.

Is there is some slightly increased cancer risk necessary to enjoy life, so be it.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by machinawhite on Monday January 30, 2023 @04:28AM (#34577592)
I just find it really weird that a kink I had was made into something mainstream. Now every time I want to talk about my favorite activities with dominant women I am going to come across as some weirdo who browses reddit.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by altdataseller on Monday January 30, 2023 @08:42AM (#34579427)
Exactly, research has its place, but sometimes people put way too much importance on it. The only research that matters the most is your own personal experience and trial and error. Do it for a few months and see what it's like. That's all there is to it, and this applies to a lot of things too: a new workout regimen, a diet, cold showers, productivity hacks, biohacking, etc. Stop arguing over whether there's scientific evidence for something, and just try it yourself
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by UniverseHacker on Monday January 30, 2023 @10:35AM (#34581005)
Absolutely, this “scientism” attitude that elevates peer reviewed research as the only way of learning anything is silly. I mostly see it among non scientists that have made science a sort of religion. As an academic PI, I see how the sausage is made and don’t have so much faith. Moreover, direct observation, personal experimentation, and hunches are how good scientists come up with the ideas for studies in the first place.

With human sexuality in particular there are so many cultural taboos that very little research has been done. Limiting your understanding of your own sexuality to peer reviewed research is just silly, you will miss millions of obvious things, and also miss the fact that people are individuals and experience and respond differently to the same things.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by girvo on Monday January 30, 2023 @07:27PM (#34588973)
Except “nofap” itself uses a core misunderstanding of biology and neuroscience to justify itself to prospective new recruits to the “community”. It’s only when that is called out that your group then retreats into “science doesn’t matter”.

It’s crap and in bad faith.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by UniverseHacker on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @01:00PM (#34598897)
What is this core misunderstanding?

I'm not familiar with the arguments used to 'recruit' people, as I've had Reddit blocked on all of my devices for years.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by threadweaver34 on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:09PM (#34574205)
The one point they have is that internet porn can be a problem for some people, but there's a difference between having to use your imagination and abstaining entirely.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by loeg on Sunday January 29, 2023 @06:57PM (#34574112)
Nofap is a mysticism cult; they aren't going to let anything like the scientific method get in the way of their weird lifestyle.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by mouse_ on Sunday January 29, 2023 @06:59PM (#34574131)
It's a fetish.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by lucb1e on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:50PM (#34574505)
I only ever heard cult used in the sense of an organised group that is lead to believe harmful and untrue things, but checking the dictionary, it can also just be "great devotion to [e.g., an] idea" (merriam webster) which could be said of nearly any subreddit. In what way do you mean it? Besides the correlation in this study, is there anything particularly harmful in the same way that a more stereotypical cult (KKK is the first that comes to mind, probably a relatively extreme example but I don't know that many) is typically considered harmful?
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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by lucb1e on Sunday January 29, 2023 @09:53PM (#34575316)
That's not at all the impression I got. Never masturbating ever might be seen as good by some there, but for most it's a temporary means to an end than the end goal. Helping get past porn addictions (by stopping cold turkey for a while), improving the relationship with your partner (by reducing or stopping to masturbate and see how that affects it), and being supportive of whatever people's goals are is what the community seemed like to me (but that's admittedly going off years-old memories). Hence I'm quite confused by all the outright hate here.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by SXX on Sunday January 29, 2023 @10:21PM (#34575436)
Hate to weird niche communities is pretty much like hate to Linkedin: because it full of cringe, poor quality marketing and just pure BS. Even if you registered on there you won't be using it 99% of time until you need to find a new job. Or unless Linkedin is part of your actual job because you're HR / sales person.

It's great that it might help someone, but it doesn't mean we all should accept everything this community produce is something good and normal.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by UniverseHacker on Monday January 30, 2023 @01:14AM (#34576388)
They only believe it gives them “super powers” in the same way getting free from a heroin addiction would feel like gaining super powers. Normal health feels super when you previously lacked it.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by girvo on Monday January 30, 2023 @11:23PM (#34591046)
> in the same way getting free from a heroin addiction would feel like gaining super powers

As someone who has done exactly that and is involved heavily in recovery communities, no one would describe sobriety as "gaining super powers", and I'm sick of people conflating porn addiction and heroin addiction as if they have anything in common. They really do not, and anyone who does has obviously never experienced opioid dependence. "But but but dopamine pathways" -- if you don't understand the difference in orders of magnitude between exogenous chemicals that directly operate on those pathways, and that which your body and brain can create on their own, I don't know what to tell you.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by UniverseHacker on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @12:49PM (#34598662)
You're correct, but that doesn't take anything away from the fact that porn addiction can be serious enough to cause massive damage to a persons well being, causing them to lose jobs, relationships, or even kill themselves. Porn addiction can be incredibly powerful, it fully hijacks our strongest instinctual drive.

If someone was shot in the head with a 22 would you dismiss this as insignificant, because some people get their heads blown off with rocket launchers? That seems like the same logic you're applying here.

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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by dang on Wednesday February 01, 2023 @12:11AM (#34606671)
Yikes! Please don't break the site guidelines like this, regardless of how wrong other people are or you feel they are. We ban accounts that do this.

You may not owe (non-)masturbators better, but you owe this community (much) better if you're participating in it.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by sph on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:25PM (#34574319)
When I'm in the mood of reading a bunch of smug nerds pontificating and preaching, I click on any popsci or diet-related article on HN. Never fails to entertain.

Nofap like many things has been turned into a brand, and even politicised to the point some idiots attack it saying it's far right ideology. On the other hand there are teenagers with serious porn-related issues that think nofap will turn them into superhumans. But the smug nerd on the internet doesn't stop to consider the nofap movement that's become a caricature of its former self, still is a major indicator of the emotional and physical problems porn is causing to many men and women. It's an epidemic.

Go crank all you want because a popsci article said so, but if you haven't seen how widespread and destructive porn addiction is, this must be your first day on the Internet. I already imagine the retort "well, just don't watch porn then." Because only idiots and weak-willed people get addicted.

Sorry, I'm in a cranky mood because I've struggled with porn addiction myself, I have had someone confess they suffer from it just a few hours ago, and I'm bitter how what was a porn addiction support group like nofap managed to turn itself into a joke—and they have themselves to blame, yet porn still is something people laugh about for internet karma.

/rant

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by EGreg on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:30PM (#34574355)
“Sorry, I’m in a cranky mood”

Made me look up the word cranky and found “crankshaft” - a shaft driven by a crank that turns reciprocating motion into rotating motion. Legit.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Reciprocating_motion

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by sph on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:41PM (#34574430)
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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by mrexroad on Sunday January 29, 2023 @09:04PM (#34575022)
Please save comments like this for Reddit. Seriously, someone is discussing struggles with an addiction and you’re making jokes. Not legit at all.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bamboozled on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:09PM (#34574673)
still is a major indicator of the emotional and physical problems porn is causing to many men and women. It's an epidemic.

What are the physical problems one can get through watching porn? If this study is accurate, it seems batting off more often may be a good thing ?

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by sph on Monday January 30, 2023 @03:20AM (#34577168)
Erectile dysfunction for one, which was once an aging related problem, now affects people in their 20s.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bamboozled on Monday January 30, 2023 @06:29AM (#34578408)
Is that physiological though? Maybe psychological?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by altdataseller on Monday January 30, 2023 @07:51AM (#34578975)
Is there a practical difference?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bamboozled on Monday January 30, 2023 @08:04AM (#34579068)
If you Google it you will find there is. There are some people who cannot get an erection no matter what, they need to get a "bionic penis" implant.

It has nothing to do with porn consumption and is physiological.

I read somewhere some people have "performance anxiety" after watching a lot of porn and lose their boner before penetration, but that's completely different to "never getting a boner".

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by gardenhedge on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:13PM (#34574704)
I understand that you may have a different perspective, but being passive-aggressive in your comments doesn't help communicate your thoughts effectively. It's better to be direct and clear in your statements so that everyone can understand your perspective.
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Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by Barrin92 on Sunday January 29, 2023 @11:17PM (#34575725)
>It's not far-right, it's just religious folks

whenever groups of young men engage in sexual self-repression that almost always has a political component. And pay attention to the "men" part, because nofap is almost exclusively a male phenomenon. Religious sexual repression is not, if anything the opposite. Also religious sexual repression is compliance with religious law, not necessarily an act of voluntary discipline.

"nofap" in contrast is essentially an extremely online version of Fight Club, and the political undertones are pretty obvious. It's mostly disaffected guys deciding to undertake some Yukio Mishima-esque training to combat their low self-esteem.

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by tcrisco on Sunday January 29, 2023 @08:53PM (#34574947)
Yeah I agree, the frustration is real. You can't really joke about "serious" addictions like heroin or binge eating like you can with porn, and it results in your concerns being taken less seriously. Sexual humor is validated everywhere and it entraps those with less self control

And one thing I haven't seen mentioned a whole lot, the release of Stable Diffusion has made my problem way, way worse. I've been magnetized to the screen for weeks on end reading up on machine learning concepts and training on dozens of datasets, just to fuel my addiction and the inner weaknesses that prop it up

I sometimes wonder if this is the future, if this kind of irresistible, infinite ultra-personalization is here to stay, and the paper writers will continue to keep their "Ethics" sections to a maximum of five sentences each buried in the back

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by altdataseller on Sunday January 29, 2023 @09:37PM (#34575226)
I don't understand. How has the release of Stable Diffusion made your porn addiction worse?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by bulbosaur123 on Monday January 30, 2023 @01:41AM (#34576554)
Unstable diffusion.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by caiquelira on Monday January 30, 2023 @02:36AM (#34576892)
It can be used to generate hyper-personalized porn.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by runald on Monday January 30, 2023 @08:27AM (#34579281)
Horse diffusion
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by fennecfoxy on Tuesday January 31, 2023 @04:49AM (#34593250)
It's also bc having a high libido/being horny all the time is still very stigmatised. As a gay man this is one of the many major differences I see between the gay & hetero communities; in the gay community we generally celebrate libido & sexual freedom.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by dang on Wednesday February 01, 2023 @12:12AM (#34606680)
Please don't post in the flamewar style to HN, please don't fulminate, and please don't post sneers at the rest of the community. If you're posting here, you're as much "HN" as anyone else is.

All of this is in the site guidelines, so if you'd please review them and stick to them in the future, we'd appreciate it.

https://news.ycombinator.com/newsguidelines.html

Edit: We already had to ask you this just recently: https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=34528453

Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by rideontime on Sunday January 29, 2023 @06:57PM (#34574111)
I disagree; as a vulnerable community, they should know the truth.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by Espressosaurus on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:02PM (#34574151)
They're worried about their precious bodily fluids. I don't expect contrary information to penetrate their bubble.
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by prmoustache on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:11PM (#34574220)
Do they really exist? And if so do they actually apply a nofap policy?
Re:Ejaculation Frequency and Prostate Cancer by SnowHill9902 on Sunday January 29, 2023 @07:03PM (#34574160)
There’s no problem with nofap if you get enough little kittens.